How to deal with Gossip, Backbiting & Slander - Mufti Menk

Gossiping can easily lead to backbiting and slander. How can we stop it?
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[@mr.t.1237]

Mashallah I'm 15 and you're what I aspire to be

[@nk-mb6rl]

We’ve run out of things to talk about so nowadays people form friendships and bond over backbiting and gossiping. This is why I don’t hang out with a lot of people anymore, 90% of people’s conversations is gossip. Better off being a loner than indulging in sin. My body and soul rejects this kind of negative behaviour towards each other. Backbiting and gossip literally hurts your mind and soul

[@sm3675]

Its very sad. But still, having fun and talking to people is never a sin, you do what is best for you

[@randomperson1714]

@@sm3675 having fun and talking to people isn’t a sin,but if it’s having fun is done by sinning then it is a sin.

[@newcityenzo]

I feel u brother InshaAllah for us to be around a better environment

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[@say-subhanAllah-alhamdhulillah]

in sha Allah, i know this was two years ago but i pray you have found good friends ❤️

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Sometimes..Mufti not only teaches me how to get through things or more about Islam..He sometimes teaches me English. 😂😅

[@Naludaking819]

😂

[@naush2964]

I agree with you 😂😂

[@kinzaali4762]

Ri8 I'm also very bad in English

[@afrojaakhi1503]

And I think it's the best way to improve our listening skill.

[@qaswidangitu5302]

Even me 😂😂

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May Allah safeguard us all.

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Ameen

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Aameen

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Ameen

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[@rayyan-razaasjada5358]

That's why I prepared to be alone than to have companion. I hate backfighting and gossiping others..

[@Maysoon3121]

This has nothing to do with being with someone , we need to learn how to keep our mouth closed.

[@saniyaansari2728]

@@Maysoon3121 we will In Sha Allah won't do it but what about listening

[@happyhuman111]

yep same to me. I used to hangout with my friends before but they always talk badly about people and I dont wanna hear it so I barely join their company and now they started gossiping me and talk badly about me 🤷. I couldnt accept it before and I end up dont want to be friends with them anymore but now I have learned from it. Thats how Allah saves you from people that isnt good for you. Alhamdulillah

[@rayyan-razaasjada5358]

@@happyhuman111 I feel you so much.😭

[@diyanahabdullah6535]

@@happyhuman111 indeed

[@farhiyomohamed6730]

Replace gossip with prayer Replace your most of the bad habits with prayer ameen inshallah

[@abcdef12345678910ify]

Backbiting: Talking truth behind someone unless its a praise Slander: speaking lie about someone behind them

[@saadusman4403]

May Allah forgive us .Ameen

[@deepanshunayar6823]

I just pray to Allah that anyone who spies on me or slanders me or oppresses me in any way have my sins taken upon their shoulders and their good deeds and blessings come to me Ameen

[@comedowntopapa1184]

Let them they will have fun now and even be prepared to be killed. Don't worry smile when alone, cry alone, remind yourself that even at death you might be alone and no one might care. But I guarantee you the angels will be at your funeral when no one is there.

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I'm not a Muslim but this guy is full of wisdom

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We should learn more about the Islam

[@jspens2561]

I am a white Italian-American Catholic man and I am absolutely enjoying and learning from these videos. Thank you brothers and sisters .

[@yakky6052]

May Allah bless you. Wisdom can come in many forms. Truth from any direction

[@Goodvibesz222]

It's really difficult to forgive the people that have tried and succeeded to tarnish my name behind my back. I still hope Allah swt lets me see justice in this situation. I want everyone who bandwagoned against me, along with the instigator; a jealous female 'friend' who exposed all my insecurities and secrets when I was already very weak and depressed, to get theirs. I want all of their friendships based on hating another person to turn against each other the way they did to me. If my niece didnt step in and showed me the way to Islam I wouldnt even have been here today. I'm glad I got through it, but I am still hurt and traumatized.

[@maponnjiemoun9956]

Definitely 15 minutes rule will start applying it...my Allah SWT protect our mouth all that

[@abdever2140]

May Allah keep us away from gossiping, backbiting and slander. Ameen

[@naimamohsin8354]

Ameen

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Ameen

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Your preeching lead's me to convert in lslam

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Before commenting on someone. Kindly know about them

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He is not underrated

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@seikclav mckiez he's not underrated know what are you writing

[@agoreric1598]

Please can you teach about how to handle those who gossip and slander around you. and how to control your emotions . thanks

[@nizcomorian1650]

It is duty of our friends to clear our name on our behalf in our absence

[@halamalchannel7959]

Bahr bin Marrar narrated that his grandfather Abu Bakrah said: "The Messenger of Allah passed by two graves, and he said: 'They are being punished but they are not being punished for anything major. One of them is being punished because of urine, and the other is being punished because of backbiting.'"

[@saadusman4403]

scaaaaaary. MayAllah forgive us man. Ameen. letssss stooooppp

[@Moonylovegood]

I have a friend group of four (including me) and we are very close, but one of my "friends" always backbites and gossips about me to my other friends and this video is rlly informative, may Allah give you all a place in jannah

[@S-xs4yb]

i am in your exact situation and wallahi it’s so difficult. I want to leave them but then I don’t know who I will be friends with if I am not friends with them. May Allah make it easy for us

[@tani.q]

I was the same and I left the friend group. They are still bothering me and backbiting.

[@rm3105]

YAH ALLAH control our tongues from slandering backbiting all that is harm that we regret later AMEEN

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It's 2 a.m in India ..But when I see mufti menk ..I click😄

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Abeer Khan How u handling India brother don’t let the pro modi goons get to u

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Muhammad Sopi Khan Oh yeah 😂😂😂😂😂 no wonder why they’re angry they know Islam is on the rise

[@mynameisa2823]

Inshallah I will try not to stay with my friend'house more than 15 minute Thanks mufti menk It will really help me from backbiting

[@vongammylouisetg4007]

I truly appreciate Mufti because eventhough I'm a catholic I get to learn and understand Islam and made me a better person. Thank you so much

[@itsuraiya]

Al-Hujurat 49:12 "O you who have believed, avoid much [negative] assumption. Indeed, some assumption is sin. And do not spy or backbite each other. Would one of you like to eat the flesh of his brother when dead? You would detest it. And fear Allah ; indeed, Allah is Accepting of repentance and Merciful." May Allah protect us from this.

[@yaseenjaan2396]

Ameen

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Ameen

[@ElifNurMuhammad]

May Allah guide us all and keep us all steadfast on his deen.

[@khaledhd2055]

I dont know why people are hitting dislike before watching the video 🙄

[@sabs4491]

Those are nothing but back bitting people themselves.

[@AishaRosalie]

Mashallah! Thank you for helping me find Islam :)

[@imthiyaz87]

This very very common thing among the people I am trying to stop inshallah

[@salmamohammed3267]

Allahu Akbar, nice topic. May Allah prevent from this acts and may He forgives us,May He guide us to the right path. Ameen

[@Maysoon3121]

May Allah SWT protect us from being a mounafiq ameen I used to get into arguments now I m walking away.

[@saadusman4403]

Ameen. munafiq nooooo that word sounds so ugh just no. May Allah reward u for ur efforts

[@faryalkhan6918]

JazakAllah I live in a working hostel,and there all the time we keep talking all that is prohibited, I will try my best from now on to save myself from this sin. May Allah help us all in saving from these sins which look trifle but actually are taking us away from jannah💔

[@norules7805]

This is really keeping me from making dawa, as I am very afraid of getting judge

[@samiyousuf9456]

I always talk about the people who are troubling me with others and don't know how to get rid of this,tried have patience but some time it's working and some time not

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Ustadh mufti menk may Allah increase your knowledge and keep you happy

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Mufti it is 2 am in India very ockward it is a little difficult but still can't miss your lecture

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Masha Allah... How Simple is our Deen💗

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Ya Allah guide us to the right path of life Ameen ya rabbi.🤲🤲🤲🕋🕋🕋

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Mufti Menk helped me through this by watching his vidoes really helps me alot to get through stuff that's hard or something like that, he really does have a awesome personality ✨ Thank you Mufti Menk! 💕

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[@joannparker1977]

Thank you. I’m so glad I came upon your channel! You provided a lot of insight to my situation. People can be so mean, so awful and spiteful. For zero apparent reason. Life is short; let us all go about our way in life and do the very best we can and be kind and decent to one another.

[@sabihaaltaf6742]

I’m so glad he has explained it well. This rumour Has confused ppl, now they can see it in its true light.

[@mishruna74]

Subhaanallah you have answered a very important question for me. Jazaakallah May Allah protect us and guide us. Ameen

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May Allah grant you paradise brother.. I am so thankful to God having sent you to us!

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May Allah protect us yarabi

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Mufti sab aapko allah jazaye khair de aap hame ache akhlaq sikhate hai, warna aise tho bahot log hai jo sirf sahi galat k behes me lage rehthe hai aur bas befuzool k rules zabardasti dusron pe thop hai. Thank you for guiding us.

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Jazakallah khair mufti menk for guiding us... May allah accept your hardwork n bless u wid his mercy.... Aameen

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Oh it definitely helped mufti Menk! Jazakallah khairan. This is exactly what I have been explaining to my friends. You clarified it towards the end of your lecture. Awesome subhanallah. Alhumdullilah rabil ala meen

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Maa shaa Allah...really beautiful speech...Jazak Allahu khairan hazrat

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MashaAllah so beautiful lecture. Thank you so much. May Allah bless you.

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This is much needed...Subhan'Allah May Allah protect everyone from all the evil happening. آمين يا رب العالمين

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MashaAllah...Allah Bless you♥️

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Barakallah fiqm wajazaaka Allah hairah, May Allah protect us all from such deeds

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May Allah bless you abundantly Mufti Inshallah

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Thanks, Mufti.... I wish people around me understand this. 😌

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This was recorded a year ago, but I need it today for a trialni am placed in. Allah has perfect timing.

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Mash Allah may Allah forgive us all

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Thank You Mufti Menk, im 10 years old and im using my grandmas phone to watch your videos. This really helped me alot, Thank You So Much Mufti Menk!

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Alhumdulillah I know Allah SWT has guided me towards your knowledge & teachings of Islam Mufti Saab.... I try to be quiet,calm & just let go others even though they hurt or make false accusations as Allah SWT is sufficient for the disposal of all affairs so making up my mind & heart to not hold any grudges for anyone. May Allah SWT make it easy to obey. Ameen

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Thank u for clarifying this alhumdulilla ❤❤❤

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conspicuous message and noble purpose I am not Muslim but I admired him because of his virtue.

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Thankyou this information is so relevant because this happens alot backbiting

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May allah protect us all Ameen

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Mashallah amazing lecture thank you so much brother for your guidance thank you so much brother

[@aminexx0146]

Can you do a video about how to get away from back biting especially when I am with my parents it's very hard to say to them this is back biting(namima) and walk away

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Just walk away bruv.

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Assalamualaikum mufti menk this story of 16 minutes is something ai Lear today thank you

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Mufti Sahab I Love You from Pakistan. ❤ May ALLAH swt allow us to meet in this world and In Sha Allah in Jannah. Aameen.

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Peace and Blessings🤲🏻🤲🏻

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Thank u mufti menk now everything make it clear to me.

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Thank you for the advice

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Assalamu alaikum.I like your logical speech.Subhan Allah.

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💯👌👌 Islam is a beautiful religion....MASHALLAH old is gold 😃 😍😍

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Thank you We love you mufti Love from uk

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Mashalla mufti big respect for you me and my friends learn a lot from you inshallah Allah help you allways respect for you man from Albania Kosovo

[@abubakar917]

When I was in college I just found out my friend gossip bad things behind my back and laughed. Not sure what happened we were good to each other and then she hated me for no reason.

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Praise to MuftiMenk ❤❤

[@muhtasimmonjur]

what an eye-opener!

[@gerrimiller3491]

Evil is stored up in the heart and speak to destroy. Be careful of these wicked spirits.

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Assalamulaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu, dear brothers & sisters, may Allah bless you with long and righteous life and make you obedient servant of him.

[@abelievereverrising283]

Just to clear this issue up, I've heard some people say that they can speak about whatever they want to their family members. This is a grave misunderstanding. This is the essence of backbiting, you cannot speak badly about someone under any circumstances (apart from the exceptions of seeking justice or genuine warning. Allah knows best

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May allah ( s.w ) grant you jannah ameeen yarabalhalamin

[@ladyj5156]

May Allah grant us understanding

[@gubraithian3132]

I’ve been in a very toxic gosipy environment for years so am going to watch this and hope it helps bcz my soul hurts i became depressed everyday and sad bcz of it i dont feel real and i hurt a lot

[@aaronwarner1949]

May allah grant jannah to whom ever watches this video ameen

[@nelsonnyaga1979]

May Allah blesss us all...whoever has that habits

[@vahidaR502]

Allah bless you 👍🏼❤️

[@landingkujabi7500]

Mashallah a must topic To be discussed

[@hanaharis6161]

Masha allah it was really helpful

[@iskandertime747]

Much wisdom here.

[@honeyrose8611]

Can only speak a bit bad if you: 1)seek justice or 2)respectfully warn others

[@cherinneh8856]

Yes but it’s strickly impossible to be limited by these two conditions, we speak bad absolutely everyday, that’s why I personally think that this sin is the worst cause it is a serious sin and it’s the EASIEST to fall into contrary to zina for example. Sorry for my broken English.

[@honeyrose8611]

Cherinne H yes I agree with you but we can only try our best. Also that’s why people who can control the tongue and have good manners are highly rewarded by Allah

[@salinagrandebuteraz5993]

@@cherinneh8856 yes.. I think this is the sins that we all don't even notice that we do it everyday and nauzubillah can also be the prime cause of us being thrown into hellfire... May Allah Forgive Us All

[@saadusman4403]

@@cherinneh8856 100% agree i was thinking of this

[@starstreamlvlupone4262]

Allah bless you all.

[@Aspen_1256]

My own family is gossiping about their extended family and their children including me ( pure backbiting )This really helped

[@syampradapm.v1666]

I am 34, years old. My nibours and relatives and their people continuously making gossiping and stopping by marriage from 12 years. Thank you for your talk....

[@sulaymanmuftibarrow8650]

The absolute truth!

[@peacec47]

Alhamdolayla Allah hears and sees everything 🙏 ☝☝☝☝☝☝most high most protector and provider