Divorce-Proofing Your Marriage | Lifelong Commitment, Love, and Faith with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

[@Jane-2-n7k]

It took 5 years for my marriage to end. 5 long years. Why were the years so long? Something started to happen that I never saw coming. He was controlling, verbally abusive and then…physically abusive. I came home one day and he was messing with the cat. I tried to stop him and he grabbed me by the throat and threw me across the room. He then threw the cat against the wall and broke her leg. She went to live with my parents after that. I could've told my parents but I didn't. I don't know why. After that it continued. I was punched, clawed, was constantly being yelled at about how I was fat, stupid, I didn't have a real job (I was a teacher) and so on. He told me that if it were legal he'd kill me. That was it. I kept saying that I wanted to get a divorce. He said he'd take our son if I did. But one day he said “fine, if you want a divorce then get a divorce.” I did, he tried to get back with me but I showed him the door after one night together. That's the reason I got a divorce. Thankfully it “only” lasted 5 years. No spouse should EVER have to go through that!! Additionally, If you're considering hiring a private investigator for proof of infidelity in a divorce case, Barry Investigations could be the right choice. By contacting them at Barryinvestigation@gmail. com, you can work with experienced professionals to uncover the truth. Make sure to discuss your legal rights and responsibilities, establish clear boundaries, and follow the investigator's guidelines to ensure a successful and discreet investigation.

[@BlackButterfly-444]

Wow!!! "Ask yourself 'Do I' before you say 'I Do'"!!!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@heathermullinax3503]

I would love for Tabitha to talk about going through Kenneth bringing up divorce and how she moved past it. My husband and I have only been married two years and things are ok now but the first year was very rough and my husband said on a few occasions that he wanted a divorce. It has definitely effected how I trust him if at all. His actions have changed for the better but we’ve never had a conversation about things that have been said. It’s very difficult to bring up past events without him getting defensive though.

[@shareenladd1048]

God willing I will be 45 this Sunday…..I REFUSE to jump on the bandwagon of marrying an unsaved man! I have not waited, fasted and prayed this long and not get what I’ve done the work for.

[@Miy03]

Happy birthday! Sunday is also my birthday! 🙏🏾🙌🏾🎉 Yes, let’s wait for God’s best, sis. Stay blessed 😊

[@shareenladd1048]

@@Miy03 happy birthday twin ❤️❤️❤️🎂🎂🎂🎂

[@missrd395]

Ooo men I struggle with this because I am not surrounded by many christians 😢😢 have a blessed Birthday🎉!

[@shareenladd1048]

@@missrd395 I pray God surround you with God sent Christian people

[@bruniegonzalez9123]

You guys are so on point... Being equally yoked is key! In my case I came to the Lord first, but the word says “the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife…” after a few years and a lot of praying and believing - we are now equally yoked! Praise God🙌🏼

[@crazyleaf257]

You don't want to be submitted to someone who is not submitted to someone else. very good!!!

[@bargainhuntmom]

Oooohhhh the thing about not all believers are the same, that just resonated with me

[@jenellpotts7991]

You both are heaven sent! Thank you for your ministry and for sharing your testimony! You both are changing my heart ❤

[@missrd395]

I am single and been taking notes 📝❤thank you I am learning a lot!

[@tslavens3092]

I appreciate how Pastor said he had to learn to stop being interested in other women. He matured into honoring his wife and covenant.

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

Ken and Tab, God's continued blessings be upon you and your entire families... You guys are marriage goals✨

[@Justritamich]

God I give you my marriage and give you all of me🙏🏽

[@rubykanja]

I love the color matching ❤

[@Shlautur27]

Every single one of your segments ministers to me so deeply. I binge watch them all.

[@sherrynelson365]

So powerful you can NEVER go wrong with GOD!!!

[@chimbomukwavi2158]

Thankyou so much. I enjoy your podcasts. From Zambia.

[@jabaridavid1256]

Regarding the prayer of Salvation. I would encourage you all to incorporate Romans 10:9-11, to establish what they truly believe about Christ and what He Did, John 3:16-17, Rom. 5:6-10 Beautiful session you all. God Bless

[@sandrashavers1516]

Good word !

[@mariasophiarb]

I’ve been married for 11 years. And recently after having my son I’ve realized my husband had 11 years to work on his self and change. I tried helping him charge but that then i realize that is not my job & i can’t do that. God has the ability to do so but at the end of the day it’s My husband and God. I’ve told him we need professional help

[@amazonianprincess5509]

I love it this makes me want to keep on keeping with Christ Jesus which is the only way I made it this far 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@mrs.g2103]

That’s right there! Covenant with God!!

[@ishish8816]

Tabatha's hair looks ao good! Takes off about 15 years ❤ 🔥

[@Abundantbehavior]

I appreciate this message! Please do more of these !!

[@lavonnepatterson1327]

Many times we want something for nothing. That’s a good word!

[@hopkinskalasa332]

We are definitely making you our mentors. Thank you so much.

[@supermodeljaz6829]

Love it! Beautiful Tabatha your hair looks so good and healthy 🥰

[@wonderbeauty10]

This is great!! I need a series on what to do when currently married to people with red flags

[@suesue9235]

Thanks to you both, I needed this and I share it with my husband, such an on time podcast...

[@tonyingram3069]

I think I've got for my marriage. I think I have a mild wife. I think I have my life health and my strength. God, take the wheel. Deliver my marriage from what it needs to be delivered from. Deliver me from where it needs to be delivered from. I thank you, and I'll do you. You ought to send to all my joy.

[@indrasingh9077]

Thank you I enjoyed your talk

[@Brandy07]

I needed this. I plan to listen again

[@AB-dq6pk]

Grateful for this 🙌🏼

[@basilleslie555]

God says He hates divorce along with other things but He didn't say He wouldn't FORGIVE anyone who did them if they repented.

[@enochpokuaduasabre3791]

I have been blessed by your podcast ,😊 Would just like to find out curious ,Ken you have your marital ring on your finger, not seeing that of Tabatha. Any explanation for that, please 😊

[@jademalanchefservices]

WISDOM KEYYY

[@crazyleaf257]

🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@eerthangel]

Can you please share the link to the microphone you’re using?

[@crazyleaf257]

I knew my husband was more immature than me when we were dating and I had misgivings. - not the best with money, cleaning up after himself, staying on top of adult responsibilities, business. All these things have been the biggest conflicts in our marriage so far. Should I have not have gotten married? I know we were meant to be but we can't get pregnant and I wonder if God's not allowing us to get pregnant because there are things that need to be fixed. Maybe there wouldn't have been so much heartache if we had waited to marry..... But we aren't that young and felt behind the 8 ball

[@crazyleaf257]

I married someone who is not as mature and responsible as me. What now? Tell it to me straight-- do I need to just suffer now?. Pray. Trust God that even if my husband messes up everything God will still work it out.

[@shantaepatrick5087]

Period

[@amandabryant5591]

What advice do you have for me? When I got married I wasn’t saved. Now I am but my husband is not.

[@pamelamashaba4515]

Very informative and equipping for a single me,😊

[@valentine_music]

💯💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥

[@shantaepatrick5087]

Trying to look pass it but cant

[@stephyc.9026]

What if it's too late? What if they both fell into fornication, she got pregnant, then sought marriage counseling then got married, two years in a row within the 6 and 7th yr there has been infidelity. The spouse says they are going to change or get convicted about it but doesn't make moves to change?

[@bernardearl3589]

What church you pastor??

[@Doinglifewithkenandtabatha]

We are the lead Pastors of Alive Church, with locations in Gainesville, FL, Orlando, FL and a Tampa, FL location in the works.

[@ecarroll731]

My husband and I have been separated for 8 months, We still live in the same household, just separate rooms. Multiple times I've asked him to try to work it out. And he says no, hes heartbroken. He's only here for the kids, I'm still trying to follow my covenant with god but at what point do end it all and I file for the divorce ?

[@mrs.wilson2275]

I hope things get better for you! Kids deserve yo see love and a healthy marriage between their parents. You’re the example for them. They pick up on so much more than we give them credit for

[@ecarroll731]

@mrs.wilson2275 thank you so much 💓

[@tabtihamusgrave9606]

Pray! And have you ever seen “The War Room”? It’s not based on a true story but I believe the principles are true and prayer can heal a marriage.

[@mardec2128]

Can you do a podcast over marrying an Ungodly man and navigating porn in a marriage.

[@jessyjonas4988]

Remember Steve Harvey

[@crazyleaf257]

I can't stand when people say well everyone I know who's married is miserable. I'm like well that sucks for you because that is not the standard especially among Christians. I've heard the people that say this are not very good Christians or not Christians at all. The thing is is that Holy marriage does not work for atheist because it is created by God for God

[@magicmya]

At the beginning Ken throwing shade on Tabitha for praising god, not cool Ken

[@crazyleaf257]

OMG I know a couple who go to two different churches because the husband had a quarrel with the pastor at one 🤦🏼🤦🏼🤦🏼 so unbiblical! The biblical thing would be to reconcile with the pastor which is God's ultimate will or your whole family go to a different Church.

[@crazyleaf257]

I have to do just about everything I have to clean the house I have to work a job I have to cook I have to shop I have to do the laundry I have to clean up all his dishes that are everywhere I stopped picking up his clothes he'll accidentally knock things over and not pick them up he doesn't pay attention to our finances and he doesn't keep his promises to pay more attention and to pay off the credit card I'm the rearguard and I'm the front guard and I'm the person who tries to get him to see it all and he hates it when I do and he hates my nagging and he hates my request even though I have to do it all

[@CateWisdom-df8wl]

plz ken and Tabitha share you email I need counselling.