Do They Have Unrealistic "Dating" Standards? ©

[@jamesharlanjohnson6882]

High earning, late 50's white medical professional here. I am enamored with this newly discovered content. Thank you Kevin, you are awesome. Men especially are HUNGRY for real talk. It also explains the popularity of Jordan Peterson. The women need to hear this as well. Feminism has destroyed interpersonal/intersexual relationships. I am all for anyone pursuing their dreams in life, but the feminist message is "you go girl, get out there and act like a man, and compete like a man, and you will achieve self-actualization" As these gals spend their 20's and 30's chasing their career aspirations, they waste their most attractive years, their fertility, and their tenderness, charm, and feminine energy on ...a career. They panic in the late 30's still waiting for their high sexual market, higher-earning male to come along just as promised by the Disney Princess Promise. How is that working out for you?... yes you! - you square-jawed, overly tattoo'd/pierced, cross-fit goin', vulgarity-spouting, disagreeable, oversized gals out there. Here is the reality: Men (if they put in the hard work and make good, disciplined decisions) can maintain a high sexual market value for much longer than you can. If you ask why the age-matched, high sexual market man isn't chasing you, and why is it that we are dating much younger women...the answer is "Because we can". and men, watch and observe Kevin. His style is impeccable, but his alpha attitude is what really drives his attraction. He is not a supplicant, needy, beta male living in a mindset of scarcity. He has an abundance mindset and he knows his value. They say the agent that has the power in a transaction or negotiation is the one who needs the other the least. This is true with relationships as well. Cheers, and thanks again Mr. Samuels.

[@martelprayer416]

I couldn't agree with you more. Enjoyed reading your commentary.

[@Dolphmajesty7997]

Well said Mr. Right on the money

[@antonioysgibson2723]

Yes all true

[@astarryeyedgirl]

I'm an old school feminist in my 50s. Married almost 20 years. 5'7", dress size 8/10. I feel a great deal of concern about how the feminist message has been mangled by younger folks in particular. And there's a lot of mangling! I was reading a metastudy earlier today about misperceptions of feminism. In reality, feminist identifying women resent men less than non-feminist-identifying women. Feminist couples tend to be happier and report more harmony and greater happiness. I can easily great it. My worst relationships were with men hostile to feminism. Hands down, they were the most controlling and disrespectful of all my relationships. The feminist message is about respect on both sides. Self-awareness. Creating something that works for both partners. It feels like Feminism Lite is destroying women and relationships. I'm not sure I recognize those ideals in young women today. The callers to this show sound just delusional! Meanwhile, I'm almost 20 years into a blissful marriage to a great, passionate man who is strong, capable, and respectful. He treats me like gold and I treat him the same. Our day to day lives look pretty "traditional" and that works for us. What makes us feminist is that we respect each other. I've been in a traditional looking marriage with a fundie before, and his sheer disrespect for me ultimately turned into contempt, control-lust, sexual abuse, and eventually threats of physical abuse. It's amazing how different the first husband was from the second in terms of basic civility and humankindness. In fact, I only knew two couples out of hundreds in my church days who were happy. They'd have killed for what my husband has now. On that note, I was reading an MRA space the other day. A dozen of these anti-feminists were fantasizing about marriage with women who treated them kindly. Who worked alongside them to build a life together. Who could be trusted and even depended upon. And I thought about my wonderful husband, who told me just yesterday how grateful he was that he could count on me to work with his budget and bake bread for him to eat, so he doesn't need to order out for lunch. (I love him so much. We're not rich in money, but I could not care less.) I consider feminism to be what makes me a worthwhile wife to a high quality man like him. It makes me self aware enough to maintain my body and contribute meaningfully to my family. It makes me happy to cook and tend house and get him drinks after work. That's feminism to me. Anyway, just some thoughts. I'm not the speaker for all feminists. This is just how I interpret it and how it's impacted my life. Best wishes. (My tablet has it in for me. Please excuse typos.)

[@dr.b.3888]

Facts and truths!

[@stevenjefferson149]

Rest in power Godfather. Thank You for starting this much needed conversation and holding us all to task! May your family take pride in the legacy you’ve built.

[@Fit_pharmacist]

This made me tear up! Miss him so much 😢

[@kingjohnson4051]

​@@Fit_pharmacist😊

[@ltraingalaxy122]

Most of these women have never dated a man that makes over 50,000 a year and they should not expect a man to make six figures to take care of their children and their debt

[@gatman18]

Dan 240Z I had no idea the percentage was that high 😮

[@TheCoachRC]

FACTS, LG (and I don't mean Life's Good). Ya dig? Very good point you made there. I thought the same thing as each woman called in to the broadcast.

[@mikeandmars2345]

Facts bro

[@alanharding2485]

I don’t know why anyone would expect someone else to raise “their” kids

[@Plagueis313]

There are many men that would take on a woman with kids. I'm just saying get with those men. If she makes 40 with kids and he makes 50 then get with him and rock that 90. In south eastern mi that's decent enough for a 3 bedroom 2 car garage 1400sqft home. $1300 a week after taxes. Be happy and grow together to 100 or 120k. But this fantasy of being a power couple on TV requires a history of working toward that in which could still be done with an average Joe. In fact a relationship would be powerful if they grew together. Hence power couple.

[@sunnialiber4868]

This man stood firm against a whole system to change the dynamics between men and women for the better. His only weapons were logic, facts, data and statistics. Thank you Mr. Samuels, we, men, will forever be grateful.

[@invisiblemaninvisibleman5159]

This channel has turned out to be the best channel ever

[@jklpop4664]

I agree...he gets the comments flowing🙄🤔

[@sicariiavantgarde1873]

Shit popping

[@danielb.544]

Yup I am thoroughly entertained to say the least

[@Mantimeradio]

Facts. He is providing content that our community needs, I’ve met the women he describes. I hope our people come together have more love, and stop living in fantasy land.

[@markiscouch6729]

I have to strongly agree with you.

[@kemetazubuike8958]

“You are free because some man set you free” - damn

[@greatscott7003]

Lmao

[@mateodevon2967]

😁

[@MR.DREAM333]

That was so gangsta

[@Cynnas]

Yeah but men are free because men set them free too. Also, men and women were not free because of men too. Beside that nonsense it's silly to think that women weren't involved or an influence in everything that men have done throughout his life from the day he was born.

[@kemetazubuike8958]

@@Cynnas men aren’t the ones who say they don’t need men. Nor or men the ones saying that men are useless. Check yourself and your “sistas” for they rhetoric y’all use. Not me.

[@regalsylvester]

Kevin will be mainstream within the next 3-5 years. He’s doing everything right. Has the experience, the professionalism, the look. I’m taking notes

[@skinfanjay]

Co. Sign

[@o.m.a.4670]

The powers that be wont allow him to go mainstream. You have to kiss up and BS people to go mainstream. This platform could serve to correct bad behaviors amongst alot of people of color...., so it wont be allowed

[@egavasr8462]

I hope so, but he's a little out of touch.

[@GnosticCushite]

@@egavasr8462 How so?

[@egavasr8462]

@@GnosticCushite I think he's working at of an old rule book, situations change. The world changes. Not saying he's completely wrong, just a little unrealistic

[@bradj229]

“I’m not going ask these guys to make something of themselves and just accept you as you are. Not a fair deal! Won’t do it!” - KS

[@CHomesteadBK]

Women expect more out of others then they are capable of producing themselves.

[@roolyfe]

Real talk 💯

[@CBPfilm]

gotdammit this was a real statement

[@greatscott7003]

Ding

[@Dimz30]

Facts

[@CBPfilm]

@GetOutOfThereGirlAnd JustDivest because men that you want have opinions first. he wants a wife do you know how to be one? how old are you these men usually want kids. do you know any man that make 100,000? do you know what these men want? there are a plethora of things that go into this. like are you aware that only 10% of men make 100,000 or more? 80% of the women want 20% of the men. so what makes you think he would even want you? but I digress tho.

[@_Svndxy]

Black men under 40, who earn $100K and more, marry Black women about 70% of the time. However, Black men under 40 who earn $35K and less, marry Black women about 60% of the time. These are stats are extrapolated from US Census Bureau data. A lot of people online over exaggerate the amount of interracial dating and marrying that is actually going on. I am from the United Kingdom and interracial dating is a lot more prevalent here and we still do not talk about it as much as you Americans do lol.

[@star782jones9]

Because people on both sides BW and BM think if they marry or date out of their race all their issues will be solved and that's not always the case

[@JustBree716]

Its Definitely a myth. And its blown out of proportion by bitter BW

[@piotrjeske4599]

@@star782jones9 but dating a non black woman is less problems. Lower chance of overweight, fewer baby moms, fewer women out of broken houses etc

[@rtthomas3667]

@@piotrjeske4599 wow...smdh

[@rtthomas3667]

@@paulbunyan9436 I've never twerked and I'm soft-spoken. Quite frankly, most of us don't want to marry Africans or Islanders. Glad the feeling is mutual. Thank you very much.

[@WakenBaketv1]

She said “I have Sir-Tif-ications” 😂😩

[@myfathersson3751]

Yo!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

[@Makeitmakesensejo]

Rightttttttttttt!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@chef_rg.2]

Yeah, I didn't know what she was saying or attempting to say. Jesus christ 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@biancajessi756]

I was like what ?!...but then said in aesthetics 🥴...I’m convinced she meant something else she couldn’t pronounce 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Essence0206]

That was horrible. And she repeated it as it she was correct. At 23 she really struggled pronouncing something she has obtained.

[@Playstation_Sony]

You look at women on dating apps. Her bio: 30 something, baby fat still, 2/3 kids, "ain't here for the games", "don't waste my time", "say more than hey(wanting your first message to be a essay basically)...... but wanting a man that's: 6ft, long hair, in shape, has a good paying job," period! "etc..... Then when you meet they don't look no were near like their pics talking about we just doing a meet n greet so I don't have my make up on or hair did hehe.....haaaaa I didn't even bother texting them back.

[@ericklavingston1117]

iSprint4GEyes they’re also more concerned about height that actual characteristics that would make a partner suitable. They aren’t serious at all

[@JohnDSmith-zz7yj]

Erick Lavingston dude did you even read his comment? He mentioned height. The VV girl was cute, she just need to stop playing with her life like it’s a game. Ain’t getting younger smh

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

Damn this was the real 👊🏾😎

[@asiatic_black]

This chick on the phone sent me a throwback pic talking about she 5’2 I’m 5’5 I pulled up she damn near obese. Like 5’9.

[@Playstation_Sony]

@@asiatic_black ouch. That's what get me. When a chick have nothing but her sexy pics up in her heels and skirts looking cute BUT no other natural looking pictures you just know when yall meet she gon look 5 years older and no efforts will be into her appearance. I'm like show me what I'm getting not your girls night out seeking attention only BS

[@ebonymalone8371]

Say what you want Godfather is hands down one of the best giving real advice that works in real life!

[@skinfanjay]

Bless you. Sista. Ebony. I’m glad you have heeded The Godfather’s. Advice . He has you’ll (Black Women). backs

[@skinfanjay]

✌️✌️ N. ❤️❤️

[@johnpick8336]

He is very insightful at catching deception and distraction.

[@mikeandmars2345]

Yes he is yes he is

[@tangerineoctopus2725]

Loud angry mean black women

[@chalkyblack7582]

Gentlemen we lost a Good Man

[@johndoe6572]

I think a lot of these women cry when they get off the phone with kevin, you can hear it in their voice.

[@heyitsshay6058]

Aww. 😂

[@jklpop4664]

@Gravity Pull On Earth I agree 💯%

[@debradennis3379]

KS is repackaging "prejudice and bigotry" spraying it with "eau du parfum" and selling it back to the black community, everything bad in black communities is on the shoulders of black males

[@hananyahdavis3715]

🤣🤣🤣🏃‍♂️💨

[@TheCoachRC]

If they don't cry, then they are just confused even more when the conversation is over. They just have to find themselves in life.

[@thesaintsification]

Watching this video makes me very thankful I found my wife when I was still broke and living in my mom’s basement. Too high standards can block your blessings.

[@jgun4125]

Likewise.

[@thesaintsification]

@T Martin Oh yes. My wife now wears a ring that’s the size of doorknob. 💍I greatly appreciate her time and patience.

[@realjcoop182]

It's hard for me, I'm an immigrant with no green card. I'm handsome, talented, & the issue is being broke & not having a legal 9-5 cuz of my work permit.

[@ashesly]

@@realjcoop182 there is someone for everyone...just keep working my friend.

[@Spokentruths725]

@@thesaintsification you were an actual good man who just fell on hard times. Women today choose a mooching bum and then are surprised when they never get a ring at all. You actually had a plan for life. Many women assume a man in your position is a bum who isnt worth the time or patience.

[@jfrancismiller]

20's - Screwing and partying. 30's - Babymama-ing. 40 - Bitter, complaining. 50's - FEMINIST.

[@jfrancismiller]

It's Mrs. Bossy Trick Ask yourself why you just had to reply to a comment you say doesn't apply to you. 😆

[@jubernardi23]

I never liked or go parties, for me is a waste of time, money and sleeping 😝

[@fiyahriddims]

Spot on!

[@astoldbycurlyd]

I think too many woman listened to that song Take Me As I Am by Mary J Blige to the Max ... straight up over dosed on the song 😩😂😭🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Marvlo102]

🤣🤣🤣

[@ChrisJWatts504TV]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zoesmith5687]

Hi Kevin your channel is my favourite channel. I’m currently at the gym 3 times a week and exercise dvd for 30 mins the days I’m not at the gym. And I’m going to start running soon. I’m 44 years old so it’s doubtful I’d get a high value man but the men I’m attracted to aren’t attracted to me so I’m doing the gym. I’ll let you know in 6 months if I’ve lost 55lbs xx

[@manpost18]

Good start

[@alljuniors1]

Truthfully if the guy works and respect you then you might have to reevaluate your decision especially at 44. Most men in the 40s to 60s that are in shape with money would rather deal with younger women to have fun. Especially if they were divorced

[@popa213]

I feel at 44 your values should be on a more realistic standard. Exercising is good for you but shouldn’t be just to get a man because if you get him you will gain the weight right back. Most women who are older and attracted to the same guys they wanted in their 20s usually feel like they missed out. Every older woman I know usually just want a man that will love them whole heartedly and not run out on them Lol. This is an example of why older men date young because if he’s going to date a woman that’s delusional it might as well be a young tight woman that hasn’t aged yet that he can mold into what he wants mentally and sexually.

[@DivinePower]

@@popa213 The thing about older men who do that is they don’t usually don’t see what’s to come. She’s young and women who date older men don’t actually WANT older men. They just compare older men to the men their age and the older men are more stable and the younger men you’d have to actually go through that process WITH him rather than just walking into it! But when the woman gets older herself and now all the men her age are older too, her man just looks....old. She stops seeing him as this great Superman and she realizes he wasn’t so much better than the other men he was just older. Then her man who was “better” suddenly becomes the “least” option because she can get a man who’s not old and is still stable. That’s why most men with younger women get left. Men and women have to realize that they BOTH need to be realistic! No young girl WANTS an older man. She’s just too young and inexperienced to realize he’s just an older man and that’s the only reason he knows to do things young men don’t. He’s not special....he’s old! I work with women ALL the time that married and dated and are now leaving and divorcing older men and they say “He trapped me.” “He took advantage of me!” “I was too young for him!” And the men are confused about what went wrong! Both men and women are delusional if you ask me. Everybody wants better than what they qualify for. Including older men who are delusional enough to think young women genuinely want THEM and not just their stability. Men who think young women are actually going to stay in that mindset he “trained” her into when she sees her peers with men equally as stable as her old ass man but much more strong and youthful with ten times the stamina! It’s delusional to think a young woman wants a older man without being confused or having an issue driving her in that direction. But both men and women have their delusions broken in the end.

[@DivinePower]

@@popa213 And the delusions stem from nobody wanting to put up with each other’s shit. Everybody wants to dodge “settling” just to get a wake up call in the end! Men are not settling for women their age when they get older and women aren’t settling for men who are decent upstanding guys but not meeting every mark. Both are in fact playing themselves!!!! Men play themselves dating younger women and women do the same by curving men they could have build great lives and foundations with. It’s all the same, just a male version and a female version. Men like to tell women what men want and claim we don’t listen but they don’t listen either when we say young women don’t want you!!!! We’re women! We KNOW they don’t want you and if the young woman HERSELF is too undeveloped to know it right now, she’ll know it one day! I coach them ALL the time divorcing some man who’s just an old geezer to her now. Old men can’t beat young women off with a stick because they’re running from having to actually build with a man their age the same thing she can walk into and benefit from with an older man. When I was 22 I remember older men liking me and my friends and we’d be like ugghhhh he’s like 40! And there’s always that one friend who’s willing to date him for the stability after we all called him old and said ughhh including her! Nobody pays attention to how in those relationships you don’t fit in with his peers and he doesn’t fit in with yours. Now he the dude in his 40’s and 50’s with a wife in her 20’s that his friends wives don’t want to hang with because nobody hangs with 25 year olds but him. Then you going to your homie tryna get him to get his wife to hang with your wife because she needs guidance and is at an irritating young stage of life you BEEN passed. And now your wife is the kid of the group that everybody else’s wife calls suga and sweetheart and tells her to hand them shit in the kitchen but nobody takes her seriously. And you’re her older man her peers can’t understand why she’s with and might even think is gross. I have seen it ALL kinds of ways except the way the man imagined it in his delusion. I got a friend almost 50 with a 28 year old he had since she was 23 and she just posted flat out that she sick of him on social media!!! Lol. But hey, 28 years olds do that kind of stuff, they often post everything on social media! I’m sure he’s annoyed with the immaturity of it all. Lol. Delusions are always better in theory than in real life!

[@TheDCGuitar13]

I don’t know who needs to hear it but this always happens so I’ll just say it for you. Harsh truth is not “bashing”, it’s actually more love than anyone lying to you about you being perfect could ever bring themselves to show you. The belief that you’re better than what you put out is not bashing, it’s love. Secondly. His whole come up on KZbin was him doing the same for men. Attacking Kevin won’t make anything he says about you less true. Seems like every single episode requires this comment. End of rant.

[@ericklavingston1117]

TheDCGuitar13 right he really is passionate about what he’s talking about. He could just sit back & watch the train wreck like the rest of us 🤣

[@FalaqX]

Does the same thing apply to Larry Elder & Officer Tatum? Are they "Bashing" Black people or is it love?

[@TheDCGuitar13]

Erick Lavingston sometimes he does!🤣😂he will just let them ramble on and then catch them in a lie 5 secs later🤣

[@davidredpill8562]

They’d rather be comforted with a lie than spared by the truth. Damn shame

[@camillenia3886]

GOD bless you all. GOD loves you all. Have a blessed day everyone.

[@MW-qv5ox]

Thank you Kevin for being a voice for men in a man hating society.

[@Moofydakidd]

Rip unc. Revisiting all the vids

[@ebonneenelson2325]

What Kevin told that first caller was 100% correct. I tried what that caller was talking about and I couldn’t do it. I had to let that dream go and focus on the family. And he was right to tell the caller that her parents relationship is none of her business. I’m going to tell my daughters the same thing. RIP Godfather. In the sciences as a beginner, you do not make over $100,000 starting. I have a chemistry degree and the pay range for jobs as a beginner was between $15-$35/hour and that’s in the New England area.

[@OOTD_]

This is why having mentors is so important. People need to hear these talks before we enroll in these colleges so black people can be steered in the right direction and not get these low paying degrees.

[@FrauMase]

AAAAAAMEN!

[@lowbo47omsascotave]

*Eastside Low Bottoms sh*t !* _Tappin' in from South Central LA_ *7/23/22* I love that the channel is continually growing even after Kevin's passing. Just show that in people's mind, the overall message is starting to make sense. Rest easy KS. 🙏🏾 You are appreciated. 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾

[@mq3177]

I lived as a single woman in Nassau County Long Island. I made about 110K. It was just enough to pay for a modest one bedroom walk up rental. That caller is clueless and never adulted or paid her own bills.

[@johneleazer5232]

hey just wanna say hi, i live in Virginia beach Virginia, but originally from Huntington L.I.

[@courtpaul9334]

from what i've been listening to, like the majority wanna be stay at home mothers whiles...... the men go out & work like Kunta Kinte

[@davidredpill8562]

Right, what kind of deal is that for the men? 🥱

[@shuggashort8963]

🤣🤣🤣 facts

[@pw85___]

🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@pw85___]

@It's Mrs. Bossy Trick an overwhelming majority of the population legitimately CAN'T afford it. But then there's the other part that do it only on gov't assistance....

[@derrickwilliams7102]

😂😂😂😂 facts

[@FrauMase]

Marriage has tough moments and I've never considered the " D" word; listening to this content encourages me to keep working it out! Thank God for my husband.

[@peterrose8886]

Amen ma'am I think a lot of women lack this standard and are extremely selfish with entitlement but won't look at themselves to understand they are their own worst enemy the way they want to leave their relationships just acknowledge accountability and do the work

[@Superfly156]

I appreciate you saying you don't have to love what you do. You do what you have to do to make the money you need to live the kind of lifestyle you want.

[@TexasGent3808]

Steve Harvey happened to ALL these women!!!! He’s built their expectations up and have made them think that they are OWED something for nothing!!!! The entire premise of his show was “What a man should do for you...etc”

[@TexasGent3808]

T Martin For women only. You would be hard/pressed to find 3 episodes that mentioned anything about what a woman should Bering to the table. It was ALWAYS about what a men should do, should bring to the table, etc... and these women think that it’s ALL about them and they don’t have to do anything. Which is why his show ended up getting replaced.

[@cw5971]

It's not just Steve Harvey, this is a generational thing that has gotten worse and worse, starting with baby boomers.

[@TexasGent3808]

@@cw5971 I agree 100% with you!

[@BaseballKing44]

He’s not the only one, blame derrick jaxn and the entire generation of pander bears.

[@felicitymasiu96]

True. Steve Harvey has deceived a lot of people. U will not get a man women there got their checklist on hand ticking with a red pen.

[@PrinceSonCheeba]

She started by saying she’s going to work from home then says she wants to work in a bio Med lab. Ma’am which one is it?

[@evanatbri-s13]

It's working because those were the answers to two different questions. The first one was if she wants to work when married. The second answer was to the question what is the top she could do in her job. But yeah.... She said she plans to start studying. Maybe she was talking this is what she would do while waiting to find "the one".

[@QUNYC7]

Ladies: Are you a day Walker? Kevin is a fool for that one!😂😂

[@buyakshaklak6464]

Western women have become absolute sh.t...they ask for everything and give nothing back !!!

[@tom11zz884]

Kevin was correct about the last caller. If she was a man, she would be a " Loser" for still living at home at age 26, and not even paying rent. Yet, she thinks she is some high value woman that deserves a high value man...insane.

[@adetayow6213]

I think she may be something to work with. She didn’t seem loose, just socially awkward. She stacking money so can’t take that away from her

[@nattykadifa2856]

@@adetayow6213 yeah thats the only bone of contention i have with kevin, its an out of date, silly boomer attitude that young people should be out living in their own.

[@anthonywalker6904]

Natty Kadifa exactly. Many other cultures don’t even expect their children to live on their own until they’ve finished school or about to marry. She mentioned something about her culture so I don’t think she’s American. I could be wrong.

[@tonyberd8595]

I honestly think he heard that sociology degree & it was a wrap for him. 💀 she wasn’t shabby. She needs a dating coach & imagine consulting because she’s not looks challenged

[@kemetazubuike8958]

Glad he offers parity to men when assessing her situation because this is what we think.

[@Derryjones2]

They don't even qualify for anything they want.....wow

[@danielb.544]

At all! Shit is appalling

[@davidredpill8562]

You hate to see it 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@xMckingwill]

Well yeah she was taught/learned to believe that she deserves anything she wants from her parents and society.

[@xMckingwill]

@NGU Caesar Exactly, I didnt miss the point maybe I wasnt clear or didn't explain what I meant well. I mean to want things and receive those things without putting in work like you point out. They are taught to want things and expect to receive those or feel like they deserve those things without putting in the work to get there. That just existing is enough.

[@kidkid985]

Most women don’t qualify for the men they want,

[@alexanderruffin3363]

When that chick said Sirtification I lost it LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣.

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

Many sisters feel that the brothers are spending more time hurling harsh insults, complaints, and constantly comparing us to our other racial counterparts. I even have to admit some live chat and thread comments seem kind of cold; cruel even. However, rather than focus on the pain women feel from the criticisms, if many realize that when a large population of bm are cosigning on the exact same sentiments, they all can't be telling the same lie. There may be swirling communities where sisters feel more accepted, but they are few and far between. Hard truth is that most other races of men aren't checking for bw for the same reasons, and most bw aren't trying to date or marry out anyway. If they want to keep what brothers they can, some major behavioral and physical changes will have to be made. Time to stop the defensiveness and see things for what they are.

[@JohnDSmith-zz7yj]

Exactly. They’ve been coddled all their life & can’t even handle honest feedback. They’d rather argue like they know what men really want. Gotta eat the meat & spit out the bones

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

@Ted Tillman Point taken.

[@_Svndxy]

@@tiffanypearsall6219 I think feminism is poisoning a lot of black women's minds against their men. I am in the United Kingdom and I even see it here. It is frustrating because so many black men want to settle down with black women. In America most high earning black men are married to black women though. Black men under 40, who earn $100K and more, marry Black women about 70% of the time. However, Black men under 40 who earn $35K and less, marry Black women about 60% of the time. So all hope is not lost and it is not that bad yet. These stats are extrapolated from US Census Bureau data.

[@tiffanypearsall6219]

@@_Svndxy it's going to require a lot of mental deprogramming from generations of being pack mules, overly independent, abrasive, and self-neglect. A lot of women watching Kevin's channel are waking up and being receptive to these hard truths. Unfortunately, some lessons are being learned too late, but better late than never. It's just a matter of bw being able to learn this info en masse for major change to happen.

[@ricorogers9319]

@@tiffanypearsall6219 Yeah you make some good points..BW are having a hard time because reality hits them later in life..As men, were forced to face reality early in life...So we either make the proper adjustments, or pick our lanes and move accordingly....Women have a much harder time because for so long they're put on a pedestal and fed a fantasy...So later on in life, anything that doesn't feed the fantasy, is seen as negative

[@rodneydunn8196]

The Rebecca Lynn Pope video was 🔥🔥🔥.. She broke it down to that “T”... I think that would be a great show if the two of you could link up and touch on this subject. And this time, have her answer the questions from the females....

[@johndoe6572]

That video was a wake up call for all women

[@camillenia3886]

GOD bless you all. GOD loves you all. Have a blessed day everyone.

[@rodneydunn8196]

@Nick M I know bro. She fooled all of us. I saw her response video over the weekend and I was like this 😳🤦🏾‍♂️....

[@timsimmons9995]

Miss you KS, another great show.

[@moblack5883]

26 living at home, not paying rent , and no goals. Scary !!! Thinking someone wants to have 4 kids with her. I don’t understand it

[@ericklavingston1117]

She wasn’t that bad to me. She just need to have a solid plan for her next chapter. A lot of millennials are living at home.

[@ericklavingston1117]

Trav I think she might be making decent money. She need to stop acting like a man is going to pop out the sky without any effort to relocate or present herself. I have faith in lil mama

[@danielb.544]

Just completely out of touch with reality 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@JohnDSmith-zz7yj]

She made my head hurt because she sounded like she wasn’t taking it serious. Somebody will still wife her up. She knows it too

[@davidredpill8562]

Yeah she needs to sit down with herself & be honest about her goals. She could have what she wants if she works hard for it. She gotta get out the boondocks & learn to live for herself.

[@lolwtf8724]

Hey brother you killing these fantasies of BW and BM with facts/truths. The young lady in her 20s with ideas of not working and starting a home business and with wishes of rich or high value husband is unrealistic, especially when she don’t have nothing to offer or bring to table. And black folks make it by coupling and staying together in marriage. Ladies and gents this guy is telling you truth no matter how harsh it seems. In your 20s is when you grind and prepare or set your self up for life. And get or have prospects of husband.

[@jakimathews4115]

These ladies need to know. They're watching too many videos. Before Kevin Samuel recently died he spoke the facts. Sounds like she may have listened to Kevin but didn't absorb the key points. I miss Kevin.

[@akhenatoneast5787]

Kevin do you have shares in Red Bull, coz you need to the amount of advertising you do for them. Respect

[@lindaann768]

Are you a day walker lmao I can’t Kevin

[@kevinjohnson5736]

Classic

[@robertangel3068]

I love this channel where he focuses on helping his listeners versus just hating on other youtubers. I watch this every day and it's a blessing to me.

[@warrington5312]

Why has being a dutiful wife become so dishonorable?

[@LidiaWilliams]

When 90 percent of black America is raised without father figures

[@KingNez89]

I think we need to make it clear cut and dry...its not women that have unrealistic dating standards its BLACK women that have unrealistic dating standards....no other race of women as a whole call themselves boss chicks, or queens, or divas......before I started my own business, I worked at a hospital...I remember I was good friends with this white female doctor who made 6 figures a year and she was well of, she worked very long hours and she was a very good doctor....well her husband was a store manager at home depot and guess what, she told me she still cooked for him, still attended teacher parent meetings, and she said she cleaned her house.....everytime I saw her husband he seemed like a very cheerful, happy guy, he would make her food and bring it to her and she would always be like babe you didn't have too I know you work hard I was like wow....only in the black community will a black woman be a manager at 7 eleven making 38,000 a year and because she pays the rent for her one bedroom apartment and pays her own car note do they start dubbing themselves "queens" and "boss chicks" and start talking down on the men they are either married to or dating....its disgusting and I'm honestly so over it...

[@johneleazer5232]

hats off to you, best story ever, only our sister's not all but alot of them think that way. if they come up they automatically think they are better than others.

[@KingNez89]

@@johneleazer5232 on God my brother... salute man 🙏🏾💯

[@greatscott7003]

Can you pay my bills, can you my telephone bills, can you pay my automobile bills Women heard that song and thought to themselves, these are part of my standards now.

[@mannyg1581]

Once I was at 19 I left home and was living in a furnished basement dwelling for 3 years before got my own place...Now I’m saving to buy my own home in full at 31 years of age..The struggle taught me how to manage and cherish finances now that I’m in the middle of my career and a decent tax bracket

[@ebonymalone8371]

Ladies I talk with Kevin on the show my son is 15 yrs old and the black boys that come from upper middle class they do not want black teen girls why? My son said mom majority are to ghetto and the ones that are not you can count on 1 hand this bothers me. Ladies please raise your daughter with class because my son is being raised right by both parents and he is on track to be high value letters from brown university, rice university, Duke , Stanford university no ratchets for my son.

[@christianlara3684]

Women don’t care... they never do until they have their own son. Then their eyes open and they see all the hoeness...

[@ebonymalone8371]

Christian Lara Lol true

[@elijahpeace5133]

Amen sister

[@sobc2737]

Your son is definitely going to bring home a Becky, Lucia, Hiroko or a Priya. Will you be ok with that?

[@bluewave3417]

You pretty much said it. Your son is being raised by both you and his father. Compared to most Black kids that makes him different. My daughter is in middle school. She has talked to my wife and I about feeling disconnected from the other Black girls. And honestly, as a parent, I see exactly what your son sees. Most of the Black girls at her school are hood. And this is at a school in a "nice" neighborhood. The things I see with our Black kids, particularly the girls, blows my mind. I had to start talking to my daughter about sex in elementary school because of the things girls were saying at her school. Not the boys, the girls. There's so much more I could write. But you get the point.

[@funkspinna]

"Why not go into Science, Technology, Engineering or Math?" Because women, in general, do not naturally gravitate to the S.T.E.M fields like men do.

[@WrightwayFT]

The crazy thing is there are a crap load of Grant's for women to join the stem field

[@WrightwayFT]

@Lions Hunt her stem job would be helpful to any man lol

[@WrightwayFT]

@SeventhkeyOmega Revenge I work in the stem field and most of them do. The don't respect them but alot of them do. We got the strong independent types too. Most cant date men on their level because they want to be in charge. And the stem chicks look like the stem dudes lol

[@WrightwayFT]

@Lions Hunt your missing the point. If a women can be a team player her income would be a asset to the family unit as a whole.

[@funkspinna]

@@WrightwayFT Yop, and they can provide as many grants as they want, but they can't guarantee "equal outcome", only "equal opportunity" (and waste resources). Men and women are different. But what do we expect from a society (the Left) that believes the nonsense that "gender is a social construct" and has nothing to do with biology?

[@losdog911]

Love your channel. But to the young woman that wants to be a physical therapist, research it further. I am a parent of a 20 yr old daughter that pushed her away from that profession when she was starting high school because of the low pay. I live in Los Angeles and my daughter went to a top private high school and now private college. You now need a Doctorate in Physical Therapy to practice or else you'll just be an assistant. It's a 3yr program after your undergrad but you have to be accepted. Entry level in California for a DPT is 70k with the average salary being 100k. My daughter shadows a DPT that makes 130k so do your own research. I shot it down because I thought it was a worthless degree but it has changed over the last decade.

[@deanmartin1447]

This chick said Victorville,CA is a retirement community. 😂 she forgot to mention it's meth city

[@ronaldmorris496]

These women are EXACTLY why l got out of the Singles Ministry.🥺

[@bluewave3417]

Kevin's point at the very end is major. The State is not going to be able to take care of a population full of aging single people. The population of the young workers relative to older workers in this country is out of balance. Plus, there simply won't be the money there. Social Security is like a Ponzi scheme. The way other countries deal with this is simple: Family. The younger people in the family support the older ones. No spouse and no children sounds great when you are young, able bodied or have lots of money. But when you are older on limited income its a whole different story.

[@superflyboi1]

Medical student here. I just wanted to say that medicine is not the career of choice if all you care about is money. I'm sure Mr. Samuels knows that from working with younger doctors, I just don't want viewers thinking medicine is easy money. Also, is it too early for a 1 on 1 session or should I wait until I graduate?

[@slr-streetlegalrevenue899]

Plastic surgery is big bucks

[@kingmelanin7468]

I’d contact him for a preliminary plan for your career, social circle/skills, religious application. He’ll take you more seriously when you’re at work full time. I, personally, learn more from people’s mistakes. So, I watch for the business, social, dating, financial gaffes ie get educated, don’t be a loner, and make 3 times your wage.

[@sobc2737]

Being a father of two kids, I can easily tell which doctor is doing it just for the money. I avoid them like the plague.

[@gigif169]

As a physician....look for a spouse while in med school if you're a woman. If you're a man, you have time

[@camillenia3886]

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

[@DeaconChriss]

I drive for FedEx and I make 100k a year but I'm short so women see me as handicapped lol. I give up lol

[@DeaconChriss]

@Barnet not as a courier but as a cdl triples and doubles team driver.

[@jgun4125]

@Barnet It's not the dream they're selling you, most people are living check to check.

[@DeaconChriss]

@@jgun4125 right it's really hard in America unless you work all day

[@popa213]

Bruh how short are you. I’m 5’7 and this doesn’t stop anything. Women use shit test and most of them honestly know they can’t get what they think they can catch but she does shoot for the stars which is nothing wrong with that. Women give in faster because they know what level they are on.

[@DeaconChriss]

@@popa213 but fuckem lol

[@Aaron_R]

Engineering, Science, Medicine require aptitude in math and science. If you haven't mastered algebra, geometry, trigonometry you can't do those disciplines. I took Calculus (Differential, Integral, and Multivariable), You might have a question in Calculus I that requires everything you learned in HS Math. Then you might have a Kinematics Physics problem where you might need to know Calculus, Algebra, Geometry, Trigonometry in Physics I. Then in Physcis II you might have a problem that requires kinematics, calculus, algebra, trigonometry where you are working on an electric field or magnetic field. Converting Electrical Energy into Mechanical Energy (EG running a motor or fan). These subjects are cumulative and not for everyone and can be very difficult. Learning Math and Science is worth it though in my opinion even though I'm an accountant (which is also cumulative learning). I can wire a house, troubleshoot stuff, and have a better understanding of our surroundings.

[@clmk28]

@Aaroon R you are absolutely correct. A full understanding of math will benefit you in any field. I am glad you broke this down for everyone to see and fully understand.

[@clmk28]

@LegalTender1 trade schools first, then go to college

[@clmk28]

@Dan 240Z both. a man only becomes serious after 35. he has a lot of time. All he needs is guidance.

[@clmk28]

@Dan 240Z successful men are not born, they are mentored.

[@lolwtf8724]

LegalTender1 believe it or not but law enforcement is having Hugh problem with getting people to apply for jobs. And the pay has goin up in major cities due to the fact of stigma associated with job and public perception. most officers I KNOW make between 90 to 100 with little overtime, and it’s s guaranteed retirement pension. No education beyond hs diploma needed but those that do get paid extra.

[@bornin1968a]

"These lace fronts are from the devil...they're from hell!" Hilarious!!

[@pointeighteen2437]

RIP. It saddens me to even hear the songs in the beginning.

[@kinglumpkins8831]

Share link on KZbin to get his songs

[@Century2008]

What I heard tonight was a point of interest mentioned, women will have a circle among themselves and encourage one another to continue perpetrating an elusion of holding higher standards as to qualify to be with them. As if the clock will stop time for them to arrange their life just as they believe it to be. Many of these women were never told that Alice in Wonderland is fictional.

[@lseven9924]

The independent mindset has corrupted a lot of our most beautiful, young women

[@davidredpill8562]

Sad reality to witness. The older generations of women did a number on them.

[@trailtrs1]

Feminist have ruined this generation of women. The reality is that the earliest feminist were all lesbians trying to recruit others by making them unattractive to men.

[@sarinakarim2513]

Can you provide solely based on your salary

[@tammylee3681]

Sadly this is true.

[@camillenia3886]

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

[@BigShrimpin416]

That 26 year old girl in the retirement community was trying not to say she was living at home still at 26 with a college degree. Why do people do that? Don’t they have friends they can be roommates with for a few years if they can’t afford to pay rent on their own? Anything is better than being with your parents. I moved out at 21 and never went back. My parents wouldn’t let me back at any point even if I wanted to come back! 🤣

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

Stififacations??? Its STIPULATIONS or CERTIFICATIONS BABES!!!!!!! WOW THE DELUSION!!

[@Njprophet]

That was embarrassing..

[@Top10ClubPlus]

😂😂😂

[@ChildfreeLT]

I was rollin when she said that.. like WTH

[@cjcalmus3305]

I was in tears, B

[@alexanderruffin3363]

LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TheJamesearljr]

Her "Cer-tiffication" Kevin "Have you been to therapy?"

[@nikkireal6335]

I think Kevin was talking about speech therapy for this one! 😂

[@jimsmith8993]

Mr Samuels. I find your show to be the most informative thing out there. Even if alot of what is discussed isn't about me I love learning and I thank you for helping me sharpening my mind about things.

[@detroitg5881]

Dropping gems every time. I wish I could get everyone in the black community to watch every video.

[@YouTube_Handler]

“I have Cer - TIFcations.....” oh, boy.....TAPS, SALUTE 🎶

[@rosegold_7]

The whole back and forth about the pronunciation of certifications with that one caller had me weak 🤣🤣🤣

[@smitht1988]

Bruh i just made a comment about that and wondered if anyone else caught that 😂😂

[@jfluffydog2110]

Both are correct ways of pronouncing the word.

[@greatlife3871]

"26 and Living at your mammy house" Gold!

[@traciemartin1252]

I love it! We need to be APAP- as pretty as possible! Ain’t nothing wrong with that advice!

[@1TruthOfGod]

Them Energy Drinks Killed My Boy iThink

[@abayomi2636]

To me these conversations are too real for most people. I think they love the Disney World dream and rather continue living and hoping for that delusion instead of facing the harsh reality of their circumstances. They know what you are saying is true, but they rather reject it because their lies serve them so much better.

[@jamesmcmccray8255]

I live in Hemet which is 45 minutes from victorville and I laughed when he said “1 horse town” because that’s exactly what that city is and Hemet 😂😂😂😂😂

[@ChattinBoxingWYB]

Women Think They Can Get a Chad & Tyrone By Just Being A Woman. Also they Feel Entitled To a High Status Man. Us Men Realise If We Want To Be With a Beautiful Woman, We Have To Have Status & Wealth. It All Relates to Women Being Emotional & Idealistic and Men Being Logical & Realistic.

[@pyromaximus8890]

I wish I had this knowledge about women when I was in middle school!! I wouldn’t have made so many bad picks, but I should have known better. I’m a late bloomer so it might be to my advantage to stack up and finesse my skills and be successful. Women come later when their mentally stable enough to be in a relationship. I’ve literally done a 360 in the last 6yrs after going through a set back. Fully changed and on a new path to Aline myself with better men.

[@jermainehayes8328]

Yooo I've said the samething. Lol Bc I had the same thoughts waaaay young but didn't have the stats to bk it up if I were to get into a debate with someone..

[@1234erica56789]

Every race has their own “bottom-of-the-barrel” ppl. You cannot blame anyone but yourself if that is all you have interacted with. Blaming an entire race for the mistakes of a few. A lot of these comments are evidence of that very sentiment.

[@heyitsshay6058]

Well said.

[@Berlanciamyrtil]

✔

[@CatherineCherlene]

Fully agreed

[@cw5971]

The issue though in western countries is that their very similar contemporary cultures seem to actively and vigorously breed delusional, ne'er-do-well, bottom of the barrel people. That part isn't racial, it's cultural. The part that IS racial is, as they say, when AmeriKKKa has a cold, Black people have the flu. The worst of the worst shit tends to be concentrated and projected onto us. The sad part is that very few of us recognize it as the attack that it is and work together to act accordingly. Instead, we turn on one another with the infighting. That's the problem that has to be solved and that's what it seems Mr. Samuels is working to do.

[@IakonaWayne]

Victorville is significantly cheaper than the surrounding LA and San Diego / orange county area.

[@JohnDSmith-zz7yj]

Right. Can’t be mad that she moved back to a cheaper area to save. She sounded like she has a plan.

[@74lovebird74]

I think that the caller is going to be just fine. She just needs to move. She was pretty to me

[@davidredpill8562]

It is but there is nothing out there. She better get out while she can. That is nuts to me.

[@stephenscisney7814]

I moved to Victortville/Apple Valley Ca. 4 years ago. When I moved to California in 2014 I lived in Santa Clarita. Beautiful area but expensive. I bought a brand new house in Apple Valley for 255K. 3 bedrooms, 2 baths, 1600sqft. on 1/2 acre of land. There's plenty of things out here, unless you are looking for clubs, partying, etc. The new high speed rail will start in Apple Valley and go to Las Vegas. This will be completed in 2023. This will bring people from L.A. to the area to travel to Vegas. I've got my business plan ready to open up a business at or near the train station.

[@camillenia3886]

GOD loves you all. GOD bless you all. Have a blessed day everyone...

[@frankmatthews5308]

Its sad that he got criticized & slandered for telling the truth...

[@christinebeames712]

When you live in a tyrannical state, telling the truth becomes an act of treason

[@a-trainpdx9994]

The slaps get me every time.

[@mateodevon2967]

Everytime

[@keumejose2448]

I gotta say, the video pics lately have been killing me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bryant51w]

The sad part is that The Hard working,educated and Entrepreneur black man have to deal with women that have fathers that are hindering and keeping their daughters down by paying their bills and rent..but never raising them to be a good wife to a good husband.🤦🏿‍♂️🤦🏿‍♂️

[@bantumobanza676]

@2:04:26 on.. Kevin, what you've said here is what EVERY Black female should or should have heard from her mother, aunties and the assortment of females known instead for disseminating terrible advice and instruction! Most black women were actively sabotaged by the females in their lives and to be honest, I steer my young sons away from it. I don't want them stuck with a female who quietly resents them and works against them. I've seen far too many Black men leave this earth having never known the true love and support of a woman...and I don't want my sons among those ranks!🤨

[@bobbrofloski]

Sertifikations 😂😂😂 Man I can’t believe KS is really gone 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@winddragon63]

I miss the old studio. I miss the "disco lights"!

[@paulwells7718]

I believe he's on the road.

[@crushingzero]

It’ll be back. He’s not in his home state right now

[@Bebevegetto]

Underwater basket weaving. Hold on while I clean this shirt💀

[@howardhill3588]

😂😂😂😂

[@andredickerson5800]

I scrolled for a long time looking for this😂😂😂

[@lolitah8560]

This show is gold 💥

[@letgabeequaltrue9097]

Victorville caller needs to find a Sugar Daddy in that retirement community

[@MrBlueivory]

The only man who's pasted away that still have followers on youtube. RIP Kevin. Love your taste in music......

[@Mostopinionatedmanofalltime]

Back in the 1950s and even 60s and 70s you didn’t have to be a rich man to support a stay at home wife. How far our society has fallen.😢

[@eddieclay92]

Highly Intelligent brotha. Fair and open-minded. Brings facts to support all of his arguments. And keeps a calm and classy demeanor. Much respect man. 👍💪💯

[@lokeywilliams8822]

R.W.G. OG, YOU'VE TRULY HELPED SO MUCH, & SO MANY

[@ericg4568]

The lady who wants to work from home. Maybe you can babysit for your neighbors. You just need to be certified in CPR, have a reasonable clean home, and a space for the children, eat, play, and rest. However COVID may make it less viable these days, but after. In the mean while you can do the research.

[@cw5971]

A woman can make bank running a daycare from home, especially if she gets with a county program that pays for low-income children.

[@pshodean]

Kevin saluting is with the RIGHT HAND !!! Get with the program !!! LOL

[@bryantnewton6858]

🤣🤣 I was dead at that part. I’m like it’s the other hand KS lmaooooo

[@pshodean]

I suppose that could be an additional mocking act on Kevin's part. I remember one evening he was deciding which hand to use and threw up both. I wish I could remember for sure which he ended up with. I'm guessing the right....

[@bryantnewton6858]

pshodean that makes it even more hilarious. As a vet, I love the parody 🤣

[@ronaldmorris496]

There is a SERIOUS disconnect here. I couldn't do what he does. He has the PATIENTS of JOB! MAD PROPS!

[@eddiecruz9418]

The Knowledge gained every video is so powerful

[@devilstrider289]

R.I.P. and I'm still watching this content.

[@AllFather-TheStoicGod]

Just as how Kevin asks the male callers to dress appropriately when they call in, every commenter should, at the very least, be able to structure a sentence like an educated adult, complete with correct conjunction usage, punctuations and capitalization at the beginning of said sentence. Elucidate.

[@nisuperman]

I understand what you say and appreciate your concern regarding excellence, but you're setting the bar too high. I think very few would call in if it was a requirement, therefore less impact on the audience. Unless Mr. Samuels targets a restricted audience. Go figure!

[@jklpop4664]

@@nisuperman 🙄

[@tom11zz884]

This is a KZbin comment section, not Cambridge University...lol Everyone is entitled to make a typo here and there without having the Grammar Police call them out on it. While I agree with what you said, this is not necessarily the forum for that precision...

[@AllFather-TheStoicGod]

@@tom11zz884 A typo is understandable but typing like an 8 year like. this is a BIT much. when u gon get rite down to it with the they be doing i stead of Their an things like. Also not finishing a complete thought to it's end. (If that bar is too high then KS is really dredging the river deep. They could never get into Cambridge much less pass a community college entrance exam in the poorest town in the US. If a person wants better they should do better in all facets of 'they' life. 😂🤣 .) No wonder KS hangs up on the men calling in with t-shirts, ball caps or shirtless while laying in their bed. 👍🏽

[@AllFather-TheStoicGod]

@@nisuperman It's not excellence, it's just writing. Just. Writing. Geezuz on a Stick, there is no bar here. I see why Kevin hangs up on the guys calling in with t-shirts and ball caps on. 🤣💀💀

[@harlemathletics]

Peace Brethren. Welcome to Mecca. Appreciate your presence in the NYC. We need more real ones. Far too many weirdo transplants. Come through Marcus Garvey Park on the weekends. Building up the temple with knowledge, mathematics and calisthenics.

[@jimsmith8993]

When someone says you are a loser you can go 2 ways. Get mad and argue or dig down and fight to become a winner. I was a whole entire loser for many years. It felt really good for me to know I am no longer a loser. Don't kill the messenger people. Listen and improve.

[@andrewlocke3389]

Well done and well said.

[@bjornsteffensen8503]

After 40 years in healthcare in Scandinavia, I am also tired of women who seriously expect someone else to take care of their mistakes and shortcomings. In my experience, women expect that they themselves do not have to take as much responsibility for finances as their men. How many years should one need to listen to women and their expectations of others?

[@kennethmatthews2787]

I love your the music you play before your show actually starts. Where do you get your playlist or what genre of music is that? I'm going to start donating to your show because you give so invaluable advice. Most women don't realize the high expectations you have of men period, not just HENRYs. We definitely need to be on our grind as well, but we're more realistic and that's what you're trying to get the women to become--REALISTIC. Keep up the good work, my brother. Fan for life!