Do Women Really Find 80% Of Men Unattractive?

In this video, women react and share their thoughts on a study where women found 80% of men unattractive.
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[@clarencedolan699]

Only 14% of men are over six feet, let’s start there.

[@RC-qc2nz]

I am 6"3 and from Germany. I thought that would be just a little bit taller than average

[@Gh0stGaminginc]

Natural selection

[@roolyfe]

Facts 5’7

[@MrBlue3rd]

I’m 6’2” and glad I can have options not limitations.

[@dominick6131]

I'm 5'8, my wife's a solid 9. Don't let any excuse hold you back

[@korman7]

"men are more attractive in person because they aren't that good at taking pics and their profile sucks". As a man, I can say it's the EXACT OPPOSITE with women. I have probably been on like 50 dates in the last 4 years and maybe 1 was as good as their profile claimed. Both looks wise and personality wise. These women are Houdini's with the makeup and BS.

[@ragecl4120]

Soooooo true. A lot of women also take the same naked bedroom selfies that men do. It's just seen as sleezy if you're a dude and sexy if you're a woman

[@shelbedavisjr.3025]

Absolute facts they never look as good as those pictures

[@dubbula]

100%

[@LeeEverett1]

True, that's why I just swipe left if it seems like their photo has filters and a face smoothing effect and crap

[@markymarknj]

They say that they're "putting on their face" for a REASON!

[@dsds3968]

It's a messed up world. We've got "body positivity" trying to tell us that being overweight is attractive and, at the same time, unrealistic expectations on height.

[@Gustavog74]

When people say “Body positivity” that sounds sooooo stupid. Your either physically attractive or not. It’s that simple.

[@bobbwc7011]

@@Gustavog74 That is actually grossly incorrect and very retarded. Attractiveness is - as many studies have shown - a Gaussian distribution. Most people are between 4 and 6, and to the sides it dies off quickly. The nuke which got dropped more than 10 years ago by OK Cupid was that women DO NOT agree with the Gaussian. Men on the other hand seem to stick to the bell curve; they find women attractive by a Gaussian in real life and they find women attractive by a Gaussian on online dating maps. But on the female side a 6 (=above average) does not want just an above average man, she wants a very very attractive man, between 8 to 10. By now so much more statistical data has been published that saying "guys need to take better picture" is a farce; it may contribute a little bit, overall however, all scientific data points that women reject the notion that they are supposed to date according to their own attractiveness. This warping effect which creates this insane 80/20 situation for the men is solidly verified. Other dating portals have published data similar to OK Cupid, scientific research has been conducted and so on. So no, you are not "attractive" or "not attractive", it is a gradual very realistic scale which follows a Gaussian curve. Evolutionary biology and behaviorial fields agree with that. It's also not true that only attractiveness is important or that large penises are preferred. If that was true, today, after thousands of generations of selection, the planet would be only populated with Scarlett Johanssons, pornstar dicks and guys who are 190cm or taller. The opposite is true. Mankind is genetically still very averaged, very robust and does not trend to any specific genetic disposition related to modern "neurotic disorders". In the long run it evens out because females have no control over their genes. Many of these unrealistic women will have very sad children; imagine being a really tall attractive woman, 175cm and so on, who harshly rejects guys below 8 and has all kinds of expectations...and then your own son turns out to be 174cm with a tendency to be overweight, and not above average in attractiveness. Many properties of humans are inherited from genes of both parents, and because of mechanisms like the dominant-recessive combinations there is indeed a big randomness. For example, latest genetic analyses indicate that the height of men and the penis length of men is decided by the genetic information on the mother side. The father seems to create a certain disposition but it is the complementary maternal genes deciding on how those "masculine" features will be determined. Interesting huh. We are not dealing with a biological problem in terms of this out of whack dating situation, it is a social problem created by the women themselves. The question is how and when will it go away before it destroys our modern way of life. Rejecting 80% of men and an increasing number of long term sexless singles means: the end of democracy. Lonely men become angry, angry longely men become violent, violent angry lonely men vote for rightwing and far right parties, rightwing and far right parties reduce important compensating mechanisms like the social welfare state, equal opportunity, civil rights and individual freedoms, and at a certain point they overthrow democracy and install authoritarian fascist dictatorships. On the other side lonely men become extremely expensive due to exorbitant cost for healthcare.

[@Gustavog74]

@@bobbwc7011 Your right. Very attractive women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men. Maybe this applies to all women. Women only want to date extremely physically attractive tall men.

[@cynthiabauer5763]

body positivity is lip service out of pity for the obese... but they don't need pity, they need to lose weight. Japan's social pressure against obesity is better and at the end of the day more moral because it helps people avoid obesity.

[@hnkul702]

More than that, "body positivity" deviated far from what it should have been, from celebrating all body types and discouraging shaming, to outright shaming naturally fit people for "encouraging toxic beauty standards". Also, apparently, people who are big on "body positivity" often have no problems shaming men for having the same kinds of bodies that they would celebrate on women. That is not positivity to me, that's simply hypocrisy.

[@ututut77]

the one girl comparing dating apps to clearing out emails haha. gives you a real sense of what it must feel like for them.

[@kennethgallard7862]

Yeah it’s gotta be so awful people thinking you are attractive.. that’s gotta be rough. Lol think she will live? How does she make it through the day?

[@CobraCommander92]

I get like no matches on dating apps, but I agree with her. After a while, the work of going through an endless pile of profiles, which most come off as fake, feels like a chore. "Uhhh... Here we go again"

[@rojaligajula2184]

Why are guys so obsessed with dating apps?!?!?! Very few women use them compared to guys so it's obvious why they might not get chances. Meet people in real life and through social circles

[@ututut77]

@@rojaligajula2184 i think it’s best to do both. go out whenever possible and also use the apps. why not take advantage of all opportunities.

[@nutyyyy]

It's overwhelming. Not that most men wouldn't take that in an instance. But it would still make me very picky if I was in that position.

[@jokernabastard2828]

Guys dont know how to take pictures = guys dont use lighting, makeup, photoshop, filters, pose, and take multiple thousands of pics.

[@freudianslip2192]

Exactly, sorry I don't snap pictures of myself while I'm at events with friends and family or on vacation. I actually enjoy the freaking moment.

[@25-8]

:-/

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@25-8]

@@mikelisteral7863 idk about that one especially after they been alone for so long.. I knowj some good women even relatives who been left by their spouse who were great matches great providers not avg guys then hear rumors and seen them get with avg joe womanizers lol no cap I was shocked then not cuz I do believe now in the right moment right time catching ppl smh

[@25-8]

@@mikelisteral7863 I mean would they be disappointed probably yes they wouldn't measure up to their former spouse or lover but women will always have a measuring stick anyways

[@andrewgonzalez7143]

I feel like women finding even 20 percent of men attractive is already pretty generous

[@annatar6453]

I think they find only find 1-4%of men attractive

[@Myrslokstok]

Think it is proven to be like 2%. But it is moore like an 1:3 thing in like everything, and guys are moore like 2:3, it is not soo big in every individual thing, it's just that it adds up to 2% in total.

[@josephl9619]

"Youve gotta give a 6 a chance" These women have such big hearts. Its so inspiring to know that this pack of hyenas would be willing to give an above average man a chance.

[@pace1195]

Remember, an average man is rated at an 8.4 on these sites. A 6 rating is well below average. Anyone 5 or below is non-existent.

[@Jaegerrants]

@@pace1195 Yest Median guy gets rated 3, I think some ones idea on avarage guy is off it's meds

[@harrypike731]

Lmao. So true. Laughable stuff. The fact that they can sit here and say something like that so brazenly on camera is baffling - remember, this is what they're saying when they know they're being recorded so are gonna be mindful about saying what "sounds socially acceptable". Wtf do they say behind closed doors to their friends, or think inside their heads? I honestly can't imagine saying something like that about women if I were to be on an interview video like this, and I say that as a guy who in many aspects is above average. It's baffling how many young people define other humans as a number out of 10, or view them as just a set of characteristics to be used for their own benefits/pleasure. What about romance, connection, chemistry, mutual trust and respect, and love? None of these women ever allude to that being of importance to them in any of these videos, and it's really worrying, because that's how meaningful relationships are forged - whether its with a partner or a friend. I fear that alot of people in their 20s and teens rn are gonna be alone for a long, long time unless they do some serious self-reflection and adjustment.

[@tonymagrof5303]

@@harrypike731 and did she think she was higher than a 6? Lol....and that's her with 9 tonnes of foundation and god knows how many enhancements. It's hard to rate looks..they are subjective

[@harrypike731]

@@tonymagrof5303 Indeed, well i wouldn't qualify her as '6' or otherwise, I'm not a fan of the numerical 1-10 scale of attraction because it's super binary and fails to account for subjectivity, as well as other facets of attraction like chemistry, vibe, personality, style, shared values, voice and body language, etc. A 6 to you might be a 9 to me....Or alternatively, someone who i see as a '6' may become an '8' once i get to know them better

[@freudianslip2192]

It's simple. Women think if they just hold out long enough they will find their tall faithful, caring 10/10 guy, with money and a great personality. No. Ladies need to prioritize what they want and be realistic about if they can get it. The two most desired categories by women income and height already limits their pool to a small percentage of men.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

Very well said

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials]

Income and masculine features lol they need to choose one or the other and stick to it because they're not getting both unless they share him.

[@Realmotion2000]

Yea this 80% of women in the USA Go overseas

[@MrCjchamp2001]

I feel like Courtney has made this same video 100 times. Stop listening to these limiting beliefs. I only watch these to try to help men off the ledge

[@PRdude]

I'm no longer worried about my looks, but this is just sad. I've personally thought a lot of women were pretty, and then I got to know them.

[@PRdude]

@@mickhardin15 Exactly. I don't care how stacked they are either.

[@lockyp204]

Yeah I had the gym body when I was younger. When you get older you realise it’s only height, status, and money that matter to women. Even being a nice man is low down on the list for them. They will say otherwise, but what they say and reality are two different places.

[@CuriousGeorge13]

That's the truth. I find a good portion of women in my dating range attractive, but when I get to know most of them I find that number drops significantly. While women may find 80% of guys unattractive, I bet if I had a conversation with most of those guys I'd find a lot more substance to them than the majority of women.

[@ogolden8315]

@@CuriousGeorge13 You are a man, so you’d relate more to men than women. I feel the same about men, most are just blah. I’m sure decent but 🤷🏾‍♀️. I find women more interesting and decent, but then I’m woman.

[@andysworld9287]

I work out 6 days a week always been my hobby and slim muscular. But at the same time I don’t give a flying fk about my looks anymore. You do you and I do me.

[@jasono2139]

I love hearing the "men just don't know how to setup their profile" bit... ESPECIALLY after listening to the story of the guy who's sister setup his profile AND managed it for him for a couple weeks to show him that it could be done. In the end, she found out that there was almost nothing she could do to help her brother get more matches other than lie about how much money he made and how tall he was!

[@GnomeEU]

If you're hot you don't even need a profile

[@elliotwilcox6900]

That doesn’t prove anything

[@HCforLife1]

Look at how women profiles are. Most are either narcissistic Instagram models with ton of photos, or profiles with couple of blurry selfies. Still they crush it on dating apps having ton of options being average or slightly above average

[@nateamshey]

Thank you for consistently letting women prove most men right. They have not argued against finding most men unattractive, just more excuses as to why men just need to focus on themselves and ignore what women think. Keep up the great work! Your videos are always spot on.

[@neutrino78x]

I don't know nate....you look young...get back to me on that in 20 years when you've never had a relationship or whatever and let me know if the loneliness has hit yet. Easy to say we don't need relationships, but we're social animals. Look at the lower simian species, such as monkeys, apes and gorillas: they have mates. That means we need them too, even if we don't admit it. 🙂

[@TerryProthero]

@@neutrino78x I'm 52 years old. I haven't had any romantic relationships since I was about 20 years old. Loneliness hasn't set in yet. I feel great. Far better, in fact, than I felt when I was pursuing relationships. No, not everyone needs to be in a romantic relationships. Some people are far better off without them. People can be social in lots of ways aside from that. Relationships should never be seen as a requirement. Only as an option.

[@Ivanslav1]

spot on mate! For the haters out there, men need a brotherhood more than a "relationship". We just aren't wired that way ladies.

[@tabbypanda82]

Yeah MOST men are unattractive 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@SonoftheWest316]

He didn't say we don't need relationships he's pointing out how sad this situation is because this generation is going to be even lonelier than they are now if something doesn't change the paradigm.@@neutrino78x

[@gordonbecker1456]

If you aren't physically attractive enough for the opportunity to show your personality then your personality means nothing

[@dcdavis9782]

Sad but true. Then they wonder "where all the good men went."

[@machupikachu1085]

@@dcdavis9782 They've never meant that phrase literally. It is subtext for "Why didn't Chad stop when he met ME??"

[@Gustavog74]

Women only want extremely physically attractive tall men.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

Personality=looks

[@Gustavog74]

@@seventhkeyomegasghost8233 lol. Your right. Extremely great looks and being tall in a guy = good personality

[@didamnesia3575]

Courtney you gotta throw one happily married middle aged woman in the mix so we can all see the difference in expectations vs reality. Most of these women will have a different viewpoint when they hit 35 and men stop talking to them altogether.

[@Pikawarps]

Please consider this, both single and married 35 y/o

[@Realmotion2000]

Put a women that’s not from the USA In a video

[@TheArctofireHD]

Yeah I second this. I love Courney's content but there is a suspicion that the beautiful women that she brings onto her show many not be telling the 100% truth. Having some middle aged women might provide a more balanced perspective.

[@yungactivist]

It would be nice

[@visaman]

@@TheArctofireHD Do you want to date a middle aged woman, or, a 23 year old hottie? I am 58, so I will take what I can get.

[@googpix540]

The most ironic line was " we show the best of ourselves on social media".

[@juliannfloress3490]

ironic and CAP...women always lie..

[@Steve74783]

It’s true though. On insta everyone is just showing their vacations, best photos, etc…

[@andremotivation6561]

I've noticed from certian men that some women never live up to their standard after the hookup. Once you start judging women off of non "$#×ual assets" you realize they werent that into them to begin with.

[@juliannfloress3490]

@@andremotivation6561 i´ve noticed men simp too much on this channel

[@garypierce7380]

Sorry, that's all you get.

[@flatebo1]

"Guys don't really know how to take pictures." True. Because we generally are not narcissists obsessed with taking and posting photos of ourselves in order to get "likes".

[@WojciechowskaAnna]

yeah, that's why you only want to date young, pretty girls... of course no narcist would like to date a gril to show off to their friends, and no narcist would nak the value on 1..10. Because of course what matters for you is "the hear" only and only it is a pretty girl, because as everyone knows less pretty have no heart or personality.

[@chris-su8ns]

Appearance is more important to women than personality because they think they can change a man's behavior to suit them. Which works in the rarest of cases.

[@FabzRoma-is3sq]

Controlling the mind is the ideological Rumpelstiltskin ploy of communist-socialist societies/ Behavioural psychology is predicated on the totalitarian state of law and order/ Often times, men and women choose lucrative careers in legal services b/c the systematic crimes and the defence of constitutional rights are profitable for ambitious idolaters/

[@williamwallace410]

Stella always knows to surprise me... Stella: I’m not too picky. Also Stella: wearing the wrong belt is enough not to pick him. 😂

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@1028dash]

Don’t listen to what they say, judge by their actions lol

[@karmad.twelve6613]

Black pants and a brown belt is just too deadly for her apparently. Imagine...

[@antonachim5224]

And also expecting her boyfriend makes 400k a year

[@TheShapeshiftingReptilian]

@@antonachim5224 while she expects him to have a laundry list of things, she sits back and does absolutely nothing.

[@theguynextdoor4978]

As a guy who's 5'7 I gave up on dating apps altogether. I got so tired of feeling that I didn't deserve a hot girl because of it. I think meeting someone organically gives us a more accurate impression. It's hard for a person to really have a chance to shine online.

[@shootingbricks8554]

Smart move for you. Invest your time elsewhere.

[@isaiahwatkins1502]

5'7 is still taller than most women. Get your money up the best you can, get in the best shape you can & your height will be offset by your other traits.

[@Telcontar86]

5'6" guy here, gave up on online dating a decade ago. I still haven't had much success since then, but I have had more than when I was using OLD

[@freudianslip2192]

Being honest, drop the “hot girl” fantasy. That's done. That's just as delusional as the average woman holding out for a 6ft, handsome, multimillionaire, entrepreneur with a great personality, who treats her like gold and accepts all of her flaws. Is it possible? Sure. Is it likely? No. You can however find a woman you're attracted to who is more on your level. In my opinion, as a shorter guy you need to be prefiltering for them to save yourself time. For example, don't even waste your time on a woman taller than 5’3, who is in better physical shape than yourself, who you don't outearn by at minimum 50-60%, who dresses better than yourself, etc. If you do many of these women will waste your time and money because they know you want them.

[@capo4ever334]

No one deserves a hot girl. No one deserves anyone or that matter

[@mikeshafer]

I (6'2" male) recently installed a dating app for rich guys who are seeking pretty girls...for the first time in my life, I know what it's like to be a hot girl on a dating app. I have literally hundreds of matches and messages and it's overwhelming to sort through them and prioritize. I get it now. Wow.

[@Marva123]

Gaby is hilarious, you could do a whole video just asking her questions.

[@RBR-lo2ei]

I found her to be the most genuine of the bunch.

[@ruinerblodsinn6648]

@@RBR-lo2ei she has the most issues and will end up a cat lady. I would bet my house on it

[@josephstevens9888]

I very much appreciate that these girls recognize that dating apps are very one-dimensional. Social media has given people literally unlimited access to other people - it also appears it has made them lonelier.

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

I definitely agree that social media has made dating very shallow and superficial. To counter this in order to find a good mate we have to become blind to beauty both for boys and girls. All I can say is don't judge a book by it's cover and that is even more true in dating. Also let's face it, guys are not blessed with good looks, women are blessed with good looks. Most men are average or below average in looks and most women are above average. After few months those looks are no longer going to be intoxicating but that is the general progression of a relationship. I admire that these women take the heat in the comments and still show up, that is courageous. Ladies don't be quick to dismiss guys based on some minor thing, give them a chance, look beyond the initial awkwardness, I assure you will find some gems and great guys who will love to be with you.

[@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials]

When you have too many options, it's impossible to pick one. There would be a LOT fewer single men if the internet didn't exist, period.

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

@@GT6SuzukaTimeTrials yes that is definitely true. Women have a endless stream of options and they have become extremely picky. Example is the lady who said if he wears brown belt with black shoes she will not be interested. Should this really a deal breaker, can he not improve his fashion sense. So you are going to reject a great guy cause he can't match colors. The issue is women think they have time, the endless stream of options will always be there coz they are sleeping options. But once you hit 30 it's going to become even more difficult to find relationship options. Both guys and girls whats wrong with finding someone who is good enough. A greta relationship is not formed by finding the perfect partner, that is a illusion. A great relationship is 2 people working towards making that relationship great, putting in the effort to build a awesome relationship. No matter how perfect that person is when there are 2 people there will always be issues. Resolving your issues through communication is what builds intimacy and companionship love. Romantic love disappear in a few months, the hotter the flames the quicker the ashes

[@Viewable11]

Online dating has made 90% of men lonelier and it got 10% of men all the women. Dating has regressed to Gorilla society where a tiny minority of males get all females while the vast majority of males get no females. In 2021, a third of males under 30 never had sex and this rate is skyrocketing since the begin of online dating.

[@MC-cl9wz]

This is why there are so many 30+ single women who will struggle to get any man to take them seriously. Kevin Samuels RIP had a point.

[@eudisgomezmercedes9269]

Stop the 🧢

[@shelbedavisjr.3025]

@@alvolutionary exactly when things don’t work out men are to blame

[@MrFuckinglogin]

they are single but they are not lonely.

[@laksh3397]

@@MrFuckinglogin stop the cap

[@itubrrr]

@@MrFuckinglogin girls will never know true loneliness

[@rcattaneo6755]

as one of those 80 percent men I can tell you that it is ok that those 99 percent shallow, no personality, no brain women find me unattractive. It saves me the time to turn them down once they hear the clock ticking and they try to hold on to anyone. Im not interested in being a last resort option. Still single and still happy and drama free.

[@scygnius]

This reinforces to me why I'm glad I've never touched a dating app and never will. You've always got the app to fall back to and "try again" with hundreds of other candidates, so there's no incentive to care. It sounds like hell. Dating apps are the perfect gathering place for people desperate for attention, unable to commit, and don't have confidence in their personalities. This isn't to say *everyone* on dating apps falls into this, but that "dud" phenomenon is universal.

[@wij8044]

When you try to find your life partner after boiling their humanity down to a swipe.

[@MLI0369]

This might be the most profound comment on this

[@gridtac2911]

Yeah cuz you're trying to find a "life" partner on Tinder... Give me a f****** break.

[@brentanthony6038]

Does this ever start not being depressing? I just listened to 15 minutes of women explaining why women finding 80% of men ugly is "logical" to them. "They can't take good photos." "Online dating is only about image." PLEASE! Bear some responsibility for your incredible shallowness.

[@MrGandymanjr]

Confirmation bias and also social media is a depressing place get away from it.

[@moneymakinmitch8130]

sometimes I wonder what some of these females would be without social media

[@tombradydid9114]

@@moneymakinmitch8130 prostitutes

[@gridtac2911]

@@moneymakinmitch8130 at home taking care of her man and the house... and actually having something of value to contribute.

[@austinkavrar9259]

Keep in mind these girls are all Instagram models, they are super attractive so of course they have high standards

[@arkcorps9138]

I’m glad these conversations are happening, I’m not in the dating pool but it’s interesting seeing how extreme things have gotten. I think gender roles play a big part now too, most men and women are independent so they value looks more to compensate

[@TheOriginalWB]

Stella your voice is so chill! Thanks ladies that was fun!

[@NickDBN]

Your face is your personality. Your height is your confidence. The end. 1st world countries are pretty safe, and their women have their own money. So men are not needed for protection and provisioning. So what's left for a woman to find attractive in a man? Simple looks and height. The reason why women are complaining about men is because they have allowed a small number of Chad's in their city to sleep with them all.

[@kc270352]

lmao 🤣

[@BootedSquirrel]

Delusional take

[@Froakii]

Amen

[@cisium1184]

Only someone obsessed with his own height would say such a thing. Trust me, there are assloads of tall insecure men out there.

[@jeremyneiderhoff]

@@koshka02 yeah go tell a 5'6 guy to fix his posture and just get better clothes bro

[@willclouded]

Wow this just confirms I should just stay away from dating apps .

[@kunumercy1798]

Nope I think you should stay expect that you want to remain lonely forever

[@toddjohnson271]

Apps are just communication fronts for people.

[@spill1t]

I like the blonde with the black cap thing. Her vibe is good. I'm not into blondes either, so it goes to show how important personality is

[@rollingwithmoore]

She and the girl in pink are so honest

[@privacyadvicegermany4257]

its really hurtful how those women think

[@HCforLife1]

Imagine getting a couple of matches and just some likes a month Vs "It's exhausting, it's like extra job. Like cleaning emails. So many likes you can't keep up" lol 😂

[@jokernabastard2828]

"Im not into looks but he has to be taller than 5'9" and have a v-taper and manicured beard." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@freudianslip2192]

That's her requirements before income, facial attractiveness, personality, charm, charisma, the list goes on.

[@jokernabastard2828]

@@freudianslip2192 You got it! Agreed 100%.

[@sparshrastogi2646]

@@jokernabastard2828 and she'd lose her mind if you asked, okay, what do you bring to the table?

[@jokernabastard2828]

@@sparshrastogi2646 Agreed. Standards for me, not for thee. They are young, so no kids, but 100k in college debt they want you to pay for.

[@OriginalTodzilla]

Agreed!!!

[@andremotivation6561]

The other issue is that most women judge men within a minute of meeting them then get mad when they find out "they never really knew him" to begin with. Social media has made hookups easy but relationships very difficult.

[@andremotivation6561]

@@davidhenryhudson3102 and thats why most get into the trouble they do, their sleeping with an "idea" instead of the actually man himself, to each is own, nature or nurture, just own it and don't complain when it fails

[@eddielong8663]

Slight correction there. Hookups are easy for women. Not for men. Relationships are easy for men over 30 provided we're willing to fall into that foolish beta male provider role for some woman who's already had her fun and now looking for some sucker. Relationships are only hard for women today because their "modern woman" vibes are unknowingly a turn-off to men.

[@seventhkeyomegasghost8233]

The world famous "wmn intuition" they are always talking about, I guess it doesn't work all the time when they need it.

[@KyleReeseCel2029]

hookups for women easy not men

[@ggrthemostgodless8713]

Cortney: this series of interviews are your best opening-eye work. Keep that up please, new subjects and new women... same subjects, older women.

[@plusmin09]

Looking for a guy that makes 100k+, is 6'+, fit, funny, intelligent, proficient at multiple skills and hobbies, cultured, and aligns with your own values is just as ridiculous as looking for a woman that has double Ds, but isn't overweight, stunningly beautiful, but doesn't flaunt it, cool and mellow with you doing whatever you want, funny, smart, up for being a full time mom, but still picking up at least a part time job to help with the finances! I think social media in particular is warping perspectives of the age demographics of who would be dating at this point.

[@uncharted4076]

Well said

[@CarlosRamirez-no2js]

Don’t forget the girl also not having slept with a whole bunch of people

[@plusmin09]

@@CarlosRamirez-no2js That too

[@charrua59]

They also think man, with so many options, gonna be faithful to them 😂. There was a study how many times guys thought about sex compared too women. Man think about sex constantly almost compared too women. It's more realistic that guy gonna be faithful if he's not good looking. Not that he doesn't think much about sex. He just gonna have less opportunities too be unfaithful.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

Ever open up to a woman and expose your vulnerabilities only to have her throw them back in your face when she's mad at you over something relatively benign? Man, it sure does discourage opening up 😔

[@Shah-of-the-Shinebox]

Been there done that. Never doing it again.

[@tailopezbutnolamborghini4862]

True

[@OriginalTodzilla]

Never show your emotions to a woman, at least not anything vulnerable. Women "say" the want a man to show his emotions, but it's BS. If a man breaks down in front of his woman, she'll never see him as a leader or a provider. Game over. 🎤👇

[@HARwinsOUTagain]

Or you can see them lose attraction as you finish telling them something. Nah, never again. If that makes me toxic, then call me the Toxic Avenger.

[@wynonasbigbrowndragon6121]

@@HARwinsOUTagain you're not toxic. Whoever encouraged you to be emotional and then used it against you later, they're the toxic one.

[@Heeroyui752]

Very enlightening, need more of this for sure.

[@shevyman6430]

I was on tinder for 3 weeks and got no matches. So all the women was swiping left on me. So for the next 3 days I swipe left on every single woman on there and I got ban for life for being disrespectful. That was the best thing to happen to me

[@kunumercy1798]

Was it that being banned was a good thing

[@elasticharmony]

I have only tried a dating site once , it was a very strict program nothing like a tinder, you had to go through security checks , this site wasnt to bad but I did get one problem that is notable that is older woman were very much into me being younger. I dont think they are sharing either so they want to lock up a young guy so there are all kinds of problems in the world today, if you look into other sites you will find people , the secret I think is gett ing a niche you aim for women in your vocational and then you can compete , like doctors date nurses etc.

[@mjkittredge]

it took me a year to build up my ELO rating to the point where I was getting matches and dates. Tinder is garbage unless you're an 8 or above. Then I got banned for no reason. The app is so vindictive that it tracks your google accounts so if you get a new phone/tablet/PC you have to get a spoofed number and new Facebook and email to start over or you'll just get insta-blocked again.

[@elasticharmony]

Also why do men want swiped by women? In my experience women asking you out is even more hard, you would be very confused

[@shevyman6430]

@dflowers30 I did and I was glad I'm done with tinder. More men should do that

[@briar35981]

"We know we have high standards, we are superficial and men have a difficult time finding women to date." "But we don't really give a f*ck!!" It's time for some new ladies. These have shown their true colors regardless of the setup questions.

[@telegranmecourtney_ryan7661]

☝️☝️🤝☝️☝️ *CONGRATULATIONS* 🍾 *You are a lucky winner* 🍀 Send me a direct message on *TELEGRAM* to claim your prize 📦🎁📦🎁

[@taras3702]

The men they reject and scorn won't give a f*ck when they are alone with kids or simply alone.

[@Gustavog74]

These women are reflective of all women. They only want to date extremely physical attractive tall men. That’s all that matters to women….. his looks. And that’s ok. Nobody wants to be with an ugly unhealthy person.

[@sj3969]

What are they supposed to do, sympathy f*** them?

[@Incognit0777]

You'd be surprised to realize that the new set of women won't be much different. These things are more or less universal. The exceptions are few and far between.

[@kaibalfour2318]

On dating apps definitely true, because those apps are meant to be based on looks because it sells the illusion that you’re shopping for a your perfect type which keeps you scrolling. It’s not natural which is why meeting in person is more impactful because just approaching a woman shows a higher level of confidence than portrayed through pictures. That and she actually gets to hear you open your mouth and have an accurate judgment of how charismatic or funny you are.

[@briscoelcamino7850]

The blonde with the black beenie and skeleton shirt is my favorite. I love her sense of humor. These answers seem very genuine from these ladies. Very insightful.

[@steelfanther328]

All girls want to get married ... But only very few are ready and willing to be a wife ... - Moscow, Russia

[@c.j.2262]

So in other words dating apps will destroy society with too much expectations and 80 to 90% of us will never be good enough. Cool, got it! 👍

[@Kashban]

Yes, that's pretty much it.

[@elasticharmony]

until it is time to pay the bills

[@taras3702]

@@elasticharmony Or fight the coming wars that are going to occur in the West.

[@sisigs4820]

@@elasticharmony also until it's time for the physical beauty they rely so heavily on to fade and the Chad's don't want them anymore.

[@GetBenched2010]

Modern women want to be Regina George in their teens, a Kardashian in their 20s and a Real Housewife after 30. They want a gay best friend, a sugar daddy and a drug dealer.

[@Marcelube]

I have a suggestion. Bring them back every 10 years to interview them again. It would be interesting to see if they will still have the speaking pattern of a teenage girl. It would also be really enriching if you interviewed women who think differently from these ones, if you could find them🤣🤣

[@WojciechowskaAnna]

do you have sister, cousins, dougher or any female friends? o maybe you have a brother? Maybe you will recall how teenage boys are SURE theri grilfeind will be top model and they will drive bentley? Just a small reminder teenage boys like to tell their college school friends are ugly. When they reach 50 they would dream any teenage girls would look at them. Do you remember yourself at 16? Ask your yound friends at 50 how are they. Fost most you people Al Bundy was a disaster, for many adults - Al Bundy at least had a job, house, wife and kids, wich many would not get.

[@DavLavice]

It's more because makeup really covers up a lot of women's flaws to where they can look like 7 or 8 instantly. Whereas for men, much of what is considered attractive often takes time and effort (eg workout either for weight loss and muscle building) and things out of their control (height). If you really take off all of the add-ons, most women without makeup look just as average, if not more, than their male counterparts.

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@VincentTheOne]

🙌

[@Realmotion2000]

Yea this 80% of women in the USA Go overseas

[@wrcz]

I've always thought about how it would be funny if men started using makeup (decently, just to cover up imperfections). We would probably look like gods.

[@lockyp204]

Yep and then gravity takes hold

[@e.paradigm7415]

A lot of people overlook the fact that women not only use makeup, filters, lighting, photoshop and even cosmetic surgery to project a false image of themselves and dwell on the attention and online validation, it’s a power-trip and a lot of men fall for this. As a man, I don’t play the hookup game. I love a woman with substance and who is confident in herself where she doesn’t feel the need to gather attention from others outside the relationship, that’s attractive to me.

[@elasticharmony]

Yes but you forgot the worse that is lip shots and botox, have you ever seen those bombs online with dthe giant lips?

[@chrism4008]

​@@elasticharmonythe fillers and "lifts" are so profoundly unattractive, it boggles the mind that anyone does it or is attracted to it

[@danomite8423]

I really enjoy listening to the various opinions of the different women. At times it can be educational and even eye opening. One thing I noticed - - in this video Stella mentioned that a guy wearing black pants with a brown belt was a big turn off (I'm paraphrasing). Yet in this video she was wearing a black top with a brown/earth tone type jacket. Would love to ask her, what's the difference? Anyway, I really like your videos. Keep it up.

[@zhbvenkhoReload]

I don't use dating profiles. Shallow people.

[@therippedemon]

I believe if dating apps and all social media were magically destroyed and banned, both men and women would have more realistic standards when it comes to picking partners. In general, you're going to have a higher chance of success finding someone in person, since it's not purely this superficial focus on only looks.

[@kevinwantstoshred]

The world would be a far better place and mental health would improve drastically

[@phljawn]

Hit the nail on the head, it's an advantage for a small percentage of the population.

[@visaman]

Maybe Elon should buy Bumble?

[@priscillapie]

I agree… men please start approaching women in person 🙏🏻

[@ItIsMeJamesE]

@@priscillapie Most woman aren't worth it these days ... far to many aren't attractive compared to 10 years ago, many are coated in tattoos or have bull nose rings/stupid piercings and give off masculine energy . Also I barely see someone worth approaching.. because of the above. On top of that we could be filmed for clout and laughed at. If woman want to be approached they need to change . Until then.. woman can do it

[@Moshm4n]

Fear of Better Options is most certainly a thing. Women moving in on the top 20% of men exhibits this, but what those women don't take into account is that 20% of men also have FOBO. What happens with FOBO, for men and women who have it in dating, is like channel surfing with 10,000 channels. There's "nothing" and "everything" to watch at the same time. But since you can't choose, there is for all intents and purposes, "nothing". "There are no 'good' men." and "Where have they gone?" is the end product of the choice paradox.

[@robcyr839]

I think it's more women only chasing the top 5% of men on dating apps. So basically, the hot guys are rotating through a slew of women and have no reason to settle down with any of them. This leaves 90% of men with no chance online but it also leaves 100% of the women with 0 chance to lock down the guy they want. The only winners of online dating are the top 5% of guys.

[@lockyp204]

Yep, pretty much nailed it.

[@maxhouse2409]

FOBO comes from Fear Of Missing Out (FOMO). That's how Eve got snookered by a talking snake.

[@iElia]

im in this situatuion, i have FOBO

[@markishbasedgod5251]

I'll take it a step further and say that when these women DO find a man that they don't have "FOBO" with, the man ends up being shared with multiple women due to his rarity and they get upset over it and blame it on every man, that's where the "there are no good men" and "where have they gone" statements actually come from.

[@rafaelshumaker1883]

This video helped to confirm my suspicion that I need to forget dating apps, and that I'll be much better off by meeting ladies in the real world. I've often been told that I'm handsome. But good looks does not get me very far. It gets attention mostly from ladies that are superficial.

[@Arvidje]

True.. girls find me also beautifull..they crazy about my appearance .. but have had a lot of blueball in the past. As a men uhave to be leading, confident , and have a mission in life to accomplish .. a girl don’t make u happy if u act like a wuss

[@thinman8621]

Liked hearing your thoughts in previous video followed by other women's thoughts in this video. Thank you.

[@tjmns]

Don't listen to what they say, listen to what they do

[@adrianboyddodd8007]

These girls would be on medication if they got the same level of responses that men get on dating apps.

[@scottgaylon1196]

This is why it's men that complain the most about getting catfished. These women know EVERY trick to make themselves look better than they are.

[@ericinla65]

AS A MAN that stands 6'6" and works out everyday. I get looks from women all the time with a smile at the Market or wherever. I can't really hide my height or my build.

[@paulbeck6410]

I agree with Erica. On dating apps, it all starts with looks. A woman will base whether she swipes right or left totally on looks. Totally. Yes and guys won't spend hours on makeup and looking good for a picture. Or take lots of pics of themselves. Women will expect a man to put all the effort into a dating app that they do. Guys will present themselves as they are and that they are what they are, take it or leave it.

[@oscarperez5539]

Don't forget how they want the men to put all that work as you said that women do for their dating profiles but still have to look not try hard at the same time

[@defjam137]

I don't think I have ever taken a selfie of myself alone. Even when m with friends I just hand my phone over to someone to take a group pic. H3ll even my FB dp back in the day was a passport photo.

[@Hallo81398]

If you're a Chad, you can take a mirror selfie that takes a whole minute in effort, and you'll get hundreds of matches. "angles" and however else you can rig pictures don't have a big impact. You're either attractive or not

[@sookiezboly4502]

irl it's also start with looks...

[@michaelwheeler3782]

Keep it up ladies, marriage is almost extinct as it it. I've been single now over 12 years and I have no intention of dating. ENJOY YOUR CATS

[@S3r53]

Enjoy being solo

[@pauls4220]

@@S3r53 i think he is

[@riotplanet6182]

Read your comment again, sounds like you need some cats

[@MafiaMTGA]

sounds like someone is resentful, i been single for quite a while and honestly i put the blame on myself more then women.... This is the reality nowadays.

[@TheFockerizer]

Hey good for you man! So in those 12 years with the time and resources you got you done much travelling? That what I would do

[@runpuppyfpv5744]

I honestly belive you are trying to help us men and am truly grateful

[@vikingshark2634]

I find it interesting that the first take on 80% of men being rated unattractive was "step your picture game up."

[@chengliu872]

That's because many women when confronted with men's issues find it unthinkable to blame anyone other than men.

[@steve3131]

80% of men are ugly to women because women are not generally attracted to males. Probably the most effective thing men could do to attract women is gender affirmation surgery. At least they wouldn't judge them for taking selfies. However, this is not a recommendation.

[@dillonc7955]

You could be good looking guy, decent career, independent, a good father, passionate in hobbies, etc. but the deal breaker would them being "only 5'10".

[@freudianslip2192]

Yup.

[@shootingbricks8554]

Wear shoes and you'll be 6' lol

[@PalestineLivesOn]

Why are you trying to attract those type of women anyway? They are literally only for recreational use.

[@HeyHEY-fg9rp]

Until the biological clock ticks more loudly then it's not quite as big a deal. For a while anyway.

[@OriginalTodzilla]

As a 5'10.5 guy, I claim 6' because of shoes 😅

[@marksule0]

I think the sentiment of the video is that it's hard for women to judge attractiveness thru an app because women have too many options and are attracted to other things they get in person. It's like "clearing out emails" for them when they go on apps.

[@marksule0]

@Jane B Robbins Right, but meeting them in person, you can become either less or more attracted to them, given their personality.

[@Realmotion2000]

Yea this 80% of women in the USA Go overseas

[@postworld1185]

Don't fret. I've seen it over and over. They dream big, but when these girls get married and u see their husband he's always a dad bod about 5'10" cute or cuddly to her, but we would all say he's a 6. He makes good $, but not great $ and was a jock or super smart in high school so he retained some confidence, but he's actually average now. Oh - her in laws like him. The don't marry the hot neck tattoo drop shipper posing w a Lambo who got his GED and no longer does coke.

[@wtfdoihavetodohere]

@@postworld1185 And she'll be a jaded and bitter veteran by the time she settles for him.

[@Leoo117]

I don't think it's because of their overwhelming options online. I think it's because they are just attracted in a different way than men. Also, their overwhelming options don't really matter, because men rarely come across women they truly like, so out of the 50 men that liked their profile, maybe 1 might actually really like them.

[@joemacy2776]

I am a man who suffers from autism and has difficulty with social interactions. I feel like I literally tried Bumble as a last resort and got absolutely nowhere with it. I literally used Bumble for over a year without getting a single in-person date from it. I was very disappointed by how unsuccessful I was with it. I was hoping that it would be more helpful for me than it ended up being. To tell you the truth, I feel like dating apps are basically useless for average looking guys. Women on dating apps simply aren't gonna waste their time with guys who are mediocre. It's at least good to know that women tend to be way harsher on dating apps than in real life. I guess it shows that dating apps may not be the best option for me. I just get sad about being single and lonely especially with the holidays coming around. It was still good to hear these experiences from these women.

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

It's a sad world where a decent normal average guy is considered "mediocre". and the vast majority of what these women want are over 6ft perfect massively endowed girth "alpha chad" heroes who treat them like dirt to keep them keen and chasing. No wonder women and feminists go to such an effort to try alter the PR of women, although with the internet its now unavoidable how shallow, vain, entitled, superficial your average modern women is and how little they value average men, literally viewing them as dispensible, worthless infact. Well until you hit your 40s and they get desperate of course, with all the hunky chads are now settled off with the prettiest women and don't need to pump and dump these average women every weekend. Well behind their wives back occasionally of course lol. I give up. On this penis size, height shaming obsessed culture.

[@zoompt-lm5xw]

I'm not autist I'm just ugly At least you have a good excuse

[@markde9904]

Throw away your phone. go to nightclubs or bars or pubs where there is music and people hang out, start talking to random women, develop social skills. It will take time, but you will get it down and you will meet some women to date. If someone is uniterested, just move onto another and try again. Just realise you won't become good at meeting people instantly and don't get discouraged and give up.

[@timreeves8937]

I saw a video where they had a really good looking guy (he looked like a model but they claim he was not one) go on a dating app compared with a "average" guy and he reported what happened . The good looking had about ten times the initial responses (likes and matches) from women than the "average guy" did, and about three times as much luck with getting texts, conversations and getting a number. But weirdly, the good looking guy went on the exact same amount of dates as the average guy. When they dove into it, the reason why was the good looking guy actually was flaking or lost interest in the women at each stage because he had options in real life so would stop pursuing the online women he was only so-so about a little more at each stage. Like ghost after an initial conversation, get a number and then never call, or would call or text a few times and just would lose interest and never pursued a date. So in the end the good looking guy only went out on a couple "dates" with women who managed to keep his interest all the way through the stages of internet dating, which was the exact same number the average guy got, but the difference was he had to pursue the dates he got the whole way to completion. Food for thought.

[@reneruiz1004]

Like Gab said, men don’t have as many pictures of ourselves in general to capture our personality and vibrance. Almost every time you see a group of women out to brunch, in nature, etc they take 100’s of pictures. When us guys go out we are lucky if we take 1 or 2. Most likely it’s going to be a group photo and no one even checks if it’s good or not til later.

[@mikelisteral7863]

alpha-widow's have high standards. women who w h o r e to chads

[@nfal445]

+

[@MrFuckinglogin]

AND if it's bad that's extra bonus for fun!

[@Sasquatch10]

One tip i heard is to try and make it a habit to take at least one or two pictures a day. After doing that for a while you're bound to have a few that make you look decent.

[@Astro2024]

Because women seek validation from their photos and social media. I can take a pic of a mountain range I'm hiking at. That doesn't compare to being at the trail itself and experiencing it. Same with people

[@gameplayben8537]

There’s a great video on why you will marry the wrong person. People don’t understand that love is a skill and compromise is not a bad but it’s a sign of humility. Too many women and men get hung up on the imperfections of others when in reality we are all flawed in our own way.

[@FabzRoma-is3sq]

Perception is lacking/ Beliefs are the fallacies that delude the masses/ Egocentric personalities will always misjudge what they don't understand/ The formulated product appears perfect, without flaws b/c it conforms to unprofessional worldly standards and the same goes for convenience relationships/ Fear and greed are the motivations/

[@vl4eva]

Gab was the most grounded and realest one there! Bring her back! 🔥🤣 Love from 🇬🇧 P.s. Guys who got hella selfies, i agree with her on that!

[@TimbrukahBuckapaw]

Courtney, one of the things that I like most about your posts is that you take into account sociobilological influences into account. One of your posts was about how ultra-successful women want even more successful men. I worked on Wall Street for many years with gorgeous high-fliers. These women, who turned up their noses at even slightly lesser status men, are reaching retirement age alone, because men who were more successful than them married trophy bimbos. My late wife had cancer, and I was her carer. For two years, whenever I took her for her chemotherapy, there would be thirty to forty women patients in the waiting room, a sprinkling of careers and daughters, but only two men in the room, another husband and me.. I don't if the other women were widows, divorcees or never married, but the vast majority of them were facing chemo alone. To be a woman in your 20s and 30s with your pick of hundreds of men and the world at your feet is amazing. To be in your 60s facing chemo alone, meh, not so much. There must be a biological/psychological reasons why women don't realize that one day, they are going to become a glut on the market, and the time to reconsider whether their pickiness is counterproductive is not in their 60s but in their 20s and 30s. I'm sure you'll be able to elucidate more about this phenomenon Ps. Also loved your post about the rules of attraction are not the rules long-term relationships.

[@jamespowers3602]

Dating apps never worked for me. Too many crazies, misrepresentations, and falsehoods. I'm at a point now in my life where I doubt if I will ever seek out another female, it seems too much of an uphill and losing battle.

[@derekgeorgeandrews]

It goes both ways. I only find a tiny handful of women attractive.

[@woodview5905]

This is a great analogy of human real life, I really appreciate all those girls for they opinion and being so honest .I don't like dating apps I wait for the right moment to come.dating apps sound to me like you are saling something and the other person is looking to buy. And for me I am priceless. love you all. thanks for the video.

[@Steve83B]

Stella, who to me is the most attractive, has a habit of saying “I feel like” when she contemplates an answer. This means her answers and outlooks may change throughout time. If I was a betting man, I’d say she’s probably given different answers to the same question throughout this series.

[@italkgory99]

That’s exactly what she’s done

[@jcnba28]

That's women in general. They never know what they want so their opinions and feelings change constantly.

[@lockyp204]

Yep, talk of feelings in regards to black or white issues are a definite red flag. It’s flakey, and you’ll end up divorced.

[@lookfeelbehealthy6320]

LOL. Maria is the most attractive, and it's not even close. Having said that, I would never date her cause she's obviously shallow.

[@user-uk9er5vw4c]

that's a way to be polite and avoid discussions. Strong opinions would generate bad comments, etc. She's educated about communicating on social media

[@moneymakinmitch8130]

I got too much self respect to hop on a dating app 😂 no matter how down bad I may reach I’ll never get to that point of being that desperate

[@onceagain9617]

I hear you brother. I’m the same way. It reeks of desperation. KZbin is the only social media I have.

[@earthlylynx]

the first comment set the tone for the whole video... appreciate the content.

[@lockyp204]

At this stage even if I managed to find a woman there’s no doubt she’ll probably divorce me anyway. Stats don’t lie. Stay single bros.

[@searklarak]

If a guy is unattractive but he's blessed with being tall, it evens out to an extent. I have seen plenty of men in public with average or sub-par looks and the partners they have are easily a lot more attractive.

[@freudianslip2192]

Have you seen my 600lb life? All of those women have boyfriends/husbands. Not one time have I seen one of those men with a girlfriend or wife. Let's not act like women are more fair in their approach to picking mates. Especially because these same women said they would go down in looks to date a man that is rich in previous videos.

[@nutyyyy]

Yep this has been the case for me. Though since I stopped being so fat my looks improved a lot.

[@shootingbricks8554]

A lot? I don't think so. My buddies were physically attractive when they got their girlfriends or married. 80% of them gotten fat or obese. You really think many women would date a fat/obese guy especially if he's short? Nope.

[@eroik4301]

Not really. An unattractive face cancels out any good height you have.

[@TheNaturalHealthBlogger]

It only evens out if you are a tall guy who is massively endowed, that is the real reason these women "settle" for these tall but less handsome men But trust me these things work both ways, if you are tall and not massively endowed or even just average expect the vast majority of these shallow pathetic vile body shaming women to immediately laugh in your face, tell you that you don't match up to mr massively endowed girth alpha Tyrone that they hooked up with last night and go instantly running back to their friends to publically humiliate your body. So being tall is essentially pointless if you aren't also massively endowed and because average doesn't look proportional on a very tall guy, you actually need to be massively endowed or these women will destroy you. Sad world eh? yet these women are outraged about the unobtainable beauty standards of Hollywood hahahaha as they penis size shame and humiliate men to mental illness.

[@nickofthenorth]

Dating apps show what people look like in 1/100th of a second. But you don’t experience people in 1/100th of second. Even if the app has video, it is still not a real representation of person.

[@robertwoods5169]

As a guy in his 20s that has social anxiety disorder who is only interested in things like psychology, sociology, and politics, and goes through life based on science and rational thinking. But just wishes they could be useful for emotional support. The odds of me accepting someone thats asking me out will only result in me avoiding or lashing out in fear. I know myself well, even in a 3rd person perspective, I can understand how I'd react in various situations.

[@majrminer]

I've been very straightforward with women on dating apps, asking questions they didn't think I'd ask because I'm not trying to impress women. What I've found is that they expect men to be their personal clowns, "make me laugh," meanwhile, she's so overly average and basic in the things she says that it hurts. And the ones who think they're original come off as taking themselves WAY too seriously. Guys, your problem is that you're giving women attention. They don't care about men now (most of them), so giving them attention simply gives them the validation they crave. Ask some straightforward questions, gents. Make them earn you.

[@telegranmecourtney_ryan7661]

☝️☝️🤝☝️☝️ *CONGRATULATIONS* 🍾 *You are a lucky winner* 🍀 Send me a direct message on *TELEGRAM* to claim your prize 📦🎁

[@dontheador6649]

I still have that old fashioned mentality that dating apps are for desperate people. I know this is not the case, but I've found meeting women in real life isn't that hard and it's much more organic. So personally all of the women involved opinions where great to hear! And women are everywhere! Besides, I don't fit in online anywhere. I actually respect a good woman and realize that they exist. And the real world is so much better :) Thanks again for another great video, Courtney and Friends

[@visaman]

Almost 100% of the women I meet are married. Or at least that's what they tell me.

[@dontheador6649]

@@visaman I can only speak for myself. And I'm very proud of that.

[@maynardewm]

Women would really prefer if we could go back to meeting people in person too. Dating apps make dating miserable for all of us

[@tamarapopovic9532]

This is so nice. I kinda feel the same way. I had tinder app for a week and ended up deleting it cause it wasn't natural to me.

[@HughGenvoenni]

I gave up on dating apps too. I did OKAY like during Covid when literally everyone was on there, but nothing truly substantial came out of it. Dating apps give both men and women what’s called the ‘paradox of choice’…you have so many options to pick from that you end up not picking ANY of them …and the ratio of men to women on dating apps is comparable to that of the population of Alaska 😬😂

[@hipoint40cal39]

Brutal Blackpill story time: At my former favorite bar, I was speaking to the barmaid about me finding weekend work to earn more cash...I said that I just left Giant Eagle Grocers and filled out an application, so I also said that I was considering even applying for work at this very bar for weekend work, and upon hearing this, the barmaid had "that" look of disgust on her face (scrunched nose like she just smelled the worst fart ever). I guess that said it all...."you are ugly, and i wouldnt want to work with you". Its tough being a sub 5 nothing.

[@chadesteban1408]

Erica's answer seems the simplest and most reasonable explanation

[@chadd3299]

There is a discernible difference between someone saying “this person is attractive but just isn’t for me” and “this person is just flat out unattractive.” The way I took the study was women found 80% of men just flat out unattractive. You have to subject it to a multivariate analysis. A lot of good looking men won’t need or want to use a dating app. There is a higher proportion of men than women on dating apps and that could drive the “average” looks of the men on there down. Women factor in other things in person relating to attractiveness; i.e. clothes, cars, accessories, confidence, body language, and it’s hard to express any of that on dating apps when it’s just a few photos. I don’t think the study is wrong per se, but I think it’s skewed to not factor in other variables.

[@toppinnacle7673]

A Nigerian based in Dubai . Courtney keep bringing this kind of videos collaborating with different girls let’s keep hearing their perspectives . Appreciate what you do

[@joshuapetersen4960]

This is why I no longer use dating apps, it is the bottom of the barrel.

[@barrymurphy1337]

Hey Courtney! I gotta say I find Gab's quirky personality incredibly attractive. Tell her if she ever comes over to London I'd gladly to take her out for a night on the town lol! Happy New Year x

[@reynaldosrepairs]

Courtney. You are on to something here. You're are doing work that is going to give shape to what is going on in dating and relationships. This is new territory that is just beginning to be charted by you. Keep going. Again, you are onto something here.

[@ghanshyam1990]

The cost of playing the dating game is so high and the rewards so mediocre that for most men the best bet is not to play. Instead, focus on your health, finances, and passions. If you do make yourself in the top 5% then there's no need to settle down, deep pumping and dumping.

[@JelaniB28]

After cutting through all of this superficial BS, that’s exactly what these women deserve.

[@CliveRosefield]

to be fair, that's kind of what we were supposed to be doing anyway. I don't really understand how a woman is supposed to stay invested in a relationship if the man isn't doing jack shit with his life.

[@elasticharmony]

that is so low what should happen is a grand old war where all you immoral sum are killed and these deluded women can snap out of it, nothing more real than cannon fire. Look a Ukraine that sex slum getting a good moral wake up,

[@ForeverMiniTacos]

@courtneyryan, thanks for this video. Could you do same set, but with more age groups than just 20s to give more insight as age progresses?

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[@adriannelson3045]

These surveys are really interesting and very revealing

[@markishbasedgod5251]

I'll give them credit, they definitely seem a lot more empathetic vs the "women react to lonely single men". Actually reacted like normal people rather than heartless animals.

[@DingleberrryDan]

0:33 - "That's crazy! Um, first of all, step your picture game up." - Immediately blaming men. IMMEDIATELY. This is precisely the reason that us men are going our own way. Stella is not an exception; she is the rule. Hashtag MGTOW

[@ghanshyam1990]

I agree, I noticed it also. Meaning believing that so many men are taking poor pictures when modern cameras already do so much of the light, color and other balancing for you so you can easily take semi professional pictures. Additionally whenever men do take pics for dating sites they do their best to take a good one, and even that isn't good enough.

[@DingleberrryDan]

@@ghanshyam1990 Appreciate the input. I haven't even scratched the surface of this upload, and I'm already having a conniption in my mind. I must remain calm and civil. I never do this, but enough is enough. I'm making a reaction video right now.

[@ghanshyam1990]

@@DingleberrryDan - I didn't even watch the entire video, just three fourths and went back to learning how to code. Why should I listen to how hard I have to play a rigged game where unless and until you are over 6ft, fair complexion (in my country) and wealthy you dint even stand a chance.

[@DingleberrryDan]

@@ghanshyam1990 Absolutely, brother. The pain is real. You sound like a reasonable dude. And I love that you're choosing to move onto bigger & better things that serve YOUR purpose. THAT is true MGTOW. Once my vid goes up, feel free to engage in the dialogue (yes, the dreaded comments lol).

[@juliannfloress3490]

@@DingleberrryDan waiting for that video bruh

[@oldkayakdude]

Think about how important looks are in long term relationships. Anyone focused on superficial initial impressions is going to have a much harder time finding anyone. Social media has screwed over modern dating options.

[@WojciechowskaAnna]

That's why i nthe past guys was loving ulgy girls, and all books were about it. Wake up. Men were always shallow. Do you expect shallow men to have deep daughers?

[@susannaspence4512]

As a happily married 31 year old (5 years in) this is so hard to watch. What is going on with women these days and being so self-centered and unrealistic?

[@sookiezboly4502]

dont make it sound it was different 5 years ago.. honestly, i highly doubt you're that different. Now, are you really unrealistic ? if this is type of men to manage to attract then that means it's their daily reality.

[@Noc___]

Thumbs up if you find Gab extremely charming 🥰

[@Evoandrs]

You will never be bored with Gab. Hers personality is awsome

[@deiwi]

Right? I'd love to hang out with such a girl anytime. Love the humor and she comes across as a person who does not take herself too seriously.

[@Evoandrs]

@@deiwi You can hear in bacground that Courtney, and stuff enjoyes her present

[@sunkillsmoon]

Are you kiddin?? I thought she was delusional. "I feel the opposite, I'm just like, he has hands" ..... are you freaking kidding me lady..... "it feels like clearing out emails" but also I don't have any options .....she is literally delusional

[@deiwi]

@@Evoandrs Yeah, noticed that too. It was the best interview on this channel tbh. Hope Gab will come back 😄

[@LeeEverett1]

There's something edgy about her as well that's attractive

[@davidabarak]

The woman in the knit cap is a riot. She'd be fun to hang out with.

[@NickatNite511]

These videos are great. Reminds me of when I used to read Cosmo in middle school, and I felt like I was sneaking behind enemy lines, haha.