I'm Too Popular For You: Aquilla Kennedy v Gideon Mba

Aquilla says Gideon's misogynistic views have her ready to leave this relationship. Gideon is from Africa and has different ideological beliefs of a woman's role in a relationship.
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[@keara3041]

This is why I’m against moving in before marriage. Per judge Tohler “ Don’t do wifely duties at girlfriend prices” AND he’s cheating on her?! Girl move around!

[@vanessakenney3144]

Yeah, I'm with Judge Toler on that one too

[@lacyedesouza2144]

AMEN… I learned my lesson from that.

[@dreamer_of_hiraeth]

I have to disagree on that one. You can move in before marriage to test how compatible you really are, but you are not his maid etc. That needs clear and crisp boundaries and good communication. Compatibility in everyday life is so so important, you should test it before marriage, because breaking up is way easier than divorcing... but moving in does not automatically mean that you do the chores and the "wifely duties".

[@danielle9635]

So wait till your married with legal ties and it can still be the same things. Paper doesn’t change ppl

[@keara3041]

@@danielle9635 I’m speaking on the fact that, why act like a wife with no ring

[@velettadaviswilliams5517]

He's using his nationality as an excuse for cheating. He might need to learn what the American saying is " When in Rome, do as the Roman's do ". There's no excuse for cheating no matter where you're from.

[@bellabelnavis4002]

“And a hush fell over Jerusalem!” 😂😂😂 I love when Judge Star says that

[@DwainRichardson]

I loved that line, too. 🤭🤭🤭

[@brittanybrown484]

He didn't say a word

[@rae2050]

Yeeeeesss! This and “pack up your pictures and your plants”🤭🤭

[@LeoSun33]

She is doing too many duties before he has even tried to marry her. She has already messed up.

[@MiguelDLewis]

SAY IT AGAIN FOR THE PEOPLE IN THE BACK SIS!

[@Zeitics]

SHE has messed up? I think he is not respectful or thankful. It is not a contest to win a prize. Stop making man the best thing there is

[@tramekn]

Amen!

[@honeywest39j95]

@@Zeitics you apparently didn’t understand the comment…🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Zeitics]

@@honeywest39j95 ignore me then

[@Remember_Eden]

I won’t be suprised if he has a family on the other side.

[@amarteyset4952]

Sure right.most of them do..wife and children. SMH

[@19GENESE13]

I've seen him in Dallas before. I'm 100% sure he is posted in a group that warns women about men like this. This is hilarious. 😂

[@roxiestarr7124]

🤣🤣🤣 typical

[@justmythoughtsjustmythough7202]

LMAO.

[@rosegreen8441]

He cheated BEFORE marriage?! Girl bye! Relationship OVER🙅🏾‍♀️

[@wallacealicia]

HE IS LYINGGGGGGG . Girl, run please run!

[@amybynum8962]

🏃🏽‍♀️ Run 🏃🏽‍♀️

[@inspiringgirl1821]

I am a Nigerian/togolese woman who married a Jamaican and the cultural differences are huge but very beautiful. And please not every AFRICAN who dates an AMERICAN is in need of a green card. Stop insulting us please. Some are but not everyone .

[@geminlove24]

Thank you. Very ignorant and divissive comments

[@saturnladee110]

@@geminlove24 ignorant and divisive comments are made about BLACK Americans all the time by BLACK people from other countries so we ALL should stop stereotyping each other. No one is innocent.

[@obimonye6706]

EXACTLY!!! Thank you for saying this sis. Many of us do NOT require immigration sponsorship.

[@irene27206]

Hey hey my togolese sister 🇹🇬

[@georgeacheampong9267]

She is very beautiful look good in the African dress

[@nannynewsviews542]

Jamaican-American married to a Nigerian and can relate to the unannounced company coming over....we had to set some boundaries

[@justlola11]

I dated a man from African and he was very sneaky and a cheater. He accused me of cheating on him with my male cousin. I asked him was he serious? Boy he was lol talking about he slept with his cousin before. Then coming to find out he was cheating on me with a white woman. Then to show you how karma works, she broke up with his ass through an email. Then this fool had the nerves to try to get back together. I told his ass HELL TO THE NAH! LOL (In my my Whitney voice.)

[@shomifochap3]

He got his just deserts

[@simonecherry]

😂

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Yea they literally too much!

[@stacyb6461]

So basically this is good test run for her to see what marraige with him would be like. Clearly they should end it.

[@MiguelDLewis]

No, it's not a good test run. They shacked up. If she would've demanded a ring from him before calling him baba, his true colors would've shown then.

[@sparklesp9304]

@@MiguelDLewis He's cheating on his wife, though, smh, so the treatment wouldn't be any better.

[@JazzyJeffRealTalk]

“And a hush fell over Jerusalem…” 🤣🤣🤣😆😆😆😂😂😂😂😂 I died when Judge Starr said that!

[@DwainRichardson]

Loved it, too! 🤭🤭🤭

[@dumebiokoba1131]

I am a Nigerian and this guy is NOT the standard... he is delusional

[@MrsRens-LionessofJudah]

It is highly likely that he has a wife in Nigeria. Woman be very cautious. Make sure he has his papers in order, many women and men are being used for that reason.

[@beedabee1221]

Star Jones shines in her new role!

[@ShutUpAndBump]

I just knew his wife was about to walk in there the way Judge Star was grilling him 😂

[@veteranbroad8802]

Me too 🤣

[@11njackson]

Great minds 😂😂😂😂😂think alike

[@malekabayoumdi2918]

Women, don't ever let any man use their culture to disrespect you and insult your intelligence. When there are misogynist and narcissistic, they will do that on whoever tolerates it. Especially, when you are not first choice, they will never make their priority, and the same way they disrespect you, they open the door for anyone around to disrespect you. It doesn't matter if you are are from the culture. Wait until he gets the lady he really likes and love and willing to do anything with, the level of respect and consideration and communication will be different. And will not be a revolving door at his house, or at least the woman of the house will get a heads up. Thank you.

[@lorraine7981]

Baba is an African word. Are we still here generalising Africa as a country. There are more than 50 countries each with multiple languages. Is "ciao" a European word?

[@jaewill2283]

I mean I don’t know which language that is but I know it’s European so yeah. People generalize when they don’t know specifics

[@faithedem4976]

@@jaewill2283 The difference is that she knows where he's from. He is Nigerian. Africa is not a singular experience/language/culture. Its irritating, I know someone from Alabama and NY are uniquely different in regards to regional culture, why is it so difficult for folks to understand over 50 countries in Africa are uniquely different as well.

[@pcarebear1]

They also say Baba in Eastern Europe and in Asia (in E.Europe it means "old woman", in Asia "grandpa or dad"). I know there are different countries but some words/cultures mix and the same words can be shared.

[@lorraine7981]

@@pcarebear1 Oh lovely, I didn't know it was used in those countries as well. The point I was making is that she generalised the word and said it was African instead of Nigerian. It's like saying baba is an Asian word when not all Asain countries use the word.

[@naturalbeauty8041]

Maybe she didn't want to identify the country out of respect and to prevent others from stereotyping Nigerians so she identified the continent instead of the country. So easy to get offended.

[@shanyialanae7115]

The SILENCE after he said it was his cousin 😭

[@aginggracefully1391]

🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@DFJR93]

The hesitation before 😂😂

[@jew-el1]

But it might be 😂😂😂

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

He more than likely has a wife in his own country, girl you better run for your life.

[@renaparker4579]

@Nneka Iroegbu, you are probably right! I hadn't thought about that.

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

@@renaparker4579 Most of them do. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BriaLoveElias]

Most of them do Anyway smh

[@adaugo]

For real For real, he thinks he is in Nigeria where he can control his woman around... Igbo men🥱🥱

[@nonilovechild5524]

FYI - Africans always have lots of people over their house, that's their culture, togetherness. Americans live more isolated lives. I have African friends and going to their house seeing 20 pair of shoes at the door is normal and the ones I know look out for each other. African men are more dominating and I looked at his face when Judge Star chastise him. He's not use to this from women. Watch out green card alert.

[@jessicatobias9371]

Truth

[@geminlove24]

Why would he need her for a green card when he's a college educated man. Don't be ignorant.

[@yah7130]

@@geminlove24 same thought

[@monamartin7844]

He doesn't like her

[@francoiskatompo]

Why do y’all assume that African people are illegal here? 😂

[@fatimadd215]

They should've discussed their expectations in the relationship before getting together. Kinda sounds like he should be with an African woman since he's so traditional culturally

[@i_am_b1anca_207]

As a Southern African woman on behalf of the others we kindly decline😂 maybe his own tribe in the west.

[@reddqueen9722]

He looks uninterested while the judge is talking he clearly doesn't want the relationship

[@Msravenb]

This show really has turned into relationship advice instead of divorce court lol

[@keshaestevan3623]

Is that a bad thing ?

[@Can-1981]

True, but alot of good advice folks need

[@cymbolichuman433]

I am sure to never believe any story when they say: "to be honest..." It really means: "I need to revise my story."

[@penelopeparks5022]

Oooh, you can have, 10 friends cars in the driveway and she can't go out with friends🤔🤔#BOB

[@amaravictoronyeka6715]

Stop stereotyping people! Thank you. One person doesn’t represent a whole group. Not all African American men are the same, not all African men are the same.✌️

[@jasmindrace]

Tell them oo

[@nathaliekapinga3255]

Sorry but all African men are the same period

[@biblosantral]

As a Haitian woman who's lived in USA for 27 years of my life every single black women coming from outside of US need to date an African-American men because you will appreciate the men of your culture a lot more especially when it comes to finance and you will appreciate African-American men for the way they just let their women be, let her use her options and things of that sort so it's our choice but just a lil heads-up about the expectations. To each her own

[@amaravictoronyeka6715]

@@nathaliekapinga3255 I’m sorry you’ve only met bad ones 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@cynthiaward4512]

She is so Beautiful and Intelligent. He is a straight lying..Men are Men all over the world..

[@MiguelDLewis]

She's as beautiful and intelligent as she is unwise and hedonistic. They both got what they deserve.

[@latanyahood5622]

Don’t nobody wanna be bothered wit his cheating azz cuz ain’t nothing popular about him other than this show

[@Myztic71]

I think some of their disconnects may be due to cultural differences, but the bigger issue is that he is shady. I wouldn't be surprised if his "cousin" is really his wife or girlfriend.

[@BriaLoveElias]

They all lies lol 😆 😂

[@I-Ray626]

It’s very true that cultural differences are part of the problem here. We all here the adage it takes a village to raise a child. Those of us from the African continent who have made it out here help quite a bit in our different communities. Yes people who just know you will call you and ask for help; and yes they will call you at all hours of the day. In this culture people are self-centered and don’t support each other. In the motherland we are part of the community and work to build that community with the little we make out here. We pay hospital bills, send children to school, support parents because there’s no safety net out there. I’ve seen a lot of American women who have traveled and experienced that. They have wonderful relationships with their African men or women. Ask anyone who has been on the Peace Corps. Let’s educate ourselves and steer away from stereotypes and generalizations. Peace

[@thevectorhouse1113]

This guy is in her home living with her and he's inviting lots of his friends in her home when she is not there, disrespectful. Girl step

[@sandrarice4197]

Love, love, love Judge Star!!! Every time I see her she puts a smile on my face. She has so much wisdom and class. She is a beautiful person inside as well as outside. I can't say enough good things about her. I love her show!!! Thank you so much for posting. Blessings.

[@peggybenjamin8290]

The Judge is On point as usual. He is a liar and making a fool over her. Kick him out!

[@shirleyrussell7089]

She should not have moved in with him that's where we as women go wrong let those men decide if they want to marry you with your own homes.

[@fashion5081]

@@shirleyrussell7089 thank you

[@Iphie2019]

It’s a case of cultural differences. I am Nigerian and he is too so I definitely understand the expectations he had. We love keeping in touch with each other, we don’t live isolated lives and to be honest it helps us with the needed support to help us cope with life’s struggles. Cultural differences can cause lots of cracks in relationships. Also, most Nigerians prefer to date and marry Nigerians to avoid cultural differences. If he didn’t want to date her anymore he should have just left her alone. We are even from the same tribe so I know how our men move. They are better apart.

[@NotYourTypicalNegro]

His foolishness cannot be blamed on "cultural differences". He's just an irresponsible and immature liar.

[@z3nkin]

Like that Nigerian man who got stabbed by his snow bunny?

[@pamelasmith7550]

They are definitely better apart, but also he don't seem to be honest

[@MiguelDLewis]

It's not cultural differences. They shacked up in college. That's against both the major Nigerian and African American religions.

[@jaynecampbell4396]

He is a JERK!!!

[@MissTish71]

Girl! RUN‼️

[@charleneparks8318]

"and a hush fell over Jerusalem"! Lord it took me all the way out! Judge Starr I love you!!!!!

[@evonjohnson4078]

Unsafe to have relationship with someone that you cannot understand their language.

[@zurigee6]

Education does not make ppl whole human beings.

[@GiGi2O11]

I don't understand men who expect women to work outside the home AND hold the household down alone as well.

[@justIvy98]

knowing damn well women back at home will NOT do that!! They come here wanting traditional African woman values from an American woman but want to her to work like an American woman... 🤔TF

[@stacyb6461]

@@justIvy98 exactly. What In the actual F!! You can’t have both

[@gailsmith836]

American men think that too though.

[@fernandes199138]

That’s most African men for you. They think of a woman as their made

[@sweetsweet81]

They would have been better as friends.

[@amybynum8962]

Yea

[@amybynum8962]

They love to have two and three different women

[@lovette7684]

This definitely sounds like cultural differences.

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

They don't have any business being together, he wants a woman from his village.

[@MiguelDLewis]

Fornbication is not a "cultural difference".

[@ObjectivelyBias]

No, it doesn't. He is over her.

[@ObjectivelyBias]

@@MiguelDLewis facts

[@christinarice1757]

I thought they should break up from the introduction alone.

[@ThatGirlGiGiNYC]

She said I started looking delicious...lol

[@Iamlindagraham]

Ah beg. There are different countries in Africa. There are Ghanaian accents, Nigerian accents, Sierra Leonean accents etc ah beg!!! Please learn about Africa and it’s different countries before dealing with our men. Cultural differences is headache. He probably cheating and she seems more invested than he is. She seems like a good woman she gotta let him go.

[@nnekairoegbu2360]

Last last after coping her money, he will go and marry his village girl. She needs to drop him.

[@MiguelDLewis]

Good women don't shack up before marriage. They both need to repent.

[@1thegreat841]

There’s different trunks accents in America yet y’all say American accents 😒😒 as a whole

[@Iamlindagraham]

@@1thegreat841 from the same country… we are talking about a CONTINENT! Nowhere near the same!!

[@1thegreat841]

@@Iamlindagraham no it’s not a huge difference because there’s still different groups of people and america is a continent dummy ! Africans make some pretty ignorant comments about america and other cultures go cry somewhere else

[@ChanelStar1]

*I would been loud in the phone “Mume is everything ok?!” 3 am is crazy*

[@marysteven1701]

He’s a liar and a cheater. Girl run

[@vanessaumes]

It’s the hushes over Jerusalem for me 😅

[@LeoSun33]

She’s getting controlled because she’s putting up with it. That has to do with ppl in general. Ive dated at least 7 African men and have never been controlled. Ppl do what you allow.

[@shay-rae138]

Lmaoooo he’s a true definition of a narcissist, sis better run 😂

[@tekumforche2160]

American women like to use words like narcissistic! insecure! but your are the ones with all these terrible characters

[@commentcomment3701]

I've learned my lesson for not doing too much for a man , he only expects more and more

[@inukoko2012]

So it’s ok for him to have atleast 10 ppl at their house w/o telling her but when she gets ready to go out w/ her friends it’s a problem because she didn’t tell him.

[@s.m6908]

MY COUSIN 😂😂😂😂… that one… LIES LIES LIES…

[@MmeFeyi2]

I'm Nigerian, why should my cousin call me and ask for money? Brah is lying!🙃

[@kwamekonadu3501]

If am going out with American woman we'll have to go to Africa for her to feel being part of my African family.

[@1thegreat841]

Don’t date American stop trying to change people date your people

[@AisheeyVerano]

When Judge said Mr MBA, that cracked me up lol. That’s not how you pronounce his name 🤣🤣🤣

[@blackbeauty3599]

Yes 😂

[@obimonye6706]

More importantly why did he not choose to correct and teach them how to pronounce his name.

[@AisheeyVerano]

@@obimonye6706 I know right ! 🤣

[@VashtiPerry]

Yes I was wondering why they didn’t correct it too.

[@Brwniee95]

Ngl that made me cringe I’m like is no one gonna say it? 😭🤣

[@erinnicole1798]

Lmao!!!!😂 CHANGED HIS NAME TO BOB! I can’t!!!!😂😂😂

[@fayejames4444]

A family member of mine had relationship with a Nigerian man and had two kids. He went home for vacation and came back with a wife and 2 kids and just ignored her. Sorry to don’t trust Nigerian men 😢

[@sparklesp9304]

I had a conversation yesterday with someone about this. They never had a feminist movement in their country so they don't think they have to respect women.

[@ccella3370]

Boyfriend?? Why they on divorce court 🙄

[@MiguelDLewis]

Social degradation.

[@zipporahcooper400]

Cultural differences is such a cop out my man Hawaiian and I'm American black with triniblood but trust issues are us issues like judge star Jones said no mutual respect hot sex can't leave your relationship with an longlasting foundation

[@adriannewaters987]

SHUNTAEEEE GIRL WHAT ARE U DOING IN DIVORCE COURT😄 DROPPP HIM!!!!!!!

[@janee3841]

I cringe each time Judge Star pronounces his last name as a spelling 😩

[@maureen9853]

He could have corrected her

[@janee3841]

@@maureen9853 yeah, that's what I said ... and also the court( Judge ) should make sure to take time to get the right pronunciation of people's names especially when it's a foreign names

[@maureen9853]

@@janee3841 Absolutely 👍

[@lizettemuna3234]

The comment was looking for. 🙌🏽

[@robbbietheim2096]

African men are known for having a harem, so him having several side chicks ,would not be surprising to me, and should not be surprising to her either, it is just a cultural risk they both took in becoming a couple, Judge Star also knew he was untruthful, about that woman being his cousin 😁💯

[@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287]

Yeah that's my dad

[@Deepespressomoon83]

I agree, with you.

[@beb5407]

@@urkelsaloneurkelbeatz5287 Stop it you sound like a fool 👀

[@diboakale3461]

My don’t know any African man with a harem. I am Cameroonian my dad did not have a harem

[@saturnladee110]

Their HIV/AIDS statistics are not a surprise either. If it is cultural to be sexually irresponsible and kill your partner, by sleeping around, I want no parts of it. ✌️ Anyone with sense would want no part of it either.

[@yvettewilliams5967]

He is telling lots of lies!!! Girl, move on! Don’t trust him!!

[@redgurl60]

It's the audience member "Are you married".LOL

[@abundancesunflower1971]

I just heard it😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

You can't tell her thay she can't go out if she "didn't tell you before hand" but you want her to "spend time with you" when you didn't tell her ahead of time!!

[@ameegbotee6837]

Girl, go your way

[@shereekern6801]

EXPEDITIOUSLY!!!!

[@briteinwilson8148]

Never be unevenly yoke in no situation..Set up for failure!

[@MiguelDLewis]

They both act like nonbelievers anyway. They are evenly yoked.

[@talktubetv6363]

I can’t believe this man is letting them call him M.B.A and not mba

[@mjay6769]

Hahaha. Judge Star and her “And a hush fell over Jerusalem.” 😂😂😂

[@deeo5577]

I didn't hear any cultural differences here. There are many American men who come on the show and expect and demand the same and even more of their American women. The cultural difference got exaggerated without any real evidence.

[@nichellenunya]

They have two TOTALLY different personalities.

[@queenb2713]

And that's the african man for ya...smh...who said are you married in the audience 🤣🤣🤣

[@abundancesunflower1971]

I think the woman in red😂

[@piggnorfleet3521]

He thought he had her seated And planted Not knowing she a whole Private 👀.. green card maybe 😂😂😂😂 it didn't take her 2 years to figure out who he is girl stop playing yourself

[@Talesofourchildhood]

He is married and raising kids in African.Its normal at his age. Run girl 🏃🏾‍♀️

[@MiguelDLewis]

1:38 "You've lived together for two of those years." PAUSE! As someone who's married to an African, this would never fly. Shacking up is a sin and not traditional at all.

[@kimberlygray7629]

THATS WHY ME AND MY HUSBAND SEPARATED HE HAD TO HAVE COMPANY EVERY DAY, BUT THE STRAW THAT BROKE THE CAMELS BACK IS WHEN 1 DAY HE HAD COMPANY AND 1 OF HIS FEMALE FRIEND YES FEMALE FRIEND CAR GOT TOWED MY HUSBAND WAS SO UPSET THEY TOLD HER CAR YOU WOULD OF THOUGHT SHE WAS THE WIFE,HE IMMEDIATELY CALL THE TOW AND WROTE A CHECK OUT GOT MAD BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T EXPECT CHECKS,MY TAGS EXPIRED BECAUSE I BROUGHT MY CAR DOWN FROM OKLAHOMA SO I CAN HAVE MY OWN CAR,I ASK HIM 2 WEEKS PRIOR CAN HE GIVE ME MONEY FOR MY TAGS HE SAID NO,I CAN GIVE MY CAR UP AND DRIVE HIS CHRYSLER I DONT MIND DRIVING HIS CAR,BUT I STILL WANTED MY OWN TRANSPORTATION WE WERE STATIONED IN CHULA VISTA CALIFORNIA AT THE TIME,SO I WENT HOME HIS FRIENDS ALWAYS CAME 1ST HE DIDN'T EVEN WANT TO BUY FOOD FOR THE HOUSE UNLESS HIS HAVE A DINNER FOR HIS FRIENDS HE WAS A VERY SELFISH PERSON.

[@leah8112]

And a hush fell over Jerusalem😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊

[@SkidCudi]

Not MBA it's a Biafran name pronounced as Mmmm ba

[@jasmindrace]

Thats what I thought. Mmba

[@kimberlymiles402]

Correct

[@shannondonnelly7985]

I'm from SA and I know African names,I knew there was no way the man's name was MBA🙄

[@chukaanyiam1429]

Igbo kwenu.......!!!

[@njudenzel4117]

@@shannondonnelly7985 u thought but u are wrong

[@antwainanderson4812]

She’s so Beautiful😍😍😍

[@Loveis_Kind]

Love her lime green dress tooo cute !!!

[@FullofSouthernCharm]

If he knew that his culture and the like was so important to him than why didn't he just date someone from his country and a woman who shares his same views in the first place and avoid all this in the first place.

[@highlyfavoured5121]

If I hear “Mr. MBA” again, I’m gonna lose it! Why didn’t they ask him how he pronounces his name? It’s pronounced “em-ba”. Very simple…sheesh!!

[@jejeprofit3595]

😂😂😂😂 I hear you!

[@viviancoleman8109]

Star Jones, you are doing a great job. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[@justIvy98]

Yes, Judge Star! The young lady needs to move on. I noticed that Nigerian men love American women, but they want to change us to be like Nigerian women and that will never work! No disrespect to my sisters.

[@pattiamoh1136]

I didn't want to be a nigerian women I love begin me

[@sparklesp9304]

Yep! We love our own culture!!!

[@ebonyhoffman4239]

first of all since you are so traditional where is the marriage vs playing house- let me guess you pick and choose traditions!!!!!

[@MiguelDLewis]

This.

[@aginggracefully1391]

I learned at a early age, that I would never date an African man. Their first lesson from me would be African American History. I don't think that they wouldn't/couldn't relate. I'm truly about my Black People, decedent of my enslaved ancestors.

[@amybynum8962]

No🙅🏽‍♀️🙅🏽🙅🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♀️

[@DE-hi9mc]

You're very right. No African man would want to date you as well,because of the reason you gave. It's a 50-50 thing. We don't play with our very deep African roots.

[@LeoSun33]

Damn, I ONLY date African men and even married one. Never been treated better in my case. There are so many countries in Africa, all the men and cultures don’t think the same. Many know a lot about African American culture and are willing to learn.

[@biblosantral]

Yeah. It's challenging in various ways, the language, when they go home for 3-4 months vacation and you're not there, as someone who dated a Nigerian and a Burkina be I got stories for days

[@justIvy98]

I agree and most LOVEEEEEE yt ppl. You see how MOST of them cried when their queen passed.... plus, a lot of them don't know enough about FBA history and I can say we don't know much about their history either but that's because they're history isn't easily known. Most of them were taught to not trust FBA anyway by the same people that enslaved us... go figure.

[@daenae4779]

I could not finish the episode. The tapping of the bracelets on the podium was driving me crazy.

[@Ace_weeks]

It's very hard for women, other than African women to adapt to African culture in the dating sector. The men feels It's ok to have multiple women whenever.

[@gapeach14]

That's why HIV/AIDS and STDs are so high in Africa.

[@honeywest39j95]

@@gapeach14 😏

[@sparklesp9304]

@@gapeach14 And they're immigrating to the US with the same mindset.

[@jeanp1323]

Did she really called him Mr M-B-A ? lol. It's not an acronym, it's a full word that should be pronounced in one go "embah". That was funny though, love Judge Star

[@1thegreat841]

She’s saying “embah” listen carefully

[@afrank1416]

He's an entitled prick. This is not about cultural differences. He has expectations of her w/o being her husband. He wants to conquer her to be submissive to him. The relationship mainly benefits him wanting her to be subservient to him. it doesn't seem to do anything in return. Just no.

[@candacebutler7011]

She is beautiful. Move on they all do not tell the truth. Dated a few.

[@amandamwaniki3735]

1 minute in..it’s Mba, like “Zumba”…. “Mba”. Not M.B.A 😂🤣

[@VashtiPerry]

How long have they been dating and she doesn’t say the name of the country he is from? Instead she says Africa. That’s a red flag.

[@hms3412]

No one is like judge Lynn cross examination, filter for BS, and on point advice

[@GreatAkudo]

Judge Lynn is the freaking best!!!

[@rosegreen8441]

Why post that here?! So rude. Toler's videos are on YT, comment there.

[@adaevelyn7837]

If you don't like it just leave not come on divorce court for someone to tell you what you already know

[@deebibi4872]

Lolll the judge call the guy mister M.B.A ohhh lord American its Mbaaa 😂😂😂

[@shereekern6801]

He’s not very like able and she seems so sweet spirited. He has a haughty talking down to you tone and demeanor to me. It would’ve been a no after I initially got to know him. She can find a man that will meet her spirit and loving ways.

[@nannynewsviews542]

Can she stop saying Africa like it's 1 Country.....its 54 countries, mam which 1 are you referring to?

[@t.c.5456]

She is so adorable

[@MiguelDLewis]

Adorable and unwise. Why would you call a man "baba" when he's not your husband? That's just backwards...

[@kdw1356]

I couldn’t stop staring she’s beautiful