Do All Lesbians & Straight Men Think The Same?

[@itslu_uke]

Sad having a straight man knowing more and defending more the LGBTQ community than someone who is part of the community.

[@jesswise1863]

I know right

[@sthepcorms6747]

That's pretty sad, a lesbian (who is part of the community) not knowing the basic difference between gender and sex? And even saying that there's only two sex?? (What about Intersex people oml) That's wild, all the lesbian in this video need to study more about their own community before commenting on topics they clearly don't know the basics of

[@nadeen1111]

Exactly. Big shout out to white shirt guy for being such an incredible ally. Very "interesting" opinions from our queer pals here... :/

[@jesswise1863]

@@nadeen1111 yes

[@YTuser854]

More the trans community than LGB themselves

[@Marco-kw8yw]

Damn, we need more allies like that white shirt guy. He was fighting alone and it didn't even have anything to do with him.

[@Wxbtoons]

I swear. He deserves LOADS more credit.

[@kuhlaid6882]

It’s almost like they forgot the prompt 😂

[@runix21]

I 100% agree. He is less against the plus in LGBTQ+ than the other gays on the panel.

[@ruskov5685]

​@@runix21the LGB

[@livitaclotilde5692]

I'm honestly disappointed with the lesbians in this video, because compared to the one straight guy with the white shirt, they SERIOUSLY seem the least educated when it comes to LGBT matters.

[@Wxbtoons]

I mean absolutely zero disrespect, but you are SO right. I’m nonbinary, and seeing a straight, cis, white guy defend what I believe in over coulored lesbians just ruined me. Gender DOES NOT equal sex.

[@rcgmig]

couldn't agree more. GENDER ISN'T SEX.

[@justicia_azul]

Yeah, see... That's the problem I have with content like this. It kind of encourages divisiveness to get clicks. It doesn't matter if the people expressing their "opinions" are uninformed. The channel just wanted clicks and monetization. Yes, people can have their opinions on stuff, but these are national issues that have been politicized, and discussions of these issues carry heavy weight. You can't just have people spout off their "opinions" based on prejudice and preconceived, ill-informed notions.

[@alexmaganda5827]

nah they are the most sane don't be mad cus you identify as a tree when you feel like it

[@livitaclotilde5692]

@@alexmaganda5827 ...Sane how? And I'm actually a cisgender woman, but go off, I guess.

[@muustyx]

I can't stop laughing. I'm so sorry but the whole debate on gender & sex was HILARIOUS. The Black woman and the guy on the Disagree sides did not understand ANYTHING that the other man said. Anything. They kept replying nonsense or arguments that the man had already disproved. I would be furious if this weren't so funny. "You gotta equally listen as you talk." Ma'am, you did not listen to a single word he said and kept interrupting him.

[@Sunshine27777]

Completely agree!

[@sthepcorms6747]

12:10 "We're talking about my opinion" that's the problem, you're talking about science with opinions, when you don't even know the difference between gender (studied by psychology) and sex (studied by biology) The fact that you needed a straight man to educate yourself about your own community is WILD

[@user-qx5ps1fi7l]

That is why I find it important to also consider the views of people outside our community. Because they can be openminded and well educated on the community aswell

[@Stryder3]

Embarrassing tbh

[@Petsmenagerie]

Lol, the indoctrination that has made its way into science is sad.

[@jemenfous9343]

Green vest girl lost me as soon as she referred to males and females as “two [different] species” (11:46)…😂

[@conlon4332]

I cannot understand why drag would be inappropriate. It's not akin at all to sexual or violent movies. It's just like pantomime!

[@MillieDuu]

No idea. So many out there also call them pedos. Like what’s the logic!?

[@kwingle]

"it was a good debate" no tf it wasnt 😭

[@sydarthian]

The huge amount of transphobia and misinformation in this video made it really hard to watch. Really disappointing.

[@XSkittles90210]

I know. Especially with how much transphobia’s been on the rise lately. This made me sick to watch.

[@Stryder3]

Yuuuup

[@freidaquin1234]

It's been removed. Comments are constantly talking about things that weren't mentioned and linking timestamps that don't relate to the comment. There's no pinned comment or change to the description. I'm disappointed with Brian here.

[@jacobsawchyn93]

No kidding! He shows this crazy fight at the beginning, which is why I even watched the whole thing, and then its taken out?? Where is the progress if we cant observe their debate!?​@freddiequin6328

[@aclstudios]

@@freidaquin1234 I was wondering why the clip at the beginning never shows up in the actual video. I didn't realize videos could be edited post-upload without re-uploading them.

[@elosneeze]

GOD PLEASE GET THE WHITE SHIRT GUY BACK!!! As all the comments have said, its so sad to not see the lgbt+ not understanding the difference between sex and gender made me so sad. You can tell he is soo well raised and educated by his mom. I'm equally so proud and so heartbroken.

[@Petsmenagerie]

🙄

[@IAmJustAPers0n11]

I love this guy with a white shirt. He's surprisingly the one defending more queer people.

[@sthepcorms6747]

Right? Some of the questions weren't even opinion based, like "gender is a social construct" that's a FACT that you can study on psychology research, the fact that queer people were against that is WILD

[@sthepcorms6747]

Like of of the lesbians not knowing the difference between gender and sex? Or that can only exists male or female (what about intersex people? We don't exist in her little world?) That's WILD, as a community, we have the science on our side, the fact that she doesn't take that in count...

[@tatsf]

@@sthepcorms6747 overall the others came across as uneducated on the issues that affect their own communities.

[@IAmJustAPers0n11]

@@sthepcorms6747 yeah I guess it's just telling of who the creators were looking for tbh

[@Pierre-LucTremblay]

Wait a minute the trans-non binary etc are not the MAJORITY of the community. Don't act like you rule the community. They are about non even 5%. That guy is obviously an activist. The kind of activist who claim gender doesn't exist. And harm us, gays and lesbians by reducing our sexual orientation to a "preference". No, lesbians are attracted by women with women genitalia, gays are attracted by men with men genitalia, bisexuals like both. So the gender is not a social construct it's a biological factual condition.

[@alexsboxofthings]

Y’all picked the worst lesbians for this conversation lmao.. s/o to the one straight guy for carrying the episode

[@Petsmenagerie]

Just cause they disagree with you doesn’t make them the worst. Grow up.

[@MarcoAce13]

Facts

[@YTuser854]

why is the woman with a bucket hat even there

[@Before-GTA6]

I think she was forced to be there😂😂💀💀💀

[@npcnamedlaila6842]

ur wrong😭😭

[@gregz34]

Ya was like she’s not a man

[@lilylookittykyu3115]

She didn't talk much but whatever leave her alone she might just be a quiet person 😭

[@aylenarizaga3537]

10:20 menstruation is due to sex , not gender

[@fiasc0b0x]

Gender is based on socially constructed norms that vary across cultures and can include rigid gender roles associated with them (think man, woman, two-spirit, nonbinary, etc.). Biological sex is our genetic makeup (think female, male, intersex). Society often incorrectly conflates the two. Neither are binary constructs. Common example: Because someone is born with XY chromosomes (male), then they are more "aggressive," "slower" to mature, "shouldn't" wear skirts, "have to" initiate romantic connections, and "should" financially provide for their (often assumed) female-bodied partner.

[@anunwantedsoul3672]

@@fiasc0b0x Exactly. Some cultures have a gender system where there are other genders besides man and woman, and they have specific roles to play, is that not a social construct?

[@tatsf]

This was kind of a hot mess. The guy with the beard and blue checked shirt for the win for sure. The others seemed not to understand or "accept" that sex and gender are not the same thing. He knows that science, culture, and belief systems are different. The others seem to conflate those things and then try to call him out for it. Sorry to say, but some folks coming off as uninformed and uneducated. I felt bad for him as he was making all kinds of sense and folks seemed to gang up on him. He's a good spokesperson for the LGBTQ communities and sounds like a great ally.

[@Petsmenagerie]

Lol, imagine people have different opinions.

[@MarcoAce13]

@@PetsmenagerieMAGA loves calling their lack of education different opinions I’ve noticed

[@tessxpink]

As a bisexual girl with a strongggg preference for women, out of this group I would only date the guy with the beanie lmao

[@taylortimeless]

I felt so bad for the guy with the beanie. That chick in the X hat was so combative and a terrible listener. Even if you didn’t agree with what he was saying it seemed like she wasn’t comprehending what he was saying. This post isn’t about who’s right or who’s wrong. Not debating that. I have my opinion, you have yours. I couldn’t care less. However, watching how she was responding to him made it seem like she didn’t understand what he was trying to say.

[@Than211]

She didn't understand nor did she care to understand and her ignorance shows. But that's kind of problem with a lot of people, they don't want to ever admit they're wrong or they're ignorant. The guy even pointed out he has studied psychology so he has some kind of credibility while the black lesbian has no background on any science but claims that her opinions and feelings are based on the science. Even when the guy explained that gender has nothing to do with sex, she's like 'but what if you get a period', like were you listening? The irony that she's like it's on video for the audience to watch and all we see is how ignorant, rude and obnoxious she is.

[@LucyJuicyStardust]

White shirt guy stood up for all of us on his own against the whole group. I appreciate you, a truly goated ally

[@IridiumSnow]

Its a bummer it devolved into an argument about the validity of trans people. Especially that it turned into an all against one with very little balance. It sucks as a trans person to just want to watch a video and here we go with transphobic rhetoric from queer people. There's so much you could talk about and here we are on an irrelevant topic arguing about the existence of people who are not in the room to defend themselves. Shoutout to the straight man backing us up, sucks the other queer people wont even defend their own.

[@anunwantedsoul3672]

@@IridiumSnow That's kind of the only reason they ever bring up the topic in things like this, because they know it'll become a whole debacle and trans people are still somewhat a hot topic (as stupid as it is)

[@molls-indie]

LITERALLY!! It’s just so concerning to see how the literal LESBIANS weren’t even the ones defending trans people. It was the straight guy, like the ally was more educated than the ppl in our own community. I’m a lesbian and do not claim those😭

[@Staratopia]

Like the lesbians weren't all displaying super fem qualities or super masc qualities, and yet they still couldn't understand the difference between gender expression and assigned sex. It is wild that a masculine lesbian can be so transphobic.

[@mysttartt]

The lesbians didn't pass the vibe at all.... LIKE AT ALL.

[@abesanchez4394]

Bro, why did the straight guys actually eat this debate up a bit

[@theusebieocean8609]

Who invited miss bucket hat? LMAOO. She did not add anything to the convo

[@DD-fz8vj]

at all

[@annabolton4556]

I usually really enjoy these videos, but I could not finish this one. As a member of the LGBTQ+ community, I was honestly embarrassed by the ignorance coming from the lesbian women. Over here, we SUPPORT the trans community and do our research before spreading hate on the Internet. Otherwise, we're no better than the conservatives who spread hate and ignorance against us.

[@andrecosta3947]

maybe you should include trans people in more episodes, even more if you want to talk about us, not use us just for cloud, like: "do cis and trans people think the same".

[@minionlover4576-bq8jk]

Lesbians are not trans people. Why did (almost)all of the questions revolve around trans people? Being queer and trans are not the same thing. Such a weird selection of questions for a group of cis people to comment on

[@jonight7253]

yo, the "gender is a social construct" disagreers were so bad i want to die (/j) wtf was that, the strongly agree dude was so intelligent, thank you for educating my fellow homosexuals and the straight guy, cause omg, that was PAINFUL to witness, props to him for not losing his temper, cause I'm losing my mind

[@jesswise1863]

The guy in the blue checked shirt seems very knowledgeable

[@BrentonGrimm]

Is it okay for kids under the age of 13 to go to HOOTERS? I wanted to hear their opinion on that one lol one of the most sexualized restaurants ever and most people have no problem taking their kids there.

[@jessicaholscher4097]

18:24 I'm gonna take guess and assume that children, who tend to dress up once a year as something they are not, probably understand the concept of a costume.

[@SakuraUploads]

Was bucket hat girl found at a bus stop 5 minutes before shooting this video and just plonked right in the middle with no context given beforehand? Like, yasss queen, give us nothing.

[@mossimations]

The transphobia from everyone except the white shirt guy was so hard to watch

[@lekn8220]

Notice how when green vest girl is speaking, white shirt dude lets her finish her take but when white shirt dude speaking she interrupts to debate him over and over.

[@Whirlbee]

Wow the bigotry in this was was appalling and just continues to spread the same disgusting far right wing talking points that have been causing hate crimes against the community to rise, especially against trans folk. It is disgusting you gave these talking points a platform. Good on the straight ally for being the only one challenging the bigoted views

[@NorbieSimon]

I’m gay and i’d rather be gay than straight anytime

[@MrMerel]

I loved your content at first Brian, because you were never afraid to think outside of the box and made unapologetic content supporting the entire queer community. The only issue I had before is that you never seem to moderate the comment section (or have it moderated), which led to people from the community being attacked without consequence. But now it seems you allow people in your videos to make degrading comments about other people in the community without consequence too… I hope this was just a slip up and the next videos will be better.

[@playnovels]

was the video edited post upload? Im not seeing the section where everyone is arguing.

[@MarcoAce13]

How was it the one straight white ally dude was way less problematic and annoying than everyone? The one pick me girl with the cap “I don’t do fist bumps,” and the other with the vest buying in to a bunch of right wing rhetoric

[@sophieh6215]

The snippet at the beginning - why isn't that shown in the video?

[@LaudRam]

Gender vs sex is dribbling them HARD

[@PeterPan-vy6te]

It's unbelievably frustrating to have a gay person actually "moderating" something like this. If you can even call it that. It almost makes me feel like you/Brian actually agree with this transphobic rhetoric. As a queer person yourself you should have stepped in, or cut this bs out entirely. It's in no way professional or a well balanced video. I don't understand the point of always asking cis people about trans people. 99% of the time they are uneducated and end up just talking made up facts they read on the Internet from transphobic people. More shocking is the absolute embarrassment I feel for the lesbians who clearly have zero knowledge about queer history and their own bubble. Not even one of them daring to stand up for their community is straight up fucked. Either way, guy showed more sense of community, pride, love and education than anyone else in this video. Imo this video should be taken down and some serious education has to happend for Brian, so he can actually do his job. A moderator doesn't just make jokes and asks questions. Moderators should step in and guide a civil conversations, they should be educated enough to point out misinformation and step it. Which did not happend at all.

[@BrianTerada]

Hey! Thank you for the feedback, I appreciate your eloquence and civility in your criticism. I always try to let people share what they think because I think it is interesting to hear someone who is put in a box express an idea, experience, or opinion that the rest of us may not expect. I also strive to keep conversations as respectful as possible while letting people do this, which is definitely a challenge! In this case, I do think it got out of hand and I also would never want people watching these videos to feel like less than. That being said I've taken that whole prompt out of this video because it is not my mission to make anyone feel like that, especially queer people. I also will do my best to look out for videos that may be triggering for some viewers and give a disclaimer in the beginning of the topics that will be covered. I love having and hearing passionate, humorous, and respectful conversations- but it is definitely a fine line to walk! Thanks again for your feedback I'll do my best to incorporate it when doing my job in the future :)

[@PeterPan-vy6te]

@@BrianTerada I appreciate the response and changes you are trying to make!

[@Ckmodel_horses]

I feel so bad for white shirt guy. It’s so frustrating to try to explain to and educate people when they don’t even care to listen or understand.

[@mykkashiba2743]

Green vest needs not to come back. That's why i dont argue with people that can't let other people be right. 😂😅

[@AllyRoselovesyou]

Everyone talking about white shirt guy- i wanna know why the girl in the bucket hat was so damn awkward the entire episode barely talking at all?? Like "I don't give fist bumps".. what

[@amseaorwa]

W white shirt guy

[@thaisonkesak7691]

I honestly stopped watching after that big argument. I don’t mind debating back and forward, but at some point we have to call a stop to bullying on the set. Forcing white shirt guy to pull up stats just because green shirt said so was uncalled for. Yes stand up for yourself, but that’s we have stage managers/directors.

[@songtrivia]

Y'all chose horrible people to discuss these topics. Most of them, except the white shirt guy, are completely uneducated about basic science. Biology 101 talks about intersex people and how sex and gender are different. Very disappointing video. Couldn't even finish watching.

[@jaymakay]

"As long as we keep it respectful, we're good" while everyone cuts one another off. I get it, everyone wants to feel heard and understood, but that's not going to happen if we don't give one another a chance to speak and explain their perspective/knowledge.

[@Victoria.G_]

The unbelievable ignorance of the difference between sex and gender is crazy.

[@ggcreations8126]

This one was a bit dissapointed shirt guy keeps telling them that it's entirely based on your culture meaning the culture you are from, and they keep asking what culture, it's different based on person geeze , Green jacket was wild

[@lukagetsadze824]

bro us straight duds and lesbians we should be at gay duds straight woman level

[@anunwantedsoul3672]

17:25 What exactly was he trying to say here? Did he think that just because these studies were conducted and affirmed decades ago that a notoriously discriminatory country would just halt in their tracks just like that? As the country progressed so did acceptance and further studies which is why we can come to our conclusion. The point so silly. Also, 19:36 I find it so crazy how she's saying it's getting disrespectful when she's been insulting his knowledge and intelligence this whole time, he's right for not affirming her baseless and incorrect statements, or as she calls them "opinions"

[@anunwantedsoul3672]

17:56 He's conflating what was considered effeminating for men in Ancient Rome to what's considered effeminating for me NOW. Obviously, it's not the same so this point is also flawed

[@golddragon51296]

@@anunwantedsoul3672 the point is that what is considered effeminate is malleable and changes over time, thats why I reference a broad span of time. Even things like crop tops/midriffs and tight clothing have gone through eras of being masc or fem, what is considered for a specific gender can easily be formed into something for the other or to be genderless. The conditions of what defines gender is cultural and malleable and naturally shifts as culture does.

[@mangamaniac-lm1br]

One thing with ignorance is when someone on opposite sides speaks their opinion or facts said ignorant person becomes rude instead of listening.

[@Libbyshou]

Quelle tristesse de voir autant de personne LGBT transphobe.. ça me rend si triste de voir ça mais bon manque d'éducation incroyable dans cette vidéo. Si même les LGBT ne s'informent pas on est mal. Il faudrait vraiment inculquer un peu plus de chose au lieu de croire des connerie et mélanger science et genre sans avoir aucune connaissance. Le gars a bien expliqué et très simplement. C'était tellement drôle quand ils ont dit que les intersexes c'est pas pareil.. Bah si enfait parce qu'être intersexe c'est pas qu'avoir des attributs physiques visuels des deux genres. ça peut être aussi des variations hormonals non visuels et non ressenti; et une personne intersexe on peut lui avoir assigné un genre et adulte il ne se ressentira pas forcément ce genre. Du coup si c'est exactement pareil sauf que ça on l'accepte parce que c'est très souvent associé à des atrocités pour ces enfants. Bref j'espère qu'un jour la communauté LGBT va s'instruire car c'est inquiétant d'entendre ce discours de TERF ou religieux nauséabond.

[@Wxbtoons]

Je suis COMPLÈTEMENT d’accord. Et ce qui est encore plus triste c le faite que c un HETERO CISGENRE qui comprend et pas des femmes qui font parti de l’LGBT. Non mais sérieux. Le genre et le sexe ne sont pas la même chose!

[@Zoomalyssa]

Where did they find these people? I’m genuinely disappointed with the transphobia and lack of knowledge in this episode. The guy in the beanie was the only one that knew what he was talking about, he’s genuinely done the research and I found it honestly quite offensive that the others were just “disagreeing” with the FACTS he was stating. Gender IS a social construct and sex and gender are different things, thanks.

[@destinyhero1]

this was awful

[@MMMercia]

WHEN THE STRAIGHT GUYS ARE BETTER ALLIES THAN LESBIANS 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@toocooltobecruel]

10:07 that was the most reflective thing I’ve ever heard from a man.

[@MarcoAce13]

Is the video edited or something? Comments don’t match what was in the video at all?

[@slushie9727]

Yeah that's what I'm thinking. Maybe they cut it down after

[@alexsboxofthings]

the lesbians and the guy in the black shirt had the worst takes ever with no substance to their arguments lol.. s/o to our straight ally! he was very well-informed

[@LucyJuicyStardust]

10:25 bro is literally describing a social construct lmfao

[@MarcovecchioTV]

god this makes me so incredibly sad to see how alive and well transphobia is within our own community

[@clarissou8672]

i'm always so disappointed by these videos, american lgbtphobia is very scary like how do you not see the problem by giving a platform to people with such anti egalitarian "opinions". This is just blatant transphobia

[@bandilebanditndlela]

This was so uncomfortable to watch(had to skip the argument part because WOW 😧) I need a redo 9:41

[@asaglucksman9530]

Everyone got to speak on their opinions but wen it come to him they all got to comment on his and attack is opinions, make it make sense

[@Mark36A]

I was surprised to see the straight guys being more open to taking a child to pride than the lesbians, but at the same time I feel like I get it.

[@NoahWJP]

Miss Green Vest needs to take her advice and allow others to speak. I may be mistaken, but she cut off bro in the white/blue multiple times prior to him voicing his allyship in a more dominant manner.

[@pobyrol]

I don’t understand the big deal with kids seeing people with little clothing. It’s just bodies, I don’t think seeing a topless woman with nipple stickers is going to traumatise anyone! in a lot of countries it’s perfectly normal to go to saunas etc. but americans seem so scared of nakedness

[@TheRealAndyofBeverlyHills]

I need to be on one of this videos!!!!! ❤❤❤

[@abbymartinez5742]

White shirt guy is the best, the only true queer ally

[@Stryder3]

Yo the entire gender portion had me rolling on the floor some people don’t know what they are talking about 🤣🤣

[@becamargo1697]

I was gonna watch this but after the start of the video and reading the comments, I, as a trans man, will not be watching it for the sake of my mental health. Please be more careful with the people you invite to your videos and with the kind of content you put out. Lost a subscriber after this one.

[@taylarsweft893]

did they edited the part out?

[@DavidsDiary]

Listening to some straight men talk about gender is exhausting. Big ups to white shirt.

[@maclaycampbell2042]

23:43 i like this guy he is so much more well spoken and get his point across so much better then the other guy

[@LeeTan141]

I was thinking the same. He was my favorite, so so mature and grounded

[@adhdself-love]

85% of straight men are not "trash." People behave terribly or not. Sex and orientation have 0% to do with it.

[@ango3185]

Is there a video " straight women and gay m'en?"

[@emiofnnc]

This isnt even about trans people, why are we on blast in this one??? BROOO😭

[@arianopoien]

20:10 wow she mad disrespectful

[@graveyardsoil]

You like women We like women we should go out together 😍

[@avivastudios2311]

To the people in the comments section talking about gender and sex: why do you sound so sure of yourself? Maybe one day we'll find an even better definition of gender. I hate how you'll call conservatives ignorant for not understanding these concepts when we're the ones that are meant to define them. And our understanding of gender can change anyway.

[@alexsboxofthings]

include more trans people when discussing gender. The straight cis guy did well but a trans person would’ve eaten them up when it came to gender topics lol

[@M-fw2goo]

No hate to anyone and no offense intended but I strongly agree with the lesbians in this video. I respect gay people and truly believe some were born that way and I understand their perspective. However, I struggle to understand transgender people. The concept of changing your gender based on how you feel each day - being a woman today and a man tomorrow - doesn’t make sense to me. THIS IS INSANE

[@ElicuuKit]

So you decide what makes sense and what not?

[@Cvpid_Mvtt]

I'm trans, I don't change my gender. I am a gay, and have been a guy. Genderfluid people have genders that fluctuate. In the nicest way possible, it doesn't matter if it makes sense. If it makes someone feel right or happy, then it's good.

[@jaycup7721]

Yeah more Brian

[@asaglucksman9530]

That one girl who was tryna talk ONE time , he kept cuttin her off , rude asf

[@rashadhartzog6560]

The lady in the bucket head is weird af. Why is she there

[@LeeTan141]

Saying gender is a social construct is such an oversimplification. While some aspects of gender are social (e.x in my culture men don’t wear dresses) that doesn’t mean you can change your gender by simply adhering to a cultural norm of the opposite gender. A masculine looking woman is still a woman. A man in a dress is still a man. Gender is based in biology and this is why trans people tend to want to pass. While they can’t change their biological sex they present (and often have surgeries) to look as much as possible as the opposite sex. Because if gender was truly just a social construct it would not have mattered. There would be no dysphoria, because you could just say you’re the opposite gender and that would be it, as long as culturally you are that should be fine. But that’s not how it works. At the end of the day gender is a bunch of stereotypes that do not matter, because we as humans would always see someone and clock them as either male or female. And if a trans person is passing well, they would be clocked as the opposite sex, which is the ultimate goal, I believe. The beanie guy was falling all over his own arguments because he knows despite how woke he is trying to be, it’s all a bunch of words and we aren’t going to suddenly see gender unrelated to sex. We might be respectful (e.x I don’t believe in the concept of non binary, but I’ll use whatever pronounce they want) and still have an opinion that is rooted in logic and biology.

[@songs4polarbear]

Right? I wear trousers, I have my own bank account, my father does not own me. Across cultures & time periods that could be only something a man could say. Word definitions can differ among history & culture just fine in slang, for example. But it cannot be applied to man/woman. If it's a social construct, eliminate all part of biology from it: medication, surgery, and stop using terms like MTF/FTM. The entire gender argument has as much integrity of a wet paper bag. Beanie dude reminds me of all the "nice guy" fauxmenists. He can virtue signal "omg even I think men are trash!" all he wants. Only an ally when it benefits him. Reject him or speak about female rights, then get an r threat. Wolf in incel's clothing.

[@golddragon51296]

Your interpretation and stance is plain erasure of the myriad of gender variations acknowledged by people in indigenous tribes and other cultures throughout history the world over, try ACTUALLY educating yourself on what gender is before saying whatever you THINK gender is about or related to through your narrow and obviously very westernized lens.

[@kajenreigns1450]

I'd say something, people should always stop using so much vocabularies in their contexts or when explaining stuff. Vocabularies make it difficult for most people watching you to understand what u're trying to say, others may understand in different ways as well.. we should focus more on making others understand what we are trying to say than trying to sound like we invented the English language

[@Before-GTA6]

Is English your third language?

[@Shellw2]

Homeboy was mad annoying.

[@KarolinaSobolewska-r7i]

13:40 Well I am an psychologist.. and there are 2 genders. Society has an opinion about what makes woman a women and man a man.. but there is a biological, genetical an even psychological difference betwen this two genders (different brains, bone structure and shape, hormones, skin..) Gender is not a construct, its not base of a filling.. there are some constructs base of gender/sex natural differences. That is all.

[@hipdip1505]

If gender if so cut and dry genetically, why do men have nipples? What’s their function? Why do men get breast cancer? What about intersex people? XXY chromosomes? XXX chromosomes? You’re a psychologist, not a geneticist and not even a psychiatrist. This is biology 101, 9th grade info.

[@ElicuuKit]

"Psychologists" that are totally oblivious of surrounding societal dynamics and constructs are bad psychologists...Thats you.

[@Cvpid_Mvtt]

I'm learning psychology! You're wrong. Sex is based on things like anatomy and hormones. Gender is an identity based on oneself. Gender is just a form of expression. These two have been separate for a while but recognized as different in the 50s

[@maclaycampbell2042]

16:31 he gets defensive and starts asking for their "qualifications" to speak on the question lol she asked for the sources and he couldn't give them.. very "qualified" of him.

[@_dashyy]

you want him to show everyone the research he has done in the middle of a video? unfortunately they only have 30 minutes, not 3 hours. he probably provided sources after the video ended.

[@maclaycampbell2042]

@@_dashyy he said multiple times “do you want me to show you?” So yes please keep your word. She literally asked to see it and he back tracked.

[@anunwantedsoul3672]

Because she wouldn't shut up. And I'm inclined to take the words of a professional who's done actual research like a smart person

[@molls-indie]

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[@sthepcorms6747]

2024 and we still need to educate some people about the difference between gender and sex, that's 1994 to u all

[@Odin230]

I mostly agreed with the lesbian in the green sweater. Gender may be a social construct but it is informed by what your sex is. Modifying your body does not make you a man or a woman in the same sense that it has meant to be one for centuries.

[@baritonechick]

Love blue plaid shirt guy until he mentioned looking at Psychology Today for research 🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[@SoaringSalamanders]

It ain’t the best source on an individual article basis and with quality control. There’s some good there, he seems to be more knowledgeable than most people.

[@abbyortiz132]

I mean Psychology Today is a reliable source, especially since he studied psychology so it makes sense he would use it. I’m saying this as a psych major myself 😂🙈.

[@bryansauerwein6515]

Comes down to this. If ur a man and u transition to a girl can u get pregnant and have a baby ? No. If ur a women and transition to a man and can u get a women pregnant? No.

[@abbyortiz132]

Trans men can get pregnant.

[@Cvpid_Mvtt]

Trans men can get pregnant, look into seahorse dads. Some cis women can't get pregnant, are then then guys?

[@user-ku1np8bs8n]

Brian I respect the work that you put into these videos. But I do not respect the fact that you don’t seem to give credit to Jubilee for pioneering this concept on KZbin in the first place. All you’ve got to do is do a quick acknowledgement to Jubilee at the very beginning or very end of your videos. Or add it down below your videos in the description.

[@MsReny]

9:55 who turns down fistbumps dude wth

[@YTuser854]

On the contrary I totally understand what the woman with the green vest was getting at during the gender thing, because you'll see someone and obviously register them as a woman/man - she/he despite what the person personally identifies as.

[@orihusky7099]

as G of the LGBT, i agree with lesbians. Im not alone.

[@Pierre-LucTremblay]

That damn generation is so uneducated. It's crazy hiw no one can even manage a sentence without using the word "like" 2 or three times.

[@sunny5ma]

Unwatchable