Do we get tired of being a Frugal Low Income Family?

[@janet4000]

I am an old lady and I think you guys are awesome. I wish more young people would get their head out of the sand and see what really matters. May God bless you both.

[@blackjag121]

I say people should mind their business. It is your life!

[@martiansmarigolds413]

Amen. Those negative comments really got under my skin. Jeez people enough with the judgments.

[@nancykaufman1645]

You are living the life you want to, and that’s way more important than what anyone else thinks, you have no debt, land to build on that is paid for, and have an emergency fund , ( most Americans do not have one)..you’re doing great! ❤

[@AllisonMuller-n9g]

I don't understand why people would continue watching channels if they don't enjoy the content and then end up making negative comments. Please continue with what you're doing. Those of us who enjoy your channel love seeing the way you guys do things❤

[@julieschenk3885]

I so agree❤

[@jayneanderson8057]

your family is so rich in ways that many people dont understand

[@myday2704]

Exactly. Time rich, healthy and happy.

[@geraldinesisk2702]

I think it’s wonderful to see a young couple being so smart. Most people think they have to keep up with the “Jones’s”.!

[@maddex2000]

Loving seeing Asher back in videos lately.

[@dawnhamdorf]

Wow, some people are so hateful, rude, and flat out stupid! It’s your life, and living within your means is a great thing! Life is not about material things, and kids will be fine without the latest toy or video game. I love your insights and that you’re making your hustle work for you! ❤

[@paulahogue7240]

I think you two are awesome and sharing with us ,it can teach those that are having hardship and need help to survive, and it shows you can still enjoy life.

[@eileenpalumbo6578]

Another elderly gal here and you folks will make it through any financial down turns our economy takes. You have the basics of financial principals under your belt. You will be able to adjust and adapt to whatever comes your way. I enjoyed getting to know you better through this video.

[@LisaMarieBudgets]

I would love to see some things your hubby has crocheted!! 🧶

[@joculp-yq3qh]

I agree with Asher. People that have money are the ones that you would never guess had anything. Great video guys❤❤. LOVE APPALACHIA❤❤❤. AND Asher is so intelligent! But both of you are❤. I’m not editing anymore😅

[@raisingwildflowers]

😆 Thanks! And, yes, Asher is intelligent ❤️

[@carolined3058]

Your grandma has the best quot ever :)

[@Whatsnewkittycat3]

Grandma for the win 😂

[@ramblinggrandma8163]

Being frugal is a fun game for me. Trying to spend less than other.

[@aquadrops6138]

I worked in the system for about my first 10 years of working getting a regular paycheck. I hated it. I started my own business and built it up in the first year so much so my husband was able to quit his job and come work for our business. We made our own hours and generally only worked at the most 4 days a week. Worked it around our kids and life for 30 years then sold it and retired early. We have a paid for homestead and supplies and food for the next two years or so. We love our life. When i had my own business i always said i don't have to make coffee for anyone i don't want to. LOL. To me it is far better to be your own boss if you can. Most all of my bosses when i worked for other companies were idiots and i always felt i was the one correcting their mistakes, but never got credit or the big money. I finally said i can do better for myself and family making my own way. Most people just don't believe enough in themselves to take the plunge. What a shame. Edit in: We also live frugally andd have low bills, mostly just pay for services such as electric, internet, phones, and health insurance. Land, house, and vehicles are all paid for.

[@ashleybosvik3031]

I did the same thing

[@CassieDavis613]

what was your business?

[@aquadrops6138]

@@CassieDavis613 we did water treatment. My husband use to work for the city, but they started wanting him to fudge reports of which he refused to do. It would have been his license on the line, not the cities. I got my water license and worked for a separate company until I left and started my own business. Then a year later brought him on.

[@JoeSmith-pu9hi]

Thanks. Your life is not a label.

[@angelawebb235]

Smart couple and living a simple life is the best

[@bwillsboys]

Great couple !

[@GrandmaBirdy]

Both as a couple, family & individual you are doing outstanding! It’s no one’s business your lifestyle. People that speak negativity typically “are jealous”. Frugal is a smart choice that can bring peace to anyone that tries this lifestyle! Keep on trucking in your journey…..& save, save, save! P.S. hubby is a kool dude !

[@raisingwildflowers]

Yes, he is!

[@anelleroux4882]

I'm listening to all the comments and are just dumbfounded by how arrogant and opinionated people are, without even knowing you!!! Mindboggling! I think you are amazing parents and people and are to be admired for living out your philosophy, and wish more people were like you. The world would have been a much better place if there were more people like you.❤❤❤

[@dawnhamdorf]

The people that are hateful and negative are really just jealous and unhappy in their own lives. It’s a (sad) reflection of their character, not yours!

[@Whatsnewkittycat3]

This!

[@holzp8285]

You two are lovely and so capable. Thanks for speaking your mind openly!

[@carolwoodward6141]

I am loving your give and take with each other. Conversational.

[@DiasFrugalLife]

I love your videos! ❤ And I know you guys inspire many. Some People Are unhappy with their lives and are envious of others… deflecting their insecurities on others.

[@raisingwildflowers]

So true!

[@ClairenParkerontheRoad]

You guys are great. Loved this! So funny together. The ending lol.

[@Nativewoman1]

I love to calculate every penny I spend. Unfortunately, live on Social Security, so we do have to count to pennies … We never overspend, yes, sometimes we do treat ourselves to some thing, the grandkids always get birthday and Christmas gifts. But being materialistic in this day and age is not for us. We have what we need and that’s all that matters.

[@lgee9027]

I love my stress free frugal life🎉🎉🎉

[@raisingwildflowers]

Yes!!! ❤️

[@alysonwallace6600]

I love your channel. Y'all are both very smart, creative and articulate. I think it is great you are not following the norm and are doing what works for you in this season of your life. More videos with Asher.

[@siobhanod]

Love this video Katie. Ye should be so proud of what ye have achieved.

[@ragdollpreppers2648]

You guys are so dang CUTE❤❤thanks for all of your insight 🙏

[@dlewis895]

YOU MAKE YOUR OWN CHOICES LOVE IT

[@Kittenmom2]

I love your videos! I’m an extremely frugal person who gets judged a lot by my family so it feels good to have a space where you feel comfortable ❤

[@samanthal562]

Keep living intentionally guys. We have the same mindset and watching your videos inspires us to keep going through the tough times that we all face. Lets make it intentional to build each other up instead of trying to tear each other down. I think it is helpful to address the negative comments and you got a good balance there with ending with the positive comments. The nasty comments come from a place of misunderstanding, lack of education and deep bitterness usually through jealousy. I feel sorry for those people they are missing out on a better way of living.

[@raisingwildflowers]

I 100% feel the same!

[@suedobbins275]

You two are awesome!!!! We are like you guys and are so glad to see young people choosing with care the way they live.

[@darladillaha7466]

You guys are adorable and I love how you live. ❤

[@GrannyLinn]

Your brand of frugality is how I was raised. It works! This was a super cool one!

[@lieslschick3259]

I love that you and Asher did this together. It's so nice to hear his voice and get to know him. I look forward to your videos, and thanks for another great one.

[@PamRosenquist]

I enjoy watching you and I love what you are doing. The haters will hate. I’m almost 80 years old. If I could start over I’d do what you are doing. God bless you.

[@alexanevin7917]

I find, that most of the frugal people are neurodivergent, including me and my family. We just try to be as effective with our resources as we can, is a must for our brains to be content. You are a lovely couple... :) Greetings from SLovakia.

[@kathygarner1383]

I don’t think that frugal people are all neurodivergent, they are just frugal

[@sarbear3134]

You two are so kind, and are beyond respectful with your responses to the comments and questions about your lifestyle. Keep being good and wholesome 🥰

[@carolwoodward6141]

You two are so funny, in such a good way.

[@carolwoodward6141]

Thanks!

[@raisingwildflowers]

Thank you!!!

[@carolwoodward6141]

@ My pleasure for such a real channel.

[@rosiecass7210]

Asher is an utter legend. What a wonderful partnership you pair have. Such similar views on life goals. Best of luck to you both. Loved the video

[@wanda7989]

Please do not let the negativity comments bother you! You both are awesome people & parents! They have no clue on being frugal and smart! Like you I love saving money and fun things are free as well! We pick what we want to spend on! Continue doing what you doing ! Enjoy you life and keep sharing your frugal lifestyle!💕

[@carolwoodward6141]

I have always enjoyed your content. You are both hardworking, fun loving, family oriented people. Frugality is only about smart choices, regardless of income level.

[@avbeasley]

Dang, those are some seriously Puritanical comments. I’m glad y’all are able to see the funny side of them. 😂

[@raisingwildflowers]

Right?! 🤣

[@ingridmarsden8866]

Really enjoyed this. Your husband is so articulate and witty. We admire your values and independence. The financial education you have given your daughter who has moved out was/is fantastic parenting. I wish I had had a headstart like that. Keep doing you and remember there are a lot of us who find value in what you share. A video about your husbands poverty upbringing and what he has learnt along the way plus comparisons of what is poverty would be interesting.

[@virginiarevering4983]

In my experience, the difference between frugality and poverty is uncertainty. Responsible parents like you two can give kids the self-confidence to launch well into an amazing future. Children raised in uncertainty will see dangers in their future before they can see their opportunities. Love your channel, thanks!

[@raisingwildflowers]

Excellent point!

[@darmstrong4434]

I just watched your Q&A.. love your channel, btw. Ok.. this is to the uninformed woman who was obsessed with body hair.. In the early 1970’s NONE of us girls shaved, nor did we wear bras..shocking, I know! I think this person needs to focus on her life, not others. Oh yea, we all came from upper middle class families, but at 20 years of age we made our choices. I see your channel as a modern day version of years gone by. Thanks .. you guys rock!

[@Jackie-wk7th]

I enjoyed your video and watch yall when I can. Keep being happy and live your life the way that makes you happy

[@carolususan8597]

You two are super, special wonderful people. I love your videos.

[@JacobBurchell]

You guys are wonderful and a breath of fresh air. Keep doing you and ignore the trolls.

[@kimpatterson8741]

We get some of the same comments. We just laugh. We love the challenge of being frugal. Love your channel ❤❤❤❤

[@appledumpling4766]

This has been such a great vlog. Your perspective has been eye opening (as has people’s comments and expectations.) One thing that jumped out to me - it’s so obvious that we seem to live in a world where so many people project their values and beliefs on to others. It’s just sad. Be kind people. Celebrate the differences we all have. Lead by example and action instead of being an armchair quarterback.

[@candyann-qb2xi]

I think you live well and you appear so happy as a family that's so more important ❤

[@cjengland2365]

When you're doing what you love to do during your working years, retirement just becomes what will you do when you can't work anymore. I think that's a hard concept to understand for some people who are working the 9-5 grind at a job they can barely tolerate. On the furgal side of things, it is always fun for us to see how much we can save and never pay full price for anything. It's up to the couple to decide who works and when. There were many times that my husband took care of the kids while I worked since I got my degree first and made more. Some people are hung up on trying to force people into a box. Their energy would be better spent taking care of their own lives instead of judging others. Y'all are doing great!

[@carolwoodward6141]

Thank you for speaking so much truth! 💕

[@PhaleaceD]

I think you both are living your own lives. You have taken care of your family and are hard workers. People seem to forget that working your land and being self reliant was the way of life not to long ago. My grandparents worked and toiled their land, canning food and storing things up for the wintertime. They never owned a car. My grandfather had only a wagon and a mule and they weren't poor at all. My grandmother sewed and made all they shirts, quilts and sheets and more. They made handmade furniture and sold it at the edge of their land by the road they lived near.The things I learned from them I handed down to my next generation. Pay no attention to comments. You both are doing wonderful and I applaud you both. Keep up the good work and enjoy your life and happiness you have. Work your land, build your homestead and grow your KZbin channel. I'm glad to see how smart you are with your money and how you make good choices for the important purchases you do need to make. Those skills are good to have in life. Your skills are wise lifetime skills that can be useful in any situation. Keep up the good work and make your life a happy one. I love the way you both have dedicated your life to all your kids. Listen, everyone has problems in life. No one is perfect. You both are wise and dedicated to your goal. Go for it , your already making it happen. Katie and Asher, you can cook, plant a garden, raise animals and plan your way thru life. Keep at it, you are a team !!

[@raisingwildflowers]

Thank you!!!

[@LucindaMusquiz]

It is really no one's business how you afford the things in your life. You and your family are amazing. Keep making videos and teach us how to live frugally ❤❤

[@angelanice]

Omg more people like me that enjoy budgeting and calculating everything! 😁 I have even done budgets for other people it's so fun lol

[@desertrat5543]

i chose to be a sahm, and i appreciate your husband's words on putting some respect on ppl who choose to stay at home with their kids. :)

[@bridgetbowman2229]

Your husband is my new fav person on youtube. 😂 I love how blunt he is. Truth is hard to handle for some. ❤

[@raisingwildflowers]

😂 He is SO blunt. And this was him on his best behavior 😅

[@terrypelletti8535]

I absolutely loved this channel. You two are so down to earth and real. Live your life the way you want. It’s your life !!!!!!!!!❤

[@NoOneUKnow-c3y]

Thanks for another great video. See you on the next one. Have a blessed day.

[@robynclarke5274]

You are an amazing couple. Also very smart with your lifestyle. Men in Finland knit and crochet. Good for you for doing what you like to do. My family is also on the spectrum. We love to travel and spend time the bush. Good for you for what you have achieved.

[@juliaforsyth8332]

It was the men in fishing villages, in the UK and elsewhere,in the past that knitted the jersys and other items.

[@amandar614]

You guys make a great couple! Loved hearing your husband's perspective and his grandmothers too 😂 And I think I am the same age as you ( born in 1985) and I totally feel the same about being in a weird transitional generation. We are really the last generation that grew up/ remembers what it was like before the internet and cell phones, social media, etc.

[@bellaTaylor4946]

Please do more videos like this one! I absolutely loved listening to you and Asher! I laughed so hard with some of his comments, it made my night. You both are so amazing ♥️♥️ Much love from 🇨🇦

[@HippieHobbit82]

I knew I followed for a reason, I am audhd and i plan like y'all. I have multiple plans. I am currently working on getting our budget down, and working on the dirt on my property. Thank you for sharing.

[@raisingwildflowers]

I think us AuDHD people speak the same language :)

[@HippieHobbit82]

@raisingwildflowers SO TRUE!!

[@AneishaWonders]

AuDHD here and yes, I always liked your budget videos and your thought process, it vibes with how I think. @raisingwildflowers

[@homesteadjude]

Nice to see you Hubs. I don't plan on retiring either. I do online therapy and I love it. Why would I ever stop?

[@raisingwildflowers]

❤️ Yes! If you are doing something you truly love, there is nothing to retire from 😊

[@homesteadjude]

I lost brain cells from that frugel comment too. What's the opposite of frugal? Wasteful? Love how you guys blow it off and don't get offended easily.

[@christinakiser5071]

Being frugal is an accomplishment! Go, you guys! I strive to be frugal! It's one of my goals!

[@vgss-mb2zx]

I'm here for the numbers! :). Love your channel just the way it is.

[@carlariggs525]

Do what makes you happy and forget the naysayers. There's no crime in being frugal, and it is much less stressful than being in a lot of debt. Take care and thanks for your information

[@EmbracethechaosPortugal]

I love that you guys say you are adaptable, that in itself can be difficult for some neuro spicey people..

[@janicew6222]

I'm in my 70's, my Daddy always said, if you can make a living for another, you can make a living for yourself and he always worked for himself to provide for the family. We weren't rich, but we were well loved and had all our needs met. Each couple must do what is best for them and their family. There is no such thing as 'one size fits all.' Blessings.

[@mistyspleasuresoflife]

I have so many plans to incorporate frugal living into my life. I think I am going to add some ideas to my channel too 😊 I have always struggled with money and now being disabled I need to make changes

[@amandaclark7718]

Peo0pe are so crazy that they have to worry about what others do or don't do. You guys are amazing, keep doing what you are doing. Love your channel.

[@ginettelefebvre8817]

I always look forward to watch your utube videos. I understand frugal... we have enough food for a year.. we have always been careful. At 65 living our best life on a country road beside our river. We have alot of rescue babies.. taking many walks.. thank you

[@Lleg8292]

People are so stupid and are closed to their own dumb decisions. You guys are awesome! You teach your kids what’s important in life and real skills. Frugality has always been my way including buying a newer car in cash. It still makes you frugal

[@kimpatterson8741]

Much respect ❤

[@racquelthomas7145]

Thanks for always sharing 🙏🏾

[@SusanPhillips-p7x]

A humble point of view from an older person... frugality is more complex than simply the number of dollars you save now. Frugality also involves making decisions that support your current self and your future self. As an example, you may find that even slowly working toward a college degree or work specific certificate or new training will ultimately help you to save money, find a job with a pension, or extend your working life to help support your retirement. Degrees and certificates don't guarantee future support, but they offer new potential opportunities.

[@ritarichardson3881]

I'm extremely frugal. I plan on not going without in very bad times. I slice up on piece of meat and add spaghetti. I get clothes in yard sales and I find furniture on the side of the road. Clean them up and paint or put new feet on old furniture. I have money in my pocket most of the time, because I am so frugal.

[@simplyfromscratchrecipes]

I have been following your channel for a couple of years now and I love how real you are. I think you all live an amazing life. Keep true to yourselves, which I know you all will, and thank you for bringing all of us along. 🥰

[@raisingwildflowers]

Thank you so much!!

[@theresasolomon9805]

I am always shocked at the insulting comments that people make on your videos, simply because you choose to live a different lifestyle than what they were taught is the only acceptable lifestyle, as well as the assumptions they make about you. Anyone who has been watching your videos should know that Asher works HARD every day. On many of youur videos he can be seen building things on your property, clearing land, caring for the animals, and so much more. Your child is obviously happy and curious about life. And you work together as a team, always thinking about what is best for your entire family and how every decision might affect your future. I could not live the way you live, but I admire what you are doing.

[@raisingwildflowers]

Thank you :)

[@THRIFTYSINGLEMAMA]

You guys are inspiring so many people ❤ Ignore the haters. The haters don't have lives that's why they hate. I'm a single mama and I watch your videos to gain wisdom ✨️

[@rebacarmack8335]

You guys have it together way more than most in your age range, or most age groups for that matter. You make smart, calculated decisions and if you don’t feel deprived, then good for you! YOU GUYS ROCK!!!! Being frugal to me is like a game.Wonder if the person that commented about the truck paid cash for their vehicle?? Just sayin

[@gurrrrlish]

I have multiple millions net worth and am very frugal...being frugal is in part how i got to multiple millions .... I enjoy spending on investments and things i really love.... like my tiny 100 year old DIY beach cottage.... it is pure peaceful basking... These critical folks are closed minded... sad...

[@makeanddohandmade]

Cute sweatshirt!

[@makeanddohandmade]

Love this conversation! I don’t have Autism but I also love to calculate and plan for fun. It’s not stressful, it’s about looking at all the possibilities 💗 I think you guys seem really fun to hang out with.

[@raisingwildflowers]

Thanks! ❤️ The sweatshirt is from Sam’s Club!

[@makeanddohandmade]

@@raisingwildflowers I need to find it!

[@tomlangley6969]

I’m cracking up about people being upset about you not shaving 😂. I haven’t shaved for over 20 years. Loved this video. ❤from Michelle in Brisbane Australia

[@kemi1486]

OMG! Those keyboard basement dwellers are so cruel in your comment section 🤯. Your family looks to be happy and thriving so what’s their problem. Keep being intentional and continue and thanks for sharing your frugal lifestyle.

[@loveandjoy810]

Why is Asher so damn sweet? 🤗. He’s a good guy.

[@raisingwildflowers]

He is 😊❤️

[@lamamireyesjanetramirez5909]

I loved this video it was very entertaining ❤ I love the chat

[@Val-Lullycat]

Love your channel xx

[@Alittlelady83]

Great video!!

[@Michelle-bk5uq]

You guys are doing great. I'm sorry that you have to deal with small minded people.

[@freckles8119]

Loved this video.

[@bridgetbowman2229]

Amen. Work to live, not live to work. ❤

[@lindabishop2929]

,I love watching Your channel..

[@chrissytaylor7685]

I just have to say that you guys are so cute!!! Both my husband and I work our tails off and for what? Can’t take money with you when you die. We’re both very unhappy and stressed out. Our dream is to live like you guys. We are currently looking for land and starting our plans for that rich lifestyle and we both can’t wait to achieve them. I’ve always shopped at Goodwills and picked up things on the side of the road…..not because we are poor but because I like to. Now I get friends and family all the time asking me to start looking for things for cheap or free cause it’s my hobby that I really enjoy doing. So let the haters hate, ignore the toxic that people carry and just live your best life. That’s the true happiness is just doing what you enjoy. ❤

[@abbieliz396]

30:55 I beg to differ lol. My husband is the sole provider

[@bethsnodgrass8218]

I would like to be more frugal, but I think it's more about choosing to spend wisely. Like I could buy clothes at Ll bean but the same outfit I can buy at Costco for half the price. Just being smart, research first the same with grocery shopping.