Do Not Need To PLEASE PEOPLE: Ep 5: BK Shivani (English)

"BEING LOVE - Creating beautiful relationships", a NEW BOOK by BK Shivani. You can order on Amazon: www.amazon.in/dp/938914387X/r...
Our responses to people need to be based on our personality, reminds BK Shivani. They should not depend on how people behave with us. Our thoughts and words in every relationship is our choice - not to please them, but for ourselves. Let us do things for others because they matter to us, not out of obligation or force.
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[@dannywalker8984]

I only came across you today, and I'm so glad i did. For many years i have sufford with depression, and always blamed myself for everything that happened. You have give me so much hope and have made me feel so much better. Tablets don't work but I'm sure if i continue to watch your vidoes i can see my life changing in a good way. Thank you so much for your videos

[@utkarshapatil482]

How r u now? Doing well...God bless you 😊

[@basantathulungchadke3123]

God bless you

[@vinitham226]

Same thing happened to me and sister helped me to overcome my depression

[@suhitarasala5860]

I changed because of Shivani didi.. 😊 I am very grateful to her. I love didi♥️♥️❤️

[@kriparamtholiacmdkcismotiv7779]

The teaching of sister Shivani 's are really amazing I changed myself completely Thanks sister for making my life so beautiful

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[@azlanameer4912]

Wahhh What an enlightening sentence... "What i want to do for others first i will make my self happy for the work"

[@pallavipuja3120]

i learned from this lesson that we have to thank GOD for this beautiful life and then live it learn the most till our survival to make our life a lesson for others, then only we can be happy 24 *7

[@MCCNivethaaE]

My life changed in positive way thank u sister.

[@misstaniamaryam]

Fill your cup first, take care of yourself mentally, physically and emotionally. The solution is internal.

[@Sofia-wx2ht]

I got the bottle bring me your cup🎶🎵👍🏽😄

[@romakashyap2119]

I watched this at a very critical time, wherein I was feeling quite conflicted and this immediately soothed me and also told me that I need to care for my happiness while doing something. Creating the right energy is important.

[@rajasekharvenkataswamy3163]

Dear sister shivanee wonderful your guidance to human beings in trouble amazing explanations you have presented so well even a kid can understand so well. You actually saved me from death the other day I was feeling hopelessness of living a life of conflicts. Now I switched over to self sabotage to self realization from expectations to accepting.

[@neogenogroup]

Wow. This is what should be taught to everyone in every school. Why do we wait for someone in our adult life to tell us these basic truths?

[@inderjitkolappan8673]

Om Shanti, Very good discussion. Excellent meditation in the last.

[@corinabaicoianu]

She is so beautiful inside and outside! Namaste 🙏

[@sujathathapa1742]

Om Shanti thank you so much to Baba nd u both through you Baba give me my answer...

[@nirmalchandel7197]

Om shanti di and thank you for your motivational classes.

[@simplyfoodwithneetumelwani7819]

Thanku Di, listening to you, just changes your perspective towards life. So much depth in your words. Listening to you , adds so much more meaning to life. 🙏🙏

[@easylifeeasy976]

I chnged my way of thinking and realized everthing is inside...what all I wish I need to work inside then only I can see that from outside world....my whole thought process became upsidedown after watching your vedios......I am greatful to your teaching for my life......

[@brahmakumariwinifred9138]

Thank you Sister, you open many nice peoples and including me understand better myself.

[@dineshgugnani4284]

Sister shivani you are a great speaker. God bless you.

[@PMcse]

Om Shanti ! Divine blessings to all. 🙏

[@RituRawat-digital-marketing]

Self Awareness and my thoughts are the building blocks of my happiness. om shanti

[@gurusgurukul2139]

Ritu Rawat ll

[@gurusgurukul2139]

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[@satierickhi3803]

By listening to you I am improving my thoughts.Thank you Didiji.

[@rajnipundir5991]

The Suresh sir, giving example of fasting is quite convincing..

[@littlemoreinformative4194]

Yes this is great analogy.

[@soninina06]

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[@jdolphinc.1230]

Thank you for sharing your gift of clear thought and and such clear explanation. It provides instruction that is easier to follow...focus on one simple quality. I feel I can do that!!! I don't need to react, God gave us the ability to respond. Thank you

[@kevinashcroft2028]

Love listening appreciate your reasoning when our rationality threatens a robotic existence 🔸️🔆🔹️🔆🔸️🔆🔹️🔆🔸️🔆🔹️

[@shuchiagarwal2935]

Too good...well said...being unhappy u cant make anybody happy...so true ❤️❤️

[@laxminagar5334]

I practice what didi says and its true that i feel better in a conversation and the person also tendsbto calm herself or himself...

[@charumullick5010]

Amazingly simple and beautiful ❤️ road to peace and happiness

[@staywithrika4459]

good morning sister, I watch everytime your video finds a new lesson every time

[@mithireenaentertainment3646]

Om shanti my dear didi...thanks for ur teachings

[@deesticco1719]

It is like accepting people on social media competing against posts you innocently posted to your interest or creativity; and in return would see your social group associates, not all keep throwing at you all these posts ! It is hilarious how human nature is influenced in today’s context with social media to compete as mentioned Face Book has created uncommercial competition ! Accept their cause of other’s thinking and compliment if genuinely like it ! So thankful fir these discussions to enlighten the human mind ! 💖🙌🏼🙏

[@snehayadav8720]

Doing for others which I feel doing comfortable Take care of others but before that take care of urself

[@maryreena3117]

Thank u suresh sir fr speaking on behalf of us, thank u didi fr de beautiful moral support. 👍

[@Numbers0123]

Who is this gentleman, is he an actor

[@pallavisinha214]

@@Numbers0123 He is an Indian actor Mr Suresh Oberoi. He is a renowned and legendary actor.

[@lenavaldeira6192]

God bless you sister - OmShanti

[@rakhimotihar9737]

Om shanti didi Thanks a lot for your motivational speech Thanks a lot for explaining the real meaning of happiness 😊👌🏼

[@barailygita6377]

always i feel happy when i listened to you dear shivani di❤️❤️

[@senthamarair8339]

Thank you sister Shivani.

[@sangeetanair3643]

Very true...whatever we do we should do in happiness 😇

[@Bulletproofyourhealth]

Isn't trying to make them happy our way of putting importance in them and making them feeel special.

[@jaishreedawda8431]

So, the new meaning of tolerance is to do things for others with an accepting and positive mindset and not as a duty towards others.

[@Mayamaya60]

Maa apne mere jeene ka andaz aisa badal diya mere sochne ka tareeka badal diya aur is dharti ko mere liye swarg bna diya.

[@alkagaur2662]

Inspiring.. thanks Sister Shivani. But i request to u U TUBE please do not put advertisement in between it disturb our mind.

[@DevineTouchHQ]

Om Shanti Today's my mind state is so much pure So that I'm on time to attend didi's class I'm enjoying Thanks for this great social work I'm Shanti

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[@lobsanggengla9063]

To be humble to superiors is duty, to equals courtesy, to inferiors nobleness. 🌸

[@amygreen7998]

Thank you so much for your amazing videos they are so very helpful to me in my life.

[@dibyajyotighosh2089]

there are so pure hearted people like you... can't we diminish corruption madam?? that is the only big issue eating all the innocent poor people...

[@watchme7076]

Don’t receive anger it stays in them. Your Personality should be yours Your Responses should be your Your Way of talking should be yours In respective of other people Be Courteous Courtesy is your quality nice and friendly comes natural to you I’ll be courteous so mater What,When&Where Your personality changes your not aware of it Control someone by saying is this the way you speak you cant tell your mind “is this to think & react” Think feel & be You cant make people happy by doing it for them you have to feel happy then do it

[@lightandmight1817]

When a human soul pleases GOD, The ALMIGHTY, by the fragrance of its virtues then there is a probability that others also will be pleased by that automatically.

[@user-vn7zp1cu4g]

Om Shanti Sister, you are an angel for us Thank you for radiating your positive energy all around.

[@PrabhatRanjanSatapathy7229]

Thanks with respect, Omm Shanti..

[@gopinathghosh9399]

This is a very interesting and very significant discussion I like to listen this type of video which presents us very good lessons Thanks

[@anjalinicholas4441]

Thank u.God bless u..great job

[@putulkumari6578]

Great motivational speaker

[@azlanameer4912]

Though Sister's every video and every word is nectar drop for me but her discussion with Sir Suresh is not less than a special feast for me! Slamti Ho ap dono per💖💖💖🙏

[@geetasaini1660]

To be happy with ourselves is our priority

[@payelmondal3842]

You changed my life... Om shanti

[@Reenanaik674]

You always help me to calm my emotions 😘😘😘

[@snehak6314]

She is a beautiful soul

[@jkm8049]

Good questions asked by oberoi sir

[@SunshineInspirational]

om shanti sister shivani...

[@shraddhaarya1734]

So true...thank you so much...

[@alif7284]

nice u both r really great personalities. .... ..... m from pakistan ..... feel happy to listen u

[@elmakumar9915]

Arfa Faheem

[@harmitjutla103]

We all are God's children dose not mater where you born how we call God's name like all of us we all look different and we have different names in the we are part of god .

[@azlanameer4912]

Sister Fatima For how long have you been listening them? I am also from Pakistan and within few days listening i am feeling tremendous positive change. plz

[@kiruthigakuppuswamy3711]

Beautiful conversation. 👌😍

[@geetagupta2033]

Shivani didi aap mujhe bahut inspire karti hai

[@ellis-pr7hh]

A real wisdom❣️

[@bhailalsoni3093]

Thanks you very so much good bless you

[@mgmaharajan5343]

Bull's eye Class and meaningful 👍❤️🙏

[@supriyadutta9678]

Gratitude ❤❤ Thanks a lot ❤❤😊😊

[@dineshkanchan3380]

Love this video too

[@deeptiagrawal7186]

do the things what make yourself happy and not others

[@snehayadav8720]

Everything I do I should be emotionally healthy. Other people willnot make me happy. Full stop Now I will never do things to make me happy. Happiness is my constant state.

[@premaleelaj4258]

Good information. Exactly 🙏

[@Sierra-oh6sn]

Mam you are my inspiration 🌸🌸🌸🌸

[@prashantpillai9508]

🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻

[@hanahnguyen3981]

Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🎋🎋❤️

[@leenasaxena6954]

Om shanti 🙏 Good night Shivbaba 🙏 good night 🙏

[@cheenu4228]

Thanks you to all of you 👼

[@skeyzom8419]

Om Shanti 🙏🏼

[@sonalichatterjee8549]

Thanks

[@farahnaz8885]

Om shanti Om

[@bhaktichande]

This is very difficult when our family members are on the opposite side. You have to face them or their behavior quite often than others. And we face the same rude behavior quite often....... Then what to do. For how long can you still remain sweet and sober?

[@bhaktichande]

In this case isn't it better to to just shut up and mind ur own business and talk only as much needed? Like this you atleast don't shout or react and u r neither sugary sweet.... U are just nothing at all. To the point conversation and minding ur own self....isnt this safer than reacting every single time they react?

[@RadheyRadhey108]

Bhakti Chande yes be calm peaceful and send positive vibrations and they will change ..🕉☮️💟💕🌸

[@Bulletproofyourhealth]

true that

[@puspalatapani2152]

@@bhaktichande She is not asking to TALK sweetly. You have a free will, you can talk to them nicely or ignore them. What she means is don't harm yourself by thinking about them, complaining about them, cribbing about them.

[@arpitaamit3275]

@yes do what pleases you, keep yourself happy.... Don't do anything for others without taking care of yourself

[@bhargaviramireddy2059]

OM SHANTI

[@user-zb5wy5mh4o]

Om shanti Mam ❤😊...

[@louisettelanglois7045]

Merveilleux!

[@narendarvempati8879]

This man is diverting the very good discussion, not letting her express to full.

[@godhascometogivetheawarene5697]

You were born to help for baba.

[@premaleelaj4258]

A teacher is ever learner 👍

[@revathisunder5759]

Om Shanthi 🙏

[@shanteesookharry6460]

Om shanti

[@dianethincnantnoid4675]

My responsibilities. Om Shanti.

[@LetsDoEnglish1]

Thank you for putting things into perspective for us so beautifully! Truly empowering talk!

[@techworld7499]

Thanks a lot

[@veraf.4508]

thank you

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Om Shanti 🙏

[@ankitamanhas9329]

very interesting topic👍

[@shajankv4838]

Omsanthi ...

[@mediatricemutiyumana1630]

Thank you, Shivani 25:30

[@sarojinipattayat4039]

Awesome sis

[@dineshbiswal8617]

Om shanti didi

[@ankitapareek8138]

om shanti didi

[@vimlajoshi4295]

Thanku mam🙏🙏