Divorce Court: Courtney vs. James - Money, Money, Money

Divorce Court - Courtney vs. James - Money, Money, Money - Season 17 Episode 120 - Full Episode
Financial disorganization leaves one couple confused about their future together
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[@Lexieswiff]

She doesn't tell you a bill is due because kids dont care about bills!

[@alessiajanela]

Factssss😂😂😂😂😂

[@michellegonsalves1338]

Lol right!

[@michellegonsalves1338]

But when I was 18, I was working two jobs, my mom was a single mom of three with me being the oldest. I started working at 14 and at 15 I taught myself how to save and was able to buy my youngest brother his first bike. That’s still my proudest moment in life. 💜

[@kennethdean35]

Lol that's true

[@yolandadeleon7991]

Yeah she’s just not mature enough for a real relationship and it comes off as childish. They are both in different stages of life for sure.

[@singmrsm]

The look of confusion on the lady’s face in the grey over Courtney’s shoulder; that was me the ENTIRE case. How can you pluck someone out of high school and expect them to make grown woman decisions? Her brain isn’t even fully developed and formulated! SIR!!!!! Please don’t choose your mate from the playground!

[@brendafizer6444]

I’m seeing the whole front row on both sides looking confused!!! #WOW

[@rosahurd6620]

When I was younger, I dated older men. They were financially stable. I earned my own 6 if they did not want to take me out, it's okay, I can take myself out. But for him, depending on an 18 year old( whom he was definitely sleeping with) IS VERY RODICULOUS.

[@marybethjordan8520]

I love looking at the audience

[@JudeGliz]

Her face was actually annoying tbh.

[@shushuwu]

She seems like there’s a vacancy upstairs!

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

Developmental delays across the board.

[@catherinewhitman8333]

Only because he's thinking with his down stairs!!! 😡

[@nannynewsviews542]

He is getting everything he asked for…. She was 18!!

[@beverlyvantull8452]

Yaaaaazss, Say it again for those in the balcony seats 💺

[@user-yx4eh9tr5d]

I disagree. If that's the case she gets what she deserves also. Age does not equate wisdom and young doesn't equate immaturity. She stated that in her testimony she got with him at 18 because HE had things going for himself. So why is it okay for her to choose him for status but he cant choose her for her youthfulness

[@marydavis7894]

She's a child. No business being were she is

[@Crissy.y19]

This is a good example why I believe big age gaps in relationships do matter. Yes they’re both adults, but they have many different view points on multiple things because of experience and maturity.

[@twilderlm2559]

Any relationship can work when the communication is On Point👍🏽👍🏽

[@johnadams4938]

No communication!?? At 34, she 22, what do they have to communicate about😮😮

[@johnadams4938]

Maybe if he take her back to the sandbox, where he found her, she’ll feel more comfortable being in her environment 😂😂😂😂 at 22, she is, and doing what 22 yr olds suppose to do, he made the choice to marry a child, be careful what u wish for, u may get it

[@superblessed2956]

She is weird and so is he. This was hard to watch. I can't.

[@Tony29103]

Notice how many people clapped when she said "he can get his own coffee"... like 2....

[@gailsmith836]

He could have. But I usually make coffee for both of us.

[@Tony29103]

@@gailsmith836 Well when he works and she doesn't... Get yo ass up and make him some coffee. I'd say the same if it was opposite and she was working and he wasn't

[@gailsmith836]

@@Tony29103 I make coffee for us both because I’m making coffee for me. Why would I only make one cup? Even though I have a kuerig ? I would make 2.

[@JudeGliz]

@@gailsmith836tf are you even talking about rn🤣

[@gailsmith836]

@@JudeGliz you can’t follow a conversation thread?

[@cadillacdeville5828]

He knew damn well what he was doing and she was lackadaisical from the jump 🫤🤨😒🙄🧐🙄🙄

[@shawn6618]

30 and 18??? No Sir! And if he don't have his business together...... She needs to get herself together as well!

[@latresabaker6850]

She wants him as a sugar Daddy and he wants a wife. There is no love from either person to another. He's being played and he doesn't want to walk away.😮

[@bihtazuh6601]

He played himself. What do you expect from an 18year old girl?

[@BREEZYM6015]

I'll give a woman financial stability but I'll be in charge of paying the bills and our bank accounts will be separate. That's just how it's going to be.

[@grouphomegoddess]

He played himself! A.child...

[@jprice1928]

He wanted to make a child a wife, put her up in a apartment she don’t even know how to care for herself yet smh a damn shame

[@drewhaynes1874]

he wanted to wife a 18 yo?

[@NewOrleans_KeyKey]

Judge trying her hardest to make sense of this 😂

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

So am I 😬

[@shandhawoodard1211]

Me too!

[@JayDee-ut5yg]

To be honest I wouldn't walk 2 miles to my job either!!! That is a great way to come up missing this day and age!! Judge really is old school!!😂

[@unbeknownst2mee929]

If that 2 miles is the difference between homeless and paying rent I'm definitely walking

[@_stlouisLady_]

Age does not equal maturity. They both are clueless in regards to expectations.

[@laryearlo]

Ok, Her i think her elevator does go all the way up. The doors just dont open

[@rantallaboutit]

I’m just trying figure out when people are going to start holding these very grown men who are chasing after teenage and “barely legal” girls accountable. 1. It’s predatory and gross… “but it’s legal, she was 18” just because it’s legal doesn’t mean its right. Would you be okay with your 17/18 year old child/sibling/friend dating (being groomed by) someone 12+ years their senior. 2. At 30 what could you possibly have in common with a teenager? I’m 21 and I don’t even have anything in common with most 17/18/19 yr/olds I meet. 3. Most teenagers aren’t going to be able to take care of a household. What did he expect? If you want a wife… marry a woman not a girl.

[@mamabearj785]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 couldn’t have said it better myself

[@ceciliahoward2699]

Judge Toler said SILLYVILLE😂😂😂

[@candazec.7049]

What TF is a 30-year-old man doing with an 18-year-old? Something tells me met her BEFORE that and groomed her into thinking he could take care of her. I have the ICK. Girl, get out of his house, go back home and go back to school.

[@JudeGliz]

I’m starting to believe you ppl just love saying the word Groom … like shut up she was a legal age and she wanted him, let it go

[@Reddit_Tales2]

Exactly. They most have dated before 18 then as soon as she was legal she moved in

[@vanessalynch5996]

Sometimes you do what you have to do when you want something. A lot of transportation don't take you to the door of most jobs.

[@theone2n3]

She talking about him being responsible but did she forget it's her responsibility to get her grown tale to work no one else's 🤔

[@joe-dante9036]

What does a 34 year old want with a 22 year old? That's not a good look. They need to find people a little more close enough to their own age

[@Can-1981]

It was actually a 30 year old wanting an 18 year old😤

[@joe-dante9036]

@@Can-1981Same thing, that's sick

[@greatone275]

So when an older woman has a relationship with a younger man its called a preference, she has it going on, blah, blah but when its vice versa its called sick, 🤔

[@joe-dante9036]

@@greatone275It's sick in general, everybody knows that, duh!

[@greatone275]

@@joe-dante9036 so Cher and Madonna are in their 70's and have 30 year old boyfriends what's that ?

[@tmston2]

He like getting that 18yr old 🐈, then when the fun wore off now he wants her to pull her weight, like judge said she jus young and lack real life experience

[@ronniem3592]

She has a good point when she says he's 34 and he should be the responsible one in the relationship. She was just a teenager. Stop messing with children and be a man

[@rebeccadincher9049]

They should BOTH be responsible. They are both adults, so one doesn’t need to be more responsible than the other.

[@thisismyinferno]

He got with her when she was 18. It never should have happened. Shut it down before it starts. She's immature because he is. She knows her parents and him.

[@naanra301]

Funny that 22 here shall mean she is a „baby“. Sorry but she is 22 and she behaves like a child yes but she is no child anymore. With 22 she shall know that she has to work!! And if she wants to have a sugar daddy - she should know what a sugar daddy means and sorry but she is absolutely not attractive or smart enough to get a real sugar daddy. She had to learn that working is the way to make money AND the way to stand on her own feet!

[@robinnelson18]

@@naanra301 thank you. When it comes to women their babies but let that be a 22 year old man..

[@movingforward789]

But this point suggests he should do everything and depend on him and do nothing. More proof that she is moving more into the golddigger/lazy zone.

[@naanra301]

Sorry but what I do not get is - she has a 🚙 car. She said he was driving her car without a license! WHY can’t she take this car to drive to work?????

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

My thoughts exactly!

[@Alesana907]

He had wife expectations from an 18 yr old that hadnt experienced life yet. Date her if you want, shes technically legal but why move her in?

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

She has vehicle but can't find a job? This whole case is so confusing! She's all over the place with her comments. They need to say goodbye and move on with their lives!

[@07stringbean]

She is and was a child

[@kokoniqueful]

I’m not walking 2 miles either if it’s Texas heat or Denver cold. That’s a two hour walk chile

[@dunkinjunkie5868]

But she now has a vechile and still doesn't work!

[@njc9776]

People do it every day when they have to make ends meet. She either needs to get a job or be on college.

[@alondra_missi]

Yeah. No idea where she lives, but walking alone for 2hrs is asking for a young woman to go missing. People getting SA and R out here where I live and has only escalated after covid. Just not a good idea to walk alone morning or night...

[@Jmeadows5g]

Isn’t two miles about a 30/45 min walk?

[@ambzcloud]

I feel no sympathy for dirty, grown men chasing after teenagers. Whatever pain or struggle he got from her, he deserved it. Stop trying to scoop up and control teenagers and then expecting them to think and behave like 30 year-old women.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

You know she approached him right 🤨 That's why the beginning of the video the guy was saying that I don't know she's young.....

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

And what makes this man dirty he looks pretty clean and spiffy in this courtroom to me So does the girl She looks pretty clean....

[@NyleveRenee]

She looked numb from the neck up. And he should have married a mature adult.

[@jaehortonluvgarden]

Bless their hearts

[@n.b98]

If your not working and not taking care of the house what the heck are you doing!? I was out at 18 and always had a clean place,unfortunately I've always had nasty roomates that didn't want to help so the weigh was double! And still had a clean home. Tf

[@donniee.2238]

Hmm. Those eyes and that blank look on her face says a lot about the blank way in which she presents

[@16331733]

Just maybe. I think so too.

[@chefwhitneynothouston8124]

Thc?

[@Corinacc825]

@@chefwhitneynothouston8124 what is THC ?

[@kokoniqueful]

She looks like she’s been abused or traumatized in some way

[@ayannawilson9963]

I think she's nervous

[@peppermintt3879]

They are both blowing in the wind.... She's not ready for responsibility OR marriage and it seems all he cares about is having a young wife and a second credit score to use.

[@ladyt9181]

Something wrong here. It's giving very weird vibes.

[@mmmfun77]

I see auras. I agree. I get the creeps

[@sweetsweet81]

She was attracted to his supposed stability...aka the financial status. You can tell they do not love each other. This is a marriage of convenience

[@gailsmith836]

Give up Judge Tolar. These people both have issues.

[@kathynodolf8393]

He wanted her as 18, moved her in. She is a beautiful girl, innocent, and less experience in life. She was just a teenager. Grown man got what he wanted and then got bored quick! Talking about 2.5miles walking before get to the job…and then working all day, and walking back home in the dark!? He should find away to make it workable for this young lady if he still care! But no, blamed on her. He picked her too soon like the judge said. She lacks of communication, she didn’t speak much! Poor girl, find your way out of this mess.

[@alondra_missi]

Say it louder for the ignorants in the back! He wanted a piece of a not quite child, and wants her to magically have a 30yr old woman's sense of responsibility. Smh some men love to chase after the younger ALL for sexual reasons, but then when the other 23hrs of the day are chaotic...they want to complain. 😒

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I kind of have to disagree with a lot of people because there are so many people that get emancipated in that are very successful people in this world stop putting age in front of everything She knows how to clean up behind herself She knows how to read a map she knows how to get a job She doesn't want to do that stuff we have to hold women like this accountable...

[@PrincessZaire100]

@@A_Well_Traveled_Manwhen people get emancipated, they’re usually EXTREME circumstances that lead to that decision. They also have to show that they can a.) care for themselves, or b.) someone to care for them. And that still doesn’t mean that person is mature. She was 18 and he was 30. She had just graduated high school at that point, so what made him think she was gonna be ready to be anyone’s wife, let alone live in girlfriend. He’s complaining about her being immature and not having any bills in her name, which is DUH. She went straight from her parents house to his house

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@PrincessZaire100 probably one of the only people that actually understand what I am stating here Yes he knew what he was getting into getting with a girl that had just graduated high school so I do blame him on that... But the exact same time she knows how to pick up behind herself at least have basic home etiquette... Age has nothing to do with that! And if she doesn't know that kind of stuff then it's a very sad look on her parents as her parents have failed her if she doesn't know how to wash dishes or clean up on herself at home...

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@PrincessZaire100 also too if you look at my other statement that I made a long time ago you can clearly see that she does not love him she loves what he does for her and he was just taking advantage of that situation also too so they're both wrongs in this we can't just always say that the man is always wrong... As you have so many women out here stating that they wouldn't date a man that makes less than $250,000 a year... And taking them on exotic trips at least four to five times a year... As so many women want to not have to lift the finger have maids and butlers and drivers and all they have to do is sit there and look pretty and not even have sex with their supposed husbands.... But still want the best that a man can provide Make it make sense...

[@thisismyinferno]

Hes with a CHILD! SIR, WTF ARE YOU THINKING?! leave these children alone! Gross!

[@andreacarter2108]

All that moving in place she is doing and lack of thinking with zero understanding and awful communication. She’s like a 9 year old.

[@kimberlyshantel13]

She busted wanted him to take care of her she’s still immature

[@elainecrook6674]

Her thing about I quit my job coz his Dad wouldn't drive me anymore...girl!!!!! YOU HAVE A CAR AND I BET THERE ARE BUSES!!!

[@gailsmith836]

But. But. The bus drops her off 2 miles from her job.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@gailsmith836lol😂

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Yes definitely this is a woman that hasn't really grown up and she's always had things handed to her You can tell she's not used to actually working for things... I blame her father for making her a sweet little princess and not actually raising her up to making her a woman

[@highpriestesstati2495]

2:11 that one clap🤣🤣🤣

[@Darksecret_23]

Both slow

[@RacieRain]

What did your parents say, young lady? 🤔 He gets what he gets. Dont try to date an 18 yr old when you are 30.

[@BreeLvee]

She Was Clearly Freeloading. Thought She Had A Man To Take Care Of Her While She Did Absolutely Nothing..

[@BREEZYM6015]

She didn't want to walk 2 miles to work? I've had to walk nearly 9 miles home from my work on a few occasions because we didn't have $2.00 for me to take the bus home. And this was in the summer when temps are over 100 degrees in Las Vegas. If you're single and want to quit a job because you don't want to walk or take the bus then go ahead and quit the job but if you're in a relationship and are expected to help pay the bills then you better do whatever is necessary in order to get and keep a job.

[@rosahurd6620]

A single person will do what they have to do to survive. If they are single and only enter a relationship to be taken care of, sadly, they will not tell you . Normally you find out the hard way.

[@tjordan7419]

The engine's running but it doesn't seem like anybody is at the wheel.🤔🤔

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

This case is really simple 🎯 She doesn't love him She loves what he does for her! And he is trying to make a wife out of a teenage girl

[@catherinecossano5263]

Ms Lockerbie should look into a bus pass. She could bring her bike with her; some busses have bike racks, and then she could ride her bike those last couple of miles... 🚴‍♀️

[@lavandermaro1401]

She's a perfect example of a woman who goes in a relationship to be taken care of... No other reason than being comfortable living with someone else's money😅😅😅

[@movingforward789]

Yes from parents house (cared for) to older boyfriend to be cared for!

[@alondra_missi]

EXACTLY!! Barely legal can be appealing for some men, but sniffing out someone fresh from HIGHSCHOOL and expecting them to know how to take care of grown folks business when they don't know, or have done anything on their own long term yet. Just Foolishness! 🙄 Let the 18-25 run around and learn to survive on their own merit and responsibilites before trying to marry them. 😅

[@Crediblevideos]

At 18 years of age, you could vote for the President of the country and laws to be passed in the country. But you don't know how to care for someone outside of you 🤔

[@RacieRain]

She wasn't a woman in the beginning. She was 18. And he is predatory. Get someone your own age.

[@karmengreene9611]

This is the most loveless relationship I've ever seen

[@konsciousKirk]

Idk why grown men like these young girls. It’s a bit sick

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Why do girls at 21 like 55-year-old men I think that's disgusting

[@tiarahhorne7353]

Damn,she don't wanna do nothing..won't walk 2 miles to a job,an won't even get up an make her husband a simple cup of coffee..while he get up for work an make money for yall household..shes definitely not wifey material

[@gailsmith836]

They are not married

[@mosthatedfmp5676]

Yup and here comes my headache at 1:59 into this one im lost I hav so many questions and afraid to ask them hopefully they will answer them without me needin to ask smdh just wow already

[@jeanettebennett2421]

She seem a little slow

[@80scooliehighh]

That lonely ass clap in the beginning 😂

[@cherylannrampersad5153]

She does not love him, she looking for a sugar daddy. How is she driving a van, she could drive herself to work.

[@clairemeysam1478]

That girl is a child so he deserves all this stress. Off topic but I would love to see Judge Tollers whole necklace collection😍

[@leahmcqueen589]

Something's off with her and if she acts this way at 22 I could only how much worse she was at 18, he's sick and wanted somebody to mold 🤢

[@jaxx1352]

I was 17 when I met my husband and moved in and all and I was a wifey 110% had my own car had a good job by then!! I am now 35 and still with my hubby and being the same wifey lol

[@PillzBerry27]

She needs to grow up knowing yourself in life and having a plain what is your future. He is a simp getting her but he's acting like a kid.

[@jackieo8672]

I’m officially Drained!!!

[@deborahblackshear3325]

These folks are batzcrazy

[@sandramartez6472]

my son is with a girl who will not work and he has been with her for over 10 years, she cheated on him and get pregnant and she still will not work and take care of her child, she do cook, she do not clean, i had to help take care of her child.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

She must be holding something major over your son's head because most guys will have left a situation like this and you are a great mother to take him your grandchildren

[@cherylannrampersad5153]

Yes, he is right, you not working but you can't assist and support your man. What kind of woman are you?

[@savtrill333]

The woman in the gray blouse behind the girlfriend face is snarled up looking crazy

[@jj5469]

I think he is a good guy and he just probably looking for someone to love him and help him out around the house and to have a stable job. I think the problem with her is, she is lazy and dont want to do her part, because she feels its not her responsibility and she expect for the people who she relied on to be her taxed driver. I think its best for him to move on and forcus on himself before jump into something he is unsure about. She needs to go back to school and get a job and to growup life is too short and you only live once.

[@t.sangrini]

Something is off and it's not with him🤦🏾‍♀smh

[@gailsmith836]

They are both off.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Everybody always want to cuddle the woman and I'm so glad you made this comment here because it is something wrong with this girl it seems like she has like some kind of mental breakdown or something like that but you can definitely tell she was pampered as a child because the basic things like the judge said make coffee for your man This is not very hard these are things you do as a polite person.. .

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@gailsmith836And you're way off base... That's not even with this comment was even directed towards If you really look at this woman she says very few words and he is stating that this is what the major issue is in this situations that she doesn't talk... Most girls at 18 are running their mouth like crazy You can't get them to shut up- lol😅

[@Spiritfingers45]

Maybe I’m reading things wrong but I’m not liking the dynamics between these two. He’s 34, irresponsible, doesn’t have a license, makes excuses, and puts her down. It seems he wants to put everything on this child. And yes I say child. Just because she’s 22 she obviously very immature. He’s a predator. If she was my child I’d be taking her out of that damn household. I’m too disgusted.

[@gailsmith836]

So, I know what bills are due when. He doesn’t know? This is very silly.

[@shevonanderson1343]

She seems very off to me 😐

[@gracelikerain5039]

Strange case

[@jerrybutler3117]

She is fucked up. She is supposed to be his help meet. If she's not working, you should be there to support her man emotionally and socially. Marriage is about roles and responsibilities.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

The problem is that you're a man and you're thinking with logic If you look at this whole comment section here under this video all the women are saying that this is a disgusting dirty old man.... When it takes two to tango..

[@shambregray9092]

This is crazy 😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

[@michelekurlan2580]

Everyone is parenting and paying for the pouty little daddy's girl🙄 Poor judgement prevails. "No communication" IS communication...she is his Delilah

[@RacieRain]

Amen 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Judge Toler is the best

[@ronaldcassetana9400]

The creature comfort.

[@teresamcbrayer2549]

Why does she need a ride to work if she has a car, that he's driving

[@PoliticalWonderland]

She’s Sloooooowwwwwww

[@stacycarmichael1270]

They both seem slow to me …

[@stacycarmichael1270]

When he was 12 he was in the 6th or 7th grade.. she was in the hospital as a newborn …. I mean 🤯

[@catherinewhitman8333]

Stop trying to make someone your daughter's age ...be a wife !!!! It's your fault ..shes a kid you're a grown ass man!!!

[@karenjones7794]

Send that girl back to her mama and daddy is not ready for the real world

[@jew-el1]

She’s a child…

[@FeeMack-qu1ic]

Besides the most obvious....somethings off 🤔

[@Amo888]

Predator became the prey 😂😂😂😂 I don’t feel sorry for this man 😅

[@dshannasander-ip2qo]

Please break up this episode was sad! Nobody seems happy.

[@DaniWoodson1]

Where were her parents??

[@prettybrown3829]

Walking 2 miles.. 30 mins a mile .. you do math.. young lady walking by herself.. you do the math.. asking to b snatched up..I’m in Texas.. it’s 111 most days.. he thought he hair a young stupid piece of tail that was gone b dum but it didn’t go like he thought.

[@gailsmith836]

20 minutes a mile unless you are crawling. Are they in Texas? I walk 2 to 3 miles a day for exercise. And my miles average 16/17 minutes a mile. After working a full time job. I’m 67.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

​@@gailsmith836💪🏾👏👏👏 You got her right there when you said that That's the reason why it's been more than 24 hours and she hasn't given you a response... These girls want to be coddled all the time and not be held accountable for anything The fact that you're 67 years old and are able to walk 3 mi after work in a full-time job shows you the level of ignorance in our young community

[@Corinacc825]

They actually make a good couple, they both are weird !

[@serenalampkin8241]

I’m getting Gold Digger vibes!!!!😑

[@tib1632]

This is a mess. Break up

[@naready7050]

I think they are a little slow.

[@highlander666]

They're both awful

[@efisenchi8856]

She needs a bike .

[@mmmfun77]

All it seems she wants is a daddy to take care of her. She has a creepy vibe. Strange and not in a good way

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I think you're the only woman in this entire thread that actually is calling this woman out everybody is saying that it's the man's fault for all of this and he should pick up the bill and take care of this woman...

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

And she is creepy... She doesn't seem like she wants to say a whole life which you already know what happens when people that don't talk a lot it must be hell at that house

[@PrincessZaire100]

She has a creepy vibe, but not the man who was macking on an 18 year old at the age of 30

[@blackpowerpuff6155]

Why tf is he with an 18 year old for?