Do All Men Think The Same? (feat. NFL Player Kyle Long) | Spectrum

[@jubilee]

This episode of Spectrum wouldn't have been possible without Gillette and Walgreens - thank you for giving these men a space to discuss masculinity and identity! Visit your local Walgreens or walgreens.com for your favorite Gillette products. What was your favorite moment from the discussion?

[@Seanonyoutube]

Jubilee Gillette is just about the worst sponsor you could’ve gotten for this video.

[@christopheraddeo5949]

@@Seanonyoutube chill, they can support whoever they want and be supported by whoever they want. You calling Gillete a bad sponsor gives no reason to why they might be and is simple hate. They cared enough to sponsor an informative video on a hot topic that means a lot to many Americans

[@LoversRfighters]

@@Seanonyoutube They probably liked the commercial and agree with the ideas so they let this be a commercial for Gillette especially with that ending and the football player shaving

[@superskullmaster]

Jubilee why don’t you guys flip the script and have women in there talking about femininity? To me locker room talk and women gossiping and telling their girlfriend all of your personal business are just as bad.

[@HelloThereIAmAlice]

My least favourite part is the times it's so obvious that it's sponsored and how plastic that makes the rest of the video feel

[@yungbananaclip2822]

When the Asian guy explained how his dad felt he was a "Kitten" and some of the guys told him how much of a man he was that was really touching. Being able to validate something he struggled with was a really great gesture.

[@ceceruben6113]

Ruby da cherry

[@thiagonalin]

Ruby does not exist

[@junglespark]

I was tearing up 🥺🥺

[@getfragged7051]

Honestly I almost teared up too. Struggling with that thought is very hard, it’s one of the biggest struggles on our journeys to manhood. It’s relieving to hear it being discussed. That’s something we normally all emotionally deal with silently and privately.

[@angelamarie6607]

It's so important for men to stand up for each other and help build each other up

[@toofacedbaby0577]

I usually don’t get too involved with KZbin but I found myself tearing up hearing the man speak who’s father took his own life and one of the last things he remembers him saying is “how come I’m a tiger and my son is a kitten”. He never received validation from his dad, I hope this man finds peace.

[@SmoothLuke]

TooFacedBaby05 he find can find peace from the prince of peace. Jesus is the answer

[@jacksonlowe3993]

A lot of people with depression and who take there own life have insecurities of there own which could be a reason he projects his insecurities on his son in reality his father may have felt like a kitten

[@Floaty8008]

@@jacksonlowe3993 your probably right

[@ww-ht4iq]

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[@ww-ht4iq]

Ethiopia new songs dawit

[@italiana7308]

When they all told the Asian guy that he was a man and that he could even have the black guy as his dad. THAT WAS TOUCHING. Beautiful

[@michaelw.9657]

I feel bad because he keeps the guilt of never showing his dad that he was a man or never was able to meet his expectations while he was alive even tho he hit his own expectations. I think it’s better to meet your own expectations than your parents because you feel that you did good. You know what I’m saying.

[@isaiahpinkerton3445]

Literally made me tear up its so sad, im glad they are so supportive!

[@WIMatthewI]

That was simply sad. In a bad way.

[@DumbAssPro717]

@@michaelw.9657 it is better to meet your own expectations but the feels meeting your parents expectations and be a pride for them is very important especially in asian culture

[@guissedom6353]

this part actively upset me, tbh

he's the most unKyle Kyle of the Kyle community

[@bellamay_barker]

AHAHAHA

[@catmayor3522]

"The kyle community" I can't lmfaooo

[@kyle-cl1by]

Now he is a high ranking officer

[@montychambliss6254]

He's definitely a Kyle on the gridiron

[@gretaosullivan4841]

right

[@PortalOpps39]

I love that the prompt is on the bottom of the screen throughout the segment.

[@2m7b5]

Agreed. I used to have to constantly rewind if I missed the prompt or forgot what it was.

[@billyb2122]

same. in the past the audio hast always been clear i couldn't understand what the prompt was and no amount playing it back helped

[@youdroppedsomething4334]

Bort same, I’d step away for a little bit and then have to go back

[@zoologo-es4uo]

YES! Cause when I get distracted when they ask the question I look back and I just see everyone moving and don't know what happening lol

[@forebidden]

same

[@bexii786]

The way sean ran to Kyle and gave him a hug as if he was hugging an older brother really got me. This guy just wants to be accepted and validated and Kyle was there

[@JoeyZero123]

Pretty sure he was trying to tackle him for $ 1 million

[@cashwin45]

@@JoeyZero123 If you call a good ol' hug a tackle then... I guess

[@generationultra6718]

@@JoeyZero123 but Kyle knew his intentions. He knew that Sean needed a hug which is why he initiated the group hug. Truely a very positive masculininty moment

[@floff7922]

As a teenage male it’s very interesting to see how older men respond to these questions and I think that it would be extremely valuable to see how teenagers feel about these topics.

[@maygreene5436]

oh you're right, I hadn't thought about that. and btw you're crazy eloquent.

[@floff7922]

@@maygreene5436 Thank you

[@yonyokai4593]

I as a female teenager felt the same in the “do all women think the same” video

[@MsMusicalBeans]

Young boys and men desperately need positive role models. Too many boys out there raising themselves, it's sad.

[@otakuismybae2700]

@@MsMusicalBeans true.

[@chefcinnabutter]

"Blood, sweat, and tears" I'm a profesional chef. I work in kitchens 8-12 hours a day, 5-7 days a week. I've bled, I've sweated, and I've definitely cried. If you put passion into something you care about, that makes you just as much of a man as any athlete.

[@t3rror5am]

Working kitchen is HARD theres a reason depression is high in ppl who work.back of house. Definitely not for the weak

[@hidanhyuga]

Saaame.. Wounds just dont heal!! T_T

[@40KBoss]

"I've bleed, I've sweated, and I've definitely cried" But, like... not IN the food, rigth?

[@GoodNBadGurl]

That’s beautiful! Well said 🥰

[@feartheghus]

And thanks to this comment the health department is coming.

[@sydney7701]

Rob is clearly such a good dad and cares about his daughter.

[@Southgatemediagroup]

Thanks, Sydney! I definitely do. She and my wife are truly amazing

[@Southgatemediagroup]

MrBeast I am 🙌

[@hannahbarrera6493]

Glad someone said it. He seems like an amazing father.

[@robinmkimanzi]

Lol MrBeast randomly chilling in the comment section

[@GraceAbimbola7]

Sydney Reynolds SO HERE FOR IT ♥️

[@anandiganguly3086]

"you're a tiger" "you can use my dad if you want" My god these guys are so sweet can I be friends with them?

[@Mr.Amberman]

Random guys coming with offers..... In 3,2,1....😂😂

[@OPJuiceBox]

*Allow me in introduce myself*

[@WomenofHighValue]

The “sweeter” men become, the harsher women will become.

[@r-m-r-y3574]

@@WomenofHighValue lol ok

[@WomenofHighValue]

R feminine men are emotionally unstable. And let the escalation of emotionally unstable marriages and families begin! Fun! I’ve been married for 10 years

[@emme7602]

Honestly idk who Kyle Long is but I really respected everything he said. I liked how vulnerable and truthful everyone was

[@taylor021901]

He was an Offensive Guard for the Chicago Bears. He just retired this year. He is the brother of Chris Long who played Defensive End for multiple team, and won the Superbowl with the Philadelphia Eagles in the 2017 season. They both are the sons of Pro Football Hall of Famer Howie Long who played Defensive End for the Las Angeles/Oakland Raiders

[@jonathanhansen5208]

This is what has been the meaning of "man up", People don't realize that is true masculinity, accepting our vulnerability and showing it to the world therefore making us more resilient. Men share their concerns with other men because they first of all can more than likely relate or share what mistakes they have made to show a better path. (not saying that there hasn't been abuse of the term before, most times this is what it means)

[@callmeb793]

you would probably attack him if he didn't agree with your views

[@emme7602]

CallMeB nah I wouldn’t attack anyone but thanks for your input

[@anajuliaribeiroderezende1437]

I totaly agree. And it's funny how I imagined that he woud be that "Manly Man", because of my judging by appearances, but he's certainly not.

[@skullgamer7493]

I like how the guy turned Lockeroom Talk into something he’s comfortable with, instead of considering a place where u act like a toxic dude, he considered it a place where u can express ur emotions and guys r gonna be there to talk to u, while also being a place where u can socialize. He turned the meaning upside down in a good way

[@danieljenkins7951]

I think CJ views were the most reasonable. Long and red sweater were spewing nonsense.

[@halfassedfart]

@@danieljenkins7951 Just say you don't understand their perspectives and be done with it mate.

[@Vala30056]

Have you ever thought of the wild notion that a person can disagree while understanding their argument?

[@danielsnake23]

locker room talk is essential for men. men need men to check them when they do something wrong.

[@tearsinmycoke]

@@danielsnake23checking men for their misbehavior is necessary. Locker rooms aren’t. I understand the necessity for a safe space but a space to be an ahole is by definition not safe.

[@mackenziegreen6331]

the football player was so wholesome and so intelligent within his own thoughts and i’m very glad he was featured in this episode

[@vudi2103]

honestly! such a good man

[@AddBowIfGirl]

Vudi A very rare thing these days.

[@Anonymous-ve7pi]

Add Bow If Girl Don't ruin it. He's a great man, but not a rare one. Get out more.

[@beigelover95]

hot too

[@kbeezyk]

All the guys in the Long family are super wholesome and smart.

[@adriannaayala9827]

The man in the red shirt was my favorite honestly. All of his opinions were respectful he wasn't sexist and he just wasn't scared to be himself

[@Southgatemediagroup]

Thanks! I try hard to be open, honest, and respectful. I’m happy you saw that.

[@pretty948]

Southgate Media Group I'm sure you're a great dad also you kinda restored my faith in men along with a few others, keep it up man !

[@humanishdevil6173]

Must be a great husband & dad

[@SomeOne_1409]

@@pretty948 restored!! means you lost faith in men!! like all men. That's huge.

[@Lmnop873]

@@SomeOne_1409 Fr like I hate that we try to strive for equality yet we aren't just ditching basing the actions of someone off of their gender, skin color, and sexuality

[@slimkt]

I hope Erik realizes he doesn’t have to meet his dad’s expectations and that thriving and being proud of yourself, independent of *anyone’s* expectations of who/what you should be, is truly what makes him a man.

[@leialazzeretti9585]

@WingsOfTruth What's wrong with being the one with glasses or blad nfl guy? They are true men

[@Treemike1000]

WingsOfTruth wtf

[@chrisroseman2684]

@WingsOfTruth definitely not what they said. And even if they are "beta", there is literally nothing wrong with that.

[@JC-jd1us]

Wings of truth is a troll that's randomly here on these videos. He'll just escalate it, so I'd just ignore him or her? Idk. I really hope Erik gets the mental help he needs cause he's not only dealing with too high of standards but also grief and insecurities.

[@calinho7689]

WingsOfTruth he was literally a football player. Are you the beta?

[@nfernandes1765]

Validating other people's struggles is often overlooked and so so important. You can tell that Erik really felt safe enough to open up to the other men. This episode brought a tear to my eye. I love this episode.

[@gracienoble2880]

Dude, Kyle Long went to my high school. I knew him when I was little. He carried my friend on his shoulders for field day. I'm so proud to see that he didn't feed into that "Manly Man" stereotype and completely redefined what it is to be a man.

[@gracienoble2880]

@WINTERBULLS KINGCHITOWN Yep! His name is dropped here all the time.

[@onemillionpercent]

facts bc you dont have to be toxic to be a manly man. i think all these men are manly men, and i admire them for it

[@darkwolf4434]

That "manly man" stereotype doesn't exist and it's sexist to say it is.

[@Potatocrime24-7]

@@darkwolf4434 it does exist it's just rare to see people who follow it

[@darkwolf4434]

@@Potatocrime24-7 Yeah, but the problem is to stereotype men as a group into that stereotype, I think it's dangerous to stereotype any group.

[@thepro3643]

That nfl guy fought practically every stereotype

[@Smellystinkyfarts]

The Pro364 it feels manufactured it’s so opposite

[@boxeswithfoxes]

I relate to him

[@jesus_9963]

im pretty sure he got paid to do that lol

[@Jurnalist_]

@@Smellystinkyfarts Kyle and his dad Howie and the Long family really are those opposites of the norm kinda people. at least what has been showed to us in their popular famous lives

[@Smellystinkyfarts]

Jurnalist it still feels like he’s trying too hard to push against the norm so that people admire him but I could be totally wrong and he could be a genuine guy but something just feels off

[@evaparke3835]

"I see you as a tiger" I SQUEALED. THIS MAN IS IS GOOD.

[@rianalee3138]

what a dad

[@akou12]

You squealed like a mouse

[@evaparke3835]

Whole ass woke my girlfriend up and everything

[@evaparke3835]

Tyler K. Totally agree

[@goldenmemes51]

eva parke LesBEEEun - Jesse lee Peterson lol jk but the jlp guy is such a troll if u see his channel

[@JoseMiguel-yi5ur]

I'm just proud overall that men nowadays are this open, honest, and hold such respect for other men, coming from the place they were coming from with huge understanding. they all displayed masculinity in all of its facets. if this is where masculinity is headed then we're good.

[@Wxtst.3]

Agreed

[@HEEEERESxFREDDY]

Unfortunately not everybody is convinced yet. We still have some ways to go.

[@syra1541]

yess

[@KTJ1101]

Why are women allowed to be as feminine as they want without being viewed as toxic while men have to act a certain way or else society views them as toxic?

[@syra1541]

@@KTJ1101 men are allowed to be "masculine", who's stopping them? who's forcing men to be feminine? if anything society forces men to be stereotypically masculine, and that stereotypical masculinity has aspects that can be harmful to both men and women, that's what toxic masculinity refers to. masculinity itself is not bad at all, the *negative* aspects of stereotypical masculinity that's perpetuated by and pushed onto men is the problem. if you want examples of the negative aspects I can provide some but maybe you know what I mean

[@emstartingfromscratch]

When they said “you’re a man, I see you as a tiger, get over here.” I lost it. So loving.

[@annalisaarcuri2862]

Emma Matheson ya righttt and when he said “you can use my dad” it was just so comforting.

[@mili28manga]

Fr they were sooooo understanding i loved it

[@MrCmon113]

Tigers suck. They only exist, because we think they are cute. Wild pigs are the true chads. While humans spread so did wild pigs.

[@Lopez-my1bo]

@@MrCmon113 lol tigers are Savage wtf are you talking about?

[@dragonartist223]

The NFL player is a ridiculously respectable person. I hold him in very high esteem after watching this video

[@神の人-f2k]

Respectable because he has the same opinion as you?

[@dragonartist223]

@@神の人-f2k I actually like how you worded that. (I'm gonna use that in the future XD) my answer is yes and no. He held a different opinion on a couple, but his insight on the topics were well thought out and he made great points. He calmly explained them

[@神の人-f2k]

@@dragonartist223 Oh ok. So if a conservative or someone who completely disagreed with you was calm and had good insight, you’d respect them too?

[@dragonartist223]

@@神の人-f2k Of course. As long as they're respectful and open to hearing how I view things. As long as a mature conversation takes place, I wouldnt have a problem. And may I just say, I'm moderate, politically. I know many conservatives with their own separate opinions. Just because people don't agree, doesn't mean that they can't respect one another. Thats childish.

[@AB-nq6oj]

@@神の人-f2k are you being intentionally obtuse and toxic or are you just not very bright?

[@gsmarkham]

The NFL player and guy in red sweater...I would love to be friends.

[@JeromeProductions]

Indeed

[@xHannibal]

Wouldn’t doubt at all that that guy is saying what’s expected, in a way most of them likely do because of current social pressure. He looks a certain way so he has to act in a way to try to prove he doesn’t behave in the way people would assume

[@richardinis]

Just because you don’t agree with a person doesn’t mean being friends with them would be bad. I would be friends with all of them

[@xHannibal]

@@richardinis I never said that I agree or disagree with anything. I’d be friends with anyone really so long as they are kind.

[@nurfitriidora]

Which one of the guy is nfl playerrr?? 😭😭

[@insertaliashere1379]

You know you're definitely a male if you're playing Donkey in Shrek: The Musical.

[@ericvalles4661]

Man*

[@ChaseMcCain81]

Lol

[@enpockelistek3855]

@@ericvalles4661 does it make a difference

[@syra1541]

definitely

[@viarom8389]

@@enpockelistek3855 Yes. “Male” is exclusionary off trans people in this context.

[@shaok8399]

Kyle Long is what "manly men" should strive to be. I haven't heard of him before this but he's one great and wholesome human being.

[@dagda3000]

He is an embarrassment like Terry Crews.

[@GoddoDoggo]

@@dagda3000 You seem very insecure. You might benefit from a bit of therapy or a support group of some sort. You're okay as you are, you don't need to prove you're "manlier" than anyone else.

[@micahtorres9011]

dagda3000 His dad physically abused his mom and was also an alcoholic. His mom ends up divorcing and turning into a strict Christian. He doesn’t want people to end up like his dad who kept physically abusing his mom.

[@sonyapari1219]

dagda3000 yikes

[@dagda3000]

@@GoddoDoggo Has nothing to do with insecurity. I am just annoyed that this multi-national company Gillette is pushing this weak image of masculinity just because they want to sell beauty products also to men. We both know that the absolute majority of women do not want to be with soft woke men. This emasculation of men is probably worse for women than it is for men.

[@MariamAhmed-nj4nz]

*do all men think the same?* “Is kissing the homies gay?”

[@khalidiverson8245]

Im dead😭

[@howsmartareya3908]

Nah G, its homiesexual.

[@klauserji]

It depends.

[@Miss_Kisa94]

You can kiss your homies, as a treat.

[@MrSlidthunder]

Mariam Ahmed do you ever give your homies a bj?

[@FluffyPantz]

When they “tackled” him at the end and hugged him, I just about cried. I am really glad things are starting to change, and I can be a “man” in the modern day.

[@maxluong2]

Bro you cried at that? Lmaooo surely there worthier things to shed tears for

[@darkwolf4434]

What do you mean about things changing?

[@nnjapanda7785]

Bro trust me you should be yourself, but no woman ever has said: i want a man that cry’s about a lot of stuff! Keep your emotions and impulses under control and you’ll do fine.

[@julxester-9976]

NNJApanda you’re so wrong

[@tiegideon9816]

Julxester - No he’s not. Most women don’t fuck emotional men lol

[@paninidoesawheelie8257]

Kyle Long ain't a man, he's *THE* man.

[@josecarlosxyz]

He’s a liar

[@lilnotmaster6094]

I wanna see him and Andrew Tate debate

[@ecdawg-bw8ll]

Tearing up at how they encouraged him thinking he didn’t achieve his dad’s expectation of being a man. This is the best video yet & the definition of manhood that the world needs.

[@175elias]

e.cdawg his dad was a gang member I would consider that a good thing since u didn’t choose that path you are more of a man that him

[@DCBfanboy]

These men were overly effeminate...

[@alejandrom7049]

@@DCBfanboy what?

[@DCBfanboy]

@@alejandrom7049 what?

[@DCBfanboy]

@@alejandrom7049 I could go on like this forever, by the way

[@djgoblin1]

when Erik talked about his dad saying that Erik is a kitten really stuck out to me. Erik keep it up your a true man, strong and independent. were all rooting for you!

[@11karotte]

Oof. I teared up. Made me think of all the little sentences that formed my life. I wish him the very best. Also it is okay to be a kitten. I prefer kittens over tigers honestly....

[@erikkhamphouy7723]

Thank you to you both, I’m on a great path. I’m glad there’s people like you in the world to lift people up

[@itsme-lv7jo]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 You seem like a great person, and you deserve to be happy. Wishing you all the best.

[@manligi9701]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 Bro I can't believe it. When I saw the thumbnail with your face, I was shooketh

[@user-hd8ej8yx9p]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 PLEASE don't take this the wrong way, but are you gay? asking for a friend

[@joshuaenzo1282]

"Being feminine makes you less of a man" would've been a great prompt

[@lemnems582]

oml youre right

[@dudemanbroguy5747]

Having too many feminine characteristics kinda do make you less of a man, like a soyboy isn't very manly

[@joshuaenzo1282]

@@dudemanbroguy5747 so you have to be "manly" to be a man?

[@WaltuhWhite2423]

@@joshuaenzo1282 yeah

[@dudemanbroguy5747]

@@joshuaenzo1282 hey a man can express himself how ever he wants but if he's a guy that wants other guy friends but lacks many masculine traits himself then hes gonna struggle to have those friends, it's hard to respect a beta male

[@sofiasorace]

this is the most wholesome episode of spectrum I have ever seen I actually got teary eyed

[@marcusmatousek33]

The asian guy was really brave in how he was able to open up.

[@catherinecsu5017]

Marcus Matousek I think his name is Erik, but yeah I agree with you 😊💜

[@CaptainCocaine]

Everyone else was basically just following Kyle.

[@zackjones6043]

He made me tear up.

[@landopolaroid9157]

He played devils advocate but he came from a really genuine place. his experiences were particularly insightful.

[@Mr.Argonaut1]

He is a man, cause a real man talks about his feelings 👌🏼👌🏼🔥

[@ME-fu2uo]

I love how Kyle and Rob are so confident in themselves and just generally really considerate, I bet Rob is an amazing father. I hope Erik will come to peace with the fact that he will probably never meet his dad's unrealistic expectations too

[@schneiderjean-pierre4085]

Ma Ei just wondering, but don't you think CJ is a great father too or would you believe that there is only one way to raise a child

[@babushkalol]

@@schneiderjean-pierre4085 Not the one you asked but I wanted to answer as well, hope you don't mind - based on the views he (CJ) expressed in this video, I don't think he's a horrible father, but because of how he expressed his views on women, what a man's role is etc. no I don't think he'd be as great of a father as Rob would be - simply bc the views he holds may be too strict and too restricting for a child to flourish and become their own person, because he holds some beliefs that are so dead end, that there's no room for development it feels like.

[@finnrater4812]

He is an amazing dad. You probably wont believe me but I've known his family since i was a kid

[@schneiderjean-pierre4085]

Alystxo what views because if he's anything like his own father, who he has a great relationship with, I don't understand. His father was very supportive and instilled his beliefs and morals on him. What's the point of becoming an adult, going through life and learning, if not to advise aid or guide your children. That's the big difference between them because CJs father was just as supportive and encouraging the only difference is his father had a belief that helped guide him through life and he passed it to him. If I have something I believe to be good I'm going to teach it to my kids if they accept it cool if they don't fine. Another thing I think you should consider is to be able to be as supportive as you want all parents to be, you have to have that kind of money. My parents can't afford to support me in my dreams so of course they tried to guide me to the most guaranteed path to success. You can't expect everyone to parent the same way. Once you have kids and money you can be super supportive. Most parents do the best that they can, can't be mad at my parents for that and the strictness helped harden me for life because I wasn't gonna have that support so I needed that, otherwise idk where I would be.

[@schneiderjean-pierre4085]

Alystxo there are probably a whole lot of grammatical errors but I just wanted to give you some food for thought

[@xaladolokiyo]

the first question hit hard. if anyone tells me bob ross is less of a man than anyone, that person is categorically wrong.

[@thetoaster765]

Especially since he used to be in the airforce

[@myers5059]

@@thetoaster765 *''now i'll shoot you two missiles because every missile needs a friend''*

[@tarlionratrel7919]

@@myers5059 some happy little missiles

[@safir2241]

@@thetoaster765 is military manly now

[@itsbritneybtch4570]

@@thetoaster765 Congratulations, you destroyed the point

[@voidsabre_]

As an autistic man, locker room talk is the worst part of being a man, and it's the primary reason I was only friends with girls until I was in college and some of the guys had matured out of it

[@charbelalam2648]

May I ask what that is? I've never heard of it before.

[@mario125ww]

@@charbelalam2648 locker room talk is when males discuss sex and drugs. They talk about women they slept with and game plans to sleep with more. They also mentions drugs that they have tried and encourage others to do the same. Growing up christian, I always hated it as a kid and still hate it as an adult. I think the only pro is that men can vent their frustration about life and get practical solutions. The only problems is that the solutions are based on bad advice

[@charbelalam2648]

@@mario125ww oh damn that is new to me. We never have these in my country, that stuff does not sound fun to me.

[@maxpowers4436]

@@mario125ww I mean you just pigeon hold what locker room talk is. Which was exactly discussed in this video???? As the black man said he experienced lovker room talk as a safe space to talk about men related topics. Dsnt mean it always involves sex or objectifying people. Its just been hijacked. "locker room talk is when males discuss sex and drugs. They talk about women they slept with and game plans to sleep with more." I mean the fact you deevolve what it is to something like the sentence above is quite sad.

[@mario125ww]

@@maxpowers4436 no I gave it context. If locker room talk was about men topics only, women wouldn't have a problem with it. So me mentioning the biggest controversy about it is warrant. Also at the end, I mention a pro of it which is what you mentioned: men issues

[@yerinpark2950]

WHEN HE RAN TO HIM AND THEY HUGGED I started crying this was such a wholesome episode

[@kaitlynsmith7966]

RIGHT that was so sweet

[@morpheus1111]

CRINGE

[@madisonmad2767]

I thought that was so sweet that these group of men were able to have a real hug and not just a quick little “bro hug”(which there’s nothing wrong with)

[@julianflores3323]

@@morpheus1111 The men and women here don’t find it cringe

[@johnathancarter3726]

@@morpheus1111 disliked.

[@JeremyMYG]

I appreciate having Kyle in this. A lot of folks can listen more when there’s someone held to a specific standard discussing the same topics (football player = masculine). He has a great perspective on the topics. I hope more men can resonate with what he and the others said. Also I LOVE the backstory editing to get more knowledge of who is participating. Great addition!

[@yukihirarin3387]

Jeremy Shaw ikr... Sometime people hesitate to tell about something when no one leading the discussion or afraid to say something in fear of judgement but Kyle kinda direct the discussion into the right discussion and make everyone talk. This is one of the best Jubilee spectrum video.

[@roscoesmudge2845]

Jeeeezzzz take it easy

[@TheUnown4]

It’s a terrible idea to have a famous person on the show. He’s not on there to give his real opinions, he’s on there to boost his public image which is not why we watch this show

[@TheUnown4]

Like he’s not allowed to say anything outside the status quo he had to say what Gillette wanted him to say

[@JeremyMYG]

TheUnown4 I can see that as a potential issue, but is he saying things that folks cannot resonate with? Is it something that people should not believe? There are actual people, like myself, who believe exactly what he is saying. That does not make him incorrect or false for saying them. You don’t know him and you don’t know the scenario. Immediately jumping to a conclusion that this is a falsehood negates the connection that was made between those men.

[@RadenWA]

"Sports are more masculine than arts" Martial arts : *exists*

[@shizukagozen777]

HAHAHA 😂

[@ellahayes2912]

What I was thinking exactly because I do martial arts 🤣

[@apllo4193]

If it's in the Olympics isn't it a sport?

[@mmaelite5334]

I think of martial arts as a sport bc there is the UFC, boxing organizations, Olympic wrestling and kickboxing organizations

[@RadenWA]

@@apllo4193 well chess is in the olympics so

[@yoongiluvr93]

Dear Erik, you spoke your truth to millions of people; that takes some real courage. If you, in your heart, feel that you are a good person and you do everything you can to keep being a good person, you are a man. You are a great man, in fact. :)

[@nb2305]

I can see Sean questioning his opinion when he’s to the opposite of Kyle and it’s sad to see men wanting to be accepted to the masculine side they look up to. I’m glad Kyle is such a great figure to society

[@MaterDolorumOraProNobis]

It’s good that we get some actual value out of some guy we pay ridiculous amounts of money too for running into other guys.

[@elisaidir2837]

@@MaterDolorumOraProNobis "we pay" who's we?

[@iramswrestlinghighlights1164]

Kyle is a weak beta male who would never make it on the wrestling mat. On the mat, you have to be an alpha. Stick to the soft world of football Kyle.

[@hikkicornmori359]

@@iramswrestlinghighlights1164 Ok.

[@MaterDolorumOraProNobis]

Zachary they wouldn’t get paid if football fanatics didn’t glorify their every breath.

[@quietlyseething3157]

"you have to put blood sweat and tears into something." Do you know how many times I have cried over the artwork, sweat from playing instruments, cutting my finger on needles, and paper? Art requires blood sweat and tears my guy.

[@madeleinewalker838]

Yup. Very true. And it doesn’t help that I’m extremely clumsy.

[@Segen_Bell]

It takes a lot of time, precision, practice and a lot of hard work to be good at it, to be good at everything.

[@Ronline26]

Cutting onions in the summer is art as well. costs ne blood sweat and tears

[@JeromeProductions]

Yup

[@mekhii]

Nothing physical

[@maxine8754]

The sports guys parents raised him RIGHT

[@noahparker50]

Sike he lets his women dominate him, they raised him real wrong.

[@pretty948]

Maxine Teitelbaum period.

[@LimzCurry]

Sticky Fingers no he sees his wife as an equal. Your extremely toxic

[@Derek-gc3rb]

@@noahparker50 You're a Moron.

[@garenthal9638]

its very easy not to feel toxicity and hatred towards other people when you have looks, money, skill, and athletic ability where everyone likes you

[@Shucksofficial]

Rob seems like an amazing father ❤️ I grew up without a father and it would have been amazing to have someone like him in my life

[@NewMediaLabPod]

Thanks! I hope my daughter feels that way her whole life :D

[@wax5403]

“ 6 Men Talk About Masculinity (feat. NFL Player Kyle Long)” sounds like a smoother title

[@EpicRandomUno]

bump

[@kayleighstevenson]

Yess that sounds way better. I was confused by the title at first.

[@Madithemuggle]

Kayleigh Stevenson same!

[@Sadpad16]

Yeah, sounds like the NFL player is not a guy.

[@Blossom702]

wax Ok soyboy

[@gelartistries]

I adore Kyle. I don’t know who he is and I’ve never seen him play but I completely respect his opinions. Honestly what a good guy. He was raised right

[@owenrogers3790]

I don’t agree, I respect him but there is no being “raised right” your right way of raising people might not be the way others think is rught

[@eerice704]

@@owenrogers3790 while that’s a valid point, you can generally tell when someone was raised better than someone else. I’m not saying there’s one way to raise someone, I’m just saying there are better ways than others

[@identicalgd2446]

@@owenrogers3790 I disagree. Being raised right is to be respectful, kind, and decent to others. There is something called different personality traits and quirks, however if we can’t agree on what makes a decent human being .. I’m afraid to tell you that you weren’t raised right

[@johnathancarter3726]

@@owenrogers3790 raised right is just not being a douche bag. that's not complicated to understand so i already fear for your children

[@神の人-f2k]

What do you mean “raised right”. He was raised fine but I personally think he has a wrong perception of masculinity and Jubilee just put him there as a way to boost leftism. Also, is he respectable because his opinions align with yours?

[@dscheid9865]

I’ve got huge respect for all these guys for opening up like that, especially Erik. I doubt you’ll ever see this, but the way you opened up and expressed yourself is beyond what many men will ever be able to do. I’ve got huge respect for you.

[@Gatssuuu]

Erik is actually my cousin and I appreciate your comment! Erik really is a really great guy and he loves to see comments like this

[@davi5480]

@@Gatssuuu liar.

[@Gatssuuu]

@@davi5480 Nope. He's my actual cousin. Sorry to disappoint you.

[@davute9546]

@@Gatssuuu you're a Lucky weeb and i do believe you

[@davi5480]

AsianWeeb Prove it. What’s his butt smell like

[@fahshasalwaysreading]

You should do “do all teenage girls think the same”

[@purplefire3190]

@Ismael Barrera generalizing and not true lmao

[@Yer4you]

@@MotionMasterMike not all men , just most of the men in these comments who say women are like children and don’t speak up because they won’t hurt people’s feelings but once they do they accuse them of being hormonal . Other than that I love all men who don’t talk down on women and have a high ego . Any women or man who has a high ego can leave

[@lalasam12345]

Sat I haven’t seen one comment saying this

[@seb1232]

@@Yer4you mhm yh definitely ‘most’ men in this comment section

[@athenam4724]

@@MotionMasterMike assuming something about them before it even happens, and you wonder why they say that

[@Chris.Rhodes]

My father taught me how NOT to be a man. He walked out on me and my mother. I now have 2 children and a wife of 5 years. I am the man of my life. He taught me how NOT to be a dad. I will always be in my children's lives. I have a beard, and take more care of it than my wife takes care of her hair. I lean on my wife in times of need and vice versa. I love these videos Jubilee. They start discussions, they inspire. Keep them coming.

[@xxxbestplayer95xxx17]

What!!! Your wife has 5 years old!?!!?!!!?!?!

[@Chris.Rhodes]

@@xxxbestplayer95xxx17 What?

[@fearmepleasez9103]

@@xxxbestplayer95xxx17 ????

[@vocorus598]

@@Chris.Rhodes It was either an attempt at being funny, or a misunderstanding of what "of 5 years" means.

[@rizzamaeong]

there's nothing that makes a man less in my eyes than a guy who abandons his kids. especially if after, they just flounder around like they're single. *of course he meant they're together for 5 years.

[@SUGASITO]

“we can share my dad if you want” AW that little pep talk the other guys gave him was so sweet

[@HeyYouSam]

At first, I was surprised to see some of the men strongly agree about "Locker room talk is part of being a man." But hearing CJ explain that it's more of a safe space for men to talk, makes a lot of sense. Really glad I get to hear different people's perspectives on topics I had already had a strong opinion about, it helps me be more open minded.

[@smashmusique]

I don't even know what locker room talk exactly means. But if it means talking sex and fantasizing about women, it's ok. It's not a necessary part of being a man, but it can be a part. I disagree with the man in the red shirt that it's objectifying women.

[@dexter-jy3yk]

Don't understand why women would have that problem with locker room talk. Women talks about men to their friends worse than men do.

[@HeyYouSam]

@Brad1156 As I said in my comment, I admit at first I didn't understand how locker room talk was part of being a man, but after hearing the explanation from CJ I understand it now. That's the point of videos from Jubilee, they put videos with topics that people would have a strong opinion about and have people in those topics explain their viewpoint. It's okay to have a certain opinion at the start of the video and change your mind at the end of it because you heard other people's explanations of the topic.

[@bendover2425]

When I’m with the guys I say a lot of things I don’t really mean. We are all just joking around. We take things too far, but it is a safe place to do it. We might say offensive things, but we’re not actually going to act on them

[@saminanishat505]

@Brad1156 I think the whole thing is trying to set a better standard for people in general not just men. Yes you're right men and women do talk about people they find attractive and talk to their friends about how they're essentially thirsty for that person and what they would want to do with that person and that PERFECTLY FINE. Its when the comments become rapey or disgusting thats the real problem. And I understand the argument of "Well we're not acting on it. Just bantering and whatever" but why do you need to degrade people to have fun and joke? Its immature if anything and it can be applied to alot of issues not just locker room talk between men and women. It extends to people making 'casual racist' remarks for example that they precieve as harmless. Again, nothing wrong with just gossiping and having fun. But it shouldnt be at the expense of someone else especially if you're aware it would make them uncomfortable should they ever find out. I'll say this, at my school a few years ago, a few boys had a group chat on snapchat where every week they would select a girl from the class and in the chat they would rate her, have rape fantasys about her, even bet on who she would sleep with first. This was found out by the school and the girls and alot of girls felt extremely violated, disgusted and so on. Yet the defence was 'it was just locker room talk. We werent gonna do anything.' And I know this seems like Im just pointing out an incident in boys but girls do it too and its not okay either way. Like the dude in the video said, if you heard something offensive, the 'locker room' type environment should be a space to talk about that behaviour, learn something. Encourage a better behaviour for yourself and friends rather than just allow degrading behaviour to continue cause its 'just jokes between guys'

[@lexijungman7834]

The football player and the guy in the red sweater are absolute kings.

[@marino4193]

Damn, Jubilee added the "backstory clips" (Guy cooking when talking about himself) You guys really improved the editing!

[@JohnSmith-kl3nm]

Once you have a dual sponsorship the sponsors set the standards of the video. They want to make sure their image is held high

[@JohnSmith-kl3nm]

Oh and larger budget

[@wasomania]

Needed that

[@MAjYQSammi]

Agree. The b-roll footage held my interest even more!

[@catarina4380]

he's like cooking f- pasta al pesto ahah

[@rebeccahaddad7033]

Erik running towards Kyle first of all the guys at the end to tackle/hug him after Kyle reassured him he's a man is the sweetest thing I've ever seen 😭

[@danielalopes3514]

@DarthYuYevon why not? You don't know the person's preferences.

[@samueljackson315]

@DarthYuYevon you sound like an incel

[@blacbamboo284]

@@samueljackson315 Yeah, that classic "I'm afraid of getting hurt so I'll say the negative thing before you can voice your opinion, that way I'm safe" mentality.

[@blacbamboo284]

@Zomber WonderClan Fair enough. I guess we're all kind of tired of incels dehumanizing "fembots" so we sometimes let that frustration out on them, or people we assume belong to that group. But you're right, there's reason to be more compassionate. And maybe save the harsher reactions for when someone is being an absolute ass-hat instead.

[@anonfalco7880]

@DarthYuYevon Once he builds up his self confidence he'll be just fine. A comedian/actor? If a guy can make a girl laugh, he's done it

[@gracewheeler20]

Ok, Rob in the red shirt is such a heartwarming, wholesome human, and so is the football player. I feel like what positive masculinity and femininity are coming down to are how to be a good human being. We should all try to stand up for our friends and for what's right, and to accept ourselves as we really are. Great conversation. And DAMN, Erik you are so strong. My heart broke for you when you told your story.

[@Southgatemediagroup]

Thanks, Grace!

[@Pseudynom]

I honestly wish that men would be open about feelings an their problems. But I think we're getting there.

[@cassandrababcock6248]

100%

[@JeromeProductions]

Indeed

[@frogturtle]

being a man isn't about towering over others. it's about going down to someone's level in their time of need and helping to lift them back up onto their feet. that's how I see it at least

[@maroldajuancruz9887]

this is gillette's best ad in a while

[@imnotsharingmyrealnameonth5601]

i got confidence to shave after this ad

[@charlieguzman2270]

Gillette shaving cream smells good.

[@187almazan]

@@christianjane8401 ok BRO

[@JeromeProductions]

Honestly forgot

[@geovanilopez5459]

Went and bought some gillette right after. Remember boys gillette makes you a man

[@z_bennet4208]

Being “a real man” or being “a real women” doesnt exist. Just be a good human. Love yoself and be kind. Live yo life!

[@randomfangirl2503]

Nicely put

[@nicolleribeiro239]

Totally Yeah!

[@juststoic3809]

It really doesn't work like that though lol

[@juststoic3809]

@Laffy Taffy The majority of people think alike. Obviously people who are in this comment section might think the same because we're drawn to these videos, other people are drawn to other things. There's not a lot of people who can accept these thing, keep in mind, how many close friends do you actually have?

[@juststoic3809]

@Laffy Taffy everyone is objectified, it doesn't matter if you're a good person or yourself, people will value or dis value no matter how kind you are. That's reality

[@bW00rdd]

I didn’t think I’d like the NFL guy but he’s so wholesome

[@KevinShinwoo]

Goes to show you you shouldn't judge.

[@epsilonart3309]

it’s natural to make assumptions based on numerous and faulty accurate generalized stereotypes however acting upon those before that individual is allowed to express themselves is wrong. I think it’s fine that they noticed someone outside of the stereotype 🤷

[@Артем-т1к5ч]

I would disagree because if you take into account the amount of eyes he has on him and how peoples' views would impact his million dollar career, anyone would lie to save it. So he is most likely bot being 100% honest

[@bW00rdd]

@@Артем-т1к5ч that makes sense honestly

[@epsilonart3309]

@@Артем-т1к5ч yeah but that's how people change and become better. They take into account others opinions and form their own from the information given. It hindsight, it doesn't really matter if he is completely honest because he is still setting a good example and seems like he's someone that would help others out.

[@yamjangubo]

I cried when he said he can't meet the expectations of masculinity that his Dad is putting on him 💔

[@josecarlosxyz]

Real men does not cry

[@yamjangubo]

@@josecarlosxyz you're the problem in this world.

[@booniebound7793]

Girls: He’s probably cheating Guys: Hey boys what you guys do for your skin?

[@Omar-su3ii]

Boonie Bound The bro: Just soap and water bro

[@williamhoegh4586]

i would like to like this beautiful comment, but it has 969 likes, so it would be breaking the law if i were to like it

[@cayapov]

william hoegh it’s all good, you’re in the clear now

[@williamhoegh4586]

I have now proceeded to like the comment as it has a non-holy Number now

[@_ishaan_pandey]

@@Omar-su3iii just wipe my face with the same towel I wiped my balls with

[@visnau1126]

Kyle long is seriously like the embodiment of good masculinity. Such a god damn good role model, every man should strive to be like him.

[@redmatrixx]

Nope but thanks.

[@MrJoshDada]

@@redmatrixx why not?

[@cosuinofdeath]

I strive to be myself not another persons ideal Or dream

[@luketorbert3564]

Na fam it almost like hes got somewhat of a beta mindset

[@Bruh-fe5hz]

Luke Torbert who tf uses beta or alpha as words lmao he can 100% beat your ass

[@shae__6416]

I’m really glad Kyle was there. Sean was doubting himself as a man because of what his father had told him “being a kitten” and I’m glad Kyle was there to say listen you are a man you deserve to be over here just like the rest of us. Not every guy fits into the big muscular deep voiced strong man. But that doesn’t make you any less of a man because you don’t fit into that specific category. There’s so many other qualities that make you a man and putting such high standards on yourself to fit into that box will only damage how you see yourself as you get older. Trust me you are seen and you are appreciated just like Kyle sees Sean as a man we view it the same way.

[@bedxx838]

Shae __ you confused Erik with Sean correct?

[@shae__6416]

Oh yeah yeah Yeah oh maybe I did haha

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

@@shae__6416 his dad was the head of an gang, obviously he's going to want his son to be ruthless, since his son wasn't the man was disappointed, now if the father was a florist and his son became a drug lord his father would have also been disappointed, probably would've said I wanted a dove but created a vulture, so he wouldn't have won regardless

[@shae__6416]

David Medina that’s not an excuse. He had all that time as a father to change the way he was impacting his own son. He said that and meant it until he passed. Even the football player doesn’t feel the same way and he’s a football player. The whole entire point of this video was to talk about toxic masculinity. If all the men have the same view points and even a nfl football player can change it and make them see better his dad had the opportunity to do so as well. It was wrong and if you can’t admit it this video isn’t for you I guess.

[@DavidMedina-lu1wf]

@@shae__6416 as he said his dad was a criminal and the head of it

[@Illumigotti333]

“NFL guy” is an amazing human, literally. Such a good guy

[@justinc.3385]

i’ll tell you why you can tell Kyle is a professional athlete. FIRST OFF THE LINE EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.

[@maxdeborde6772]

Lmao im dead so true coming from a football player

[@oxygenroland9762]

True

[@lxKronKxl]

Except 13:35

[@C-Handle]

Gillette didn't pick him for no reason. 🤷‍♂️Guaranteed other football players have different views.

[@alexphilips6335]

[C] if you think kyles views were unbalanced and biased then your own internal bias is making you misread this situation.

[@KaraIsabella]

Me, when I first saw Kyle Long: Eh, he's not unattractive Me, after hearing him talk about women respectfully, his emotions, and still maintain that he's manly for doing it: This is my new celebrity crush he's so hot wow

[@christianx32]

Wow way to objectify men by saying he's so "hot"

[@etheralflowers3631]

@@christianx32 Lol, did you really think that was funny? 🤔

[@akou12]

All I know is :FART TIME!!! PFFFFFT

[@Haysti2000]

c s didnt she do quite the opposide by basing his attractivness on his personality and believes?

[@AK-jt7kh]

I felt the same thing Bella. A lot of men don't get that women are more attracted to personality that physique. At the end of the day, it's how you feel about yourself when you're with someone. I've never known a woman that's older than...say...15, who has fallen in love with a picture. It's kind of an unfortunate fact of life, I guess, that men are convinced that the more "manly" they act and the more masculine they appear to be, the more attractive they are to women. That might be true if all women wanted was sex, but even then, if you don't feel good when you're with a person - the sex sucks anyways, so what's the point? Two examples. I recently befriended a guy online that had a phobia of women. We talked a lot, and he started to really understand the female perspective and view women as "human" (if that makes any sense - people just like him). Now he's a ladies man. He even gained a bit of weight - and he still went on something like 6 dates within the span of a month. I wouldn't have looked twice at him when I first met him, but I have to admit, he's getting hotter and hotter by the day! Haha! Another example. When I was in high school there was a boy in my school that all girls loved - until they got to know him. The man looked like a straight up model. Perfect body, sea green eyes. He was gorgeous. I had a crush on him, until one day he came into the art room while I was sitting there alone, asked me if anyone was there, said "Shh, don't tell anyone", and then picked up a chair, screamed and threw it against the wall....and left. Ever since, I was never able to look at him and see what I saw in him before I knew him. I just saw him as a mentally unbalanced crazy person. Lol. I thought it was just me, so I asked a couple of other girls and they shared similar stories. They were all like "Yeah, he's not attractive. He's a straight up nutcase." I feel like men make female attraction out to be way more complicated than it is. In all our romance movies and romance books, I think it's pretty obvious that females fall in love with males for what they say, do, and believe in.

[@0.o457]

Are we not gonna talk about how adorable the ending was where he ran into kyles arms and everyone hugged 😔😔

[@christopherserratos9401]

Yes, i just commented on that? Im a little late but so so cute 😄

[@JeromeProductions]

LOL spoiled me, but that’s some cute stuff

[@xoxoso295]

All the men on this episode were outstanding! The way they opened up and were there for each other was beautiful and how they respected each others views. Wish them a lot of happiness and health.

[@paulina978]

Y'all introduce the sports guy as a special guest but not shrek the musical's donkey's actor? Okay 😑

[@Brunonotieneapodos]

Yaaaasss

[@amazinghannure6440]

@@welcome2dulak330 still a celeb in my eyes.

[@moehashim8442]

@@amazinghannure6440 beautiful

[@raulmuniz9902]

1 11 he ain’t even a center ....

[@paulina978]

This is a joke guys lmao

[@maryoary3195]

Please do one, “Women who grew up without dads/ without male role models”

[@brooklynncrowder1998]

Mary Oary our women who grew up without moms

[@finicanmwa5841]

Growing up without a dad .....I think the effects on the women depend on the character of their dad and wether it's was because the dad died or left. How they left and so many factors.

[@edgaral]

i have met girls without a dad, and some of them had daddy issues and want an older guy as a bf, husband and SOMETIMES not always they take that as a replacement for a Male role on their life.

[@sugahbear8253]

Or kids who grew up a single parent house hold

[@A-Wa]

growing up without a dad is better then growing up with a terrible dad. Evey story wlill be really unique

[@jacobunterberger3499]

Around 7 years ago I was working at target when Kyle long and some other bears came in with kids who who were underprivileged economically to get them Christmas presents. I come up to him and said can I help you find anything. In the most sincere helpful voice he asks the kid he was helping out "what would you like". He replied teenage mutant ninja turtles. I helped him find them. This is in my opinion what Kyle displayed of kindness and compassion to that kid when I met him was it means to be a true man. The things he Is saying he seems(kindness and creativity) he acts about and isn't just saying. He has the ethos of what most celebrities and sports star and even man should drive towards.

[@fynnersml4246]

Dude in the blue shirt... The fact he doesn't live up to his father's expectations says far more about his answers than the answer he gave. The insight is crazy

[@Callmelucky]

Erik has been through a lot man, and is so strong as a person and i can tell he wanted that hug and needed it. Loved this video.

[@erikkhamphouy7723]

Callmelucky thank you, we all go through struggles that make us stronger. Here’s a virtual hug for you, my friend 🤗

[@Callmelucky]

Erik Khamphouy 💪 *huge back*

[@alycia929]

"I think there's a leader within each one of us, I don't think it has to do with being man or a women" god that's good content

[@agathachris9722]

How much is true and how much is just feel good nonsense?

[@haritasoujanya]

@@agathachris9722 it is 100% true.

[@agathachris9722]

@@haritasoujanya 100% hmmm. I believe otherwise.

[@anakinskywalker8996]

@@haritasoujanya Not true at all actually. Some are born leaders, and some are born followers. Of course, that has nothing to do with gender, but it is fallacious to claim that everyone has equal traits when it comes to leadership. If you look at other species that work in groups, there is a clear distinction between leaders and followers. Humans are no different.

[@haritasoujanya]

@@anakinskywalker8996 but don't you ever make decisions for yourself?don't you ever lead yourself to the right path without some other person leading you in some situations? we need not always lead a group to be a leader. we all have that lil leadership, atleast to guide ourselves.

[@meenashanmugam764]

when Erik ran up to Kyle at the end and gave him a huge hug my heart went: 🥺🥰

[@maxinecalyptus1639]

Same!!

[@norceenhamdi]

bromance 💕💕😭

[@matgggg55]

I think the dads analogy about him being a lion and his son being a kitten is accurate. Kittens are loving, curious, and fearless they make a great companion, a lion does not lol from another perspective that was a compliment.

[@ceecue5367]

Respect to Kyle Long. Most athletes are viewed as meat heads while most of them are pretty intelligent and have an open mind.

[@deviljho4260]

Every athlete I met was intelligent.

[@jewruhair4443]

And CTE

[@wastedbear1891]

Most of these guys came from prestigious schools. Even tho they got there because of their athletic ability. If you look up some players GPAs to the schools they went to you’d really be surprised.

[@TheeVande]

"I can't believe I'm such a tiger, and I have a son who turns out to be a kitten." Oh my God! That cut deep

[@MrCmon113]

If he was a tiger, his son wouldn't be a house cat. He's an ocelot, who likely married a lynx, and who is now compaining that their child didn't turn out to be a Siberian tiger. If his dead was a tiger, he could have made a tiger cub with a female tiger.

[@buckyyt287]

@@MrCmon113 I’m confused

[@Rice-cone]

Taxtro I mean he was the leader of a gang, thats pretty tiger behaviour

[@christianbuskirk1471]

The only comment I had was: Uh dude, I think your dad is kind of a dick. U are a man.

[@Steph_Pacheco]

I literally started crying when he said that ...

[@GBCuddLe]

Damn, Kyle Long is so profound. I was not expecting him to be so wise.

[@gregoryaldous2165]

"How to be a real man" Alright this could be interesting "Sponsored by Gillette" And there it is

[@eliarevalo]

Fuck this channel is something else.

[@charbelalam2648]

EXACTLY! The title made me go hmm, and whem I saw the partnership, I was like ahh I see.

[@kurtsudheim825]

Ya, the Co that makes fun of men, & lied to women

[@sergkr2d2]

Who cares? Why is that more important than the content of the video, the topics of discussion and the opinions of the participants?

[@dirtydan2721]

Of course Gilletties would think that playing a physical sport or manual labor isn't more masculine than painting and acting, that's the future of "men" they want to build. I'm only one question in and I know this is going to be an absolute joke by how most men aren't agreeing that sports are masculine, it is possibly one of the most masculine things out there. It's literally (not metaphorically, literally) built off man's desire to hunt, fight, cooperate, and compete and involves heavy physical work. They are trying to redefine male and masculine, make a new-male, or nu-male for short.

[@puddingwaffles7]

I’m not gonna lie, Kyle was so unbelievably attractive, not because he’s a football player or buff but because of his words. He really knows what it means to be a man, someone that is not afraid to express themselves, show love to other men, and treat women with equal respect.

[@maxhuneau9595]

admit that there was a part coming from him being a 6'6 football player, like you would not call that attractive if it was coming from someone else, you would've just said that you agree with him.

[@maritrolljenta]

@@maxhuneau9595 if I didn't know how they look and had only heared their words, I'd still think Kyle was the most attractive and masculine

[@tistamukhopadhyay5026]

he was the most empathetic of the other's views and experiences

[@kingcalv10]

So she says

[@AngryLink]

Rob, the father in the red shirt, easily had a better view on what it meant to be a man. He stood on the same lines or even more so than Jake each time. He considers his real role to be showing his daughter the proper definition of a man. But we get it, he's not that aesthetically pleasing.

[@NOCLUEinvalid]

Kyle needs to become Erik’s mentor. That would be amazing. (Side note: I know Erik irl and we haven’t talked in a while so I was pleasantly surprised to see him in this. He’s a super friendly, warm, thoughtful person. Sorry that living up to your dad’s expectations have been so hard dude. I totally relate. I’ve also struggle a lot with family expectations. Sometimes standards are just unreachable because being a person isn’t just about checking off things on a checklist.)

[@erikkhamphouy7723]

Whalium I haven’t seen you in a while, but I’m so glad that I met you. Your kind words speak to how great you are yourself and I’d love to catch up with you in a heartbeat! Kyle is amazing and I’d love to be mentored by him. Cheers to building our own paths and futures while living with family expectations 🥂

[@gumbi6633]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 this is so wholesome omg i wish you the best of luck in your comedic and acting career :)

[@_mel_9953]

Can we appreciate Rob for a second? He’s speaking out against objectifying women. When he said that his role is being the best person he can be to set an example for his daughter, that was very sweet. He was so kind and supportive to Erik as well.

[@Anonymous-ve7pi]

_ Mel _ Yeeeeesss👌👌👌

[@Jamcad01]

Yeah how dare men find women attractive! Only women are allowed to have standards and enjoy sex

[@umbra014]

No, we shouldn't. This is about men's issues, stop talking about respecting women.

[@rrhodes4564]

Bayonetta you gonna cry? 😢

[@sverkauu]

J C Omg you really are triggered. Objectifying women and enjoying sex are two different things. Objectify means degrade to the status of a mere object. It means that you think of a person just as an object for fulfilling your sexual desires. And it is wrong. But I guess your incel ass doesn’t get it, that’s why you’ll be a virgin for the rest of your life

[@eerice704]

This was the first video where I felt all the participants had at least one good point. Everyone was respectable. Overall the most positive and my favorite Jubilee video

[@annemcculloh9572]

"Do all college/university employees think the same" would be really insightful. Statements like: -I think my department is more important than others -I think some subjects are a waste of time and money -The administration at my school cares about its employees -I am satisfied with my wage and benefits I think it would be really cool if it wasn't just professors, but also administrators, people who work in housing, maintenance and food service. Colleges are so complex and employ so many people, but people from other areas don't always interact. There's also the issues of for-profit vs state vs non-profit universities and how funding or lack thereof influences certain things.

[@Galaxynotes70]

damn some of those are good questions

[@eltiospike7672]

Every single collage student knows pretty well that some subjects are in fact a waste of time.

[@EpicTacoSenpai]

Idk I feel most of topics and people involved in the spectrum are things everyone knows about and are Hard hitting topics. Not everyone understand or can even relate to your topic. Wouldn't get alot of revenue I guess

[@annemcculloh9572]

@@EpicTacoSenpai You are probably right. After all, I came up with this topic because I am a college student. I'm sure the prompt could be applied to k-12 schools (interviewing administrators, teachers, janitors, counselors) or to different working classes (do all blue-collar or white collar workers think the same). Education and the workplace are much broader than just a university, and those are topics that I'd really love to see explored!

[@sarahstardust]

I think it would also be good to hear their opinions on the rising cost of tuition and how textbooks are a total scam.

[@ZoeViola5353]

Sean sounds like he's in his 60s but looks like he's in his 40s.

[@themagreen7141]

Yet he's actually in his 30's.

[@august4114]

Tbh

[@Maryam-qx9kp]

*SKIN CARE*

[@aidsismybae-2226]

I literally thought that he was 50 until i saw that little snippet of his daily life and saw how young he looks.

[@markusbryn8073]

I feel soo bad for Erik bc you can see how much he tried holding all his feelings in when we talked about his father

[@morpheus1111]

ok

[@arte4391]

We?

[@rachellenormand9603]

It bothers me that Sean only addresses Kyle as "The NFL player", like, he's a person, he's more than that, if you respect his profession so much respect him too.

[@sanjivanie8221]

Announcer: Men- Kyle: *yeets himself to disagree*

[@mansivyas1537]

Ohh. The dad in the red t-shirt gives away so good fatherly vibes✨✨.

[@brookemckenzie1]

HE’S SO PRECIOUS IM-

[@sshwc2286]

👏🏼Petition for him to be our dad👏🏼 🤣

[@swtlikecndy4119]

He seems like an amazing dad! His daughter is so lucky honestly 😭

[@lilyg9940]

@@swtlikecndy4119 His daughter is actually my best friend!

[@hilmao7344]

@@lilyg9940 me when i lie

[@allyssafitch216]

I would trust the guy in the red shirt to walk me home after a party

[@darla8592]

to hold my drink

[@kriokay8003]

@Fly Swatter NOOOO

[@darlapaniagua1852]

@@darla8592 omg we have the same name 👄

[@darla8592]

@@darlapaniagua1852 you are the first person to have my same name

[@Threat1]

I woudnt trust you you seem weird

[@CaspiDrako]

The group hug was wonderful! I'm also glad, I think his name is Eric, was able to open up about his dad. I'm really happy that the others were so supportive of him and validated him.

[@gen_li7725]

I love the addition of the background bits on everyone, really gives us a chance to get to know them more and understand their choices in the video. Also applaud you guys for getting someone who is (making an assumption here because he is an NFL player) idolized for his masculinity to come on and engage in some real talk. I feel like there is a general assumption that the voices in these kinds of conversations are always coming from people who embrace more stereotypically feminine traits, so it really warms my heart that we have here an open conversation between some great guys who embrace all aspects of just being people.

[@cadebowman4582]

The problem with conversations like these is that whenever someone brings up a problem or a hardship that their gender _(or race, sexuality, etc)_ goes through, the other side wants to point out how mistreated they are *themselves.* This leads to more turmoil instead of people _actually_ talking and understanding each others point of view. For example: someone might say _“men need to realize women arent objects”_ and instead of talking about this point, the reaction is _”Well the same goes for women treating men like objects”._ Obviously both of these statements are true, but saying things like this are just avoiding the conversation by making your group the victim. *“You have it bad? Well guess what, i have it worse!”*

[@GoddoDoggo]

We live in the age of the Victim Olympics. It's the worst.

[@King_Vic92]

While I agree with your statement the main reason it's brought up is cause people tend to not think Men go through things. Or have it just as bad as a woman, when the world is more catered to protecting women and men being a strong leader! It can make a man who hears about what a woman goes through sad but also like hey I've gone through that so you kinda got to get over it or whatever. It may seem like oh you don't care but in reality it's like I care but not enough to wallow in the those feelings I'll just move on and worry about something I feel is more important. But just my opinion

[@WERNUTZ]

Real Men: 1)strive to be the best they can be mentally, emotionally, and physically. 2) Don't be an A-hole treat people with respect 3) Don't let people push him , manipulate, him. 4) Protect Genuine Family & Friends (those who would do the same for him) Yep this straightforward.

[@cadebowman4582]

youngblood Yes, I agree that men are less discussed when it comes to things like this because of societal roles. But What people seem to not understand is that bringing that up in response to a conversation about women isnt helping either group. A conversation about men is for a different time, not as a scapegoat to get out of an argument about women. (Also, My comment wasn’t solely about gender, it applies to other ways of identification equally)

[@samtae6217]

@@King_Vic92 I don't think so, everyone's talking about men's struggles nowadays, especially since feminists are not being taken seriously anymore/are being seen as hypocritical (although that depends on how you define feminist, imo). I'm rarely able to watch a video without seeing people in the comments starting fights over gender (and which is more oppressed etc) and there seem to be a lot of radical "meninists" on the internet at the moment. Also, female friends of mine have been saying since years ago (so way before men's struggles became a topic) that men showing feeling and kindness are attractive. Weirdly enough, most people who look down to guys not being "manly" enough seem to be guys. Also, sure, both sexes have struggles. But pointing fingers at each other and playing the victim won't solve them.

[@lilymorgan9030]

Does this man really think “blood sweat and tears” don’t go into music. As a musician I can confirm this very much happens. Edit: I never claimed music is more physically demanding than sports??? The comments are a mess lmao

[@emilyrose9635]

Lily Morgan especially tears 😂

[@carsonh7222]

My choir director said something interesting the other day. We were all doing sectionals, and then he stopped everyone and had a mini epiphany. He said that he realized artists are the only ones in society who are expected to live up to perfection in each performance. In sports, the players are just expected to do their best... you can never have a perfect game. But for musicians, there's always SOMETHING to improve, some way to perfect yourself, to reach that unattainable status of the perfect performer. It's hard, but it's a lifestyle we chose (not to mention that sports almost always get more funding than the arts in American schools, blehh) It's something interesting to consider.

[@aylaholgate9623]

What happens on the band bus, stays on the band bus.😄

[@brendanx5413]

@@carsonh7222 I respect that and I can see how artists have a lot of perfectionist standards put on them. But I'm going to have to disagree with your choir director on how in sports, players are only expected to do their best. I've never heard a varsity coach in training just yelling at players just to try their best. No coach at high level sports ever accepts, "I tried my best..." as an excuse to not be better. I'm not trying to take anything away from musicians, but I don't think it's very accurate to believe that athletes don't have that same attitude of constant improvement. Well, at least the ones that don't typically don't get very far anyways.

[@l8dawn]

and spit. don't forget to empty your valve

[@irissupercoolsy]

"woman prefer male leadership" he said... And me hard shaking my head: absolutely not. I will always think equally mixed is the best

[@ax4326]

He’s right though, they do. What the NFL player is saying is the politically correct thing to say, civilisation has been built by Man. Has there been even one successful female civilisation

[@katzer2105]

Abdul-Ahad Hussain there never could be a „female civilization“ whatever thats supposed to mean because men have been doing everything in their power to keep women down. And historically many female leaders have been way better than their male countparts. Elizabeth the first, maria theresia, there was a very succesful chinese empress and many many more. So what your saying is actually just factually wrong.

[@katybee3891]

@@ax4326 yes there were a lot of matriarchal civilizations until the partiarchs invaded their land and surpressed them. The fact that you don’t know that women have always been leaders throughout history shows your lack of education. Do some research. Good leaders have to be able to consider the interests of multiple different people, be good at communicating and act rational and not based on anger. Those are all qualities that women are more likely to have.

[@beyouathauthentic_]

@@katybee3891 that’s y matriarchal societies live in extreme poverty coz there’s no true masculinity. If women think they r oppressed why tf don’t they go and live matriarchal societies??? Guess wat because matriarchal societies r extremely badly off

[@melihtopcu97]

@@katybee3891 You generalize leadership on a singular role. Females can be great leaders, depending on the subject. If it is in a social sector, I'd rather have a female leader (generally speaking). Women are a lot more compassionate. But there are also topics that are better suited for male leadership. Things, that usually revolve about "things" or that require aggression as a driver (war for example).

[@spykeex69]

I love how they presented Kyle Long as his own person, not necessarily that he was NFL Hall of Famer Howie Long's son. When they asked about their father's I thought that would be brought up, but when it wasn't and it was kept to Kyle the amount of respect increased exponentially.

[@76JStucki]

Wow, I didn't even know he was Howie's son until I read this.

[@Excal123]

Idk who howie is so okay

[@AngelVazquez-xh1dh]

Well, I'm kinda glad they also said he was a NFL guy... Otherwise, I wouldn't have known who he is and that he is famous xD

[@isabellarodriguez8312]

I feel for Erik, being a man shouldn’t come with so much pressure

[@erikkhamphouy7723]

Isabella Rodríguez i agree, there shouldn’t be struggle, but I feel like we all get different pressures from society and family, and it’s those struggles we all have that should bond us as humans

[@jacrispy3275]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 - _d a m n , b o i ._

[@omaralajmi1551]

Yeah... that's true , however every man has some Struggles in Society if not then in Families , i got pressured aswell to let off my own Bachelors & started Working. It was a good decision at that time... but my dream was to achieve that Degree , this kinda example or pressure will Mold onto your brain as a Man & take responsibilities , Risks etc... However , in Erik's case his dad shot himself & that is truly traumatic wether one sees it or not... a Surprise Emotions kicks in & the future would also be tough , all those Struggles would affect & build into any Human Males mainly , outcoming the Recognition and realising now your not just a Boy... but an Adult Man 👌🏼 of course not all Cases are the exact same , but the Lesson itself will wake you up or make you Woke.

[@omaralajmi1551]

@@erikkhamphouy7723 Yeah man , you're truly right.... i just noticed your name 😅 But surely it's part of Life aswell... each lesson would develop & would make someone "Grow" & "Realise"... Stay Strong bro i hope your doing well 👌🏼

[@Luis-fl3kz]

Yeah, I relate to him and I'm sure most of the millenal/Gen z men out there do too It's sad, but at least we're walking towards change

[@facgce960]

The guy in the red shirt is a fantastic human being.

[@rikuwaves]

Aya Afterlife agreed!

[@mesoanto1031]

Yes because he yeild to his daughter

[@floralrune]

@Free Papa John how

[@EMBEEAY]

Pagani Zonda your comment is more cringe than anything he even said; I can’t take anybody who uses the word “soyman” unironically seriously

[@mitchellbaker2872]

Aya Afterlife he’s a simp