Do These Things Matter To Women? (Car, Job Title, Salary & More)

In this video, I ask a group of girls if these things about a man matter to them and they explain why or why not.
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[@josephstratemeier8619]

My dad never made over $100K in his whole life. But he is a great father, a generous provider, and one of the smartest people I know. I couldn't have asked for a better dad. The fact that men like him are completely overlooked by most women today is truly sad.

[@butcho7492]

Kudos! I was very lucky as well. My dad was a steelworker. He could have gone to college, but he didn't want to. He was EXTREMELY well read- he got me and my brother into reading because we wanted to be like him. Man, could could he dress! He got me into jazz and big band music- one reason I started playing guitar. He was the perfect role model-gentleman, classy, charming, treated my mom great, tough when he had to be but always full of love. I sincerely wish everyone could have a dad like mine. I was very blessed.

[@minabotieso6944]

These girls aren’t most women. We have to stop relying on anecdotal evidence. Young guys in their 20s get a lot of flack for not having their life and feelings figured out but young girls don’t have things figured out either

[@funkfarmer7125]

These women are delusional, they have no comprehension of reality or what it takes to make that kind of money and what percentage actually do. Which is why 95% of women fight over 2% of the men. Which is why most will end up bitter old cat lady's, and I will thoroughly enjoy watching it.

[@arthurmorgan2906]

yeah my case was the same. I have lot of his genetics and personality. And being basically invisible to wahmen... RIP to my dad lived only to his 51... that was 2 years ago. No wonder there is so much evil in the world when good guys are invisibile and bad boys are having children... man f*ck this world

[@konglives4453]

@@butcho7492 My Dad was also a steelworker (back in the 1970's) and his income allowed us to live comfortably. It also helped that our 15 acre farm and home was already paid off when I was still a toddler. His income would probably be equivalent to 50 or 60 K in today's money. Because our land and home were paid off, and we produced at least 50% of our own food on the farm, my Dad had lots of disposable income. Not bad for a guy with only an 8th grade education. My Dad wasn't much for reading, unlike your Dad. The only reading he really did was hunting or fishing magazines. I developed a love for reading on my own. He loved listening to Waylon Jennings and The Ventures, and played the guitar fairly well. I can't say that my Dad was classy or charming as he was too much of a "country boy" and had lots of backwoods ways, but nobody is perfect. I think I was pretty lucky to have him for a Dad, even with his imperfections. Who else would have taught me to fish and milk a cow, after all ?

[@Rijotan]

Their salary expectations are completely ridiculous. Expecting a guy in his mid-20's to make over $100k is outrageous. Expecting your man to make $400k by the time you start a family is downright insane. And it's funny because when they were first asked, they claim that salary isn't important. But when pushed to give a number they start giving mostly unattainable wages. Where are they getting these numbers from?!

[@bruceleeroy8302]

IKR. Do these women know what type of people make $400k. They are a drop in the bucket.

[@michaelrespicio5683]

@@causalloop2825 Looking up someone's net worth might not always be accurate. People don't just post or announce how much they make because it's kind of taboo, and how would someone else know that number, especially for one who is self-employed?

[@homerdough5389]

You guys really gotta take the number as a grain of salt. If Courtney asked them how many inches they wanted the dick size to be, they would give unreasonable answers too (I hear 7/8 inches all the time when I ask. Avg is 5.5in btw) It's not like if you went on a date and they hear that you make $50k, that they're gonna get up and leave you on read.

[@MattiMCFC]

I don't get how people can have such insane expectations. Even 80k is probably the 90th percentile. I'd get it if they said 60k was a minimum, but 100k?!!

[@moa3821]

It tells you all the answers are bunk.

[@FinanceMan]

Hobbies are not meant to be attractive. It’s something that is fun and relieves stress. No one should determine what is fun to you.

[@POWERMINDS747]

Exactly, I love playing video games and I'm not changing what I enjoy doing for no woman!

[@Danny328DT]

​​@@POWERMINDS747 Well that's why you meet women who also enjoy gaming. If she cares enough, she'll play a game with you. That's who you want if you want to keep up with gaming. If you love streaming, then great! If you play it from a hard day from work, then that's your stress reliever! If a woman is offended that you are playing a video game even if there's nothing planned, then that's your caution sign right there.

[@SirenaSpades]

I think this is why you meet people that are compatible. I wouldn't date a gamer. I would date someone I have something in common with.

[@FinanceMan]

@@SirenaSpades I play games but I would not classify myself as a gamer. I do a lot of things outside of that one hobby. Compatibility is great but you can have different hobbies and still be compatible.

[@willythemailboy2]

Hobbies are an area where a person can have space in a relationship. They don't have to be shared and having one each that is NOT shared can help prevent feeling smothered.

[@JK87]

When my wife met me nine years ago, she was 21 and I was 26. I was making $25,000 a year, drowning in debt, driving a shit-box, and struggling to cover rent. None of that mattered to her. She didn't care about designer bags or a lavish lifestyle, she knew she had found a good man and continued to encourage me every step of the way. It took five years of struggling before our financial situation started to improve. Fast forward to today, she has a husband that owns his own company and makes $300-400K per year. She has the keys to the castle and can have anything she wants, because she earned it.

[@karnagilgamesh3095]

A woman like that is rare. You both made great decisions, congratulations.👍🏼

[@JK87]

@@karnagilgamesh3095 Thank you for the kind response. I agree, women like her are extremely rare and I feel very blessed to have her by my side.

[@NikolettaMuhari]

I hope you will never switch to a younger wife if she was with you in the hardships! Unfortunately I see this too often.

[@JK87]

@@NikolettaMuhari Never. She's the love of my life. We will grow old together.

[@gobta8282]

proud of you my friend! hope to be like you one day.

[@yuriprater789]

As a 5’ 11” guy that makes six figures, this video was very depressing. I had to BUST MY ASS to get where I am today and I only just started making that money at age 29. Had to go back to school, work two jobs in customer service and live at home to save money and GRIND for the majority of my 20s. I’m 31 now and I can tell you I would never want to date someone that shares the mentality these women shared with regards to salary. Chase excellence kings, not women.

[@gerardoa9179]

Women dont care about your struggles

[@banginbadger75]

What do you do for a living? I'm currently working in a car dealership but I want to become a service advisor because for some reason those guys make the most money out of anybody there, six figures easily..

[@yuriprater789]

@@banginbadger75 Software Engineer - entry level can be 6 figures pretty easy and then as you move up to L2, L3, L4 etc, salary goes up tremendously

[@funkfarmer7125]

These delusional broads had the nerve to say men in their 20's should be making six figures. I think it hammers home a more important point. They have no interest in going through the struggle and work w a man to get to that six figure income. They want to wait at the finish line for the winners, not be by your side during the work.

[@johnjohn-dk2tq]

@@yuriprater789 only 2 % of SWE will make $300k. and it has one of the shortest career longevities as the labor market is being flooded with SWE's and the tech is changing.

[@davidallenperriniii7578]

I’m 57 and I didn’t reach six figures in my salary until I was in my 40’s. To hear several of these women profess that money doesn’t matter…AND they are looking for men in their 20’s earning six figure was pretty damn funny. Kevin Samuelson is laughing in his grave.

[@jeffjones6089]

right?! un fuckin believable...!!!! im 26 and make 50-60k before taxes and its damn good enough to live happily

[@OriginalTodzilla]

Im in my late 40s and just barely hit 6 figures a couple years ago. With the economy as it is, I'm living off Kool-aid and frozen pizzas. My only source of entertainment is Amazon prime.

[@timocruz510]

@@jeffjones6089 Same bruh I'm at 50k living in a city and I be chillin. Don't need any of those expectations and pressure just for the company of a lady. I hate to be rude, but I'd loooove to hear what the ladies make, and how they make it.

[@timocruz510]

Also, what I think is the worst part, is how they reacted to the 2% stat. They we're like, "oh that's so sad", like it was somehow the world's fault for not reaching their expectations, instead of their own (again, hate to be rude) ridiculous standards/preferences. Like, do they know the nature of macroeconomics? Not everyone can earn THAT much money. The economy is a pie, and it can't just grow exponentially. It will grow over time with advancements in tech/labour/logistics/etc., but there are always going to be people commanding average and below average incomes. That's how the world works...

[@eksine]

@@timocruz510 that's a good idea I'd like to see what they make and what they do and stuff and what their previous boyfriends made and what they did

[@meandrei1140]

31 yo, 5’7, in great shape, passed 10k per month 2 months ago after grinding for years. The main reason I dont disclose how much I make to anyone is to avoid women who think like this.

[@salestherapy]

wisdom. get an older american made car, it throws em off the scent even if u dress nice. no visible brand names is the secret.

[@Badda_Bing]

We hear a lot about unattainable beauty standards for women. But we need to start talking about these absolutely unattainable financial standards for men, that causes almost all men from the age of 25 to have insane anxiety, stress and depression.

[@he.5865]

I feel like I hear a lot about both.

[@nobay]

It can also lead to suicide

[@Jake38nine]

Yeup, that's been me the past few months.

[@PIOVRAME]

@@he.5865 Literally no one is talking about the insanely high standards of women.

[@he.5865]

@@PIOVRAME I think I hear more about women's standards than men's standards. I mean this whole comment section is an example, how are you saying that you've never heard people complain about women's standards?

[@lafaietcastro]

So basically you not only have to be on the 2% when it comes to income. You still have to find time to have hobbies that are not "boring" to them, develop your own "style", have good education and be knowledgable enough to entertain them with "philosophical talks about the universe", etc, etc. And even if you have all of that, if you don't have good looks and matters, according to them, you can't have the privilege of dating such extraordinary women. Sounds reasonable to me...

[@mrdouche9172]

Just be a 6'2, fit, handsome, charming multimillionaire who is simultaneously a warrior, a poet, a philosopher and a comedian. That's basically 20 different people in 1, but the queen has to have it all of course.

[@GeoX242]

​@@mrdouche9172 just be tate fr

[@mrdouche9172]

@@GeoX242 Yeah imagine being all that and what is your reward? A solid 3/10! What a bargain, am I right?

[@ctguitarguy8510]

The man these women want, when you add up all the factors is less than 1% of the population.

[@MultiLightDark]

@@GeoX242 You jest but this is why a lot of men at that level have multiple women! It's because these women all literally describe him as their dream guy and anything less is them "settling". I don't even see why the guy has to make 6 figures solo if this one girl was talking about how she has her own business?? So what? The guys money is OUR money but your money is YOUR money?

[@dryr-mp4pp]

"If he's struggling but he's working hard..." Then he'd be invisible to her. Women don't even see men who haven't already made it.

[@Nick_Magliano]

Yup. Absolute nonsense answer. They can’t ever just be honest about it.

[@funkfarmer7125]

They wait at the finish line for the winners, they have zero interest in sticking by a man through the struggle of becoming successful.

[@davidreddington4381]

This people are insane! My wife started dating me in college, I had no money, no car, and my ceiling leaked. She still moved in with me. Now we both make amazing salaries and live without ever worrying about budgeting. I wouldn't be where I'm at today without her support and encouragement.

[@MonoDde]

Right on the nose. I don't think they want to put the work in to get there. I'm married and earn almost double what my wife makes; 85k vs 140k after bonuses. However, when we first started dating, guess what? I was a loser!! Yes, I'll admit it, with that language! I made $30k with 0 ambition. Then she came along and gassed me up, put wind in my sails and gave me a reason to want to do better! Did she do the work for me? No, I put in the long hours of study and the anxiety of exams and job hopping. But I still attribute it all to her! Without her support and dedication I wouldn't have done this. She saw the potential I had, cultivated it and took care of me; like a gardener with a precious flower. She still takes care of me to this day in every way a wife should and I want to do even better by her! It takes SKILL and talent for a woman to be able to pull this off. My wife is a genius. Too bad for these young ladies! I hope they can figure out though!

[@SniZeppelin]

Wow, just wow. This is why I choose to remain single and avoid dating altogether. American women are over-entitled, spoiled brats, and expect everything to be just handed to them just because they are women. They think that's their "added value". If it were only that easy in reality. What exactly are they bringing to the table? Thank you Courtney for reminding all of us men yet again to focus on ourselves, and avoid this circus of unrealistic expectations placed on men in our society. These "ladies" you interviewed are exactly why the divorce rates are skyrocketing, and then they ask "Why can't I find a good man?", when the relationship doesn't go exactly as their sky-high fantasy was planned. Am I missing something here?

[@williamwallace410]

Stella: ‘I don’t care about money’ also Stella: ‘I would go for the short man with a million $’ also Stella: only wants the top 2% based on income. 🤦‍♂️

[@jinkazama2555]

they are truely ideeeotic. Fresh n Fit exposes these 304s every week.

[@mrdouche9172]

7 digits salary or above is 0.35% of men. 3.5 out of 1000 men basically. Is she in the top 0.35% of physical attractiveness? Because that is the type of woman those guys want and she clearly ain't it.

[@matt_brown_x]

Just check her IG....shows it all^^

[@williamwallace410]

@@matt_brown_x what's the IG?

[@leunamreyo3663]

@@jinkazama2555 damn, when fresh and fit are the heroes of the situation this shit is FUCKED

[@chibbyylol]

0:23 - Car 3:02 - Manners 9:00 - Job Title 10:53 - Salary 15:52 - Hobbies 22:02 - Education 25:00 - Style 30:29 - Confidence 36:00 - Place 38:48 - Schlong size

[@monsieurmike2072]

Thx summary guy

[@simongaywanjala598]

Thankssss

[@succmywood]

Bless❤

[@Youngboss1024]

Fuck man, the amount of boxes a man has to check off to get a woman's approval, interest and affection is NUTS. Even if you do check off those boxes or the majority of them, there is NO guarantee a woman will stay loyal due to their hypergamous nature. 30-50 years ago, none of this bullshit was that important. That's why the grand majority of marriages and relationships today don't last. Gentlemen near and far, STAY SINGLE because this era of dating SUCKS. The juice, quite literally, is NOT worth the squeeze.

[@dabiscuitsgod4033]

Life saver

[@SeeBillyRun]

So I sub' to this channel and Aba & Preach. Love both channels. They did a response to this video & I have to agree with what they said. Especially when these young girls commented on what they feel is an adequate salary for a man in HIS EARLY TO MID 20's... low to mid 6 figures... As Preach responded, it's that kind of mentality/beliefs (from women) that gives rise to a man like Andrew Tate.

[@wampa1ne659]

The Aba & Preach crossover has been good. They also opened up the crossover with this video for Destiny which is crazy.

[@katemiller7874]

@seebillyrun- these woman are young they don’t have a lot of experience. Most of us grew up in our 20’s. By your 30’s you have different ideas because you grew aba and preach are there for entertainment purposes only.

[@RealEnvious]

we’ve digressed as a society, this video really shows that

[@shokill]

The salary section made me laugh out loud.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Same

[@timocruz510]

Yeah, I hate to say it, but those were some Fresh and Fit answers lol Disclaimer: don't agree with many views on that podcast, but oh man is that content entertaining. It's like Jersey Shore come to life

[@25-8]

@@CourtneyRyan why would you laugh if you didn't on the video

[@Jabbawokeez4]

@@25-8 because she has manners. Even if you think what they're saying is ridiculous, you think that in your head and don't tell them, else it's rude.

[@Boss-ot1iy]

@@25-8 Maybe she did and it was edited out? Maybe she didn't cause she thought they'd beat her ass? Idk plenty of reasons we didn't hear her laugh in the video

[@rswear]

It would be interesting to find a group of women 10 and 20 years older who thought similarly in their mid-20's to see if what matter's changed over the years.

[@CourtneyRyan]

I’m going to try and interview some older women next time I do this! This is a good idea too lol

[@johnnythekid4601]

@@CourtneyRyan How about a video on the impression a guy with a physical disability gives off upon first glance?

[@oneruffSOB]

@@CourtneyRyan If you're looking for question ideas, how about the importance of a guy's credit score to the older women you interview. I've worked hard at maintaining a really good score myself so I personally find it important to know if they have a good or bad one. It tells me a lot about how responsible the older women are in the later stages of life.

[@cisium1184]

My mother once said something along the lines of "after ten years all that matters is that he's a nice man."

[@robi6317]

they would say all the same things, but the women at any age say one thing and accept another. if they like you and decide they want to be with you, they will throw out lots of things they thought they HAD to have.

[@tompeters5903]

Her: "I was raised right" Also Her: *shirt reveals 80% of chest*

[@cp368productions2]

Yeah really, I have never seen someone showing that much through a shirt, at least not off the red carpet.

[@MrManPrincess]

Ironically that 2% rich men will use these ladies as toys and will look for other younger and energetic woman when these girls get older.

[@brantmiranda1120]

I’m not trying to be offensive here, I’m just being completely honest. And Courtney, if you’re reading this comment, please consider what I’m saying. To me, every single one of these girls in this video are beautiful and seem very high quality in my opinion UNTIL they got asked the money questions. I’m glad, Courtney, you asked them that cuz I think their true colors came out. To me, every single one of them went from being a 9-10, to just about 1 or 2 in my book based on how they responded to the money questions. They all want a guy who makes AT LEAST 100k, yet in their previous breaths, said money didn’t matter as long as they can pay their bills. Every one of these girls wants the top 2% of men out there. And that’s fine for their sake, I just hope they’re willing to be real with themselves on the real world out there. If I made 100k+, I STILL would NOT a single one of them based on HOW they answered that question alone. I would rather be single than be with someone who thought my income was “acceptable.” Give me a break. All that means is that they’ll leave me the second they meet a guy who makes more. They can’t have it both ways, either money doesn’t matter as long as they’re stable, or you want 100k+. Saying both is hypocritical.

[@BlazemanGuitarX]

America is the richest country in the world and the average salary is $55k. If you're a cut above the rest, you probably still aren't even pushing $80k.... 6 figures is a delusional expectation. Are these women even worth a 6 figure salary?

[@Rinceewind]

This

[@thethesaxman23]

Ok I’m glad I wasn’t the only one. Especially when one of them said “at least 400k” … I didn’t even know what to say to that

[@MKF30]

They're shallow typical american chicks lol. This is why I've found foreign women are better quality imo they seem to value a genuine nicer guy over this bs in this video which is materialistic and shallow let's be honest. I dont drive due to not being able to afford it and anxiety so I'm pretty much screwed by their logic...

[@Rinceewind]

@@thethesaxman23 In my country there is a saying that 'gentlemen don't talk about money' I would also add women to this.

[@fizzbaq7657]

As someone who makes 6 figures and is over 6 feet tall, i am actively turned off by women who select for these things. Someone with a princess mentality does not add value to my life. Money is important to you? make it yourself

[@gangatalishis]

Amen, they act like it’s so easy to make 100k. If so then lemme see you (the woman) do it.

[@gangatalishis]

@@CandyMan2001 lol that’s true but good luck dating with an onlyfans.

[@pisssant]

Tell women you make 30k and you're 5'9, if you are truly turned off by women who select for these things.

[@aks1993kumar]

@@pisssant I'm 6' and 6 figures. I do tell them that.

[@ng429]

i'm 5'10, 36 y/o and make about 6 figures after bonuses. I dont advertise the latter. Let that be a bonus to the girl who is more interested in the person then the dollar sign. Location also matters. 100k in NYC isnt 100k where I live, it goes much farther in more rural areas. As a point of reference as of next month I own my townhouse outright, no mortgage.

[@byrdmaniacsg2776]

It would be interesting to get a group of guys and ask the same questions about what they want in woman. It would also be interesting to ask the same questions to mature women and see how they might differ. Sometime young women come off as naive/shallow.

[@jordanrichied254]

They never do videos from the guy perspective cause it’s not popular unfortunately.

[@kasRose311]

I’d say half would just regurgitate what they think women want to hear rather than being truthful

[@francisvasallo7913]

The way to deal with these women are to demand the same thing that they are demanding of us. That’s what you call equal opportunity.

[@todds.6028]

It's a worn-out cliche by now, but it bares repeating: Attraction isn't a choice. What women SAY they want (logical mind), and what they're ATTRACTED to (gut-level emotion) are very often two different things. That's why you often hear women say "I keep dating jerks. Where are all the good men?" (They're literally everywhere), and "I just don't know what it IS about him!" They very often DON'T know... because the intense feelings they feel toward him are just that: feelings. They're not located in their rational mind.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

...Women have a rational mind?

[@todds.6028]

@@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121 they absolutely do, but they rarely use it. Only when they feel it benefits them to do so.

[@jltgp6221]

Underrated comment. There are plenty of good men out there but they’re all stuck in the friend zone. Women would rather sacrifice getting treated like shit in exchange for being someone who has money, power, status and good looks, at least until they reach a certain age and their looks start fading. Then they settle down with an average dude who they wouldn’t have been caught dead with 5-10 years ago.

[@brantmiranda1120]

YES YES YES. Every single thing they say in this video and many others is sacrificed at the altar of a charismatic funny bad boy. They’d say they’d never be with a total zero bad boy 5 minutes before they sleep with him. Then they’d repeat it again after they sleep with him the 5th time.

[@JakazuV2]

@@jltgp6221 What makes quote on quote a man a good man? Because he can provide and be a responsible adult? Most of the so called "Good men" are in the friend zone are because 1. They lead their interaction in the friendzone by trying to do this overly top stuff to impress the woman and not taking a risk to make a move to get rejected plus a lot of these men are sexually unattractive. Your money doesn't make you sexually attractive.

[@danjohn2976]

So interesting to hear them say hobbies that are manly like “working on the car or fixing things around the house” yet a man who asks for a traditional woman who likes to cook and clean for the house (not the man, but the house for everyone to enjoy) is forbidden

[@masterkraft4746]

you hit the nail there

[@nirianirar5298]

@Raven Carlton West culture is weak because there are less woman like you. And sooner or later america will fall under something else but ofc it's not gonna be liberalism

[@mrlellol1626]

lmao wtf kind of hobbies are this? "My hobbies are fixing broken things in the house"

[@SirenaSpades]

No woman has a hobby of cooking and cleaning. You are nuts. lol

[@SparkleandPop]

This is depressing. Ladies your expectations are TOO DAMN HIGH!

[@Fade2BlackSS]

I dated my grammar school/highschool sweetheart in my 20s and it was rough. We were both broke college students still living with our parents. She claims she came from a family where the men paid for everything with no question and if they couldn't, you kind of got shit for it. We ended up doing a long distance relationship where she moved to Cali and I stayed in Illinois. I remember paying for tickets to go see her then once I arrived, I was expected to pay for everything. She stayed in a closet-like apartment with no kitchen so when we ordered food, I got it. We went to an event to hang out, I got that too. Gotta take a bus to get to places, she had a student pass, I have to pay for that as well. I remember her even asking to pay her cellphone because she was going through rough times so I helped her out. Like I said, long time sweethearts but both broke college students...but I loved her and my own pride always got the best of me. Telling her no or that I didn't have the money always made me feel like less of a man. She comes back home, we both have cars but I'm expected to always pick her up. Does she offer gas money, no. We go out to eat, does she offer to get the bill? Very (and I mean VERY) rarely. We didn't live together because neither of us could afford to rent at the time. Her family was constantly asking me when I'm going to marry her and I'd always say, "I refuse to marry this girl and bring her back to her mom's house." I'm not sure how the hell I was able to even do a lot of the things I did in my 20s but I can tell you that anyone going through college and just working a job just to put money in their pocket isn't going to be making 100k any time soon. I'm 34 now and I'm just barely making 60k and I have no shame in that. I've worked hard and I'm still working towards bettering myself. We ended up breaking up when I was 28 due to "differences" in life paths. And that's when my career started gaining traction. Funny thing is right around that time she decided to move to Japan to teach english because she was having trouble finding work in her field. She tried to get me to as well and get a "Husband Visa" which also required us to be married but I'd be soley dependant on her while we were there. I told her no and that's when she decided to call it quits which I was fine with. I haven't spoken to her in years and I don't regret our experiences. In fact a lot of them shaped me and have helped me realize what I'd like in a partner. Maybe it's the same for her. But if any guys out there do read this and you're in a similar position or dating, don't let anyone make you feel like you're not shit for being in a position that these woman are looking for. It's extremely unrealistic. As long as you're working on yourself and trying to become the best that you can be, that's commendable. It won't come overnight but you'll get there.

[@derriejdavis499]

You're a hero man💯

[@Puppetmaster832]

You are truly a great man, you sacrificed a lot and I hope you get what you seek in life!

[@Fade2BlackSS]

@@Puppetmaster832 I appreciate that. I did and I regret it sometimes but like I said, those experiences shaped me into who I am now. I don't have any ill-will towards her either. I hope she's doing great in life too. You live and you learn.

[@Bluemgwes]

This. This right here is what it's all about. That's awesome man. I went through the same type of journey of putting up with a lot of shit from my first girlfriend because I didn't want to be single or thought less of a man if I didn't comply. Once you break free from the spell, and realize that loving yourself is far more important than being in a relationship just to not be alone, you are truly free. Then you start building your life up, like you did when got traction in your career, and you start reaping the benefits. To the point where dating becomes simpler for you, sure it's harder to find a quality woman once you regain self-worth, and it also makes it much easier at the same time because you know what you want for yourself and in a partner.

[@Noirmirror]

Courtney I’d love to see a video like this where the girls give their answers and expectations and then you reveal who they are actually dating/have dated and see where they are in reality. It’s easy to say things but it’s potentially more interesting to see how much of their standards they actually apply to their real life.

[@bhart3321]

I like Courtney I do & as jumping off point for young guys just getting into dating she's very accessible but let's be honest she never deals with the issues head on or in any meaningful detail so she'll never do something so in depth. Remember a couple years ago when she reacted to Alexander Grace's video about his female friend that posed as him on tinder & was shocked at what men go through. She said herself she was going to do a similar experiment to make a video & as far as I know she still hasn't done it. She likes to stay accessible at the surface. Also creators that get into it more are often ratioed & suppressed which effects monetization. Can't blame her for that tbh but it also shows her weakness in manosphere which she openly admits to being a part of. She likes being an access point which is fine, I think she's a much better access point than say someone like "alpha male" 🤮 pickup artist conmen.

[@zomie1111]

What a mic drop comment. Prove you stand by your own standards women.

[@Kthomasritchie]

These women are entitled. They'll say something like "money doesn't matter too much", "He has to be taller than me", then they say, "I'll take someone short who makes a million any day". None of them understand they are not the prize, the man is.

[@Strive1324L]

@@Kthomasritchie 13:20 makes me laugh 🤣🤣

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

Says it all really. Average women don't want average guys, they all want the top earners. I would date a short guy if he is earning a million? why do women shame short guys all day long, something they cannot control. Rather than looking for someone who is good enough with a good character and a good heart, you would rather go for the million. Money and height will not sustain a relationship. Yes you chicks can go for the top earners but realise that all the other women want them too. And when you chicks get used and rejected don't blame it on all men. You choose those guys.

[@WtfReal]

Women standards are insane. But once a man says she needs to not have slept with multiple men somehow it’s “toxic”. It’s actually insane how women’s standards are looked as as know you’re worth but as soon as a man has his it’s considered toxic.

[@SquallSZ]

If women are becoming like that who really wants them ?

[@eon001]

We're not even allowed to date slim women or ladies without kids. But we need to be 6 foot athletic 6 figure earners.

[@ghostflame9211]

right? they can demand their man be 6 feet, making 6 figures and always look like hes 26. but the moment we say we want a woman in shape, we're fatphobic. like alright...

[@nonapplicable3055]

@Grotesque Subhuman What? There are women in 3rd world countries who would worship me because I hace a place with running water. Tf Ima stay in America for? A fat wife whose idea of a good meal is white rice, pork, and beans? Hard pass...Im fully embracing demon time....I suggest you all sell your souls and do the same lol

[@lennertcornette]

@Grotesque Subhuman That's the annoying part. I'd rather join MGTOW but I'm 32 and I have had good relationships, there are good women out there but they're very rare. I cannot give up befor 40.

[@hydreigon2709]

I'm so glad us men in the comments are coming together on this bs. We need each other more than anything.

[@GreatWolfGrimnar]

"80-100k in your mid twenties"....this level of delusion is honestly frightening.90% of people I know in their mid twenties are lucky if they can afford a crappy studio apartment.

[@lincolnross9000]

Here's proof guys: don't date. Work on yourself only, and if the right person is attracted to that, they'll come to you. If they don't don't worry about it. Rise above, focus on the grind.

[@SamianHQuazi]

It's not that simple. You have to make a conscious effort to go out there, interact with, show sexual interest, etc. Proactively. They won't just come to you (unless you're a one-in-a-million A list celebrity).

[@lincolnross9000]

@@SamianHQuazi F that. You is all you have in this life: all you're certain to have. Your family can disown you, your wife can leave you and take half of what you own, your children can hate you. The person you see in the mirror is all you are certain to have. Respect them, honor them, and the sacrifices your ancestors made to get you where you are. I've decided not to date: I don't want to risk my future on the whims or wants of anyone else. My life is mine, and mine alone. If anyone feels similar, they should focus on themselves and their own freedom first.

[@SamianHQuazi]

@@lincolnross9000 OK but my point still stands that they don't just "come to you".

[@josephbrandenburg4373]

marriage rates are falling, fertility rates are falling, the average age of marriage is rising, frequency of birth defects are on the way up... your solution is to passively wait for women to make the right choice while contributing to the beast system?

[@ChaosUNLEASHD]

I'm with Samian on this one, you see that "work on yourself and ignore everything else" crap everywhere. While true to a point, I've grinded for years and here I am at 31 in a new city, successful but all I have is work. And no one to enjoy life with when I want a break, save for old friends. Getting yourself out there socially matters. Just don't chase a girl who gives clear signs she isn't interested, or is apathetic.

[@johnnybbgunner2136]

There was a time when people hooked up when both had nothing….you build on that together and grow your love for each other along with your wealth.

[@brianwaller7383]

Not anymore. This clowns wait at the finish line picking the hottest winners that are over 6 feet. Dating is dead. Courting has been extinct for 20-30 years

[@johnpartee5672]

I enjoyed the range of questions asked and how everything was broken up in sections. Ive seen many of your vids before and enjoyed this the most. Just straight to the point questions with long winded answerers without interruption. Id love to see these same questions with different genders and demographics. Keep up the GREAT Work!!

[@rollingwithmoore]

That girl in the white tank gives narcissistic vibes - “in his spare time, I want him to work while I have fun”

[@vincmayne]

the salaries they were listing are absolutely insane for anyone under 30

[@homerj806]

Unless it has something to do with crime. Which would be okay with young women because they love those bad boys that they could "change them"

[@MichelleAntonia]

@@MakeMoneyOnlineWithEmma I think you misunderstand that term. “Girl bosses” want to make their own money, not look for men to provide it. That’s the whole point.

[@rexqt5337]

Well theyre speaking for long term, serious relationship

[@hogant.551]

@@rexqt5337 What wise man would consider a serious long term relationship with a modern American or British woman?

[@rammul7801]

Ladies: we don’t care that much about how much a man makes. Courtney: how much would be good enough in your opinion? Ladies (casually as if it’s no big deal): 100-400k a year! Courtney: less than 2% of men at your age make that 😂🎉 The delusion!

[@MrFuckinglogin]

less than 2% are 6ft tall and make 6figures between 20-40. There are quite a lot of men who have 6 figures between 20 and 40.

[@minabotieso6944]

@@MrFuckinglogin still a very small percentage. I just googled a study from 2018 that said that 2% of 25 year olds male and female make more than $100k. 12% for 35, 16% for 45. And these girls live in Cleveland/Midwest I think where wages are low compared to nyc or California

[@Front-Toward-Enemy]

They actually seem to believe that a man making $400,000 would even look in their direction for anything other than a 1 nightstand.

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

@@MrFuckinglogin less then 10% of the population of the united states makes 6 figures. That's including women. Now you take out women then it goes to around 5~6%. Now you wanna go by age? You are looking at only at most 3~4% of the population of the USA. At most 3~4% is not a lot (we are not even accounting for homosexual men or married men which then drops that to less then 2%). (this is based off of the 2021 statistics). The literally stats are out there.

[@redblazer29]

This is EXACTLY the reason why people like Andrew Tate & the Red-Pill Theory exist. If you think that these 2 are obnoxious & totally extreme then you need to watch this video again and label these women's ideology as an EXTREME too. The Tate philosophy is only there and has a cult following because extreme opinion of women like these exist. Both are EXTREMELY BAD for you, let's get that clear. At the end of the day, you don't need to belittle the person praising or quoting Andrew Tate or the Red Pill Theory because now you know that he/she is probably making that argument because they've experienced or seen this extreme side of the coin too.

[@demonderpz7937]

Why are women always dogging on gaming? It’s stimulating, difficult in some instances, and a lot of the games are inspired by other hobbies and forms of media. Yes, I understand that guys who spend all of their time gaming are different, but gaming as a hobby isn’t that darn bad.

[@fleshtonegolem]

Social media poisoned their ability to have realistic expectations for themselves and their partners.

[@joshuapatrick501]

TLDR: Women want a man who makes over $100k before the age of 25 (lol), is creative, has great manners, is driven and motivated to succeed, has hobbies they are passionate about (video games aren't attractive), be educated (formally or informally), be socially intelligent, be stylish (big deal), you better be confident but not cocky, make eye contact and have good posture, be clean (house and car), if your wanker isn't above average be good with your personality and other digits. From what I can gather, there are a lot of women expecting to get 1% of the men in the world.

[@marmite_popsicle]

every one of those categories are 1%. All of them together are 0.000000000001%

[@GenericUserName443]

@@marmite_popsicle 12 zeroes, i think you might be quite spot on how common this kind of man is.

[@beebeejoo]

Why did you single out being stylish as being a "big deal?" Not trying to argue, just wonder why that one stands out in your list.

[@salestherapy]

i want a ferrari thats cheap, holds 7 people with seat belts gets 50 mpg and is reasonably priced, also id like it to be brand new

[@fadumoosman5795]

no, these girls are crazy, cause i would make my little brother aware of such women not bc they are bad person but just bc such girls are shallow and delusional.

[@KamikazeBingo1]

I’m so glad you called them on the salary statistics. It took me a long time to climb above 6 figures and I’ve been on dates where I was told “oh you have an average salary”. Yes, it was hard work, but it was also a lot of luck. Most people will not cross that threshold. Social media has skewed perception so bad on certain things it’s ridiculous. Outliers represent the bell curve online when in reality they are just that outliers. If you are expecting results 2-3 standard deviations out I’ve got some seriously bad news for you…it’s almost guaranteed not to happen.

[@DivineFrag]

I'd first facepalm, sigh, then probably give a facetious remark. Imagine being a 6-figure man only to have some B tell you your income is average. If it's so average, why weren't you finding any other men making that much? lol

[@megalodon1726]

You tell them your income on dates? You shouldn't tell them that until you're living together or engaged. They will guess how much you make based on your job, home, and car, but don't be telling them that anytime soon.

[@OriginalTodzilla]

Also that 6' + 6 figures is ALL men, not only young and Chad men. You take out the old, bald, fat, ugly, etc men, that number drops considerably. These girls are fighting for .25% of men. Not "25%" but a QUARTER of a PERCENT of men.

[@dontheador6649]

... no.

[@OgunDaMan]

People are working hard to survive in the USA. Never let a woman or anyone else discount your salary. Plus you could still have investments in startups or Real estate. Many apps allow you to own shares in properties. May not be flashy but it's something.

[@yolocomics5468]

Doctor's median salaries are 150,000 for primary care. This is after a minimum of 6 years if you did the bachelors/MD, which most people don't do. If you started college at 17, you'd ironically be 23. Most primary care doctors are 27 when they finish residency. Who tf else makes 400,000 in their mid 20's???

[@salestherapy]

justin beiber and mid level drug dealers

[@AppaYipYipBro]

I think your channel is good for the discourse. A lot of these testimonials come from the red pill side of youtube. Thanks for giving people a chill space to express their thoughts

[@bruceleeroy8302]

My advice to men, especially younger men: Please, focus on yourself and your goals and purpose. Make lofty goals, surround yourself with people who will help you elevate to achieve those goals. You can't do much about your height but you can work on your physique, skin, hairstyle etc. Do *NOT* focus on women or chasing women. I don't care how pretty they are. Women wait at the finish line for the winners, so focus on the race and not the women at the finish line.

[@Mosesthemodster]

Very solid advice.

[@bruceleeroy8302]

@Rick Sin Unless you look like Quasimodo, I can guarantee you've had opportunities to hook up with women in your past. Don't fret though, many men don't lose their virginity until their 20s. My thing is do not chase after women. Put yourself out there to women, conversate with them and they will choose you, the good ones anyway.

[@jcnba28]

You got this from Hamza? lol

[@brianwaller7383]

Yep my advice to the young men, don’t waste your time dating these clowns.

[@shrishri8898]

Tom cruise makes more money than worthless bodybuilders who are dependent on tiktok

[@davidf7485]

As a guy who still lives with his mom and doesn’t earn much at 29 I’ll skip this video because I don’t need the depression.

[@johnkeller5163]

Yeah, knock that depression nonsense off! Work on what pays the bills and then further building on your goals (and actually keeping promises to yourself attaining meaningful goals).

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

We all know they want money, your hoodie, and for you to be tall. Anything else comes from getting to know a particular woman. But those 3 things are foundational

[@kdc6884]

Watch an Andrew Tate video on "depression". There is your answer

[@jltgp6221]

Hey man, I’m 31 and just moved back in with my parents after throwing away a boat load of money on renting for the last six years. The economy is terrible right now. Keep improving yourself in every way that you can control. You got this. The right woman will find us.

[@davidf7485]

@@jltgp6221 You're still ahead of me.

[@jesusdanielhernandez6304]

Why would a man making 6 figures a year ever choose average looking women? RIP Kevin Samuels

[@TheFluffyKitty]

Glad to see you trending Courtney. You put a lot on work into this channel and making thought-provoking videos.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Thank you so much 🥹

[@vincentnaticchione2962]

When she said 400k who else couldnt help but burst out laughing

[@klimtkiller]

if you don’t laugh you cry lmao

[@hogant.551]

She probably needs to be in a relationship with an entire MLB or NBA team to give her little greedy ass the money she thinks she deserves. Why stop there, all money made by men should automatically go to her for not being too ugly and being born a gender which has around a 50/50 chance of being born as. To her: Well done, you are now by far the richest person alive. Wait that isn't enough you say? You want to own Earth and own the moon? The moon can be your vacation home you say?

[@salestherapy]

lol yeah and not to be too mean, she was the less desirable of them all. lol. i was like honey, take the first man u find that will be good to u.

[@jltgp6221]

How to date the women in this video: 1. Be attractive 2. Don’t be unattractive

[@NWBwana]

I found being tall helped....

[@ryanshaw7113]

3. Make at least 100k by your mid twenties or 400k by the time your 30

[@cgspartan87]

Orrr..... Just learn to how to flirt, I see unattractive ppl with attractive ppl all the time

[@minabotieso6944]

@@cgspartan87 we don’t need anecdotal evidence

[@innocentrage1]

And make 500k a year

[@NotoriousBBB]

These expectations are why most men have stopped approaching women. It's not even that most women have these expectations, but that's all we're exposed to through social media.

[@hydreigon2709]

This is by far the best red pill video of yours, and it is unintentionally lmao. Love it!

[@CourtneyRyan]

👀 Who said it was unintentional? I tend to agree with a lot of “red pill” advice! I’m not so much into the extremes (just like with anything else) but I certainly see why it’s relevant and helpful for a lot of people.

[@chrisc4507]

@@CourtneyRyan How do you agreed with "red pill" advice when every red pill person says to never listen to pretty women dating coaches since you don't understand actual struggles for men? You are just a chamaleon that pretends like you do

[@salestherapy]

@@CourtneyRyan its good. i liked the 2% comment. at 25 i could barely survive. i noticed none of them said they wanted to help a man make that kinda money. lots of high earning men have a really good support system at home and often times their wives help run the businesses that make all that bread. now everyone wants to be part of the success not the sacrifice. most rich people are not executives, they own three subway franchises and a dollar store in alabama or some other trivial location while the wife works in their landscaping business. these girls wouldnt know what money looks like if it wasnt on a wrist or in a car or house. mr miagi from the karate kid is your typical millionaire in america. lol. bald, short old and drove an old truck lol. in fact i think most millionaires drive trucks

[@philosopherking506]

I’m 5 minutes into the video. There is a young lady who said “these pretty hands shouldn’t be touching doors” when discussing manners and men opening doors for her. I know she was saying it in a light-hearted way, but what a lot of guys like me have a problem with is the entitled attitude of women. I don’t mind doing things like opening doors for women of my own volition. However, it feels like a situation ripe for more severe exploitation when there is a baseline of entitled demand rather than an attitude of relaxed gratitude for voluntary gestures.

[@CourtneyRyan]

Yeah I think she was just joking lol she’s very witty

[@philosopherking506]

@@CourtneyRyan fair enough. Now, about the walking along the road and the guy being closer to potential harm… lol

[@CourtneyRyan]

@@philosopherking506 right 😂😂 a bit morbid lol

[@ameliepoulain4654]

A man having a problem with a woman expressing herself as if she believed she’s worth it. That, to me, is the real issue. Men are not protectors anymore. They cringe at the sole idea of a woman wanting to be protected. Ma dude, go get yourself a manly man if you don’t want a princess.

[@philosopherking506]

@@ameliepoulain4654 this is exactly what I mean. Implicit in your statement is your belief that a woman’s life, safety, health etc is more valuable than a man’s simply because she is a woman. Connected to that is the implied accusation that my masculinity or attraction to women is not valid unless I agree with that assessment. That doesn’t work for me, and I wouldn’t choose to be with anyone who would demand otherwise. My willingness to sacrifice is contingent upon the trust, reciprocity, and voluntary approach built into the relationship over time.

[@MystiKal76]

What women say they want... "I want a kind hearted guy who can make me laugh" What women really want.... "I want a tall guy, good physique, drives a nice car, owns a house, has a well paid job, has to be good looking, is charming, can look after himself, has good teeth, nice shoes, wears a suit, has little body hair, wears nice jewellery, etc..."

[@anthony9013]

The irony is that this type of guy doesn't have to settle for just one woman and rarely ever do lol

[@MystiKal76]

@@anthony9013 LOL so true! And still women will cling onto him, hoping he will "change" for them.

[@OriginalTodzilla]

@Anthony 💯 100% of women chase 5% of men. And if you are a 5% man, you can have infinite beautiful, young women, so why would you EVER settle down?🤣🤣🤣 I feel bad that most women aren't good at math and statistics. If they were, they would totally understand that they are all being ran through by just a few Chad's!🤣🤣2

[@peterspeliotis104]

Bingo!

[@princeishere1693]

we all want the person who fulfillls our biological needs men are just shocked that women need more because when they carry a child they walk with it for 9 months and are basically helpless and therefore need a providing man while men is smash and go

[@Zen-ii7ds]

I’m traveling to Central America to find a wife. My dad did that and there married for over 30 years.

[@salestherapy]

they will be stoked if u have 2 good legs and can make babies. ur not wrong man, its a better world down there, real problems help people keep it real.

[@jharp08]

The girl with blonde hair and the multi color top has been the most sensible out of all of the girls. I’d date here in a heart beat

[@0monroy]

I really appreciateiated the 2% commentary. I would like to see a guys panel represented . So woman can see what kind of men exist, and it's not about just age. Finally meet those examples.

[@jmwoods190]

Count me in!!

[@MichelleAntonia]

It’s not just about age? Could’ve fooled me! I’ve never met a single man willing to date women 40 and over, even they themselves are in their 50’s or older! Tell me where to find these men because regardless of how old I am, I do not want a guy who acts like age limits should apply to women but not to men.

[@hydreigon2709]

@@MichelleAntonia I mean ofc i wont date a woman in her 40s, im 21 she could be my mother

[@Despond]

@@MichelleAntonia It's almost as if fertility and youth plays a bigger role for men seeking women and it's almost like security and family support plays a bigger role for woman. Wow more news @ 9!

[@coreychuba]

I think that this is one of those videos that people in the future might refer back to to see why and how western civilization collapsed so quickly. Whether it’s low birth rate, low marriage rate, high divorce rate, record high anxiety, depression, suicide, it comes from this fantasy of completely unrealistic expectations and viewing men as a commodity.

[@asana_awakening]

Agreed, people in general are focused on how things “should be” instead of how things actual are. Expectations can get in the way of allowing good things to actually happen.

[@yolocomics5468]

At 21 you've just graduated from college, IF you had no trouble financially. Unless your parents are already rich and own a company, the chances are very low that in 2 years you're in a position to be making good money

[@Y0uWinY]

The woman said that she would take shorter guy that earn millions any day, is also the same person who said money shouldn't be an object as it doesn't last forever. When a women say money doesn't matter, you better probe further. Most of it are probably lies.

[@makattak88]

What women want isn’t the same as what women are attracted to.

[@VerlTheSkeptic]

The biggest problem with asking people's preferences is that they will generally express how they think they feel or wish they felt rather than their true preferences.

[@larsf.4756]

Yes, there is a self-serving bias going on when you elicit responses (surveying) vs. observing behavior.

[@NyarlathotepAD]

Right? It's all about the perception and how they look to the world watching this.

[@aaronmontgomery2055]

That is apparent in women but asking men in a realistic POV and you get less of this BS.

[@wierd227]

To Courtney - great video! I find it fascinating that most people interviewed expect someone (in their 20s) to make near 80-100k and that it was (imo) heavily implied that this is only okay for now and that there is an expectation of a lot more growth down the line. There are countless people who don't reach 80k in their entire lives and still live a nice life. I know this interview was centered around what these women expect from a man but it would be interesting to know what these women expect to be doing for a living.

[@EDME86]

That was fun, It's good to know even if you feel like the Money standards are moon high, it helps to know what is expected, what we should expect is expected to say, another great video to help us, grest job Cortney

[@brantmiranda1120]

It just needs to be said, these girls are very naive, and will more than likely go thru 45 heartbreaking relationships looking for that 1% they’re demanding. I wish them luck in their hunt. This world isn’t Disney World.

[@kc270352]

exactly 🤣🙄

[@robi6317]

"girls" is the operative word

[@Yo-oq9gg]

That’s what happens when women are glued to social media, especially in the west, they see celebrities and influencers with rich guys living fantasy lives and expect that as well

[@hitroy1054]

Mansi wasn’t that bad she was actually very forgiving

[@rjwagz]

Courtney, I think it would be a really good idea to include older women in these kinds of videos, in their 30s, 40s, or 50s. It would be really interesting to see how answers to the same questions may vary. And it would better for your audience, which I'm pretty sure consists of more than just guys in their 20s.

[@joshuabenitez3260]

This. I'm 31 now I'm only getting older.

[@neri8216]

Yes I agree. These 20 year old girls in this video don’t know anything about the real world. Them expecting guys to make a six figure salary by their mid 20s is just ridiculous. It’s not possible, but really hard especially in this economy. Older women would definitely give more realistic answers.

[@yme3267]

Literally no one cares about a woman past a certain age

[@visaman]

I am 58 myself. These are Instagram models, just as Courtney is.

[@MrFuckinglogin]

why would it be interesting? Are you seriously interested in 50yo women?

[@roymustang877]

I have always the same advice. What do you bring on the table ? What make you more special than other woman (or men) ? WHY he should choose you ? Know you own values otherwise you'll die alone. You want a six pack guy ? You have to understand he'll spend a lot of time to the gym or training. You wanted a very smart chess GM player. You have to understand chess is his 1st wife and you the 2nd. And you have to learn chess, to spend time with him. If you want a very passionate guy or woman, you have to be passionate too. Being on Instagram or tiktok all day is not an asset.

[@tyler94658]

"these pretty hands should not be touching door handles" and there we have it, the summary of the whole video.

[@recklesspeter9387]

"These pretty hands should not be touching door handles" wtf Why do we have to treat women like they're some higher version of human kind?

[@itsspoodini]

They're accustomed to it and have been for years. Think of your grandparents and selfless grandfather

[@Shah-of-the-Shinebox]

exactly. talk about putting them on a pedestal

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

We don't.

[@connormitchell8048]

It's obviously a joke

[@jcnba28]

Because their daddy gave them everything growing up so they have little value for things, they just expect them nowadays.

[@sergioliveras9701]

The fact that I'm spanish (here the average salary between 25-34 year-olds is approximately 20k) and listening to that ridiculous amounts of money has blown my mind. I know in the US you gain more than in Spain, but it's a nonsense for me anyways. I still can't believe what I've heard

[@bros4654]

Don't worry mate, it's insane to us in the States also. "Acceptable" if the man is in his 20s? They're out of their minds.

[@Nobody-he5xf]

The average salary for men in that age range in the states is around $45,000. So, they all want over double the average salary.

[@tommyvercetti9322]

American Karen's have the worse attitude

[@Keyer-bn3dp]

These women want a man that is perfect. They really have little to offer. Perfection does not exist in life. In 15 years they will be bitter old maids and will be saying that there are no good men out there when they have run them all away.

[@richardramfire3971]

Job title matters. Don’t let them fool you. It may not be a dealbreaker wit some but they notice job titles, status and earning power

[@mayboy128]

27 years old here, not even making $30k a year by myself. Thankfully, my wife of six years and I have grown so much together. Really feel bad for men.

[@salestherapy]

good life uve got man. truly nice to hear

[@dedeborya9015]

never listen to what they say - always watch what they do. What men are coming to understand and more men need to embrace - is that our car, manners, job title, salary, hobbies, education, style, confidence, house & shaft all mean exactly d*ck. Women file for divorce 80-85% of the time. The number one reason is that they got bored with our support, protection, sustainability, security and reliability. The average US marriage is 8.2 years. Play as you will. The house is stacked against men - it is a fools errand to dally in a minefield.

[@ameliepoulain4654]

Has this happen to you?

[@anthony9013]

There really is no winning. Even if you are this dream guy that they want. They will eventually get bored and want someone else

[@dedeborya9015]

@@anthony9013 Cue Dreamy McFelon

[@dedeborya9015]

@@ameliepoulain4654 It happens to every man that has dallied with a woman. Ask around your friendzone.

[@MichelleAntonia]

@@anthony9013 “boredom” is not the reason most women cheat or leave. Is that what they’re telling in these bs “red pill” communities?

[@genetrosper5834]

I appreciate your content, Courtney. Speaking as someone who is being cut off after a 32 year marriage, I'm told there are good women out there. Thank God for videos like this. I have just been convinced that dating or relationships are things I want to avoid at all costs. The talk about having a $100k salary is delusional and frankly, I don't see any of these women being worth $100k. If this is the state of womanhood in 2022, I'll be absolutely happy to never touch a woman ever again.

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

I thought the one girl was about to give a humble answer, but when she said 100K I was like WHAT??? LMAO

[@25-8]

Trust me you are completely invisible to these women anyways

[@jcstudio5685]

I know right 100k is too much to expect from a Man, money acts as a glue.

[@genetrosper5834]

@@25-8 I am happy to be invisible.

[@j.k.roberts6820]

Ouch man, I got to 18 years of marriage before being set free. Watching these videos is great help though. I mean my ex had to have been crazy to leave... oh, yea, she actually was. When an insurance company won't insure you due to 'mental health history with recent exasperations', it ain't the spouses fault.

[@219Thompson]

Okay ladies, I don't know if you're all from California and that's how income works out there, or if you're just this disconnected from actual income stats here in the US- but this standard of 6 figure income is INSANE. I know, because I'm 29, and I just started making $130k LAST YEAR, and thats after making slightly above poverty wages for the better part of the last decade. Fun fact, that job means im away from home for 14 hrs/day, so hobbies are non-existant until my weekend comes around(thank goodness its a 3 day weekend), and I spend that time just trying to have quality time with my girlfriend. Y'all are just delusional or ambitious beyond belief.

[@MostafaAminiNasab]

After watching this I asked myself what is wrong with being single? If I made 400k I’d rather not share it with these girls.

[@Novaximus]

I dated a girl who worked for 3 years of her whole life at a job. As an entitled house wife that was her entire working career. So, whenever I had a bad day at work she would say how easy my job was and if she were doing it that she'd be so loved and appreciated that she would get raises and promotions. Welp... the day came where for whatever reason she "tried" to work. Lasted a whole 3 days. It was a cushy indoor white collar small accounting business too. I came to pick her up after her 2nd day and she was instantly saying how bitchy all of her coworkers were. She was annoyed to be told what to do. 3 days later I picked her up and she said..."hey you know what I discovered about myself? I don't want to work. It's not for me." LMAO!!! I'm like...nobody wants to work. For most it's not a choice. It's called being an adult with financial responsibilities. Absolutely no respect or appreciation. All she saw was the paycheck. Not what you have to do for it. The getting out of bed every morning when you least feel like it. Having to bend the knee to a superior and following rules you don't agree with. The fact that someone is going to pay you... IDK 20 bucks an hour (which is 40K a year) that means that you better be producing 100 bucks an hour for your employer. You have to earn your salt. You don't just get 100K for showing up in a suit and sitting at a desk. Of course from a woman's perspective they literally get paid 6 figures for just sitting there and looking pretty on O.F. what'd you expect from females these days? Absolutely warped state of minds. Honey, until you've ever made 100K yourself (excluding major city living and sex work) then you have no right to expect that from your dating pool of men. As well, a women in thier 20's are at the top of their financial game since most get paid based on their looks. This is peak opprotunity season for women. Guys don't peak until our 40's. Yeah... as usual we have to put more into something because life doesn't just give us what we need just by sitting on a barstool looking pretty.

[@MichelleAntonia]

You have a staggeringly narrow view of women. You do know that women who are not in their 20’s, who have careers (and not on the internet or porn) exist, right? Sure doesn’t seem like you do.

[@Novaximus]

@@MichelleAntonia I'm just stating facts from those who I know. Honestly 90% of the women I know in their 20's don't really work. They might do 15 hours a week with a hobby job but will invest far more of their weekly time into "themselves" towards being a successful dater to catch that "special" sugar daddy. (Butt squats in the morning...dressing in sexy out fits...posting on social media...social networking ....Almost all of them aspire to be stay at home ... whatever. For any one woman I can think of who has a career job I can think of 9 others who don't.

[@elmateo77]

@@MichelleAntonia Yeah but women over 40 are invisible to men, just like men under about 5'10 are invisible to women :P

[@GJ-pj4mj]

for your second paragraph add to this the amount of times your projects or suggestion get rejected (in daily basis) and you still have to show your face and pretend you are fine :) I am a woman, 31yo, been in certain industry for 9 years, the higher you get the harder the crash, and still standing up and continuing. The higher you go the smaller your feel, but expectations skyrocket. For a reason these "women" are called "girls" at the beginning of the video, no woman with working experience would ever talk so loose about money. And I will say it again, men fall for these chicks because apparently the looks are worth the pain.

[@Me-ng9ut]

@@Novaximus You know some very low class women then. Every woman I know (including myself), works hard and is university educated). Stop having around with deadbeats.

[@lwdn3379]

While the intention was good, all this did was largely confirm how delusional women are when it comes to income/finances and their "standards" to dating. Even removing the subjective opinions of looks on the contrast, they are very overdue for a reality check. I'm only 5'9, but make just under mid-6's, and in my early 30's. There is an absolute zero chance of me dating anyone who's requirement of me is to make the money I do who isn't at least making close to the same. 4 billion women on the planet, you ain't it, sis.

[@johnmachtube]

"Six figures" is $100,000 to $999,999 per year. "Mid-6's" would be the middle of that range, or $549,500.00 per year. You're making just under half a million dollars per year in your mid 30's? Congratulations.

[@aaronalvarez905]

The unrealistic salary expectations are 100% unattractive. Sadly, very common nowadays.

[@eveningswan4491]

I’m actually impressed that they don’t care about job titles but care that they are in the top 3% of wealth bracket in there 20s bro what. Social media ruined some views of these people

[@BlackacreDoe]

I know people who never made a dime over $50k but retired millionaires, and people who make 6 figures who are miserably in debt. The salary section of this video was insane to watch. Even when given the 2% statistic, they didn’t seem to care. What you do with your money is a lot more important than how much you make.

[@padraics]

How do you retire a millionaire if when you make 50k, after taxes that's around 37k, so would take 30 years to make 1 million dollars...

[@BlackacreDoe]

By not having debt, living on much less than you make and investing the surplus over a long period of time. Maxing out a Roth IRA every year in low-fee index funds starting in your early 20s and at least maxing out your Roth 401k to the highest company match. Having a budget every month and sticking to it. Not pulling out of the market when things get rough, but staying the course and staying focused. It’s not complicated, just takes a lot of dedication and patience.

[@butcho7492]

@@padraics Investing, 401k, and compound interest. Also- not living beyind your means, which most people do not do.

[@sharinglungs3226]

@@padraics a good book to read is “the millionaire next door”.

[@sharinglungs3226]

@@BlackacreDoe plus the more money you have the easier it becomes to accumulate more when you’re investing. It’s the whole principle on compounding.

[@darrelldean7116]

"I don't care about a man's job title or how much he makes, I just want him to make what only 2% of men make straight out of college." This is one of the reasons I only use women for sex and stay happily single ☺️... I'm from the same city as these women too

[@ameliepoulain4654]

So you just use them for sex because you can’t provide them with anything valuable besides your Schlange? Noted.

[@NWBwana]

I don't think that's healthy for you my man.

[@bendover7841]

@@NWBwana being with women like this is even more unhealthy

[@sofypi7493]

incel mindset congat

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

wait, you from Cleveland?

[@eszuba3]

Great video!! Your friends seem like cool down to earth people! This video gave some great feedback to what girls thinking. These seem like reasonable requests for a guy! Having a range of interests. Some style, some money, goals, education. A job, reasonably active etc etc. have a great holiday season Courtney keep up the great work on this content!

[@acenine8149]

25:20 “You have to be carrying yourself well” She says that while she’s slouching like the hunchback of Notre Dame LOL

[@brantmiranda1120]

Just about every single one of those girls said that salary doesn’t matter as long as he can cover all his bills and be comfortable, Then in the very next question every single one of them wanted at LEAST 100,000k. WTH I’m sure those girls are nice irl, but I would die rather alone and happy knowing I never got involved with a gold digger. That’s ridiculous. I’m not trying to me rude, but for real, every one of them wanted 100k to be “acceptable.” Good luck ladies.

[@derrickmason7457]

It’s a just a game ppl who ask for that don’t understand finances I know dudes that make average money that got more flexibility than dudes who make more money who live paycheck to paycheck what’s his debt to income ratio student loans average ppl make money can be broke too.

[@xerxestheimmortal1]

Yeah the cognitive dissonance was shocking 😆

[@xerxestheimmortal1]

I just wish they would have the courage to admit they want luxury not comfort because saying it makes you look selfish.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@xerxestheimmortal1 the thing is nobody deserves anything a lot of women have to be humbled even statistically your talking about 10 percent of men. Literally playing the lottery women are that afraid to build with a man which is more realistic

[@xerxestheimmortal1]

@@derrickmason7457 I don't care what women's standards are I just wish they would be honest about there expectations. If your looking for security then 60k a year is security. 100k+ is luxury which is fine. Just be honest about it

[@sleeplikeababy4232]

Yes...dogs, women's and children's are loved unconditionally but men are only love under conditions... Thank you

[@jltgp6221]

I literally felt physical pain reading this comment. So true!

[@derrickmason7457]

Yal I feel bad for that yal can’t find genuine low key women out here that aren’t about the image only

[@sleeplikeababy4232]

@@derrickmason7457 I know where to find them...

[@ralphmagtibay17]

Gotta earn that 100k annually first before they fall in love with you.

[@derrickmason7457]

@@sleeplikeababy4232 so why are you talking about women that love conditionally

[@jacksonlinson5200]

So... everything matters. Guys must be exceptional in all areas

[@salestherapy]

yeah lol. now ur catching on. they say that in 10 years half of all white women in america will be unmarried and childless. white men are seeking out women of different ethnicities and cultures. many men here have been or will be replaced by vibrators, pets and netflicks.

[@InFamou5Killer]

This is basically just a demonstration of the Husband Store story but stretched over 40mins

[@robin6921]

Women saying that they don't care what type of job you have, but then some say that they "prefer" someone who makes 100k+ is just insane. I know they don't say that's their standard, but if those are the only man they look for to have a family with; good luck for every boy and man out there

[@danjenkins21]

I know right. Sounds a little hypocritical for them to say they don't care what kind of job a man has but turn around and say he has to make 100k+ is indeed insane.

[@coreychuba]

100k +, 6ft tall, above average size dick, stylish, educated, has hobbies, has a nice and clean vehicle and living space….I’m sure if they were questioned on it they would also add, must have straight white teeth and a perfect hairline, no obvious deformities, etc….it would make me laugh, however it will be very sad when this generation is single into their 40s and 50s.

[@nrd-ej3gr]

If you listen closely to what they're saying about the job title, it's not that "it's doesn't matter", it's that they're willing to close their eyes on it as long as it's going to improve in the future.

[@danielschmidt1353]

I have to admit, this video justified the red pill theory. I hope to see a video that isolates which are the top qualities. Use questions like, you go on a date with a guy that is 6'4 but with bad manners vs a guy that's 5'5 with good manners. Have them choose which would be friend-zoned and which would be relationship material. This concept would be a great video!

[@funkfarmer7125]

Yeah but this assumes women tell the truth, which they are genetically pre-disposed to never do.

[@idekkkkkkk]

coming from a woman, the red pill theory is bullshit. it feels like all of these women were either sampled to fit this video (aka golddiggers) or they still live with their parents and have no idea about wages and costs of living. i literally don´t know a single woman that says she only dates guys making 100k

[@idekkkkkkk]

@@funkfarmer7125 huh? tell me some science to back that up

[@goby1764]

Red pill whatever is for losers. Just talk to cool women and avoid women with unreasonable standards like these. Easy solution

[@dhafiansuhartono8668]

@@idekkkkkkk i guess he mean image is important, something that is "correct" to say doesn't always mean the one that they actually want

[@karnagilgamesh3095]

"Enough to live a life of leisure..." They want a man who's retired, a young man in his 20's who's retired and a millionaire. They don't even listen to what they're saying or really think about what comes out of their mouth before it leaves their lips.

[@Kellen_Quigley]

Where do these women live that they think someone in their mid-20s or early-30s can easily make $100K or more a year? Because I want to move there since they're apparently handing out thousands of dollars like it's nothing. My and my girlfriend's salaries are both well above the median income where we live and we're still nowhere near $100,000 a year. I am so confused by those figures.

[@Anti-Villain-Wolf]

They really expect a guy to make 80-100 thousand a year before he's 30? They really must be out of their minds. I'm not saying guys don't sometimes have unrealistic expectations, but wow some of these answers are really out there

[@connormitchell8048]

Because of the way society is, now that women have all these rights and are making more money they expect even more from men. It used to be that women didn't work or worked lower paying jobs and also middle class guys could buy more and own a home. Btw I'm not saying women having rights is a bad thing I'm just saying as women's money increases so to does their expectations from men.

[@marcmays48]

They just need to hang out next to their local correctional facility. The guys who are into selling drugs? Yea, they're making 80-100k, consistently. Everyone else? Not so much. I used to work in a job which required me to know people's actual salary data. Almost NOBODY was making more than 200k, and those were the very rare C-level people, or top salesmen. Even if they made more, then they were probably smart enough to get their wealth in stock options. These women simply have no clue.

[@masterkraft4746]

@@marcmays48 by today's standards, I see these women as still children, basically. People matures way later now, and it shows. Therefore I just have a good laugh at these videos

[@xF1revolution]

All of them want guys making 6 figures in their mid 20s. That's sobering. The one wanting 400k and up is absolutely out of her mind as well, she is going to end up rapidly adjust her expectations over time or be lonely forever.

[@hotshot8365]

Maybe she’s just very aware of hyperinflation and future proofing herself for when a load of bread is $1000 🤣

[@xtinabay]

Someone making $400k isn't dating her

[@Sagefrakrobatik]

@@xtinabay no they will date her as part of their rotation

[@megalodon1726]

She's probably been pumped and dumped by a $400K guy so now she thinks she can get and keep another guy like that.

[@ArthurSchoppenweghauer]

The fact that none of the women took regional costs of living into consideration demostrates a level of financial illteracy I thought impossible.

[@Flire4000]

When that lady said 400,000+ I almost FELL OUT of my chair

[@opaz6149]

A huge thank you to Courtney for another video that opens our eyes. Having said that… guys… STAY SINGLE. It’s not worth the trouble. Enjoy your freedom, enjoy the drama free life, enjoy living with dignity and simply enjoy your life. No woman will ever bring that level of satisfaction.

[@chibbyylol]

That's fair but I'm sure there are men out there that would like a life-partner and to have a family perhaps to which this advice wouldn't be the best for

[@ameliepoulain4654]

So if your sister or daughter came and ask you what to look for in a good man, you’d disagree with these ladies?

[@JustReckles5]

Good women are out there believe me. But just how men like to whine about not being chosen to play by a girl, often men overlook the good women or even let them slip through their hands. I feel that ALL people need to get their priorities straight and focus on what type of world they would like to build and what type of partner will compliment your aspirations

[@NWBwana]

I'm far happier than when i was when single. Doing better in life. More satiafaction, more achievements. A lot if not all this may not have happened without picking a high quality partner, but you do you.

[@civlengr68]

Word.

[@ericl7842]

I don’t have to watch the video to know the answer is Yes. 😊. Have a great weekend Courtney!

[@philthyrich1433]

💯

[@dream-lp6vk]

true

[@johnkeller5163]

I like your style, Sir! And women always wonder why real men cannot tolerate shows like "The View". You get to the point and have shit to accomplish this weekend!

[@daktari3055]

That’s exactly was I was thinking.

[@ericmoore9444]

👏 yes sir!

[@thelaggymonster]

Videos like this are the perfect demonstration of the phrase 'the juice isn't worth the squeeze'.

[@TheloniousP]

Maybe I missed it but did you ask them what their current salaries were? I'd be interested to know that.

[@TheFishdoctor1952]

And their level of education.