She's getting exactly what she's owed. NOTHING. You love him. He loves himself. Imagine being with a man 10 years through 2 marriages, and he still hasn't and won't marry you. Tragic.
@moishacurry46118 ай бұрын
Ouch! Lol
@highlander6668 ай бұрын
It's truly pathetic
@d820m8 ай бұрын
yeah, pretty much🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@keyeviondavis96478 ай бұрын
I have never had a lick of respect for a woman who would knowingly, jump in bed with another woman's husband, IT TRULY LACKS ALL SUBSTANCE, OF ANY VALUE, SMH😁
@lovicebrinkman18 ай бұрын
Waste of time!
@RacieRain8 ай бұрын
Self esteem is free.
@toniaphillips96958 ай бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@quichequiche42748 ай бұрын
It's not. It takes work. Clearly work that she doesn't want to do.
@testedtried12337 ай бұрын
Along with common sense.
@gwendolynjones56278 ай бұрын
Men be telling women who they are.
@sweetsweet818 ай бұрын
Yes, some do.
@bryanbeeman52568 ай бұрын
Regardless… women see the behaviors, think it’s fun, stick around, fall in love, can’t let go, and waste 10 years of their lives that they can’t get back… Make that make sense
@jannejames72248 ай бұрын
And they see what they want to see
@MzQueen0288 ай бұрын
I got second hand embarrassment. Im baffled. Yo karma girl, dnt bring us into dis.
@rmmmmt27968 ай бұрын
No one feels bad for you. You chose the side chick postion. Now you want to be the main chick. He doesn't see you as his main chick end of story.
@hermineellis15378 ай бұрын
Plus he chooses 2 other's to put a ring on it,even if they didn't last he just don't see her as the woman e want to give no ring to.kmdt an a alcoholic at that 😢who would want that kind of trouble in this day n ages mi nu want nobody trouble fi b my burden.😢😅😂
@juria95248 ай бұрын
Even if she becomes the main chick, he will find himself another side chick as he did with the first two wives and she will suffer. She deserves it though
@shenquejames75988 ай бұрын
Girl bye 👋 keep him so the rest of us are safe!
@angelica72368 ай бұрын
Sis, you cannot expect anything good to come from willingly being a "side chick"
@charleslee16444 ай бұрын
SHE BROUGHT THIS ON HERSELF CALLED AND WENT TO HIS HOUSE THE SAME NIGHT AND SHE KNEW HE HAD A WOMAN
@pandorafixv2.0jane7811 күн бұрын
She's so messed up it's like saying." Girl don't let yourself be robbed and murdered. It's not a good look". If you have to warn somebody not to be in that position there's something wrong with them ...very wrong
@DownSouthDiva3548 ай бұрын
She has already assumed her position. He will marry the next woman and still keep her on the side. She’s just wasting the best years of her life.
@africansoulinternational13 ай бұрын
The very best years smh
@melissabrown-rose91832 ай бұрын
True
@suade99408 ай бұрын
Didn’t he say she is replaceable? Wow Move on!
@zulu32748 ай бұрын
🤔 is that really any different than her saying "she's blocking her Future husband by being with him"... they both parallel each other in truthful ways... It's hurtful to him because she wants to leave him after all they've been through....lol
@suade99408 ай бұрын
@@zulu3274That was her sister’s opinion about blocking her future husband. Also, is about time that she leaves this person. There’s no bright future with this man. He has alcohol issues. She is now waking up.
@d820m8 ай бұрын
reminds me of what the first coach of the Seattle Seahawks Jack Patera told his team that very first training camp of the team's existence in 1976...."we will TOLERATE you, until we can REPLACE you....that's what this guy did....tolerated her, then replaced her....can't be mad at that🤣🤣🤣🤣 (speaking of Seahawks, the NFL Draft is on, and it 's much more entertaining than this crap)
@zulu32748 ай бұрын
@@suade9940 yeah I understand but Judge star also co-signed on it and if I'm not mistaken the plaintiff repeated what the sister said so she thought it was a good thing for her to hear or do too but in his mind he's like well damn we've been through all of this together and I've accepted help from the judge to get better and NOW you want to leave?... So that would hurt him too... So yes both are still equally hurtful to hear coming from someone that cares about you but they both still come from a place of Truth...
@julianiwhite8 ай бұрын
She should’ve already known that based on her 10y side chick comment
@dariusx48298 ай бұрын
Ray Charles, at night, with shades on, in a car with tinted windows, from 10 miles away, could have seen this coming...
@louisa87998 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I am ENDED
@MsBizzyRae8 ай бұрын
I fell out!!!😂😂😂😂
@deborahlathon21977 ай бұрын
😊
@nondo2.0457 ай бұрын
😆💀💀💀
@yasmine228918 ай бұрын
He DOESNT RESPECT YOU sis , look how easy it was for him to say he will fill in the blanks. Like your sister said “ you are blocking your blessings.
@kerry-annwilliams29158 ай бұрын
Girl byeeee🙄🙄🙄 please stay together n DONT BOTHER US😤😤😤
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja76478 ай бұрын
FACTZZZ 💯
@jnunn798 ай бұрын
😅😅
@catturner12248 ай бұрын
Right 🤨
@shenquejames75988 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@S.C-s7g8 ай бұрын
Okkkkkk she dont stopit and go on home lol HA! Judge said she letting everyone know she's retired now
Exacty! I don't understand how a young woman can go away to a whole college full of men and come home to some loser that's married. TF!!
@cynthiaward45128 ай бұрын
Sister, you can't be that desperate?? You were number 2 then and you will forever be number 2..tragic
@racheliradukunda92948 ай бұрын
She was number 2 twice😂😂
@Tree3720008 ай бұрын
The side chick will never be promoted to the main chick or wifey I'm sorry. She knew her family knew we all knew
@priscillasiryon92518 ай бұрын
😅😢😂😂😂😂... my stomach hurts....😂😂😂
@gailsmith8368 ай бұрын
Doesn’t seem like a promotion though.
@CaptainMarvel19398 ай бұрын
Sometimes the side chick DOES become the main, but then suffers EXACTLY like the previous main. Even if he never cheats on her, she worries herself to death with jealousy and trust issues because she KNOWS that’s how she got him. Then, she’s SHOCKED if he does get another side chick. Willing to fight in the streets for “her” man -trying to shame the side chick for “breaking up” her home. The whole cycle is crazy!
@charleslee16444 ай бұрын
DONT SHE EVEN IF HE MARRIES HER HE STILL GOING TO HAVE SIDE CHICK
@froonamission10138 ай бұрын
God will never send you somebody else's spouse. Why are they wasting everyone's time?
@mastereight72528 ай бұрын
Dang. Bro had her as a side chick for 10 years then said, “if she wasn’t there he would find another woman “. She was actually surprised.
@moniquem37388 ай бұрын
That's exactly what he will do. He doesn't want to be alone and she was his comfort all those years. She's angry because she thought she was different than the other wives
@lillianwilliams55107 ай бұрын
Why is she still with him. He is going to keep doing her this way.
@bryanbeeman52568 ай бұрын
The longer you entertain what’s NOT for you, the longer you post pone what is…
@scottsh11208 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@tashanapink76888 ай бұрын
Preach
@talethiadavison19988 ай бұрын
He married two ladies and still never married her. She should've been gone!
@tinajackson68758 ай бұрын
Wow. Powerful
@jeanp13236 ай бұрын
Amen
@kerrywhite52538 ай бұрын
His kids didn't call him for Father's Day. That's all I need to hear,a man who may not be in his kids' lives. UNDATEABLE!!!
@tinajackson68758 ай бұрын
Exactly. That means he's a lousy dad.
@cassleahg4877 ай бұрын
He’s a lousy man full stop…alcoholics tend to be 🤦🏾♀️
@TrinaBinaBaby7 ай бұрын
This!!
@lindadewese67548 ай бұрын
She set the bar REAL low A drunk is okay with her!
@jazzy59758 ай бұрын
If settling for less was a person. All I'ma say is ladies take notes this is not what your standards should look like.
@lindawilliams78457 ай бұрын
Amen
@chanelhopeful53368 ай бұрын
Side chick for 10 yrs how pathetic 😂
@sweetsweet818 ай бұрын
She ain't going nowhere. To him, women are only there to occupy his time and be bed fillers. She's choosing this, so there's no incentive for him to change. If she was truly done, she wouldn't care that he'd find another woman.
@donnafrederick85968 ай бұрын
She's not done....
@lindawilliams78457 ай бұрын
That Part
@sharonwilkins90008 ай бұрын
Now that she is not the side chick she see what the 2 wives went through He has cheated on wives and upset kids don’t call him for Father’s Day
@dh63188 ай бұрын
His kids don't even fool with him. They don't even fake it. Says everything we need to know right there. He's trash.
@CaptainMarvel19398 ай бұрын
It’s really sad that she accepted ALL OF THAT. Cheating on wives-no problem. Kids hate you-no problem. She even accepted the drinking because it was better than knowing he has another side chick-which he obviously has! He’s number one and does what HE wants. Now, she wants magical change here in court. Never looking in the mirror
@Ddofc8 ай бұрын
She is a common law side chick
@gigibrown_wright8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja76478 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 I’m done
@simonestewart25388 ай бұрын
New term to define ppl relationship learnt today. ❤ sounds legit.
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14178 ай бұрын
All y'all go to timeout 😂😂😂
@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja76478 ай бұрын
@@tonyamscateyezmcmillan1417 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@WesleyLindsey8 ай бұрын
10 years a fool
@MrsLipgloss20258 ай бұрын
You waited 10 years, 2 divorces, 8 children to end up with a cheater, liar and a drunk. Congratulations, girl you got exactly what you waited for and you want to marry him. You need to get some help !
@suade99408 ай бұрын
I hope she does leave for her well-being. She will continue be unhappy with a person like that. Wow 10 years of your life wasted with this man?!?
@jjcsweetlady8 ай бұрын
She ain’t going anywhere. She is proud to be “the main chick” anytime you classify yourself as a main chick you are fully aware that there are others. Don’t know what her hype about graduating from side chick to main chick smdh
@poshpearls238 ай бұрын
I hope she DOESN'T. We don't need this mess loose in the damn community!! They can start together and complain to their hearts content!
@suade99408 ай бұрын
@@jjcsweetlady Interesting point of view … you might be right.
@suade99408 ай бұрын
@@poshpearls23 I understand your point. However, I do hope she does because she still young and she can make positive changes in her life.
@MamaNuveau8 ай бұрын
He's a Serial Cheater, and SHE'S A Fool.
@thayungprince28 ай бұрын
Bruh already showed you how he get down......you just didn't believe it could be you
@CaptainMarvel19398 ай бұрын
Yeah, all part of the side chick delusion. They believe THEY are special and worthy of the cheating dude. That THEY will be treated right and the dude will CHANGE for them. So sad
@Sunshine-r6s3w8 ай бұрын
SMH. She said, “now that I’m his woman”! Dang! That’s a strong woman 😂😂😂😂 couldn’t be me!
@talethiadavison19988 ай бұрын
Yeah, she's claiming to be his woman only to find out he's cheating on her with some other side chick. She's still not the only one!
@movingforward7898 ай бұрын
Strong? I’m thinking of another word 😂
@Sunshine-r6s3w8 ай бұрын
@@movingforward789 LOL Better her than me! 😂😂
@kiyonaandrews15218 ай бұрын
So what exactly does she think is going to happen when they marry 😂😂😂 she’s killing me
@carols.7428 ай бұрын
Girl please why do you even want him. Don't you see all the Red Flags girl you wasting time with this drunk
@antoniaroberts36738 ай бұрын
36?!?!?!?!?! Dude need to put the bottle down immediately
@bryanbeeman52568 ай бұрын
This is an irresponsible un- accountable ninja… Like Judge said he’s number one to himself. That’s why his children didn’t come see him on Father’s Day and she didn’t want to be around him either.
@nadeawilliams77498 ай бұрын
He's admitted also to being an alcoholic and a cheater,! Girl RUN!!
@briallecobb41948 ай бұрын
Being a side chick thru two marriage is crazy…
@charleslee16444 ай бұрын
TRIFLING
@shenquejames75988 ай бұрын
Not ahe gon be in back of the funeral with all the girlfriends lol😂😂
@bryanbeeman52568 ай бұрын
She’s been with him 10 years, where do y’all think she’s going?
@6Summerville8 ай бұрын
She not going NO WHERE!!!! And that’s sad 🥺😞
@bryanbeeman52568 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@grazful18 ай бұрын
exactly
@SweetestNya8 ай бұрын
I can think of 99 things that is totally understandable to waste your twenties on.. but this guy here?? Ain’t no way!!!!
@user-iv1yi6cz7o8 ай бұрын
KARMA IS COMING BACK TO BOTH OF THEM
@MzQueen0288 ай бұрын
This!
@CaptainMarvel19398 ай бұрын
Karma is already hitting him-lost TWO marriages and his own kids don’t want to be bothered with him. Now, it’s her turn. She’s lost ten years of life fooling around with this man. Now she sees she’s replaceable as tissue and that she’s NEVER been number one
@marquittiabradford26488 ай бұрын
The fact that he thinks he’s marriage material is diabolical 😂😂😂
@Hannahrk98 ай бұрын
Judge Lynn would have kicked them both out 😂
@shamaramozee1196 ай бұрын
Exactly
@quichequiche42748 ай бұрын
He's been married twice during you. YOU ARE NOT THE ONE, BABES. Move on. You made the ultimate sacrifice for him...YOUR DIGNITY. It hurts, but it ain't you love. It ain't you.
@NaomyP8 ай бұрын
I see the elevator doesn't go all the way up huh? She already wasted 10 years of her life blocking her blessing and meeting her husband, like she's a goofy. And him? I hope he gets back what he's been ditching out, Karma doesn't play or spare anybody.
@minervaloves8 ай бұрын
Therapy, Ms. Jackson! That will help you see that you are beautiful and have other many qualities. You deserve so much better!
@mataylor58 ай бұрын
He just has gotten old, bored and probably struggling financially and she’s the fool to put up With his foolishness
@ccm86208 ай бұрын
Girl, do better and move on. He’s a broken bird 🦢
@terribrown42138 ай бұрын
Not the crooked eyelash...l'm done! 😂
@chrisk27348 ай бұрын
he looks older than 36.
@thequitefranklyshow15188 ай бұрын
Y’all need to stay together to save everyone else from the trouble - Judge Lynn Toler (paraphrasing it but y’all get the point)
@ariamarshall51613 ай бұрын
Guuuurllll…IKYFL!!!! Ain’t no way I would have embarrassed myself on national TV like that.
@sharonwilkins90008 ай бұрын
He thinks he is husband material
@NaomyP8 ай бұрын
Delusional indeed, the fact that he even thinks that is insane
@tonyamscateyezmcmillan14178 ай бұрын
Girrrrlllll 👀👀👀🤣🤣🤣
@talethiadavison19988 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@reginaterry72488 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@nnekairoegbu23608 ай бұрын
The nerve of this side piece is alarming. 😂😂😂😂
@Kotha119988 ай бұрын
How they get you is how you lose them 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
@BB-md8yf8 ай бұрын
Don't waste anymore time.. Run !
@latoyahynson54008 ай бұрын
I don't understand why some couples are on Divorce Court when they are not married.... this is not Relationships Court.
@Mitfit4lyfe8 ай бұрын
Shes had no respect for herself for 10 yrs, he's also had no respect for her..He's not about to marry you girl
@rozzjack8 ай бұрын
That alcohol got him looking 56
@TrinaBinaBaby7 ай бұрын
True… he’s ashy, dusty and looks bloated
@candy1234444 ай бұрын
Who wants to be number one to an alcoholic? Raise your hands please. 🙄 Girl good bye and good night. 🙄
@DistantMoonchild8 ай бұрын
Immediate first reaction: LMFAOOOO 😭💀
@rhondapollard25378 ай бұрын
This girl refuses to accept the truth. She will NEVER be his priority. It's all about him all day, every day. Alcohol is him trying to settle his conscious, whatever conscious he may still have.
@kadie-anncresser92208 ай бұрын
He's not the problem, she is #yamhead
@lillianwilliams55107 ай бұрын
13:23 Don't you hear the JUDGE.YOU ARE NOT HIS 1ST PRIORITY. He uses excuses to drink.
@lillianwilliams55107 ай бұрын
Lady go on your separate way!!. He is going to cheat on her!!
@vonahlee58878 ай бұрын
Nice due Judge Star. ...and you are right. That man is number one in his life. He's in love with himself anything he does to make himself happy.
@ShanetteLewis8 ай бұрын
is she slow? girl if don’t leave that man w… why would you want to put innocent children through this?
@lillianwilliams55108 ай бұрын
He is honest he is telling her. He will get someone else asap.
@mylekawood88308 ай бұрын
She knows that she's going to have to get that karma back... So she wants him to straighten up, so she doesn't have to
@ANGELAKCLAY8 ай бұрын
Unfortunately' SHE'S Not going Anywhere!❤🙏🏼☝🏿🙌🏼
@deoncollins3606 ай бұрын
Exactly!!..
@francescamason76808 ай бұрын
When judge star said what at 1:30 I lost it ahhhh😂😂😂😂😂😂
@sheilap98548 ай бұрын
If He Is A Narcissist he's doing exactly what they do, they tend to move on Quickly before they get out of one relationship they're in another. It's A Vicious cycle!! When the judge asked what would he do if she left and he stated I'll find Another Woman!!! So she knows if she continues in this relationship he's not changing without some type of professional help!! She needs to run 🏃🏃🏃🏃
@indigochild24538 ай бұрын
He made you the main all of a sudden because he looked up one day and realized he do want a family so he’s willing to settle down, which he opened with, and realized you were still there..not the one he actually wanted but rather the one he truly is settling for just to say he has a family. Sis you can’t expect him to change when he expected you to be the same side chick you were to him for years, you assumed position and he is only into you if you’re in that position
@lillianwilliams55108 ай бұрын
Girl move on.
@nhughes11628 ай бұрын
Yes Star you are something else. Love the way interact with the couple. You give them , knowledge advice and truth ,and u tell it like it is..
@anonymousreview10498 ай бұрын
He’s having his cake and eating it too!!!
@mecah54598 ай бұрын
They deserve each other. Stay together
@p.vinson91498 ай бұрын
She aint going nowhere! 😒
@glowshow89308 ай бұрын
Folks be acting like sidechicks are aliens she’s a girl he played on he’s still playing on period
@minkki56568 ай бұрын
Wow!! Low self esteemed and value is way down on her totem pole. Let's say Zero??? She stuck her chest out and proudly stated she is the side chick, has been for 10 years!!!! How do you resign yourself to being number 2 thru 10??? Sad
@TammySanders-f2x8 ай бұрын
😂😂 so the eyelash comment judge star funny 😂😂
@inarapatton17498 ай бұрын
She ain’t going no where 🙄😂
@naturallynisja8 ай бұрын
nah the crooked eyelash comment did it for meeee💀💀💀
@indigochild24538 ай бұрын
He also won’t change for her because she doesn’t offer anything that’ll make a man want to change for the better, she’s the fun side chick to him with no standards or morals.. she isn’t the best version of herself and never has been, so why would he want to be the best version of himself for you?
@valpooh75328 ай бұрын
Right!!!
@keptbygrace62218 ай бұрын
"You're not #1 and never have been" 👏🏾
@nickia68488 ай бұрын
This is craZy!
@Nia-1a8 ай бұрын
The best part of divorce court is the end with Star Jones and Robert conclusion
@jvmcghee8548 ай бұрын
10 year side piece; but drinking is the bigger issue? no mamm'.. now that you want to settle down all of a sudden you not deserving? He tried it! He enjoys the way things were and lady you are messing it up for him. He never wanted just you- EVER! stop wasting yours and everybody time. It is what it is and if you tired of that life with him...move on because he aint the one sis.
@AwesomeKpopFan8 ай бұрын
when will his frontal cortex fully develop?!?!?!!? damn the liquor got to be delaying something up there cuz the light on in his brain but aint nobody home lmfaooooooo
@graceojewale63638 ай бұрын
I was watching her eyelashes from the beginning to the end😂😅
@valeriamontgomery47488 ай бұрын
GIRL!!! don't you see it his drinking is playing a part on these two marriage.Bye GIRL
@askrutty97178 ай бұрын
One of the jurors put both hands on her face because she couldn’t believe her ears were hearing the messy BS that she were hearing 😂😂🤣
@betterthanwealth8 ай бұрын
That girl ain’t going nowhere. 20 yrs from now, she’s still going to be trying to get him to marry her, trying to be wife number 7.
@NATIONRAWWORLD8 ай бұрын
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@biancaparedes26198 ай бұрын
She thinks she is the only woman 😩😩🙄😒
@MargieM.Jamison8 ай бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@andrewvasilyev35408 ай бұрын
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@MargieM.Jamison8 ай бұрын
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@MargieM.Jamison8 ай бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@myariete20118 ай бұрын
Sir you have a soul tie. Pray and meditate to break it!
@tinajackson68758 ай бұрын
Pray to Jesus to help you.
@KouriPrays8 ай бұрын
4:15 😂😂😂😂 what in the HAM SANDWICH….is correct 😂, because no
@miss.nita.8 ай бұрын
He's 36? I'm seriously shocked. He looks like he's 56. No joke. Wow
@nakitanewsome29248 ай бұрын
This is Hilarious and I’m only 30 seconds in… I have to brace myself! 😂😂
@antoinelewis42198 ай бұрын
Side chicks never be number one. Face it sister girl
@a.d.morton46248 ай бұрын
All she’s gonna do is attract the same thing. She needs to figure out why she welcomed that energy and stay single till she does. Don’t destroy innocent children.