Do Gay Men and Straight Men Think The Same?

[@vampireloriiero]

The bald man is so so kind and open to everything. Honestly such a genuine person

[@MisfitRyan382]

Thank you! I appreciate the kind words.

[@mark96813]

I notice that too. Liked what he said about open relationships. Like him, I've been in a relationship for 13 years and honestly the idea of someone else being involved with us repulses me.

[@aliciamoon1937]

The bald man is so precious

[@MisfitRyan382]

Thank you. That's me.

[@weenussy]

a sentence i never thought id hear but agree with

[@aliciamoon1937]

@@MisfitRyan382AND A MISFITS FAN I LOVE U

[@user-qx5ps1fi7l]

for real, he is too wholesome for this video

[@peterkotara]

He seems like someone I could share a meal with.

[@vampireloriiero]

Dude with the hat is the exact reason why women feel safer around gay men

[@fairygodmother139]

Yes

[@Anguu777]

Always the ugly straight dude who thinks gay men would hit on him😂...that handsome straight dude was cool

[@bs-calrissian2023]

He is aware of it tho, he even said it himself at 13:10

[@bs-calrissian2023]

How do you know that?

[@Anguu777]

@@bs-calrissian2023 because he is taking in general way & not about himself. Bye

[@DR_OBYNO]

That bald guy is the definition of a beautiful soul. He is so open minded and so accepting and this is what humanity needs

[@MisfitRyan382]

Thank you!

[@misanthrophex]

the way he acts/sees things should be the norm in our society, but sadly he truly is exceptional. like he's literally a misfit. a person that fits perfectly in this world is a misfit, how paradoxical is that? haha

[@AwakenedPuffin]

Dude in the hat, you're thinking is why many straight women are afraid of straight men.

[@9395gb]

Straight women arent afraid of straight men. Just because a few straight men are bad doesnt mean they all are and most women know this.

[@ebonyblack4563]

He even admitted women are closed off around him, and implied that he assumes when they're not that they're interested. Such a lack of self awareness and perspective...

[@jammiedodger6t9]

came here to say this they r such a red flag

[@s.yang.12]

13:07 straight men aren't sexual? lmao what straight men is he hanging out with 😭

[@elysemorgan1854]

Lmaoooo that was complete bs 😂

[@msdd7610]

ong i commented about this too cause like that's the sort of comment a guy who's never hung out around straight guys would say) 😭

[@Random-sk6hm]

That was the biggest cap I've ever heard 💀

[@PossibleBat]

Boobs, cars, beer, the trifecta for straight men 😂

[@itsDelfi]

In his ignorance, he's trying to say straight men are not "sexually feminine" like gay men usually are, basically that they don't have the same feminine energy as gay dudes, which is obvious and it makes sense that it makes him uncomfortable: cause he's used to liking that energy in females. When he comes across that energy but in a male form, he gets threatened (for some reason).

[@noodlesushi111]

i dont think guy with the cap came here with hostile intentions but he did seem ignorant. i hope he grows out of that and doesnt think everything is the same as "west hollywood" cause there's a whole lot of people in this world, and that includes gay people.

[@GLoLChibs]

Yeah he's looking at all gays based on the gays of one area that are notorious for going out of the way to be stereotypes. I know with a lot of the fellow gays in my area, they don't date people who have slept with friends because they want to, but smaller dating pool means having to re-evaluate priorities. They would prefer not to. My husband is 6'2, bearded, rugged, works oilfield...no one thinks gay when they see him or some if his fellow gay coworkers, but, there they are.

[@kimberlywalker3970]

I think the mix of straight and gay people on this panel are the most interesting in terms of POV. The straight guy in the cap is to the extreme, the bald one is in the middle and the long-haired guy is more liberal. Same with the gay men. The one w/the nail polish is what you'd consider stereotypical, the younger guy is in the middle and guy in the yellow shirt is the type where you couldn't tell right away unless you hear what he says. Not all straight and gay men are the same. That's what I get from this panel in particular.

[@jamalwaked]

Had a great time discussing these topics, thanks for having me on here!

[@elysemorgan1854]

You are gorgeous 😍

[@stephtaylor6292]

the embarrassed ''no we don't'' was the best part. XD

[@msdd7610]

Aye you a cool guy

[@BlackStarASMR]

A child does not need masculine energey or feminine energy or an energy drink. A child needs love.

[@ARpirateant]

Exactly. My dad is a typical guy never showing love but also never even giving positive masculine energy. It was toxic male energy he gave out

[@hml25]

Yep plus the discipline argument is pretty ridicule a lot of people fear their mom way more than their dad and a lot of moms act as the parent way more so the mom end up being both energies or whatever that means without forgetting single parents plus tons of people prolly got typical straight parents woth both "energies" yet ended up being one more than other

[@javannapoli2018]

Yeah, I didn't agree with much of the answers to that segment. To preface all this, I am a straight 24yo man. I still have both my parents, they are still together, but I was almost entirely raised by my mother and I am much closer to her than I am my father, this is mainly because my dad has always worked long hours and full weeks. I don't relate to masculine stereotypes, I don't like sports, I don't care about being big and strong, I find my own body hair gross, I don't really enjoy interacting with 'masculine' men because I don't relate to them and I have never had any real male role models (or role models in general to be fair). I have Uncles, I have never spent a lot of time with them, one lives two states away from me, the other we just don't see often. I am closer with my aunts, and my grandmother. This is to say, I have not received 'masculine guidance' through my life. Despite that, I have been closer to the 'model child' than any guy I have ever met. From as early as I can remember, which would be about 12, I haven't disobeyed my parents, I haven't yelled or swore at or antagonised my parents, I have never stolen, I don't lie, I have never snuck out, I never drunk under-age, I didn't hang around a rough crowd despite growing up in a pretty shitty area, I've never been in a fight, etc. I don't think 'masculine energy' is a necessity, and I don't agree that many of the things that they attributed to be 'masculine' are inherently masculine, I can recognise that historically / traditionally they are, but I don't agree that they are inherently. I am biased, but I honestly believe that a good portion of men are a detriment to their own sons development.

[@mcgde0]

For the record no one is ganging up on the hat guy. No is overshadowing his “opinions”. They are clearly challenging his outdated and inaccurate views of gay people. Gay people have “intermixed” with straight people for a long time. Knowingly or not. He is just willfully ignorant and just live his bubble. Everyone has their preference of who they want to be around, cool. These age old stereotypes are annoying and why we can’t progress as a society. Furthermore, most straight people want to feel attacked and persecuted so bad because some just want to say dumb shit and not get push back for it, that’s all.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Not only that, as a straight guy, he stereotypes us too and just made stupid and downright wrong statements.

[@J-Sizzle]

My thought was ... He is interacting with gay people often (especially if he is from Hollywood) and doesn't even know it

[@Blasfamous8]

🙌🏼

[@wdsongama]

Masculinity and masculine energy are such debatable concepts...

[@hml25]

Yeah this video really should've took more time explaining their views

[@cdstar25]

The guy with the hat needs to read a book, or an essay, or just open his eyes to the world. He's the exact type of straight person that makes everyone who's not like them uncomfortable.

[@hml25]

Yeah very ignorant about others and generalizing his opinions and feelings to others

[@J-Sizzle]

I want to open by saying from a production standpoint it was good to have him on there because his opinions and POV are so extreme. But he was annoying from the start. And the way that he moved with such firmness made it seem like he was inflexible or that he feels how he feels and that's it.

[@MisfitRyan382]

It was a fun and interesting experience. Thank you for inviting me to this!

[@CyberChunk77]

This dude in the hat goes "straight men... blah blah" as if he's not flying solo on his opinions. As a straight man, I don't agree with almost anything he said. He's just talking about his own experiences and feelings and blanketing every straight man. It's weird.

[@marieap6945]

He appears very close-minded, ignorant and seems to only see others through patriarchal archetypes

[@hml25]

Yeah his opinions coukd be shattered by very simple facts he doesn't see to think very much about things

[@pooramateurvideo]

he is why there should be a difference in terminology between heterosexual and straight

[@laurenmeese]

The "no we don't" 😂😂

[@kameralkutie5594]

Mann why I put that part on repeat.😂

[@Random-sk6hm]

Fr like what's blud yapping about? 😂 Who tf talks about the Roman Empire, idk what straight guys he's hanging out with but me and my friends have never once debated Julius Caesar 💀

[@smisv]

@@Random-sk6hm you're still just a boy then...

[@J-Sizzle]

I hope you offered the guy with the hat therapy after this session.

[@joedavenport5293]

I grew up in a home with a feminine mother and a masculine father and my dad was a horrible parent.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Exactly, plus there're forgetting that in a lot of (non-western) cultures, the mother is the 'masculine' figure that decides everything and is the one you really don't wanna p!ss off. The father is usually the more chill one in these cultures and the one you can talk to so in a sense 'feminine'

[@magnusgranskau7487]

ive been with some mothers who i interacted with their son who did not live close to his father and me just showing him more boy stuff like throwing a axe and knifes and general male goofing around is also masculine energy, he really appreciated that

[@Elizabeth.Crawford]

I really appreciate these conversations. Stereotypes are the enemy of progress.

[@cspi3r0wttv28]

16:52 i love how hat guy thinks he speaks for all straight men 😂 while other straight men look at him, confused 😅

[@vitortonera]

The guy in the hat is the comic relief, that man was all over the place hahah

[@krumpstar]

Thanks for having us on ! It was fun :)

[@weenussy]

this was a good video because they all got to genuinely talk about their thoughts and look at what others have to say. but i will say the cap dude was a lot more closed minded and followed the stereotypes and not as much as what they had to say... because he focused so much on him being straight and then gay men are more sexual when jts like straight men are equal or even more sexual but towards women ... but the bald one was the sweetest soul and i loved how open he is fo everyone and everything and how he kept a positive look on everyone

[@MisfitRyan382]

Thank you.

[@Jojo-wv5sv]

I’d find ist very interesting to have a Lesbians vs. Straight men, to see how their perspectives on women and womanhood differentiate.

[@tatsf]

I appreciate the straight guy in the cap for ... carefully... speaking his mind and not just trying to be PC. Of course, he also has to be aware that his friends will watch this so he's likely pulled in two directions. As a gay man since I was in my teens I've been and seen a huge variety of types of gay men. I would love to see more variety of folks, including everyday more masc-of-center gay men, older folks of all genders and orientations, lesbians/studs, etc. Overall, this brought up some good points and I liked that most of the guys were being insightful and sometimes changed their initial responses to a prompt.

[@verlan3293]

It's not really about being PC, I found him to be quite ignorant in general. Such as labelling a boisterous and friendly gay guy as being "sexual" and showcasing the typical gay-men-being- predatory-to-straight-men trope. There was also some misogyny in there by him thinking that a woman having a similar demeanour means she's being sexual. Being friendly =/= being flirty. He also implied he's part of the bastion of masculinity compared to the other guys simply by virtue of his sexuality. Also him parrotting the hacnkeyed "men being the provider women being the caretaker" trope? This is what you're applauding? Lol. I sometimes find it ironic sometimes how people label any sort of pushback to their opinion as people demanding they be "PC". The reality is that people of this type (generally conservatives) see any sort of disagreement to their opinions as being a form of oppression and play victim. I understand there can many times be pressure of being PC, but I never liked the notion that the sensitivity goes only in one direction. If you don't want criticism then just be honest about that instead of trying (and failing) to be stoic about it.

[@CyberChunk77]

I mean, no problem with him and his opinions. More problems with him going "straight men are like this.... like me" when, as a straight man, I'm not. That shit just sounds ridiculous. Tbh, his opinions are not uncommon, but they're def not universal!

[@Random-sk6hm]

@@CyberChunk77 Fr, as a straight guy I was embarrassed by the things he was saying with the blatant and downright wrong stereotypes. Who tf talks about the Roman Empire casually? 💀

[@anenemyanemone4923]

​@@Random-sk6hm Certain historians, I guess? Apparently this is actually a social media trend because of some "influencer" asking her boyfriend the question "How often do you think about the Roman Empire?" and getting a surprisingly frequent answer like "Once every two weeks." Most people suck at estimating frequencies of, well, anything, but even more so for low frequency things. To keep with the theme of this video, just ask random people on the street what percentage of people are gay. The answers are weirdly inflated weirdly often.

[@Random-sk6hm]

@@anenemyanemone4923 Oh I hadn't heard about this joke. I thought he was being serious, most guys (and people in general) wouldn't talk about that randomly outside of a history class.

[@Junk_Draw3r]

Hat man is outta pocket 😭

[@dakotac180]

I like the openness in this conversation. Jamal is gorgeous and I like him.

[@thaisonkesak7691]

Overall I loved this. Everyone was themselves and I’m here for it. No one got rude or nasty, it was just an honest conversation. I think it’s also insane to think everyone will share the same opinion as you. The world is not a vacuum.

[@migwigpee0796]

Wdym the guy in the cap was getting a little passive aggressive

[@Ray03595]

The straight guys kept it real, good casting. It's hard to get authentic opinions in these videos because most are so worried about being cancelled and want to say the "correct" thing instead of their true feelings. The authenticity rubbed off on one of the gay guys too who switched his spot for one of the prompts

[@MuhammadHaqq-f8t]

The man with the braids omg ... husband right there love you 😍 😘 🎉🎉

[@NorbieSimon]

I was raised by only women and i turned out to be a masculine gay guy who knows how to do yard work, and fix issues around the house.

[@kiannathaneal2244]

Idk this video was interesting. It was like straight men thoughts and gay men thoughts and then one straight homophobe. Homophobia doesn’t have to do with sexuality so he was kinda a buzz kill.

[@joedaddy4714]

I knew bro with the hat was straight without asking 😂😁

[@Random-sk6hm]

''Straight men talk about the Roman Empire'' What is blud yapping about? 😂

[@TygerTyger911]

More Jamal, please! I really didn't care what anyone was saying because he was just so beautiful to look at.

[@musiqal333]

I really appreciate the straight dude with the long hair and especially the bald guy. That dude is really a nice soul. ❤

[@ok-wv4st]

the guy with the long hair>>>

[@kobusgrove985]

Is my fav...

[@philipkingston3905]

All likeable people, especially the mellow straight Asian guy.

[@andreiesin79]

That black man with the braids? Zzzzzz Beautiful!!!!!

[@Kidassassin109]

BLACK SHIRT IS SOOOO CUTE!

[@waynebennett745]

Which black shirt?

[@rassoul420]

that armenian dude is such a stereotype

[@itsDelfi]

15:05 "But why?" Okay, because straight men are attracted to feminine energy in a woman. So when some of them are confronted with feminine energy in a dude, their "instinct" is somehow shocked. As a woman who likes masculinity in men, I'm not attracted to a masculine woman. It's a turn off, but that doesn't mean it's a phobia, at all. You just happen to vibe better with other things, and it's okay.

[@valkiron11]

Feminine gay men are like a cat that barks. It's a little weird for some.

[@brucenatelee]

There needs some balance of masculine and feminine influences for kids. Not necessarily parents, but even friends and extended family. I think it does a disservice to have anybody too ignorant of either side, which may lead to some similarities to misogyny and misandry. Masculine or feminine gay parents can work. It doesn't have to be just learning morals, but gaining first hand experiences with being around that as well.

[@brucenatelee]

Mindgame: Coming from a straight man, a man that is so manly, he can dominate other men...

[@Random-sk6hm]

Exactly, plus there're forgetting that in a lot of (non-western) cultures, the mother is the 'masculine' figure that decides everything and is the one you really don't wanna p!ss off. The father is usually the more chill one in these cultures and the one you can talk to so in a sense 'feminine'

[@shawnsmith8558]

Husbandry isn't really a problem tho

[@nathancoleman7235]

Much of what they say here-straight and gay-makes me think.it's great to see this sort of dialog.

[@andreiesin79]

That man with the hair? Zzzzz stunning, smart!!!!

[@aqua3890]

Who is the long haired guy? I'm exactly like him

[@NorbieSimon]

3:35 he’s the most stylish guy out of everyone in this group lol

[@deadasfork]

I grew up with a parent who exuded both masculine and femme energy and I think it helped me come into my own identity as someone who was raised like a “Tom boy” but also learned to appreciate the feminine parts of myself and how to balance both in life.

[@deadasfork]

The guy with the hat is why women choose the bear

[@darthpotato4599]

Honestly the guy in the hat is a little refreshing, in that he doesn't seem openly hateful or rude or close minded, it seems like he's got some internalized culture but is honest about "this makes me uncomfortable and here's my opinion" without being rude about it. Especially being "outnumbered" in terms of opinions in the room he didnt get defensive and mean.

[@justingutierrez233]

Appreciate the actual diversity of thoughts of opinions here. Not everyone is gonna some politically correct sweetheart and it's nice to hear some opinions that make you uncomfortable as long as you can understand the perspective underneath.

[@dregavero]

Interesting take and a nice variety of gay vs straight opinions 👍 One general thing for these, sometimes I feel like Brian is pushing his opinions too much, especially when not participating in the voting, and it feels like lecturing. If you want to say your opinion, go on the scene with the participants, otherwise don't get too involved, we are here for the participants(whoever they are).

[@superxicanatravel]

@superxicanatravel 0 seconds ago I used to be friendly to everyone when I was younger but had to change because of men like “baseball hat guy” who misinterpreted my behavior as being sexually interested in them. I got tired of all the sexual harassment and started to use the “resting bitch face” when out in public as my protection from unwanted sexual advances from men.

[@timhenry8828]

Jamal is beautiful. When he talked about washing your butt, I instantly thought of his and started fanning myself. 🥵

[@Kidassassin109]

This is why hat man can’t be around gays 😂😂 we be so hot and bothered!

[@anenemyanemone4923]

He struck me as the smartest one in the group too.

[@misanthrophex]

The Trixie shirt

[@misanthrophex]

5:15 many people don't understand this question really. And the answer to this question is yes, but in explanation it's very different. It doesn't mean that there has to be a man and a woman, but it's about energy. And you don't need to act feminine to give feminine energy to a child. Look at it this way: one parent has to be one that is a bit more strict, a bit more practical, pragmatic, the other parent is the one that's a bit more allowing, caring, loving. They both do these things, but one focuses more on one, another on the other, simply because of time constraints, really. It may sound a bit mean, but it isn't at all, it's just how human kind is. And I gave a very short and simplified explanation. 7:58 strange for a gay guy not to understand what's being said... and the straight dude is absolutely right, males absolutely need discipline, it's an absolute must. not everyone, but let's not take fringe cases as a rule. most boys are horrible if undisciplined. and also, as I said before, and as it's been said, masculine energy can be provided by mother. it's not black and white. some kids are very easy to raise in general, but many absolutely need masculine and feminine energy around. 14:55 this guy is very right, and people misunderstand him, he's talking from the perspective of actual reality, not how things "should" be. He's just reflecting, not preaching. He's actually very bright and tolerant and cool for a straight guy. People are misreading him often, and actually being a bit aggro to him, without understanding that.

[@KRAPYBARA84]

This str8 guy needs to chill lol

[@josephglass6054]

Hat guy cancelled himself

[@DiamanteSPK]

As a gay man raised by a Christian single mum, my brother and I turned out to be men with manners, went to university, stayed away from drugs and from other vices. Now I don't know if this was due to our religious upbringing or the fact that my mum was a strong Latina haha. But if you look at it statistically the larger percentage of men who are in prison or gangs, come from fatherless homes. With this I'm not saying if you don't have a father, you'll turn into an addict or criminal, but if you look at the data, it is clear that there is some sort of correlation between a fatherless home and boys not doing well in school, or doing drugs, or involved in criminal activity, or having problems with aggression etc etc

[@michaelc9287]

Data is better than their personal anecdotes.

[@BrookLeeofficial]

One time a few years ago our table broke so I took it apart and brought it outside, fixed it, and brought it back inside and put it back together. When I was bringing it back inside I said “I don’t need no man’s” and my daughter who was probably 3 or 4 said “I don’t need no man’s either, except you mommy” 😂❤️

[@jr22hon]

9:55 Damn the host called that guy in the front out. "Hairy and you don't take care of yourself" 😮

[@Kidassassin109]

I am not a morning person Im not loud as hell in the morning. I don’t know wtf buddy in the hat is talking about. Even though I hate his way of thinking it’s still valid because a LARGE percentage of straight men think like that. Even though its ignorance and stereotypes

[@princeoffriendship]

13:07 he says that straight men are not as sexual as gay men, then a few seconds later he says that women don't like straight men because they are full on sexual.... He argues and then argues with his statement...

[@papiramen5915]

Don’t give me 8pm flamboyant energy at 8am PLEASE! 🤣 I get what he’s saying lol. It’s true but mean but true. That early I’m not feeling like being understanding of why you’re energetic enough to talk with your hands and roll your neck lol! Just be still and give me another 2hrs of mellow energy before I can be ready to open my mind up for the world of different personalities lol. Respectfully, not a morning person

[@bryanzoom97]

The issue with this comment is that assuming 100% of gay men behave this way is flawed, there are many gay ppl who are reserved its clear that cap guy has let his current environment define the entire gay male community

[@Kidassassin109]

@@bryanzoom97thank you. He made it seem like a gay thing and that’s the issue. A lot of my straight coworkers call me a bitch for not speaking till about 10am because i probably woke up 30 minutes ago rushing to make it to work for 8.

[@tunaice]

​@@bryanzoom97Yes and assuming that it is sexual in nature when it is just being friendly.

[@j_a.0]

4:50 tbh it hasnt been around for a "long time", most of early humans, the mother would die in childbirth, or the father would leave, or the mother would leave. Only recently from the mass amounts of scientific advancements with helping mental health or illness and death have these gender roles been more solidified in our culture, and even if it had been around for a long time, so has slavery, wars, and, discrimination, all of the examples was and sometimes still are allowed, respected and viewed as okay. Just because something was veiwed as good before, doesnt mean that it is and should be that way, this is how we as a species develope change and adapt in a way that benefits us all as humans. So saying that the reason there should be gender roles is because it has been around for a long time proves nothing, and without a fully realised reason then there isnt an arguement for that.

[@NoFace-cz3sm]

Within 5 seconds of watching I can tell the guy in the hat will be hilarious 😂

[@selfproclaimedesper778]

thankyou for adding more body shapes

[@toocooltobecruel]

0:37 I don’t like the stereotypes here about women being more traditional, complicated and not exploring as much as men

[@izach28]

It’s biology men and women aren’t equal

[@insomnimatt]

woof. dude in the all black and longer hair. wOOOOOOOOOOOOOOF.

[@imangrowe1195]

First off I want to start off with a positive and say that I think that you Brian have an amazing energy about yourself and also I think it’s empowering to come up with such a concept to create a safe space for the lgbtq+ community to speak their truth and speak their minds. Now… however, I would love to see the WHOLE spectrum of the lgbtq + community be more involved.. it just seems now the concepts are the same and it’s the same kind of topics being brought up but just re eradicated. I’m not trying to come for you brotha. I appreciate that your showing love but it only seems that only the gay community, the trans community and people who identify as straight are invited on these conversations. I would love to see more of our ( for all labels to be invited on conversations) not just close friends or etc. please involve more labels on here and give them room. There’s sooo many younger kids and teens needing advice. Invite your lesbian community up, non binary, and more up here. Other than that much love and respect. I’m giving feed back in a humbly manner. Or even drag queens or drag kings. ✨

[@BrianTerada]

Thanks so much for the kind words and feedback! We have a lot planned and even filmed involving more of the LGBTQ community. We have also recently done videos involving trans people, lesbians, bisexual people, and our first video was “Do all LGBTQ people think the same?”. Have you seen those and if so what are your thoughts?

[@imangrowe1195]

@@BrianTerada that’s awesome!!!! And yes I have love 🤗🤗✨✨✨ I loved those videos and the one with the Christian vs gays and also the last one you put up as well lesbians vs gays. I’m not coming for you honey at all like I love your vibe and content. I guess what I’m trying to say is I would love to see more of our community from different labels who identify. Like pans vs bi or non binary’s vs… just more of what you as the recent past videos you put up 🤗✨ I love seeing a lot of the perspectives on here and I’m even educating myself. I hope you don’t feel like I’m coming for you all love if you did or do I deeply apologize because that wasn’t my intention at all ✨ I’m excited for future films and of the content you will put up 🤗✨ much love and respect to you and your team 🤗✨🐻🧸 thank you for your insight as well 💯

[@Zen-jc2ov]

What a great, mind opening channel!

[@sillygoosechinachina]

blue hat guys takes are soooo bad and so fact like "gay men are like this, straight men are like this"...credit to you guys for having him on and letting him talk but it was hard to watch

[@nagillim7915]

It's not about masculine and feminine when it comes to childrearing. It's about parenting styles. You need a parent that protects and nurtures you and a parent that encourages you to go out into the world and make your own mistakes. It's just that those parenting roles are generally linked to gender roles in traditional straight culture. 🤷‍♂️

[@SK-nw4ig]

As a woman i find it interesting that both gay and straight men say they wouldnt like to be with a woman who has been with several of their friends. ...Straight after one of them saying heterosexual men oppressed women... Hmm :P

[@saltyluna3712]

Bi guy here I won't date a guy or girl that has slept or dated with one of my friends is just not how I go. Well to specify my current friends.

[@ineffablemars]

I’m bi and I wouldn’t want to sleep with a friends ex partner. It would feel weird to me.

[@fairygodmother139]

I’m a woman and wouldn’t go for a girl or guy that has been with my friends. Nothing wrong with that

[@BlackStarASMR]

Open relationships are the same as friends with benefits or friendship+ as it is often called. I don't see a difference there. I personally would never want to have an open relationship, because if you truly love your partner, you want to be with him, you want to have sex with him, not sex with a person that you don't love. An open relationship is basically a free to f*ck ticket.

[@saintjuice11]

The guy with the bags under his eyes looks miserable. He will have masculine daughters and feminine sons. That’s how the universe works. He’ll be so lonely.

[@AstelBunny]

Ball cap and strawberry lemonade are the the most obnoxious types of people.

[@lugk-lu5dw]

who is gay and who is straight pls make it more clear in the next video

[@lugk-lu5dw]

I wtached a bit longer and now i know but please make it more clear (great video)

[@BlackStarASMR]

The gay man in pink asks the other gay man "were you straight at that time?". This is a stupid question, because gay men are born gay and straight men are born straight. It's imprinted in their brains! There is no such thing as fluidity of sexual orientation. But there is a process to identify yourself as gay that may make you think that you were straight when you were younger. The truth is that if you are gay, you were always gay, but obviously, in younger years, you can struggle with accepting yourself as gay. That is why some gay men first say they are bisexual and then they finally say they are gay. But they are often so ashamed of that they lied to everyone when saying they were bi, that they have invented "sexual fluidity" to hide their lies behind the claim of "sexual fluidity". Discovering your sexual orientation does not change your sexual orientation. Yet some people falsely disagree with that fact. You can also derive this easily from biology. Sex and sexual orientation is fundamental in evolution. It's a complex topic, also because gay men have genes that make their female relatives more fruitful and that's why there will always be gay men, because these genes are an evolutionary success. The sexual center of the brain lies deep inside the brain. It's one of the core parts of your brain. And this brain structure in the core does not change when you get older!

[@anenemyanemone4923]

To me it seems obvious that straight men are (on average, overall) more masculine than gay men. That comes with both positive and negative attributes, and doesn't make them inherently better or worse. And, of course, it's not across the board. Surely most of us have known gay men who fit masculine stereotypes and straight men who fit feminine stereotypes, but by and large they're the exceptions that prove the rule. Most gay men realize this at some level too. It makes it much easier to get laid if guys with more-feminine-than-usual attributes ping your gaydar. I think lots of people don't like saying it because it feels like it devalues gay men, but that's just because of the problematic societal tendency to value masculine shit over feminine. I think we should try to get over that rather than bending over backwards to pretend that groups that are different in one way might tend to be different in others (at least on average), especially when it's obvious.

[@aidendavies4648]

“A man’s nature” “a man’s thinking” believe it or not but sex does not define how you think lmao. I hate people so small minded. Especially when we’re no longer in the medieval ages lmao

[@maximeboissonneault6203]

Man, the guy with the hat is so freaking cringe!

[@peterkotara]

Just ponder the question for a moment.

[@isabelleboulay2651]

manly doesn't equate to being dirty, that's just self-neglect. Nothing to do with sexual orientation. Toxicity is not about masculinity, it also exists with women and straight environments.

[@herbie2525]

The guy in the cap makes me sad. It's like he has/has been given a very narrow view of the world and that's all he knows. His non-verbal reactions are interesting, it's like the reactions of a petulant child..... Don't even get me started on the opinion that you can't hang out with gay men because they go straight to the sexual. At least he admits he's 'scared mostly' Maybe videos like this would help him to understand and appreciate the value of diversity, but he seems quite set in his ways. Love so much of this discussion.

[@wataereii]

as a queer person with mother who has _really_ toxic femininity, and quite normal dad, all my childhood i just wished my mother would disappear and i would have two fathers instead/srs (now i just think it would have been amazing to just have normal parents wether they're queer or not lol)

[@pooramateurvideo]

love that flower outfit

[@atanacio25]

Who is the guy with long hair in black pants and black shirt. He's very attractive 😍 😍

[@innitbruv-lascocomics9910]

Can you find normal gay people. Why do you always find the the cool crazy looking ones. Theyre amazing but I dont feel represented by these dudes. More power to them tho for being able to come on the show and share their experiences.

[@innitbruv-lascocomics9910]

Dude in cornrows is cute tho ❤

[@ok-wv4st]

Wtf do you mean “normal” gay people they are normal

[@verlan3293]

Translation: You want straight passing gay people. Just say what you want directly.

[@mlmc58]

Care to elaborate on "normal gay people?"lol

[@danielaorellana8216]

It's always sad to see someone hate themselves like this

[@georgedavison3371]

I love the little buddha man 😂

[@waynebennett745]

Who is the cute Indian guy? 😍

[@Anna101shark]

Straight men arent sexual? I would tell that guy to look at the SA statistics.

[@valkiron11]

SA is about power, not sex.

[@bloodykon1]

​@valkiron11 im calling the cops on you

[@ManOo-y9p]

I can’t decide if the guy in the hat is homophobic or playing devils advocate

[@mackenzieablog534]

I really don’t like how involved the host has been getting in these. I agree with his points but I think his role is supposed to be to stay out of it and act unbiased and ask questions to facilitate and not take sides.

[@juliusmatu]

The foreign hetero dude comes from which Middle Eastern country?

[@anenemyanemone4923]

He looks and sounds Armenian, though that doesn't quite specify what country he's from (plenty who were born in the US even have accents if they grew up in enough of a cultural bubble). Armenia isn't Middle Eastern, but Caucasian (as in, actual Caucasian, not the dumb euphemism some Americans use to refer to white people who usually have nothing to do with the Caucasus). While many Armenians these days do come from the Middle East (i.e. Western Armenians, who mostly used to live around Lake Van till the early 20th century when they fled from the genocide the Turks were committing against them), there are still plenty from Armenia (i.e. Eastern Armenians). Something about this guy and the way he presents strikes me as being an Eastern Armenian. If you need a frame of reference, Eastern Armenians have more affinity with Russia (as they lived under the Soviet Union) than with the Middle East (it's still a distinct culture, though, and their language, while Indo-European, is in its own branch and not close to any other). There are plenty of both groups in Hollywood, where he said he grew up, but more of the Eastern group overall.

[@9395gb]

When I think of attractive men, I think of Chris Hemsworth, Michael B Jordan, Brad Pitt, Shemar Moore, Boris Kodjoe, Tyson Beckford, Taylor Kinney, Idris Elba, Blair Underwood, George Clooney, Denzel Washington, and Pierce Brosnan. Those men are all straight. So I do not understand the correlation of male beauty (or even male grooming) to gay men only. Not saying that there are not attractive gay men. But the men that society lauds as the most beautiful/handsome males have generally been straight men.

[@Imetwurld_]

As a straight woman same thing I thought too . If I'm being honest I've not seen a good amount of beautiful gay men as I have seen among straight men and I will like to think it's because of straight men are more in number like I said I would like to assume that's the case ...

[@9395gb]

​​​​@urgirll31 It could be a numbers thing. But, still it's not as if heterosexual men overall do not take care of their bodies, groom themselves, or care about their looks in general. Most heterosexual men do try to take care of their looks especially when they want to attract beautiful women, get certain jobs and careers, or just for their own overall health and wellness purposes. I do not know too many heterosexual men running around looking a "hot mess" or like a slob. Quite the opposite from my experience. And like I said before, the men that society tends to celebrate as the most beautiful, most stylish, and most suave men anyhow generally are heterosexual (ie Brad Pitt and Shemar Moores types). Even the majority of male models (runway and commercial) tend to be heterosexual. Again, I am not saying there are not good-looking gay men, but grooming and male beauty is definitely not exclusive to gay men.

[@fairygodmother139]

@@9395gbyh but they take care of themselves because they’re celebs. Most straight average men are incredibly disgusting when it comes to hygiene.

[@9395gb]

​@fairygodmother139 It has nothing to do with them being celebrities. It is because they were born good looking. Most attractive men try and maintain their looks. Even average-looking straight men try and groom and look nice because they want to attract beautiful women. I'm not sure who you are hanging around unless it's incels or porn addicts. They don't represent the average straight man. Also the gay man on this show in pink and yellow doesn't look good. He's not in shape and his outfit is terrible. In contrast the man in black with long curly hair is straight, in shape and well groomed. So they don't even fit your stereotypes about heterosexual men.

[@isabelleboulay2651]

wow, the guy with the cap is closed up. Feminine and masculine gender roles to raise children doesn't have to be the actual parents.

[@DaveJackson-hh4hx]

Masculine and feminine HAS NO GENDER it’s human nature 😮

[@candaceseitz7689]

I disagree with that " men know, what men want " thats just some gay wanting our men. A women can satisfy her man better than a gay man because straight men have made it loud and clear what they love and us women are more passionate then men. Nothing against gay men, but women have more passion and more to give because we are women

[@nenepeso]

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