Divorce Court: Kiaira vs. Justin - Gender Roles

[@dymondbaby6487]

A woman give up her EDUCATION to give a man a back rub and to stay home with him all day. Lady u need to run ,your loosing your mind.

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

I don't think that's what happened. She said she was focusing on him a lot & her grades were slipping & he offered to let her come stay with him. She quit school bc she wasn't interested in her education & now she wants to blame her lack of ambition on him just bc he enabled her laziness.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

@@OSMRDucksLIB why you don’t have more likes than this? You hit the nail right on the head

[@dannielleyelder]

That man is surely delusional. He wants all the credit with none of the work. Sis can do bad all by herself. Hopefully she did what she needed to do

[@kokoniqueful]

Exactly, Reminds me of Malibu’s Most Wanted 😂

[@hflorida3]

Did she?

[@chloetkach4751]

I was unimpressed with his clinginess and insecurities in the beginning, and downright done with his sexist nonsense a few minutes later. If I were the girl, he'd have gotten whiplash from how quick I'd have booted him to the curb! Nah-ah, we in the 2000 century, no way would I be enabling that crap. Run girl, run! And get some self-respect while you're at it!

[@emilyfeagin2673]

“ Men come and go but an education lasts forever “ That should be carved into a bracelet and given to every girl before she reaches her first birthday .

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Well you know a man really does not care about a woman's finances in a comes to a relationship because it only makes a relationship worse especially when the woman out earns the man That's why most men don't care about finances so actually worrying about going to college should be the last thing on her mind She should be worried about getting into a stable marriage or relationship after she graduates high school...

[@alondra_missi]

Wow! Spoken like a true Narcissitic controlling individual.👏 Keep the chick uneducated and unable to provide for herself financially without you; to keep her low and unable to leave when you act out (cheat/tear her down emotionally and mentally/or whatever redpill messed up action you decide to take). Sounds like you are unable to have a partner of equal standing or above because it threatens your own inflated ego. Whatever man you are is bound to be an abusive relationship where the woman has to be submissive to the point of not being able to function without your control (who knows, there are quite a few broken women out there right up that alley). A barefoot house slave, pregnant (the best financial trap for women to be stuck in a relationship), and less capable Yikes! Or maybe you just troll in Divorce Court comments. Keep doing you. Reminds me of my controlling narc mother and that took me AGES to grow a backbone after that brutal chokehold. Avoiding men like you is key to not regress back into being a doormat or a pretty ornament to be tossed aside for a younger female object to use later. @@A_Well_Traveled_Man

[@tj5087]

She must’ve been desperate because this dude was honest about his laziness, clinginess, insecurities, sexism, messed up financial decisions, and overall loser tendencies

[@emilyfeagin2673]

Maybe she saw “ potential”. I made that mistake too

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I had to say yes very much so you hit the nail on the head 🎯👏

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

A lot of ladies say that they want honesty and here is a man being very honest and then she goes and complains about what he says how he is... She knew from the start that this man is a controlling narcissistic person and he was very upfront honest with her about it I can't even get mad at this guy....

[@susanrodriquez1024]

He is a piece of work no doubt, just leave the guy!

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@susanrodriquez1024 now you know these are the type of dudes that most women go for... God forbid that she closed for the guy that actually had his head in the books and maybe sat around and watch anime when he was a child now they want to go for the pookies to Ray Ray's the controlling dudes so I really don't have no cares about this woman She did it to herself

[@azaeternal3593]

Wow he’s annoying , no accountability

[@ayefo7800]

Yikes! She made a baby with that😬😬😬😬

[@ElemenoP95]

His mental state is that of a pre teen. We all know his issues, she knows his issues, the judge knows his issues, but the only person who can do something about it, refuses to see his issues. Therefore, no issues will be fixed. And if she's in love with him, I can bet she'll find someone else to be in love with just as much if not more.

[@keoraanderson459]

Everything the judge said went over his head 🙄

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Yeah it definitely did over his head because he is who he is and he has told her up front exactly the type of person he is and she still decided to get with him So just like a lot of the women in the comment section here I can't get mad at this guy..

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

The old saying is so true " You can't handle the truth"! She probably was dating pookies and Ray Ray's and then got tired of being with them and said hey let me date a white guy You can tell she went for the same thing that all women go for except that he didn't have the money part😅

[@ebonyc3751]

He’s manipulative. I would neverrrrr have dropped out of school, like you wanting me to be around all day means you don’t have anything to do. Up you ambition, priorities, dreams, aspirations. He don’t have a job aka you have to pay for him and you. She was infatuated with him being white. Struggle is struggle no matter the race. No no no this is not it.

[@sweetjanuaryangel2279]

Preach!!!

[@yeshathegardener]

Laying up in her parents home!

[@wordplay6665]

He said no and yes to every question. It’s up to her to decide if she wants to deal with his mess. He is who he is

[@dwighthudson8588]

I am still baffled as to how a woman ends up marrying a boy like this… 🤔

[@gailsmith836]

Right. Where’s her mama.

[@spieldose]

Judge's dad had a genius IQ - no wonder he had such amazing children.

[@Commentraider3]

The way Judge Lynn READ HIM ‼️‼️ spot on

[@jprice1928]

It was very well deserved. She tried her best to get him to get it.

[@shirleyrussell7089]

He wants to feel superior to her once a person CHEATS most of the time that KILLS the RELATIONSHIP and AFFECTION

[@ronnimartin7033]

I would LOVE to learn an update about what they're doing now.

[@emilyfeagin2673]

I would think she is doing well and he is still sitting stoned on a couch somewhere

[@ronnimartin7033]

@@emilyfeagin2673 one can only hope.

[@poshpearls23]

I would too!!!!!

[@OfficialMIKA.]

This was fake they my cousins

[@ChibiChick25]

This dude did not say a single thing that made sense. The desperation for a man is strong with her.

[@doloresturner6094]

She should have kept herself in school instead of saying that he's the reason she doesn't have enough money in life she is just being lazy and getting a contact high from him like leave him go back to school and get paid 🤑

[@thisismyinferno]

He wants a mom. He wants her to take care of him and be happy about it. Hes never going to find a job and keep it.

[@tonyacavness3115]

All I think every time he talks is "who raised this idiot??"

[@emilyfeagin2673]

I don’t know. But they sure did raise a lot of them

[@manitacassis616]

😂😂😂

[@keylacmckemp1309]

I think she is a bigger one, though.

[@deborahblackshear3325]

Girl leave him and don't look back. You gave up your education. Why are you there.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Because she thinks that she can change him That's why... He told her who he was in the beginning and she still continued on with this man so she lost all credibility right there.... If I tell you that I work late every night I come home at 3:00 a.m. from my job and then you get mad at me for coming home at 3:00 in the morning from working and accuse me of being out with another woman This is the same thing that's going on in this case.. He told her the truth and she couldn't handle it

[@sweetsweet81]

He is not a traditional man. Period. He's the one who cheated but he's insecure. I hope she took the judge's advice and got away from him.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Yeah I hope she takes the advice but she most likely isn't she's one of these women that think that she can change her man... Like trying to take the stripes off of zebra and turn it into a horse It's never going to happen...

[@ChantelD8159]

He's Dizzy.... the way he says it's not necessarily blah blah blah, and then follow up with proving the judges point...

[@chachos96370]

Judge Lynn Toler, I just love your car example! Classic!

[@NyleveRenee]

He has an answer for everything & none of them makes sense.

[@r.d4597]

He wants a “mammy”. This ain’t slavery days!

[@crystalkimble7018]

He has no sense of accountability. I hope she left this manchild/BUM

[@JohnJones-lp2pp]

He played her to stop schooling so he can control her and do has he please.

[@Regalem3]

Why the hell did she have a kid with him him? He says he can't cook and clean but he isn't paying all the bills and taking care of his family? No job is beneath him if it'll provide, and he had the audacity to cheat? He's trash🗑.

[@shirleyrussell7089]

She needs to go back to school, if a man has a family he works where he can until he can find a better job, and get there own apartment or house she needs to leave him she can do better. Car analog GREAT.

[@Ms.nys716]

Run honey run!

[@keylacmckemp1309]

I knew a young girl that neglected her education to hang out with her man. She regrets it to this day. I got a bunch of degrees and hubby makes 3x my salary with his high school diploma. Life is crazy.

[@elizabethashton-ogarro3212]

He is stressing her out, I'm sorry for you sweetheart. Just keep moving.

[@Tree372000]

This sad he made her quit school because he is insecure that's a damn shame.

[@johnadams4938]

She had the option, to quit, or not, the final decision was hers, nobody can MAKE us do nothing we don’t want too, not vouching for him or his actions, take care of SELF

[@keylacmckemp1309]

​@@johnadams4938preach

[@marybethjordan8520]

He didn't make her quit school.

[@foramoreperfectamerica8490]

Cooking is a woman's job. Sir I would like you to say that to Chef Gordon Ramsay's face.

[@sonias.7856]

HE DOESNT GET IT

[@neshamarie3093]

I'll never understand women who put themselves in positions to deal with men like this. But i'm glad y'all got them, because I don't want them.

[@TwilaB0721]

I don't feel sorry for her. I guess she might have thought the grass would be greener on the other side. He was her slave master.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I would definitely change your wording because you don't want to get taken down by KZbin but I understand exactly what you mean and she signed up for it willingly....

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I mean I can't even get mad at this guy because he was upfront and honest about the whole thing and she still went in and tried to change this man... So her whole point of coming here angry is a mute point because he told her up front That's like son and the prenuptial agreement You already know going into it that you're going to be splitting assets

[@andreacamille3918]

Ancestors looking at her with bombastic side eye 🙄 he had 400 years head start and still poor 🤔✌🏿🚶🏿‍♀️

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@andreacamille3918 Yes she's bad all the way around...

[@thebarbieinvestor5428]

I hate to think like this fr!! But she did! Thought she was doing something😢😢😢

[@kokoniqueful]

She’s tired of his broke dustiness. Plus had the nerve to cheat. That’s why she can’t respect him. He doesn’t deserve her respect.

[@latashaepps1060]

If run fast was a person. 😢

[@crystalkimble7018]

He made my stomach TURN!!!

[@KeepitReal-sf7rg]

She wanted a son, he wanted a mom they are emotionally insecure for each other. She wanted to change him but that's a brick wall

[@AlmondJoie]

16:57 So he makes bread, keeps the bread that he makes, but still asks her to give him some of her bread so he can buy his weed. This reminds me of a song! 🎶"Everybody plays the fool sometime, there's no exception to the rule ..."🎶

[@unbeknownst2mee929]

How he making bread with no job? 😱

[@AlmondJoie]

@@unbeknownst2mee929 Same as others who have no job.🤷🏽‍♀️

[@2400md]

She’s the issue- she’s allowing the foolishness- she’s no self esteem or respect for herself- people will treat you the way you allow it

[@bryanbeeman5256]

Whoa, whoa, whoa! What are we talking about here? She said he made her quit school. He said he didn’t make her quit school. Now she’s backtracking and we’re not gonna address that?

[@highlander666]

Maybe thats why im perpetually single, i wont let anyone control me🤔 he's so pathetic & hopeless; such a drain on her

[@mayasilliman1465]

Run girl!

[@tearapowell3780]

He was sooo cringy i wanna say white privledge is his mindset and hes gone b like this for awhile and honestly he aint gone b in not one happy relationship u less its with somebody who has nothing

[@smithcarr7495]

I hope this woman found the love she deserves. And i hope homeboy found a new barber😢

[@briallecobb4194]

He should be ashamed…girl run far away

[@mzslee2011]

She puts up with him because she has low self-esteem. She can't keep her head up!

[@billyb2122]

What does she see in him?

[@emilyfeagin2673]

I’m sitting here thinking the same thing. Maybe I’m just too old to see it?

[@tashathomas1714]

I don’t see it at all! Nothing appealing! Zero!

[@estherrodriguez3782]

I don't see the point of her trying to make a life with him. He can't keep job, he's living with her family, he doesn't do housework and he cheated. And he does seem to have basic common sense. Sister, you can do alot better than this nonsense.

[@johnadams4938]

WTF, yes, we’ve all heard it, tomorrows not promised to us but, how bout living like it is, if we make it to see tomorrow, at least we’ve made plans for it, if we don’t, we will never know smh

[@annkneeter7059]

You thought it was cute that he made you quit school. Something wrong with you.

[@janayh2817]

He’s delusional! She’s a fool!

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

Why wouldn't necessary say he's delusional I would say that he has misplaced values but he's honest with her about everything even here in the courtroom he said that cooking and cleaning is a woman's role and traditionally that is actually true... Keyword traditionally a lot of you ladies are not traditional anymore... And this is a traditional man that doesn't have any money That's the main thing that's wrong with this dude

[@bryanbeeman5256]

This man is slow in all definitions of the word. How did she get entangled with his guy?

[@KathleenPMartin]

Oh Lord I made it the part where he don’t think he can help clean and all the other BS… I read the comments it was enough for me.. but I will say what was wrong with her nothing about this BS is attractive 🎤down I’m done

[@wordplay6665]

Wake up and call Him a puputt😂😂

[@eucetteoreste5794]

He's a loooooosssssssssseeeeeerrrrrrrrr

[@Abstract_flow]

My guy to be a man is to put the family before yourself, to come home every now and then change a diaper to spend time with your wife and kids even at time when you are tired. To take jabs to the chin in jobs you don’t like until you find better, to make sure the family always feels secure. You are not a man but a little ass boy playing grown up, your job is to take those life bullets and slaps so you’re family can always move forward safely and have a secure future. Relationship and family is hard work, if you can’t hang don’t have a family until you come correct

[@corrinnerogers6124]

Hello everyone

[@unbeknownst2mee929]

I struggled with this episode. This man..........is all I can say.

[@tameerwilliams]

As far as I can tell, no woman wants to live with her parents more than her man. If she wanna stay with her parents, you ain't doing something right

[@annamariegowithme]

What a Bum, what good is he , doesn't help with the baby, doesn't keep a steady job, doesn't respect authority in the workplace got you living back with momma and bums money for weed

[@bryanbeeman5256]

He’s not rational. Now he’s missing not just the engines. He’s missing the engine, the doors, the hood, and the deck lid.

[@markPwilliams]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her

[@JanMuench467]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back

[@markPwilliams]

@@JanMuench467 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@JanMuench467]

@@markPwilliams Her name is queen stella laveaux and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@markPwilliams]

@@JanMuench467 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@motivation-hd7mw]

My 12 year relationship ended, I loved her to death but when she wanted out I let her out and never looked back, the most high blessed me with another one with the like minded spirit ASAP I still get nervous thinking about it to this day is she really who she shows me she is right now, just remember the woman is on lifetime probation and if she changes so will her status with me, it's simple 🙏🏿✌🏿

[@MAMA-ci1zw]

She got my Son. Girl be careful you ain't gun down

[@belindamiller9822]

She's his slave!

[@daniellem.6794]

My God!! How in the world did she make a baby with THAT!!! RUN!!! Hunny, RUN!!

[@JackJobs-uy5xt]

Hi this young lady need to run he is not good man something is wrong with this young lady how you can quit school for man 🤣

[@marcusmiller7138]

Judge tells powerful story of a real man working below his paygrade to reach his ultimate goals while providing for his family. This Guy: yEa....BuT i dOnT AgReE.

[@kareenwatson6084]

I surely wasn't going to quit school. She quit school for someone addicted to weed. Lord, help us. We are our worst enemy, and then we blame God and others.

[@atalkwiththebosslady5430]

I loved them 😅😅😅😅😅

[@shevonanderson1343]

Ma’am wht are you doing he’s a walking red flag 🚩 smh there’s nothing attractive about him, mentally, physically, emotionally!!!!! He’s literally telling you he ain’t sh%t wht else do you need to hear 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@royaldominionauthorityglob4813]

Sad, just sad.

[@AdenaIsrael]

Of course he would want her to quit school. She is better than him in every way! Sis repent and get you one of our Israelite brothers!

[@sweetbeauty2153]

Frfr!👏A RESPONSIBLE, hard -working, faithful and loving Israelite!

[@AdenaIsrael]

@@sweetbeauty2153 ❤️🙌🏽

[@mariannemcgee6262]

And Mr nasty is a cheater too!!😱🤯 And he can’t keep a job and living with her parents!! I’m just shocked over this creep!!!!!!

[@gailsmith836]

Wow. She needs to leave. How is he paying for anything? With no job.

[@bryanbeeman5256]

This man is my uncle Billy. That’s sad that’s truly sad. SMH.

[@TruckerGrl69]

She got the worst one out that trailer park....SMFH😢

[@vivinethomas7091]

People your comments are killing me and it’s early morning.

[@TheCreoleSon89]

Wants a traditional home living in the house with his in-laws and not able to maintain meaningful employment. Did I get everything correct?

[@JackJobs-uy5xt]

Hi if her black man was doing this to her age would call the police long time,

[@doloresjack8365]

I get slavery cibes

[@jasonbourne5142]

Ice ice baby

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

I guarantee you if this man had a whole lot of money that she would not be bringing this to court at all😅... This is all about money

[@OSMRDucksLIB]

Most divorces are caused by 2 ppl who have unequal financial literacy.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@OSMRDucksLIB That will be in a perfect world I wish that the world really worked that way

[@vivinethomas7091]

Not about the money. She was just young and stupid and now life is catching up with her or I should say responsibility.

[@A_Well_Traveled_Man]

@@vivinethomas7091 you must have never been married to a woman before

[@RachelNHarrison]

She was still with him as late as January 2023

[@lawandajohnson4404]

“No need to save money because tomorrow isn’t promised.” Yup. Broke people say stuff like that.

[@lauratrujillo583]

That man lives in slave days .. unbelievable..she let's him too...her parents are probably going nuts with them

[@bryanbeeman5256]

He’s done more than weed

[@futuredefpoet]

Not for this saltine

[@OfficialMIKA.]

Y'all this was fake they my cousins

[@aprilshines9521]

This guy… 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@30fery94]

Lazy man😢

[@stellarvgurl]

If she is at her parents house for the need of a comfort zone, that means YOU sir does not provide her comfort.🥱🧐

[@beans-w78]

There my 's my cousins this is fake lol 😂

[@gracie4200]

Out of all the Casians in the world, you had to pick this one he doesn't even seem like her type. This is why before I date someone, I ask a lot of questions, and if it doesn't match its not going to click 🫰