Do These 3 Things With A Narcissist And They Would Lose Their Mind

[@annettejohnson3625]

Been listening to you about a month. A couple weeks ago I started doing everything you suggested. I can see that me laughing at his cruel comments and just trying to be happy it's killing him. I say...I don't have time for your narcissistic bullshit anymore and I go about my day and walk away. He doesn't know how to respond. I just start singing to myself and dancing around. I told him I don't care what comes out of your mouth anymore, I know it's not true and God is watching you. 😂❤

[@annettejohnson3625]

Yes! I do the same thing. It kills him! You got this. Just keep doing you. ❤

[@sshanamoreno]

Hahaha lalalala 'God is watching you' Dances down the road hahaha love this lalalala

[@annettejohnson3625]

@@sshanamoreno leaves him speechless, which is rare. ❤️

[@fruitytarian]

❤ love that for you!😊

[@austinbrooks4324]

Dis is a very dangerous way of going about it. You need to know main reason the LORD placed a narcissistic person in your life, same as He did with me, is because you have the power to deliver dem. Dat power is Christ Jesus. You don’t win battles by stooping to their level or playing their way or by asserting bitterness. Jesus laughs at the wicked. Your job is to pray for dem. I’ve learned in my prayer life wit Jesus a through consistent determined purposeful fasting, we who have Holy Spirit have the power to pray a whole storm away for other people. As terrible as Narcissistic abusers behavior truly is, dey are not the enemy. Those are people in torment in desperate need of deliverance a renewal a discipleship. See it through the LORD rather den your own way. His heart aches for dem people an He fights for dem regardless a gives dem way more den enough time for dem to come to repentance. Even when dey come to repentance, satan attacks dem like no tomorrow when dey choose to do one good thing in the name of Jesus. Das why dey stay stuck in their ways. Demonic strongholds own dem in spiritual realm. Break those strongholds for them. Lead dem to baptism. Do something dat would please the LORD as his disciple. Be more like Jesus🙏🏾

[@karenvanderbeck]

Telling them can be dangerous. If you get out, stay out and be safe.

[@deestefmorr]

very true

[@labazoops]

Yup or it could get extremely painful and ugly for you!

[@nancyperkins2277]

My life destroyed. Broke and homeless. No way to get back up and too old at 62 to care anymore. I had a few minutes of better life. That's over now. Just waiting around to die out here on the streets

[@Kuruflower]

​@@nancyperkins2277 ok, 62 is half your life. Please don't let them win. You are out of their life now. Go somewhere and start over. No contact. You matter!! Start living. You can do it!!!

[@dorib.3367]

Yes I agree its not a good idea to provoke these evil demons. Say nothing and ghost them after per...

[@ErumEhmad20]

They use fear to control. They use love and care to manipulate. Have a good heart. Have those feelings, just not around or for the narcissists.

[@winnieamar9368]

Fear to control and love and care to manipulate! This struck a chord with me. You've just described my mother in law!

[@StarCoded]

They also control you by playing the 'victim'.

[@subhamjha6562]

@@StarCoded playing victim + saying lies , like whatever you accused them, they will return the same accusations to you with greater degree

[@StarCoded]

@@subhamjha6562--Yes. Nor will they ever recognise this dysfunction, so it's also stressful to spend energy accusing them. Awareness is the first step, so not to believe or 'buy into' the 'gaslighting'.

[@Gizzyy2]

I’ve been there 😢

[@6and7]

"They need you to need them" this line is very important. If you're depending on them especially financially, they will blackmail you. That's disgusting.

[@iamcolettestyles]

Yes and provoked you

[@vinishag.8909]

Yes I have never asked my mom for anything till date last month when I finally decided its time to change I went shopping and spent 2k on a variety of tops she said u just know to spend money ur a spoilt brat, when I went to learn boxing she discouraged me I don't remember the exact words but I remember it being related to me spending money and her making me feel bad about despite it being the cheapest boxing class in town and we are financially well off but still

[@hillaryl7748]

Yes it's the worst 😢

[@tonispears4922]

Yes my mother has replaced me with another person that buys into her bull crap. I told her I was done and will have no more contact with her period. I took my power back and moving forward. I have never been happier. Its hard when your raised by someone who hates you. Im good now and my husband and daughter are proud of me for standing up to my mother . I was tortured for 58 years and it had to end.

[@gracec1665]

There is NO WAY we can need a narcissist because they teach us NOT to count on them...ever. They train you to learn how to be without them, before they discard you. So your only hope is to actually LEARN this lesson and get stronger, and be very successful and happy once you separate from them. Not easy, but it can be done.

[@giftij]

Exactly this!

[@ShayLove84Fam1st]

Yesss!! THIS💯💯💯

[@blulotusrisin2938]

So true

[@jesterstears7578]

Indeed! He forgot I am a loving person and have a good job and friends. In one weekend I moved out all my things and as a strong person I make money and I am very happy on my own. I sleep in the middle of a big bed.

[@gracec1665]

@@jesterstears7578 Good job. Oh my gosh...I did the same thing -sleep in the middle of the bed! That helped me heal. Take care.

[@crod2165]

They try to bully you, and devalue you. Stand your ground.

[@tubakhan9072]

100000 plus times have experienced it

[@amandamatsepane8300]

I did

[@freshmanjeans]

Yup they hate when you talk back and call them out

[@Raec123]

@@freshmanjeansI talk back and talk shit. I really try to give him a taste of his own medicine. In doing this I wondered if I’m a narcissist by giving it back.

[@NallahBrown]

@@Raec123don’t waste your breath. Just LEAVE

[@delealgladney2423]

"The things that they say about you are confessions..." This man is preaching!

[@Sharon-hd1pq]

❤❤❤

[@KM-hz9vq]

I thank you for the work you've done in healing yourself. It's hard to find the words to thank you for the invaluable teachings you provide daily. My situation has made me take a hard look at myself. As a result of going through this & with God guiding me, I will be the best version of myself. It's hard work, but it's worth the work. Bless you for helping so many.

[@xxxMixedGenreFavs]

Yup. Gotta listen and let them just talk. They reveal everything about themselves

[@Cinnamon.Apples7]

My dad would tell me that I would end up alone because I push ppl away. Seems that I was only pushing back on him so it was a projection.

[@Meya-w7h]

Indeed!

[@indolilyindomitablelily7306]

It was when I started studying about Narcissism that I realized why he was always happy when I'm sad, and sad when I'm happy.

[@MsBhappy]

This aspect to it made me go insane

[@Abulfattah222]

Omg exactly same

[@ChiagozieOkwor-wc9qi]

A wise man once said - “ If they don’t know you personally, don’t take what they say personally.”

[@passportkaya]

​@@shaivisharma4069if you are a man. GROW UP. who cares if a girl don't like u. STAY HARD.

[@ExoticalT369]

Don’t take it personally even if they do know you personally.

[@plantsoverpills1643]

Problem is….once they lose their mind, look out…their wrath knows no bounds. They will use any tactics to teach you a lesson for daring to undermine their control.

[@quietstorm6488]

We definitely want to do ALL we can to keep ourselves safe emotionally, mentally, physically AND spiritually. But we can NEVER fear man more than the Most High, Jehovah (Psalm 83:18) God's Word describes man as being mere dust (Ecclesiastes 3:19,20).

[@Narcjus]

Very vindictive.

[@oaw972]

@@Narcjus vapid and vacuous.

[@arashigumdrop]

Can't Wait...

[@gwensavoie4877]

Ya mine took the big screen tv down and put it away whenvt turned it down.. tskes doors off if i slam them hes an absolute greak of nature! But then when HE wants... he has to put them back OR NO!! LOL

[@limlee1535]

"They need you to need them!" This is deep!!

[@maccinzion6136]

this is true 😢

[@DrummerJay74]

Anyone in a relationship wants to be needed. Why would you be with someone that didn't need you in some way?

[@zayraroa]

not needed but wanted

[@pattiburleigh1366]

My ex actually told me this. He said “I need you to need me.” But I was so naïve in the machinations of a narcissist person, I completely missed this red flag. But now that I’m educated, I will never let this happen to me ever again.

[@Zergul_Zai]

​@@DrummerJay74 to hell with relationships. He's talking about ANY narcist. And really? You want to be needed by other people? U might be narc too. 75% people are

[@rachelpaz7645]

I showed him how powerful I was the day I walked away and left everything behind something he thought I would never do

[@Meya-w7h]

That's what I did with ex hubby.

[@kusiimajuliet9876]

I did the same they basically can’t figure out the fact that you can leave their assets behind

[@kusiimajuliet9876]

People who have not experienced narcissm just can’t figure it out 😢 you can’t explain this monster experience to someone and they understand it’s brain draining

[@grigotts]

Kudos to you girl .

[@iamcolettestyles]

@@kusiimajuliet9876yes

[@JennyThePooh75]

!!!!so true!!!! It seems like my power comes and goes. Some days I have it, some days I don't. He knows how to break through my barrier. And my emotions seem to take over some days. 😕

[@Broken_No_More]

My narcissistic husband and I were talking, and I said something to the effect of I finally have peace. He said something to the effect of he was tormented or tortured. I was blown away. You truly reap what you sow.❤

[@syahusha7776]

This reminds me when you getting ready to charge on the demons out of your house. You take a stand by being happy, take control, and cast them out! Narcissist are evil being.

[@michaelthompson5252]

Wow I was thinking the exact same thing. This applies to gang stalking for sure. It really hit me hard a while ago that Christ's ministry had everything to do with this. Yet this goes so much deeper than just people with out of control egos. This applies to the powers in high places.

[@syahusha7776]

@@michaelthompson5252 That's right Michael Thomas. They act like the advocate the devil. You wanna cast the devil out you, stay prayed up, be happy and praise the most high and thank him for all he has done. Stay on the promises of yes and amen. These narcissists have a lot of characteristics of the devil. I left mine 6 months ago. He terrorized all of us. Everything that he has done to us was destructions. The most high deliver me from him. He can't harass me anymore because every day I pray no weapon form against me shall prosper. It's very sad but the truth is there's no hope for them because it's in their DNA to be this way and only a few comes out and tell us about the narcissists. Stay safe and take care.

[@markdaniels4178]

Yes! You deal with narcissist like dealing with demons 😈, yours show no feelings, have no fear, and always control the narrative 100 percent of the time

[@nicky8024]

Yes!! Stalking/gang Stalking..spiritual warfare & attack! And literally trying to I'm-alive my bum! Stay safe!

[@mariejoseph6148]

My husband is a demon, he is abusing me , please give me advise what to do to leave him .

[@HouseOfTauler]

No! Is the most powerful word against the narcissist.

[@Meya-w7h]

Telling my mom no or any word or phrase that seems to imply that I am not agreeing to go along with the wicked and nonsensical thing she is suggesting unleashes wrath like you cannot believe. It's literally a volcanic eruption. Not because I did anything wrong, I just failed to go along with something ridiculous.

[@purple33441]

Very true.

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Damn true

[@TTsquad-p4z]

Ain't that the truth.

[@robbiewooden5067]

They hate for u to say no.They will get so angry. I will never let a man control me.

[@pamelayoung3496]

Everything they say,is REALLY WHO THEY ARE!!!. I GET IT!

[@mandycote5662]

A deflection of their own reflection

[@winnieamar9368]

Projection!

[@StarCoded]

You mean, 'Everything they complain about is what they are".

[@janice2992]

​@@StarCodedYes it's called projection. If they call you a waste of space it's because they feel they are a waste of space even though they want people to bow down to them.

[@KillersElite007]

its their own reflection

[@insightfulsuresh]

I have already done it!! I love your videos brother. Your videos helped me understand what my life was with a narcissist and also is helping me lead a better life. 🙏

[@Marc-by9fd]

I'm free. Why am I crying.😢 I'm having a weak moment. I will get through it. Thank God!

[@DaniaDraws]

You are free,congratulations❤I have to wait a little bit more in hell then I will leave.I am in a real hell.

[@starseed8809]

🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

[@VisibleTimes]

Crying is not necessarily a sign of weakness. If you made it to freedom, it seems it might be a symbol of strength. Rejoice 🎉🎉🎉

[@millieougo6218]

Ooh No!​@@DaniaDraws

[@Lotusawj]

It’s like I wrote those words…

[@johnmoya2826]

Remember: it's not about how self confident you are. It's about how self confident you seem. Amen Amen Amen !!!

[@Morpheus-pt3wq]

It is still better to build real self confidence. Pretense is fragile and can only endanger you more. But you may also find out, how much of a cowards they are and no longer be afraid of them.

[@MayanPrincess3]

This literally describes them as soulless demons praying on the light and kindness of good people.

[@Mbabloo97]

❤

[@rozforthecoz5615]

Because they are doing the work of demons # God is greater #do not fear

[@gabim3093]

The fact that something takes over all of them and they do the same actions is scary…it has to be something spiritually demonic

[@healthyhappylife1]

Exactly, my father is this.

[@kaitlyngault3987]

They aren't demons, but they actually are being used by REAL demons. Maybe even possessed.

[@SS40-nah]

Got a half-sister that's a narcissist and she cannot stand it that my life is great and I'm happy! It's literally killing her inside that she can't abuse me anymore. I moved away, made a life for myself and got married. I cut her out of my life a year ago. She focuses on what I don't have and tells our mother about it and our mother comes to me and parrot back what the narcissist says like it was her own idea to say it. I stopped talking to her too. Stay away from abusers folks.

[@GalaxyGyrl8888]

👍The mother sounds like a flying monkey that’s good that you removed her out of your life too!!!🎯💯👍

[@queen_pila]

Oh that's exactly how my sister was

[@afrozaferdousi9174]

It seems like your mom is also a narcissistic Caz no one is born evil or bad Supporting her for this, means shes also a naracisisst Probably she is the golden child and you are the scarpe goat Maybe she obeyed your mother a lot thats why your mom believes her?

[@macnchessplz]

Might be time to back away from your Mother.”Mom, I’m really busy and don’t have time to talk right now.” Stop calling or reaching out and make yourself too busy for her. Mother is poking and stoking the fire.

[@Lavender3333]

I had a similar experience with my half-sister and father. It's a relief to be free from their chaos. I wish you well! Cutting off family ties is always a difficult decision and sometimes needs to be done for our own mental wellness.

[@linkie9512]

"The things they say about you are confessions." Powerful!

[@claravalverde8988]

I don't understand? Can you give me an example?

[@Aquamarinegreen]

@@claravalverde8988they’re projecting their own material (issues that they possess) and inferring or telling you that it’s your problem. Try to recognize that they’re revealing a part of themselves that does not belong to you. Don’t be a sponge that absorbs their psychopathology. And if you’ve already done that, start to slowly squeeze their sh:t out of you. In my opinion it really starts with becoming very self aware and conscious of yourself and what others around you are doing. At least that’s what my therapist keeps trying to get me to work on. ❤

[@tanyabyfaith]

@@claravalverde8988 the narc may say something critical about you in a joking way - it is not a joke it is how they actually feel about you- aka Gaslighting

[@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl]

@@claravalverde8988the thing they say about you are confessions of how they feel about you TRULY

[@millademirands5877]

​@@Stanleyubadigha-tu2pl but 'we' already know how the narc feels about us. So how is rhis a confession? Thanks in advance

[@roshahabibi5279]

Hi Danish, I learned soooo much about my NPD coworker and how to deal with through your heartfelt videos, I just wanted to HUGELY thank you for what you do 🥲 It is extremely helpful to see I’m not alone in this and clear the confusions I get. I would love to know more about dealing with NPD colleague and specifically their fly monkeys at work 👍🏼🙏🏻🙌🏼

[@sucre2025]

almost 6 months NO CONTACT, best decision ever!!!!

[@michellegaines3568]

Me too I agree with you 💯 percent

[@shi3286]

so happy for u 😄🎉 wish u all the best n happiness in life. so happy to see someone left a narcissist

[@angelaanderson5530]

Wow that's awesome I'm still with one 😢

[@koffeewithkaren9368]

Get out of it ASAP. Try reading the Holy Bible or the srimad Bhagavad Gita ​@@angelaanderson5530

[@joeythebushkangaroo1]

8 months where the bliss increases daily in miniscule increments. Total no contact. Don't want to hear about him,see him or be contacted by him ever again.

[@MikeKollin]

Remember, "Your Happiness is their Crappiness!" 🤣🤣 Truth!!

[@shawnj-o1k]

It’s fucking funny nothing like one of the fake families victims smiling and doing well to bring out the lying rage trolls lpl😂

[@royferguson3909]

I adore this quote....I going to steal it and make it mine. ❤ it

[@Nina-w7m8q]

This is going to be my new mantra!!

[@rozforthecoz5615]

​@@shawnj-o1kbruh you done spoke the truth!

[@ExoticalT369]

Yep!

[@desertangelfish140]

I'm neighbors with my ex narcissist. And he's friends with my neighbor that lives up the street from me. He uses that as his excuse to go out of his way to drive by my house. But anytime I see him I don't acknowledge him. I refuse to waste any more energy in his direction either negative or positive. He's already ran the smear campaign against me to the neighborhood. I stand in my core power he can't touch me. I'm unfuckwithable! The universe has my back!

[@sherylo994]

I am stealing that unfuckwithable! term lol

[@ronelavassal6616]

Definitely true.

[@robbiemerriweather7093]

It sounds like you wrote the book " I don't give a Fuck" 👍🏽

[@GoddessYvonne3]

And that's a fact❤️

[@nikstar1313]

@@sherylo994 me too!!! Thank YOU ❤

[@incognito595]

Danish, you are saving me right now. Vicious, bully narc sister who humiliates, insults, gaslights me. Finally standing up to her. She's so pathological it scares me. Not even human.

[@incognito595]

I better hide this phone. If they saw what I write, it might be even more dangerous. I might have to delete my Comments.

[@incognito595]

You would fall off your chair if I told you what happened a few days ago. I still am having trouble believing it myself.I will have nightmares about it for the rest of my life. I will Never Recover from the Harm they have done to me...

[@Justkimkay]

I'm so sorry. I've dealt with terrifying individuals as well but luckily they aren't family.

[@fruitytarian]

I'm living with a narcissistic brother now and my life sucks 😢

[@morobl350]

That is exactly what I did when my sister said she intended to torture me for the rest of my life. I told her she couldn't if I didn't let her, then I went no contact for the last 15 years. I do hope she lost her mind!

[@debbiemiller4873]

You can only beat them with truth because they live a lie

[@levgtz8158]

Not really, you only beat them when you ignore them for real and break contact. Obviously you don't know this evil people for real, or you still in negation.

[@vhayashi7369]

I've stood up to them so many times it just gets easier every time and I cut them off!!! A lifetime of narcissist abuse makes it easy to walk away now! I don't put up with their crap anymore.

[@Puppylove82-gv3gm]

PREACH!

[@videorocketzmillar007milla5]

Took me 60 years. July 11 2023 im now free. When fam member cursed me out after i fed them dinner now its all over. Yayyy for you and me❤

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Amen. It gets easier everytime. Very true

[@the80sfanatic13]

It's dangerous to confront a narcissist. The best thing that anyone can do is don't say anything, turn, and run. Run for your life. And don't ever go back.

[@Fortnitecodguy]

Yeah very trie married to one for 14 years and took this advice it’s life changing.

[@Slightb5l]

*sighs* 🥀 They're not going to stop until they can get whatever they want. Yep, confronting them is pointless. Just nod and be quiet. Otherwise, it can go on forever with torture. And continue to torture after that. Just forget about confronting them and stay quiet. It's not gonna settle until they gain control with their manipulative tactics...so run

[@rohanchoudhury8043]

My father is one & I am living with him for last 8 yrs

[@ILoveAstronomy]

It depends on whose turf you are on when one does the confronting. That's what I think a lot of the "you must confront them" crowd fail to explain. You have to be careful with whom and where you pick certain battles and how.

[@matikramer9648]

No chance of running. I'm living by their side. But that's not close relationships, none of those "relations" is close one, luckily And I'm standing my ground. They need to know the borders.

[@momentswithyahya4239]

Leaving a narcissist and never going back will be your biggest PowerFlex.

[@myonlinetherapysessions9668]

Yes Amen Amen Amen Jesus 🙏 I thank you

[@nicoledemari2154]

You have helped me through a really nasty break up ! Crying for months You make so much sense Thank you so much

[@louisegarner8888]

They'll flip the 3 if they can ... 1. If you're happy living your own life they'll say you're an entitled, arrogant, attention seeking, materialistic hystrionic, narcissist and/or psychopath. 2. If you don't take what they say personally they'll say you lack empathy, are cold-hearted and a psychopath lacking in a conscience. 3. If they can't control you anymore they'll say you're a control freak then gossip negatively and project all their own flaws into conversations about you to control how others see you in a never ending smear campaign to silence you, isolate you and destroy your relationships and reputation. 🙃🤷‍♀️ Get out, stay out, close all gaps, cut your losses, cut their fuel supply by ignoring them 💯 and never look back. 😈⛽🙅‍♀️

[@tiffanym1108]

Here's where it gets them. Again. Let them think what they want. Tell them they can say whatever they want it doesn't change who you are. It's their kryptonite.

[@desertangelfish140]

I like isolation. My friends don't live nearby and I DGAF about my neighbors. I live in the country and we're all spaced out miles from each other!!. So he can smear all he wants to. LOL 😂🕺

[@louisegarner8888]

@@brianadams6628 Have the police on speed dial and as soon as they're in an uncontrollable rage (record that part) and you hear police pull up, act cool, calm and collected when they knock and say "See what I have to put up with?"and get an event number ... that's what narcs do to us though when we eventually react to their abuse. 🤦‍♀️

[@jill4268]

That about sums it up 🫶🥂

[@winnieamar9368]

I'm a huge victim of smear campaigning! From amongst everything they've done,this has hit me the hardest! The isolation is extremely difficult to deal with.

[@leleharris7356]

Of, course. Even while you were with the narcissist still felt like you was “alone”. In reality you were.🥰😘🖤

[@dailyequanimity]

So true.

[@judymcpheron5955]

Very powerful knowledge, thank you! So true. Some play victim, that our behavior has hurt them (so much) when in reality they are manipulating us with a strongwill to get their way.

[@Nina-w7m8q]

Yeah, covert narcs always pull the victim card. always. If I don't agree to what they want, they say I'm "injuring" them. It's their ego that's hurting!

[@LionofJudah222]

Yes! I have been free for 7 years 🙌 I got my worth, value and self esteem back after being delivered, healed in Jesus name 🙏 I now live in complete peace and have joy in my heart ❤ no fear only faith! 🙌🙏💯

[@vanetamorrison2972]

"Confession"! The things they say about you. Brilliant! ❤

[@chrisw8562]

That's why every birthday, holiday, and vacation was terrible and miserable...I couldn't show any happiness or it'd be ruined

[@dylangallagher6925]

Facts

[@s.9806]

True!

[@s.9806]

True!

[@june.w.1288]

Yes. They ruin all holydays and celebrations. Christmas is coming, and now I dread it.

[@MACortez-1223]

Thats true.in almost 10yrs of our marriage we dont have any happy celebration together even when we had a baby girl.

[@HISIAM888RUHIS888]

“BEST ADVICE YET!!!”… And Don’t REACT!! RESPOND WITH KINDNESS!! (They don’t like that either)!! Don’t let them “Suck that virtue out of You!!”.. 😍👍👍🙏🙏💓💓🌟🌟🌟

[@desertangelfish140]

I've responded with kindness and they turned up the evil!! It's like you hugging someone and then they slap you. Very disarming and hurtful. And this was just dealing with a neighbor. I finally told him to kick rocks, that he's too much of a pain in the tukus to deal with. When he tried making up 5 months later I stood my ground.

[@aliceroberts1980]

Yeah the hate if you pity them like if you’re sorry for them

[@HISIAM888RUHIS888]

However.. I do believe the response you get from them is from a “root of fear.. insecurity & shame” from the way they were emotionally (psychologically & Maybe physically) neglected In their Childhood!! Not making excuses for them.. but It helps me understand their Responses & reactions!! Praying for them!!🆘🙏🙏💔❤️‍🩹🥺😭🚫👿

[@majalovric6920]

No kindness...no anger..no sympathy.....give them nothing....silence no matter what...

[@RapturereadyforJesus]

I could never be mean and that made me mad. Lol. Now I am glad because he was trying to bring me down to his level.

[@sk.n.9302]

Absolutely agree. This worked with my EX husband. The only thing is that, because they are vindictive & often sadistic, you need to be in a safe place to when doing this.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Thousands of miles away,its a big earth

[@MsPangY]

It’s About Time I Set The Standards Straight! Very Tired & Draining 😢❤😮

[@Jan-f8w]

"...the things they say about you ARE CONFESSIONS." 🤣🤣Oh. My. Gosh!! Can't quit laughing😁😁🤣🤣 True. True.🤣🤣🤣

[@bandmomNish]

They hate it when you move on , and they become invisible to you.

[@MarjyGTV]

When I stopped letting my Narcissistic sister bother me with her words, it drove her soooo crazy that she couldn’t piss me off anymore. She would do things to purposefully try to get a reaction from me and when I didn’t react she would try to get on my good side by offering to do things for me. Our sibling relationship will never be the same, no matter how much she wants the closeness it will never happen again

[@tia7765]

My younger sister is alot like that. They will never change our relationship is dead.

[@bluecollarlit]

The narcissist only wants the closeness so she can harm you again.

[@Nina-w7m8q]

Same here. I went no contact for 8 months and now only occasionally converse via text. She always got her way via expert manipulation. I was tired of the devaluation and scape-goating.

[@MarjyGTV]

@@bluecollarlit exactly

[@MarjyGTV]

@@Nina-w7m8q good on you for picking up on the manipulation. It hurts way more when its family. Hard lessons we learn in this world

[@crazycow8049]

Smile , it really gets under their skin .

[@n.g.l.]

Yes! I have joy in my heart from thinking about not being with them and that destroys them. Just wow!

[@tmo.48]

Before I knew HE was a c. narc he would say or do something to wipe the smile right off my face. Now I know why. I usually stay neutral faced around him now. I know the angles he conjures up now.

[@Anneeeeee821]

Exactly whenever i am happy, they get angry and starts shouting.

[@incognito595]

Thank you again, Danish. You help so much.❤

[@debbiehamrick4488]

You are exactly right! I actually did these 3 things with my brother and he started being nice to me and left me alone. Then when I did something he didn’t like and confronted me I gave it right back and shut him down.

[@lisaw9263]

I needed this 35 years ago with my mom! I am just now learning how to do this as an adult and in therapy!

[@jesterstears7578]

Did exactly that He ran and cried to his ex who took him back in… When I go in his area I make sure I got a smile on my face and look good, just in case 😂

[@hershekissed]

Now she crying, you better stay away boo for she try to send him back😂

[@lavettastevenson]

Better her than you to have the narc in her life every single day. You know she is tired; unless she is still in the love bomb phase.

[@jesterstears7578]

@@lavettastevenson she’s very sick. Cancer. But guess what ! She was getting better while away from him but jealousy is evil and she couldn’t stand it so she lured him back in. He is oversexed and that’s how… I have a job full time and clean the house… and him sucking the life out of me with his negativity… pfftttt..

[@desertangelfish140]

@@hershekissed LMFAO 🤣. HILARIOUS 😂👏 Don't look too good, they always circle back! 😉

[@adamhayton9839]

Mines not a partner . mine is a supervisor at work 😩

[@kimberlyjohnson-clark2886]

It's hard when you're married to the narcissist. But if you are married to a narcissist get away as fast as you can. I was married to one for 18 years. And I've been away from him for 16 years and I'm still healing. My mother was a narcissist and she just died a year ago and I'm still trying to get my bearings from being away from her. They do so much emotional damage if you let them in.

[@susanlore345]

Yup I’m married to one and am older. No social support. No kids or relatives or friends to help. Can’t afford to move it’s a nightmare. I dream of a chance to escape daily. I’m always planning. I hope I can break free of this life ruining demon who everyone thinks is so great.

[@yvonnes7412]

Thank you. This is helpful. My father was a narcissist and we figured it out years ago. BUT somehow I married a narcissist and never realized he was also a covert narcissist until now (3 years). It is so hard because I don’t know how to tell him I can’t live my life like this without him getting very upset, vengeful or whatever. I have heard scary things about divorcing narcissists and I saw the drama that my father put my mom through… took my mom like 5 years to go through the divorce process and meanwhile my dad did the smear campaign with his family. Some actually wrote letters to my mom basically condemning her to hell for divorcing him 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️. If they only knew the hell that she was living in… So I’m afraid… but I literally can’t live like this, I can’t focus, my health is suffering, my emotions are suffering… and I have a daughter from a past relationship so I need to be at my best for her…

[@DaisyDoo-sk2xf]

@@yvonnes7412PLEASE SEE MY REPLY TO YOUR POST JUST ABOVE. Thinking of you dear lady 🙏

[@barbarajordan3145]

Good for you for getting away. Do this , just breathe! That alone feels so good!

[@GloriaGonzalez-zz4wp]

Yes I will do it Danish thank you so much for this advice and this video that you made ❤

[@Monikan1234]

I havent had the strength to reach the 3rd one yet. But I have reached the 1st and 2nd one, and for that I am so proud of myself!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@johnhiggins4470]

The best thing to do is to ignore the narcissist completely. If you react in any way to their words or behaviour then they will see that as a win for them. They need to have attention and their ego pumped up continually, but that can never satisfy them because their self esteem is so low. Beware, because they will project their faults onto you. They will try to destroy you in the eyes of others. Keep away from them.

[@I.AM.7.]

The hardest part for me is knowing that all the accusations were confessions 💔😭😭

[@matikramer9648]

Man up or woman up. Women are stronger in this case. 🍀💪🍀

[@I.AM.7.]

@matikramer9648 thank you! Happy to say that I left him. He's begging me to get back with him but I'm sick of it all. I'm a woman 👩 😌

[@Nina-w7m8q]

Yes - it's amazing when you learn to decode what they're saying. I looked back at some recent conversations and realized everything was a confession.

[@I.AM.7.]

@@Nina-w7m8q right! It still hurts to know how many lies he told and I actually believed many of them because I trusted him in the beginning. Lots of cheating

[@matikramer9648]

@@I.AM.7. Please, do not get hoovered by him back, please. It will be just another round of same mess, nastiness and emotional manure and psychological manipulation and gaslighting.... Save yourself and help yourself.

[@ronnieskirving9492]

No answer is a a great answer let them go nuts in their own head

[@parisn6624]

True

[@mindysmith3683]

True as they cant see how they are , sad life . Pretend

[@deedee19791]

Even when they’re sleeping they’re still not resting 😂

[@WillowRayneForest]

I am so sorry how you were treated as a child. Keep doing these videos you are a smart and beautiful person. you are stronger than they told you. Keep spreading the love brother!

[@juanderuano8969]

Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her

[@juanderuano8969]

wow, how did you get a spiritual adviser, and how do i reach her?

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Why is she your ex?it takes two to tango,why are you not facing reality,was it her? Was it you? Get therapy,if you were in the wrong,admit it,first dose of reality,then ask for forgiveness if you can,forgive yourself and your actions .Get therapy so you don't repeat the same mistakes.

[@sue3497]

Disappoint them SO hard that they will never want to be with you

[@labazoops]

Doesn't work. They simply will want to show you your place. And let you know that you can not control them. They may think how dare you even try so now it's punishment time for you. If you still aggravate them you will likely receive their rage. That can get so ugly and physical. Be careful!

[@RapturereadyforJesus]

One day I sent a text saying goodbye, I went no contact and that was the end of it, I heard he looked pretty bad for awhile.

[@dorib.3367]

Nope just ghost them no contact.

[@winnieamar9368]

​@@RapturereadyforJesus lol

[@DIY_cook11]

@@labazoops yeah it’s true

[@cttofl8822]

I’m moving & not telling them. And also, not going to give them my new number. Goodbye. They don’t give a F about me.

[@SherryG370]

Your advice does work!! But....be ready for some Narcs to threaten you physically. Never, Ever show Fear.....I'm dealing with it right now. 2 bully narcs live in my neighbourhood....I walk with confidence.

[@rachg6607]

These are all true, before I have seen this video I already started doing these and focus on myself and mental health. And I stood up for myself when ever he is attacking me or our children. One day he just left the house. Now we are quiet, peaceful, happy and got our freedom back. So do these if you want to break free from narcissistic people. Thank you for this video I am sure it will help a lot of people that is still going through tough times. Self love and self respect. If they cannot give it to you. Well we can give it ourselves. ❤

[@mcreganconnolly21]

Ill never forget the night i was home alone, playing music, having a rare glass of wine while making year end photos for our daughter's class. He couldn't stand to see me having a quiet, peaceful night. He came in to complain that it was my fault he was unhappy, (I had fired him from mowing the lawn since he mowed over my landscape lights). Then he stated I was only in the relationship for his money. I'll never forget his expression when I literally laughed out loud., and said , "please God, don't tell me I got into this for money and chose you". 😅 At that point, I think he finally realized I had relinquished any concept of our relationship. It didn't make the situation easier but at least I had drawn a boundary he could understand

[@Philly_girl]

Yeah my narcissist is desperate since I moved out of the state to get away from him. He's lost all control, he sees me happy and thriving and healing and he can't stand it. And now when he runs his mouth I can simply hang up the phone. He hates it.

[@StoryTimeforSleep]

The worst thing to do is stand up to a narcissist. From personal experience...you get abuse (including physical) and they blame you for making them lose their temper!!!

[@videorocketzmillar007milla5]

Thats their tactic. Open the door let them leave. Watch them curse u out as they leave. Now keepbthem out of your life. They will try anything what u want to hear to get u back. When they curse u out that is how they really feel about u. Im finally free of a fam member ❤ im free

[@AliciaGuitar]

First things first... get out/away... THEN you can stand up to them by living well without them. You are right... its dangerous when in close proximity.

[@mindysmith3683]

25 yrs here and scars from hospital visits , that help me know i dont want him . Imagine looking in mirrior daily and seing his love

[@StoryTimeforSleep]

@@mindysmith3683 hun...those are battle scars you got from being brave and you won the battle the moment you left his sorry arse. Never be ashamed of scars....you survived and that makes you a warrior in my book!

[@mindysmith3683]

@@StoryTimeforSleep I'm still with him 25 plus yrs . Lol it sucks . He uses money against me , animals too . He's nasty

[@QueenieGriffin-y8g]

THANK YOU FATHERGOD FOR YOUR LOVE FOR ME!!!❤

[@nasaraisha]

This person is saving a lot of people's lives Thank you so much

[@Lovelightpeace2223]

Unplug. Ignore. Keep your happiness and success to yourself. The less they know the better. Walk away with your chin up and your standards higher.

[@ltrevino303]

What he doesn't tell you is the narcissist will never forgive you. If he is your boss you are doomed. The narcissist will attempt to derail your career even if it takes 10 years. Beware.

[@RapturereadyforJesus]

My sibling is a narc. I sent a gift, not a thank you. His wife and daughter are the same.

[@videorocketzmillar007milla5]

Getting a new job works well. Never show fear. Interviewers can tell these bosses treat their employees. They see u are an honest person over what this kind of boss says. Have no fear. ❤

[@Meya-w7h]

Once, I had a narc boss. I took care of her mom. Being a narc lawyer, she likes to throw her weight around. After grossly disrespecting me, I quit! She begged, I still quit. Later, her mom wanted me back. She called me to insist that I give her references, claiming that she didn't do that in the past and I quit on them so we wants to be careful this time. I told her I could not trust her with my references, I was not willing to take that chance, and I would pass. Yes narcs are relentless! They never get over the narc injury you caused them when you ended their control of you. That's just pathetic.

[@mindysmith3683]

My husband made me quit every job , wouldnt watch kids he wanted , gave me something to do he said . Then kids grew up he caused drama . So they wont come around . Lol who blames them . He never does anything wrong . His life is so gross. He pisses all over never flushes a toliet . Sits by his pee hole outside . Im like washing it as it stinks

[@dwlsn93]

Best ways to get RID of a narcissist - let it be THEIR idea to run from you owning your power! THEY CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!

[@krjung4067]

Thank you so much. Your video today may have saved my life. I can't thank you enough. Taking your valuable advice. 🦋

[@JamesScott-uc9qr]

Right ON Point 👍 Thank You

[@malindawilliams5605]

This is true! I' m not trying to make no one lose their mind. . they need to be delivered!!!

[@cynthiamccloud3342]

🙏🙏🙏

[@susankovach8927]

AMEN. Ask Jesus to bind the demons. That way the demons can not retaliate. Do it whenever it may be necessary. Always pray for their deliverance

[@cup_o_TMarie]

Yes👏👏👏When they know they can’t run their game on you, they move on! Doesn’t mean they might not try to slander but they know you’re too much work & they can’t take the rejection so they move on🤩 You WIN the MOST when they move on of their own volition with the least amount of energy on your part🤘🙏💕💫

[@Tonyconstanza]

They sure don’t seem to move on from me

[@debrabebber5586]

I watched this happen almost overnight. They lost their mind and saud they had no control and no power anymore..... The exact words they said.

[@RhondaMoore-xc4ni]

You have a great mission in life! thank you for your truth!❤

[@incognito595]

I think I read that Robin Williams said "when you are surrounded by people, and you feel like you're alone." I believe he was referring to being surrounded by Narcs. I'm sure of it.

[@kmduarte2005]

I set one boundary and that’s all it took. Dunzo!!

[@labazoops]

Karen Bear 🐻 What was the boundary you set ?

[@Linda-pd8en]

You are truely blessed

[@user-uq6ic8pw8x]

Very lucky I had to set many boundaries

[@brendabasbas365]

woooh I get this 3,😂I feel so great God give me a full of energy and a 100%of support to rise

[@rmason5477]

💯👍

[@RedButterfly-tk6vo]

Keep doing this ya’ll … never look back. Just do you for YOU. ❤ I promise you, it will be so worth it.

[@mariad3431]

Thank you for all you do for us ❤

[@rickryan9520]

Your an Ace, Doc.

[@leaderTheSoul]

I use to always say thank you for telling the truth especially when a narcissist get mad

[@dorib.3367]

I thought I was the only one that said this.

[@SlicedInPosts]

You are right. The narcissist loses their mind when you display these 3 behaviours and come after you with their worst (way worse than anything you would have experienced from them before). Be ready for a war!

[@terriblue68]

Thank you. I nailed it on all 3 points. This is why I ended the relationship with the narc. Not the other way around. Something told me to end it, make a decision to end it and carry through. Do not look back.

[@Ed-lian]

This is so powerful. It is also empowering. It is the victory over these energies. ❤

[@TruthSeeker24-7]

Yes such good advice that I wish I was armed with when I was in the battlefied with my narc. Especially #2 I look back and think he projected a lot of his insecurities onto me that had nothing to do with me at all.😢

[@andersdottir1111]

Putting a narcissist in their place when you can’t go ‘no contact’ is key. Don’t answer their calls - ring them back when it suits you and get off the phone by saying you have a call coming through and that you will call them back - but don’t. Don’t answer their texts for a least 7-8 hours. Laugh at them whenever you can and leave their company as soon as you can.

[@GalaxyGyrl8888]

👍THISSS!!!🎯💯👍

[@desertangelfish140]

Sounds like you got it figured out!😉👍 Self control and self management. Respond versus reacting. Makes them nuts! They can't handle normal.

[@RapturereadyforJesus]

The x narc called me one time. He had a call coming through and went three way with me. It was a girls voice. He thought I was going to get jealous but I did not care as I knew what he was trying to do. So immature.

[@greenqueen2673]

Anyone I have to play games with is not allowed in my world.

[@fainitesbarley2245]

Just don’t play games

[@ritamccormick5244]

It's not that they don't think, they don't think logical or consciencely. All they care about is their self gratification, and what they need to do and who they can use to get it.

[@patriciatoomingtheplantpar2558]

I did that last night, I told him he wasn't in a position to be demanding, he wasn't going to continue his gaslighting and I didn't let him get a word in while I told him, and I left, he turned on the silent treatment, I ignored it, which in turn I turned on my head set and started dancing to the music while cleaning. He screwed his tighty whities into a knot🤣

[@abbeythetbbay9571]

He is so right about everything. I love to talk with him about my mom.

[@sasipriya3449]

Thankyou so much Danish I am no contact and silent and displayed my core strength that I don't need them

[@ceecee4552]

They are the most Evil beings I have ever met. I had to move out of State. .Best thing I ever did for myself. 💯💖And if he finds me.I have two friends. SMITH AND WESSON 💀💀

[@GalaxyGyrl8888]

👍THISS!!! Lol 😆

[@RapturereadyforJesus]

I bought a gun and let him know Iwould not be afraid to shoot him if he came near me.

[@MattyNelson-rs3ik]

Your best friends..

[@NewYorkGirl88]

Smith and Wesson 👍💪🙏🏼🩵💕 I love it .. this government took away our constitutional rights to have a gun in New York so these losers run free without consequences! Stay safe 🗽🪬🧿🔫💪

[@mariachereches2083]

I just cant believe my sister becomes instantly sad and mad when I am just being my joyful self, smiling and lightly joking

[@jacquelinefroehle5868]

Great Video....Great information. Thank you Danish!! Narcissist NEED Complete Authority over your life. They take more and more and more until you have no life left. They are dangerous people to be around.

[@MariaWestermeyer-hd3tg]

Thank you for this vid, thank you for these pointers, so so appreciative for it, thank you🙏🙏🙌

[@IngridTanner-w7l]

Love this, I totally agree, thank you ❤🙏😇