I don't mean that all Chinese women don't worship money. There are many. But we can't just look at it from a man's perspective. I'm only talking about things that Chinese men won't say. Chinese men cannot blame all their failures on women Money Worship . There are many women who worship money in every country, just like most men in the world like young, beautiful and well-built women. It is interesting that some people think that other people’s marriages are all about money, even if they have been married for five, ten or even twenty years.
@proudeuropean2Ай бұрын
@@GobbyLisa99 I am married with a Chinese wife. very happy. what was new for me in Chinese culture is the outspoken importance of 'conditions' (man's abilities, education and assets) and the bride money. But I think, in the end, the patterns are not so different to those in western cultures. we only consider openly talking about it as non-romantic.
@scottbrown321Ай бұрын
My last girlfriend was Chinese. She was more interested in business, gambling and staying at casino many days a week. She did not cook or clean, I did all the house work. She gambled away more money than I make working full time, yet she expected me to pay for all of our expenses. Now after we are no longer a couple we are good friends, and she pays for everything we do together. She says it is because I am not her boyfriend now. Makes no sense to me. Obviously a cultural difference.
@ojokisaac954Ай бұрын
Thank you; your video is the relief and comfort I needed. I read a lot about this issue and needed a native perspective to aid my thoughts.
@ayethein768125 күн бұрын
A very interesting perspective from the woman's point of view.
@kidsilverАй бұрын
Very insightful, interesting ,well balanced and considerate as usual Lisa 😊
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you very much😊
@seamoreplant16 күн бұрын
Tell your husband he is a very lucky man to have you! ❤
@lawrence97431Ай бұрын
Lisa, I love your frankness. You are a gem!
@mariodesmoАй бұрын
You are very intelligent and well spoken Lisa. It is a pleasure viewing your videos. Your thoughts clearly show how you understand relationships very well. Good Luck!
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😊
@ratinatrap7815Ай бұрын
Many many big words and complicated issues explained well today Lisa 🙂
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you 😊 Many words are difficult to pronounce. I practiced a lot.
@loneranger668Ай бұрын
Good and informative video! Keep up the good work.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@manay1993Ай бұрын
I am currently in a relationship with a Chinese woman, and she was honest that money was one of the most important things for Chinese woman. She even say Chinese have a money god. The reason they do this is because they see it the man is capable to have a family and be the leader of the household. TBH it makes me feel uncomfortable but I also understand this point of view to an extent
@SteveSmith-zz4ih15 күн бұрын
i spoke with a Shanghai lady (who travels around the world working) and she said "You control Asian women with money", plus don't be a Soft target (Simp). Basically Asian women LOVE money (well 93.77% of them).
@MarkGreen-uy9emАй бұрын
Another great talk. Your English improves with every episode. You are not afraid to attack hard and long words. Keep it up Lisa❤
@jeffreyjackson5229Ай бұрын
I have concluded that without even watching the video by assessing a few Chinese women who have met in my life travels. From a distance, they appear to be the perfect companion, but, ultimately, they are another reinforcement regarding my remaining single.
@gumdeoАй бұрын
Good points, clearly stated.
@lionedheartАй бұрын
Forgot to say, for American 🇺🇸 it’s very difficult for me to go to China 🇨🇳. I heard if very difficult to get a visa to go there as an American 🇺🇸
@davidc44084 күн бұрын
This is the most important for me money finding a Chinese woman. That is what i love inbher. Her goal making money
@petersheppard6085Ай бұрын
Thank Goodness you found a good Englishman !
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
I’m luck. When I was 26 I found my husband 😊
@franklinherbert-p7yАй бұрын
you have very good shows also i like your sense of humor. where did you get that laugh from?
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😊
@andrewb2476Ай бұрын
Your English is very good Lisa, true love will overcome many problems in life. People think “money” is everything, yes it helps but it’s not the most valuable thing in life. “Time” is the most valuable thing on earth. Love if strong will bond 2 people together the matter how much money they have. Problem is most people are fake and lie.
@theplasteredfinger5942Ай бұрын
brilliant.and as others have said, your english is improving leaps and bounds (if only my tagalog was as good!!)
@bobbieboothroyd8531Ай бұрын
I hope you had a Nice Christmas and I hope you have a good New years when it comes. I know it comes a bit later for Chinese people. By a couple of weeks or so. Everyone should be respected who ever they are. And I'm glad you always give us Brits a good Report👍
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you 😊 I had a very good Christmas. Hope you have a great New Year too
@NavyVet2243Ай бұрын
Good Explanation Ms Lisa, and i have found some Chinese women will try to get you to invest in something to find out if your financially up to their standards. When you tell them your still paying off debt they will Ghost you.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Those are all scams, don't believe them
@NavyVet2243Ай бұрын
@GobbyLisa99 i dont lol but it has taught me how to spot the scammers
@stbazАй бұрын
Nice to get different perspectives.
@BobKernowАй бұрын
My partner, from China, told me the same things. She doesn't want anything to do with Chinese men. Quite sad really.
@lionedheartАй бұрын
Are you sure? Because i hear the younger generation of Chinese women are the ones who care about money. While the ones who were born back in the day, not so much. As they were raised with a moral foundation and placing their values where it’s more important and not just about money. Today, capitalism is ruining many countries relationships. As society becomes more superficial.
@daveinchinaАй бұрын
I love how you match your lipstick, top and flowers.
@edspace.Ай бұрын
Its interesting to see the differences, and similarities, between the relationship culture in China and in NATO aligned countries (not sure what the best term is) given how I've seen similar kinds of commentary. One thing I did wonder about was how the idea of the woman doing all the domestic responsibilities as well came to stay, since one of the things I learned about at school was how Mao and the Communists did a massive campaign to "get women out of the kitchen and into the factories" did that get changed over the years?
@keithhudson1358Ай бұрын
Very good video Ms. Lisa.
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you!😊
@adriancann5056Ай бұрын
wow, so different from what we hear in movies etc. what about the "bride price" that seems to hit the news, where it's huge and blamed for people not getting married. Happy new year
@Sparkyparky60Ай бұрын
Hi Lisa, hope you and your husband had a good Christmas. I love your videos and learn something new each time I watch them. Chinese women appear to be the bedrocks of relationships, and should be treated with more respect. Your English is really improving. Keep up the excellent videos. 👍👍
@GobbyLisa99Ай бұрын
Thank you very much 😊
@YellewBheeАй бұрын
Some people would lied and slanderous just to make money ..
@Mike-g3o7zАй бұрын
Bride price? Gold? House? Car? All demanded by Chinese women
@bodieb1233Ай бұрын
I never understood why Chinese women gamble so much when they like money so much. They are not stupid and must know how it works. I have dated a few Chinese women and wanted a good Chinese wife, but the gambling gets in the way.
@tkyap2524Ай бұрын
We worship money, but don't let it make us a devil.
@QuizmasterLawАй бұрын
Here we see the happy Chinese wife relieved not to be inheriting her husband's property after all! jesus i am shameless. 加油!
@jefffchАй бұрын
I live in California, and I want a Chinese woman. Do you have advice for me?
@jefffchАй бұрын
@@trueaussie9230 What makes you say I'm being shallow?
@ian_s7481Ай бұрын
Lisa, please let me give you a few English lessons. Good videos though. 👍
@galas455Ай бұрын
Do most young people live together (man and woman) in China before marriage?