Do All High School Sweethearts Think the Same? | SPECTRUM

[@jubilee]

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[@isabelflores1282]

The way Stephanie still gazes at Nestor after over 30 years is precious.

[@Random-sk6hm]

This is all I've ever wanted

[@pranavkottur9031]

@@Random-sk6hm facts

[@IchGluckspilz445]

Thats what you get when you marry a virgin. No soul ties with other men. She's yours 100%!

[@shaynaasamoah1731]

@@IchGluckspilz445 ok.. women are not something to have and this whole virginity thing is so outdated. Grow up.

[@ninahauer350]

@@IchGluckspilz445 so with that logic are you a virgin? Bro I’m telling you please take a step back and really realize what you’re saying. You’re possibly limiting yourself to the best love of life just because she’s slept with someone before in the past. The past doesn’t matter, but what does is the present. Don’t skip out on happiness because of an immature belief

[@kayleighmason9603]

they should do “do all divorced parents think the same” or “do all kids of divorced parents think the same”

[@adelaideralston7411]

Seriously!

[@thunderx3005]

Romans 3:23-26 amen 🙏🏾

[@1luvvsari]

YESS

[@jaycarroll623]

I will go and do this

[@jininberry8204]

The kids one! It's crazy in middle school I was probably the only person whose parents were together. They're still together after almost 40 years! All my siblings married their first relationship too.

[@amberfirexx9]

i feel like we need harder hitting questions...shouldve asked if they've had criticism from family and friends, if they feel like they grew up too fast, if they wish they'd dated more people

[@yoonglie]

i agree about the dating more people question. my (ig high school) partner and i have been thinking about this question a lot. we love each other so much and it’s scary to think that we’ll probably go out and see the other fish in the sea, but we’re both coming to terms with it since we’re so young. but that question for people who have known each other for so long, it would clearly have different answers and would be eye-opening

[@Ceerads]

Jubilee doesn’t ever hit too hard. Pablum.

[@sadomi6657]

They are there with their partners. I think some of those question wouldn't have been answered honestly

[@Ceerads]

@@sadomi6657 Agree.

[@Random-sk6hm]

@@Ceerads they sometimes do

[@LivyLoveee]

When Vernice rubbed Stephanie’s back to console her.. I immediately cried. That was absolutely PRECIOUS.

[@davidf.plays5]

I love how they have different age ranges, really shows that love doesn’t change

[@m3cha131]

what do you mean by that🤔

[@cigaftersx]

@@m3cha131fr ur pfp was my reaction this this comment💀

[@thewellpreppedfather8861]

Would love to see “Single Moms vs. Divorced Dads” or “Custodial Mothers vs. Non Custodial Fathers”. This is the conversation that needs to be had.

[@would_could_should7833]

Yes

[@adelaideralston7411]

They should also do a “Do All Children of Divorced Parents Think the Same” one. My parents started a messy divorce process while I was in college, and it was unexpected in so many ways.

[@thando2966]

This is more of a middle ground typa content but yess!

[@thewellpreppedfather8861]

@@thando2966 Yeah, I got that. Been posting on everything they release…

[@noel-hs9yr]

this perpetuates an untrue stereotype though

[@vanessa-rv3wm]

they slightly touched on rough patches but i really wish they had talked about the years that they may have been long distance, most importantly staying together through college. long distance can truly make or break a relationship and as someone who is about to be in a long distance relationship with my highschool sweetheart, i would’ve liked to hear these couples’ thoughts on those busy and separate years

[@jinkleborg]

i'm currently long distance with my highschool sweetheart and honestly in my mind i never really had enough time with him. we'd be in school together but we'd never have the same classes, only this one shared study hall. he'd walk me to some of my classes but still it was always fleeting. and his parents were too strict to ever really allow him out of the house, so we rarely hung out outside of school. now he's off to university while i start my last year in highschool. the issue for us, and neither of us ever really fight, is that we miss eachother desperately and we are traversing through a growing relationship with growing people without ever getting to see eachother. the only thing we can really do is hope for the next time we meet with bated breath, you know?

[@meganguest]

I'm currently in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart. it's so hard but so worth it because of the love we have for each other, and every time he's back in town, we have the absolute best time together. sending you and your sweetheart all the strength and love ❤️

[@DestinyInMe]

Had this conversation yesterday and it was clear she is not okay with long distance

[@yeahhobbs]

it’s best to just take a break so no one feels trapped and when you finish school or when you guys can get together again start it back up if possible.

[@kaylituh]

@@yeahhobbs Taking a break opens the doors to them (or you) finding someone new. Unless you’re okay with that & would still consider getting back together after them mingling in the single world, I’d advise against it.

[@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat]

I started crying when Stephanie revealed about her 4 children in Heaven! Thank you all so much for being so open! Much love! ❤️

[@FerretCuddles]

"I started crying..." Of course you did.

[@CaptainBlitz]

Not to ruin the moment or anything but how does she know they're in Heaven? How does she know there *is* a Heaven?

[@nendu4316]

@@CaptainBlitz chill bro

[@liviavanvlissingen3919]

@@CaptainBlitz because she believe that there is a heaven where her four kids are living different beautiful lives

[@nendu4316]

@@CaptainBlitz like im atheist but just let her believe what she wants. it gives her peace and grief is hard.

[@inframinced6698]

Nick and Saskia's love for one another is so palpable.

[@Ahmed-pf3lg]

You can tell that Stephanie is a very sweet and caring mother/wife.. her husband is lucky.

[@ashleysmiths7871]

And Nestor honestly seems like an amazing person. I'm very happy for them!

[@krystalmendez2994]

Stephanie/Nestor and Chun/Vernice are so cute and seem to have such wholesome relationships full of love 🥺

[@olugboyeopeyemi2428]

And Nick&Saskia don't???

[@aceris5874]

Hearing everyone talk about the rough patches is helpful. Particularly the one woman, Saskia, speaking about how she felt it could've been easier on her partner if they broke up because of her mental health struggles. I'm actually with my high school sweetheart, almost 4 years now (we didn't get together until college, long distance) and it can be challenging sometimes because of our different mental health challenges and just generally growing up. And not being in physical proximity for most of the year. I worry a lot about bringing so much negativity into their sphere due to my mental illnesses, especially in the short time we do get to be in physical proximity with each other. But I'm trying to be proactive, leaning on other branches of my support system, checking in often with my partner's needs too. This video gives me hope

[@iammarv]

This could literally be something I wrote word for word. This video and your comment gives me hope. Thank you

[@paulwaltersheherfeministvl521]

NO, NOW YOU LISTEN TO ME! why should i waste my time at school? i am super famous on youtube. tell me, dear ace

[@KvnDWr]

Love the older couple… they’re hella cute. Would like to see more ppl their age

[@asamabry]

all these couples are so adorable! i love how the couples were smiling at each other and it felt like they genuinely loved each other. i am also in love with venice, she gives off so much positive energy🙏🏾

[@dakotac180]

Vernice is a ball of gorgeous energy

[@samu-chan]

XD

[@nanaomg]

these relationships seem so healthy i love it

[@ghostdoll]

omg hi 😭

[@nanaomg]

@@ghostdoll NO STOP I COMMENT TOO MUCH😭

[@ghostdoll]

@@nanaomg I WAS SO SURPRISED TO SEE U HERE LMAOO

[@ms.cash332]

There are people who feel bad for not having a high school sweetheart, but I didn't even have my first kiss in high school 👁️👁️

[@trevorbeaverfan]

Same here. I feel like high school sweethearts are like Romeo and Juliet.

[@ms.cash332]

@@trevorbeaverfan fact, I don't believe I have the luck or the patience to believe in the success of love at this time in life

[@mewesquirrel6720]

I didn't have anyone crush on me except some weirdo

[@mygreenshoes]

senior year of high school and haven't had my first kiss

[@taopanda98]

SAME JHAHAH

[@graceholgerson5527]

Should’ve asked them about settling/staying because it’s comfortable or because that person is kinda all they have known since they were pretty much kids and are afraid to lose that person/be alone/find something new… that’s what I wanna know from highschool sweet hearts😂

[@mikiefambro]

Me and my husband aren’t high school sweethearts, but started dating when we were 19 (so, close enough). After the first eleven years, we hit that patch that you’re talking about. Like, is this really my person, or is this just the only person I’ve had? So, we took a break. After 18 months, we came back together sooo much happier, calmer and stronger because now we KNEW. We’re now on year 17 (it’s our anniversary today, coincidentally) I like to say that we chose each other as teenagers, and then had choose each other as adults. Best two choices I’ve ever made.

[@yuli4882]

I started dating my bf when we were 16 and i will soon be turning 20. I honestly have no feeling of settling. We both have very honest conversations with eachother and i think its about knowing you choose eachother everyday. I know I could find someone else easily the same way a girl would be crazy interested in him, but we both love eachother and I know I would survive without him but if i want a life partner i really feel he is the perfect person for me. Of course i still want to keep learning and travel and all that but i feel i want to experience those things with him.

[@kaitlynbyrd13]

My husband and I have been together since we were 14 and 15 (now 22 y/o) and we have no feelings that we have just settled because we’re comfortable. The saying “when you know, you know” sounds so cliche but I believe you truly know when you’ve found your soul mate. Everything in life started to make sense since we started dating. A lot of people think high school sweethearts stay together because they’re scared, and I get why, but it’s WAY harder to put in the work to keep growing with each other and working through issues in the relationship than it is to be single.

[@aracelireyes3986]

@@mikiefambro why did you choose on year 11? Is it because he had yet to propose or because you were both mutual on not wanting to get married?

[@gabygranada]

All the couples seem very loving! Specially liked Vernice And Chun so cute together! 💞

[@m0neymarii]

Me too !!

[@vicdonahue4364]

Vernice and me be cuter tho

[@toyintoy]

@@vicdonahue4364 omg,do you know her lol

[@vicdonahue4364]

@@toyintoy I know her well enough 👹

[@goblindeeznuts]

Vernice is so cute

[@ACC-2929]

I wish more married couples would have participated! I married my hs sweetheart. We met thru mutual friends but we went to diff high schools. I think the fact that we based our relationship on mostly phone conversations, and they were deep conversations, that we knew within a short time that we could possibly spend the rest of our lives together (we were only 15/16). People thought we were crazy. We went thru so many ups and downs, yet here we are so happily married for almost a decade with children and a loving home. We did everything so traditionally… dated, went to college, graduated, got married, bought a house, started a family. Faith has been a center focus of our relationship which has helped us tremendously to keep our marriage strong.

[@miyukuchan22]

Same thing here. We met at 15 but went to different high schools. We are now married and have one son. We had our ups and downs too but we are still going strong and happy!

[@heehee5472]

I love seeing some positive highschool sweetheart relationships at least on the internet because real life experiences of other people are so messed up.

[@Ceerads]

Yes. And this video is far from reality.

[@b0y_in_str1ped_shirt36]

@@Ceerads technically not cuz it happened to these people, but I get what you mean this paints a picture that it’s easy to find the love of your life

[@Ceerads]

@@b0y_in_str1ped_shirt36 Yes. And omits most of the conflicts and complexities that many relationships have. Yes, they all alluded to some difficulties, but there was something overly lovey-dovey that irked me.

[@tater82]

I married my high school sweetheart, moved in together the day I turned 18 (was still in high school) we got our own place and later got married. Been together 19 years next month. ❤️

[@Zedd...]

@@tater82 congratulations ! ♥️♥️♥️ that's wonderful, I hope your love and your bond only grows stronger and stronger !!♥️♥️

[@leonardocardoso1627]

I loved Vernice's personality. Also I came back to edit this comment and add that her hair is awesome as well;)

[@Random-sk6hm]

ikr

[@Melanie-jy2nw]

That eye makeup was so well done! I’m jealous! Would never be able to do that!

[@VLP_7]

my favorite couple is definitely Vernice and Chun. they said they never thought they would break up, the way they look at each other is so sweet, and their answers lined up pretty well (for the most part). i just think they’re really sweet.

[@luf4rall]

They're still young.

[@catalinarossi]

Mhm. Chun is so cute! Vernice is also cute, in her own way. 😊

[@Blahblahblah94]

@@catalinarossiin her own way? Such a backhanded comment

[@cleo8169]

the way these couples look at each other are giving me life 😫🖐

[@isham7920]

Wow grocery store couple straight out of a Romcom LOL

[@Random-sk6hm]

hallmark movie vibes

[@d3adpool472]

the older couple is just so cute and wholesome!!!

[@ava1772]

this might of been one of jubilees most wholesome video where everyone seemed happy and got along

[@coolerthandragons]

I immediately clicked on this video to see what other HS sweethearts thought. I'm a middle school sweetheart of 8+ years (we don't even know when we truly started dating just that it was 6th or 7th grade lol) and soon to be married to him, but it was really great to hear that other sweethearts went through difficulties, rough patches, and almost broke up, etc. but came through it. It was also great hearing their advice for building a family, something I really was interested in as well. Thanks for having this spectrum group! I learned a lot from it and it was great hearing their life experiences and such and how they came from it. 😊

[@Random-sk6hm]

congrats from England

[@marvelousTUD]

That older couple was truly so sweet and inspiring

[@chavem]

Wow, this might be my new favorite Spectrum group - just overall so healthy and wholesome 🤍

[@rhyannonsparks1457]

As a high school sweetheart, I was very interested in what they all thought

[@nenechi4ever]

i dont really care

[@AidanAce22]

@@nenechi4ever 😭😭

[@S_J_banana]

@@nenechi4ever same tbh cause I'm not a student

[@irenesbaes]

@@nenechi4ever LMFAO

[@fresh.prince7472]

@@nenechi4ever I care I'm gonna ask her out

[@elleng577]

i'm sad i never got to experience having a high school sweetheart

[@trevorbeaverfan]

Well there's always someone out there for you, even if it's not a high school sweetheart. Life happens!

[@parmispasha4131]

it’s not that thrilling

[@emilyvera8538]

That's because you're watching a video with happy couples on it🤗 idealize less and live more, you'll be happier 🫂

[@HouseMDaddict]

I don't think I'd be where I am today if I had dated in high school, much less found a long term boyfriend there. None of the guys in my high school were my cup of tea or they were gay. Only two couples from my graduating class stayed together (one has been together since 8th grade in 2003). The one from middle school has two kids and they just moved back to the hometown, but they also had the money to make the long-distance relationship they had in college bearable (the girl was in Spain while the guy was in NY). The other couple, is a military couple (marines veteran), stayed in our hometown and live life with no desire for kids, have a lot of cats, and they travel sometimes. Both incredibly happy couples. Actually, I forgot one. There was one more that was together from middle school (7th grade, 2002, 20 years) as well and they just married a couple years ago. It's impressive they're only early 30s and have already been together 20 years.

[@rymc3437]

That’s not really different from meeting love after high school… I mean love is love after all 🤷🏼‍♀️the time when you meet your other half don’t have importance

[@RooHue]

My husband and I have been together nearly 10 yrs, married for 5. I’m 26 & him 27. It’s an indescribable experience being with someone who has watched your entire development as a person and knows you so deeply.

[@abigail6394]

9:18 the young lady in leopard print comforting her 💕

[@yvngarmz5984]

This gotta be the most Wholesome video on the entirety of KZbin. All the beauty in these relationships in people who have just found someone to devote their life to, despite any hardship is really uplifting to see. Many blessings to all of them!

[@RambleMaven]

I’m not sure if this would be considered HS sweethearts, but my parents went to the same HS and saw each other but hung out with completely different crowds. Shortly after graduation they met and got married young at 19. Ppl would say they were too young and didn’t know what they were doing been married 29 years now about to be 30 this year in September!! Very much so still in love. This might be an interesting perspective, but although my parents never pressured me to get married young it does feel odd to get past the age your parents got married and still be unwed/ single. You feel a certain can potentially feel like a failure. I’m past that point in my life now, but I thought it would be interesting to share.

[@ig2965]

not considered high school sweethearts but a lovely story

[@vanilla1353]

How did they meet??

[@malenaboy]

I have a distant cousin who’s been getting married in a couple of months, on her wedding website, it shows their relationship from basically middle school until now mid to late 20s, and how much they actually spent apart, but still came together for the big events. So it’s really interesting to see this video.

[@Ellieprez]

The oldest couple talking about having the best time and the happiest when their children are around is everything I want in life. I’ve been told that there is no love like the one for your children and I can’t wait to experience that! Love to see it, makes me also understand my parents when they see us.

[@Alondux1000]

I’m a highschool sweetheart as well! We have been together since dec 2014. We’re engaged at this moment! People always told us from the beginning that we were only a young love. We also somewhat believe that because we still needed to go to college. The Internet always throws statistics and stories about people who will not end up together if they begin their relationship from a very young age. But…it worked for us. We helped each other to grow up and be a better version of ourselves. Is my favorite person to be around! Even going to the groceries is fun when I'm with him. Is strange and wonderful to meet the love of your life at 15, and here I am planning a wedding for next year. I'm very glad for this episode!

[@nessim.8252]

Congrats on the engagement!! Lots of fun planning the wedding, too xD

[@Random-sk6hm]

''Even going to the groceries is fun when I'm with him'' this just brought a tear to my eye. This is all I've ever wanted 🥺

[@Alondux1000]

@@nessim.8252 Thanks!

[@Alondux1000]

@@Random-sk6hm I'm sure you will have it;) life can be very surprising!

[@alexesquivel8566]

Why u gotta brag tho when not all of us are that fortunate -.-

[@muaoribia4140]

Wish they would differentiate between "love" and "infatuation." The lines tend to get blurred there, especially in today's culture that emphasizes that only FEELINGS matter. Feelings aren't the only, or even most important thing about real love. Feelings can come and go--hence ppl falling "in and out of so-called love"--but real love, true love, works through that. Hence things like, "for better or for worse." ;)

[@AshleyGilland]

I kinda wanted a few more controversial prompts, like "Most relationships could work out if people didn't give up on them," or stuff about soulmates and "I could've been happy with someone else"

[@AshleyGilland]

!!! I'd also LOVE to see Middle Ground with high school sweethearts+ either divorcees or couples that met late in life

[@AshleyGilland]

One more: Middle Ground or Spectrum of couples and divorcees that got married young arguing about whether they were too immature

[@deemah3602]

What is that second prompt 💀Yeah, of course, it’s obvious that there are plenty of potential matches. But what’s the point of voicing that?

[@AshleyGilland]

@@deemah3602 I find that a lot of high school sweethearts who never experienced heartbreak are more likely to believe in fate/destined soulmates and “the one”/“true love” and may think that their current partner was always meant to be with them, no other way. Not everyone thinks that way, obviously, but I think it could be healthy to acknowledge regardless.

[@neleyapringles7957]

I've been with my high school sweetheart for almost 5 years (since grade 8) and now with the huge changes in life; college, moving out of my parents house, he's got a full time job, etc. We really have grown into adults (loose term lol) together and we use the future we want together as a goal to motivate us through all the hardship that life throws at us. He's my rock, even when it gets tough and we miscommunicate.

[@ClaireEliseLumiere]

This one really tugged at my heartstrings, these couples are so over the moon for each other, it's so amazing and inspiring to see the fulfilment and determination that these people express out of love. One of the better videos Jubilee

[@jeremysmith9694]

Family really is all that matters I cried through this entire video. Thank you.

[@Ceerads]

One can make a family from friends, too. Birth family or couple family are not the only families.

[@DeclarationOFPolitics]

This video is so adorable

[@saginevital-herne3750]

Y’all should “are all late bloomers the same?” Back in my senior year of high school, I remember my Economics teacher told the whole class to not marry your high school sweetheart because how are you are now is not how you’re going to be later on in the future. I’ve seen so many happy high school sweethearts though

[@luf4rall]

It's true that we aren't the same people we were in highschool but that's ok. I met my wife in highschool and we've been together for half our lives now. We aren't even totally same people we were when we got married but we grew up and changed together.

[@isabelmoore1024]

you change a lot from your teens to your twenties. but you also change a lot from your twenties to thirties to forties and so on. you have to learn how to grow together

[@katiebeane-fox8808]

You should do one with long distance couples, I feel like that’s an area that this video missed and it’s something that defines my relationship so much.

[@ShesooBreezy]

Stephanie is blessed to have a great influence where her parents and family were high school sweethearts.

[@nobodyexceptme7794]

We need a 3 to 5 year follow up

[@Ceerads]

Yep. Considering how many couples break up eventually.

[@Miavoli]

Arrghhh my heart! They are all so sweet together!!

[@Zen-ft5fj]

I feel like with doubles they should be blindfolded, then after choosing a line they take it off. It just seems like some of the couples are hesitant to do a different line when compared to their partners

[@katelynncheyanne2937]

I met my fiancé when I was 18 and he was 17. We got engaged after 2 months and we’re living together about a month or 2 after that, a lot of people consider our relationship to have been rushed but I don’t know for us it was just like when you know you know. Coming up on our 4 year anniversary next month ❤️

[@pancakebears]

stephanie n nestor seem so wholesome 🥹 they all seem like great couples

[@ForeverGhibli]

For me personally marrying someone from high school would just feel extremely awkward 😭

[@trevorbeaverfan]

Yeah I feel like how we all move on from high school and not live in the past but marry someone we went to school with. Seems pretty ironic to me.

[@tierefuerimmer9635]

Not necessarily even though I've never dated before. But if you have a nostalgic personality and if you start catching up with someone you didn't know well from high school and they're also nostalgic about high-school a friendship / relationship can definitely blossom out of that

[@awespiringscience]

I think it would be interesting to do this video again but with unmarried high school sweethearts to see what they think their future will be

[@camilleh6272]

It looks like only one of the couples is actually married though

[@gillettepr]

I'm 26 married my highschool sweetheart at 18. We have been married 8 years and together for a total of 11

[@daquonsimmons8240]

married at 18?? wow that is early lol

[@onimoney]

How would you say your experience was like, marrying at 18? How London had you dated before? Any challenges with growing up? Would love to hear

[@TeaLemay]

Waiting for “do all long distance couples think the same”

[@Ambi1021]

I love Vernice and Chun. I follow them on tiktok. They're such a sweet couple.

[@lauran.9575]

What's their tiktok?

[@Ambi1021]

@@lauran.9575 @vernice_wats

[@UnfrendlyBlackHottie]

Lol they would be a TikTok couple

[@mimosasseat9860]

RIP to the couple that lost their 4 kids

[@tvish2739]

OMG VERNICE AND CHUN FROM TIK TOK I LOVE THEM LITERAL GOALS 😭😭😭

[@salems.bytche]

I- ugh. I feel like this was very affirming for me. My bf and I are MIDDLE SCHOOL sweethearts. Long distance as well. We met at a band camp. And we both graduate at the end of this upcoming school year. And yeah. :)

[@ChristineChang20]

that is so cute omg

[@marienovelli2228]

Same story🫶

[@heehee5472]

Still children. Hope y'all last unlike stereotypes

[@praisemakalla211]

🥺🥺🥺so sweet How’s it going ❓‼️😊

[@imsadlol4528]

yikes lmao

[@isabelalewellen]

Y'all should do "kids raised with both parents vs raised with one parent". Being raised with only one parent it would be interesting to see the differences.

[@mirandachumee1410]

Met my fiancée in High School. I asked him out senior year and even though we had our ups an downs he has helped me grow so much as a person and I wouldn't change it for the world. Been with him happily for 10 years

[@briannaochoa3651]

cried so badly when stephanie talked about building a family 😭

[@xoxoamazingful]

Everyone in this video is so sweet 😭😭😭

[@lisagriffin8221]

When they said ‘travel 10 minutes to see each other to see each other every time’ and I have to fly 8 hours (I live in England and he lives in California) to see my boyfriend - I felt that 😭 I’m happy for them! Can’t wait to get there ❤️

[@toff1568]

I feel you. For me it’s 13 hours (Germany and Canada)

[@lisagriffin8221]

@@toff1568 Stay strong fellow soldier 😭 For LDR couples between California and South Korea it's 18 hours!! What routine do you guys have in place? We talk every weekend and during the week, after 1am my time but text all the time

[@Random-sk6hm]

I'm in England too and I stg I want an American boyfriend so bad. American boys just hit different 😭. How did you guys meet?

[@toff1568]

@@lisagriffin8221 omg, 18 hours is even worse. 😳 We mostly talk in my (Germany) evening hours, which are her (Canada) morning hours. She works mostly in the evening so it works out for us really well. That might change soon but we'll make it work anyway - and obviously there are always the weekends! It's so nice to hear from others in similar situations! 😊 How long have you been together?

[@RadMad789]

It so nice to see real love. Not some happy fairytale not some dramatic soap opera.

[@bluishblow]

6:29 i think this sums up perfectly. choosing to be in a relationship is the real deal because sometimes life happens and priorities change, but you have to evaluate if that still makes sense to you and you want to keep that person in your life and what both parties have to comprise to make that possible

[@valw7422]

They all have such an obvious joyful glow radiating within them. I wish…

[@braylinlayne2576]

just graduated hs and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. growing up together can have its rough patches 🤷‍♀️

[@tonyping2262]

That’s really cute to still be married to your high school sweetheart! Loved their responses to those questions and everyone’s personal opinions!!!

[@autmnleaf406]

Thsi was so sweet and heartfelt, especially when the saksia and stephanie opened up about their struggles and vernice shared her aspirations. I t was so lovely to see a range of ages and stages of a relationship

[@Melyxt]

I lovee how diverse these couples are ❤️

[@kealiiamaoli]

this one was pretty wholesome

[@alexrice1870]

Strong monogamous relationships with plans for the future are underrated.

[@reav173]

This video was so wholesome I loved it😭

[@cecart]

This made me way more emotional than I thought it would.

[@okiemokie3357]

The rough patches can be very hard to get through, and I wish they talked about if they wished they had more partners to gain experience from. As a highschool sweetheart whos only and first partner is my current one, I feel like I could have learned from past relationships

[@aspacepilot8582]

I will never forget a story a teacher at my middle school told about 2 seventh grade students he had that got into a relationship. He was happy for them but he didn’t really think they’d stay together because yknow, middle school. Then, like ten years later, he met the two of them, still together, off in different colleges, one oversee about to get married

[@amberfirexx9]

...they had their son in between them, pulling on his arms while they fought, and they told that as a romantic story about how they stayed together after that? are these people okay?

[@Ceerads]

They were honest. I wonder if the others were.

[@onimoney]

It was more of a defining moment for them, not romantic since they said it was their worst fight. For them to share that just showed that they overcome it even as bad as it was, and now they are older and still have love

[@sophiabernard3158]

I would love to see " Do all long distance relationship couples think the same?"

[@saoirseviolet9284]

Chun & Vernice are so cute!!

[@goblindeeznuts]

Yes

[@daquonsimmons8240]

why?

[@shino8854]

Vernice and Chun make such a cute couple, their offsprings are going to be beautiful af.

[@-----------g-]

I really hope they all stay together ♥

[@gilliebeann]

I loved how everyone was so transparent!! Like, no huge egos and all around so wholesome

[@lu-fr8oo]

Im not with my high school sweetheart anymore but we are still very much connected. We were friends as kids, lost our virginity to each other. Other people come and go but our friendship is non negotiable. I think first love can have a really special power. Happy these people seem to have been able to keep that power at the center of their lives.

[@Grace-xl3ih]

as someone trying to make a high school relationship work going into college, I wish they asked if they went to the same college

[@sawaalbino]

This is the sweetest episode ever! I am happy there are couples from different ages and milestones!

[@iloveyoudawg1]

just married my high school sweetheart after 9 years of being together, just cool to watch other people who started where i did and see how the feel about being together so young, i know i wouldn’t change it for the world!

[@Tonnnnia]

Darn 4 here and 4 in heaven. I felt both her joy and pain, joy for the ones that are here and gave her the opportunity to be a mom, grandmother and mother-in-law but pain for the ones she lost who she will never get to nurture and see grow.

[@bilinguishmichael]

i think it would have been interesting to see a same-sex couple in this

[@goblindeeznuts]

I was thinking the same thing

[@Random-sk6hm]

I wish we had one

[@Narra0002]

This video was great. High school sweethearts are so special and it’s nice to see people find their true love at such a young age ❤️

[@edmilmaldonado5756]

Ooh! They should totally have some "Spectrum" episodes either featuring gay women couples, childhood sweethearts, or divorced couples!

[@Ceerads]

❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@laurent.9968]

My parents met in 4th grade technically. Funny thing is that they actually went to different high schools.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Yeah I'd love to see a gay childhood sweethearts couple

[@edmilmaldonado5756]

@@Random-sk6hm Yeah! Totally!

[@Vuongedge]

You're never too young to fall in love. Love is part of being human. You're too young to be in a relationship however, different conversation. Thoughts?

[@LeticiaRawrr]

Could y’all do sweethearts but not staying together it be nice to see why it didn’t work etc..

[@kathrynbrown1572]

Do “do all empty nesters feel the same” do “do all widows/widowers feel the same” do all retirees feel the same.”

[@helenagrabner2816]

Yeah and in regards to widows/widowers it would be really interesting to see different ages represented and or with and without the now task to raus kids ..

[@bhaobhao4356]

I cant stop crying. One of the best jubilee video. It was so wholesome

[@Themystergamerr]

It was so nice that they all strongly agreed about building a family

[@sasha-mq4pq]

This chun boy is so handsome

[@Random-sk6hm]

FRRRRR