Divorce to RV Living (Truth About Our Relationship)

[@RVOddCouple]

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[@cornbread2966]

You guys are awesome😁

[@emiliosanchez6027]

You and Mercedes are wonderful!!! I unfortunately will be going thru a divorce during spring/summer and before watching your videos decided to get a rv and be stationary. Just doesn’t make sense to buy new couches tv etc plus rent/buy a home for myself. So any advice would be appreciated. GOD bless y’all

[@ARCAdventures]

We stumbled across your channel and we are hooked. My husband Andy is 14 years older then me (Andrea) and some times it’s challenging with the gap, but we are working our way on our KZbin travel channel and the working together etc has been great. Looking forward to more of your content. Andy & Andrea

[@AnythingoncanvasCan]

Glad I found your channel. Very likeable personalities. Thank you.

[@jonboyd4606]

I’m a Divorce attorney and your video is so gratifying to watch. I see so many couples give up for so little reason. John, good for you to want to be a part of Sage’s life. Best wishes to you both.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you John :) Thank God we didn't give up before the miracle :)

[@59plexi]

sure you are!! 🤣

[@jimmysapien9961]

God Bless you 2

[@DutchStar443]

I realize this video is approaching two years of age, but I am compelled to say I believe this is the most brutally honest and uplifting vid I have viewed. I’m happy for you as a couple, and have much respect for you as individuals. Thank you!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Ed! We are so very Blessed. Time flies...

[@mminniear984]

My wife and I are on the border of divorce right now. Trying like hell. I’m so glad to hear your story. It’s very inspiring! I have a very similar story to yours and it feels good to see it work out for you. I hope to have the same outcome in own situation. We are both trying but things happen that sometimes are out of your control. Hope you both stay strong and keep it alive!

[@ko-f6703]

Totally in the same place too. Hoping that it will help us all. 👩‍❤️‍👨

[@boubella11]

Stay and work at it or you will find another relationship with the same problems. Work on yourself. Make the changes that will make the difference like these guys did. We were there … nearly divorced and had to accept our parts in the dysfunction. Vow to change what you need to change. Dont try to change your spouse. But do be honest. We are so thankful that now we can live in an rv with each other and work together and learned to love again!!!

[@thegreendoormx4441]

Guys, if she is going to go , shes going to go. Why are you trying to keep her there ? Did you lose your value during marriage ? Buying an expensive RV hoping that that's wht will save a marriage is completely ridiculous. Let her go, AND buy YOURSELF that sports car you always wanted , take that fishing trip you kept postponing. Find yourself , man .

[@jimmysapien9961]

@@thegreendoormx4441 true I agree it takes 2 not one !!! After 2 Divorces no more marriages for me . Wake up people . Move on

[@thegreendoormx4441]

@@jimmysapien9961 exactly. I'm done after 1 divorce.

[@wandacraig8286]

I'm sitting here crying. Thank you for being so honest. I lost husband to cancer 11 years ago. Lots of memories. So glad you two are in love again and are living honest. So glad you are including God in your lives. So glad I found y'all. At 62 you are teaching me!

[@RVOddCouple]

God Bless you Wanda 💚💚💚

[@ridelocalride]

I feel for you as I lost my wife 23 years ago with five children to raise alone. I did have a lot of help from family. If it wasn't for God and my children I would have ended it a long time ago. Everything is great now. All my children are grown and I have very close relationship with all of them. I bet I talk to all of them almost everyday.

[@jimmysapien9961]

I can relate, I lost mine almost 6 yrs ago . I’m a lot better now Praise God . 🙏

[@jimmysapien9961]

@@ridelocalride 👍

[@wandacraig8286]

@@jimmysapien9961 it does take time and it never totally leaves you. But most widows and widowers find that the first 3 years are the absolute hardest.

[@Hemifan4266]

God bless you guys. I know the alcohol issue. I have 17 years sober. What a gift... love your videos...

[@casketbier151]

Good for you. God bless you.

[@roger80465]

Thank you for sharing your story. What a roller coaster! My wife and I will be married 47 years in September. We live by one main rule (in fact it will be on our grave marker) LOVE IS A DECISION. It isn't a feeling or an action, it's a decision. You made a decision to love rather than leave. THAT will be your number one best move every day - decide to love each other first. You are amazing! God bless you

[@RVOddCouple]

Wow! Roger this a powerful concept. Because if love is a feeling, then you can stop when it gets tough. If it's an action, then it's based on deeds. But it's based on actions, words, thoughts, and everything, so ultimately a decision makes sense! Thank you so much!

[@bettywith2girls]

Love is a decision. Yep, I've been married 29 years...yes, it's definitely a decision to stay married!

[@thewanderingcanadians]

Wow, so true. We are 27.5 years here. Each day we decide to be married and love each other. It is only if you take things for granted and in our opinion, get lazy, do things go awry. Perfect topic.

[@Cheezyquackers2]

We have been married 48yrs. I couldn't agree with you more. 😊

[@barbarasaxton293]

Roger Hardy also marriage is a journey NOT a destination.

[@dezzimeche4232]

This is literally our story!!!! We were on the border of divorce constantly fighting all because of a house we were trying to fix up. It was driving us both insane and then this Pandemic happened and I lost it I'm a germaphobe and my husband couldn't handle my constant news and updates! I was John! I used to live in an RV when we met and he suggested we buy an RV and get back on the road because it made me so happy. We have 2 dogs and no kids at home (we both work from home) so we are in the process of buying a 5th wheel and park it nearby while we downsize and move into it. Screw this house and all the problems it has caused, I married my best friend and we want to be happy and you guys are so amazing!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Dezzi

[@TheViewFromMyOffice]

Praise God for your life change, my wife and I are celebrating 40 years of marriage, and 25 years of sobriety!

[@RVOddCouple]

Amen Michael❤️ Sober is so much better! Hope we cross paths with you ODAT

[@chrisk920]

@@RVOddCouple Can you do a segment of RV life, when you and your wife just lost you're job due to the pandemic, you're living on unemployment, and are about to get divorced?

[@ridelocalride]

Agree. Without God I am nothing. With Him, I am all things

[@jewelleryaddict]

Wow sounds like husband and self. 40 years together. First were bumpy but he started AA and been 30 yrs sober. So glad I stayed and he quit. There is hope for everyone don't give up.

[@shay7090]

I wanted to cry hearing you almost divorced. I'm so glad you did not only for Sage and marriage sake, but you are such a great team!

[@helidude3502]

Having been divorced 3 times, it does my heart good to see a successful love story.

[@isx9046]

A happy, fun, long-lasting marriage can happen for you. 😇🙏❤️👫

[@C.Church]

@@isx9046 Not without fixing what he's doing wrong. At this point (3), it's time for self-renovations. No healthy person agrees to marry a 3-time divorcee without a thorough walk through of the property and checking for bondo. If a newcomer avoids a 100-point safety check on a 3-time divorcee, that is someone the divorcee should not marry.

[@Ironwind1972]

Same my friend, same.

[@Ironwind1972]

@@C.Church You're a low life. No one asked you to critique his life. The man obviously knows he made mistakes and was trying to find some peace in seeing two other people do what he couldn't.

[@C.Church]

@@Ironwind1972 Ah. No wonder you're divorced three times too.

[@jimbeamairstreams8455]

I’m crying. Don’t you dare let that love ever go away. 27 years of marriage, he had an affair, we divorced. Taking off across the country this July in Pearl my Airstream. Hope to share a hug someday. Peace💕

[@RVOddCouple]

We fight for it Deb! We hope to hug you as well. Happy Memorial Day 🇺🇲 Thank you💚

[@snapperkc9317]

Great video! The best part is Sage has both parents in her life every day...So glad you figured it out before it was to late!

[@RVOddCouple]

We are so Blessed😊

[@heyjude6335]

Love it!!! I'm in recovery as well. 4yrs now! Congrats on your sobriety! Hubs and I sold our 3500sq ft, 5 acres...living in 400sq ft as well. Celebrating our 39th wedding anniversary today!!! God is good!

[@RVOddCouple]

Congratulations on your recovery and the RV life Judy!!! May God continue to Bless us both for one more day 💚💚💚

[@tomparks9372]

And this is why I read the comments to videos like this. Judy Whitman, your story sounds as inspiring as theirs! I would love to hear it in it's entirety some time!

[@heyjude6335]

@@tomparks9372 thank you!!! It's been a journey for sure...no turning back!

[@lizzierose007]

Congrats... 25 yrs here... I just kept saying I will NEVER drink again, and I didnt.

[@thewanderingcanadians]

Wow, congratulations. And they say people don't stay together any more!! We are all living proof it takes work but us doable.

[@jennifercarducci619]

You two are special, and very fortunate. My husband and I worked, separated, for three years to get somewhere near partners in parenting (after being together for 26 years), almost got there - and he had a heart attack and passed. Our daughter was just turning thirteen and we were both devastated. Time has been healing us, we have learned to live without him, but we all learned so much. I don’t say this for sympathy, but that it is heartwarming that you two realized in time you needed to be together. Make your life the best! You are blessed. Thank you for sharing.

[@RVOddCouple]

Jennifer, this comment really hits home. We (unfortunately) have a bunch of RV Odd Squad members that are widows. Their comments always have wisdom earned from pain. I appreciate you sharing this. Ultimately this puts so much in perspective. "If this is the last thing I tell this person, how would I feel?" Thank you for sharing & letting us get to know you!

[@tsimpson007]

Great message. I just lost my wife of 43 years. I am thinking of going on the road with a RV. Nothing here to stay for.

[@RVOddCouple]

Comments like these are Exactly why we read and reply to all of our comments. We have a handful of RV Odd Squad members that are widows and we pay attention to the wisdom your pain brings forth. This really hits home! We want to thank you for taking the time to leave a comment. We are so sorry you lost your wife. We know there are no words that will fix it. We just want you to know that you sharing this means a lot to us! Thank you Tommy!💚

[@Brianne-kr4ks]

I wish you the best tsimpson!

[@n.f.6126]

I LOVE your brutal honesty! You two are a real blessing:) May God continue to bless your whole family... thank you for all you do.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Nancy! God Bless you too! Humbled!

[@cherryrogers5626]

@@RVOddCouple ok, I'm hooked...you Guys are great! Thank you for telling your story. God bless you!

[@AdventuresofmalibuandDad]

Omg great story. You guys are so honest, and broke down the walls for others. You two are a testimony. How great God is to keep you together. I love you guys . Just Awesome.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Donald ❤️

[@joechrisman8257]

@@sarahann530 God knows the sincerity of both hearts. We don't see, thru our eyes, the people God sees.

[@johnharris6655]

My wife once asked me why I put up with her, I told her because it was easier to put up with her than to start dating again. You can say that when you have been married for 31 years.

[@annehedonia156]

Dating sucks. You made the right choice. 😂

[@jimmysapien9961]

Cheaper to keep em - in most cases.

[@nancywarren608]

Wow, nothing like honesty. Congratulations on the new life and relationship. I'm so happy you rethought your future.

[@scotts595]

Wife & I ran our own business ( elevator repair), work load was prosperous ($), but brought my health down- I got an offer for my company- sold it. We wanted to see other states- rented a house in AZ. One week ago bought a class A. We are thinking of selling the house- so we can travel & visit our 5 adult kids. My wife found this video at 4am this morning & tears are falling. I’m 61, she’s 52.... so much similarity. We are blown away. Thanks for sharing! 🏆

[@RVOddCouple]

Sounds like we have a lot in common Scott :) We love the RV life! Hopefully meet you two one day.

[@bsnouty4762]

I am going through separation as well. It’s not an angry separation either and I’m moving into my RV and selling our house. I will be debt free and working full time as well. I appreciate you sharing your story. 💕❤️I can’t wait to see where things go for me from here

[@jimmysapien9961]

Been there done that . Gods Grace is Amazing .I’m doing great now. Thought about leaving but I woke up . 🙏

[@PacificNorthwest360]

God Bless you and keep your head up as best you can. I went through divorce after my 2nd tour in the military. It sure is a learning experience with no Play-book on how to live but with positive outlook and Loving yourself things will flow through ok. Cheers Olympia WA

[@geoben1810]

You have to LIKE each other. You have to RESPECT each other. You have to be HONEST with each other. You have to COMMUNICATE with each other. You can't allow your ego to dictate. And you have to always remember WHY you fell in love with each other in the first place. ✌

[@RVOddCouple]

Right on George peace

[@MrJdufault]

Awesome. Couples that dream together, stay together. Never stop dreaming. Be blessed.

[@RVOddCouple]

Love "Never stop dreaming!" Thank you!

[@matthewford3490]

Thanks for being so open. My wife and I are currently going through the same thing. I thought I had cancer or something (which I am finishing all my tests now). Diagnosis... Overworked (+80hrs a week) and something wrong with my back. Ta Da! I looked at my wife over a month ago and told her, "Let's do your dream, sell everything, and get a 5th Wheel Toy Hauler ( which will become our digital studio). I taught 3D, VFX, etc. Now, we will be able to GO to the work instead of me being stuck at one location. The stress of everything was leading down the same path as you guys. So it was refreshing to see a couple that UNDERSTANDS what and WHY my wife (Carol) and I are doing this. Thanks for everything, keep a truckin', and GOD bless! M.E.Ford - the Digital Cowboy

[@RVOddCouple]

Congratulations to you & your wife! Stress is a silent killer! We wish you two many Blessings on your new adventure and hope that we can meet you one day. God Bless and keep us up to date on your adventure💚😀👍

[@charlesbarlow1889]

I’m just realizing I’m signed under my daughter’s KZbin account so disregard that, but I just wanted you to know how much this video spoke to me. My husband and I have had this dream of rving for about 2 years and finally things with his job and our house have aligned in a way that has allowed us to live our dream. My husband was so over stressed at work. So he quit his job we are selling our house and belongings to live this dream. This particular video spoke to me so much because my husband and I have been separated for a year. And with things aligning the way they have at my husbands job and with our house my husband asked me if we could try one more thing to save our marriage and that is finally living our dream and coming with him rving. I have been very nervous thinking it could possibly drive us further apart, which I know is a real possibility, but hearing how it United y’all gives me hope. Thank you so much! Also do you have any tips for creating a KZbin page I would love to document our travels as well?

[@CincinnatiReefer]

I loved this video. When Mercedes teared up I actually cried. I’m glad you guys made it. I really enjoy your content. I watch every one you post. Enjoy your journey. Peace and Love - Chris.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Chis! I was not supposed to cry! But it's real. I'm just really grateful we're not still in that horrible place!

[@Prettybabymo]

Me too! My nose did that tingle thing before you cry haha and my eyes teared up

[@robbicurrie6376]

I can so relate to this. My husband and I are 2 year newlyweds. He is quite a bit older. He was a workaholic until he was diagnosed with a brain tumor. He has slowed down and we are now starting our RV journey. Thank you for your continued honesty!

[@RVOddCouple]

God Bless you both! Go slow and enjoy your new adventure💚😀👍

[@VoklstWestie]

Glad it all worked out for the 3 of you. I so enjoy your vids! Just left my hubby after 13 yrs and what I found out.... makes me feel absolutely stupid for marrying him at all and not leaving sooner. But you do BOTH have to want it to work and make the effort. Screw 'compromise' ... I compromised for 13 yrs. While he apparantly....I allowed him to 'run my show' I retreated to the separate bedroom to: 1) keep my sanity, 2) have 'me' time, 3) have a certain amout of time per day to recharge and get strong. Which is why I'm on a 'I married a narcissicist' Group now to heal, grow, Get past the PTSD and Move forward. So I'm really considering the RV life for my future. Watching ur vids is entertaining, enlightening & informative. I thank you!

[@RVOddCouple]

Part of this journey called life is being true to yourself. Happy that you found your truth. Thank you for the kind words! 💚😃👍

[@flagship99100]

Your chemistry together, is very evident. When Mercedes is talking, John is never looking like “hurry up and finish, so I can talk”. He is usually waiting to reinforce, or sometimes disagree, but in a very respectful way. Watching the two of you work together is a big part of the appeal of your videos. It seems real, and you are not just “acting out” for the camera.

[@theflyinhawaiiantravels354]

You guys are soo sweet. With that being said I sold my rv today!!! My husband passed away in January and I thought I could rv by myself. You need the husband to do outside and wife inside. I was doing everything by myself!! I sold for 43,000.00. I am now flying back home to Hawaii for a week and then off to Europe for 6 weeks. I will still continue watching the rv videos, but for enjoyment and not for the wanting to get out there. I now know I like room service!! Lol

[@joshstrain3454]

I don't watch any other channel about RVing. Taking my family and doing this full time has become our goal which we hope to obtain in the next year or two. When I see saved marriages, it warms my heart because I nearly obliterated ours all on my own. But Mercedes said something so important. She started working on her self. And it appears through his actions he started working on himself. My wife and I have been facilitators with marriage ministry for 4 years and this mindset is so vital. When you both start working on your own personal relationship with the lord, God will grow your marriage individually and you come out so much stronger in the end. Team is the operative word. It's never perfectly executed but if it's the goal and you take divorce completely off the table, then you will always be blessed. If you ever come back through Colorado Springs, I would love to meet you guys. Continue to have faith and courage. God bless you guys.

[@RVOddCouple]

Amen Josh💚 The more we work on strengthening our personal relationships with God, the better our marriage gets😊. Thank you & God Bless you as well.

[@proudrosemom]

Hey josh, we live in Colorado Springs too and believers in the Lord. We also help couples who need help in their marriage too. I’d love to hear more about the marriage ministry you both have

[@joshstrain3454]

@@proudrosemom Oh wow! What area of town so you guys live in?

[@ttiiddyyy]

Okay, I'm RV Video obsessed -- I've watched thousands over the past 4+ years, but your video today is better than all of them. More honest, real, life-changing, and life-enhancing than I could have ever hoped to find. Thank heavens you pulled up the stick before crashing-n-burning. What a greater life you have together than apart. Because of you and your candor, I am compelled to do some self-evaluating and rewinding. Your humility and roadmap are most inspiring. Bravo you two! Thank you for sharing your experiences and may you be blessed with continued happiness. Thank you.

[@RVOddCouple]

Mike what can say in response? We are humbled by what you've said. Thank you just doesn't seem enough, but Thank you! (oh, and we can relate to being rv video obsessed! lol!)

[@ticatrix]

Your story gave me God bumps! What a beautiful testimony to what can happen if you don't give it all up and realize your love is worth saving.. I love so much that you shared this story. My husband and I have lived in Costa Rica for 15 years (retired from Houston Tx area) but now thinking about buy a used RV and travel the US for 2 or 3 years. WE are so excited and listen to all your videos from the beginning! You are in inspiration to us!

[@RVOddCouple]

Love that! "God Bumps!" Costa Rica Sounds Amazing! And at least you had a good winter! lol! Thank you for your kind words!

[@laurincooper7705]

A baby at 50! I became a dad of twin boys at 47, micro preemies, 4 months early one pound six and seven ounces. Now I'm 58, they turn 11 in June and we are in the process of buying our first RV trailer. We've been watching your videos and learning. Look forward to many more and lots of miles pulling our new home away from home!

[@allenmandy7602]

Thank you for sharing. My husband and I are fixing up our house right now to sell and start our RV adventure full time. Before all of this we were not sure where we were going in our relationship. The process has really helped us realize what was blocking our relationship to go further. I am thankful we are in a positive place now. Your story brought tears to my eyes because of our story. Thank you.

[@RVOddCouple]

You are very welcome Allen & Mandy! Thank you

[@nathalietheriault2683]

It's incredible... Your story is almost the same of ours! We divorced last year, and today, we are planning to RV together 100% in march 2020!!! We now appreciate ourselves as friends, partners, companions, and are stronger than ever as a team.

[@RVOddCouple]

Awesome! Sometimes the end is the beginning💚💚💚

[@millwright716]

What a great story. One rule in our house, only one television, and none in our bedroom. That is our sacred space. 33 years and counting. Peace and love.

[@RVOddCouple]

Congratulations oon 33 years of marriage! Woohoo! And thank you for the excellent advice! :-)

[@RVBarndominium]

You can feel the "realness" coming through in the emotions. I know the video was probably hard to do, so thanks for sharing and getting real with the Odd Squad.🤩😀

[@RVOddCouple]

The Odd Squad is showing up in droves and letting us know it's safe to get this "real." It was hard figuring out what to share, because it's easy to tell little stories and get lost. And then hearing it out loud is scary. We ask, "should we share this with everyone?" Well the answer is yes- people are real too and they get it! Thank you B.A.

[@chrisk920]

@@RVOddCouple Life is ALWAYS easier when you have 7 figures of liquid cash in the bank. Poor us! Boo hooo

[@deedeew4040]

My late husband had the same rule but sometimes it overlapped. We RV'd around the country back in the 70's. We loved it. Glad you worked things out and your honesty is raw.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Deb💚

[@lorettawymbs6936]

You guys made me cry. I just love you two. I lost my husband to cancer in 2007 and then one of my amazing sons was shot in the face and killed instantly in 2015. I want to travel but will get a big fully equipped van. the healing has to happen somehow and I think nature has been the kindest to me. Selling my house and things...and then go!

[@rustyvaughn8818]

This one is raw and real guys. becoming more intrigued with your vlogs. Putting away the alcohol is always a hard but rewarding choice. 28+yrs here. I do not begrudge anyone a good drink. But instead of me managing it,.... it was managing me. I am glad for y'all on sooo many levels. a great story. tell it often.

[@RVOddCouple]

Raw is a great word. It was raw. It's hard to look back but there's a lot of gratitude in getting through it. 28 years is a lot of one days at a time! Thank you so much Rusty!

[@alexouellet5915]

This video is what makes you one of our all time favorite RV Couples.. You are just REAL! Thank you for sharing this part of your life.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Alex!

[@DevonMcGettrick]

WOW...what a beautiful story you have, my wife and I have bought an ambulance and am converting it into our full-time travel vehicle. It is so great to be working on it together and have that share vision. Teamwork makes the dream work!!!

[@RVOddCouple]

That is so awesome! Would love to watch your progress 💚😊👍

[@chrissweisberger7509]

this video hits it on the head - me and my wife were ready to call it quits - and in a flash i bought a rv to set up at a camp ground - me and my wife found a new way to get away from the everyday problems and just sit and talk , and hang out as much as we can

[@lynnetuck4786]

My husband and I just celebrated 24 years. He was a trucker over 25 years when his National Guard unit deployed to Iraq. Long story short he is a disabled Vet. He has a bad case if PTSD. For several years he denied he had a problem. While dealing with his PTSD my 2nd oldest son died in the line of duty. I checked out for quite a long time. Thankfully some of our Christian friends nagged us back to church. It was a life changer. He finally got help and I finally began to deal with my grief and got past the anger. For the last 2 years we have searched and researched TTs. We finally agreed on one and purchased it. Our 5th and final son left for college this past August. I am ready to see my country. I would love to go full time but he is having separation issues. He wants to keep a permanent nest. Maybe once we get more miles under our belts he will change his mind. Love your channel.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you for sharing this with us Lynne and for your Families Service. My Son was just diagnosed with PTSD. He served as a Marine. God Bless and let us know if we can help💚💚💚🇺🇸

[@terrybreiland4230]

What a great story. And like Roger who also gave some great advice I would like to share what has helped my wife and me stay together for over 37 years.No matter how upset we are we promised to always sleep in the same bed.Usually thats enough time to think things through and a gentle touch goes a long way to start a conversation and reconnect in a way you both can feel good about. We love your videos and your honesty.Thank you.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Terry💚 We also try never to go to sleep upset with each other and always sleep in the same bed💚💚💚Great advice! Thank you

[@kenportwood8712]

Entertaining video. Two thoughts: One, no one ever died from a poopie diaper. Two, when you fought you went to separate rooms. Not much physical separation in a camper compared to a house. I told my wife one time when she brought up buying a camper- If we can't get along in this house, how are we gonna get along in a fraction of the space, lol.

[@RVOddCouple]

To each their own :) TV life has been great for our marriage

[@debrabowers3911]

So totally awesome!!!! And another thing I might add, is I have noticed how much time y'all take to try to answer as many comments as possible. That's commitment!! I'm not sure how I've missed watching y'all. I've been subscribed, but the title caught my eye. God will bless you for your honesty, inspiration and testimony!! Safe travels!! And God Bless y'all!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Debra 💚 You too and Happy Easter 😀

[@debrabowers3911]

@@RVOddCouple 😄❤️ You're very welcome!!

[@craigandlisao9736]

Wow,,,, thank you for your truth and honesty. Craig and I watched together this morning, and we both are soo very parallel to you guys. Having Massive “material” possessions takes sooo much out of a person. Reduction of those things is difficult, as my husband. I’m the “purger” and he’s the “holder”. Our experience so far in getting a (1 of 2) home on the market, reducing our possessions, planning ahead, has brought some anxiety, argument, cooling off, and finally the reality of learning what is IMPORTANT,,, US! Our love and respect of each other’s opinion, value, communication, patience is our 🔑. Blessings sent your way. Thanks again and again.

[@RVOddCouple]

Hi Lisa & Craig. Isn't it funny how we "think" we know what will make us happy but in the end, it's the simple, free things in life? So glad this resonated with you. Funny story- we almost didn't share this. Ultimately I'm glad we did!

[@duckiegirl58]

Thank you for your honesty! I think I saw this in you from the very first video. It's refreshing to see a couple win and thrive! Living in the moment is an absolute key. Thank you again!

[@RVOddCouple]

Candie, thank you so much! Appreciate the kind words and the support on a video in which we bared our soul to the world. Appreciate the kind words and support!

[@duckiegirl58]

@@RVOddCouple ❤️

[@ronfeinberg]

What an original video coming from an RV channel. Bravo to the both of you!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Ron. We gotta be real 😀👍

[@fireangel1972]

Thank you for being so open and honest with the troubles in your life and how you conquered them. Very inspirational video. I began watching your videos for full time rving tips, I had no idea I would get such a blessing from them. God bless you on your journey

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you so much! We were afraid to share so in depth but we are grateful we did. Thank you for your kind words and for supporting our channel.

[@noproblem2big337]

What a great story, well done...marriage counselors should recommend 6mth RV living before divorce:)

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you💚😀👍 LOL...it worked for us😀

[@janebray9392]

Yes, it worked for us too!!!!

[@steph01879]

Thanks for sharing your story. Divorce can be a very devastating thing. It is such a wonderful thing to put it all back together and rebuild your relationship. I hope that you guys continue to grow together the rest of your lives.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you so much! We are so grateful. Funny, we almost didn't share this. But now we're glad we did! Thank you again!

[@WorldReserveCurrency]

I don't RV and have no plans to RV but I can't stop watching you guys..... you guys are so in sync.... different but in sync... like a spoon... one face concave and the other convex. Very inspiring story. Thank you.

[@leerobinson8976]

Thanks for sharing! My parents separated when I was in Jr High, the only thing my Dad ever told me about it , "All I did was trade 1 set of problems for a different set of problems " My Wifes parents were also divorced, and that gave us both an attitude of we ain't going there. We have been married for 36 years, we piss each other on a regular basis , but exactly as you spoke of it, you have to get over it. Thanks again.

[@RVOddCouple]

What a true statement! Divorce is just trading problems. We both come from divorced homes too and it's so hard because we don't want our family to be another statistic!

[@davesrvchannel4717]

Its not easy to put yourself out for public view. Great job!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Dave! Looks like you can understand. It's opening yourself up to criticism. Thank you for your support!

[@dennisboyle232]

Love the video! Understanding marriage is hard but you both are much better together than not. My wife died when she was 50, almost 22 yrs ago and the time spent in disagreements was trival in comparison. When you realize how "meaningful" life can be so short you get another perspective. Enjoy you're journey because everything only lasts for a period of time:)

[@RVOddCouple]

Dennis we're so sorry for your loss. Your perspective references a ton of wisdom and pain. But you're right. In retrospect, will you say "I told you I was right" or "I wish they would do that annoying thing again because I miss them." You comment is powerful! Thank you!

[@RVOddCouple]

So true! Life's too darn short to fight with those you love. Thank you ❤️

[@markwoods7237]

My wife is 10 years younger than I am. We have had our rough times together. As time has gone by and through a lot of discussions our marriage is stronger than ever in the 8 years we have been married. You guys are a wonderful couple. 🙏

[@debeisemann7648]

your story is perfect, we have been married for 40 years, which has included many seasons some of desperate distant lives where we might as well have been divorced and other times we camped and dreamed about more travel... in the last few years we have been flat and stuck, I began to push for making a major change and get some adventure. We are almost there our house of 29 years goes up for sale in April and we are filling a 40 foot shiping container with what we want to save and moving into our motor home wiht hte necessities for a year and see what comes next. We have learned and forgot learned and forgot that we are the best when we have goals and working together. Watching your video reinforces we are doing the right thing.

[@billmellinger1134]

I have watched a couple of your videos in passing. This one made me hit the subscribe button. What a story.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Bill! Welcome to the RV Odd Squad!

[@marybethmcclure5929]

I love this story! This is so great- I love how honest you guys are

[@DMRSIX]

What a beautiful testimony!💐 You both made me cry!!♥️

[@EsqChrio]

That is a great story. I see a lot of the the things you went through happening right now with my wife and I. Both of us working 60+ hours per week saving up for retirement in a few years and we are both looking for a major change because it's starting to take a toll on us and our marriage of 27 years. I can see that we have grown apart and maybe this is what we need to reignite our passion for each other and life. Thanks for the honesty and insight.

[@RVOddCouple]

Hang in there and sake for help! RV saved our marriage and turned us back into a Team :)

[@deborahsmith6524]

I just watched this episode and I admire your courage to repair your marriage. My husband and I have been married 3 yrs and we have worked today. Some days it gets trying. I'm pretty laid back and patient, so I try to not sweat the small stuff. I'm 68 and Rick is 72. We are getting read to start out on our RV adventure. I love your videos, and we have learn a lot. Thank you for all the good tips and important info.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you for taking the time to share Deborah💚. Lots of work but worth every tough time....RV’ing is Team work! We love the life. Let us know how it unfolds😊

[@thewitmerexcursion]

Thank you for your honesty. This is why you've done so well so quickly.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you! It's scary letting so many in but the support is making it worth it!

[@FreeSpeech777]

That's right....Yep, We all can sense their honesty when talking about their journey..... Hope everything works out well for them.....Keep up the transparency....God bless ya'll...🙏

[@cindysears3130]

Love your story and your channel. What an inspiration in so many ways. There is no greater blessing than your children❤️. They are a temporary gift while we are on this earth, and it sounds like the two of you have figured that out. I’ll so inspired that I have watched this video twice!! Thanks for sharing!

[@RVOddCouple]

Wow! Thank you Cindy! Children are the best blessing. Being a mom is the most fulfilling endeavor of my life!

[@theodorewilson1622]

You are guys are such a breath of fresh air. Your honesty is rare these days. I am so glad I discovered you guys. My wife and I have had many rocky years and have been to marriage counseling. Since we bought our TT a few months ago, we have been so happy and my wife says the TT has been better than Marriage Counseling/Therapy. All true

[@yobabybubba]

That was just beautiful. I loved it and I love you guys. 9 years ago we were in divorce court, but God miraculously saved our marriage. Today we have a wonderful marriage and life together. Im also sober 11 yrs. The other day we bought our 1st RV and were ready for this next season in life. So excited.

[@alien4fish]

Great story guys my wife and I with our kids are buying an RV to live in while our house is being built,I hope we have as fun as you guys are having in bringing the family closer together. Cheers!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you! Cheers

[@jennycalloway4329]

thank you! you guys rock! I dig the maturity, realism, realness... I needed to see this video. Right on

[@RVOddCouple]

Jenny Thank you! This was a scary video to share but the response has made it worth it.

[@mrg74]

I love your channel for the honesty and the feel of non scripted. If that makes sense.. Keep bringing the open conversations that you both do!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Makes total sense! All we're doing is sharing our truth and experience. Sometimes it's pretty uncomfortable but it's real 😀👍 Thank you very much for this comment Chris 💚

[@annamstevenson]

So...when I first watched you both on KZbin, I thought, 'Yeah, yeah, yeah...same old thing, just a different angle, a different approach to get people hooked, then comes the ask for $$'...but after watching a few episodes, I think you're honest people who just want to help others through your own knowledge and experience. That's rare in today's world, and I'm so happy to have found you! I love your 'no-Patreon' attitude that other RV bloggers seem to feel is necessary for success. After subscribing to several of these Patreon RV bloggers, I started feeling like it was just a business, a method to have their lifestyle paid by Patrons, and the rest of us don't count. Thank you for what you're doing, and for being real people with integrity.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you! Everyone should monetize their time. We are doing it in a way that we feel comfortable. We are not comfortable with patreon

[@nathanming8524]

I don’t know how I ended up on an RV channel, but I am blessed to hear your story, and tears flowed about how your marriage was made stronger. I’m 49 now and my life is way different from yours, but I have hope that one day, those joys you share with your wife will be mine once again. To God be the Glory🙏🏾

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Nathan! We wish you all the best and God Bless You as well💚

[@victorchristensen353]

Thank you for being open and honest. We really need more of that these days!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Victor.

[@brentjohnson6654]

Incredible story. Thanks for sharing. Proud member of the OddSquad!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Brent! Our OddSquad is the Best!

[@stevew.7245]

Families that pray together, Stay Together! 🙏 Thanks for sharing!

[@RVOddCouple]

Amen! Thank you Steve!

[@duenorth2058]

The two of you are awesome....My wife is a decade younger than I am and yes two sets of kids, we can relate to your video on so many levels. I had to slow down the mental aging a wee bit and she had to speed hers up a wee bit and it worked out. The joke at our home is, I have a trophy wife and she has a silver fox....When I started to get the urge to roam around it took her a awhile to get into the grove but, little negotiations about our sons education and such and this roaming urge has grown hard core in moms head too. Thank you for sharing, you folks made my day. Cheers and safe travels

[@RVOddCouple]

My husband once looked at me and said, "i love you but you are so young." I looked back and without skipping a beat I said, "it's ok baby, You're really immature!" And the strangest thing is he loves me more! Go figure! Safe travels to you and your family and hope our paths cross!

[@katherinemoore6937]

Roles are very important that is why my relationship with my husband works. we know what our roles are. Glad you found each other again! Love you guys!

[@RVOddCouple]

We both agree one hundred percent of the importance of Roles in a relationship! Thank you Katherine! We Love you too💚💚💚

[@adventuresofmisspeach]

Thank you again for keeping it Real! I am glad God healed your marriage💕

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you for the supportive comment. Yes, this was one of our more vulnerable videos. We almost didn't share it. Very close to home. Glad you liked it.

[@sweetheartmary51]

Funny. We were looking at RV's 17 years ago and I found out I was pregnant. Friends were saying at 42 years old, the RV would have been cheaper. We were blessed with a baby girl who is a a wonderful independent individual. We still are planning to Rv but not for a few more years.

[@RVOddCouple]

Now that's a great story! And your daughter should be graduating high school soon? Sage is fiercely independent too. I'm grateful for that. Lets me know that she will be ok no matter what! :-)

[@hughgonzalez8958]

Very sincere video of your marriage experience. Love each other and enjoy life!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Hugh! 👍

[@bluelipbeaver]

Stress can be very debilitating. Depression can zap motivation. Motivation is needed in order to do anything. Even brushing our teeth. I am glad you posted this video. On my birthday by-the-way! I hope your journey is filled mostly with happiness. You both sound like you know and realize there will always be valley's that we must pass through.

[@RVOddCouple]

We knew it was your birthday so this was your birthday present. Your welcome! Just kidding. Thank you for the support. We almost didn't share it. Glad we did. The outpouring of understanding and support was amazing.

[@bluelipbeaver]

I have a nephew who is in his 40's and gone through a divorce. Without examining what went wrong (alcohol) he posts all the "fun stuff" in life that he does on Facebook. Life is always "perfect" in his world. The postings of the new girlfriend, the new boat, the picture of the boat and his feet as the sun drops behind his beer glass. All wonderful.... In his world. His father, my brother is the same way. "Perfect" in every way. Yet, all I have ever asked from them is honesty. Not much of that seems to be around. I am not perfect, and I am flawed in many ways. I try to live a full life. I have worked my tail off to get here. Life can be and has been a struggle for me. God let me return from Vietnam where I was a Marine ground pounder toting around a machine gun. I bought a little I-Go Cloud Series travel trailer last summer. It is perfect for my needs. I was able to take it to northern Maine several times last year along with my little cat Blue. In the fall we pack up and fly down to south Florida for the winter. Where the sea water is warm!

[@bradwilliams7145]

Hi John, Hi Mercedes, Hi Sage, I had tears in my eyes viewing this video. Wow! I've been binge watching your videos for the last three days and I feel as if I've known you guys for a good while. Your videos are excellent and very informative on topics I never would have thought of. I enjoy the rapport you two display, your honesty and just your overall presentation. May I also say that your daughter Sage is a beautiful child and reminds me of my own daughter at that same age. With all that aside, My name is Brad. I am a 63 year old retired, born and bred Jersey boy who transplanted to Florida 5+ years ago. My ex and my grown children moved on from me 11+ years ago due to my illness. I've basically been sittin on my butt since, not really living too much. As of late I have been thinking of selling my possessions (a few collections and my car) and purchasing a Class "B" or "C" RV. Perhaps I'm an oddball, but the only thing holding me back is that I haven't a woman, nor a family anymore to share in the experience of seeing our beautiful country. My ex and I had taken the kids on many trips when we owned a Jayco pop up back in the day. I don't know why, but now I just can't seem to enjoy traveling without being able to share the experience with a woman travel companion. I do apologize for this long winded comment, however the two fold question I'm trying to ask is; am I the oddball that I feel I am, and are there RVing groups that address people like me? Please know that I'm not posting this comment looking for a date, a relationship or a "good time" per se, but a nice time. I feel a bit foolish and debated on even asking this question, however if I don't ask, I will never know. I feel when you guys have the time you will give me an answer that's on the up and up. In closing, it is refreshing to know that you have the Lord in your life and believe in the power of prayer. I pray that God blesses you all, on and off the road. Sincerely yours Brad Williams

[@aoeulhs]

My wife and I do the upstairs downstairs thing too, to the point I sometimes miss her. We do that to avoid conflict but we only have so much time together and we're throwing that time away. RVing may not be the answer for us, but you two are an inspiration to finding an answer.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you

[@dankramer7840]

You are both so inspiring and your story is wonderful. John, you are a very lucky man...you hit the jackpot indeed!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Dan 😊 I am a very lucky man

[@LarryWallace]

I love the story! Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you are doing well.

[@RVOddCouple]

Larry! We appreciate your support. Thank you for the well wishes!

[@SolomonHomestead]

We love transparent and real people. You guys truly meet that with your open-ness here. Marriage is truly work or it at least takes work, compromise, patience and a willingness to choose to LOVE. Yes it comes naturally much of the time but in those moments where it isn't natural it has to be intentional focus. Thanks for sharing and glad I stumbled on your channel.

[@RVOddCouple]

Appreciate you taking the time to say this! You know, we almost didn't share this video. It felt too personal. But comments like these make us glad that we did. :-) Thank you!

[@AS-gd6zl]

You two are an inspiration! Thank you for your honesty, humility and courage in sharing your RV life. I am learning so much from you two. It also is freaking me out because, I am single, 64 and have been working toward starting a full-time RV life. After watching your videos and hearing your stories, I am no longer sure I can do this alone. In the spirit of your own paradigm of sharing, I am doing some real soul-searching to decide how I need to proceed and for this, I thank you, sincerely!! -Tim

[@markreynolds9570]

Wow, it was that close. Great story. Thanks for sharing. Hope to meet someday. Thanks again.

[@RVOddCouple]

Very close! God had a plan for us. I'll never risk my family like that again

[@honeydipqueen]

I decided I wanted to save up for an RV; so of course I need to do my research! I discovered y’all and I am so happy I did! I’ve been binging your videos ever since I found your first one! I love your relationship and you provide SO MUCH quality information!! Thank you for everything!

[@RVOddCouple]

Welcome to the RV Odd Squad Olivia! :). We love helping where we can. Thank you for you support and let us know how it goes....

[@marypurifoy3582]

God bless you both. Our Father in heaven is about relationships. A marriage is a union that requires more than just love. It's a partnership like no other. It encompasses many different variables such as friendship, communication, commitment, sacrifice, compassion, compromise, and teamwork among other things. It is certainly not a simple relationship but it is most certainly a worthwhile relationship. RVing will certainly help a relationship if you let it. I know it helped me and my late husband. Had I had to do it all over again, I would do it in a heartbeat. I hated the difficult times but loved the fun times and good days. And yes my husband and I did the very same thing in 2006 and traveled until 2009 due to his illnesses. Enjoy this journey while you are on it. Learn much and love always. This life is but a vapor. God bless you all on this great adventure. And don't forget to have a blast!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Mary, thank you so much for the beautiful comment. Marriage is all of those things. The hard times plain stink but they are worth it. It's not easy. But the ups of marriage and creating a family is indescribably wonderful. Unfortunately, Life is too short. So sorry to hear about your husband. We have a chunk of the RV Odd Squad that is composed of widows whose comments mean so much to me. So much truth and wisdom! Thank you again and God bless you and yours.

[@Justcallmefred2023]

I've been binge watching your guy's channel over the last couple of days. I absolutely love the level of honesty you guys put out there for the rest of us to get the FULL picture of what RV life is like and a glimpse as to who you are as people. I don't feel there are many RV channels that portray this level of candidness, regardless of the personal discomfort and possible censure from commenters. Thank you both! I wish I could take my family on a similar adventure, however we are small business owners ourselves, and firmly cemented in our area. My husband does not share my vision of wonderlust while he is building his empire, and I must acquiesce myself to the occasional family trip in our RV around our very demanding work life. I really appreciate how you guys include content for those that cannot full time RV!! Most of the travel channels I follow gear their entire channel around full timing, and that leaves a lot of questions for people like myself that want the adventure, but cannot make that level of commitment currently. Thank you for filling in some of the blanks!! I'd love to see some vlog style content from you guys if you are up for that in 2020. Some candid videos on how you do National Parks with a big rig would be helpful too, as we have a really big rig for weekend warriors (37 ft TH that's 13'4" tall 😳) and don't go to nearly as many new places as we'd like, partially out of fear we won't fit do to lack of info available online. Keep up the wonderful work! Look forward to seeing what the future holds for your beautiful family!!

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you Valerie! You know you are absolutely right. We need to get out more! :-) . We appreciate you saying that we share to both full and part time RVers. We don't want to be exclusive. lol . We're open minded to more story telling. We just want to make sure that we're delivering value. But more adventure vids are needed! Thank you for the ideas. We love feedback & ideas!

[@Ash-jx1dt]

I love you two!! Just this past September I took the leap of faith and bought my RV and now my son and I live together in it. Life is wonderful!!

[@MegaBpop]

Congratulations in communicating and saving your marriage. you also have Faith.

[@RVOddCouple]

Thank you! God Bless you as well😀

[@evolutionaryTom]

Great story. Good for you guys. Glad you came out on the backside good to go and are sharing the lessons learned.

[@loveu2222]

Lot of people should have a story like this, unfortunately not everyone end up this way 🚐🛵🛀🏝️

[@RVOddCouple]

You're right. Going through the lows makes you stronger!

[@dennismiller7605]

Hi, You brought back many wonderful memories. We bought our first bus and immediately headed to San Marcos, Texas for a "Life on Wheels" conference. It was a 3 day event about what you need to know to live full time in an RV. The first class was taught by Joe and Vicki Kieva. They began with much of what you said, teamwork. They called them pink jobs and blue jobs. As it sounded very stereotyped, someone asked for a definition and their response was, "It's whatever the two of you want them to be." They were so right. What we also found interesting was what happened in our travels. We went around the country and were visited by many family and friends. They all wanted to see the new bus. They would walk through and admire the bus. At the end they would look at their spouse and say one of two things.... "We envy you, and wish we had the time and money to do this." or "No way in hell, we would kill each other!" There was no one in between, it was always one of the two. As an aside, my ex wife is still a good friend. My current wife took her through the bus and she loved it. When she was done, she turned to my wife and said, "Better you than me." We all laughed because she was speaking the truth. She would not have enjoyed the confinement. Great message and a wonderful story. I'm now in my 80's and look back at our time in our RV, and the time we full timed it as one of the best parts of our life. Best Regards, Dennis Miller Anthem, AZ ... just south of Sedona which you mentioned.

[@DangBruhY]

Going through challenges helps make you stronger. There are many people out there who give up and throw in the towel. I'm happy that y'all have grown stronger and didn't let these challenges destroy your relationship.