Do THIS to Show Interest WITHOUT Being NEEDY (How to FLIRT!) 😘

[@YourWingmam]

Watch next...but only if you want to! ;) xx 25 Signs She’s Interested: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mX-0pJZ9gN-fm80 3 Ts of Flirting: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ppyZnoino52MrZo what it means when she looks at you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/h3LHYYmumbCcfaM chasing vs pursuing video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/hWfComuMfKulqqc Flirting / Touching playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnONIdMCi60rCpPOlRDjDBW Friend zone playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs

[@stevendedeian7774]

as always, ya totally rock, Anna

[@stevendedeian7774]

Hey Anna, Merry Christmas from the White Mountains of Arizona

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you, Merry Christmas!

[@easygrs8745]

Hey you're the best and so sweet Merry Christmas toast from me to you🍷💍🍷🇺🇸

[@shawngray5445]

Have you ever been warshiped with

[@willbart1236]

There is an art to flirting. Confidence is absolutely paramount. Confidence means the ability to shrug off rejection with grace and character. Subtlety and nuance will get your way further than some cheesy line. Heighten your awareness and perfect your craft. Just go talk to her. Say what comes to your mind. That’s how this works. Get creative. What could you possibly say to a woman that is flattering, without objectifying her? Lots of things. That is your goal. It is very effective. Confidence, awareness, subtlety and nuance, creativeness. is really that simple.

[@kevlartwinky]

Being ambivert and often a bit low-key this speaks to me

[@prolificgamesmanship]

Note, there is no such thing as rejection, she is either feeling you or not, and anyway she answers should not affect you one iota. Only deal with the females who show genuine interest back, but if not, smile and say it was nice meeting you, and have a great day. There are many reasons she could say no but only one reason she would say yes. Just be cordial, respectful, and debonair.

[@YourWingmam]

Wise words right here, thank you!!

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

You looking at me!!😀😀😀😀

[@YourWingmam]

🙂

[@robcoghan5204]

Prim is a good look and great contrast to the heat, the flirting is working thanks for the parameters.

[@davywilliams8048]

You have so many different looks... I like this look the best.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@Sams911]

I do this every time I cold approach a woman... I walk up confidently with a smile and say "Hi, I saw you and wanted to meet you.. my name is XXX"... if she responds with her name, I continue, if not.. I politely smile and say have a nice day.

[@YourWingmam]

Perfect! Confident with an easy gauge to her level of potential interest. Thanks for sharing!

[@lenardosbornsjustice5948]

OMG!!! You’re hilarious. “Ope the sun is hitting my face” OMG! I definitely like your mind set, it’s a mind set that I’m gathering from you. Really good video, you’ve come a long way with this thing here. I think we all have.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much! And glad you got a chuckle ;) I love the sun but have sensitive eyes :(

[@swordofsteel]

When I watch you videos, I am trembling in fear, from just the thought of trying to do this.

[@YourWingmam]

Good! That means there's room to get out of your comfort zone. However, don't start with the most brazen stuff, start small and work up from there. Total beginner suggestion: start smiling at old people or saying hi to people who aren't intimidating at all. You got this!

[@actmyage2149]

Wonderful job on the topic. Brought up a number of memories of me as a young man. I was quite shy back then; I could have used this information (but I'm not sure I would have had the gumption back then to execute). Was initially surprised about you doing two videos in the same day (based on the same outfit and cat position as last week), but it makes sense for a part 2, especially over the holidays like this. I hope your health has rebounded and that you have fun plans for Christmas ahead of you. Praying for you always, -- Russ P PS/It's just Tyson and moi today, as PJ went home with his mother. It's so quiet here -- and that feels so weird! Mr. T sends a loving snore. Wishing you a Merry Christmas, lovely lady!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching! I had a few after thoughts and didn't want the other video to run even longer. My health is on the mend (again), thank you! Planning a low key Christmas weekend with friends and family. Hope you'll be spending it with loved ones, too! Scratch for Mr. T! God bless, Russ :))

[@afghanyeti]

Merry Christmas Anna🎄🇺🇸

[@YourWingmam]

And yes, Merry Christmas!!

[@romanmaksimov2024]

Always solid advice. I'm thankful for finding your channel!

[@YourWingmam]

Happy to help!

[@alecczieusRR]

Brilliant stuff, I think I may have already told you that you’re Genius!!!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@charles0207]

At a dance I noticed an older man come over to ask a younger woman to dance. She declined and giggled to her friends. He bashfully went back to where he was sitting. This reminded me of a tip from the internet. This was that in this scenario to have a second girl in view, so that you could casually walk along to her if declined by the first.

[@YourWingmam]

I feel for guys.. You really are expected to take all the early risks! Also, good advice!

[@machtnichtsseimann]

Then IF the second girl rejects you as well? Option 3: Exit the premises. ;-)

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

A back up plan huh? Plan B? Makes sense to me.

[@georgeorwell2233]

14:11 😄. I'm new on youtube I don't have the right footing yet. But thank you for the helpful content. God bless!

[@YourWingmam]

The right footing starts with the first step and you're here so that counts! God bless!

[@robert4you]

What's the difference between flirting and sexual harassment? Whether or not the woman finds the man attractive...

[@YourWingmam]

Which is why you've got to watch for signs of interest. Notice you didn't say (correctly) the man is (subjectively) attractive. Women are attracted to more than looks. :)

[@robert4you]

@@YourWingmam 👍 You are good, Anna... sharp as a tack.

[@davidz2562]

@@YourWingmam What else - other than wealth & high status - are many women quickly attracted to in a man?

[@damanybrown5036]

Anna just to inform you that you should not mention to a woman about being "onna rag"

[@johngonzalez4298]

Happy Holidays spicy señorita Anna! Sending love ❤ from Miami, Florida, USA 🇺🇸

[@YourWingmam]

Merry Holidays and Happy Christmas, John in the great State of Florida! 💞

[@thomasoleary970]

Flirting with no purpose. Just because I can. Not needy, but most girls like to laugh. Sense of humor with safety is a door opener. I choose girls that are Safe. Happy New Year.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@Eden-is-Africa]

As usual valuable points Anna.👍🏾

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you 🙂

[@RizzectThaTrizzec]

WM, now that's something women need to learn! Speaking of the impact of rejection on the ego, have you done a show on that? That's a deep topic, I know.

[@YourWingmam]

Yes, you'll find a few gems in my Rejection playlist! kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dluZk76lDMoXUGjffF4byEC

[@xmassi1]

C U next Tuesday was very funny thanks. Have a nice week.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you got a chuckle! Enjoy your week and Merry Holidays!

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

Have a Great Holiday Season. And thank for your GREAT VIDEOS. You are my Wingmam. SWEET.

[@YourWingmam]

You're so welcome and Merry Christmas! Thanks for being here!

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

@@YourWingmam Ana, Its my Pleasure.

[@64maxpower]

Anna does the best faces in her thumbnails to match the topic

[@steveTGO]

If you see a Woman that interests you, just approach her and say something funny (Non-sexual), you have absolutely NOTHING to lose ..... you never had her in the first place. Treat it just like you're meeting someone who you know would never reject you, if you don't value yourself NOBODY else ever will either!!!

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@therealriverryan]

This right here. Definitely will keep this mind when I start cold approaching women out at the coffee shop, park, or at mall. Dating is a lot like job searching, yeah you're going to be rejected but then it doesn't really matter because after a few rejections, you get immune to the no's and those lead to yes so you have to keep taking your shots until you succeed. Just don't give up.

[@banksofbarcelona3893]

Great as always and nice shirt

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much!

[@banksofbarcelona3893]

@@YourWingmam you're welcome 😊

[@allanmckenzie5961]

Just want to wish you a Merry Christmas Anna, and best wishes from Brisbane Australia :-)

[@YourWingmam]

Merry Christmas and thanks for showing up from way over there! :)

[@davidkral118]

Anna, wishing you Happy Holiday!

[@YourWingmam]

Happy holidays back to you!!

[@charlesgreen8703]

“I want you to be nice…until it’s time,to not be nice”-Dalton

[@YourWingmam]

Precisely. lol

[@charlesgreen8703]

@@YourWingmam P.S.ROAD HOUSE Rulz…R.I.P. Patrick Swayze

[@jamesa.7604]

Hi Anna, You give really awesome effective advice. Thanks for the videos. I saw the video you mentioned near the end. Don't understand why you would feel embarrassed by it. It was intelligent, solid and you looked Very Beautiful in it. What did I miss? Merry Christmas To You!

[@YourWingmam]

Oh thank you! That makes me feel better. It was just an awkward video to do because of the visual examples... guess my old shy nature got the best of me. But I did it anyway, so there you go. Get out of your comfort zone lol Merry Christmas!! :)

[@freedomday70]

Hi Anna, good video and especially good recommendations for ladies ;) 🌹

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you enjoyed it, John! :))

[@freedomday70]

@@YourWingmam ...aa ok , I'm John, but only for you.

[@freedomday70]

oh, i forgot the flower ...here it is 🌹

[@abdelmjidossor3561]

Great vdo tnx very very much Anna

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you liked it!

[@guntertorfs6486]

Again a very detailed ,information packed video. I am always a bit hesitant with the touching part. So you are hindered by sunlight ,are you ? Didn't realize you were a vampire dating coach ! Well you can "bite" (wink,wink) me any day ( night ,i guess ) Miss "Elvira" Jorgensen !

[@YourWingmam]

The safest, least threatening place to touch her is her elbow. Best if used to get her to focus her attention when she's not looking directly at you. Example: she's collected her coffee and you touch her elbow to get her attention to nod or point toward a table that's free (whether you're joining her or not). ~ Elvira J ;)

[@chefblanc]

merry holidays wingLady

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much, you, too! Hope you have a wonderful Christmas (or whatever you celebrate)!

[@cobra5087]

Thank you so much. Just a side note my standard approach to a stranger was “love you”. Lol

[@YourWingmam]

Well, that is definitely a bold opener! lol

[@charlesmarotta8410]

HAPPY HOLIDAY.S TO YOU ANNA. AWESOME TOPIC I.M THRILLED.

[@YourWingmam]

Merry Christmas (or whatever you celebrate)! Hope you enjoy it! :)

[@charlesmarotta8410]

@@YourWingmam THANK YOU.👍

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

Am I really the first? Caught everyone else sleeping, I guess. I swear that cat just winked at me. Have a wonderful Christmas season.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for being here and Merry Christmas! Cat wink: check lol

[@Phaedrus-th7bi]

@@YourWingmam Where the hell is everyone? No other comments?

[@itscrazyal]

Have a Merry Christmas Anna

[@YourWingmam]

*Merry Christmas* to you, as well!

[@brookvalley907]

Okay, okay, okay. (Not be be confused with "Alright, alright, alright.") This is perhaps the best video on approach that I have ever seen. And I have seen a lot. Excellent info and excellent personal presentation. Also, excellent graphics. Graphics can take the place of the "for example" stories to refresh the audience between the presentation of theory. (The words are only for the people who do not understand the pictures.) The graphics were very good a achieving that purpose. You might consider using the sunlight through the shades effect in the future. It is used a lot in Asian movies to create realism, interest and tension. I didn't think that you could get any better, because you were already one of the best, but you proved me wrong. I hate it when that happens.

[@YourWingmam]

Wow, thank you sooo much! Wonderful compliment and feedback, much appreciated! :)

[@bradhungus1572]

Woo!... Is that a touch tone phone!?

[@YourWingmam]

There's a phone? lol

[@English_Dawn]

Happy Christmas and Compliments of the Season. 🙂

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much and Merry Christmas to you! :)

[@joey86bu1]

Hi Stuffy!

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🖐

[@whatsmyname.7768]

Just look at all of them with a picture in mind of when they hit the wall!

[@YourWingmam]

Actually, that's great advice! Will keep you from feeling like they're better than you. Kind of fits with my #3 ;) (edit: oh wait, #3 might be in an upcoming video lol)

[@whatsmyname.7768]

@@YourWingmam Yeah. It was meant as serious advice with a tinge of humor. Wish I could have given it to myself when I was younger. At my mid age now, I see the karma in the fact that most men and women both age into looking more masculine. And that curve for women often follows their loss in fertility. I don't want to get into great depths, but I was born with the genetic lottery. Although on one side of my divorce parents I was given lots of freedom to grow and the other I was made to feel less than! Your comment actually is very fitting! I don't treat others as I am better than them because I am human with faults. I do however know my worth and unfortunately that has caused me to quit looking for a unicorn for my situation!

[@waynesmith4861]

Thanks Anna!

[@YourWingmam]

You're welcome, thank you for watching!

[@Johnnyboybravo]

If I didn't use the three T's on the third date and didn't even have a decent conversation after an hour of playing mini golf and arcades, but asked if I could come over her place with a negative reaction of "what??? Nooo" how can I recover if she told me she isn't in a right headspace for a romantic relationship after two weeks of being ghostrf from the date. Both second and third night she said she was "tired" to end the night. We both know we have so much in common and interests withing those two weeks I messaged her 8 times and apologized. It's been 2 months now and I sent her like 20 texts with no replies. She 28, me 31.

[@benzlover55]

Bro it's over forget it, she's not into you. You have to move on.

[@YourWingmam]

Oooh, I feel for you! :( The good news: there is much you can do to improve your future game (effectiveness with getting the girl you want). The less good news: there's a low likelihood it will happen with this girl. :( I've got a video coming up on 3 things women instantly notice about you that touches on apologizing and you *need* to see it. In the meantime, watch all the videos in my Get Her Back playlist, especially Chasing vs Pursuing. Big hug! kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dmD-owPvpw7bxSIwz5gZbmc

[@Johnnyboybravo]

@@YourWingmam what could I say to her? Like a text to make her consider? Aka If I could go back without having my long-covid symptoms, (fatigued/brain fog) I would have.... I was still being optimistic during the date and staying focused playing games, but didn't stop to focus on her. I only asked three questions during our 3rd date that went no where... she sighed as if I wasn't putting effort. She's the most prettiest and sweetest girl, to my eyes, I ever seen.

[@samuelrobinson9012]

@@Johnnyboybravo Been there, got the T shirt.!! It takes two to roll, and if she is difficult, IMO... you're the winner and better away. I spent 5 years with a difficult woman, narcissist nature. Broken up 2 years now, I'm still trying to recover.

[@mrparlanejxtra]

Anna, I am shocked by your 'next Tuesday' comment. Naughty naughty. Ladies are not supposed to know that expression or use that word. Interesting that author Phillip Roth observed that every woman has one. Merry Christmas and thanks for the videos. You are keeping it real for the Homies. Love from Jim in NZ.

[@YourWingmam]

Ha! Caught, guilty as charged. Merry Christmas and thanks for watching from way over there!

[@chirohorit2702]

Hey Anna, u look very beautiful here over.

[@YourWingmam]

Oh, thank you. I appreciate that ❤

[@edwardwilliams6787]

Your a great choice to watch who keeps it reel

[@YourWingmam]

I appreciate that, thank you so much!

[@edwardwilliams6787]

Your welcome friend ☺️

[@edwardwilliams6787]

My wife leaves me, I was lost for a minute,and I feel like she hates me,like so many people making off my lifestyle, and they don't want to see us together 💔 ,when you let people in they say I happy for you,buy are they, to find a soul mate and try to cut it from you is like having a knife in the heart,why want my wife come to me?? And is it time for me to go the world's way were we say divorce is ok people do it all the time,thanks I'm with out job and she's all over the road why I set her with nothing and no help love thomas

[@SaidMahmoud]

Thanks for the detailed accurate information Anna I admire that your beautifulness is the least thing about you . You are very smart, imotionally intelligent , energetic personality with so much loving and caring energy for the both genders in all ages ! As if you are a mother of everyone here 😂. Personally me I am not a fan of admitting but your efforts deserves to valued. Merry Christmas 🌲 What will be the next video about?🤔

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much, I'm so glad to be a momma, aunt or wise sister to all! Next video is a shortie on PUAs and loneliness ;)

[@YourWingmam]

p.s. Merry Christmas!!

[@SaidMahmoud]

@@YourWingmam Oh , that's great topic but deserve really long video because PUA Community have problems with keeping women for LONG term relationship , they can attract but can't keep . and my problem is a problem for PUA until they realise that in their 50 ! they do have problems but they don't admit that I always fall for the wrong ladies . stupid me, 😅 and that's my real problem in addition to that I used to be so selective.

[@johncunningham5435]

I must admit I love flirting; key points, comfortable with yourself, self assured, six sense, catch her attention with eye contact and body language, and smile that makes your face light up.

[@YourWingmam]

When we get past our need to be perfect it's just another way of having fun. Key points: check!

[@MiltonMikeCarter]

4:04 there's that giggle again.

[@Johnnyboybravo]

Why would my date say she's tired on second date and third date when she works nightshift and tells me she's free all night? She called it quits after 3rd date. Both dates were gaming activity (2nd date arcades,bowling and 3rd date mini golf and arcadds) we didn't flirt, do much convi or use the three t's, but why was she tired when having fun? Also, why when I asked on the third date how many siblings she has, she gave me a sigh... and said yah a sister... I asked her about music and she sajd "anything" ....

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

Don’t take this wrong way dude but in simplest terms she wouldn’t having fun hanging out with you not a problem they’ll go get another one.

[@Johnnyboybravo]

@@Americanpatriot-zo2tk but why go in three dates and she paid for it?

[@Americanpatriot-zo2tk]

@@Johnnyboybravo Probably she didn’t have anything else to do or like you said you’re paying for the day she did you a big favor dude. You don’t want to be around girls like her I think the stuff you took her she was very nice also.

[@easygrs8745]

Thank you Anna 🌹I hope you have a wonderful Christmas what does Fortune become🇺🇸😇🇺🇸🙏

[@YourWingmam]

Merry Christmas and I hope 2022 is the best ever for you!

[@easygrs8745]

@@YourWingmam like merry Christmas and I hope 2022 is the best ever for you wish that I can give you a hug and tell you thank you in person🎁🐈🐾🎄🙏

[@easygrs8745]

@@YourWingmam you are one-of-a-kind and you deserve lovely gifts for Christmas a beautiful diamond bracelet beautiful diamond earrings beautiful diamond ring and love that you'll never forget thank you for all your beautiful videos happy holidays🌹🐈🐾🙏🇺🇸

[@scottsullivan234]

What if she is with her mom? Which so often happens. I don't want to accidentally flirt with the mom.

[@YourWingmam]

Depending on the situation that could be funny but you'd have to have balls of steel to pull that one off. lol More than likely she'll know you mean her ;)

[@trillmix0652]

I'm the 300th comment on this video! Lol

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙌

[@nobodysperfect06]

The way it looks like or seems like, building or sparking, igniting the attraction is the man's role, or it's only men who need to know or learn how to attract women, not the other way around, women are attractive to men by default

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@cre8gnr8nrg]

I can be pretty goofy and when I’m on I’m not even flirting but entertaining all around. Lol to ranting and not on the rag lol

[@YourWingmam]

Entertaining is such a close step to flirting, it can almost be the same thing until you want to ramp up a bit! :) Glad you got a chuckle!

[@larryrubin5150]

Your a blessing

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for watching! :)

[@larryrubin5150]

@@YourWingmam your welcome MERRY CHRISTMAS

[@sillycaveman7832]

You have such a lovely voice with which you articulate these words of wisdom. Kudos.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much, wonderful compliments! :)

[@billmurray7473]

Sounds almost like De Niro in TAXI DRIVER. "Are You Looking At Me?"

[@YourWingmam]

Mimicking well-known movies is also a great way to make flirting fun. "I'll be back..." ;)

[@hern4384]

Nice video beautiful lady ✌️😊

[@YourWingmam]

Glad you appreciate it!

[@cecilmilam3336]

I wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year ! Killer Bee

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you and Merry Christmas to you, too!

[@johnmelton3676]

I can assure you if shes the one, no others will be in the way,

[@YourWingmam]

:))

[@wildernessofzin9543]

Best Wingman (Wo’man) EVER !

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you! You rock! :)

[@davidz2562]

Why do many women want uncertainty? Doesn't that make them feel uneasy?

[@YourWingmam]

Great question! It's about you being *her* choice and you having standards. If you like her right off the bat, she doesn't have to work for anything and she subconsciously wonders why you're not vetting her. :)

[@davidz2562]

@@YourWingmam Women want men who play hard to get?

[@alalmalal]

@@davidz2562 this part is just unfair

[@nigelmitchell5726]

Sometimes I think you would make a good politition 🤣

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@billmurray7473]

Wingmam, I have noticed in my work(Security) that more people today like to hook up and date in Museums And Libraries. What's your take on That?

[@YourWingmam]

Meeting there or going for a date there would be good, mutual interest. Um, hooking up as in fooling around?? lol Well, don't get caught!

[@billmurray7473]

@@YourWingmam Guess I shouldn't mention what I caught some couples trying to do near closing time in the art galleries. Ever see the portrait of "Cupid And Psyche"? There's your clue.

[@joem.8277]

Dear Anna: I've gotta say, I don't believe you. I think you are wearing that outfit again because I said I like it. You even went as far as hiding the cat in the very same place. Well, singles party was a modest success. I got an invite for lunch and an invite to a party from a couple of female attendees. Really enjoyed the video. I must say I wasted a fair share of opportunities with stupid pick up lines and asking women if I could buy them a drink. I am thankful I am way past that. Well Anna, I hope you have an amazing Christmas. I hope you get every gift you wanted and you get to spend time with your loved ones. Well, even though you wore the same outfit for me again, you once again looked very, very, very pretty. You rock Ana. Hug and a peck on each, well, look at that; we are under the mistletoe. Tradition is tradition. Merry Christmas Gorgeous!!!

[@YourWingmam]

Two invites? I'd say that was a success! High five! And yes, pick up lines are only well received if made so obvious as to be intentionally cheesy. May your Christmas be filled with loved ones and great cheer! :)

[@brookvalley907]

So, your the one responsible for that dress. I thought that she was going to announce that she was going into a nunnery.

[@billmeyer6604]

RBG.

[@tesudarshan1750]

Hey there💖💖💋💋

[@YourWingmam]

Hello, thanks for watching and commenting!

[@afghanyeti]

But I always fall into the - no interest group- kitty on the bar🙂

[@YourWingmam]

Charisma goes a long way, you may want to practice stepping up your confidence.. bold moves get noticed when they come from a place of confidence and charisma. Mega Confidence playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dnXVCTKU7yEavRdpEfMKK52

[@georgeorwell2233]

9:26 Ima walk over there just like Vince MacMahon😄

[@YourWingmam]

Doooo it!

[@x-man5056]

Invite her over? Not me. I get up and go to her. Why? Because I just caught her eye, she smiled when I caught her glance at me. If you invite her over, you are giving her easy out to change her mind, don't do that. People will talk themselves out of free gold if you let them. She may be to shy to just come over, she may think (accurately IMO), that if you want to talk to her, you should go to her (if she's all that, there are guys coming to her, that Sigma hooey ain't gonna to fly). The exception would be if she was in a less desirable spot (like next to restrooms or busy kitchen door maybe), and where you are is more deluxe. Also going to her shows confidence verses arrogance. Cave man act may not play well on a first meet. I wouldn't risk loosing the spark over her wondering should I or shouldn't I. Regardless, if you are checking her out, she glances at you, you maintain the eye contact (critical, DO NOT TURN AWAY), you lay your best wink and wry smile on her and she smiles at you, either right then, or she may look away, then look back and smile...you should be at her table (or near her, outside arms length) before she has much time to think about about the exchange. Of course, she may shine your wink on, so you go find someone else to wink at. Keep it "stupidly simple". The wink: I practiced it. It has to be fast and natural or it won't work. I stood in front of a mirror for a few minutes everyday (mid-20's) for a month or so and practiced to take to make the wink and smile to not only look natural/instinctual but can be employed in half a heartbeat. This is even more important now that we live in face diaper world where all you are going to get is the wink, no smile possibly (That's not in stone but it's difficult). The wink and the furtive grin is a golden tool if you can do it with panache. It is by far the best way for a man or even a woman to send a very fast, modestly sexual tension inducing, non vocal msg across the room, "Hey Hello". It a coffee shop, party, lecture, dance club, etc. In a place like coffee shop you can get her attention without embarrassment for her. That's important no matter how you make your approach. Practicing winking at myself made a notable difference. I if you are a young guy in high school, wink at every pretty girl you pass in the hall...GOLD. I know it sounds lame, but an awkward wink just won't have the same juice, a missed wink is the same as no wink at all, and if you have to think about it...too late. It does have power. But it must be nearly automatic. Guy's if you doubt this...watch this video again and count Anna's furtive winks or blinks. Stirring. Get it right.

[@YourWingmam]

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[@cc2596]

If you stare at a female to get her attention, try not to drool. Also as the relationship "progresses", do not take restraining orders personally. It could be she just needs space. As Scarlett O'Hara aptly said...."there's always tomorrow".

[@YourWingmam]

Humour: check!

[@michaelchambers7691]

Flirting is needy and wanting. Good healthy relationships comes from growing unconditional friendship. Flirting is a 'I want or need attention' kind of play. Avoid these people and also avoid doing what they do. They are NOT long-term relationship material.

[@YourWingmam]

Flirting can add spice and fun to a relationship no matter how long a couple have been together ;)

[@madwax1360]

I just got new undies, and I'm feelin' frisky!

[@YourWingmam]

Loves it! lol

[@jameskonzek8892]

If I usually dress in garb similar to the Grim Reaper.. well that's mysterious isn't it?

[@YourWingmam]

Just make sure she can see your eyes if you're wearing a full face mask lol

[@jamesparlane9289]

Best to wait until she lifts up her dress and shows you she is going commando before you do anything. Or if she takes off her G. string (is it a capital G?) and comes over and gives it to you. Clear signs are what it is all about.

[@YourWingmam]

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[@jamesparlane9289]

@@YourWingmam Anna, Can't wait to SEE you,, with an "S" next Tues.

[@ChristopherFisher_78]

if she gets crappy about it, I fall back on the dumb and dumber line "so You're telling me theres a chance"..... or if I am not feeling spunky " here I thought we were going to grow old together, turns out you grew old real quick"

[@jamieseiple]

I just have to say, if a woman shows no interest in me...I'm outta there! Why in the world waste your time on someone who is too damned dumb to check out a great thing? Her loss. She has to prove she's worth it. Pursuing is fun...until it's not. Be the best you can be, go for what you want, either she is a keeper or not.

[@YourWingmam]

You are the prize: check!

[@jamieseiple]

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[@tod3msn]

Being needy to a woman is like the end. She will absolutely reject you.

[@YourWingmam]

Unless she's a narcissist or worse and then she'll just use you. Don't be needy. No upside.

[@garretthoffman8475]

$ 50 waved in the air works 100%

[@YourWingmam]

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[@VladislavBabbitt]

Show us Club Game.

[@exltd001]

Yo gotta go out there and just get some rejection under your belt. It’s like tear-gas training. Gotta take the sting out of it.

[@YourWingmam]

100%! Exposure therapy works wonders. The only goal: doing the thing. (Not having it be outcome based.) :))

[@tomshearer7409]

Agreed - start out while one is in High School getting friend zoned and build a network. Confidence will be through the roof. My best female friend of 30 years still says that I am the one that got away (Her Loss) 😉

[@michaelchambers7691]

A lot of times flirtatious people won't just flirt with you, they flirt with others.

[@YourWingmam]

True (not always but yes sometimes, watch for red flags early on)

[@josefeliciano1077]

Gets up after the girl across the hallway remarks about his sexy smile,as he starts to " walk" our limping heroe can hear her friends say" oh,what a disgrace,the way he walks!"

[@YourWingmam]

... which makes him lift his chest up and throw his shoulders back and continue limping over with even more confidence, which impresses her with a nonchalant, maybe-you-CAN'T-have-me attitude. (After all, if her friends are nasty like that, what might that say about her.)

[@cecilmilam3336]

60 minutes use have counter point. I think you should get together with the Better Bachelor. Pick a topic and do a debate. I think you two together . Would get a lot of likes. Killer Bee

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for the suggestion!

[@kylekenan2321]

When did you remodel my house Anna?

[@YourWingmam]

Ha! I move way too much! #gypsy

[@mrparlanejxtra]

Sing: Some enchanted evening, you may meet a stranger, you may meet a strangerrrrrr, across a crowded roommmmmm.... then somehow you'll know.....

[@YourWingmam]

Song placed indelibly in my mind! lol

[@harveymushman2219]

Sorry can't focus on this...I am in Las Vegas for 2 weeks...at least and it's so easy around here who da thunk it....lol...

[@YourWingmam]

Vegas is a great place to flirt because most people are expecting it! Best place for exposure therapy/training!

[@harveymushman2219]

@@YourWingmam Well I all ready got a warning from the local cops last night in a bar about my exposure therapy even after I name dropped your page...they told me to keep it zipped and they did not care about my Wing Man....lol...

[@mikehess4494]

It's important to wear your credit cards on your sleeve when approaching a women...she will see you as being a high value man.

[@Richard.Hybels]

I’ve been known to get a bit buzzed at a party and tell women I was a Doctor. You can well imagine how I suddenly experienced a lot of interest in me that I had not noticed previously.

[@traynorton7107]

😂🤣 for real bro! To true

[@davidz2562]

But you'll attract gold-diggers. If you're not rich, they'll quickly find out & ditch you. If you're rich, they'll cost you a fortune.

[@mikehess4494]

@@davidz2562 You will pay one way another as Pimpin Ken says all women are Hoe's all men are John's. You can switch the game and be the gold digger but is you game that good?

[@Richard.Hybels]

@@davidz2562 I would just move on at the party after making the point to myself that a big percentage of women are looking for what some call “success object”s” which is a take off of “sex objects” anc what many men look for. God knows I was that way in my youth. In my 70’s now so so those days are long gone.

[@ericduran8722]

Luv a church girl!😉

[@YourWingmam]

God bless!

[@ericduran8722]

@@YourWingmam now I feel guilty! I’m Kidding! 🙏🏻 big blessings to u too 😘

[@Bibbo8844hdbks]

But I am needy, so very very needy

[@YourWingmam]

Got to nip that in the bud, Bud! ;) Some of my friend zone videos may help with that: kzbin.info/aero/PLQ8Q-8-X18dlOU9NfaIYnbG0zUveivHjs

[@fatcat7msk7ru]

555)) it'sall2complicated. Better2stay lone wolf, woman approach by themselves then.

[@YourWingmam]

Did you see my Sigma video? #lonewolf Maybe you can relate to the Sigma :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/e2W1fHeXeatgla8

[@mikehess4494]

If she asks what your sign is tell her your FICO score. You know the saying the bigger the FICO score the bigger the (wallet)...needs to be at least an 800, go big or stay home. This lets her know you have a big Financial Stimulus Package. She will be happy to her mouth where your money is.

[@YourWingmam]

Just wear a t-shirt with a "Hello! I'm Rich" logo and change your name to Richard

[@mikehess4494]

@@YourWingmam Yes, least amount of effort greatest amount of results. Sir Richard Shazam.

[@cowboy44319]

Cats learn quick. This is the second, maybe the third time there. You'll probably never get it to stop now !

[@YourWingmam]

It's been hiding in most of my videos this year! Welcome to find-the-cat lol and thanks for watching!

[@cowboy44319]

@@YourWingmam It's been a game since you said something about "cat lady" a few months ago. I've been distracted by searching for the cat ever since. Haven't seen him hanging from the ceiling yet... ;-)

[@JonCrowe]

That naughty cat again! She is a little monkey hiding in the same spot. I had to put my glasses on to find her! She looks just like my baby girl Luna !! x

[@YourWingmam]

One day I will have a real cat and I will pet her and feed her and love her... lol #crazycatlady?

[@JonCrowe]

@@YourWingmam OMG ! You with a real life cat sorting mens problems out is probably the most amazing viewing I could ever possibly imagine! Giving me goosebumps!!

[@toussaintbonaparte5533]

I’m not needy, just superficially greedy. As per your beatific style, your glow must shine for a mile. I am not in denial, only in observance of your ineffable smile. Don’t worry, I am weird but not a weirdo, as it is not my intent to exude innuendo. Just please know that as you glow, you cast a spell. I only found out once I fell, that You ms Danish Queen, are more exotic than you seem. I know, I know, your ears ring of ‘creep’, but all this came to me in my sleep. To Your luminous luxury nothing can compare, in fact, I must go now before I stare. I do not wish to be spellbound by your beauty. Instead, I’ll leave you to yours before the tide turns moody. I am not after your affection or hand, just stopping to admire a portrait and follow my pesky poet’s command. All written for you. May your days never be blue.

[@YourWingmam]

A poet! Sweet words, kind Sir! :)

[@craigleewhite6317]

Wing mam... Craig the rip snorting wild man. Fireballs. With iron in my bones. Ram rods for spines. Lightening filled eyes, guy here. Who won't be satisfied until I've tasted of life on my terms.

[@YourWingmam]

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[@mypov4343]

When she walks up to you just ask..."What are we having for breakfast?"...I mean...why waste time? hahahahaha And if she rejects you just remember these famous words...Failure is success in progress...Albert Einstein

[@davidz2562]

Most women don't approach men.

[@YourWingmam]

Lol... bold! Success in progress! Love it!

[@davidlangham5335]

LOL many times women flirt surprise me. Im caught in a WTF moment its funny

[@YourWingmam]

Hope some of this info helps you play along next time! :)