Do This If Someone Abuses You! - Mufti Menk

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People say: your hijab is going to close a lot of doors in your life.. Muslima say: yes especially the doors of hell..

[@ekkuuu]

It indeed opens a lots of Doors of goodness and It close the doors of evilness😊.How are you sister?

[@natasjanaimah3801]

Good one sister❤

[@jannatfirdous7458]

@@ekkuuu Alhamdlillah... what about you sister..😊

[@ekkuuu]

@@jannatfirdous7458 Alhamdhulillah I’m doing well.Whats yor name dear? Anyways,This is your sister Eshal from Maldives 🥰

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[@zainabmohamed930]

“ if anyone believes in Allah and the day of judgement , speak good or remain silent “

[@caramalice9949]

@@abbas45009 chill

[@zainabmohamed930]

BLACK_SPEED it’s okay sis keep asking for forgiveness however, Allah mentioned tha he does not forgive those who back bite tou have to physically go to them Nd ask for forgiveness yourself.

[@zainabmohamed930]

BLACK_SPEED igyyy 😩

[@MsUddin-bq8kv]

Absolutely true.. forgive them so Allah will you.. In sha Allah

[@zainabmohamed930]

Reshma ** yess inshallah

[@user-wl7lu5mj7c]

May Allah deal with all the abusers especially the criminals

[@rinila207]

For those who are suffering through domestic violence (physical, emotional, mental, financial, immigration, etc), the “smile and walk away” doesn’t apply to you. Someone hits you once, will most likely hit you again. Find a trusted person to confide in, find an organization that can help you, and report it to law enforcement of possible. Abuse is never okay.

[@maiasuga]

I was abused until the abuser left my family in November. I would get strangled, my hair pulled, punched, and it was so bad to the point were I was feeling depressed and thinking about self harm and suicide, and I'm only 15. I feel more relieved now that they aren't with us.

[@shabanadawood6156]

Do not allow anybody to abuse u in any way, physically or mentally. I'm glad to hear your abuser has left but u should lay charges with the police. IA Allah will help u to erase the whispering of shaytaan (thoughts of suicide) and keep u on the right path always.

[@achow7444]

Just move on hun and leave everything to Allah x

[@kxiii33]

Im very happy for you alhamdullilah, remember to have faith in allah

[@az9324]

May Allah SWT give you patience and strength .

[@wanfarahwanzainuddin7850]

I'm sorry to hear that you had to face violence at home where you should feel safe. The person who abused you is trash and I hope they feel your pain and helplessness and nightmares. May everything good come in your path. Allah decides on the bad things that happen in life but he also sends you the good. Use the free hotlines and get counselling or therapy if possible. Try mental heath apps and immerse yourself in a hobby or acquire a new skill. You deserve to feel happy and loved and secure in life.

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[@sawdasiddika3611]

Thank you thank you for giving the perfect explanation..

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Masha Allah

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Mashallah

[@bintulifestyle]

I really love the way you encourage we young people you help us to go close to Islam thanks

[@hadiahasan2589]

Somehow whatever I need to hear whatever advice I need whatever motivation I need shows up on your channel Subhan Allah

[@hamzakhan2707]

This is such a good reminder for all of us including myself. I love when Mufti Menk says that when we speak badly of others, the loss is always ours, and not those we speak about. I also love that he says; don't lose your great character and conduct because someone else lost theirs. SubhanAllah, how beautiful and true!

[@onaction9677]

Husband appreciates what all I do like house things, cooking behind my back only with his 2 close friend.. Never never said or even a little 1 sweet word to me neither to any of his family member.. Am married for 4yrs now alhamdullilah, having 1 son living in joint family. Totally 10 members. For all 10 members I cook, clean all cooking pots and vessels, sweeping moping, making food all 3 times and taking care of kids.. It's so hectic I get so tired and get severe leg pain or knee pain. But my husband no matter what he would not tell his own sister (married and divorced) to help me or atleast cut vegetables or atleast wash few plates.. Even after doing so many things he blames only me but doesn't utter single word from his mouth towards his own divorced sister or his elder brother wife.. My husband elder brother wife, she too doesn't do anything and since now she is pregnant I don't complain about her.. Since last 2 days my husband not talking to me just bcoz I made simple rice for dinner 2 days before. Since its lockdown, and I had severe leg pain I made simple but nobody had. They said saying they don't eat rice or wheat items at night but its complete wrong they have biryani, fried rice, tomato rice n all.. I got upset even though I had leg pain atleast I made simple rice but they all ordered from online. My husband also got angry on me on this. I got so upset. Since last 2 days he not taking to me and yesterday he had a huge fight with me. I don't know what to do. If it was my mistake then I would surely agree but no its not mine.. My husband always fights with me for his sister, I should not say 1 single word wrong about her though she doesn't work or do anything in home and infact he even knows his sister is not so good character. She is married and divorced her husband within a year. She is 27yr old my husband is 33 and me 28yr old. Father in law too supports her own daughter.. Mother in law expired. Though he doesn't allow her to speak bad about me or disrespect me.. If in any case she says anything wrong he gets angry on his sister. Its like he acts being diplomatic. I shouldn't saying wrong about her and she shouldn't say anything wrong about me and he doesn't take any stand too.. Earlier also my husband had huge fight with me and he had hit me so many many times. I cry and cry alot. Please help me what do I do

[@Scorpiotail]

Smiling at some who is hurting you is not going to fix the problem. Stand up for yourself. You don't have to sink to their level, but standing up to yourself is a must in this life. Smiling when you are unhappy in this situation does nothing for you. Peace and love🙏🏽

[@schoolofenlightenment8449]

Controlling anger is just not somebody's cup of tea.May Allah give us the strength to do the right thing when it becomes nearly impossible.

[@enjisilverstone-nolongerac7533]

Yeah it’s not always easy to calm down but may Allah help us 🥺

[@darshini4001]

Insha allah

[@DavidBalog-wx7xf]

Thank u so much, I was just bullied at work and after listening to this, the whole situation made me stronger and happier. Leaving in peace was my biggest priority.

[@taha4731]

How to face peer pressure... Most sins are made by peer pressure and lack of education.........❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️please like it so that hazrat read it..

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[@MrMathers1991]

Face it and say NO FEARLESSLY

[@AbdurRahman-jc7sm]

Stand firm on ur principles.. they will praise you later!

[@fahimaahmed3188]

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[@peacec47]

Always treat badness with kindness then stay silent as they will steal your peace leave them to God you have nothing to fear as noone can defeat the creator ✌️✌️✌️✌️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️☝️🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@MOTIVATIONALREMINDERS]

MashaAllah Sheikh Awesome Reminder

[@burqaavenger2440]

I am glad living in this time when we have people like MUFTI MENK May Allah grant the best of all to him :)

[@TheGangsta4eva]

I’m hoping in time I achieve half the wisdom he has! Such an honourable character he has mashallah

[@shagaffaridi1530]

O Allah! I seek refuge in You from poverty, deficiency and humiliation and I seek refuge in You that I wrong others or that I am wronged.

[@Abdulhanaankhan]

Pray for Kashmir ❤️

[@syeedabrar9653]

Always

[@bg5462]

Insha Allah .

[@bg5462]

May Allah have mercy our people struggling in Cashmere and make it easy for them Ameen 🤲🏻🌹❤️

[@hamda6469]

Yr sachi ma Ab un ki qismat ma hi ya tha We should pray for them They are really in very hard difficult and challenging time. May Allah protect them. Really I myself visited Kashmir 2 years ago it is super beautiful place. So calm people there. so peaceful environment But but but After every 2 minutes of drive there is army check post. Always there is a danger that anywhere anything anytime can happen. And trust me when I came back to home. I got news there is again LOC's violation and 2 Kashmiri people meet to Allah. So hard time for them. We should pray May Allah protect them. Say Ameen

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@@hamda6469 Ameen

[@afshaanafshiya2864]

Allah seriously sent u in my life to guid me each & everyday ....can't understand how do u know ,what I'm asking Allah to guid me for?!! JazakAllah for every single effort u made..Love from Indian occupied Kashmir

[@Magda_7396]

It's hard to ignore someone who can walk into my room whenever he wants to and do whatever he wants to to me. In the video you're talking about how to deal with strangers or people outside but what about the family members and people who live in one's house? How to ignore them? How to protect oneself?

[@znbxa]

Please get help 🙏🏽 call the police or anyone

[@fatimata.zahrah]

@@znbxa THIS!! you could go to your nearest fire station and they should shelter you and provide for you!! please do so, don’t let things get out of control. may Allah protect you ❤️

[@amelkatrin3464]

And bad neighbours who are taking away your sleep and you can't move anymore to find another place to live and there is only Allah to witness...

[@stariehearts2366]

Please do not be silent. This kind of abuse from male family members is despicable and you must get out of this house and call police. Live with cousins, friends or alone but no matter what you must not be silent

[@ajqueen305]

get financially stronger and leave i can understand you my family does the same but i am a women cant go anywhere but you can may Allah help you in this situation

[@zekramiah7727]

Asalamualakum My uncle is in intensive care and he is in ICU too and he won’t wake up in 48 hours everyone please dua for him because there is a deadly infection spreading in the throat.

[@sabrin2578]

I am so sorry for that may Allah bless him ameen inshallah

[@Livingindeception]

May Allah relieve him from this affliction.

[@zekramiah7727]

@@Livingindeception ameen

[@haroonusman6426]

In sha Allah.

[@beinganam1840]

Assalamualaikum How's he now?

[@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417]

InshaAllah, will try our best to be patient in all such circumstances. Such a beautiful reminder. May Allah reward you with goodness in this world and hereafter 😃

[@user-hh5iz1sx6q]

Ameen ya Allah

[@rabiawaseem7699]

Ameen sum ameen but plz, correct in sha Allah the way you have spelled changes the meaning

[@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417]

@@rabiawaseem7699 Sure, but what's the correct spelling? And how is it different from what I have written because I have seen many scholars using this meaning I guess? Please tell me, I'm still learning! And thank you for ur comment 😊

[@rabiawaseem7699]

@@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417 Aslamualiakum dear I was also corrected by a scholar I wrote in urdu he said don't as it changes the meaning separte the words in sha Allah now I have heard mufti menk he says we can write in English together so I have corrected myself jazakaAllah khair 😀

[@drmushtaqahmadmalik4417]

@@rabiawaseem7699 Wa'alaikumusalm... Okay, thank you! May Allah bless you, have a good day

[@haneulaisy127]

I swear this came when I needed it the most subhan Allah. Thank you dearly my beloved Sheikh

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Jizakallah and may Allah protect you and grant you Jannah

[@user-hh5iz1sx6q]

Ameen ya Allah

[@huzaifkirmani1156]

I needed this and you just sended this video when we need it. Thank you

[@carlosayala5955]

This is exactly what I needed to hear.thank you.

[@Hekokurd]

MashAllah I love this man from the bottom of my heart! May Allah bless him!

[@s.7948]

How about jealous family members who say things to upset you but not directly to you how to stop being very hurt by them. I stay away and do dua for them but it is hurtful as I'm not like them. May Allah swt guide us always ameen

[@kxiii33]

Ameen

[@Livingindeception]

Say alhamdulillah.. That's the sunnah. And feel sorry for them because they don't know what they are doing.. This shows that you are Mu'min. Because Allah tested the same on our beloved prophet SAW as well. I know how it feels. Remember it's going to be better. This world is not worth it anyway. Stay close to Allah.

[@duaa.v829]

Same...

[@sajan401]

Ignore them

[@pucacinno-gr8cu]

this is exactly what's happening to me as well. three years since you commented, i hope things are better for you now

[@pilotgreg5145]

astaghfaralah to the 2 people who disliked

[@rubieeg7901]

Maybe they're new to social media or perhaps theyre not wearing their thick eyeglasses..and thought they've pressed the thumbs up.. 😅 subhanallah..

[@hibafathimahiba5196]

May Allah protect us🤲✨

[@muhammadabdurrehman3190]

Jazakallah Khair Sheikh for sharing such a vital lesson that we all need to learn and adopt.

[@GMM30]

Thanks for educating us more about Islam. May Allah grant you Jannah. Keep educating us. Lots of love from India 💖💓💝

[@nooronkolisvlogusa361]

It's not that easy if you have to live with one of them for 24/7 for two decades.

[@stariehearts2366]

Tell me about it, especially when it's a parent but you can't move out bc parents won't allow it. F this life seriously

[@nooronkolisvlogusa361]

@@stariehearts2366 I do not live with my parents.

[@stariehearts2366]

@@nooronkolisvlogusa361 lucky lol

[@yellowmint5]

Yes,my husband,too,control freak n abuser

[@abdullahabdilaahi3872]

@@nooronkolisvlogusa361 Did you move out of your parents house?

[@fusionoftastyfood1404]

Subhanallah! Amazing explanation! Jazakallah Khair for this Mufti Menk!

[@Duskysky1]

Jazak Allah khairun may Allah bless you and reward you for your efforts Amen

[@unknown-ed8sc]

Thank you Mufti Menk for being here. You are truly a gift and blessing for us. Not many leaders are empathetic and listening.

[@khairoonishaosman5398]

JZKHALLAH KHAIR, SHUKR, this is exactly what I am going through at this very moment, the more the keep quiet, the more angry it makes them . blessed is your advice an YOU.AMEEN

[@marshmallow8278]

What a explanation thank you so much Allah bless you ❤

[@moafzal3278]

Allah please give us strength to follow right path when evil is trying to distract us of course evil never survive. Amin

[@famaratraore710]

May Allah bless you mufti menk

[@farhanaanis8382]

MASHA ALLAH great message. Definitely we should...... MAY ALLAH SWT protect us from abusives n guide us. Aameen.

[@syedmohamed4927]

Thanks Mufti Ismael Menk! You gave us the perfect advice in the perfect tym

[@abdulkaziisfaq4358]

Wow... amazing this man is just to be called the true leader. .. Sübhanallah!!

[@Khansa_Qureshi]

My mother always do the same...I want to be lyk her ....♥️

[@sseydi2659]

Masha'allah god bless us and all muslims in the world ❤❤🇸🇪🇸🇪

[@fashwath4497]

May Allah protect us ♥️

[@kofiadams6793]

Amine

[@user-hh5iz1sx6q]

Ameen ya Allah

[@aamnaahmed9534]

A man from nowhere messaged me on whatsapp and started abusing me and I simply said that "I forgive you for what are you saying and hope Allah gives you Hidayah" and Masha Allah he right away apologized and promised that he would never bother me again.❤️

[@happycamper4734]

Thats incredible!

[@Livingindeception]

Mashaallah 😍

[@haroonusman6426]

Ma sha Allah.

[@sirahmad]

mashallah❤

[@hamaaraislamictv5437]

MashAllah

[@flowerviolet3788]

It's TRUE, Subhanallah. Thank you so much brother. May Allah grand you a high Hasana Piddunya wa Fil-akhira 💖.

[@salmashahbal9306]

Mashallah...i have many dificult things in my life but when am listening shekh menk advice i smile again anda get comfidence...Allah akupe umri mrefu

[@alhayaShaireen]

Very much needed .. May Allah bless u n guide us all to the straight path

[@osman20086]

Thank you mufti menk, after watching ur video I have learned many things, my friend's always insults me and I always hated them but then I have learned that I shouldn't hate I should have patience. Looking forward to learn more from you

[@Livingindeception]

Just feel sorry for them.. They don't what they're doing.

[@Livingindeception]

Also, in your case I think it's easier to leave a friend unlike other relationships.

[@Glycaine]

Same, she was so manipulative it was unbearable and she said me wanting to kms wasn't a reason to apparently 'make me look in the argument.' Shes friends with my other friend tho, they were childhood friends but her friend stays with me still.. she's a very good Muslim but the other just hurts me so I don't go near her

[@captanjames6765]

Mufti Menk you're One of Great Gifts Allah Subhan wa tala Al Rahman Al Rahim Has Given Us. Masha Allah

[@hamidahali1234]

Ya Salam,may we all be guided Ameen.

[@R_F_R_F]

Salam Alaykum. Masha Allah, Tabarakkallah.. Post some personal issues in my family this video comes in my recommendation. I take this message that Allah swt conveyed to me through you and as you said yes just turn and smile. Ya rab please give me a guidance to run a good life.

[@zizi131]

I'm not Muslim but this is good advice for man who wish to be wise stable and happy thanks

[@amharahmed6112]

Jazakallahhuhiar needed in time may Almighty bless you mufti

[@humanpeace3254]

How well you guide us. Jazak Allah kher

[@muhammadabdurrehman3190]

May Allah Almighty bless you Sheikh.

[@sananaureen2309]

Masha Allah, Subhan allah beautiful piece of advice, Mufti your speech motivates us it inspire us to do good no matter how bad the things and situation turns to be.

[@malyar1061]

Awesome video! Ma Sha Allah!

[@MS-Hussain]

Jazakumullah Khair mufti sb

[@amnazafar7120]

Jazak Allah Khair ... A much needed lecture

[@suhana848]

thnks sir, 😊 everyone should understand .

[@nehajaved4762]

Best line.... Ignore them in a good way 😊👍🏻👌

[@bibialli5448]

May Allah reward you sheikh ❤️👍

[@rajalakshmiravinuthala2887]

Mashallah amazing lecture thank you so much brother for your guidance thank you so much brother

[@mafatakamara8643]

Thank you very much 🙏🙏 you are the best mufti ❤️❤️ always giving that best advice

[@JBMPro12345]

BarakAllah feekum mufti

[@anabhussein3816]

Thank you Sheikh for the reminder⭐

[@mouhamadoudiakite6573]

شكرا لك جزاك الله خيرا يا الشيح

[@rparwez6206]

JazakAllahu khair

[@SejutiSharminMethila]

Thank you speaking about this topic

[@hirunyousuf315]

Alhamdulillah may Allah guide us to take it easy to all negative effects 🤍🤍🤍

[@hudaadgudoo4474]

Thankyou sir may Allah bless u and all muslim ummah ameen🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲🤲

[@alishahid7299]

May Allah protect us❤️❤️

[@mouhamadoudiakite6573]

بارك الله فيك يا الشيح

[@arshiyakarbelkar8600]

Such a beautiful explaination ...Masha Allah....May Allah make us from those he loves...Aameen♥️

[@fahimaahmed3188]

Ameen ❤

[@tomoyatoko7262]

May Allah reward you mufti❤️

[@fahimaahmed3188]

Ameen ❤

[@maiwandwardak6604]

Jazakullah khairan

[@atifkhan3231]

Very nice Menk Sahib

[@nishakhan2721]

Jazakallah khair for this video 💞👍

[@shebontysdreambox174]

Thank you it gave me peace in my heart

[@MostafaMansoori]

Good beautiful answer shukur, I love you brother Mufti Menk for the sake of Allah, may Allah grant us ease and goodness, ameen.

[@Abdulhanaankhan]

Send some darud shareef to our prophet(PBUH) ✨❤️

[@antiextremism]

Allahumma salli alaa Muhammad wa alaa aalihi wa sahbihi wa sallam

[@hammersharkk8595]

what's a darud? dont invent new terms in Islam. It's complete.

[@Abdulhanaankhan]

@@hammersharkk8595 if you don’t know darood then you are not muslim bro

[@antiextremism]

@@hammersharkk8595 Lol. Durood in Urdu is salawat upon the Prophet sallallahu alaihi wa alihi wa sahbihi wa sallam! Allah taala is the creator not just of different creations but also languages my brother.

[@أَحْسَنُ.الْحَدِيْثْ]

@@Abdulhanaankhan if someone does not know about something we should teach them instead of judging them anyways only Allah know if we are muslim by heart or not 😇

[@corpuscallosum9355]

‏جزاك الله خيرا

[@yasminmarzan2863]

MASHALLAH BROTHER🤗🙏I WILL DO THAT TOO... IGNORING PEOPLE

[@isatousanyang5306]

JazzakAllahu Khairan Mufti Menk. The best way to deal with people like them is to pray for them sincerely to be successful and busy. Inshaa Allah if things work out for them they will forget about you or busy showing off whilst the Angels for you. All is all knowing most merciful

[@hamzanoori9045]

I love your speaking because you talking very clear

[@awilo8925]

Uncle mufti menk thank you so much for the advice

[@aliza8281]

Mashallah mashallah golden words brother......

[@iknows4693]

Jazakallah Khair

[@leotmz3614]

I love mufti menk speech...

[@farhadniaz732]

Hi Mufti Menk. Thanks for the informative video! 👍

[@salioumkromah6137]

Tnx for the motivation 🙌🏼

[@HyderabadiRasoi]

Jazak Allah for this great life lesson.. 😊 all of us come across such people and now we know what to do 😊initially it is very difficult to ignore such people but with time it becomes your habit 😊 and the best part is seeing such people frustrated because they cannot provoke you ☺️

[@user-hh5iz1sx6q]

Allah. cap letter please

[@loveallahwords2545]

Subhanallah thanks for your advice this is a good advice who are bullied

[@abduhassan2988]

Jazzakallah brother you are Good person

[@marialourdesespiritu2929]

Thank you.

[@cherotichhajira1774]

Surely mufti thank u