Do Indian Ads Glorify Women's Unpaid Work?

[@enechan5037]

I love how The Swaddle talks about both the obvious and the subtle issues

[@happysunday4262]

when men cheated feminist - hang him untill death when women cheated- its natural body need its one night stand grow up its modern era u wanna break my privacy? u r so patriarchal is u r respect in vagina?

[@samueleden2388]

Did anyone noticed that all those ads had happy housewives because they were targeted for housewives, and they ment that housewives are happy due to their products not due to their job as a wife

[@muskaan9129]

Instead of saying ' women can do everything ' we should saying ' women can choose what they want to do '

[@jayitadas5453]

Yess

[@Nik-ns1ho]

@@jayitadas5453 but I don't find anything wrong with housewives

[@SIVA-iz2tr]

@@Nik-ns1ho if the girl is okay being housewife nothing is wrong but if she is forced to be one then surely it is

[@Nik-ns1ho]

@@SIVA-iz2tr definitely...then it is... Thing is I really don't get this idiotic gender war between male and female... it's look very immature... It's very clear ki kiske ke bhi saath injustice ho RHA hai to we have to raise our voice irrespective of gender...it can male, female or even trans ppl... Idk when the human mind will evolve and see person as person not the tag...bcoz that's create prejudices And thirdly , truth is noone is equal here , we all r different and that's the beauty thanku:)

[@TanuS0325]

Both men and women can do what ever they want to..

[@sarcasmpersonified6535]

"A man cooks , it's art; if a woman cooks, it's her duty." Sridevi- English Vinglish

[@alitamarroquin2328]

@@rohanpandey4053 Yeah, and I'm really thankful to my father for that. But well in my case unfortunately, he only focus on our-my financial needs, that's it. And that's not what I all needed. We all just don't have one responsibility. To woman, imagine having to go to school everyday for all it's purpose is having a job and then be a homemaker. Still some people have to say she's not a good mother if she works. And leaving your family to take care of "strangers" or other people's family. I will rather choose to work, see the outside and associate with people and go to home, rest. I love and appreciate both of my parents but I can see and feel that my mother, who both take care in all of us plus the housechores contribute more than anyone in our household.

[@abhishekvijayan5296]

@@rohanpandey4053 what the hell does a man do anything remarkable that a women does not?

[@abhishekvijayan5296]

@@rohanpandey4053 that doesn't have to be the way . That's just a gender stereotype

[@shreyamistry702]

@Mayurakshi Ghose Very true........majority of time it happens

[@shreyamistry702]

@@rohanpandey4053 She was not talking about that.....she said in plenty of houses where women are actually working but they still have to work at home where men doesn't or think this is a women's duty (majority of time not always). she was trying to say where men are paid for their work then why women are not???? just think about it if your boss would say Rohan you have to do all our work but I'll not give you money....I'll only give you food for three times and all your daily essentials which is actually minimal What would you say then???

[@divyanshisingh8071]

THIS CHANNEL IS HIGHLY UNDERRATED ...and I don't know why...

[@minatozaki_Tabbi]

Yes true cause people r pretty conservative and stupid

[@shaam_tanha_]

bcoz ur gender is the second most underrated in the country you live, _Yes._ edit:- Intentionally

[@ChiragThakur09]

No this channel isn't underrated cause people are conservative or stupid. This channel is hardly 3 years old and they have been regularly uploading content for past 7-8 months. Things take time. It's up-to us to share as many videos to as many people as we can.

[@minatozaki_Tabbi]

@@ChiragThakur09 sorry I didn't mean to come as rude sorry if u r an Indian and I got your point it's my mom's account who is Indian if u r wondering thank u for ur opinion

[@cinnamonbun5530]

If it wasn't underrated things would be different...but no! We live in India!!!! People don't want to change! They only say things but don't mean it

[@emmaemma-sv6dr]

Also those so called indian serials..that have shown a woman as a home maker and not a career oriented successful one..they have ruined our lives..hate them all..

[@thedevilsadvocate858]

Also they portray woman who wear western clothes, speak English, career oriented as bad

[@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife]

also in these serials if you ever see a woman who has a career you'd always see them doing household chores before they leave for work and after they return. meanwhile, you'd see men of the household sitting on their assess reading newspaper and waiting for their breakfast before leaving for work.

[@emmaemma-sv6dr]

Even literally so called directors made shows like 'agle janam mohe bitiya na keejo" seriously sucks...like women r made to suffer in this world they can't have life of thr own..hate them ol

[@thedevilsadvocate858]

@@emmaemma-sv6drand the Ekta kapoor serials are the worst. After seeing them m sure even the inventor of tv would kill himself

[@emmaemma-sv6dr]

@@thedevilsadvocate858 actually 😅 I miss the comfort level in her shows on the side of bahu..like they wr always dolled up..never seen in pyjamas..even they slept like this only..😅

[@anmolkaushik2001]

And this has massively multiplied in the lockdown

[@averma32]

I wouldn't be so quick to make a judgement. Just few weeks ago i read an article on BBC that average hours men spend doing household work actually increased slightly. You can check this link www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-53750633. Its not a massive increase but its something.

[@manukris23]

@@averma32 in most of the western countries men lose the house and assets after divorce. And women initiates most of the divorces. There is no equality when it comes to divorce laws in any country. Every feminist wants their unpaid labour to be accounted, but they don't want to account longer hours put by men on their job when pointing out the wage gap. Women want equality and cultural progressiveness only as long as they are having all the advantages.

[@harv609]

@@manukris23 you re deluded at best . Come with facts and not what u think

[@manukris23]

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[@manukris23]

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[@racheldsouza8895]

What about men who actually are passionate about cooking that from a young age they'll be told that they'll be a chef and if it's a girl she'll be an amazing homemaker. Lol.

[@laxmichaudhary9581]

Yeah. If girls do any excellent household work, they will connect it to their marriage or future husband no place for ambition or professionalism

[@racheldsouza8895]

@@laxmichaudhary9581 exactly. Pretty messed up but oh well. Hopefully our generation does better. It has been improving significantly but we've just scratched the surface.

[@aquahorns8995]

Not really, either you're from a really backward area or your visualizing what the media and movies show to be true in real life.

[@prerna2304]

@@aquahorns8995 and what about the backward areas? That's reality too so your "not really" doesn't make sense.

[@aquahorns8995]

@@prerna2304 umm, I guess the wrong audience is being targeted by the feminists. The backward families don't have access to any sort of media, and even in real life, no one is giving a damn about those people, forget about feminists, they themselves don't give a damn about what's happening with them. They won't understand the words and language feminists like to throw on us people, hence everything these folks are preaching is going down the drain.

[@radhaarya8364]

I am lucky that my family is way ahead of all this. My brother excels in household chores and it's normal for us. Both of us never being asked continuously to get married even I am 28 now but there is no such drama about getting married and stuff. Rules and other things are equal for both of us and we never being forced to go against our wills. My brother took art as his main subject and I was science student and then I got bored of science and chose to become a teacher still no big drama at home. Sometimes I feel I am so privileged to have a family like this.

[@aquahorns8995]

Eh, it's everywhere. It did exisit years ago, but now it's all just movies and media.

[@arcane1282]

Lucky

[@lefthandderivative]

Damn your family is amazing

[@pulkitgarg2754]

watch that ad from havell's, it's savage Husband : amma used to give me 3 chutneys Wife : * gives mixer grinder * Onion, Coriander, Chilli - 24 types of chutneys. Make it yourself. Chutney, Patni. Husband : What will people say if the General Manager comes in with a shabby unironed shirt? Wife : * hands iron * What will people say if the General Manager can't even iron his own shirt? Istri, Stri.

[@shailzabhati7248]

Bade bhadiya pura ad yaad h 😂well mujhe bhi

[@sureshbagul6007]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@user-go9kw6wf4m]

😂😂😂

[@SrideviTolety]

Haha this was a revelation!

[@aceo_o2295]

Damn that's awesome

[@WinitaNamchoom]

People saying, ‘my father helps my mother’ or ‘I help my wife’ - this is what the video is all about, a man doing household work is glorified. Household work is not only women’s work, when will the society understand? Why is grihasthi chalane ka jimma sirf aurat pe? (Why is it the responsibility of running a household only on a woman?) And, when a man helps, it becomes a big thing. Also, people who think they’ll surely share the household work with their future wife, why not start out by sharing it with your mother? Edit: Please do not agrue/spread hate in the comment thread, what I am saying is that it shouldn’t only be the responsibility of the woman to run the household, and that it shouldn’t be the responsibility of only the man to earn. Equal roles in everything is what we should all wish/aim for.

[@yusrawasi4490]

Lekin wife b to fakhriya btati h k.... I do support my husband to earn

[@arshaq4200]

Oh women if you have a job like your partner then you can hire a maid.you can't expect someone to earn for you then work in your home too.they are not robots.you also have a role to play

[@WinitaNamchoom]

arshaqmuddassir kk We aren’t living in the 20th century today, there sure are a lot of women who are financially independent BUT after they get married, they have an additional responsibility to run her household. The family sure might have a maid for all the domestic work, but the responsibility still lies on the woman’s shoulders.

[@WinitaNamchoom]

ULTIMATE MGTOW Yes, Equal roles in everything is what we are talking about. The responsibility to earn should not solely be on the man, and the responsibility to run the household shouldn’t solely be on the woman.

[@luckykumar1915]

If you are earning for family then it is fair to demand equal share of labour in household work but if you don't earn then that is what you should do for your family.you could'nt expect men to earn and do household work even you don't earn.Labour should be divided equally.

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

Women are told to be "FLAWLESS" and if women after children or marriage do some self care or want to spend little with herself is called selfish. They are human too you can't expect them to be flawless wife and mother. They will make mistakes. They will get exhaust.

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

@- king- yes I did.

[@alexcarter4518]

@@Jivi_Galaxy LOL..are you crazy?? If you want to be solipsistic then just stay away from people's families and nobody would care about what you are doing. After marriage or children how can you not be selfless?? Probably you are not a family material :P

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

@@alexcarter4518 yes I'm crazy.

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

@@alexcarter4518 of course I'm not"family material"

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

@@alexcarter4518 I mean " When women after kids and marriage want to do something,live her dream. People call them selfish, doesn't matter how much they do for family.

[@naynikamadan]

I love how they explain every issue like they're talking to 5-year-olds. They really understand sexist people, don't they :')

[@ruchashinde9735]

I love surf excel add where they talk about sharing work now btw genders..... where the dad observes how his daughter is working and son in law is chilling on sofa with newspaper. He feels ashamed and guilty of such upbringing

[@adwaitab.3622]

That was an excellent ad

[@shakirasunshinez]

@ULTIMATE MGTOW i take more financial responsibility than my boyfriend. im an engineer and he still is in college with no job even though he is older than me.

[@InbasBridalMakeover]

@@adwaitab.3622even taking financial responsibility is in the topic no where resides the question of household responsibility. It totally goes to female without a que. Women also take financial responsibility. but men don't take household responsibility mostly even if they do take thyll tell that they're doing a noble work. Come on men its your family. So whatever u do washing utensils or managing bank account, its for your family.

[@InbasBridalMakeover]

@ULTIMATE MGTOW I dont wanna go deep down n bring partially here. Im jus saying that even when men do these works they're expected to be glorified for such action. But when a women takes financial responsibility it's her home n it's duty. It's her duty feed d family. I've seen women going to markets, and doing the other chores. But d point is when a women does that it's her duty to do. But if men does the so called household chores he's glorified for his noble work. Family is network of commitments both men women and should compliment those commitments despite of being arrogance. Men can fix bulbs n women can hold a mop or vice versa.

[@gohan12991]

Well the son in law can hire a maid to outsource his part of chores

[@anagha1605]

The narrative of it being her duty makes it harder to credit women for domestic work. (I love how in Dil Dhadakne Do, Anil Kapoor's character says he's earned so much money, and his wife, played by Shefali Shah says 'yes because I have supported you through it all') We forget that if a housewife is ironing clothes, packing dubbas, folding laundry, she is ENABLING the man to go to work day after day. But she will never be coddled like the man is after a hard day's work.

[@chitrikart2328]

The WOMEN SHOULD GET OUT AND WORK. DO NOT PRAISE US FOR WORKING FOR SOME MAN BUT US.

[@arshaq4200]

@- king- they should but why bring the word slave.so if a man works hard for his family is he a slave.

[@user-ml4ps5cq3v]

@- king- "hate on women who love their family " lol what does that even mean? Are you saying if she doesnt do the household she doesn't love her family?

[@user-ml4ps5cq3v]

@- king- I think you need better comprehension skills, literally nobody hates on home makers it's the norm in India, its what's expected out of women . But women who are carrier oriented are looked down upon.

[@user-ml4ps5cq3v]

@- king- no wonder because of people like you India is so backwards. Why did you delete those reply? Lol

[@ananditaagarwal1190]

This is such a relevant topic. Thanks for covering it :)

[@ambreenfatima5258]

Doing household work isn't anti feminist thingy.. But people make it look like only maids have to do it and if a wife does it.. Boy that's so oppressive. *What's oppressive is people thinking it's assigned to their gender and they don't need to be grateful to the woman in the house.* Both of these attitudes are designed by twisted mentality.

[@soboksobok9488]

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[@youtubeuser1910]

@lazy hill boy that was all you get from her comment...poor mentality

[@yukay4648]

@lazy hill boy This woman doesn't hold the responsibility of justifying the existence of patriarchal institutions in her religion, because you aren't responsible for the same too. We are responsible for our own self.

[@Aramita]

I work.. 9 to 5 job. My husband is a homemaker and takes care of the house and our kid. He also takes care of his mom. 🥰

[@akemi2929]

@lazy hill boy Wait. Is this real though?

[@mishirjii]

On top of all this, you have to listen from your family members also including elder women of the family that what you are doing is very insignificant and you are not actually breaking mountain here.

[@amruthap6334]

i remember the tagline of grofers - supermoms ka supermarket. the thing is we have normalized this so much that even our home have this kind of attitude " household not considered as work ". even at my home, i try to help my mother but still when it comes to any thing first person for the call is MUMMYYYYYY !!

[@AJ-ou3lf]

this is the type of content that is much needed in Indian KZbin , seriously i can see this channel growing so big.... Keep posting the amazing content, such thought provoking issues we as women also sometimes tend to ignore

[@anabanana8518]

Ugh I can't even express how enlightening this video is. I always felt like something was off about these ads, even when they were attempting to 'empower'. You put my uneasy feelings into words.

[@TanuS0325]

@The Swaddle- please make a video on why in our Indian society it's become like a norm that men absolutely have to have a job otherwise they won't get married- why the double standards? A boy can also want to sit at home and be a home-maker... When we talk about equal rights for girls and boys in terms of education and job, we should also be talking about equal treatment for boys and girls- right to work or not to work, right to choose their occupation or it's lack thereof.

[@arshaq4200]

I support that idea

[@sparklesofthediamond2374]

I think that itself is a thing that came into existence because of patriarchy. Like men sees other men who are gentle or helping their wifes or being a homemaker as more 'feminine'. There are a lot of gender stereotypes that needs to be broken for both men and women. I believe that was the reason why feminism came into being. But the hate feminism gets is tremendous. I mean people be bashing feminism but wanting equality when both are actually synonymous.

[@kaka-vx3ue]

@@sparklesofthediamond2374 Feminism and equality are both antonymous

[@elsamagdhalin3691]

Super . Every home teach girls to do the household works as their duty but there is no such works for man

[@danioceans1187]

If both husband and wife are working and earning income for family then definitely they have to share household work no doubt.

[@priyankachaudhary8552]

Lets just appreciate everyone's work, paid or unpaid and everyone doing it, girl or guy.

[@meettheartist5506]

Call out for every man to recognize the househusband title as not demeaning or a badge of dishonor but just a responsibility. And that includes making our children learn the value of everything keeping gender roles aside and not looking at household works in a different way of what every boy or man tends to grow up and see it as something a disgrace to their masculinity (or shall I say the so-called masculinity). More than what's the video's topic is focused on, we should go a little above than that and actually see the real improvements that can be done and actually shall be done in the real-life as well. Why we have to look at it as something any specific gender will do, and not just a responsibility? There's a problem with the Indian society, and maybe all over the world that women are supposed to take care of the household work. Men will not even dare to touch the mops, duster, dishwasher, scrub, sponge, etc. Because it's a women's job society says. "Men are just not good at this." Are they really not good, or you're just believing it because it exists in a long-running history? When I decided to be a proud househusband for my coming future... Guess what? I was told no respect would be left if I become one. The reason for me to become one was pretty simple in front of me. The same point I am hearing since I was a teenager, either directly as a suggestion, or indirectly as information - becoming the responsible financial head and a wealthy man with useful social skills to be able to take care of my future family that involves my wife and the kids. And trust me, I have never been good with the numbers. The financial topics, understanding the economics of everything, finding ways to double the money I have in my hand, making investments share market, stock and etc. etc... I have never been able to understand these topics even a bit. And I still can't get them properly in my head. But - I'm a man with really deep and intense emotions and feelings. I really care deeply about the people around me and the way I love, I really am confident that I'll always be able to keep everyone happy in my family because the way I care about them. Yes, I have still not become that responsible for managing AND actually doing the household works. Though, I have cook a few things but not really much. I'm still learning and I know I'll become good at these things. Nevertheless, I love cooking new kinds of dishes once in a while. ;) Men... Not everything is to be taken into consideration in relation to your ego satisfaction. Money is not everything. If you are not that kind of a person who is good at multiplying numbers or think of strategies to earn more money just so you can become someone's "perfect choice" for a "perfect groom" to become a "perfect husband", it's all okay. It is really all okay. You don't have to be conventional. Not all things are to be done for survival in the name of obligations... Somethings are just done by heart.

[@sanjanabhattacharya5513]

Do not worry. Times are changing and people have become more aware of what's happening in the society. As for you, you can literally commercialize the idea of cooking and get paid for it if you want to, if not you can just cook for you and your loved ones. Both are acceptable. Wishing you all the very best :)

[@meettheartist5506]

@@sanjanabhattacharya5513 Thank you very much for your wishes Sanjana. Wish you all the best as well. Edit: I've some other plans tbh. Might include cooking but still... Let's see if you, including many people here and other places like Swaddle, will connect with me in the future.

[@bloddymerry1464]

I wish every men was like u ,u r amazing as a person 😍😍

[@sanjanabhattacharya5513]

@@bloddymerry1464 if you look around more you'll find more men wanting to share the workload with their wives. I have myself seen people like them in real life and it makes me not wanna lose hope in humanity

[@sanjanabhattacharya5513]

@@meettheartist5506 woah will look forward to your plansn

[@Anonymity680]

I always see women say “my husband helps out in household work”. I find it so weird. As if his responsibility ends at “helping out”. My husband doesn’t help me out. He does the household work much like me.

[@bhawna99]

They r potentially happy because they are models or actors that are getting paid: Duhhhh!!! U sense the irony 🤐🤐🤐

[@chitrikart2328]

I NEED a supporting husband who will do my housework and take care of our kids. And i will do job!

[@chitrikart2328]

@- king- jakar??

[@saviturpratapsingh5696]

Mai berojgar hai aur ghar ka kaam bhi kar leta hai. To phir ye rishta pakka samjhe.

[@shantanusingh5320]

@@saviturpratapsingh5696 lol

[@freddiepaul5833]

Sorry to break it but you will begin to resent him If he doesn't have a job

[@LPanastasia]

@@saviturpratapsingh5696 agar acche dikhte ho aur ghar ka kaam karte ho aur berojgaar ho toh koi problem nahi hogi.

[@piyusarkar3065]

This is such a great video. House hold work is still work. And it is equally tiring and exhausting as any other work. In fact it demands more physical activity as compared to office work.

[@arshaq4200]

In fact it does not.if you are working in an office you would know that.it demand both you mental and physical strength.i don't mean that doing house hold work is an easy task.but no it is not as tiring as an 8 hour shitty office work

[@Marklee-lx7cd]

@@arshaq4200 it is ask your wife and with a sexist husband like you I'm sure its least rewarding.

[@piyusarkar3065]

@@arshaq4200 in office you have one job. Try running a household. A house wife does everything, from cleaning washing to teaching kids to cooking to managing finance to dealing with teenagers to trying to maintain a healthy family life to being a referee. You think there is no mental pressure in house hold work? Trying to cook according to everyone's taste and not repeating the same dish everyday is exhausting enough. Ask a mother of 2 or more. Both my parents work 9to5, but they always say that office work is never as mentally exhausting as household work. Office work got a limit. Household work is 24/7. Now that I'm in my 20s, I'm finally understanding how difficult it is for women to manage a household, specially those who got a sexist husband who does nothing for the household. It's even more difficult for people who can't afford help.

[@gohan12991]

@@piyusarkar3065 Housework is definitely difficult but if you have chosen to be a housewife and your husband works a good job then it's better to hire a maid.

[@piyusarkar3065]

@@gohan12991 the thing is not about hiring a maid. It's about viewing household work as real work that can be tiring or exhausting like any other work. People shouldn't belittle household work saying it's easy or that it's not real work. IT IS A REAL WORK And household work is not bound to people who can afford maid. And fyi poor people exist in this planet too. This is so frustrating to see people talk about issues like education, job, household work and anything else related to mainly women from the perspective of middle class or higher. The world is not made of rich people living in urban areas. When we talk about universal problems, we need to think about people from every section of society. Having a maid is not the solution to what's discussed in the video. The real problem is the view point. People need to change their mindset regarding household work. If someone is a housewife or househusband, that doesn't mean they are jobless. It means they work to run the home

[@komal146]

1:12 and every manchild. They're in abundance in india due to these gender roles and superwoman trope.

[@im9fg]

Ultra feminist spotted***

[@latikakujur7919]

@@im9fg ultra beta male spotted 🙄

[@im9fg]

@D D some Coward deleted my comment but anyways, looks like there are soooo many pseudo-liberals who can't take counter argument.

[@yukay4648]

@@im9fg I am really worried about your online debating skills.

[@moki7180]

@@im9fg Where's your "counter argument"?

[@devikap372]

From wife disallowing husband to touch the dishes to daughter describing her father as the "best", for cooking during a temporary absence of the mother, men doing housework is so much glorified! I'm talking about millenials here. Change has to come from within. The revelation from your thoughts. Society is so misleading.

[@manishaswain7462]

In recipes, it shows how easily a dish can be made, I say my mother, Mamma its so easy please prepare this for me, Until one day when I tried making a multi tasking wala dish where, I was going good but very confused and about to finish everything in kitchen. My mother came and handled everything. Those who think, cooking is easy, Give a try. Salute all the people who cook and prepare such lovely food. ♥♥♥

[@sanchibansal785]

I am positively sure that one day this channel will receive the fame it deserves

[@aquahorns8995]

Umm You mean some 80k subs?

[@tug6898]

@@aquahorns8995 add a few more zeros

[@funkysam1345]

well shes a homemaker. Why are you generalising the case that women feel household work is a burden?. I think it stelling us to respect the profession. not every women feels that this household work as a burden.

[@jharnasarkar82]

Hamare desh me agar pati patni dono job kre phir bhi ghr jakar khana banane ki chinta patni ko hi Krni pdti h.

[@gohan12991]

Haa to? Pati usually jyada kamate hai compared to patnis. Baaki sare household chores ke liye log maids rakh lete hai. Jyada salary matlab jyada stressful work. Patniyo ki salary kam hoti hai isiliye kam stressful work. Agar tumhe equality chahiye to apne salary waale bande ke sath shaadi karo

[@jharnasarkar82]

@@gohan12991aapki Jo Soch hai usse rishta nhi smjhota khte h ghr me patni khana isliye banati hai ki uska pati kaam krke aata h thaka hua to wo Uske office me Kuch help nhi kr Sakti pr ghr m aakr use or thakan na ho isliye sb krti h ise pyar kehte h.. kitni patiyo ko dekha h Jo din Bhar ghr m rehte huye Sara kaam krke rakhte h apni patni k liye khana bnakr rkhte h or baat km ya jyada salary ki nhi Hoti h Bhaiya baat hoti mehnat ki kyuki aurato ke mehnat ke mukable kayi jagah unhe km salary milti h mardo se. To salary ko lekar yadi kaam ka batwara kre to pyar kaha reh jata h dono me? To baat Hoti h k jo job nhi krta wo household work kre chahe Jo bhi ho or dono kaam kr rhe h to dono household work kre.Or mujhe lgta h ke aapne practically nhi dekha hai kyuki jyada salary mtlb hamesha jyada stressfully work nhi hota kayi baar km salary m bhi log bahot stress lekr majburi m kaam krte h jinme aurte bhi aati h yaha gaao m aakr jb aap dekhenge ki aurte din Bhar mardo ke Saman khet m mehnat krke Raat ko ghr jakar sare kaam krti h or khana bhi Banati h to I'm sure k Aapka or aap jese logo ki Soch badal jayegi or ha ise equality nhi humanity kehte h. Wese bhi mujhe to aise pati nhi dikhte Jo salary km hone pr ghr k sare kaam krta h aakr. Or mujhe nhi lgta k equality ko salary k basis p tay Karna chahiye.

[@gohan12991]

@@jharnasarkar82 You should try to work in a corporate office rather than spewing your bullshit here on youtube. People give you more salary because they provide you with more responsibilities. No one pays someone a lot of money for easy work and if a woman thinks that she's being paid less in a company then get out and move to another company. It's not her husband's fault. There are many women who are capable to negotiate higher salary. And yes, when you're earning more you have the responsibility of the whole house on you. Your job matters more because you're the one who's paying for your child's school fees, those home loans as well as contributing a major part of savings. You want equality? Then learn to earn equally too. Don't expect someone who is stressed after coming from office to cook you food. There are husbands who would cook for their wives during weekends but that's the limit. He's earning a lot so hire a maid if you're having problems with household chores instead of stressing him even more. On one hand you talk about love and on another hand you want a stressed guy to work after coming home? Do you think he'll be.able to be productive in office after doing household chores? I mean if he quits his high paying job because of this stressful life, will his wife take up the mantle and provide him and her child with the same luxuries he was able to provide? No, that doesn't happen at all. If he quits his job then worry about how you'll pay for home loans, kid's tuition fees, other miscellaneous expenses. If you're earning 1-2 lakhs and he's earning 10 lakhs then the majority of load will come on you because even if you quit your job, the family finances won't be affected by a big margin. If he quits the job and joins 3-4lakhs job then what will you do? You'll have to cut back on the expenses and struggle. No outside food, no vacations, overtime work to earn more, working on Saturdays, not providing enough attention to child, no savings, health complications. Karegi struggle? Pyaar ko beech mein mat la. Pyaar se pet nahi bharta. Also, remember one thing. Marriage isn't about individuality. People make sacrifices so that the marriage can be a smooth ride. I don't mind choosing a low paying job if my wife can outearn me and provide us with better standards of living. She cannot in real life so I have to pull up my sleeves.

[@jharnasarkar82]

@@gohan12991 at first you have no manners to talk therefore I don't want to continue the talking with you. Or dusri baat aap me samajhne ki Shakti bhi km hai kyuki Jo Maine Kaha wo to Kuch palle nhi padha aapke Ulta aapki gadi salary p atki h😂 Pyar paise s bdi chij h jisko is discussion m lana glt nhi h or ek baar comment ko dhyan s padho bahiya k pati ya pati ko ghr k kaam kaaj k liye job chhodni pdi aisi koi naubat hi na aaye ye baat khi h. Or sirf corporate office ki baat kyu baat sabhi vargo k kaam krne wali aurato ko lekr ho rhi h. Baki mujhe nhi lgta k Apko Kuch smjh aane wala h

[@gohan12991]

@@jharnasarkar82 You're the one who's a kid and has never worked in an office. Just read some articles about Feminism and saw some videos and now are parroting bs. It's funny how you tell me that I cannot comprehend whatever you are trying to tell whereas I have already countered the points put forward by you. Also, I didn't use Hinglish. My main point is if a person earns 2x or 3x than you then he's working a stressful job. If he shares the household work then he'll get more stressed. Either he'll break down or he'll choose a lower paying job. That'll affect the earnings of the household. Will most women be fine with their husbands choosing a low paying job? Ofcourse not. If you don't have the capability to earn more and keep blaming on others for your failures then you're an embarrassment for yourself and for your parents who actually spent money on you. Work hard, hustle and try to earn more. Put your foot down in office and negotiate a better salary. Try to provide more money for savings and other stuff so that your husband will have less stress and then he'll help you in household chores.

[@rohanpandey4053]

Men or women, whoever they have to contribute to the household. Just because the housewife is not paid. It does not mean that they are any less. Don't belittle their hard work.

[@chandran5270]

This is just a pathetic video from pseudo feminism

[@jan1737]

My mother is never happy while cooking or cleaning

[@jan1737]

@Akash Mishra, MGTOW true

[@godblissfulfun]

Today, only the people who take up only absolutely necessary work will be spared. For that, honesty and equal sharing of work is extremely important.

[@laxmichaudhary9581]

You won my heart. Household work that women do are considered to be less hard work, joyful n easy . People think that if a women is stay at home mom, she does nothing.

[@varshadhabhai5633]

Thank god my man spends more time for household work than me😊🤗

[@riyakaushal4736]

You guys low-key motivate me to become better(read self dependent) women 👉👈 why so underrated?

[@waniyamasood3337]

It really was refreshing someone pointing out that it is not about sharing the work but respecting it

[@shaarminakhter1538]

What? Is that regressive for you when a woman works in a kitchen???

[@skg901]

Can't believe there still are ppl who needs to be explained all this...

[@saramaria521]

Yup that's how I grew up seeing my mother working 24 hours silently and still it's considered NORMAL😞

[@unnimaya5681]

Recently a film was released in Malayalam language which is an eye opener for men and even women who thinks it's ok to be treated like a maid. I recommend 'The great Indian Kitchen'.

[@abhishekpaliwal9967]

OMG! I have had such feelings all my sane life but didn't know how to articulate. Now I do.

[@VidhiKhandel]

This is actually deeper than this. This kind of division of work is not just because of the public perception but because of the societal conditions. In a country where only 27 percent women are working, the division is clear, one has to earn outside and another has to work inside. The Problem is that who is working outside gets to have the upperhand so unless women start working in greater numbers the balance will always be tilted towards the one who is earning. Specially in a society where money is considered the most important thing. The same is situation with men who are often seen as the best dad being able to buy fancy houses and cars and successful only if they are earning well. Success and respect is all about money. This division is also because of the lack of safety. There is a subtle division in work even between son and daughter. Since going outside is not considered safe for women, outside work becomes the responsibility of men so automatically inside work becomes the responsibility of women. Will we not talk how men are responsible for everything that has to be done outside and if they don't, they are considered weak. The work will be balanced only when More women start working Things other than money are also counted in Both respect each other for what they bring to the table Both are willing to share both inside and outside work No one judges each other for not being perfect, there is always room for mistakes World becomes safer for women.

[@silverstarlight9395]

True. In the UK, I see many women driving buses. But in India, I haven't seen a single female bus driver.

[@sanchibansal785]

Has anyone noticed how this channel never shows any ads?

[@saumyaraj3689]

And because of that even studying women are looked down upon because they don't know to cook but if its a man, its fine.

[@PriyaCreationsFun]

True

[@nisthapattanaik6437]

Well said- their work must be recognised and acknowledged.

[@aquahorns8995]

It is.

[@ozymandias7372]

So true. I have always felt quizzy when I watch such ads.

[@lonewolf8664]

Men spend 52 minutes a day in doing household chores. I think they meant 2 minutes. Literally no men in my house do household chores. And even if they do its like cooking once in a year or twice maximum.

[@nbp375]

And they spend 8 hrs a day in the depressing office working on things they don't even like getting scolded from the boss for not even their fault to earn so that the family can eat and then come home and do house work....miss don't get married you'll just ruin someone else's life

[@mylifemyruleswithtandra5021]

Household works and paid works should be shared equally. It is not only women's duty to do it nor should it be called women's work. Household chores and jobs should not be discriminated by genders. My family especially my mother never understands.

[@shradhachawan4569]

Brands just capitalise on every recent 'woke' trend and pretend as if they are super 'progressive' without actually doing anything

[@bijitaadhikary1605]

I somehow go against 1:40 part as I think it doesn't glorify sharing "women's work" Rather helps us to teach that everyone can do everything. Why can't we think that they are simply doing the work... Instead of thinking that the ad is glorifying the man's share in "women's work"? If u want u can't prove your point, so that I also can know where I go wrong 🙂

[@shikhaojha7382]

It really upsets me that I have progressive thoughts.. I feel life is easy for the women who just follow..obey and don't question.. it's a painful process to think why and keep trying to change the norms of the society, it's sorry to know that men think that they are helping out women with chores.. it's not an equal world for men and women.. it's so many hurdles for a woman.. why

[@gohan12991]

Well the salary of those men run their houses, not the wives. In majority of cases, men outearn women. As they are getting paid more, they are stressed enough from their jobs. Do you want them to come home and be stressed even more? Would you be fine if your husband(who earns more than you) is unproductive at work and he's shown the door for that? Here's a thing, if someone is working hard and their earnings run the house then they should be provided less household chores. If your salary is less then it doesn't matter if you keep working or not but if the higher earner quits then how will you pay for home loans, car emi, children's school fees? Think about it.

[@olisenpaii2090]

@@gohan12991 your poor mum

[@gohan12991]

@@olisenpaii2090 My mum is housewife and thankfully raised me well, atleast compared to you

[@olisenpaii2090]

@@gohan12991 mhmmm I can" see " that. Anybody can be perfect here lol . Nobody knows reality !!

[@gohan12991]

@@olisenpaii2090 Yet you were the one to pass judgement on someone else lol.

[@HiHello-os3sl]

To people who dont understand why this video is a must for them: HOUSEHOLD & JOBS is a must for both GENDERS . A person as an individual should be independent Irrespective of their Gender , Be it household or workspace , it only adds to Your own capabilities and strength. Housework is not a Girl or Women' s(Gender)duty and A guy helping his mom and women of the house is not a *GIRLY or Simp* thing .

[@unzaly]

Not only ad even serial also do same

[@shrishtimalhotra2406]

Absolutely! Mummy is always happy to do everything for everybody!!

[@bhavyjyotisharma3642]

Really nice topic this was highly needed. I hope one day people will get it that household work is not about one gender but it's the necessity of life and everyone should know it irrespective of their gender

[@gohan12991]

Then earn as much as your husband

[@LifeBeyond_Anxiety]

Very much needed discussion. Thanks, Swaddle.

[@aravindmohan8878]

First of all household workers are not easy secondly you should remember if any women is working for her son , daughter or loved ones will not consider to be a burden jobs by any women and other thing your only watching the ads which will women will be happy maybe it's her choice to stay like that or maybe she is doing a job that she loves why dont you guys see it in that way. If you're talking about statues let me explain you something an average person who do all household work are being increased by 60% I.e. on average an person who doing it will be can earn 5 croes which is not equal to women work but it started increasing

[@toriepelarski7952]

your captions are so so helpful. tysm !!!

[@kanushkasanadhya4541]

why don't they have a million subs yet??? 🙄🙄🤔

[@aquahorns8995]

Cuz it's all about feminist propaganda.

[@riyaaaaa748]

Because people are more interested in watching a 10 second Tiktok video .

[@riyaaaaa748]

@@aquahorns8995 At this point they are just saying the truth which runs across most Indian households.

[@aquahorns8995]

@@riyaaaaa748 Well not in my household, and atleast not in the households of all my family and friends. From what we infer, feminism Is more about victimizing and ideologies rather than empowering and logic.

[@rolypoly7237]

@@aquahorns8995 there are women who need Feminism for their voices to be heard. Had it just been so cynical India would have had equal gender ratio. A county where women DON'T even make 50% of the population, your household will not solve the problem. Understand the disparity!

[@VidhiPatelHere]

there are really less people on this planet to have this sort of correct mentality.

[@digiartly]

I have zero rest since this stupid Pandemic started. Taking leave from work is of no use because I still will not be able to take complete leave. My household work is more exhausting than my office work. I am really exhausted. Wish this pandemic was over and I could actually go on a vacation where I don't need to cook and clean plus not sit in front of a laptop for few days.

[@salonichavan2820]

Just getting better by each day..you guys never cease to amaze

[@AryaPrabudha]

well fine... well said... for income... both may earn... for food... dekha jaayega... maid rakh lenge.... for kids koi baat nahi... nanny rakh lenge.... if they grow up... send them to hostel... now... if they throw you out of your own house in your old age... then don't cry... you were quite modern people... wow... what a society you have made.... this is the reflection when women celebrate their feminism and man their manhood... it's not, "unpaid work" as quoted by you. It's the real hard work for the ages that bond the family. You see only one side... that's your feminism... wheres ads that i see are... 1. iodex.. tujhse ghar h tujh bin makaan.. tere aanchal se chita aasmaan. maa tujhe salaam 2. bagh bakri chai.. if the wife leaves the home... the husband reakizes her value... if you really wanna judge, look at both the sides of the coin. Sorry ma'am, I disagree with you

[@adwaitab.3622]

Sure. Make women your servant. Don't let her study. Crush her ambitions. God I feel pity for your wife.

[@arshaq4200]

@@adwaitab.3622 when did he say about crushing deeams

[@Marklee-lx7cd]

You lack you many brain cells you didn't throw your dad out if when he didn't contribute household chores?do you only didn't throw your mother out of the house because she raised you out of pity ??wow tell your mom what a twat you are. No kids have right their parents property lol .

[@tingtong7425]

In indian serials the kind, innocent lead female is the perfect homemaker who never questions and keeps serving and the evil, bitchy villain goes to an office and wears skirts and short clothes and is super bold with men.

[@rittikachakraborty2970]

Please mention the links to the research articles referred to while making the video. The staggering number of 90 lakh crores might be true but requires deeper insight on the variables assumed

[@factshouse3690]

It is completely fake, then the labourers should get the money who do such hard work. The business owner gets the most money, whereas he mostly does the least work, most his works are done by his employees. These women are lying for making themselves feel happy.

[@raiza4996]

What gets on my nerve is that ad, the man for once makes a coffee or something and they glorify it like it's the biggest thing that ever happened.

[@Charruta]

Cooking and cleaning are basic life skills Not gender roles

[@harimohangupta7844]

House is something shared by both the parties, so both of them should divide the work. Simple?

[@chitrikart2328]

The WOMEN SHOULD GET OUT AND WORK. DO NOT PRAISE US FOR WORKING FOR ANYBODY ELSE BUT US.

[@gohan12991]

Then don't marry. If you want to be independent and not be a team then marriage isn't for you

[@selvis9115]

@@gohan12991 well in my condition my husband and l both earn equally .So we both do household chores.is it wrong in it?or there any condition that independent women don't marry?

[@Vanessa-ts2xh]

I always gets amazed with your contents!!! Thank you for putting light on these important things

[@swapnilgedam8116]

Cooking, cleaning , washing by women , why it is seen negative , even usa women cook, clean, wash And they also work outside as well , in India this woke culture, more feminism, more western thinking, are Destroying Indian tradition,

[@abundant224]

More power to swaddle...Huge Thank you for bringing topics no one talks about..

[@mandaraharikar]

Wow, just wow! You gals are splendid! I binge watched several of your videos, and it's so exciting to see this bunch of eloquent, well informed and fun women making quality content. Great work! P.S do you have an opening? 😁😂

[@aquahorns8995]

What a fail

[@mandaraharikar]

Hahaha! It was a rhetoric, yo. No worries.

[@aquahorns8995]

@@mandaraharikar Just writing to let you know, that's a nice word, I learned something. Cheers lmao!🍻

[@mandaraharikar]

@@aquahorns8995 So cool! Cheers 🎉

[@aayuktaraut8424]

I recently found out about this channel through an ad, and OMG a job well done, guys! I love the way y'all talk about issues which need to be talked about in an organised manner. There's always a good, eye opening thought behind every video, which I'm sure will bring awareness about patriarchy and internalised misogyny. Please keep making these videos, we all really need them. Being told about issues which we know about, but with that, telling us that it's not our fault and we should be proud of ourselves regardless is such a good feeling! Thank you so much for deciding to make this channel, I hope you all prosper! GO WOMEN, GEDDIT! ❤️

[@icon5819]

Why is this a problem. It just displays , what women are capable to or supposed to do in India or anywhere else in the world. Women doing man's job(which is very rare) often turn out to be incompetent at their jobs and end up quitting it typically after their first child. Although I do support that women should be allowed to choose what they want to do (its a free country lol), I just think that women are not mentally strong to do outdoor jobs which a man does. The prime examples are the western countries where 40% of women are on antidepressants which is quite sad.

[@priyankPatel-py1ix]

Haha yehahhh

[@nidhikini26]

And if, even after this lockdown somebody fails to realise exactly _how_ much a woman has to work in the house and haven't started shouldering responsibility for it yet, then what have you even learnt?

[@aradhanatripathi3518]

When a girl don't know household work the whole neighborhood get worried. But when a boy can't do this, they think it's ok he will have a wife who will do this🤔😣

[@sadanandpoojari5811]

Barabar hai

[@md.sohailali7961]

Ya but similarly if women doesn't work it's no big deal but marrying your daughter to a man who doesn't work or hadn't had any source of income it's worrying fact.

[@aradhanatripathi3518]

@@md.sohailali7961 It is a big deal for a woman too nowadays and if she doesn't work then dowry instead of that. And even after that she will be treated as a garbage

[@md.sohailali7961]

@@aradhanatripathi3518 ya just stick to the dowry for a meanwhile and make sure you mention that word first in your every comment. Ya a dowry which often she takes to a seperate home from her husband's family Where she can have a totally seperate home for her family. I would say no dowry but rather a simple court marriage so what should wife do in the role of a family definitely not the household work.

[@aradhanatripathi3518]

@@md.sohailali7961 so you mean dowry is okay to be given. It shows your mindset

[@Dante343]

I think the worst video was when they decided to appreciate women for all the hard work they do at home with men stupidly applauding with plates like that hum saath saath hai scene.

[@anubhutimatta1060]

"Femvertising," wow!

[@patralipradhan1709]

I recently discovered Swaddle through a friend, I'm loving it, thank you so much for such thought provoking contents. More power to you guys❤️

[@TarunKumar-dz3iw]

If a earning woman does not want do household work She always has an option to marry a poor unemployed man who will readily agree to do household work in return of good living she provides to him. It's so simple

[@AyushiPaliwal15]

Every video I have watched on this channel is jusssssttttt!!!!!! 😍😍😍😍

[@pranjalshrivastava7947]

Awesome women and your team!....try too make some videos in HINDI as well so they could be shown to the audience who are actually suppose to understand all this.

[@Honeybear0488]

Or regional language too

[@Elif_sh]

I found this channel today and it's amazing!!

[@rupsha_xoxo]

Just 10% likes😒😒... Nothing can ever progressive happen to this country😔😔

[@riyaaaaa748]

Our country may progress if we start watching less of TIKTOK.

[@rupsha_xoxo]

@@riyaaaaa748 yaa.. its true... People are engaged in useless activities... And never bother abt the more challenging social evils... 😔We all must try to make a small change😔

[@sonalisrivastava1380]

Bhut sahi topic ko cover kiya hai aapne.. Thanks 4 doing this... But this channel is really underrated. This video must go to everyone so that atleast it hits their mind..

[@ishitaghosh5412]

There's a name for this:. Benevolent sexism. This phenomenon discriminates against women by positing her as a 'superhero' all in the name of women empowerment while doing nothing to reduce any of women's burdens. It congratulates and encourages her to take up all the work all for the purpose of praise, because 'women are stronger than men'.

[@proudmoms2431]

Yes even if you are working woman you are expected to start housework as soon as you reach house while men can watch TV or play games after office

[@sutanukaadhya1401]

As years are passing and more and more women are doing jobs outside the home people are realising how important the household work is which for years women did as a natural duty.

[@proudmoms2431]

It's life taking my MIL always tell stories how she couldn't watch a single TV show in her life due to households

[@vasdgod]

First of all men in India are only unemployed how can u give jobs to woman anyways thats what uncles say. Second housewives are neither unemployed nor employed according to indian government because they are not suffering due to their unemployment nor are they paying individual tax to the government. With this type of confusion in the country we dont know what to do .

[@silverstarlight9395]

Jobs should be given to the most deserving candidate, and that shouldn't depend on their genitals.

[@vasdgod]

@@silverstarlight9395 yep. Jobs should value merit and not on the size of chest.

[@aditibisht22]

@@silverstarlight9395 EXACTLY

[@aditibisht22]

So only men deserve to get a job but not me just because I have a damn vagina. Kooda nikalo apne dimag se, berozgar.

[@vasdgod]

@@aditibisht22 if u marry a unemployed men and make him ur househusband than it is ok else men will fight and may overthrow the government.

[@rhythm2238]

SUCH A WHOLESOME VIDEO. FAB JOB SWADDLE.

[@gowthammg3346]

This channel is the best example of healthy feminism

[@shamaparveen5028]

This is the awesome topic you guys arise.. Kindly upload these kind of videos in Hindi because this is what our parents should watch but there are many parents like mine who can't understand English m..

[@rashirana6125]

Instead of showing these unreal & extraordinary ads on tv ...😲👿.. I think the Creators should made some simple & real lyff based ads that connect with the audience directly...🤔💯...A Woman is not always a superwoman .She can also make mistakes ...After all she is also a human being. So these ads should be stopped for a better society ...☹️...Even man can also be a Superman in these commercial tv ads....🤔

[@grigotts]

My brother is an engineer and he also loves cooking ...but My mother is strictly against him entering the kitchen because "woh ladki ke jagah hai" he makes better food than me and what is wrong with a guy knowing how to cook food and enjoys eating it ? Aaj kal admi chand pe jaraha hai toh kitchen mein kyun nai ? and haven't we lived the gender stereotypes for too long ?

[@silverstarlight9395]

People think that if a man enters the kitchen, his dick will shrink