This topic is always interesting to me. I always try to figure out why both men and women get so upset or feel completely rejected when they get “friendzoned” Personally, I feel if someone doesn’t appreciate who you are and what you bring to the table for whatever reason, bullet dodged. Who wants to spend their time and energy harboring over someone who has to constantly convince themselves to like, love or appreciate you? I look at it as a blessing b/c If someone can’t see or take the time to see the greatness within you...so be it. That’s not to say you can’t be friends (i mean, if they are a great person of course) b/c after all shouldn’t you want to build a healthy friendship first before taking that next step? Men usually don’t want the latter which again, is a bullet dodged and another reason why they get friendzoned in the first place.
@backlundbob41715 жыл бұрын
Women in the west spend their peak SMV riding the carousel, children out if wedlock, and serk white picket fence when playboy stops calling. Itd fantastic. Meanwhile hotter girls are turning 18 everyday. I love America.
@Kenneth1815 жыл бұрын
The reason why men don't want to be friends with women is because because the term friend actually means something to men not so much women. Men and women have different ideals of friendship.
@HEAVYCHEVY4095 жыл бұрын
The Thirty Journey well put and Martin, I with you on this, to often males/females will lead someone on to believe it's more but really your just feeling a void until your Knight in shinning armor comes along or you Queen. I be lying through my teeth to say, i never done it before, just hanging out with a female because she cool to be around and have a good time. But never give a real indicator that this is as far as it will go. I think with time, mistakes, and maturity you learn to be a better person, also communicate about what exactly you want or what you want to be with that person.
@bobbym17995 жыл бұрын
Put simple there is a great area of friendship and in that area exists the qualities that a woman likes in a man that she sees and another guy but doesn't feel a strong attraction to and so she keeps him around because she likes those certain qualities knowing that he is trying to pursue her or has tried to pursue her previously this is where the friend zone exist and it goes for both sexes. The problem is it is not outright rejection take this from experience I know when someone's trying to put me in the friend zone versus someone who outright reject me and I can respect that.
@jazzeyj.9205 жыл бұрын
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@mikecolin39835 жыл бұрын
I don't understand this friend zone. If a woman rejects you move on. Why are you still around to be a friend? You either a friend from the jump or your not. Someone puts you in a friend zone you the fool for staying there. Cut all ties and move on.
@gail_71925 жыл бұрын
I agree you don't have to stay around that person.You can't be mad if the person is not interested and this goes for both sexes.I have guy friends and I don't know all of their motives I have no idea if anyone of them likes me in that way.I personally listen and see how they treat women and it turns me off.Years ago I crossed the friend zone line and it didn't work out and he wanted to keep me close and I said no I cut off all ties.I tried it and it didn't work out and it was a lesson learned and that was that.
@gail_71925 жыл бұрын
@Anesu trust me they do.I do it some women I know do tell them as well.We all know there are ppl out there that don't want to take no for an answer and they keep trying.I even know a female who the man told plenty of times he does not want anything and she refuses to let go.He does lead her on its a messed up situation as I know them both.I have spoke to both of them ab it and after a while I just said I will mind my business.It is draining!
@gail_71925 жыл бұрын
Do you agree that both men and women play games?I sure do.If I knew you to tell you my experiences your mouth would drop.
@mariancounsellor5 жыл бұрын
Mike Colin 👏🏽👏🏽 exactly! I’ve been friend zoned then he tried to be friends with benefits so I cut ties!
@luthercurry43033 жыл бұрын
Only thing is the guy likes u and u know it but u like his conversation he listen too u talking about other niggas shoulder too cry on type of shit or get money from him women always gone take advantage of the situation
@insertname39825 жыл бұрын
How is the women in the middle gonna say that the friend-zoned doesn’t exist but when it’s flipped to women she says she’s been friend-zoned
@niceforwhat93305 жыл бұрын
Insert Name she's black....black women aren't the smartest
@thumbsaloft4 жыл бұрын
@@niceforwhat9330, With a TOTALLY STEREOTYPICAL FALSE STATEMENT LIKE THAT, NEITHER ARE YOU!
@tevinheard244 жыл бұрын
Women logic
@mrpj13904 жыл бұрын
The double standard never ends. Just accept it.
@ZoeBoyKennelTV5 жыл бұрын
TBH...That friendzone is another reason why black men date outside their race
@MrSmiley71905 жыл бұрын
I see a lot of females comments saying if they aren't attracted to the guy in that way then accept it because you can't force someone to like you. Now I completely agree with that. Here is where the problem comes in though. Now we know usually its us nice guys that are friend zoned and that the female will pick the thug/asshole and hey that's her choice. Unfortunately a couple of years later she winds up having 2 or 3 kids and the guy doesn't help take care of them he probably abused her in some way. Now the nice guy that genuinely liked her that she friend zoned for those years is still the same nice guy now that he was then. She now is interested and wants to be with the nice guy and the nice guy rejects her and now she is saying all nighas ain't shit then she winds up bitter, depressed and alone with multiple kids that she can barely take care of. Basically females if you choose the bad guy over the nice guy that's fine and dandy as long as you can deal with the consequences.
@TheCoreye5 жыл бұрын
What makes them say men ain't shit is, the nice guy gets his rocks off and tosses her to the side because she got too much baggage. Oh well too damn bad
@lennybreeze2381 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@LOSTGPS4 жыл бұрын
“I don’t have men in my friend zone, I just have friends” That’s the FRIENDZONE 🤦🏾♂️ Don’t listen to what women say, pay attention to what they do.
@marcusinHD5 жыл бұрын
when they get beat up, abused, knocked up, fallen on hard times; thats when they dig into the friendzone for someone to rescue them.
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWTJk6t8obJrapo
@marcusinHD5 жыл бұрын
earlando salazar good vid.
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
@@marcusinHD thats how u gotta do it fr...u aint using me foh💯
@spacelyman94825 жыл бұрын
Very true.
@umichgal15 жыл бұрын
I could walk thru a tornado but if I don’t want you. Then I don’t want you. Being “nice” doesn’t guarantee you poom poom you want.
@kobe88us5 жыл бұрын
Men know your worth!! Women will absolutely WASTE your time with their mess! If you’re not worthy of a quality relationship with her only give her your free time and abruptly limit that and certainly don’t give them $$$!
@peacetkwgo55105 жыл бұрын
Real talk brotha 💪
@focuseddrew87375 жыл бұрын
I agree you are allowed to like what who you like, but what I don't understand is women being attracted to bad boys and players and then complain about being mistreated. As I matured, I looked for my quality women.
@andrebaxter40235 жыл бұрын
It's simple. Women are attracted to men that turn them on emotionally, not via logic. Bad boys have alpha male traits that women cannot ignore on a primal level. That said, you can be an alpha male without being a bad boy. LL Cool J, Shemar Moore, and Morris Cestnut come to mind. Women swoon over these guys, but they don't fit the bad boy persona.
@mrpj13904 жыл бұрын
@@andrebaxter4023 They also have money. That helps. But otherwise you're absolutely correct.
@mrpj13903 жыл бұрын
@@andrebaxter4023 Also the guys you mentioned are celebrities. The average man, even the average playa can't get that many females that quickly! You gotta take that into consideration.
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
Women love men who other women want so if u have women chasing u your chances of being friendzoned are slim to none,and to all my bros in the friendzone ask them to hook u up with one of her girls "since we just friends" and watch her reaction more times than not they're not gonna do it because then you won't be available to be her emotional doormat/uncompensated handyman and God forbid she hooks you up and you make her friend happy ,especially in the bedroom lol, she gonna be big mad and watch how more attractive you start to look to her and watch her and her friend stop being friends all of a sudden😂😂💯
@WrightwayFT5 жыл бұрын
Facts women will love you for the same reason they hate you💯
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWTJk6t8obJrapo
@taylorthenatural55095 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't even bat an eye. I'd do it but my one friend is in a committed relationship so I would be a bad friend if I tried to hook someone up with her. Even still, those petty games don't work on me.
@kj38875 жыл бұрын
U ain't speaking nothing but facts bruh.
@soulbakin5 жыл бұрын
lol tru shit
@apierre65 жыл бұрын
"I wouldn't want to sacrifice my lifelong friendship with my male friends in order to try a relationship" Trust me, every single one of your male friends who finds you attractive would risk your friendship for potential relationship.
@seanwilson93025 жыл бұрын
I don't mind women curving me, I just want her to have that same energy when she outgrows her looks....
@JLAAMERICA5 жыл бұрын
Lol ya Savage though
@EarlinHumes5 жыл бұрын
Facts lol
@mcraft11815 жыл бұрын
How do you use DRAKE, a guy who has a child he HID with a STRIPPER as an example of a good guy who was friendzoned???🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️ Omg
@ludens15265 жыл бұрын
I never understood black women who say they want a “nice thug guy” like wtf is that? Wtf is “Thug love”?
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa48425 жыл бұрын
Ludens “ 2pac with a PhD" which means you have to be educated at the same time having some street cred and hood in you.
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa48425 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is when it comes to choose white guys they are not that picky anymore. Black women will date the nerdy version of non black guys any day. I remember one song of Childish gambino where he said " a black dude has to be only one type to look cool. But the white kid can be anything he wants to be "
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa48425 жыл бұрын
R Parker a vast majority of black people would choose the Jay and bey type of relationship over the Barack and Michelle relationship.
@MrFireboyFTW5 жыл бұрын
Doesn’t exist
@MrFireboyFTW5 жыл бұрын
R Parker nothing well rounded about being a thug
@pablotzuarbenisrael99165 жыл бұрын
With a visa and a passport, dudes shouldn't worry about the friend zone any more lol.
@gregoryglass90404 жыл бұрын
Right
@atakazulu4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kevindee62734 жыл бұрын
Nothing like options, something some women don't like.
@JohnSmith-lo3lc4 жыл бұрын
Facts!!!!
@kumajoey60314 жыл бұрын
Where would you go?
@HEAVYCHEVY4095 жыл бұрын
*First sign of Friendzone* The moment a female tells a man... your like a brother to me smh lol and the moment a dude says in front of his boys or female friends, that she like one of the homies! It's safe to say, your faith has been sealed! lol
@gajeel65 жыл бұрын
The "friendzone" is where us nice guys get put. We get passed over for the jobless, carless, no good men. I'm 29, no kids, full time job, military check every month for life, pay my bills on time, hit the gym 3x a week, have a car and live alone. I stay getting friendzoned because I don't go clubbing and don't smoke for the men that are knoooooown to abuse women and are known womanizers.
@eski_truv4 жыл бұрын
I’m going to refer you to some KZbin channels that are going to change your life for the better: Stephiscold, Alpha Male Strategies, MJ Getright, The Saint and the Sinner. You’ll never deal with things like the friends zone and having your feelings hurt by a women ever again
@JRP21ification3 жыл бұрын
Maybe they dont want you because you're whining like a bitch online with that nice guy rhetoric.
@gajeel63 жыл бұрын
@@JRP21ification I'm actually not on FB, IG, SC nor Twitter. Soooo mind ya own. ☮
@72defender4 жыл бұрын
If you ended up a “baby momma” instead of a wife then you picked the wrong guy.
@k.alvarado62375 жыл бұрын
If your friend zoned by a man or woman. Your normally chasing someone out of your league. I was overweight in high school... and all the pretty girls called me "brother" and other fiend like things. In college... I lost about 50 lbs. NOBODY wanted to be my friend anymore Your dating life is a representation of how you look.
@yaboiace17285 жыл бұрын
Man there is no such thing as “out of your league”. Trust me it’s not about the looks it’s about you as a person. Everybody not going to feel your energy but some will.
@gblk200115 жыл бұрын
FZ is physical shit.
@uriblaketheriddimprotege5 жыл бұрын
initial attraction is based alot on physical attraction. Just look at the poll, 49% said that they person they friendzoned wasnt physically attractive enough. At the end of the day we all want a good looking mate, but also need to be wise enough to know that because they look good doesnt mean they are good.
@KaluArt5 жыл бұрын
AMS-Gang where you at?
@leokyne62585 жыл бұрын
Nearly three quarter of black man put in to friend zone, but when it comes to men of other races, black women down to marry and maintain healthy relationship with them. The same nice guys and so called educated nerd and lame can be accepted as long he’s not black.
@davaughn23764 жыл бұрын
because when black women look at black men they see a thug because that's what they secretly want us to be. It excites them and they think its fun and adventurous until they get treated bad. sad but true
@bgerardj8715 жыл бұрын
“There’s no such thing as a friend zone.” Just another way of dodging accountability.
@jayjay79785 жыл бұрын
I 100% agree that women have the right to choose whomever they want. Just if they're into the bad boy and hood type, don't categorize all of us black men as being no good if they get done wrong by the bad boy type because that is the type they chose and they don't have the right to say all of us black men are no good based on the type of black men they choose to go after.
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
Come on brah. Can't tell crazy black women what to do 😂
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
@Monica58 Buttercups 😂 unless on KZbin comments we don't talk about Ya'll? As a group? Da hell?
@jayjay79785 жыл бұрын
@Monica58 Buttercups I don't and I know other brothers who don't do that either so it's incorrect to put us in that category of no good men just like it's wrong for other black man who do that to y'all. We as black people need to work on being a solution to the problem not apart of it.
@KtotheG5 жыл бұрын
@Monica58 Buttercups Why can't you respond to a criticism of black women without saying, "...but, but, but black men do it, too."? That is your response for everything.
@davidsimmons47315 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Women, black or otherwise have the right to thier preferences with qualification or explanation. I dont begrudge them for that. However, all rights come with responsibility. If you are choosing an action, you're choosing the consequences of said action. So if you're going to choose sorry men, accept the consequences of being with them, ie single motherhood, domestic abuse, etc, et al. Just don't slander men who you didnt choose or didn't give a chance. Almost woman I know or have ever known has a man or in some cases, men, who would love to be with them and probably make good mates, but they aren't interested in them, for whatever reason which is thier right.
@roberteugene72955 жыл бұрын
(Sigh) Let me give you a clue, ladies. The vast majority of men looking for an actual relationship with a woman are taught to become "friends first." God bless our mothers and sisters, but they wouldn't tell us what *gets* the girl, only what keeps her. They care so much about us, they can't bring themselves to see reality from a "significant other" viewpoint. 1) Yes, the friend zone exists. Again, it's not actually you, ladies, that cause it. It's that the guys accept it (being "just friends") because they were *taught* that this is the way to your heart. 2) Guys get that just because he likes you (i.e. wants to date you) doesn't obligate you to like him back. But, again, he's been taught all wrong; that being your friend and "being nice" is the way to get into a relationship with you. 3) No, ladies, you're not completely innocent in this zone. I've observed the thoughtless, callous phrases and behaviors that make the friend zone a place to be avoided. Remarks like, "you'll make some girl very happy." (You forgot to bluntly say, "it just won't be me.") For some good examples, watch a video series called, "what the friend zone sounds like," by Scooter MacGruder. Hope that helps. Have a great day, and Happy New Year!
5 жыл бұрын
Not all relationships that end up in commitment start off as friends ... I'm so sick of that Bullshit myth ... LMAO
@dexkato73295 жыл бұрын
Is it a coincidence that the friend zone is filled with men who are 5'10 tall and shorter, they lack swag, and are usually very polite, educated, have great jobs and careers, no baby mama drama, and they exude beta male energy? BTW, I totally disagree with your statement that men don't handle rejection very well. Men are built to handle rejection. It's something that we encounter on a daily basis. It's time for the girlfriend network to own your truth, as it relates to dating men. If the Ninja ain't at least 6ft tall, he doesn't exude alpha male energy, and he doesn't keep you entertained, you send him straight to the friend zone. Non black women are finding amazing boyfriends ,and black millionaires husbands from the black womans 3rd round draft picks, otherwise known as the friend zone 😎
@dexkato73295 жыл бұрын
Facts! If your preferences are your wish list. However, the type of man that you're able to attract may be the polar opposite of the type of guy that you think that you're entitled to.
@jeromebrown57445 жыл бұрын
They want Mr. Nice when they are used up and expired. Men are waking up to their games. I was rolling when she said men can't handle rejection. The female ego is the most fragile there is. What a buffoon.😂😂
@andrebaxter40235 жыл бұрын
Exuding beta male energy is the only part that is really correct on your statement @Dex. The rest doesn't matter. Alpha males have options with women. The race doesn't matter. Trust me.
5 жыл бұрын
@Monica58 Buttercups PREACH 🤗
@kobe88us5 жыл бұрын
Dex Kato Preach
@dowardwashington99585 жыл бұрын
A woman of quality should be looking for a man of quality.
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
That guys boring she don't want that
@literarylady11255 жыл бұрын
Love this sentiment 💞👍😊
@Foe4Flow5 жыл бұрын
What is a qulaity female?
@C_The_Guy5 жыл бұрын
Doward Washington human beings make that shit so complicated when its really that simple.
@roww105 жыл бұрын
Sounds good but you'd better ask them what they think is a "man of quality." If they answer honestly you know why they are where they are.
@TheNapoleon3575 жыл бұрын
I have questions. So women don't owe it to men to be attracted to them, but men owe it to women to be their friends? No. And there is a very simple reason for it. Being “friends” with someone you want is absolute torture. Some people would call this immature, it is not. For any relationship to work, friends, lovers, whatever, those people both need to want the same things or one of you will not be happy. You being happy is important, your feelings on the topic matter. If you won’t be happy with being friends, don’t do it
@butterflymage56235 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between friendships and the friend zone. Friend zoning is deliberately leading someone on without being honest about not being interested. At the same time if you realize you're in that place and choose to stay there, don't complain.
@killacamron935 жыл бұрын
It’s typically an issue with oneitis. The simple solution is to not to be their friend. It’s like a negotiation; if you two can’t have a unanimous decision on what y’all tryna be then it’s best to part ways.
@cherylvaughn22155 жыл бұрын
the FRIENDZONE is a real thang! but it's always the men's fault. As a guy, all you have to do is don't do anything for woman that a boyfriend/husband is supposed to do. No moving furniture, no calling me to do anything for a woman and stop hanging with any woman without sex. If men did this, then women would only call on men who are available. Men...stop being available for a woman that you aren't sexing. There's nothing wrong with this! Be true to yourself....
@sircommenter51285 жыл бұрын
@@devilsadvocate7059 no, they can't be friends. If the man is not attracted to her, then maybe they can be. Women consider men friends when the man services hey like a boyfriend but without the sex. So she gets commitment without sex. When it's reversed, it's called friends with benefits, but not really friends.
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
Facts💯👆
@yaboiace17285 жыл бұрын
Devils Advocate yea that’s very immature. Imagine how many good people you miss out on meeting with this kind of mindset. Women and men can be friends if you respect each other’s boundaries.
@yaboiace17285 жыл бұрын
SirCommenter 512 you telling me you can’t be friends with an attractive women? Bro you are missing out on life. If you befriend beautiful women then guess what. They will introduce you to circles of beautiful women.
@Kenneth1815 жыл бұрын
CHERYL VAUGHN exactly. Men have to attach a price to kindness and generosity. If she not interested in you intimately/sexually then ask her for money and favors. Don’t just give her a commitment she had to do nothing for. Make her earn your friendship.
@kam.kam.5 жыл бұрын
The friend zone is a mythical place where unchosen lovers cement themselves voluntarily. They go there and willfully stalk around the life of the person who has rejected their romantic advances so they can pine after them and try to convince a person that they're worth their flesh. If you've been rejected, leave. The end. I mean...... Who gets kicked out of the club only to stare in the windows and try to return every weekend?? Killers on the ID channel, that's who.
5 жыл бұрын
ROFLMAO ... I'm on the floor with this one too funny
@williamwharton75045 жыл бұрын
My experience has been American Black Women are attracted to hyper masculinity. For example Future has 5-6 baby mamas, and already had 3 baby mamas when he met Ciara. Now they may find Russell Wilson handsome, but they find Future "Arousing". In Black America "Arousing" beats handsome stability 95% of the time. lol
@mcraft11815 жыл бұрын
Hyper masculinity is the only thing promoted in our community. Where is the good guy anthem?
@williamwharton75045 жыл бұрын
@@mcraft1181 Good question. The music, movies, and images of most other cultures promotes the "Good Guy Hero" over the "Dangerous Bad Boy". For example Beyonce had a song she wrote called "Soldier" kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3etZImBo9yggNk a song about how they lust for Street Boys. While Taylor Swift has a song you "You belong with me" kzbin.info/www/bejne/jKaxeqaPa6-Xi9k a song about her being attracted to a regular boy at her High School. He's not a "Bad Boy", just a regular guy. So I don't know what came first the chicken or the egg? Plenty of White Men are bad boys but they are not promoted as long term sexual partners in popular culture.
@spacelyman94825 жыл бұрын
Very true
@MarvAuthor5 жыл бұрын
By the time some hit the wall they wake up. For many it's too late to attract the kind of man they really want
5 жыл бұрын
That is an IGNORANT Over generalization !!!! #NotAllAmericanBlackWomen just the ones you know !!! Women get friend zoned too ... FYI
@ShaqDaddyx3805 жыл бұрын
I actually agree with what you women said in this video. Just because you like someone doesn't mean the other person is inclined to like you back. It goes both ways for if you friendzone a man or if you friend zone a woman. However the only thing I have to add is, the other person who initiated the friendzone shouldn't be upset if you decide to be with someone else or try to seek extra attention from that person if they are now putting their energy into someone else. It's not fair, because it's more of a selfish desire to want to be wanted by someone even though you don't want them back. This goes for women and men. I feel like a lot of people definitely do this. I'm not saying completely cut the other person off if they friendzone you, that is your choice and up to you on what value you put the relationship between you and the other person, but seeking attention/validation from someone you friendzoned isn't fair/right. Don't try to see someone's full value after the person you friendzoned is with someone else because the person they are with, sees their full value. However this is just my opinion. This video was still very interesting to watch.
@geraldos90945 жыл бұрын
The good man will magnify your faults, he’s a direct contrast to your broken self. Which is why BW prefer the fixer upper, he’s broken, she’s broken...in the end she can always blame him for whatever happens. Garbage in, garbage out....
@obiwashere5 жыл бұрын
3:18 Give this same energy to Michael b Jordan. “We like who we like”
@kobe88us5 жыл бұрын
obi was here these females be lying so much
@Nerdystreetwearguy5 жыл бұрын
So the friend-zone doesn’t exist when it come to men who like women but when it’s women who like men the friend zone is real
@mrpj13904 жыл бұрын
Yep. Women logic.....😉
@draytonnmays855 жыл бұрын
There's no such thing as a friend zone for women .
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
Correct
@draytonnmays855 жыл бұрын
Blonde Con exactly . He either want you or he don't.
@yaboiace17285 жыл бұрын
Not true I do it all the time.
@pandoraheartsvd5 жыл бұрын
Yes there is
@lilshawonjawn14655 жыл бұрын
pandoraheartsvd no there’s not u got a 🐱
@Rocioslane5 жыл бұрын
The Friendzone DEFINITELY exists for some people (male or female)!
@6fthighgetlifted5 жыл бұрын
only when you have to keep dropping hints that you're not into that friend because you know they're lying when they say they're cool with it lol
@spacelyman94825 жыл бұрын
Women only go through friendzone when they start having kids. Other than that they can get any guy they want while their young.
@peridozq93905 жыл бұрын
Rossygrossy I think the friend zone can happen to everybody not just some people . The more out of your league you reach for, the more friendzone experiences you’re gonna collect under your belt.
@peridozq93905 жыл бұрын
Spacely Man That’s not true, being a young woman doesn’t mean you can get any guy unless you talking about ONS or friends with benefits which is if no benefit to women.
@KtotheG5 жыл бұрын
I don't friend zone women. They friend zone themselves.
@alonzocarter85105 жыл бұрын
It's obvious women always put the wrong men in the friendzone,if that wasn't the case women wouldn't always b single
@Iaintbrokenomo5 жыл бұрын
This conversation is goofy for adults. This is a teenage conversation
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
.. Bro it's women.. What do you expect
@VegitoBlackk5 жыл бұрын
@@Sp1n1985 this
@KtotheG5 жыл бұрын
Grown ass women are still friend zoning grown ass men. Some beta males never learn.
5 жыл бұрын
Then tell that to the crying azz dudes who love complaining about being friend Zoned ... #VictimMentality
@thotcrimez42525 жыл бұрын
It’s a topic. Chill.
@vol.95435 жыл бұрын
You don’t need to test drive everyone. You only need one spouse so if someone is not interested, good, that’s confirmation they aren’t for you. Keep it movin’ and don’t clutter your life with meaningless relationships. Who has time and energy for that anyway? Nobody eligible, that’s for sure.
@killacamron935 жыл бұрын
VoL. exactly, get curved and delete them out of your life. It’s too many women out here to be hung up on one.
@Station0Pods4 жыл бұрын
@The Ra But we're not cavemen anymore. Catch up a couple thousand years and see for yourself.
@MoneyC2255 жыл бұрын
Another elementary topic. Those chicks that use the FZ on the "guys wit a promising future" from ages 16-29, are desperately lookin' 4 those same dudes when they are around 35. You can't take the female mindset serious. To all you nice guys & simps: if you are FZ'd, accept it and move on. There are chicks out there that'll accept you as is; and that chick that FZ'd you will get jealous cuz chicks don't like 2 see other chicks happy. All of a sudden, she'll find interest in you.
@C-Lightning5 жыл бұрын
Thanks man, I needed that!
@Jazzclub1015 жыл бұрын
you hit the nail right ..................exactly women dont like to see other women happy ..........
@TrestanSKYWALKR5 жыл бұрын
Maaaaaan! I have been there! I was the “good guy” went to school, was quiet and was basically too square. Girls always wanted the “thug”. Then 30 got desperately close... All of the sudden, I’m a beautiful black man that was just irresistible. All the bad boys were either in jail or couldn’t get a job. The girls who had all the fun with, said bad boys, were realizing they weren’t going to look the way the look for much longer and things like credit and medical insurance suddenly became popular. A college degree suddenly became popular. Quiet suddenly became popular. I’m the same dude I was back then. I have to admit it was so satisfying to turn the tables and friend zone them.
@sircommenter51285 жыл бұрын
@@TrestanSKYWALKR it's called the "epiphany phase." I went through the same thing.
@TrestanSKYWALKR5 жыл бұрын
SirCommenter 512 it’s good they have a name for it now! It comes on at around 30 years old!
@YoDaddyBlack5 жыл бұрын
Women don’t get friend zoned. Women created the friend zone.
@jessicascott.835 жыл бұрын
It wouldn’t be a friend zone if you’re upfront with what you want from the other person. I have a guy friend that I told from the beginning that I wanted as a friend. He had a choice to be my friend or keep it moving. “Friend zones” take away the choice of one party within the relationship. People are afraid of others’ choices because there’s a possibility they won’t get what they want.
@midnightmave5 жыл бұрын
I think the way we view the friend zone is different. To me, the friend zone is a place where I categorize men who might feel something for me, but I just want to remain platonic since the feeling isn’t mutual. I feel like guys (at least in my life) view it as a bench. They’re on the sidelines waiting for my number one pick (my boyfriend) to mess up and get kicked out of the game. Please don’t be a bench warmer, people. There are plenty of people out there who are looking for you, I’m just not one of them.
@dowardwashington99585 жыл бұрын
Women want a guy who is everything: A THUG, WHO WRITES POETRY, RUNS A FORTUNE 500 COMPANY, AND COMES HOME EVERY NIGHT BEFORE 6 PM. Grow up ladies, you can't have it all.
@kj38875 жыл бұрын
@A Black If a nigga got muscles he can protect you. He ain't gotta be a thug.
@chicosworld5 жыл бұрын
@A Black actually you would be suprised how many women from middle class areas like hood cats because see them as exciting and different from the "Carltons" they live around ...they like the thrill of experiencing the "hood life" without actually living in the hood because theyve been sheltered....goes both ways ...seen it first hand💯
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
And they're stupid enough to think being a thug is a good quality.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
@@kj3887 The Stone Age ended thousands of years ago. Muscles are not needed.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
@A Black A majority of African-American women want thugs.
@Ravenlife-dm7hy5 жыл бұрын
Just like how black women demand black men choose them first over non-black women. This same panel had a video somewhat complaining about black men dating IR
@Ravenlife-dm7hy5 жыл бұрын
Monica58 Buttercups I honestly like some of the issues they talk about when it concerns men....plus I’m a professional troll
@kimberlysnow8915 жыл бұрын
@@Ravenlife-dm7hy Black dudes like you are weirdos 😂 the obsession with black women is real 💀
@Ravenlife-dm7hy5 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Snow yo, chill out. I said nothing disrespectful or hateful. Calm down sis
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlysnow891 Your comment shows that you are the weird one.
@Kelz085 жыл бұрын
But if you friend zone a sista and then they see you with someone who don’t look like them they quick to criticize his choice etc
@LadyAngela6785 жыл бұрын
Go ahead and cross over bro. 👋🏽😂
@NorthPhilly-zr7xc4 жыл бұрын
@ you the only one,black woman get mad at black.men dating out but these be the black men that they pass up on lol sistas is crazy
4 жыл бұрын
@@NorthPhilly-zr7xc who said I was Black?? 🥴😳 second most Men Black or otherwise CANNOT meet my STANDARDS Sooooo ... sorry chump ... you are WRONG 👿 thats why your azz gets Friendzoned ... Smgdh ROFLMAO
@kayqew5 жыл бұрын
Title is misleading as they are not acknowledging the zone exists thus it's a conversation about men being to blame
@jamesparker7225 жыл бұрын
Kwasi Qew lol right I noticed that too
@tariqsharif96945 жыл бұрын
We men need to understand that you don’t have to like us when we like you, this is true. Black women typically don’t tolerate corny. With that in mind, when a white woman takes interest in a black man that has been rejected by black women, suffer in silence.
@DrB_845 жыл бұрын
friendzone for men=sidechick for women
@jlemaire225 жыл бұрын
From time she said I like that thug love, the point was made. Leave like this alone to their own devices.
@ScorpioOnTheGo5 жыл бұрын
As a black man I appreciate the honestly Men we need to stop getting upset over rejection and start going after women who wants us. Catch flights not feelings Women of other cultures and nationalities will give a “nice average joe” a chance My problem with Black women in America is if she’s considered extremely beautiful, it’s an insult to her if an average man comes and speak to her and this attitude I’ve encountered a lot especially with our younger women They make men feel inferior for even attempting to court them unless if they look like the man they want in they heads I’ve dated some of the most beautiful non black women and they don’t have the mentality of our women An average joe can approach them with confidence and even if it doesn’t go his way he’s not insulted or felt bad for even trying Me get your passport and travel There is a world outside of American black women who treat black men better
@ricorogers93195 жыл бұрын
scorpio305mia Interesting..And yeah "nice average joe" type dudes are usually friendzoned...But the funny thing is, women always spin the narrative that guys complaining are nerdy,corny, unattractive guys..Lol...When in reality that's usually not the case
5 жыл бұрын
Awwwww LMAO ... You do know Africa is a continent?? Or did you not finish middle school?
@ScorpioOnTheGo5 жыл бұрын
Princess Aab where in my post did I mention Africa? How bout you go troll on someone else’s comment
5 жыл бұрын
And you look like a butch chick anyway ... LOL
@LadyAngela6785 жыл бұрын
Thank you for stop trying to date black women. 😊.. What makes you think you deserve to have the most beautiful women anyhow??
@C_The_Guy5 жыл бұрын
Pop culture doesnt "perpetuate" any "narrative" of the "friendzoned guy," ...it reflects the reality of something that actually exists. There are many guys who can cite themselves as real life examples and give testimonies. Denying that a friendzone exists it nonsense and just denial.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
Delusional American women always want to rationalize their atrocious and stupid behavior.
@OlandoWilson5 жыл бұрын
You a damn fool for that Thug Love comment, but this episode was more personal with the stories and opinions the ladies shared. Very good.
@Gajeel-qu9gx5 жыл бұрын
Lol can't stop laughing here.
@calmmind12475 жыл бұрын
It's nothing wrong with being friends its all about the intentions if your a guy and a woman friendzones just move on why stay where you aren't wanted you don't have to say I'm a good man etc etc if she says we should be friends you should say I'm looking for more than that and walk away but trying to stick around and hope for the best is being weak
@DJSTUX934 жыл бұрын
well said! It really is that simple
@votexceo5 жыл бұрын
There should be a male version of this . Or they should have a show where there is both male and female on the show at the same time
@MarvAuthor5 жыл бұрын
The issue many blue pill men have with the friend zone is these women use them for their resources (money and time), while giving little in return.
@votexceo5 жыл бұрын
I want to see their faces when the shoe is on the other foot and they approach men on a regular bases and we sit back and watch them . I bet most of them wouldn't do it . and if they do they will see how the life of a man really is.
@_Tree5 жыл бұрын
I was in that zone throughout my 20s. It's a gift and a curse. I thought about dating a few of my female friends, but couldn't do it because I didn't want to lose the "friend" in her if things go wrong
@ThatChickKim5 жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as friend zoning the wrong person; Because, if I'm not attracted to them, I'M NOT ATTRACTED TO THEM!
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
Gotta have 2/3 6s
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
@Kareem Gatlin she's not being honest. Women are only attracted the three 6s 1. 6⃣ Feet tall 2. 6⃣ Pack of abs 3. 6⃣ Figures in the bank If a man possess two of three she'll immediately find him "attractive"
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
@Kareem Gatlinmost women are "superficial" Also nothing I suggested are superficial. They're evolution Height is a characteristic women find attractive because they are short and they find that being short is difficult. Don't pass that to a child A six-pack would entail the man being in shape him being in shape makes him healthy to be a father and good at being a laborer and protection finally six figures is resources women are looking for a man who can provide for her because for 9 months if she's laid up and gets pregnant. in order for women to think you're attractive a man must possess two out of three of those characteristics to be a protector and a provider as a man
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
@Kareem Gatlin *sigh* dating experience? My guy the women in this video pay attention to their hypocrisy. there is no genuine connection 😂. You must watch romantic films and listen to R&B. Hopeless romantic men must touch the fire first to learn okay.. Oh well
@Sp1n19855 жыл бұрын
@Kareem Gatlin she sleep with them?
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa48425 жыл бұрын
Any man who allows a woman putting him in the friend zone, is a simp. I know this guy who was in the friendzone for 4 years and during those 4 years the chick managed to have 2 kids with 2 men, and today the same guy is engaged to her. And the most fucked up part is women were praising him like he’s a real man, patient and shit smh...
@teealymac5 жыл бұрын
Guys never let a girl friend zone you, kick your way out of that friend zone and stay away from her. Let her know the guy that's having sex with her can be her friend lol..
@bobbym17995 жыл бұрын
I love these videos I love to see the point of view of really intelligent black women I just have to say for this video in particular you can't open with there's no such thing as a friend zone and then clearly breakdown that there is clearly a friend zone. If your opening statements is saying that it's all in certain guys heads but then come up with great examples of you yourself doing it and then alluding to it all throughout the video then we have to admit that there some validity to these claims. Some people may have never experienced this but to those who have you can't simply invalidate their claims or put down the experiences as a result of it. The fact is that there is a place for everything we just compartmentalize in this way because this is the treatment that we have received from women we've tried to pursue and instead of rejecting us outright the choose to pretend like there's a friendship there and want to keep us around instead of doing what's right and just letting us go on our way.
@jonathangriffin80605 жыл бұрын
It seems to me that women rarely get put in "friend zone" and it is so easy to say that it doesn't exist. And what I also find amazing is when these women go out with guys who are real jerks and when said "jerks" treat these women like crap and then, they start talking to the guy that they put in the "friend zone". I myself have been put in the "friend zone" so many times over the course of 30+ years, I just make the choice to do for myself and put dating on the back burner. These women are so hung up n whether or not the guy looks good or what the guy can do for her and how much he spends on her. And as for the woman giving a guy a second look after telling him that she wants to be "friends", she just lost out on what could have been an awesome relationship. I have been in situations like this and I told these women, "You had your chance and you blew it. Peace!"
@chrissalley94685 жыл бұрын
Everyone has a choice. Man or woman. No one is obligated to like you just because you like them. The thing is the only opposite sex relationship that lasts over time is marriage or some kind of intimate relationship. No matter how good that "male" friend is he is gonna leave you at some point. You don't see 60 year old men hanging with a female friend from high school. It doesn't work that way. A guy's goal is to always get a woman of his own. He will be nice and play a part in your life but as soon as he finds the woman for him he is out
@TokyoTraveller5 жыл бұрын
Ok, so when the same ladies lament not being able to find a "good" man, they should watch this video.
@jerrygreen10732 жыл бұрын
This was interesting. Communication is always key in any situation. I've been in situation where a woman just didn't like me that way. Ladies stop thinking that men are upset because you don't like him that way. Just say... I don't like you that way. We will understand. If he gets mad, then he is not even worthy of friendship. It's that simple. I had a woman that I thought highly of that handle our situation unlike an adult and ghosted me. I moved on.
@briantbethea5 жыл бұрын
Some guys are different. So though some may get upset at being friend zoned, most of the time from what I've seen guys typically get upset when we get friend zoned when a woman chooses a guy who's no good for her & puts her through all types of drama.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
That's an important qualifier.
@bigtheo035 жыл бұрын
The real issue is women don't look for good man until the good they are all gone. Then they say there is no more good man. Yes because you friend zoned him.
@yaboiace17285 жыл бұрын
What’s funny about this is women get more upset about getting “friend zoned” then men. Women do not take rejection easily. Also, what the hell is wrong with being a friend? You know how many cool people there are out there that you haven’t met because you so damn afraid of the “friend zone”. Cut the high school crap out. Some of the best relationships grew from friendships.
@pp3k3jamail2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I can't be no friends with no females if I'm not having sex with her I'm not going to be friends with her. Especially if the female is attractive ain't no way I'm just be hanging around with her just to be hanging around with her. I don't have problems getting females so if a chick didn't want me then I would just cut ties and move on but I'm not going to be hanging around her being her best male friend.
@whoisdesirtv5 жыл бұрын
The friendzone is interesting on both sides. When you play the field; it never feels like being in the friendzone. If I meet a woman; ask you to go out for drinks or coffee and you’re not interested, I just call someone else. (However, there are times where men and women hit it off in that instant and go for coffee/drinks/date only later to realize it won’t work.) To continue from my thoughts earlier; if you hit me later after saying no to drinks; I will talk/communicate and understand who you are a little more but probably won’t focus on the rejection (something I’ve done since middle school). Mainly because there are so many women and dwelling is very time consuming. I’ve friendzoned some women who think a good date; my status in society and ambition made me a good candidate to investigate and put under a spotlight as a suitor. This sucks cause now it is almost like you have to carry some type of badge of being suave and worldly for them. Being friendzoned isn’t something men really talk about but the guys who play the field exchange stories and it is hilarious. The stories give perspective to the man and woman dynamic from a male perspective. Furthermore, being around women as much as I am; it is almost a cheat code to understand what they like and dislike about us. Not that it is my job to play games but it is interesting when you have a type and you’re not friendzoned; those relationships turn out pretty good and always make you learn more about yourself on both sides.
@turnthepage8675 жыл бұрын
Men deserve a woman who is romantically attracted to them. Too many women marry "good guys" who they don't desire. Result: not enough sex in the marriage, and the man's self-esteem suffers.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
That's why prostitution should be legalized a la much of Europe.
@rogers56225 жыл бұрын
I think its wrong to friendZone A guy you KNOW likes you. If he chooses to walk away from you dont bash his character. I have seen this happen to my nephew and know these guys do NOT want to hang out with you and your new Boo.
@karpogaming5 жыл бұрын
Subbed...Friend zone or not if he got That "D" he won't be there for long!!!...lmao😂✌
@TheFlyyBohemian5 жыл бұрын
We aren’t going to be everyone’s cup of tea. I have friend zoned or rejected a lot of guys because of religious differences, large age differences, poor life decisions, multiple out-of-wedlock kids, being in between jobs, or just getting a sense that they were a user of some sort and just trying to hit. Just because a guy expresses interest doesn’t mean he has the best intentions for you or even wants to commit to you. I think the problem with many men is that they feel that they are entitled to a woman’s attention, even if them dealing with her is mostly about their self interest.
@Timoteo45 жыл бұрын
For men, if you feel you can't be friends with someone because you want more, don't "settle" for friendship. Move on. Don't hang around hoping you'll get a shot. Also, you need to actually step up and take your shot - don't "play" friend, but don't actually make that move and risk rejection. But...the "friendzone" does exist. Like the guy you'll call to assemble your new bed, then call another dude over to have sex in it....hahaha!
@strawmandoe3 жыл бұрын
This is the one thing I left out you can refuse to be in the friend zone by stop talking to that person simple
@willbrown22154 жыл бұрын
These women don't even understand the definition of friendzone friend zone is when a lady that you like knows that you like her and would lead you on but just enough to keep you around thinking that you will have a chance and I know in a mind that you would never have a chance that's a friend zone
@MrDre19835 жыл бұрын
This subject annoys me. It's like when we talk about this subject, females seem to forget the reason why we are so frustrated about the friend zone. The most annoying thing is when you get put in the friend zone and watch the girl you like/ love get treated like absolute garbage and see her go back to him time and time again. Are we frustrated because you don't like us back? of course and we will think that you would be better off with us because we would never treat you that way. That damages us as men to think that you would rather be with someone like that than us.
@brucenadeau12805 жыл бұрын
Not all women have friend zone , the thing is friend zone is a woman has a guy that like her and she does not return his feeling but will still use his feeling
@thehealthbodyfitness5 жыл бұрын
As a Guy work on yourself if you been put in Friend Zone an things will work out
@Scoring575 жыл бұрын
Yeah women play too many silly, silly games sometimes.
@BernardRiley5 жыл бұрын
They are pretending not to understand the difference between rejecting a guy and friend zoning a guy. Rejecting, you reject and it's done. The friend zoning is a woman putting a guy on a hamster wheel, using the fact that she know he wants more as her way of using him for her emotional needs and things she enjoy or need from a man that doesn't involve sex even though she knows that's what he wants. It's dangling the possibility of sex over the head of a guy your never going to have sex with.
@therailgun88805 жыл бұрын
It's just very demoralizing when the people you like has never liked you back while watching others go through relationships like a knife through butter. It's easy to just get mad at others and yourself.
@cervr14 жыл бұрын
A man should never put himself in the position of just being a good friend to a woman. Especially with the expectations of hoping that one day it will inevitably turn into something more. Because it’s a waste of time, and definitely the ultimate simp thing a man can do for a woman who may not even be worth your time anyway. When a man puts himself in the friend zone position, she will always perceive him as weak, uninteresting, and just a friend like one of her girls. Besides, clinging onto a friendship with a woman, in hopes of it being something more will actually create the opposite effect, emotionally. It’s not called no mans land for nothing, if she’s not feeling you, Move on. Never put yourself in a friend zone status, because you could be missing out.
@Aggie4life774 жыл бұрын
Friend zone is only a big deal if you constantly get put in that zone!
@jwcs225 жыл бұрын
Wow this was interesting. As a good and nice guy I can tell you there is. A friend zone on both sides. By the time the girl or guy realize that they like the person they have friend zoned its to late. I feel it's hard to find a good persons to be friends with or date now a days because men and women have a hard time understanding one another.
@tomau39463 жыл бұрын
And then there is the man or woman that our parents (or best friends) think that we should date, but we don't. Why is that?
@phineashenshaw5 жыл бұрын
When I was growing up, there had to be a balance. Women who choose bad men are not good women. What has been lost is the understanding that just because you like or are attracted to someone does not mean they are meant for you to be with. Also lost is the understanding that just because you think you are a good person does not mean the opposite sex has an obligation to like you. That being said, the men that wind up in friend-zones have a scarcity mentality. Even though this turns off women, they will keep this same guy around if he has something to offer her. These days, the men who get further are the ones that will just take rejection, not tolerate the friend-zone and move on. Men have to realize that gone are the days of women needing men for monetary needs and protection. Now it is all about how you behave and your game.
@corychin70905 жыл бұрын
One of them started of saying friendzoning is a myth and 3 minutes later says she has been friendzoned! Wtf
@devincognito89325 жыл бұрын
I feel like the guys that have s problem watch men treat them bad when they would treat them like a queen. At least it seems that way.
@sircommenter51285 жыл бұрын
This channel is very informative regarding how women think, but oh so cringe worthy. Women have the option to friendzone men in their youth. To young, fertile women, it's like a train comes every 5 min. What they don't realize is that consistent male attention has a shelf life. At some point, usually early thirties that consistent male attention slows. It may come still, but not from the same caliber of men they could once get. This is where you hear them lament about, "where are all the nice guys have gone?" Those guys figure it out eventually & stop playing the friendszone game. This is where these men explore their own options, which include women of other races & cultures. Women think they can afford to have backups because they often see men as utilities, like a toaster or vacuum. As a rule, men shouldn't have a relationship until he's in his early thirties. Marriage should be considered in mid thirties only if he wants a family. Until then he should date multiple women at once while pursuing life goals & improving himself. Women get friendszoned too but it's when they can't get commitment from someone they have slept with.
@mcraft11815 жыл бұрын
This is how these particular women think. They are not a representative of all black women
@Incognito-jl3jk5 жыл бұрын
Monica Craft they actually are
@mcraft11815 жыл бұрын
@@Incognito-jl3jk nope
@Incognito-jl3jk5 жыл бұрын
Monica Craft they are
@mcraft11815 жыл бұрын
@@Incognito-jl3jk guess every deadbeat, jailbird dusty a representation of you?🤷🏽♀️ This can go more than one way. Smh
@mr.shakur39305 жыл бұрын
Men “friend zoned” .... “men are making that up, we just didn’t want you”......later in the convo “sometimes we get friend zoned”.... which one is it?
@agentsmith85684 жыл бұрын
Women take rejection WORSE!
@jaygee44115 жыл бұрын
So about the "he didn't express interest earlier". So that means that you were open to dating your friend, but now reject that out of pride, because he should have chosen your amazing self before?
@melissajean41495 жыл бұрын
If I put a guy in the friendzone, I either don't find him attractive or I enjoy being his friend too much to date him & potentially ruin the bond we have. If I find a man ugly, I refuse to try & force myself to date him bc I know that I won't be a good partner to him.
@niceforwhat93305 жыл бұрын
Melissa Jean but you are ugly and dark skin how can you reject someone lol
@vash29294 жыл бұрын
Looks aren't everything miss lady
@melissajean41494 жыл бұрын
@@vash2929 but they're something, and I'm not going to put myself or him a position to be in a relationship with someone who doesn't fully want him the way he should be wanted.
@jonathanfarley20234 жыл бұрын
Unless he's rich or a criminal. Then all of a sudden his ugliness doesn't matter to you.
@kumajoey60314 жыл бұрын
@@vash2929 so guys give girls they find unattractive a chance?
@jamelslifestyle5 жыл бұрын
Just because a person treats you right and wants to spend time with you ,doesn’t mean they are needy.They’re just showing you how valuable you are to them.It’s sad that some people see this type of person (male or female) as someone not good for them and wants to be nothing more than just friends.People in society have it so backwards sometimes.If you are attracted to someone,but sideline them because you mistake their desire to be with and you as needy and too nice.You are the one missing out,Not them....Smh... 🤦🏻♂️