Do Men Try To Impress Women with Money? | Ask a Black Woman Ep. 1

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Do Men Try To Impress Women with Money? | Ask a Black Woman Ep. 1

[@nevermindme313]

Shorty says, "I've only dated outside my race" then proceeds to give advice about how to keep a black woman, if you're a black man. Lol I find that funny.

[@malcolmhamilton8706]

Right I thought I was the only one to catch that

[@jojosaylor8996]

nevermindme313 why worry about the one female that dont date black men

[@BookerT1]

Women have been in denial for a long time and rarely accept the shit they are called out on.

[@gregglass4796]

nevermindme313 we

[@nigercongo518]

The host was the fool for letting her answer that question. After she just told him she don't date black men in so many words.

[@blankblank8468]

Another good note to my fellas I’m 25 got this good game from my OGs “You’ll never loose women chasing money but you’ll always loose money chasing women” fact of life my fellas.

[@inphantri]

thats a line from a movie with Chris Rock...i think i love my wife

[@blankblank8468]

Ramon Davis possibly I’ve seen the movie . Just saying I was told that as a youngster and I’m 25 now so before the movie came out. But I hear you 👍🏽.

[@lobecosc]

I heard that somewhere before and it's true.

[@ktv9247]

You still loose it in divorce lol

[@tyronejames4187]

Nas

[@robmac85]

You got a black woman up there talking about she never dated a black man, but has the nerve to give advice for black men to date a black women? I’m surprised non of the other sistas on the panel didn’t question her...

[@gregglass4796]

rob mac we are.

[@kirkbrown2147]

They won't, girls sometimes stand up for girls. If it was the other way around you would definitely hear it from them.

[@computerblue1000]

exactly lol I was thinking the same thing. She shouldn't even be up there.

[@albertedmond9134]

Kirk Brown honestly women will attack men but women do the same thing and it’s all good

[@justabout6979]

If she was up there talking about how black women need to treat their black man it would be a problemx she never even dated one. But since she is a black woman when she tells black men who to treat black women, its equivalent to her expressing how She wants to be treated because she is a black woman. This is the only reason I could think of why the other women didn't question this or even the dude asking questions🤷🏾‍♀️

[@gillokonkwo791]

If I ask you out... I'm paying. But if we go out as friends we're going Dutch

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

yep that's why i think being in the friend zone helps out more now then just asking the lady on a first date cause then you get to see her nasty side more.

[@StromLxrd6]

Approaching women these days is like solving a riddle. You have to say the right words, can't be too foward can't be too lenient. I mean its just too many hoops/games to go through just for the basis of just getting the phone number so imagine what it takes to keep her interest. Stress free life for me

[@gregglass4796]

DJ APOCALYPTIC ee.

[@mrbeendeezel]

DJ APOCALYPTIC you spoke the words out of my mouth....black women are especially complicated....

[@srbey3659]

Sickning. And maybe 2 of them got real hair. Real funny sistas

[@TopFlightSecurity415]

Thats why I dont even pay them any mind in public , to much stress , women have NOOO idea how difficult it is to approach someone

[@jjones0822]

I only date girls that like me first

[@MikeBeyene]

Jordan in the yellow dress has never dated black men though...so how did she get a seat at the table? I genuinely don't understand.

[@meciagotcha]

Michael Beyene umm is says men not black men

[@MikeBeyene]

Camecia Brackens I get it. Strange technicality we don't apply throughout the conversation of the video though. Everyone is def talking about black men...he even asks about interracial dating. Come on now...she explicitly stated white right at the end.

[@MikeBeyene]

Someone I know tried to do the same thing, trying to speak on black women who he doesn't even like or date. Sorry, no space for that.

[@coreythomas3633]

Michael Beyene I agree

[@DaddyFatSzack]

still why does she have a say? We know if this had been a black guy, black women would be riding down like hawks talking shit, but since its a black woman..its okay?

[@RichardJenkinsFxCreations]

I actually hide my money from women. I don't want them to know what I have. I try to look like i'm just getting by. I rather the female to like me who I am instead of what I have financially. That's none of her business because she is still a stranger.

[@qbnj806]

Richard Jenkins deep

[@sheilaorangd1967]

Let me tell you lady I have met so many of you say well I went to a private school or I went to a Catholic school or I went to an all white school and that's all what was around me you are lying my grandson went to Catholic school all his life he's a black man he picked the black woman there was lots of white women in and other races that was non-black but he picked a black woman so stop that BS about that's what was around that's all that was around stop it that's a whole lot of BS that's what you want

[@yuhz1m1]

Basically.

[@chrisdawarlordtriggacollie]

I agree with you a woman should actually love you for who you are not because your money.

[@AdedotunFolarin]

i think that's the best way to know if she really likes u for u.

[@niqueotaughtmesuccesslife5665]

black women nvr seem to admit their own faults that play into them being single.

[@yuhz1m1]

If you're throwing around cash trying to impress women, don't be surprised if you attract a gold digger 🤷‍♀️. It is what it is.

[@champfisk5613]

The lady that Never dated a black dude has advice for them lol

[@iamyourfuture2033]

If all these gorgeous ladies are single then I'm scared now like wth how???

[@KtotheG]

IAMYOURFUTURE Why do women think that men ONLY care about beauty? Beauty gets you in the door, but crazy can get you put out.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

IAMYOURFUTURE exactly! But I believe that god has my life written already my faith remains

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Mr Research aka Q I always say that about the men too I men they can't get my attention but can't keep it money and looks ain't nothing if the man can't even be consistent 👎🏽

[@arobinson68]

Exactly!

[@angelwood5050]

IAMYOURFUTURE Because they are too beautiful to settle. High end men are rare.

[@localone1597]

The problem is women don't know what they want. They say one thing and want another. Also the majority know that money and material things is the first thing on their mind. The one woman said she's told she looks mean and rude? Well, she does look mean and rude.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Jonathan Collins money and material things isn't what all woman want from a man you have to speak on the ratchet and the ones who mothers raised them this way- not all black women are looking for a man to save them!

[@localone1597]

Sheambitious29 Lachelle I agree with you. Not all women are like that. Like you said it depends how they're raised. I grew up with two older sister's. They told me at an early age not to spend all my money on women and I never did. So I probably date less then most men. I find out early what a women is about. But you're right there are some good ones.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Jonathan Collins thanks for your reply ❤️ don’t give up all hope we are out here waiting

[@localone1597]

Sheambitious29 Lachelle Yes, there is. I know because I have dated some great women. Sometimes it takes alittle longer but anything worth it sometimes takes time. You sounf like a good woman. Stay as you are

[@curlyjoe5020]

*Jonathan* She LOOKS like a dude with pink hair and a dress. LOL.

[@DeezNutzzzzzzzzzzz]

“I expect him to pay if he asks me out on a date, if I asked then I would’ve paid” 🙄 ok suuuure like that happens often 😂 with that mentality girls like you will never meet a successful man

[@kirklandyoung4450]

yeah money get u any girl u want.....simple and plain.

[@williamizm3745]

Not true. At all. Unless you are a millionaire money doesnt do shit for you. And even then you see some millionaires who only get hookers. Money doesnt hurt though if you have ither characteristics in place.

[@hymnodyhands]

No. This is not 1864. Not every woman is on sale... so you will get what you pay for with that mindset... women broken enough to use themselves and you just for money.

[@saints0931]

@@hymnodyhands women are for sale. The asking price may be higher.

[@gm8418]

So why is the chick in yellow here if she never dated a Black man in her life? She needs to stay on the other side of the fence. And notice how she even cant get White men to commit to her? I thought it was all rainbows and candy on the other side of the fence?

[@KingBabaJames]

Cushitic Man she thinks she's too beautiful for a black me. smh we don't want her back lol

[@Sinatra292]

Cushitic Man lol right

[@brownladyjay0858]

I am all for it she can date whoever she wants and if it’s not black man OK… Good for her

[@user-lx4uk5un7s]

This post made me LOL, big time. It's in the details...she said she's only dated outside her race....referenced her private school surroundings, which makes sense. The host says "if you could say something to BLACK men, what would it be?"....she comments, to value her, don't play her, she references fathers and friends...sounds like some deep seated issues from her childhood/adolescence. I don't fault her, but it's more unfortunate and sad than anything else...

[@RichardJenkinsFxCreations]

I was going to ask the same thing. She has no experience dating black men so how is her advice worth anything.

[@ddavis8988]

WTF is complicated? Either you on the market or you're not. I'd really like to see a show of married black women. We always asking the opinions of black chics no dudes want to keep.

[@myrickcarl]

Negusis 85 facts bro

[@Ray-uv4sk]

Real talk....

[@polokocollen7072]

If this show is to encourage black people to intermingle more and have more fruitful relationships...then why do you seem to encourage marrying outside the race.The show invited a lady in yellow who never dated a black guy,yet they are taking about relationships between black couples...very confusing...she should have not been invited.

[@TheComedyChord]

EXACTLY what i said, I'm like what in the WORLD u here for! and that lame excuse for not dating black men was pathetic.

[@sagqueen6911]

I love black women because i love myself

[@victorbillvyse]

One say approach us, next say don't slide up in my DM, one say the guy needs to pay for a date, one say don't try to impress with money... Sigh

[@TonyBi]

i find it odd that the one woman who said she has only dated outside of her race said in answer to the last question about helping black men to navigate through the dating process that she wanted "black men to value her and recognize what they have, but they run game and then they wonder where we went"... this is odd because according to her she's never dated a black man. what is she talking about? if she's only dated non-black men, who is she talking to?

[@TheComedyChord]

i was thinking the same thing. she must've lied to get on the show, lmbo.

[@DixonFrancoisJr]

I wish this was longer. These women are enjoyable to listen to.

[@idkijs435]

This is the kind of man that we as men need to be and that black woman should want. The whole idea that he is asking questions to a panel of black, asking good questions, is witty, educated and loves black women is great. He should be somewhat of the standard.

[@Tarsha522]

Yes, dating in NYC is horrible. I also think dating and relationships are different in your late 30's and 40"s.

[@rakeshbai2732]

These kinds of conversations require so much more time and attention. 9 minutes ain't enough. Give the people what they want -- give us more!

[@taylormade3750]

I thoroughly enjoyed this video. But we definitely need this conversation to be had with Black Men & Black Women together! Salute Fam!✊🏿👊🏿

[@swain4000]

I love this..... best episode overall.

[@ValerieBernard1]

Excellent show thank you.

[@Colin1875]

Y'all need to do a video call black women take accountability. That would be nice.

[@calvingilmore4830]

No matter what we black men do to try and be right its always something that they are gonna tell their friends that we ain't shit at.Never ever will be able to satisfy 100 %

[@coreastarks9037]

I love this show.

[@bamask8life]

its always good to hear stuff from a woman's perspective, to hear their side.

[@ayanagundy1806]

It's all in how a woman presents herself to a man, and how she carries herself. 💋 smooches

[@ayanagundy1806]

Mr Research aka Q No sweetheart I'm a woman. 💋 smooches

[@ayanagundy1806]

Jay Evans 😘💋 smooches

[@meciagotcha]

Vice versa

[@HEIRLESSful]

Ayana Gundy That goes for men as well. Smooches back 💋

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

SOME men have tried to impress SOME women with money because SOME women won't even look a mans way if he don't have money to spend on her which is absolutely insane! Every grown adult ja responsible for themselves! When two people first meet money shouldn't even be the topic of discussion upfront! Damn! How about what are your dreams and aspirations, where are you from, what school did you attend are you saved ? It's the kind of women men are choosing to be affiliated with! STOP saying alllll women are this way cause they aren't! Women who THINK They a fake celebrity and who watching social too much are the ones with the red flags! And FYI! Allll of us are broke technically!! Because if you went to school you owe student loans and none of us make more than our debt. Smh gotta speak real if we gone speak

[@squali1930]

"Are you saved?" I'm not a first date question in my book but definitely something I would want to know.

[@dizmop]

Wow what a great conversation, very open and honest with level-headed Women, unfortunately, this is very rare

[@shomarimonroe150]

Great video

[@NietzscheDevot]

The correct question should be- "Are women impressed with money?" lol

[@tmston2]

soon as she said giving energy, im like yhea i think we good being single

[@JG-dy2hk]

Why is the woman who only dates outside of her race answering a question about what to say to black men? I believe the problem is the host on how he questions them and comments. There’s no flare or spark, this could a million plus views if done better. If they read these comments I’ll do tell MadameNoire to contact me

[@user-je3ks2um5l]

Yes! These women said it perfectly.

[@Flynerdybarber]

Good episode

[@kimberlybernard35]

Sis in the red looks AMAZING!

[@diamondunicorn2421]

If we expect men to value us.. we as women have to value ourselves.. and a man whose discerning with see your value.

[@golde-n-uggetlionsroartrut5750]

The Bible says not to give your strength to women. MONEY IS A FORM OF STRENGTH. To survive, To establish, and to provide...STOP GIVING IT TO THESE WOMEN AND DONT SET THEM OVER YOUR SUBSTANCE (PROVERBS 31:3, SIRACH 9:2) STOP SIMPING BROTHAS💪🏾

[@Yahkeam]

That's right!

[@thetruthchannel5987]

At this point, we really need to consider, safe polygamy within the black community in order to preserve it.

[@tropicvibe]

I have a great job but I don't let any woman know what I make nor tell them exactly what I do. I've always believed if someone is going to love me it'll be for who I am and not for what I have or can give. Otherwise don't want or need them.. I can read a woman immediately and will end the date after a slip up or anything I see or hear that makes me uncomfortable...

[@TrekCannon]

It's simple. Men attract women with what works and one of the MAIN things that work is money. Women have made songs about it, women expect you to have it and all men know how a woman perceives a man without it. It's shallow but it's women

[@michelguevara151]

over forty years of experience says women are only impressed by money #GiveHerNothing

[@lobecosc]

Yes. Next question. This part @ 2:35-3:01 is not because she's short or small or because we approach you incorrectly. Some women give off the vibe that they are uninterested in conversation at any time. Why waste my time with someone that already in a (I don't have time for you or the shit you're talking about) mindset when you try to spark a conversation?

[@willemdee]

Where these ladies stay at and why are they single? Lol I see a lot of potential.

[@9525joe]

“Do you think you’re snippy ?” 😂😂😂 **pauses

[@workingonmyself]

Right!?!

[@lildel7698]

Snippy and short hair that’s a big fat no

[@rooclicknet8666]

Man I need to move to NYC or ATL, DC, CHI. I love the sistas. Being a techie on the west coast no sistas

[@II-pt9rk]

Roo ClickNet and you're going to get played like a game in Nintendo

[@hymnodyhands]

We are actually here... but indeed, our people are sparse in number. Try Oakland and Hayward if you are in NorCal ... Sacramento and Elk Grove a little further north, Gilroy a little further south.

[@kingsimon00]

So she pretty much finished by saying nice people finish last lol😂😂 5:45

[@keke22698]

Crazy how I used to watch ask a black man when I was in high school, but I never knew there was a ask a black women lol

[@cn-yg6vf]

If you carry yourself cofidently, you should be able to ask a woman to pay for a date. If the date goes bad, it's only fair to pay your part, and let her pay her way, do it politely and firm. That's why you should only date women on your level, if she can't afford a meal in restaurant she likes, why be with her, if there will ever be a chance for a relationship. First dates keep it simple, or go to the park.

[@Tomorrison28]

Impress a woman with your personality, swag, sexual skill, humor, anything except money. They will lose respect for you very quickly.

[@JG-dy2hk]

Once again they are in denial

[@idkijs435]

Dear God Almighy, I thank you for the black woman i have in my life. She's truly a unicorn lol.

[@tonyjones1560]

IKR...20+ years over here. If I woke up single tomorrow (God forbid) I'd either be on some "pump and dump" game or become a monk. Becoming a monk looks like the better option.

[@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor]

Of course we do, we will use any and everything that works to win YOU AND YOUR APPROVAL. including our intellect, experiences, notoriety, confidence, helpfulness, thoughtfulness, athleticism, expertise, what ever floats your boat. Jay-z said it in the power of the P-U. its the reason we get hair cuts, dress fly, cop the best rides.

[@folumb]

"I'm very approachable, if you approach me the right way"..... what?

[@symonelewis1690]

She is basically saying that she wants to be approached respectfully, and she won't tolerate anything less than that.

[@adriansmith467]

Soooo... where can we follow these young ladies? I need instagram links?!? lol

[@Sickkkkiddddd]

Soooooooo.. let me get this straight. U want to be valued enough to be courted at a fancy, high-end restaurant but u dont want him to impress u with his money? But u still want him to get the check (hey, it cost a grip to eat out at fancy spots) when it comes and leave a tip for the waiter (yeah, women love 'kind' people). *Sigh*.

[@2jazzie278]

How do I get added to this panel?

[@Jay-nb1ss]

When they said that black women are the least desire. Then the woman said I desire black women what is she a lesbian? The knock on black women is that they have a jacked up attitude, and many of them carry it as a badge of honor!

[@pooh19818119]

The lady in red is on point

[@asharomi1393]

They all need 10 more years to mature and start seeing things moe reasonably. Unfortunately it will be too late for most of them by then

[@josephine_marie]

didn't y'all already load this episode?

[@chicky4444]

This is a question for women who won't date you unless you got money... "Love don't pay the bills." Remember this statement? The things women look for and need can be viewed differently by the opposite sex. What makes it hard to have a faithful relationship is the people who don't want a one on one LTR... Then it becomes socially popular... Men and women both has to take responsibility for their role in this tango of love.

[@underrated7725]

Of course we do. I did it today without even realizing it. I was like dam im trying to impress this girl with my money LOL

[@atlanteanproductions5330]

They're all full of it😂😂😂

[@kingj521]

Trickster, Gestures & Jokers. Comes to my mind for a reason. I cant seem to pinpoint

[@demetrijackson5357]

The mustard colored dress is beautiful.

[@B.L.A.C.K.1.]

The question that these ladies should be asking is, "are women impressed by money?"

[@markiscouch6729]

Great video! Economic globalization has brought social variety. 🤔

[@workingonmyself]

What did women do before makeup?

[@S0nyce]

Y'all had lost me with the Did y'all see fall off but I am recent fan and suscriber of the Ellis channel so they brought me back. Let's see if I stay.

[@mimia8388]

My advice to the ladies who use men to pay their bills knowing that they don,t have any interest in perusing a relationship with this man. Please don't do that. The consequence for this will go two ways: you will end with a man who treats you like shit and you are also damaging this man's trust in other women. Please don't hurt people who are good to you.

[@KtotheG]

MiMi A If the women aren't interested in those men, then wouldn't they be susceptible to treating them like shit?

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

MiMi A I agree 1000%!! And they are ruining the image of a black woman! Cause not all of us are looking for a hand out

[@mimia8388]

Sheambitious29 Lachelle 👍🏾

[@Dilenga23]

Sheambitious29 Lachelle idk why you’re bringing race into it since he said ladies not black ladies. Women period who do this should be aware of the consequences. But to OP, you’re argument is flowed since they wouldn’t settle for a guy who doesn’t do that in the first place.

[@oldsalt8011]

The man who invented hair straighteners should have a monument!

[@Smarty2able]

It's true. A guy I worked with liked me would lie and talk about how his mom has 4 master's degrees (I didn't ask lol) and talks about how he used to work for a huge business (which I don't think is true) but left because they undermined his skills to end up working in a school as a Teacher Assistant. So I never asked him and thought he was nice and chill until I found out he has a wife. SMH so it's the fact he tried to hide that someone from me.

[@TyGabrielle]

Beautiful group of of women ❤️

[@kirkbrown2147]

What's beautiful other than the make ups?

[@ITech2005]

To be a good wife you have be more than just pretty. Being pretty will attract a man but it will never make him stay.

[@kirkbrown2147]

You could sound as intelligent as you want but the truth is, most women see a man as a insurance policy.

[@srbey3659]

Sad to see dating is one big 'hood" rat race. Same attitudes keep them single still dating and on shows like this.

[@kirkbrown2147]

@@srbey3659 they'll be in their 40s and still wondering why they're single. These are the same kind of girls who only pay attention to very attractive guys. They don't even look at average guys so they judge all guys based on the very attractive guys who treats them badly.

[@shango7942]

The text at the beginning of the video tells you what the video is about.

[@jonathangriffin8060]

Seriously? Are you kidding me with this? As far as relationships are concerned, at least in my experience, the majority of black women I have dealt with haven't given me the time of day because I didn't have a big bank account. And those same women have gone out with guys who have a six figure salary and ended up having a lot of problems with that guy, at least that is what I have heard. I, myself, don't flaunt my money to try to impress a woman. I try to impress a woman with conversation, but women nowadays want a guy who has a big bank account, big muscles, etc.

[@christiansoldier77]

These women are full of crap . A lot of women don't even want to look in a man's direction unless he has a lot of money and/or really good looking. That's the reason why they are single.

[@idkijs435]

If you are a woman impressed by money, you're shallow. If you're a woman impressed by stability. You're a good woman. If you're a woman impressed by a man who treats you well, is considerate, dominant, yet sensitive, and speaks life INTO YOU... you are a wife.

[@Londonlink]

I like how they don’t generalize a lot they at least say = a lot of / or some

[@j_joseph4659]

1:01 literally said it the same time she did XDXDXD

[@Decimation1030]

Here's my Analysis: TL:DR : Most women have no clue what they want and refuse to acknowledge their flaws. First: Note that all these women are single. The one guy is married. At 1:12 She says there's too many options for men, but statistics show the average women has several more options than the average man. In fact, 50% of married women have a back up man waiting in the wings if their current marriage fails. Think about that for a second and while you do that think of how many times a woman has approached you in the street for your number. At 1:33 This woman says monogamy is important and you can't spread your energy around. However, women are 4 times as likely to have multiple men around at a moments notice and trade up for a better partner. At 1:53 the host asks if they prefer monogamy in the dating scene. ALL OF THEM SAY NO. Completely contradicting what one of them said just 20 seconds ago. If dating was monogamous these women wouldn't be able to branch swing. Why have one sexual partner when you can have as many as you want? At 2:03 The lady just proved my last point by saying she wants to have options. At 2:13 This woman wants you to know everything she likes to make the first date enjoyable. The last time I checked, dating was the process of figuring out what both people liked. In addition to that she wants you to pamper her, pulling out her chair, holding the door, etc. She also doesn't want to pay for her own meals on this date. She wants you to not only potentially waste your time, but also waste your money as well. This is all for her entertainment. It's a wonder that she's single. At 2:42 This woman says that she is constantly viewed as mean, rude, and angry. While she completely admits that she can get "snippy" she rationalizes the behavior because of her short height and it shouldn't be taken seriously. Now that I look at her while explaining it she actually does look rude and angry. The next woman says she's gotten it her whole life and that she considers herself approachable but you have to do it the "right" way. I guess you need to be a mind reader. At 4:07 This woman admits she left a good man for someone else, despite her wanting a good man. She blames it on age, but the fact is that she and many other women would continue this behavior even in their older years. They will continue to trade up until they see that the men they want are no longer interested and will settle for the good guy. She further goes on to say that you attract what you think about, it's just that female nature is designed to jump to the next best thing. All women have this inherent trait regardless of age, race, or beliefs. She tries to deflect this fact by blaming the men for thinking a certain way. At 4:50 She says a man will use money to impress women. That is true, because most women react to men who have money. In addition to that we indoctrinate our children to follow suit. How many times we told our daughters to marry a doctor, or make sure he has money. How many times do we tell our sons that they can't get a girl without a job or money. Men in general should never present their wealth to women at all, it's a waste of time and resource. At 6:00 The lady says that she doesn't listen to anything anyone has to say. Statistically it is true that Black women are least desirable.So what this woman is saying even if the statement is true she will disregard it and live in her own would. As long as she has "great energy" she's going to bring in great men despite still being single. At 7:04 The women are fine with dating outside their race, but when asked how they feel about black men going outside their race they have an issue with it. They claim that black men flaunt the women, but the reality is all men regardless of race will flaunt their women if they have merit. A woman that is good to her man will be worshiped, I think any man here can agree with this statement. It's not that they are flaunting a different race, it's that they are flaunting a higher quality of woman and it strikes a nerve. At 8:00 This woman wants men in all kind of relationships to value black women, but when the shoe is on the other foot it doesn't apply. Black men have been under sever scrutiny by many people but their biggest critics are the women that are suppose to stand by them. How can Black women demand being valued when they can't value Black men? You get what you put in. Most black men will never forget where they came from but if they have moved on and progressed chances are they will never return.

[@mariancounsellor]

Lady in red jacket 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@seanclarke3680]

Gold/yellow dress is stunning

[@iCGreen_]

The better question is... do black women like broke men? SMH

[@MrThekidisback]

No

[@rachelsweets]

Carlton Banks lmao

[@uToobviewer2]

Carlton Banks As a humble broke black man I do see a lot of broke baby daddies so some do. Glad to see a female panel though been waiting for this.

[@ce9416]

My ex fiance was a broke black man trying to go back to school. I offered to have him live in my house and help pay for his schooling but he was too proud to accept it. By the time he was willing I was not in the mindset to do so due to his stubbornness and stupidity. In my opinion it's not about being broke it's about having ambition and goals. If he has that and he's willing to put in the work sure. But nobody wants to be broke for the rest of their life.

[@meciagotcha]

I've dated one never made him feel bad for being broke but once he decided to do something with his life and started making money he didn't t return the favor when it came down to me being broke

[@animalkingdom3341]

They all are beautiful and the smile are very decent

[@rodellwilliams871]

My mother is black and I love my mother so obviously I love black women

[@2pvibesonic187]

depends on the situation

[@yovannyestevez4893]

Bless.. I’m Dominican.and I live here in USA..in my country there are many black women..and I want to say that I have many friends who were coworkers .. and black women are very beautiful and special...if you have a your girlfriend or your wife..you must love them.. take care of them..go out with her .. vacationar together and share your money with her..because that woman is your girlfriend and your wife..many times we men .. we only look for the women or the girlfriend when we convert..but when we have to share our money with them..we invent thousands of stories.not to share our money with our partner ..we just want them to give us pleasure. That they take care of the children..that they make you meals and that they take care of the house .. I m one of those who say that women are not only for that..black women is a beautiful woman..you just have to understand them and look at her pretty heart..

[@Atlanta718]

"Value us", I really felt that comment. As stated by Malcolm X, black women are the most disrespect and unprotected. Shout out to all text beautiful women on the panel sharing their full and authentic selves with us.

[@rodellwilliams871]

I don't need to go outside my race there is enough variety in black women

[@onenonly2181]

Lol 😂....😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!!!

[@yaboiace1728]

I just turned down a date I was invited on because I already know I would be expected to come out of pocket even tho I was the one invited out lol. I’m stacking my cheese

[@relj3287]

Hello Tranesha 💐

[@chopps21000]

In general people don't know how they act that's why people have to let you know how you act like intervention