Do We Overly Prioritise Marriage???

The boys sat down to discuss a very highly asked about topic... marriage from a younger males perspective!
Do soul mates really exist?
Should marriage be your number one priority?
Would you rather be feared or loved?
Would you marry a woman older than you?
...AND MUCH MORE!!!!!
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[@32ls]

You guys should do a video on free-mixing, issue of friendships with the opposite sex in the muslim community, and how to interact with them in situations where you’re forced to (work, school, etc)

[@bloominzee]

I'm just here to say a part 2 sounds good~ and an idea for a future episode could be "Would you want to live through the signs of the day of judgement? Yes/no, which signs exactly and why?" Had an interesting discussion about this with my friends and thought it would be cool to get to know your perspectives on it! Keep up the good work ^^

[@agatsuma22]

Subhanallah, what a great topic you chose! Never expect of your spouse to make YOU HAPPY! Instead: work on the relationship with Allah, take good care of yourself and your OWN wellbeing before entering a lifelasting halal partnership and continue this throughout your life. No human being will come on a white horse to suddenly make you feel better. It all starts and ends with Allah and yourself, Allahu akbar. BarakaAllahu feekum for this enlightning episode my dear brothers. 🤲🏿🌱 Please continue such useful continent, biidhnillah.

[@Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh]

This was so insightful!

[@lovelaugh_lina]

Part 2 follow up topic suggestions -

[@Bintrashid29]

Going back to the point one of you brothers mentioned about society perceiving marriage as the ‘end all be all’ and the ‘goal’. The core for marriage from an Islamic perspective, is to worship Allah, and therefore marriage becomes a means. We tend to as a society to put the means of marriage as the goal. A shared mutual goal comes before love/marriage. When a couple gets married, loving each other for the sake of one another does not hold down a relationship because I don’t think in the court rooms during divorces folks asking their love back. I think it all just comes down to your intentions. What are your intentions? Are you doing it for clout, for the sake of your family and all other societal expectations that are expected of you or you doing it for the sake of your creator?. In Whatever decision we make we should always maintain a level of introspection and ask ourselves the reasons for what we’re doing and why.

[@hebachahrouk1721]

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[@bilisohoche4462]

This episode was needed! It’s greats, especially nowadays where marriage is constantly a topic of discussion. I feel like it’s portrayed as a negative thing to say you are focusing on yourself or your career before marriage especially as a women. They automatically think that you are anti marriage when that is not the case. People always assume that it’s at the top of your list! But it’s nice to see other who have similar perspectives.

[@naisa9705]

Great episode. Can you please do discussion about feminism? I would like to hear it from male's perspective.

[@anasmoalin298]

Part 2 for sure this ep was too funny but insightful 🤝🏾

[@tasjacks]

Part 2 plz...It's good you replaced the word 'fear' lol, the phrase screamed toxic masculinity. Great episode though! I've never heard this topic from a male's POV

[@hafsahsarchives]

I’d say I agree about the whole divorced with kids scenario , it’s so complicated and too much of a tough task to take on

[@mayyaamd]

I cant remember how i found this channel. But Alhamdulillah im so glad i did

[@alwayshungry6272]

Part 2!!!

[@Freestyler-nl4eh]

very good keep it up, you deserve waay more views :D !!

[@abdiazizossoble6069]

really connected with the being the youngest and feeling like a burden

[@sheharasaterninas1815]

Enjoyed it. Barakallah

[@shikamaru247]

'When are we going to eat your couscous?' This is the indirect way of asking when are you going to marry in my Kabyle culture. It makes ill at ease all the same...

[@ridaidrees1330]

I really disagree with the idea that there’s just one soulmate - I think you can have multiple soulmates in friends as well as your partner, and your partner isn’t necessarily your soulmate which also works too - just my take 😅 very eye opening to see the male perspective, and surprising to see it’s not too different from females lol (at least away from the cringe 😂)

[@khadojatouatioui9833]

Well said guys !!!!! This episode was needed to be heard by the Muslim community