Divorce; Tell your own story - Nyevu Karisa @EngageMombasa

[@sellyj7882]

Moved me to tears..we bundle up so much,yet once we "snap" out of the pain,we realize,it makes us stronger. You are a strong woman Nyevu...Love you 😘😘😘

[@njerikinuthia8951]

I was in the wrong relationship too 19 years ago. I left with tears, broken but picked up my pieces. Today I am happily married to my charming prince who respects me and my children. If you believe in yourself, no one should make you feel worthless.

[@sellyj7882]

@@njerikinuthia8951 Those dark pasts are stepping stones,truth....if you believe in yourself and have faith,nothing should stop you. Happy for you ma'am!!!

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Today I came to listen to my story with a somber heart. My Father, Mr Jacob W Karisa past away on July 1st 2021. Its been a year, a somber year of not physically being on earth. Rest in Peace Papa I hope you are watching me from above telling my own new story every single day. Love you forever.

[@alexandermakau5063]

Sorry for your lose ....may he rest in eternal life

[@purityawuor3485]

To first born Daughters it's always painful growing up without the love of your Dad😭😭😭

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Thank you for 100K views. I give thanks to God for giving me my ordinary life an extraordinary experience that has inform, influenced and inspired all of you. Keep telling your story.

[@ZawadiBirya]

You spoke very well. :)

[@shiikamau403]

Yu have moved mi into tears so so inpiring!!yu told the story in the most btfl way n spoke out on bhlf of many b blssd

[@pegthj]

I cried listening to you!! Two weeks ago my son got married and believe me...children deserve two parents no matter what. My ex-threw us out when my oldest son was 6 and his brother was 9 months. Now 25 and 20. One married and the second one is a senior in college. And keep soldiering on girl...my kids write me moving notes and cards all the time when they think of the sacrifices. I live here (US) so I know how tough it is to pay for college as an international student... the struggle is real.

[@evawandera9478]

We need women like you to present us in Govorment.Think about it.

[@wangeciirungu3375]

encouraging

[@kbm241]

My father married another wife and my mother suffered alot raising us up and educating us.But today,we are successful bkoz of her..I promise never to lay my hand to my future wife nor cheat on her...because the pain my mother went through,i can't watch the same to my wife..my mother shed tears infront of us and that was the most painful moment of my life.I promised myself never ever to hurt my future wife.I will love,care and support her unconditionally..Hope my future wife is reading this.

[@EngageTalk]

We wish you and your future wife a long and happy life 🙂

[@gadaffihemed2370]

that was the same story to me....we had to come out from good schools to public ones.

[@lifestylebyalicefamily]

#Brewsh am here reading your comment

[@becky9648]

Wow

[@rhodahoketch1491]

Yes, we are reading this

[@esthernjuguna8926]

When you see someone with the intention of starting a relationship you block them at the instant. I totally relate to this and I actually thought it's only me. When someone tells you you are beautiful these are words not integrated in our system as we never heard them from our parents. Hope to see her smile when I graduate also Thank God for such forums am now healing

[@kingjoshuamhuamk2559]

esther njuguna u just need to readjust your thinking and mindset you don't need your parent to integrate it

[@esthernjuguna8926]

It aint easy but working on it. I can say there is good progress

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Hey Esther, forgiving and healing is a journey that each of us walk through differently. Reach out to whenever you need to talk [e-mail]

[@lilianchybire9610]

Wow... To all strong women out there. Keep your head up

[@annewanjiku52]

Lilian Chybire Amen

[@hannahhannah9619]

So encouraging..i grew up without my mother since she passed away when I was 5years old..our dad never cared for us which made us to start hustling at early age...I thank God for he never rejected nor abandoned us.forever i will Praise You Abba Father 👐👐👐

[@jannahm7063]

Hanna Daniel wow Glory to God dear. May God keep uplifting you day by day

[@hannahhannah9619]

Amen

[@kenyafinest964]

Adults are the meanest and amongst those adults was my aunt . When our father walked away my mother had to deal with a lot of snide remarks. However she is a prayerful and feisty. She worked hard and made sacrifices for us. That however did not stop those adults from being mean to us. They would not want their kids to mingle with us. We were told we would amount to nothing but drop outs. It was obvious we got treated differently. Despite all that we powered through. It just took me longer to forgive. I always remind people to be mindful of the things they say around children. Kudos to all the strong women.

[@paulinepolly1750]

Thank u & be blessed too

[@nellymatalanga5033]

You remind me of my life n you were not allowed to visit any relatives from ur dad's side n if u did even the maid was told to tell u " hawako wame toka nahuwezi kaa ndani " maybe thy are just inside but rembr ur a bother, you have bad manners,you can steal from them .. .. can't forget nikifukuzwa ngong rd kaa mbwa nilikuwa naonea gate kwambali ina baki story

[@skemunto7649]

@kenya finest Hugs from this end❤

[@khadija87m]

I have cried . Very touching story . Now I know why Nyevu is such a strong willed and fiercely independent woman . I admire you girl . I didn’t know that mama went through all that ; she only came out stronger ; much stronger than one can imagine to the point of getting an ambassadorial nomination. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. Long live Mama Nyevu for being strong for your children singlehandedly. You inspire all of us to be as strong as you are Ma’Shaa’Allah

[@savanekemoli]

Nyevu, you are brilliance! I am a divorced mother of two girls and I heard their words through your words. Thank you for sharing your story! Hugz to you and Mama!

[@blestn7806]

I know your mother, I had the privilege to work with her. She always encouraged me to be strong despite the tough circumstances I was going through. She made me into a strong woman. God bless you and your family

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

God bless you too. My Mum would be glad to hear this from you. Be encouraged always.

[@ikwapshirley1668]

Even without divorce, mums out their strive hard for their children May God bless all Mothers

[@freedtoservewithjanette2458]

ikwap shirley true I have seen my mother sacrifice alot even with my father there

[@arlenehutchinson9259]

You are beautiful ! But more important you are strong and daughter any mother would be proud of RESPECT

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Thank you Arlene.

[@maureenjannephar3507]

Tears tears Tears, I lost my papa when I was 13, and I always wanted to give my kids a father but ooh now raising my girl alone for the last 9years but am greatful to God for all

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Hey Maureen, you are not raising your blessed girl alone. God is her Father and always by your side.

[@evakinaitore7145]

Single parents, divorced parents, most often, give the best they can! Kudos mama! So inspiring

[@thelmamwadzaya7378]

Now I know why you are a quiet resilient spirit. Always saw it when young.....

[@carenjaguga3912]

God works in ways we cannot see..indeed He can turn tough situations to Victory!I am blessed and inspired by this Nyevu,you're a star!

[@allanochungo8157]

People talk, that's what they do, it's up to me to block out the noise.......very encouraging.

[@adventure-in-scripture]

She says it with so much emotion....l can see what happened .....am fighting back tears

[@mercymungai812]

Oooh my!! very touchy and inspiring, may God remember all single mums out there.

[@evawandera9478]

I never stop watching this whenever I come across it.. ..... Was well said!

[@charitywairimungugi-latz1315]

The strength of a woman is unshakeable sacrifice.Thsnks for honoring your mum : Brave girl too

[@pioneerpio]

You go girl 👏👏👏👏 I've been there, my parents separated when we were in Primary sch, we just survived it through. We could never ask questions. I hate divorce especially when there's a child/children involved, but can't control people. Thanks for sharing your story

[@shiikamau403]

Yu tell ua story pick up the pieces n tell yua story the best way n NEVER SETTLE FOR LESS!!!SO INSPIRING

[@gadaffihemed2370]

You moved me into tears....mother's will always remain to be mother's.

[@bettycharles1182]

Very encouraging,wish my daughter would watch. I made a choice to be a victor not a loser.

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Great Choice indeed!

[@annewanjiku52]

I really 😢 my daughter your story encourage me again and again thank you God for this sharing and encouraging her to put back ☺on her mom face congratulations to your mom all the Honor back to our Heavenly Father for encouraging you dear thank you Jesus Christ

[@CoolkenyanInisrael]

Am encouraged i hear my son speak thru u.. Keep going higher gal!

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Working on a platform for all the sons and daughters to share their stories

[@clemmyamani7566]

Behind every human there's a story..i look upon my daughter and I say yes Iwill do it your so strong nyevu big up

[@brendangina6406]

Who's chopping onions here?

[@estherwaweru76]

Brenda Ngina sherry here chopping onions mbaya sana

[@Kinoti9]

Nah I don't think its onions I think its a whole teargas canister

[@elimujo]

A lot of onions being chopped! What a story!

[@swahilifood]

me..

[@jbdebbielish8483]

God bless you No matter what...... Strength 💪 Of A Woman God bless your mom Saudi Arabia watching

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Thank you for watching.

[@anitadavis1198]

Wow wow.!Iam inspired..Not settling for less.

[@customercentrickenya]

Mothers sacrifice so much!! God bless them - the same for all the responsible husbands/dads out there.

[@luvandasister7925]

You are such a good orator...very inspirational

[@carolinecongo1179]

Brought tears to my eyes ! Very powerful indeed.

[@faithgatwiry]

So inspiring... So encouraging.. Thsts why ill love my mama forever for sacrificing her own happiness to see us in school....

[@wamz9191]

You are a strong and beautiful woman! God bless you.

[@Lucy-ck9mn]

U deserve to tell ur story the best way u can n nobody can take that away from you...wow!u can either be a victim or a victor...u choose

[@irenegatwi2969]

Who else is watching this in 2019 and can actually relate to it. I have been raised by a single Mom to and not a day will come by and i say i dont appreciate her, like Nyevu said the strength of a mother makes you stronger. I celebrate mine each day.

[@veramuga5598]

Many mothers are going through such for the sake of children. But what happens when the children leave, thats when you realize its too late. Better run when you still have yout sanity. Children will always understand as long you explain to them. Make them understand that you and their dad love them so much.

[@euginiaatieno3670]

Such an inspiration! God bless you more...

[@RealestQueen]

I didnt realise why I had never opened myself enough to get into a proper relatioship until now.My father was my first love.And he didnt love me the way I needed him to.This has slapped me so hard in the face :-(

[@lydiaoduor8617]

I can relate,av never been the best girlfriend in my relationship that ended because of the rejection from my dad so I was very insecure that he may leave,sooner he just left.I wish him well though😥

[@janicerichards8959]

Awesome story so happy your Mom picked up the pieces and continue with her life. As for you happy that you were able to continue and be the person you are today. Sharing such a powerful story. 👏👏👏👏📯📯📯📯God Bless You.✌✌✌❤❤❤

[@paulgatheru375]

Very emotional thank you Nyevu ....

[@trixxiewama9853]

Well done strong woman! Giving up is never an option. God bless your mum. I pray your daughter will turn out just like you!!

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Amen! Even stronger...

[@Tamarrind97]

That's my girl Nyevu. Proud of you dear!

[@veronicacherotich5985]

Your story is so inspiring. Am just going through what your mother went through bringing up two kids after their dad left

[@eunicendegwa5384]

When you hear your own story from a stranger and it brings you ties of joy knowing that you not alone.

[@muchilwadebora2390]

Great work sis. I'm proud of you for sharing your story and more so for pulling through. God bless you.

[@allroundedwellness-Evolvora]

I've just watched this @Nyevu Karisa. Hugs gal 🤗 our Mekatilili was Menza!! 👏👏👏👏. You are a strong woman just like Mama! Soar!!!

[@gracenjeru5010]

I hope he is watching...its shame many men make some choices without a blink.....God is great you made it amen amen

[@superkate100]

Her father is not dead and was not the late Karisa Maitha.he is at Gede watamu.

[@superkate100]

@rachael maina it's ok. Nice day.

[@bohboh7692]

so knw him @superkate100??

[@superkate100]

@@bohboh7692 yeah his is my dad first cousin.

[@bohboh7692]

@@superkate100 He left the kids, it's a sad story......

[@breenyambu1088]

So proud of you girl. Mothers are special indeed

[@davidngugi7210]

True mothers are very special. And the father's? Not important? That's why it's so easy to discard them? 7:27

[@stellanyaga4679]

Wow... A very strong lady.... Love it

[@catherinemukami456]

Well done to all the strong women out here especially you for telling your story.

[@masukamagambo4236]

You moved me. Go girl!

[@swenett1308]

"Every generation blames the one before" but I say that be responsible and accountable to leave your legacy behind. We should not let the decisions our parents made hold us back from aiming high, and if we are doing so, now is the time to let go and aim high, you are never too late to make a change for good in life. We will conquer.

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Very true Swenett. We conquer to move forward and learn from our expriences.

[@JGakenia]

You deserve to tell your story the best way you can

[@puritymithika5260]

I will remember this speech for a long time.

[@nyar_Oyugis]

Thank you for sharing your story Nyevu. Indeed,strength lies within us. Thank you for the reminder.

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Welcome

[@januarieskioko1610]

Go go go! You got my prayers Dont swim in shallow waters.....

[@gkalu6176]

I can relate to this so much...

[@annendungu1]

You are a powerful woman indeed.

[@josephatbaraka9751]

Watching this in March 2020....this is DEEP. Haswa.

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Thank you Josephat.

[@JudyWanderi]

I can relate to your story, 100%.

[@frashiermwihaki7453]

Proud of you Nyevu our Mombasa toastmaster's President...

[@idawairimu7093]

Waaa children are badly affected by divorce... It's better to endure pain in the marriage for their sake.. Thanks for sharing

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Hey Ida, thanks for taking the time to watch. Children are affected indeed. Enduring the pain in marriage is not the solution, because emotions of the pain will always transfer to the children. Its best for the two parents to agree to amicably raise the children in peace even if it is separately. Just my opinion.

[@NatashaMugwe]

Thank you for sharing a deep part of you, I saw my life as you shared and I’m encouraged I am a strong woman. God bless you

[@megkiruri1646]

i can relate to some things too in my life now i understand why i have had some reactions, i also could never allow being left i had to do it first.

[@daisyo5803]

Strong woman...keep your head up!

[@vivienwanjohi1746]

I can relate Mama...I owe everything to my mum...

[@HelpedbyGod-o2z]

I really feel for you,you're lucky your dad left when you were nine years, some of us didn't get time with as early as when we were 3 years,I understand the challenges you went through in campus as they happened to me too,all in all I thank God He gave my mum strength to bring me up,I remember her coming all the way for my graduation alone,it was just the two of us,I don't know how it would feel to have a dad but I don't feel the void either,coz I never experienced it and am okey with that.

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Thanks for sharing your story.

[@justwanjiku]

Damn, the feels are too much. I relate to this sooo much.

[@Kisahi]

Just watched this .. very powerful

[@bolyviahkwamboka9370]

my dad did the same and i was the 1st born of 6......it has not been easy....i relate i feel like i hate most of these men...... God please visit with single parents and their children.......can't stop crying. one day i wish to tell my story too to many others who may be going through the same situation. God bless you gal.

[@nyevukarisa1567]

You will have the courage to tell your story soon. Starting a KZbin channel end of Jan for us who share the same journey to share our story and what we have learnt.

[@thothocaroline8010]

I'm moved! Tears of hope.

[@lenniefei6710]

I really emphathize with Nyevu for the terrible pain she had to brave at a young tender age though am at a loss to understand the reasons as to why her father chose to desert his family!!!! I believe a story has many sides.....

[@tinatuja]

Wow...women ho through so much!! You are strong. God is faithful.

[@priscillarkarani6581]

Wow! U r a very strong woman . Keep the spirit

[@salamawise]

Peace peace. Deep and inspiring

[@paulinepolly1750]

I'm a victor not a loser thanks Nyevu be blessed

[@njerinjeri1814]

AND GOD WAS THERE ......RIGHT THEA.BLESS YOU

[@nyevukarisa1567]

HE was there in every step...my support system, my ALL.

[@rinahree1027]

Beautiful.

[@gracechilembi4708]

Wow great inspiring testimony

[@lizbethseith3403]

wow wow beautiful strong woman!!

[@reine924]

Why would a father walk away from his family responsibilities and never bother to check on them? Nyevu, may God heal your broken hearts. Wishing your mum good health and happiness!

[@kenyafinest964]

Esther Osiel they do it and only reasons best known to them. My father walked away and only resurfaced 20 years later because he wanted money. Arrogant enough to not even explain why he did what he did. I was angry for a long time I did not attend his funeral after all he was just like a stranger. I have since forgiven and made peace with it all. However I made the decision not to meet “my half” siblings I was not and I’m still not ready. So there you go.

[@paulinepolly1750]

+Kenya Finest wooi pole but all is well with u be strong

[@nakurusportschannel4211]

@@kenyafinest964 Forgiving means making peace with inner self. If you can face your half siblings up to now it means you haven't fully forgiven your father. You still harbour some pain in your heart, let it go and meet your siblings.

[@kenyafinest964]

Denis Bogomba you are right. There is pain in regards to him. I’m working on it. It’s a process. I have also been warming up to the idea of meeting my siblings just not yet. Thank you for your encouragement though.

[@nakurusportschannel4211]

@@kenyafinest964 you need to forgive to heal. Pray and let God be your strength as you seek ways of reuniting with your siblings. Don't carry that pain in your heart.

[@mwanajumasalim9049]

Oh Lord, I cried my heart out, I can relate, but my dad didn't abandon us, he died when we were very young.

[@reine924]

Mwanajuma Salim I'm so sorry Mwajuma.

[@nyevukarisa1567]

So sorry for your loss my dear.

[@fatimakachale6741]

Thanks for sharing your story.

[@nitflexx8745]

I grew without my father (his choice) and his absence is normal to me asin... There's no time i wished that i grew up with him Cz he used to be violent to my mother... I have enough support from my mother. I feel bad that i really don't feel the way people feel about their fathers... Anyway i always pray to God that he'll attend my wedding some day.... Even though he Daent like me....

[@judithnagery2873]

Nyevu kudos you are strong woman

[@lilianwangui3234]

We deserve to tell our stories the best way we can ,never settle for less. Above all i really hope his father is watching.

[@gracenjenga6380]

You encourage me,God bless you and your family

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Be blessed too!

[@IsaacJavan]

God bless you very much! I needed this!

[@lessstresscommunication8642]

Thank you Javan

[@mimahfadhil3489]

I remember her.Truly a remarkable woman.

[@katewangari375]

Powerful testimony...you actually spoke to me.

[@eunicewaweru1844]

You're a victor, Nyevu!

[@shimronnetia]

sorry for the experience .. you are very strong

[@samnjoroge]

U made me cry and i am a strong man

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Strong men cry!

[@johnjimngugi6053]

Indeed you are strong.i love the resilience

[@ESTHER2003500]

You're a very strong woman,may God bless you.May God see your mother thru whatever she is.

[@jennifermurai9716]

Yes yes yes all the way!!!!! I have a story to tell!!!

[@nyevukarisa1567]

And be the Victor in your story.

[@leahnjambi9336]

Woooow......I love this...God bless you

[@nyevukarisa1567]

Bless you too for taking the time to listen.