Should I COMPROMISE in Relationships?: Part 1: BK Shivani at Silicon Valley, Milpitas (English)

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BK Shivani addresses how most people feel they compromise, adjust and sacrifice in relationships, yet family isn’t pleased. When we choose to do something for others, it is only because their happiness matters to us or for the relationship. Effectively we do it for ourselves. Let us do everything only after understanding that we are doing it for OUR happiness, not theirs.
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[@yogitajoshi]

Rev. Sis holy soul Shivani ji... 10 yrs ago...I was in deep depression... I never visited a psychiatrist ... I watched and followed ur self Management videos as if word of God... Today I am the happiest one only due to your divine guidance... My Pranam at your holy feet... Lots of love and gratitude...❤

[@dharmendarmanti1762]

Yogita Joshi what have you done? Tell us more..that would be helpful..

[@prabalsinghpnawar404]

Shivani didi is god pharista

[@mahtazdin]

Good job!!:)

[@celinetan8532]

I almost plan a visit to psychologist, But i hold the plan after watch your video again and again.... I find peace from your every word....

[@ashokwartak8421]

YOGITA JOSHI ii

[@madhusmitasenapati6791]

when tears roll down I search for your videos and yes every time these videos make me feel peace. thank you for making me to learn something Everytime and making me realize that only I can save everything.

[@nirmalakhandekar5934]

Madhusmita S

[@twinkleaggarwal5758]

Exactly, I too agree with u Madhusmita. Om Shanti🙏

[@twinkleaggarwal5758]

Lots of thanks and gratitude to sister Shivani🙏

[@ruchibisht9068]

Same😇

[@snehasneh3372]

Same with me @Madhusmita

[@hoor786]

I wish this knowledge can be incorporated in our school lessons as a subject called Spirituality

[@RC-wx3ks]

awesome idea 😊👍

[@lipikadas4162]

Pl please let

[@leenadas2611]

I agree..

[@gudditakar248]

Exactly

[@gudditakar248]

Brilliant idea

[@babitajain9444]

U have changed my life Have transformed myself from a victim to a master of my mind Your words are magical

[@Sulbee]

She's the mom we all needed

[@rehanasarker]

Sorry i don't want to change my mom whatever she is.

[@saiy4650]

Very true… her voice and words are soothing to the heart. It relieves emotional tension

[@avanisagar6408]

She inspires us to become a parent our child needs🙂

[@reemas8128]

She genuinely have an amazing words to resolve anything against anyone.. I don't know what magic she has that makes everything appears so clear and easy.. I seriously RESPECT you from bottom of my heart.. Amazing words.. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@84sahi]

Reema S I know right . She is amazing gift from god himself

[@BharatPatel-or4on]

B. K. Shivani touches my mind, heart... Gives me extra strength to lead life happily, her speeches are quiet addictive, I listen n put into practice in life.... AMAZING... May God give bless her

[@kajalpriya8467]

Same condition with me.... Whenever i getting feel alone and something hurts then i searched these videos... And realy got peace 😇😇 thank uhh for making to have change mind

[@kapadokija]

Its a frequency😊

[@sinasydney5220]

Thank You Sister Shivani... wonderfull as always... I count downs the days till you are with us in Sydney.. with love & blessings.. Om Shanti ✨🌺

[@rajvee14]

I understood that everything I did for the important person in my life was for myself, for peace and harmony of the relationship. Though I made all the efforts but even expecting from the other person was getting me under pressure. Now, I am feeling way lighter. Thank you so much ❦

[@vidyaprasad2876]

How wisdom ful soul u r to think in right prospective god bless you always with happiness and wealth and good health 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@anitapaul3094]

Dear sis, ur videos soothes my soul. When my past memories triggers me, I immediately search for ur videos. Thank you for being such a divine soul.

[@breakthroughmoment1647]

Rare is the person who can just be who they are without pretentious airs or feeling like they have to be a certain way in the eyes of others. We are like chameleons morphing and adapting to the commands of others. I have been in social settings where I didn't feel comfortable because of the image the members of the group had of me to be smiling, pleasing and agreeable all the time. I stopped going there because I felt like I was being fake. What I've noticed is the moment you change they think you are arrogant because you are no longer dancing to their music. Joseph Campbell said: "The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are." We've turned into people pleasers and doormats.

[@NirmalRamdeehul]

I wish somebody would have teach me these in my childhood. I want to thank you didi for the beautiful message. Bhagwan apko hamesha khush rakhe..

[@uma8966]

I truly enjoying listening to her. So much wisdom.

[@him9859]

Behaviour and thoughts has to go together....any friction will reveal what the person actually is ... practice to sync the behaviour and thoughts.

[@swetanevatia4602]

After hearing the whole of this , i am so glad that i have lived this way for so many years. Just got an affirmation that I'm normal and not otherwise. Finding joy in knowing that I am in the right direction

[@rincyjoseph4396]

Sis. Shivani...u r an amazing person....touched my heart and helped me to transform my heart... I really want to thank u for making me a peaceful human ..... May God bless u and use u to change the thoughts of many...

[@shivansh..301]

she is really god's gift to us. I always get my answers in her speech what I am searching in my inner tunes. so motivational and practical examples of our leaving lives.

[@sherbanomhussain3371]

🤩❤💚

[@anilsharma-bq1ei]

Thanks. Good listening, uncontrollable things made controllable.

[@prachiagarwal3853]

Sometimes situations get so complicated that both the parties feel the pain. But none of them wants to compromise and accept each other's mistakes. When one person doesn't want to be the burden on other and tries to do things by his own..unfortunately other thinks that he doesnt respect n love him.

[@Nikita-gd4iy]

Thank you Shivani Didi for your wonderful guidance. I believe that I got connected to you because I was going through lot of stress in my life and didn't had anyone who would understand my pain and guide me ... So I look upon you as my elder Didi always there to help me in every situation of my life. Your magical words just take off all the worries and today I am a much better person than I ever was... I have learnt to self introspect in every situation. Thank you Didi 🙏

[@shivshakti2266]

Om shanti sister Shivani. This video is a bk hit video.😃

[@rravi1045]

After a few minutes of general comments/questions, Sister Shivani gets to the crux of the problem using the event and the audience themselves as an example!! Simply brilliant!!!

[@simiremubalamaofeimu8166]

So much wisdom and thank you for sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us you are a blessing Love and light to you Xxx

[@smitamaskare4593]

You are a great source of inspiration for me.thanks Shivani di . whenever I find myself in adverse situation your words always guide me,make my mind peaceful and the things become clear. Thankyou so much.

[@sandhyamannotra6627]

I am a big fan of sister shivani. She is very sweet. She is a great inspiration with sweet sweet voice.

[@ashishgemologist]

Sandhya Mannotra yes u r right....I'm also fan

[@hansadalal3708]

Sandhya Mannotra

[@ambecappmanikam3351]

Couldn't agree more with you, Sis. Om Shanti.

[@nidhibhatt1773]

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[@sunitadias6080]

Instead of being fans...we should implement her talks. I'm sure she doesn't want fans... Fans is not a nice word for a person like her...feels like some kind of materialistic word

[@eclipzclan9418]

Love your speech always give me peace of mind thank you so much teaching us the right decisions in life ❤

[@basashanker1965]

This is the answer to all problems in life.

[@neetujain9268]

Om Shanti 🙏 I always feel very peaceful n happy vn I listen to you sister,

[@samilarungapamestry6466]

Om shanti..thank u sister for being my inspiration..

[@sukh941]

Back then I was a kid and my mother used to listen her , I never liked her cause I never understood her.But right now she is the only one who soothes my chaotic soul. Thank you so much. Om shaanti❤

[@rushabhvora3549]

Shivanididi is really a great inspiration. Her inspiration has changed my life style. She is really very sweet divine soul.

[@shalinidesale6002]

I am so happy with Bzl shuvani didi. She is my strength. She is saying every word for good work done by me.

[@ruchikatikyani897]

Everytime I'm in pain, she come and just takes away all my pain. She is a true saviour. You are answer to all my questions. After listening you mind becomes so clear

[@nasimaakter1103]

I always listen ur videos. It gives much peace and happiness.

[@dwagh4286]

I got my propar relationship...beacause think only positive every time I'm peace...nd love u always my love cause u feel me so much.....

[@nagajyotibhat3445]

Dhanyavadagalu 🙏💐

[@ubabita]

you are my God!!whenevr i face such situations i sit and listen !you can only give me strenght and positivity instantly!

[@sunitadias6080]

Bk Shivani said... Don't treat any one like God. God is God .. we are all souls. Once we treat someone as God...it's a hindrance to meet God n we will.never meet Him.

[@pa2359]

God's creature not God. This is nothing but size of an atom

[@garimasingh4586]

Whenever i am in difficult situation ...i connect to u..through my thoughts...life is beautiful being with u every sec...u r an angel...u r always in my heart..om shanti shivani didi😊😘😘😘

[@sivakrishnapspk8736]

Thank u

[@sidharthasatapathy3491]

Sister Shivani ji 🙏🏻 Is so blessed, and she keeps us blessed always by her lectures, she is changing our lives, she is impacting our life by giving us the art of thinking right, no matter what. Jay Jagannath, Om Shanti.

[@chansam8966]

Thank you sister Shivani for sharing your knowledge! Bless you!

[@HemNursingBrainery]

U are such a great to explain and I can now fix it into my equation . Blessed to have people in our holy country INDIA

[@SurajitDas-ji2yl]

I am healing day by day...... Thank you so much didi. ❤

[@arunarajeev2751]

Whenever I am undergoing stressful times,I connect with you and it gives me a lot of relief. But how can something work in a relationship if it is not happening from the spouse.

[@bekind4137]

True … my inlaws are so manipulative… even my husband…

[@alwaysreadytohelpb5027]

Choice is different thing. But should we compromise the health and lives of ourself and our children. Even if we radiate understanding and remain stable but what if I think a thing is good or harmful for my child and my wife think the other way. Compromising doesn't always mean petty things like making choices

[@RamjanAli-ix7kd]

Your guidance regards to our life absolutely right and helpful. Thanks sis.

[@Great-Bharat-1]

Pl sis make 1 video on ego and self centred in family . I now down in your feet sis . Lots of love sis

[@SapnaSehijpal]

She is a true blessing to this world and humans in need

[@sureshmeena2406]

ॐ शांति दीदी..आपने रिलेशनशिप को बहुत ही सरल तरीके से समझाया है, लोगो को सीखना चाहिए। पता नही क्यों लोग इतना दुखी हैं।

[@maheshwari122]

Wenever am in pain r sad I listen to shivani didi n follow her vedios n feel very light heart thank u so much n om shanthi.

[@bankaiknoyak6539]

Shifting the relationship simplicity into a little complicated one this touch my heart ...I need to twist that back thankyou for ur message maa.♥️

[@S_Nayana]

Beautiful msg sister 🙏, Om shanti

[@sherbanomhussain3371]

Be let people be who they are ,it's a beautiful sentence of this speech 👌

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

My son Mubarak is normal .He can speak and understand. He can do anything. He can do everything .He is totally fine and fit .Thank God .Thank you so much shukriya shukriya shukriya .

[@vidyaprasad2876]

Yours child is ablessed soul and always be fit nd fine by meethe baba blessings

[@user-ke3qs2pn4i]

May god bless him ❤️

[@meenakaserwal9963]

Didu ... This is video is very true n practical. Your example of spouse was so real ..as reality you r saying with husbend n wife happens. Thank you for clearing all the confusion ,we v...

[@sonisherpa2139]

blessed to watch your videos in lockdown. Love from Nepal

[@rajeshwaridash2811]

My morning srts wid Ur voice meditation session Sister , Ur beautiful thought sessions Always puts me on track ,whenever i do anything wrg, I m realising quickly otherwise phele to lagta tha mene to kuch galat kiya hi nahi n abb jab pata lag jata hai kaha galti ki to usi wakt sudhar bhi leti hun...u r lyk a angel for me Sister ...May God gives u ...N thank You Sister ...Kai sare logo ki zindagi ko behtar banane k liye ...Omm Shanti 🙏😇

[@lalithahanumanthu2427]

Profound insight di. Om shanti.

[@rashmikapoor3549]

Delves deep into emotions....

[@katlehomotale7050]

Dimakatso Motale I'm 65 years old. Grudgedges I've been holding for decades I'm releasing because of your vidios and a room is open for better things

[@thembisaodendaal]

I'm so excited that a person you age is still open to learn new ways of life.Theres hope for us all...good luck on your journey

[@breathoflove9740]

Great speech. My mentor. Thank you Sister Shivani for beautiful speeches. Om Shanti ❤

[@savitrigoswami4541]

Very good thankyou sister Om shanti

[@rupalishah9811]

sister u made me to be on my decision.thanks a lot for ur advice

[@poorvisingh232]

17:54 Just wow, loved the way this was taken and I got my answer. Thankyou.

[@ashishshah5667]

Thank you so much dear divine didi ji 🙏🙌💐❤️ Please bless me and all

[@ketkismart4946]

Om Shanti. Thank you very much. Shivaniji.very nicely explained.🙏🙏🙏

[@sahelisengupta7220]

Can't thank you enough Sister Shivani ❤️

[@bhuvaneswariramya3113]

Thank you shivani didi . Om shanti.

[@neharana3252]

She is A pure soul😇😇

[@SaiSeshadrischoolRampakhana]

The video guides, life travel... All are Golden words...... 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Sudha..1122]

Manamentha manchiga vunnaa, positive ga vunnaa,annintiki adjust ayyi vunnaa, relationship ki importance ichhi compromise ayina kooda edutivaallu manalni proper ga understand chesukoru n mana too much Manchi thanaanni undue advantage ga theesukuntunnaru n arrogant ga behave chesthunnaaru n mana weakness ni vallaku plus ga convert chesukuntunnaru.Patience anedi just one sided ga vunte saripodu madam it should be from both sides so...Mee cool, sweet, n mesmarising words doesn't workout with everyone who doesn't understand the definition of those soothing words madam.I just love your mesmerizing sweet speeches madam n have immense respect for you.

[@poemong3906]

Thank you God for everything I managed to found a good and kind teacher who can guided me to more higher spiritual exercises ❤🙏

[@guruneel8343]

Om Shanti... Thank you for this video

[@dhananjayshende4919]

GREAT GUIDENCE SHIVANI DIDI 🙏 Path of Happiness..... Whatever I have done so far is only for myself ...OM SHANTI

[@rajarshimahapatra44]

Lets not be in the ignorance of reality.. if one's betterhalf is doing something wrong and its identified, one cannot simply have the approach of "let everything go on its own". Ergo to be free from all these the very soul concept of life thst is"who am i" has to be deeply understood. And madam, u keep continue this .. you are doing the life of many good.

[@rashmiruchi7414]

Wow I just luv to listen ur single word Thanx to gve us such a thoughts

[@SSD80]

I really thank you ...Today I live happily because of you only.I was in depression from last 7 years.Took depression tablets. but now today I'm very Happy due to you.I daily listen you.

[@shirinlakhani6432]

How u stopped tablets? I tried but failed

[@ruksarharoon7278]

​@shirinlakhani6432 it's not easy but POSSIBLE I was also on medication but stopped within three months and watched shivaniz videos and others like sandeep maheshwari and did a lot of self work and I managed to stop them

[@reenachauhan7239]

Mam u r realy an angel fo me..❤️u

[@mifortalezaesmife3715]

Thank you for your videos I am sharing the information is so good 😊 👍Blessings

[@rinamaya8858]

You have create a big shift within us, thank you 🙏

[@alysonlentini1615]

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[@karunasharma4681]

A big fan of her voice and practical examples

[@manpreetsharma2217]

Shavini didi is very inspried to me .she is very sweet voice .l am big fan of you .🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@anitasamantaray7583]

In my tough situation when i open KZbin, the right vdo which is appropriate for that situation ,shown in home page.... After viewing then all troubles disappear and miracle happens... problems solve out through ur magical words...

[@DEARTETE]

Oh my word.i love u. Thank u for the teachings

[@richagarg990]

This is very different kind of learning by sister in this episode that we should be sure & happy about of what we are doing for our spouse & other relations. Incase we keep on doing something only for sake of peace & happiness of family momentarily then our expectations from other person increases a lot & that person is not even aware of that . Later it might creates vacuum & sadness . Om Shanti 🌸🙏

[@jesskaur9676]

Thanks Di , Om shanti

[@MeenaSharma-dd8or]

No word to say thanks to her. Only want to express that her guidance has changed my life and my thinking completely. I try my best to keep happy my all relationship and I don't know if they are happy or not with me because to be happy or not it's only their choice. I can just make feel them happy. But to be happy or not, This is only up to them. But I feel myself the happiest person in the world. Because of her, I have found GOD.

[@kempegowdah7636]

Om shanthi and thank you sister

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

I am happy and healthy and peaceful soul .Thank you God .thank you so much .

[@nibeditas.parida5269]

Beautifully explained 🙏🙏

[@FatimaKhan-fi5xs]

I like all ur videos. It gives good advices.

[@amardhillone08]

Very nice explanation Stay blessed 😘 🙌

[@sattu9407]

I thought that no one can understand the feeling of student, but sister u prove me wrong.

[@ratneshvishwakarma1301]

Thankyou so match for this video.

[@geetagiananey231]

Lots of love and gratitude 🙏

[@anugyapaudel8984]

You are the best❤ Your videos helped me know who I truly am. Thank you so much sister❤ Om Shanti

[@healwithjoy9010]

💟💟

[@tinaaaravvlog3620]

Om Shanti 🙏

[@nuzhatkhan3530]

My husband is healthy and happy and peaceful soul .He is totally fine and fit .Thank you God .thank you so much . .

[@leenabhatia8305]

MY GURU MY TEACHER 💗. HAPPY TEACHERS DAY MA😊

[@rekhapriya2010]

Thank you for all your videos 🙏, my 17 years of marriage life, every time my relationship is shaken I look for your video to get peace of mind, learned to forgive and focus on myself to be happy

[@cricketnme101]

Am blessed cos my parents believe in accepting people as they are! Thats been my upbringing

[@copywritersblock]

I wish there were subtitles for the Hindi parts.