Do Girls Like Masculine Men?

Singaporean Girls on Toxic Masculinity!
Today we gather the thoughts of Singaporean girls on Toxic Masculinity.
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[@arvinsim]

Women say that they want men to be more expressive and vulnerable. Try it in IRL and watch them run for the hills. "Pay less attention to what people say and more to what they actually do".

[@damontan4749]

Nope in this context a better quote is; what’s a women say and what she actually means are different things

[@Tonytayloring]

If she is able to express it this way, then she knows the concept/notion of it. 2 types of women, only the ones who find men emotions a turn-off are unable to understand such logic to even talk about it?

[@cappy_pe150]

there's a reason why is called man of my words and not woman of my words

[@siddharthbal813]

Hey man just wanna share an incident that happened last year and this is all personal experience so no offence to whoever out there. If you ask me personally I think to show vulnerability, weakness and tears are no.1 turn off in relationship for men. I went through one of the worst time ( blood cancer) in my life and I let my feelings run wild and vent, cried etc but I didn’t get me nowhere, I noticed her detaching slowly and left me hanging with no clarity in my worst shape ever and since I hate myself to showing too much emotion and being vulnerable; at last here I m left with huge mental trauma which who knows when I will overcome. Seriously guys be f***ing stoic, follow goals and Make something out of your life that your forefathers would be proud

[@hannesRSA]

100% it's a turn off, especially early in dating, you'll be ghosted for sure.

[@bingbong1998]

Focus on yourself for now brother. Get mentally and physically strong. Become the best version of yourself and do your bloodline proud 💪🏼 You will get someone you deserve one day.

[@siddharthbal813]

@@bingbong1998 thanks man means alot

[@rudro2387]

Its only a turn off at the start once yall r tgt for long and comfortable w each other its fine

[@yapolloable]

You're a strong warrior, stay strong

[@bingbong1998]

Men need stoicism to be in control of their emotions and how to react when things don't go their way and the discipline to do the hard things even when they don't feel like it. If its toxic its not masculinty. Masculinity is here to serve society, never to make it worse. Telling men that its ok to be weak and act out on their emotions is dangerous as men who are not emotionally capable of self control can do more harm on others than good. Men should be physically strong and capable of danger but have the moral compass not to use it unnecessarily and only to protect. Reject Modernity, Embrace Masculinity.

[@jamessoften3811]

Hamza influenced you well brother 👍🏻

[@bingbong1998]

@@jamessoften3811 Adonis!

[@lecherhao86]

I think a more accurate interpretation of what society requires of men today is showing greater empathy to the people around them. While I align with you that on the self control part, I disagree that men need to be physically strong. We just need to look out for our own health, and that reinforces a more holistic concept of health by having checks on one's diet, having greater discipline and mindfulness in what one does daily etc.

[@perspicacitymotivation]

@@julioforessi1336 being strong not necessarily for work or manual labour etc. Look at the obesity rates in the USA/ western world, that’s a result of laziness. It’s for health, confidence and longevity of life. If kids these days are taught the mindset you described, that we now have these machines we can rely on them and we don’t need to be strong they gonna grow up fat and lazy which is very unhealthy. I think the push for physical strength and masculinity is valid and more so needed due to how comfortable and easy the world is getting. Comfort is a drug

[@perspicacitymotivation]

@@lecherhao86 due to the changes of the world, it being more easy and automated, yeah men don’t need to be “physically strong” for their careers but I think it’s still something we should strive for and still teach our kids that a strong body is a strong mind. I think it’s even more important now than ever that we should be physically strong if not the sedentary nature of our jobs/school work will get the better of us and spiral us down into laziness, poor eating habits, porn/masturbation, video games and Netflix for hours and all these comfortable but purely hedonistic activities. I was once like that too but I changed my life around and I will testify I never felt this happy, confident and fulfilled ever since I started going to the gym, lifting heavier and heavier weights every week and also attending boxing classes. I’ve become more diciplined and stoic than ever after getting physically strong so I would say I disagree with your point that men don’t need to be strong. I used to be depressed but getting strong helped me tremendously to get out of that rut and I’m sure it will help many other young men out there. Comfort is a drug. We need to do the hard work especially when we don’t feel like it. Cheers

[@ItsMeRuff]

masculinity has never been and will never be toxic.

[@noteventrollinnocappa675]

Wake up brotha

[@bingbong1998]

Reject Modernity, Embrace Masculinity

[@tsuchus]

@@noteventrollinnocappa675 you wake up

[@jajalshadow]

@@noteventrollinnocappa675 lol you must be the beta cuck in the relationship

[@jessedelaney920]

All these examples of toxic masculinity seems to be just general toxic behaviour of humans don’t you think?

[@RR-et6zp]

it doesn't exist. We're wired differently

[@dtanx8978]

"Don't ask fish for advice on catching fish, ask a fisherman"

[@JackForSale1]

Supposedly biologically stronger... There's a reason why sports are split into male/female. Equality in opportunity, not a false sense of equality (which have never exist in life)

[@CatotheE]

"If you're a secure man you'll be like Harry Styles. Just gender fluid." What?

[@pakistaniman1112]

She needs a therapist

[@gdwgct1422]

This LGBT movement and all these strange terms thrown around has gone criminally far man... this has to stop. Can't we revert back to the times where the behaviors and each different orientation of a person didn't have a term associated with it ? This is just stupid. On the side note , how tf is there 73 genders geez , omg

[@anacc3257]

That was weird. "Men" putting on dresses might not be the best argument against toxic masculinity..

[@KatsuraXIV]

@@gdwgct1422 bro ur giving me virgin energy rn , ur pressed by a movement , not very manly of you

[@dtanx8978]

@@gdwgct1422 agree, the west media brainwashing needs to stop.

[@kadencechan7139]

Aimrun the best interviewer he looks at both sides and ask good questions. Btw what has this generation become man like srsly

[@juliuswang3424]

Traditional Men Are Damn "Toxic" but we need to be extremely "Toxic" , these "Toxic" are our essence to survive in this world , protector of the family and care taker to our children. In Ancient times , we call this "Fighting Spirits"

[@connormcchicken5915]

-Men can cry.. but if you cry too much then there needs to be changes-.... wow

[@mid9ht764]

cannot be too extreme mah... is like for me i like childish girls but if they always childish even in a serious situation that also cannot ykyk

[@bingbong1998]

Its ok to feel weak, not ok to stay weak

[@hannesRSA]

​@@mid9ht764 nah, you understand what that means... If her bf is a handsome opa who cries once in a while, it's ok. But if cries in real need and it breaks her idealistic view, he's out.

[@hannesRSA]

​@@bingbong1998 so you just said that showing vulnerability is weakness... That's the entire reason for men suppressing their emotions.

[@iVengeancee]

Everything in moderation la…

[@dude99844]

Most women want to feel loved and accepted, Most men want to feel capable and powerful. Yes everyone wants to feel all these things ideally but if we had to choose, majority would pick these.

[@killshotz6747]

Harry styles fk no respectfully

[@Haner171]

It's absolutely crazy that some women say they don't need men in our world, but men have been sacrificing, carriers of society and life.

[@fishstickbio594]

Toxic is toxic …….masculinity should NOT be TOXIC ….no emotion expression is not even good for their mental health .

[@180223]

Bro, when are you gonna post highlights of your boxing match?

[@AimRun]

Posted some on my TikiToki blud www.tiktok.com/@aimrun

[@prana888]

These girls have lots to learn

[@yungfird7320]

Passport bros the only way

[@Balzhag]

@0:30 - don't think the girl knows what gender fliud means.

[@yapolloable]

first group of ladies. Big W. Protect & provide these queens.

[@StrikeDemonX]

Not bad, finally Sg version. Hamza, Tate, Bedros keuilian, Dre Drexler will be proud of you. Feminine women would be always attracted to masculine men. We protect, support and become stoic like a mountain for feminine females to depend on.

[@bingbong1998]

Great to see fellow Singaporeans on the side of Traditional masculinity. Power to you my brother.

[@stargirl3459]

Men who are empathic are so attractive

[@RR-et6zp]

A guy not wanting her to go on girls night to clubs where guys are is not controlling, its normal

[@loijunkai]

i enjoyed this interview a lot

[@connormcchicken5915]

Did she just call guys approaching her catcalling?....

[@Keeferino]

Yup….

[@mexicobasado8177]

I dont know why this is in my feed, but based singaporean comments, reason why singapore is richest country and lee kwan yew existed

[@survivorturnover]

powerhouse content

[@bingbong1998]

Fav Turnover album?

[@lecherhao86]

Masculinity goes beyond the physicality. The term includes behaviors and attitudes. Both men and ladies will have masculine traits. Men have it easier to show our masculinity because of societal expectations. But toxic masculinity is simply when that display of masculinity hurts someone and to a greater extent having showing lesser empathy and respect to the people around you. To give an example, it is a norm for men to be able to protect one's family and loved ones by standing up for them. It is a display of their masculinity. But this crosses the line into toxic masculinity when the person does not believe that the family and loved ones also have their strength to stand up for themselves as well. He negates their contribution, thoughts, feedback and feelings. The people around that man feel less valued than they desire. I'm 36 and married. And I know my wife since 22. My advice to youngsters is to embrace yourself more, love yourself more, treat yourself and others better. That way, you own your masculinity than it owning you.

[@darkdragon2587]

Great interview

[@DanielLee-kh5tk]

The third girl ❤

[@hannesRSA]

Better than 2nd? 🤔

[@rafeloyango]

BRO, its the ending for me AHAHAHAHA "f***** weirdos"

[@letrix9226]

Girl in red shades really likes the word like

[@Neruvox]

Lukeychan be thinking twice to fight you lmfao

[@bingbong1998]

I honestly dont understand the beef. I feel ppl are too sensitive when watching Aimrun's content but that's just my opinion haha

[@hannesRSA]

Well done for not punching anyone in the face. Say one thing, think the opposite.

[@Carlos-dm5fo]

13:20 is it just me that thinks what she described is not cat calling?

[@dtanx8978]

its cat calling as long as they are not comfortable. Logic doesnt apply to them

[@faehimmirza2381]

@@dtanx8978 didn’t know complimenting someone is considered catcalling 😲😲

[@Tonytayloring]

To some, even a friendly hello or a gaze equates to catcalling. These bunch are bound to exist, just like your old man next door when u say hello means you are there to scam him off his money

[@cappy_pe150]

based@@dtanx8978

[@Marialuvesyou]

One answer: yes I love them

[@dtanx8978]

Another W video

[@edisonlim7990]

Jus an idea but can consider like what’s your type or like what’s the most attractive feature for both genders

[@thomasd5037]

last girl got the most L take

[@priyanshughosh75]

Video Idea: Which race do you find most attractive apart from your own?

[@AimRun]

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[@spwnker8550]

You've never heard of AMDK?

[@Soulsparksg]

Too much toxic girls dismissing guys feeling, social expectations , and most guys don't go for "Girls Night out" , just too busy working and resting....

[@superfish6794]

Next time please interview attractive looking girls man ... thanks ..

[@calvin1252]

So what’s toxic femininity? 😂😂😂

[@AimRun]

ask ChatGPT

[@saisamsuri]

Princess syndrome

[@yapolloable]

But first, what is a woman?

[@cocaineminor4420]

Feminine men? Like those idol looking one? There's many in china, Japan and korea you can find them.

[@RR-et6zp]

They believe in blank slate equalism / that we are the same = huge mistake

[@MuhammadAshraffimreallysorry]

lj gender fluid

[@bingbong1998]

Pentel corretion fluid ah bro

[@raizanong]

Dat fade tho

[@Kajendra]

Thank You, it's clear now, "Live your life, you don't need a man" 😂

[@jarrold356]

Harry styles.

[@mohamadazan6267]

none of this girl making any sense its like they dont actually know what they are talking about just mumbling about random stuff !

[@ttttt4f902]

try asking guys about tbe topic too to be fair

[@NinjaHao0]

Wow the first group of ladies W

[@Hecticam]

So is that a Smash or Pass?

[@dtanx8978]

they will be marrying lots of cats

[@cnachopchopnewsagency]

Nope. She spoke of gender fluid. That is a sign of no brain

[@connormcchicken5915]

hard watch man, hard watch

[@AimRun]

hard to watch❌hard while watching✅

[@libraries144]

and this is why men... i mean boys nowadays have mommy issues. cuz women still havent been able to fight for themselves but now wna fight for men.. i mean boys.. LOL

[@superfish6794]

Who hurt you..?

[@libraries144]

@@superfish6794 you wouldnt know anyways.

[@beara1139]

flfc fuck yea

[@rayyanbhai864]

Hey cool

[@Maleric]

Trying interviewing some high-estrogen women instead? 😂

[@spwnker8550]

Gotta get a packet of salt ready before watching this.

[@echelontimepieces22]

Fellas, don't take fishing advice from fish, ya feel me ? HAHAHAHA sorry i show myself out

[@ttan7293]

why this controversial stir-shit topic? nothing else to make a video on?

[@dontbashme6468]

Go away we don’t need this comment

[@faehimmirza2381]

His account bro he gets to post wtv he wants 😹😹 if you don’t like the content then don’t watch it

[@bingbong1998]

NPC detected

[@ttan7293]

@@faehimmirza2381 if you dont like my comment then you can ignore it too. why dont you make a video about race or religion then? such videos only reflect LACK OF CREATIVITY of the maker, that they have to pick such lousy topics

[@ttan7293]

@@bingbong1998 LIBSHIT DETETCTED

[@binbinfoodchannel7432]

Why interviewing the same girls for so long? There're so many different individuals pov