Do you AGREE with Her?! - Michael Knowles REACTION

Do you AGREE with Her?! - Michael Knowles REACTION #shorts #viral #michaelknowles

[@rubberband7341]

I came home from work to an empty house and no way to reach my wife and children or any of my in-laws. She thought my family had more money than we did… I didn’t know she was marrying me for money. My wife’s mother set my wife up on a date with a guy who’s family had a lot of money…. It went well and she left me. He turned out to be a pedophile …. Now he is in jail, she is in a mental hospital and I have my kids, an awesome wife and financial security.

[@AlvinKazu]

Good for you man! I hope your kids are okay and weren't hurt by that disgusting POS. These women are CRAZY. Hopefully she enjoys her time in the mental ward. Why exactly did she end up in there? Hopefully the kids don't have anything to do with her or her parents. I also hope her father saw the light and realized wtf HE was dealing with.

[@dougtheviking6503]

She's nuts

[@morrnmanderson7376]

Go King!

[@gotaer]

@rubberband7341 I hope you don't let the ex-mother in law ever see the kids

[@shwnusmc119]

God I wish I could come home to an empty house. Sounds like you hit the lotto

[@chakkakon]

Advice my dad gave me as a teenager: When a woman stops talking, you’d better start listening.

[@joewalsh4713]

That's bad advice. Just fucking listen from day one.

[@damonmoore3053]

Do they ever stop talking

[@Rob-mk9hw]

My dad said if she isn't talking to you that's because your not a responsible husband because your a self centered little shyte

[@fastfords9072]

Why im single

[@Rob-mk9hw]

@@fastfords9072 your single because your not mature.

[@lucystar9001]

My father was seemingly a nice guy, people outside of our house thought how kind hearted he was. Said he wouldnt hurt a fly. Couldnt have been further from the truth, he was abusive, he constantly threatened violence, he went on tirades ransacking the house and we kids had to clean it up. My mom was petrified, the whole family didnt believe us. So we quietly saved money and then left one day. To this day, he plays the victim. Not everything is as it seems.

[@Katareena1]

Mine all over, its been delightful on here tonight finding all these stories so much like my own, makes me feel better knowing I'm not weird other people thinking same things

[@sharondarogers7558]

Gaslighting is real. Blaming the victim is real. Society has been slow to acknowledge the sins of abusers nevertheless address the fallout. So, when a person has to take upon themselves to escape, the backseat drivers always seem to have some sort of b/s expert opinion. 🤔

[@djosserperrah9563]

She literally stated not domestic violence situations to avoid people like you making excuses for the behavior but yet here you are. Not every husband and father was abusive but still dealt with this. If he's abusive do w.e you have to do to get away safely. If he's not abusive be honest and leave don't drag it out foe months or years just to get yourself in a good position.

[@bettyh3747]

​@@djosserperrah9563and how do we know? She maybe says there's no abuse but is she on the side of the wonderful abuser?

[@gaidenshinji8969]

@@djosserperrah9563 yeah i know right? she clearly said "NOT TALKING ABOUT THE ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS"

[@brettbussart2844]

Now imagine if that man or woman put that amount of deliberate effort and energy into working on building their relationship...together.

[@heatherbanks9867]

That’s the thing.. it’s usually only the woman doing it and she fights alone for years before she finally reaches indifference. He didn’t even notice his wife not giving a damn anymore? For months? That’s your clue.

[@byngostar6895]

@@heatherbanks9867yes absolutely. And they don’t want to put in the time and effort because by that point they don’t want to be together anymore.

[@branver1172]

Many who do this are being abused. They have put in effort. The only way out is to silently prepare.

[@shannongalligan2706]

It's true, In other country's most marriage's last much longer if not till death. I don't know why Americans always think the grass is always greener on the other side. Only if people would wait to get to the other side of their fight or disagreement to see whats on the other side.

[@funmilayoaina2658]

With an emotiinally abusive man or a man who doesn't pull his own weight in the relationship? Remember that men don't take rejection well. He might unalienable her for leaving. Yes you have to plan your escape.

[@empressstatus965]

that's how you leave a narcissist. don't let them kno your next move.

[@Blergoyen]

women are narcissists at 10X the rate of men.

[@epifan3_]

This girl has zero experience apparently. She could have kept this video in the archives…

[@Kuzzif]

That’s called cowardice! And a coward is far worse than a narcissist. At least you can trust a narcissist is gonna lie.

[@carolinenel618]

Because a man that is a narc they dont care about you only about them self, They only use you and verbaly abuse you and make you veel as a 0% even if you do more HE is never in the wrong.. so sometimes its better to be prapared so I DONT AGREE

[@AmyOrlando-ds6ok]

She dont know anything about leaving as abusive relationship, if you let your abuser know your leaving that's when most woman are murdered. That's why. 😢

[@Titantruck234]

I didn't realize that this was happening often. This happened to me after 23 years of marriage. I got treated like a piece of garbage in court. Lost 1/2 my 401k, house, all the money she stole from me in 4 years. Have to pay alimony for 5 years. Plus, child support, which is fine if it was really for my son, because I buy him the things he needs daily. I wanted 50/50 custody, got on 30, and she got 70, so child support would still be enough to cover her rent, and on top of that she only makes 15000 less a year than I do, and women are wondering why men won't date them anymore. We are tired of losing all we worked hard for overnight because she feels bored with her life.

[@GCRAAY]

They say the best revenge is success. If you have the chops get a hottie and by chance cross paths and make it as awkward for her as you can. I feel for you bro.

[@dustygrunt]

I hear you, same thing after 21 years, luckily our daughter was out of the house and I paid her off by selling the house and giving her what the court said I owed her plus she got my pension from the job I had when were married.

[@dogdue4588]

Been single 14 years! Their selfishness, disgusting, untrustworthy treatment, has helped in finding a new hobby, that keeps me preoccupied, with a great reward! Constant smile, no trouble, only pleasant thoughts!!!😊

[@catsthinkmynameisclaude6955]

Ahh, yes the Matriarchy that runs our society.

[@vanessamartz7596]

You might want to look at real scientific studies as to the real causes of divorce. You are citing correlations and case studies.

[@natancorbin4558]

Girl shut up every situation is different. Some have died before they had a chance to leave. Yea it takes a lot of courage to do what’s best and peaceful. Many of times it’s super painful

[@catherinedavis6770]

🤡🤣

[@sailorarwen6101]

Did you watch the video? She said she’s not talking about domestic violence situations

[@natancorbin4558]

@@sailorarwen6101 apparently she was talking about you.

[@Alimira.quinn327]

Obviously didn't hear she said the DV situations didn't count.

[@sincerecrisp]

Why are women's feelings the only ones that matter? Is what the man goes through, in either scenario, not painful?

[@nm917]

I told my husband for months I was unhappy with his abusive behaviour and he just dismissed it until one day I had enough and told him I want a divorce ,he still kept saying leave if you want this is how I am. When I rented an apartment and showed him the keys he still flet blindsided and started crying even though I had told him for weeks that I am leaving

[@sugarwalker89]

Hay... Hoe, You're on the wrong sight! Now move your azz along!!

[@KedemAdah]

That's not a wrong thing. You did what was probably necessary. The point is why it's s problem when the other one is doing it.

[@harveygalloway3965]

Bless his heart…. He wasn’t blind sided. He only responded that way because you actually made a move and he couldn’t control you..

[@lauraborabee903]

That’s what happened with my ex and I.

[@DARLINGTON-dn6ex]

Why cry though

[@philip4193]

Yep, happened to me many years ago; was in what I thought was a good relationship with a woman for over six years when she literally walked out of my life one day without any prior warning. Turned out that she had been seduced by some guy over several months who was younger, taller, better looking and supposedly richer than myself and she monkey-branched off to him without a second thought. Unfortunately for her, the dude turned out to actually be broke (he was a hopeless gambling addict and an alcoholic) and a narcissistic sociopath who took total control of her life & finances and treated her like shit; oh, and he knocked her-up too while he was at it. Of course it was then apparently all my fault for "driving her away" & into this loser's waiting arms according to her female friends (the very same friends who had evidently encouraged her to leave me in the first place in order to move up to a "better prospect"), who then contacted me repeatedly demanding that I "rescue her" from this dude and take her back [along with her new infant]. I respectfully declined, and have never looked back.

[@martinburns7928]

@p...4193

[@joettebaumann-cr2xl]

Omg. Please.... Stay away from that drama. If they are so worried, they can help her out.

[@carlgordon1532]

Good on you, Man. That never again clause doesn't get read in their face often enough.

[@anthonyalexandrou809]

I am so pleased I read this.

[@StorySteven]

I love good endings to a well justified story

[@MaxSteele-bs7mk]

My mom did my dad wrong years ago. Left him high and dry, almost lost all he had worked for, but God has his back. Dad moved on and was much better off.

[@Twan420]

Same

[@texarican1489]

Mine too! I should have went with my dad in the divorce. If only I had critical thinking skills at 5 years old I wouldn’t have fallen for my moms guilt trips.

[@carolharris2357]

Unless they marry another one, same type of woman.

[@winter2may]

I assume she was..much better of too and much happier

[@FunkyFanthom]

​@@winter2mayThat's doubful.

[@user-jb7zu4yy7g]

Women will often say they kept telling him her complaints and nothing changed. It actually takes many years before women leave but when they are done they are done.

[@helenchappell2632]

My husband went to work one day, and the next time I hear from him he's on the other side of the country. Leaving me with all the bills and no explanation except he felt he had to, this was after 25 years. So good for those women. I wish I had done the same.

[@aya123444]

So sorry 😞

[@whostoblame1]

So you condemn the very thing you congratulate other women to and wish you would have done the same? Sweet irony.

[@rezarfar]

Do you not see the irony here? He did to you what this video says most women do.

[@georgebarnes3554]

Women are JUST AS EVIL..so quit playing the ONLY victim in relationships...you get praised for pulling shit like this AND YOU FREAKIN KNOW IT

[@jeremiahcase4699]

You wish you had done what your husband did to you but just before he did it is basically what you said. I hope you see the irony in that because it makes you just as bad as him or these women if thats to be true.

[@radman6047]

I’ve never heard a woman say it was her fault.

[@martinburns7928]

@r...6047; The way it works (of course, only until it's spoken about) Any dialogue directed towards an area of displeasure, isn't a admittance of guilt, But ! It is a sign that change may be necessary, regardless of what or who make those/ that adjustment(s), Hence, the trick "may-be" to assess whether the beneficiary result(s) will be towards Oneself, Ones Other, or possibly the continuation of the Unit as a whole ! Another aspect of the formula is that it can be resolved and mastered in a commercial kitchen mixer/ blender, set at any speed for God only knows how long ! Do I feel that My returns for my payout is balanced ? How would I know, Love/ Like is not only blind, it's deaf and dumb also ! (true story)

[@GCRAAY]

I have. Right about when the ex gets a younger hotter replacement while she can’t even get a tinder date.

[@ttech694]

I've hardly ever heard a woman admit fault or apologize

[@Alex-fn6pz]

Me either. Just last week I emailed the love of my life. I'm 32 now, she's 35, we've been apart for almost 7 years. I was by no means trying to get her back or anything. I had a bad night, and a lot of old memories came up. So I contacted her, told her I hope she's doing well, and apologized for any negative impact I may have had on her life. The thing is, we both made mistakes and there was a lot of turmoil in that relationship. Plenty of blame to go around, but ultimately I left because I couldn't trust her. Too much to explain but she was really shady about a lot of things, including the other guys in her life at the time. She responded saying how she thinks of me every single day, and it drives her mad, etc. but no hard feelings. She also said "I just don't understand why you couldn't trust me." It's worth noting that she has contacted me saying these same things a few times over the years. Anyway, I saw it the next morning and eventually decided to respond and explain my side of everything. Most of it was explaining what my childhood was like, and how it affects me as an adult. It was an attempt to help her understand why I was so guarded, and why I have trust issues. I've never told anyone the things I told her. I basically laid my soul bare to her, and told her she's better off without me in her life. I meant every word of it. However, I made one comment about her not giving me a whole lot of reason to trust her, because of those other guys, and the things she kept from me. I tried to be as neutral as possible, because it wasn't my goal to hurt her over it. I just felt that if I'm going to bare my soul to her and apologize for everything, it's fair enough to point out that she wasn't 100% innocent either. She ignored everything but that one statement, and responded with "Well, I don't think my character was played out correctly, here. I hope you find your happiness." Believe me when I didn't expect any apologies from her, but it just goes to show that women would rather take it to their grave than admit any wrong-doing.

[@philip4193]

Yep, women will NEVER be held accountable for their own actions. They are ALWAYS the victim, and it is ALWAYS someone else's fault.

[@Miakitty4233]

When she stops laughing at your silly jokes, when she stops listening to what you have to say, when she stops sending you little things to show you her love, when she stops sharing with you her feelings or what happened in her day, when she stops desiring your touch is when you need to wake up. Love is shared, and participation is given without struggle. Life is too short to live miserably.

[@jayfox3628]

Too easy to get a divorce in modern USA. If you’re not happy then you chose wrong. Life is about long term results. Sometimes you have to sacrifice short term happiness for your family

[@Miakitty4233]

@@jayfox3628 I agree!

[@KeystoneTexan]

💯 correct

[@theesper7404]

This is true. But a lot of people lack the ability to look past their own wants and needs to be able to fulfill their partner like their partner were doing for them.

[@ednamae3133]

This should be the #1 comment. Very true, if only we could learn both women and men to communicate effectively Alot of hearts would be safe from breaking

[@user-ge2fb9fh2q]

Im not sure who this woman is, but god bless her, as a Man who went thru this and was crippled by it watching my life unravel around me and be thrown away like trash, thank you so much for telling the truth and calling out the bs that some women pull.

[@CSDAdvocacy]

The MOST DANGEROUS time for a woman is leaving an abuser. If she was to be honest in the scenarios you describe he is very likely to unalive her and quite possibly the children. Good and peaceful men do not get left like this.

[@Emdee100]

Good and peaceful men do not get left like this. Amen

[@monotonescreaming5350]

@@Emdee100(the lady literally said she wasn’t talking about DA situations do y’all listen) yes they do I’ve seen it happen. Had a family friend who was on deployment, good guy, his wife took his kids and his money. He barely stayed off the streets and had to fight tooth and nail just for visitation. Your ignorant if you think this doesn’t happen. Women are just as capable of this shit as men are.

[@mariahrobles8445]

Saying good and peaceful men don’t get left like this is the same as saying good people don’t die. They do. Men and women get treated wrong all over the world. How simple minded and invalidating to good men that were hurt for no reason to say good men never get left like this. Women can actually be wrong you know.

[@monotonescreaming5350]

The women literally said she wasn’t talking about DA situations. I know a good guy whose crazy wife did this to him, took his kids and his money. He had to fight tooth and nail just to have visitation. How ignorant do you have to be to think in such black and white.

[@wickedgenx1972]

She clearly said she is NOT talking about abusive situations. Ffs.

[@rickevans4226]

My sister did this to her ex husband, he was working 2 jobs, and her biggest problem was " he didn't finish the basement " in the new house he bought. Then, 3 years later she wanted to dress like desperate house wife and act like the wife at his funeral. I apologize to my ex brother in-laws family for her actions. Even in his death it was all about her.

[@StanknRankin]

I bet they respect you.

[@ihabiano]

Wow!

[@markchase5323]

So, he married a narcissist, too. Sorry to you as well. During those times, these women don't just lack any care about the damage they do to their families (sociopathy). They have sick enjoyment (psychopathy) for their foul misdeeds. No wonder the poor man died. The stress & pain are tremendous.

[@catsthinkmynameisclaude6955]

Working himself to death. - "Waah, you didn't finish the basement!" 😮

[@mcross320]

Why didn't she finish the basement?

[@seansteele1269]

Most dudes I’ve ever seen leave didn’t know that they would end up leaving when they woke up that morning.

[@BlakDragon-gt6sd]

I didn't know I was leaving til I was heading to the bus station.

[@steve.visser]

😊

[@billyduffany3387]

Exactly, we just pack our clothes and leave not even knowing where we are going.

[@jamesredman1263]

​@@BlakDragon-gt6sd Away. Just the hell away from her.

[@eetoved1758]

Yep I thought this was an odd comparison. I've never personally heard of a man doing this. It maybe I don't get out much.

[@kristina03200]

Just a little disclaimer to the guys out there: if a woman stops nagging, complaining, trying to help you, she stops talking and sharing stuff with you... And this goes on for months, she is sure as hell planning to get away. Not all women go through with it, that's the thing. 90% of women have an extra spot for saving money that you'll never know of, they have a back up person if they decide to leave (could be a friend, family member or an extra person on the side), they might've even tried to go but stopped themselves before you found out. If your woman is quiet, there is quite possibly a storm brewing somewhere.

[@wandayvette2711]

After 2 years of paying all the bills (he couldn't keep a job), handling all the childcare (he refused to help even though he was unemployed), him constantly cheating (he admitted it), refusing to do any housework (he's home all day alone, not working), I begged for help, then I planned my getaway just like she described. He said he was shocked I was leaving (what could be shocking about your wife begging you for 2 years to get yourself together?), I exited, a month later he had a job, living with his girlfriend (who later kicked him out). Ladies don't believe this BS, she is completely unaware of why women have leave this way if we don't want to end up in a landfill.

[@pattycakes5010]

I almost went through the same thing but he had a job most of the time and I begged for marriage counseling a whole year before I left.

[@medi8057]

Just because you had a shitty experience it doesn’t mean that men don’t deal with this. I’ve personally met “women” who have done all she said and more. Don’t categorize all men the same way just cause you got burned by a waste of space. You have no right to diminish the struggles of another human being whether it’s a man or a woman. And instead of putting all the blame on the deadbeat you were with you should reevaluate your own choices too because you know damn well that he wouldn’t have done any of those things to you if you didn’t CHOOSE to be with him.

[@nicholassoares1676]

​@@medi8057 well said

[@BNezzy]

doesn't change the fact it is deceitful and dishonest. There are other ways to go about it. You just lowered yourself to his level making you no better than him.

[@jamiecronin967]

What you experienced is mental abuse.

[@michaelreutter9821]

Married once, never again, started having problems so we went to a marriage class. When asked who is your best friend, every man in the class said his wife was his best friend, every woman said someone other than their husband. That proved to me that marriage is a lost cause with most women today. Happily divorced for almost 15 years now!

[@lmoore3567]

My husband is my best friend. I was taught from a young age that your spouse should be your best friend.

[@michaelreutter9821]

@lmoore3567 you are one of the very few. What most women do not understand is the "two joined together as one" part of the vows.

[@Missfaithhere]

While I agree it does seem like most women are like that, there are those of us out here whose partner IS their best friend. My boyfriend is my best friend. Hoping to get married soon and we can't wait. I'm sorry for what happened to you and for the many other men out there going through similar situations. The pendulum is swinging in the other direction, we just need to make sure it doesn't go too far or we'll be right back here.

[@michaelreutter9821]

@lmoore3567 good job, you are an oddity

[@michaelreutter9821]

@@Missfaithhere in case you haven't heard, only 6 out of every thousand guys are even willing to get married anymore. The pendulum is irreparably broken and will not be fixed.

[@mikehoncho35]

I paid off my wife’s credit card debt and sunk a ton of money and time into fixing up our house before she threw me out in a fit of rage then had the gall to say I planned it. She didn’t have a answer when I asked her why would I pay off your debt and fix up the house if my plan was being kicked out of the house? We were together 20 years and she had another man living with her and my kids 8 weeks after we split up but damn near lost her mind when I had my first date 10 months afterwards. She eventually married the new guy but drank herself to death 5 years after we split up. After wasting 7.5 years with another unappreciative, disrespectful woman I’m completely done with women. I’m content spending my time with my adult children,five grandkids and my dog.

[@mysticmadman5961]

Take time for yourself brother, you aren't alone!!!

[@funkyflights]

That’s a typical narcissistic attitude, she’s messing with some other dude, then she see’s you with another women and freaks out … Good you got out of that … In the end she wasn’t happy anyway and there was nothing you could have done …

[@Pop_Shepski]

I was able to learn all these lessons preemptively by hearing stories such as your own. Enjoy your freedom sir

[@Sarconthewolf]

Dogs are more loyal than some women

[@mrobinson757]

I’m so sorry this happened to you.

[@tonyshine89]

If a wife needs to prepare months in advance to be financially capable of leaving a merraige, this 100% means that her husband is at minimum financially abusing her. Good for these strong women that they fight for what is right and find the strength to come up with a plan and detach themselves from the abuser.

[@cavediver8385]

Being a SIMP isn’t a virtue, Princess.

[@tonyshine89]

@@cavediver8385 , I dont know what SIMP is. Honestly, your comment does not make much sense.

[@byngostar6895]

Yes, that’s what she’s doing, as things disintegrate

[@cavediver8385]

@@tonyshine89 YOU ARE A SIMP rationalizing a wife stealing from her husband before abandoning him. She’s not being abused. She’s a self-serving-mercenary like too many modern-women, Princess.

[@GG-jj3hw]

No-one does that unless is scared for their safety. And that is the smartest thing to do when dealing with a person unwilling to talk, cooperate and listen, especially if it is abusive, manipulative, harmful person.

[@Nova_vant_harr]

Forgot the part where she has your replacement lined up

[@chriskroenung4825]

the two things every divorced man says I cant believe she did this to me and How did she move on so fast

[@BluesDeville]

Of course she has a replacement meal ticket already lined up.

[@crashnbl1]

And probably been riding that pony for months

[@stevenbuck07]

Men sure seem to hate women in this thread. What's up with that? Must just be an on line thing with peer pressure and money problems. USA needs therapy.

[@chriskroenung4825]

@@stevenbuck07 its not so much women its the system set up to protect bad behavior by women

[@billkellyhornswoggletheGreat]

"The female of the species is more deadly than the male."

[@JOSEMunoz-tc5rq]

Yep they are all black widows 🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@user-mi2ev4eb6d]

True.They are the most conniving,spiteful creature on the planet

[@sweetleaf6155]

I think they're both equal today.

[@donnamariedavidson5065]

​@@sweetleaf6155 yep

[@JOSEMunoz-tc5rq]

Yes the females are a lot deadlier all they do is think about themselves and whatever they do it's never their fault just try to let a man get away with that

[@RANGER2021]

This is completely true, and the SAME people that "loved" you played into the deceit and helped them out. It happened to me.

[@troyglenn4353]

I'll never give my love, and my life, and my resources, or anything else for a woman to throw it away, EVER again

[@Epiz76]

Problem is they seem to be FEEL their men are abusive and narcissistic but they're the ones exhibiting these negative traits.

[@FilosParaSofia]

In the cycle of abuse, both usually show those traits.

[@peterparker4502]

It’s called transference and it’s done to preserve their own feelings of self worth and allows guilt free behavior… if it’s the “husband’s fault” it’s all justified (in their own minds) so they blame everything on their husbands so they can do anything they feel is necessary and not have to deal with the consequences…

[@Epiz76]

@@FilosParaSofia but the OP referred to her manipulating and deceitful behavior. Not in the cycle of abuse. Men are blindsided when a new life erupts and children are involved. Men would dare not uproot children from their mother so impulsively! Who lacks empathy for their children? For the other parent?? Is it ever your fault, Sofia?

[@ligethornton1209]

​@@FilosParaSofia you did the woman thing by spreading blame... You don't even realize what you did. That's how ingrained it is in women today.

[@ratillecebrasquedubitantiu4451]

​@@FilosParaSofiaguess what sweetheart, the majority of one sided abuse is against men from women.

[@deltacosburrito9214]

This happened to my dad. My parents were married for 25 yrs, had 8 kids, owned a home. Then out of the blue my mom texted my dad that she didn’t love him anymore and wanted a divorce. My dad never beat, cheated or anything. He truly loved my mom. He was a wreck for months. He and I live together and we chillin. But now my brothers and I want nothing to do with our mom as in our eyes we see her as betraying not just my dad but the whole family.

[@jgg59]

That’s odd to say my father never beat or cheated. That should be a given. Why are you stating that bizarre

[@ktkt1825]

@@jgg59 Not odd or bizarre- when women leave like this, most assume she was in a dangerous situation.

[@jgg59]

@@ktkt1825 i’m commenting on what the gentleman said about his father not beating or cheating. That’s a pretty low bar so obviously something else must’ve been going on there so I’m not disagreeing with you at all. Most women know if they leave a relationship they are going to be at a financial disadvantage. That’s why they do what they do. Most of these men who say they’re clueless, it allows you to see what the state of the relationship was if they’re not in tune with their partner. Most women do leave because they’re terrified of the social norms that exist in this misogynistic country

[@ktkt1825]

@@jgg59 Many relationships including marriages are dysfunctional in a small ways or large- over time, one could accept a partner 'needing space' or that they (and you) are just 'busy', trusting that all is still ok. Current social norms are much more accepting of working moms, single moms, career women (married or not) and more aggressive behavior from them. Also, online dating/hookup sites and covert messaging allow for double lives with relative ease. Our phone/internet culture is decaying meaningful communication at every turn, while it promotes instant gratification. Times are changing quickly, and not all good.

[@76olmeda]

​@jgg59 no you're just trying to start something move on troll.

[@martelushart6087]

This lady speaks facts. Bc I went through the same thing and was blindsided

[@NeverTheNess]

They do it, because they are always hoping that something changines and they don't have to leave. Men are blindsided because they choose to be. Considering we make much less money, usually have children depending on us, I would call this planning. As for men, when they do it, they aren't taking the children, they are hiding assests. But every situation is different so stop painting them all with the same brush.

[@ghostsimppy1190]

I helped pay for my Gf to get through nursing school. Not only financially but emotionally and I was happy to do it for my future wife so I thought. Less than a year from graduating and starting her career as a nurse, I caught her cheating with a Married doctor. Most women have zero shame.. oh and of course it was my fault for not spending enough time with her cause I was working 50 plus hours to keep our life afloat. That was 23 yrs ago and it still chaps my ass.

[@abdoul.rmamah4558]

Yes simp

[@brianpineda9982]

Single women/ unwedded women, don’t want single men. Single women prefer to have another woman’s husband.

[@markh4926]

It is a strange thing when you catch your wife cheating. The mind goes off in so many directions.

[@cabuco2006]

Damn so sorry to hear this bro. It would be worse now because everything is more expensive. Instead of 50 hrs it would be 70 or more

[@raysepulveda7620]

Let it go, my friend. Don't base the rest of your life dwelling on something that you had no control over.

[@seanlinnan2719]

I am a divorce of attorney for twenty three years. My last case where I represented the wife was terrible. She had a very good life and was given everything she could ever want. But she decided that she wasn't happy. She was 63 years old and she wanted to sign all of the divorce paperwork, but then hold off on giving him the papers until after they got home from a two week luxury cruise. Imagine what he thought when he got the paperwork the day after researching home and realized that they had been signed a month prior. I was disgusted.

[@carlosarias2011]

I guess she waited until it made financial sense to get divorced. Now at 63, not even my cousin Pedro working for minimum wage at McD's will give the lady the time of day.

[@badgerapocalyps2546]

You should be disgusted with yourself. You didn't have to represent her and maybe if you told her to pull her head out of her ass it would have been a wakeup call.

[@wtfishappening2049]

Probably because she didn't want to get unalived on their cruise. Wouldn't be the first time. Still, what a garbage human being she is.

[@user-pi8yd5lh9s]

How devious and self-centered😳

[@Pizza42069]

If you were so disgusted, then why’d you take the money? And guarantee you took the money. You see I’m not saying divorce lawyers aren’t necessary, but because of one of my college degrees, and who I was able to grow up with, I have known a lot of lawyers in my life, including divorce lawyers, and literally every single one, without exemption, Became divorce lawyers because they love screwing people over especially men and they love the money that comes from it. No one that I’ve ever met has ever become a divorce lawyer because they want a peaceful and cooperative pleasant divorce proceeding. Lol now maybe you’re an exception, like I said I’m talking based off my experience but I’m talking literally between 20 and 25 different different, completely different divorce lawyers I have known throughout my time and what I’ve said is true for 100% of them, but again don’t exception but would say you’re not

[@daveyatsko3990]

Wow! I just relived the most painful time in my life!!😢

[@KevinThomas-ok2ev]

You’re not alone. Several of us have been lead down that same path, and it sucks.

[@CascaEternalWarrior]

Decades of betrayal is an irreplaceable waste of a man’s life.

[@Shiloh8548]

Same… the pain isn’t constant like in the beginning, but every once in a while we have a sharp pain for a moment.

[@temujinsy1102]

I'm still living it, I just want the pain to stop.

[@cooptownmedia]

@@temujinsy1102me to hang in there!

[@viking4130]

I was blindsided after 32 years of marriage. So in court i won custody of both my daughters and left with a smile and half empty bank account but i would have spent everything and borrowed more to keep my girls safe and healthy. The Circuit count judge and my daughter's agreed i was the best choice and a stable well adjusted adult and best to raise my girls. This almost Never happens here. 99% of the time the wife gets custody in Maryland. It cost me but my girls are worth more than anything or anyone to me.

[@rerite2]

Well done. Stay strong.

[@blainwilson7937]

Just curious, most people who have been married for 32 years have adult children who themselves usually have kids. You and your wife adopt or something?

[@dolosolo7585]

I have my son. Also just happen 4yrs ago. But my son mom gave him up to me. She signed o er her rights and went on about her business. I tried everything in my power to get my back together never happen.

[@shaunsmith928]

That's the first time I've heard a vary smart woman repeat exactly what I have said in the past.

[@Letstalk295]

Smart where, the fact that’s she’s stating “yes queen” she’s talking about black women and honestly it’s disgusting that women like her are still playing this women are not victims, not ever woman is some some fathers are in prison right now for SA their kids or unaliving their whole family, women see this and some get scared and have a plan. So what…..

[@wakawaka1976]

You don’t know many conservative women. That’s a bad thing.

[@JHJones1333]

That is what happened to me.

[@thisolddog2259]

My last girlfriend told me on a Tuesday that she was moving out the following Friday... Longest 3 days of my life!

[@buffalo.2_]

​@@JHJones1333same happened to me, funny thing is. My ex did me the biggest favour ever. Even tho she did exactly what this women said, I still am happy cause everyday with her was like walking on eggshells. Now I'm free

[@mixter7x7]

Yep - happened to me. Little wrinkle - I found her laundry list of plans about a month before she left - made a copy - and mailed it to her new address the day she moved. She ranted - You knew I was leaving and you didn't try to stop me ??? If you don't WANT to stay I shouldn't make any effort to keep you and I'm not going to negotiate with someone who doesn't want to be here.

[@Katareena1]

Little wrinkle ? No wonder she left

[@mixter7x7]

@@Katareena1 You imply I should attempt to negotiate with someone who's already making plans to leave me ? I can't think of many things more pathetic or weak.

[@Katareena1]

@@mixter7x7 I didn't actually its a joke, you seem comfortable in your skin and not easily taken in, you let her do what she wanted to do, while she will have been feeling pretty good about herself, then you took all that away from her, karma. It was then her feeling neglected, and unwanted, you took her glory cos at no point did you try stop her, leaving yourself with all the power, while snatching hers away, I like it, I like it 👌

[@jasonpowell121]

My wife did this to me 4 months ago. I treated her like a queen, and I was diagnosed with MS, and she said that she didn't want to take care of me when I become disabled and divorced me!

[@JohnWickjr]

Sorry, sir but you bear some of the blame because you chose a glorified prostitute who betrayed you at the first sign of trouble. The good news is that you can upgrade. Keep praying for your health and possibly change your diet to help w. your MS(carnivore diet maybe). Most of our illnesses are caused by our fake food.

[@archerandthemouse]

My guess is there is more to that story.

[@jasonpowell121]

@archerandthemouse Wish there was more to tell. Out of the blue, she said she has dreams and goals and doesn't want to take care of me when I become disabled and divorced me. We never argued, never fought, just got back from the Florida keys for a dolphin excursion, my step daughter wants to come live with me she's so mad at her mom. I was completely blind sided. Everyone around us was dumbfounded. When we weren't at work, we were always together, so I don't think she was seeing someone behind my back. we never locked our phones. The only conclusion I can think of is she saw her gravy train slipping away as I was the bread winner up until I couldn't work anymore because of the ms.

[@PS-gr5wh]

​​@@archerandthemousewhat an asinine thing to say. Your ignorance is off the charts. Apparently you don't live in the real world and see real life examples of this everyday.

[@AndyB718]

Not uncommon,SOME women do this easily.Its sorta like the abortion decisions ​@@archerandthemouse

[@kimnoordman1100]

I’ve been on this earth for 61yrs and I totally approve of this message!!! 😉♥️😎

[@sledgenwedge]

10 years behind you.Same experience more than once dare to love do you😂

[@vanessamartz7596]

96% of all violent crimes in the USA are by males. 40% of female murder victims are killed by their partners. Males are 4x as likely to be sociopaths and 7x as likely to be psychopaths. 31% of husbands beat either wives or children, or both. 25% of husbands cheat compared to only 10% for women. We don't need no red pill ranting.We don't no thought control. No dark misogynistic bull sh*t. Red pills leave those gals alone. HEY! RED PILLS! Leave those gals alone. All in all your just another pr*ck in the wall.

[@martinseagraves2079]

I'm in my 60's and I have seen so many men do everything for the family then she's so unhappy that she wants a divorce. The one guy I knew worked 2 jobs putting his wife threw college to become a doctor, then 2 yrs later she wants a divorce.

[@misstaveras8028]

People (not just women) go in relation waiting when the final fixed person will arrive in the relationship. And that never happens. We are who we are and although people can change habits or perceptions we wont change our essence. That a lot of willing work to do so. “Oh he is perfect just dont like: 1x 2x. 3x”. False expectations from idealization. Acceptance is the best gift wisdom can give any one.

[@cheezyridr]

i always took good care of the family, even when it wasn't my family. yet i had 2 different women start the gtfo conversation with "i know i'm shooting myself in the foot, but..." one of them waited till 2 weeks after i sold my house to tell me it wasn't working out. as far as i knew, everything was fine. got a call at lunch one day and she ended it with "can you get the kids (hers) squared away early tonight, i think we need to talk".

[@taffykins2745]

I think relationships fail because the two people don't take care of each other, meet their needs. If the man "takes care of the family" doesn't mean he's meeting her emotional needs, which for women is way more important than having a new car every few years.

[@Todd_Swank]

THey dont see the accomplishment as a shared goal. She just sees him succeeding and feels miserable shes not growing.

[@user-hj9dh6cx9o]

@@taffykins2745 can i ask how old you are ?

[@David7pm]

She speaks the truth. I survived it.

[@vikingshark2634]

My ex-fiancee did this. Stacked money for about seven months. Bought furniture and stored it in a storage unit, rented an apartment, found the next guy she was branching to. I went to work one day and came home to find the house mostly emptied out, I legitimately thought I had been burglarized, I was cleaned out in one business day. She was so proud of her own scheme that after she moved out the only thing she left in the house was receipts, deposit slips, statements around the place detailing how much money she'd saved up and how much time and effort she had put in to punishing me for her boredom with herself.

[@USMC6169]

It’s not all bad, look at the .50 cal BMG bullet you dodged…she was doing you a favor. Move on and get a trad wife overseas. They are raised from childhood to be a wife, not as entitled gold diggers

[@coreymartin6486]

Did she try crawling back at some point? 😮

[@goodmarine]

I'm so sorry buddy. I will never understand how someone you (once) love(d) could do something like that. Horrible, not all women are like that I swear.

[@kellybrandon1179]

Surprised she left the wiring in the walls.

[@Timber81]

Dam that tough. I'm with ya. Toxic woman!

[@user-vo9nv6xu3l]

My wife did this , then she was diagnosed with cancer and she died

[@jeffevans3280]

For the win

[@larryharris1370]

Sounds like you got relief

[@user-qy8ws3xp5v]

See? There is a god.

[@LunaKaiFloat]

bummer😂

[@thesportsguy3609]

Karma is funny sometimes.

[@staciejune75]

My momma did this to my dad when I was 23 yrs old and she sucks for what she put him through. He treated her SO GOOD!

[@bettymurrell5628]

You don’t know what happened in their relationship and you shouldn’t. That’s not your burden to carry. So you also shouldn’t speculate on why your mom did what she did.

[@sunnyshukla9477]

@@bettymurrell5628 She was 23. Not exactly an innocent babe.

[@heaven_bound_94xo]

​@@bettymurrell5628exactly

[@edwardteague3276]

​@bettymurrell5628 you don't know. They are the offspring. The know at least something. You are defending an absolute zero point in the off chance that there might be some kind of moral justification IN THE FACE OF actual testimony to the contrary, and telling the affected that they have no right to know. You are literally what is wrong with this cultural situation.

[@JasonWildy]

My ma did that to my pa, she's dead to me

[@paypatay1]

She forgot that the women also start and develop another relationship prior to leaving the husband.

[@chrisquas4113]

Like the ole saying goes “if you ain’t hitting it someone else is”

[@dsvet]

Yes, they always have a man on the back burner.

[@SpiralMoss]

Monkey branching, it happens to a lot of guy's even Hollywood stars

[@SageDivinity]

​@aprilraejune A recent study showed that 70% of married women say that they have a backup man just in case their marriage fails.

[@MrIbisweet]

@@aprilraejune Most people in these comments are talking with experience. its not men that needs to stop generalyzing. Good for you if youre not like that but most women are.

[@DarrenDavis-ov7zz]

Yes. I divorced my wife for cheating. Gave her a chance to do right, she kept keeping company with him. She started off paying HER child support but now is over $22,000 + in arrears. So I go to the attorney general's office around 5-10 different times. Every time I go, they make me wait only to send me a letter telling me that I didn't get documents back within the time THEY ALLOTED. What about me? If I were the one that owed child support, I'd have been in jail within a few days of missing 1 payment. THAT is what I want fixed!!!!

[@shieldwolf65]

Whilst these double standards exist there will NEVER be equality.

[@asktheetruscans9857]

They voted for all of that. Revoke their voting privileges. Every society that ever tried to give equality to women crumbled within 150 years, usually sooner.

[@jeremyduncan3654]

Uniform Child support enforcement act was wrote by Hillary Clinton and passed in 1996. She and the rest of the democrats corrupted the courts.

[@ManuB3581]

Yeah . The double standards are beyond logic ! I faced a similar situation too but did not have a child etc but did end up having to give up my rights to a jointly owned business which I had invested most of the capital in and spent a lot of time taking it where it was . No matter what when women leave they will get a huge pound of flesh

[@janicewelch517]

They have father's advocate attorney's out their.

[@StillWaters101]

I think most of them do it out of fear thinking the guy will snap if he's given proper notice or just make things as difficult and uncomfortable as possible as she's trying to get away. They just choose to avoid all of that or the possibility of it since its common that men tend to take break ups worse than women.

[@RocketMomma-ig5tt]

Yes! When I tried to leave my ex, he kept saying shit like "don't make a fucking mess" as I was gathering my shit. Then stood in the doorway, and THEN tried to PAY off my sister to leave me there. Then he told me "you're not leaving". Which I took as a threat and got out of there.

[@StillWaters101]

@@RocketMomma-ig5tt I completely understand. I've watched many crime documentaries and episodes and most are of men unable to accept reality of women having freedom to leave or have a baby. That alone should be enough for women to stop dealing with men, and the comment sections like this one all across the internet of barely anyone/not one man stating or acknowledging the obvious about the dangers of women getting in relationships with men should be the nail in the coffin for women everywhere to seriously consider joining the 4b movement because things are not getting better when complete denial of the obvious is at the forefront.

[@smtri5597]

In what universe? You're saying men take it harder. Most of these comments seem to indicate the men were thrilled when the relationship ended

[@user-jb7zu4yy7g]

Yep, i left an ex once and I had my friend help me pack and he was acting a fool, insulting and making comments that were not helpful. It was hard enough to make a decision to leave but who needs all that. If I ever left I would do it silently.

[@lockonstratos7787]

Men take it harder? Sorry when was the last time you seen a man key his x car, pait cheater or something on her car or house, make a false allegation to ether 1 get the x in jail 2 to make getting the kids easy so he can leech child support like women do? This list goes on and on. Yall really be making shit up in yo stupid heads

[@crustydownunder]

I've experienced this. And it's spot on. Women plan to get rid of a man as much as a year in advance. When men leave, they just up and go, and usually leave everything behind.

[@DustinPrice-wz9xf]

That’s why we are stronger than them. We have to be stronger so as to successfully deal with their shit.

[@FromSaultoPaul]

Some women are so emotional thinking with their ovaries and NOT their brains.

[@Heyzeus71]

Men try till they can’t anymore. Women are often sneaky deceitful creatures

[@marywilliams9858]

Women get KILLED by these husbands. Talk to a cop or a worker at a shelter.

[@1234carolynb]

If kids are involved that are leaving too, then it would be irresponsible for the mother not to plan and end up with them all sleeping in the car or with no money for meals.

[@davehaining9830]

It happened to me, as she just described, never saw it coming, married for 37 years

[@angel794]

You just weren't paying attention

[@stevenbuck07]

Never saw it coming? All that simple?

[@horiyzen420]

@@angel794 indeed

[@zumurudlilit]

I am sure you didn’t. She was just yapping away sth but you were to busy to listen. And she was so emotional as women are. Hysterical. No logic. Ass and dinner were served and house was clean - marriage was good. You are pathetic.

[@OldSchool8V71]

Oh I love the one when women say they have to go find themselves

[@mmpops2657]

Find themselves in a hotel room with 5 dudes right?? Lol😂

[@AlgorithmMockery]

Usually means change the hair style and colour, go on a trip and they end up in the same spot desperate for attention. Hilariously predictable

[@shantaywicklander4773]

Not every woman is the same nor is every man is the same. I don't understand why were so against each other. Both men and women need to be emotionally secure in order to understand the dynamics of a healthy relationship.

[@shieldwolf65]

​@@shantaywicklander4773Women are incapable of receiving criticism or even being accountable for a mistake. But let her tell a man he's doing something wrong, he'd better fix it or there'll be consequences. No matter how carefully a man tries to bring up an issue, 80% of women will immediately *Feel* attacked & go on the attack back, denial, projection, kitchen sinking, rehashing old arguments, then it gets personal attacking vulnerabilities they've observed. The piéce de résistance is when she hits him with something painful he's shared in confidence bc she demanded he open up & be more vulnerable to her. Then by the light of burning bridges she demands he apologizes for upsetting her & demands he admits he was wrong. Men learn not to try & improve Thier marriage & learn to tolerate the negatives bc it's not worth an inevitable fight. They also learn never trust women with thier personal demons, they'll get weaponised against them. Women don't realise men emotionally lose trust & it's a hit against the love he feels. Women can't own they have sown the seeds for thier own unhappiness. Marriage works thru reciprocation. Men stop reciprocating or initiating once they can't trust thier supposed partner. Women feel the distance, but don't realise or refuse to admit THEY caused it. This is a major source of marital failure. It means genuine communication has broken down when one party can't be honest with the other.

[@13GOLGO13]

This very thing happened to a friend of mine when his girlfriend of 3 years told him "I have to find myself" then she left for Washington. Three months later, at 10pm, she knocks at his door asking if she can stay the night. He told her his new girlfriend would not like it and shut the door.

[@GreyCat827]

There are multiple ways that a woman can feel unsafe, psychologically manipulated, restricted, cheated on in their relationship, not just physical abuse. Planning is actually the way a woman decreases the possibility of physical abuse, resulting from a man's tantrum. Men primarily plan so they can leave without feeling guilty because they're going to another woman. I hope this scenario never happens to this young woman.

[@byngostar6895]

I hope it does, then she’ll stop putting down women.

[@82Supreme]

​@@byngostar6895putting down women? She's calling out the bs

[@doylepatterson3459]

You just described my former wife's tactic.. Waited till she would take 1/2 my pension after working 34 years and she was at home. She had inherited 500,000 and had money stashed in 2 or 3 different banks. I had to remortgaged the house to pay her out even more... Blind sided by the whole thing when other relatives already knew when we socialized with them.... No wonder men refuse to get married for fear of being raped by the system by a woman.

[@evelynneufeld7610]

Or marry a woman who loves her child free life❤

[@Greatwhitesloth]

@@evelynneufeld7610 ? Marriage is for the children.

[@heatison11]

Lost an army buddy to suicide this way, came home from Korea to find an empty house and a drained bank account....women can be so maniacal and cruel

[@chedivine2307]

Sorry to hear he was your buddy. I lived in the apartment next to his in Songtan

[@user-cj4by5mb5z]

People ,may b .Either gender.

[@heatison11]

@@user-cj4by5mb5z ya but women can

[@pilorin]

Not all women

[@gretakelly1383]

My husband was retired Army. He and his buddies called Korea " divorce land".

[@mikeb1149]

Have a friend whose wife spent TWO years setting him up. Comes home on a Friday night. No dinner (she is a stay at home mom and cooked every night). He asks what's up? She starts a screaming match. Starts hitting him. Starts yelling loud enough for the neighbors to hear. Picks up a pan to hit him with, he shoves her. She calls the cops, claims domestic violence. She gets an emergency restraining order. During the 48 hours he's out of the house she packs his stuff, files for divorce Monday morning. She steals a rifle from the house and stashes it with a relative. Comes time for the divorce case. She states physical abuse as the reason. Pulls out a shoebox holding pics of her kids with cuts, scrapes and bruises. Said he did it. These pics were from injuries kids got on the playground, falling off a bike, fights with other kids, etc. He never laid a hand on them. Judge never interviewed the kids. Found in her favor, and of course visits with the kids were supervised. Her lawyer even got the judge to waive the theft of the rifle claiming he would shoot her if given the chance so she was protecting herself. Think he'll ever get married again?

[@cabuco2006]

It be hard to trust ever again let alone get married.

[@funkyflights]

She sounds like an awful person, not all women act a fool like that

[@steviestevereno]

I think these judges get bent to always side with women…. It’s disgusting

[@oladokunsamuel5923]

​@@steviestevereno am not in America, yet pity the men The judges are for sure made to favour women....who are supposed to be the pillar of homes The government having say over marriages in America killed marriage...it ought to be just a notifying entity, let church and local police handle extreme cases ...

[@karlschofield9651]

Wait!!!! Go to any military base and ask what happened to your friends or you while deployed? You know when she cheated, lied, took all your money, all YOUR stuff and divorced you while deployed and got 50% of your retirement and made you pay for their life insurance policy if you die!!!! I stopped counting it got so bad!!!!

[@donnagrimm2179]

I was in the military and also a military spouse. I've seen it from both sides. I've seen people cheating while we were deployed and come back acting like they missed their spouses. I've also seen wives cheating on their husbands and I had the flight manifest knowing when their spouses were coming back. Let them cheat right up until they were caught by their returning spouse. It goes both ways sometimes. It's never right, but if you know you have problems communicate it to your spouse. I know firsthand, I begged him to go to couples counselling. He refused. Meanwhile he had other women, etc., I divorced him and now he's married to the other woman. Faithfully? It doesn't matter because I'm single and at peace.

[@MJR-ARMSTRONG]

@@donnagrimm2179 both genders cheat yes but only one is encouraged and praised for doing it. The same gender that gets to break up a family for no reason and still gets to steal through the courts from the other. Thats the problem and there is no what about or men do it to that can justify or change that

[@AlvinKazu]

@@donnagrimm2179 I will say a few things. 1. In other countries, there are many men who have multiple wives/concubines, so for a man to have multiple women it isn't unknown. 2. I think that being in war, fighting for your life, and then finding love in another country, believing you might not make it home... Is different from being a spouse who stays at home and then cheats at their spouse while the spouse is busy fighting in war. I think that it doesn't matter if you are a male or woman, you still want companionship and want to RELEASE SOME STRESS while FIGHTING FOR YOUR LIFE. That being said, many people aren't really "fighting" these days, and their "tours" are just going overseas or doing some patrol and then coming home, while still cheating. I still don't think people should be getting together before going off to war.... Unless you do what they did in the past.... leave a child with your wife, because you might not make it home, and at least you will have an offspring. These days women get pregnant with another man's child and make the military dude pay for it.

[@archerandthemouse]

Uhh...and what were men doing on leave?

[@donnagrimm2179]

@@archerandthemouse Men and women alike cheated--soldiers and spouses. It's the same as it is in the civilian world, except soldiers are supposed to be held accountable. Honestly, they sweep it under the rug usually or they get a slap on the wrist.

[@tonymonxana992]

I heard of one recently were the “wife” was withdrawing his money slowly and putting it in a separate account. Literally scammed him, left, and didn’t face punishment…

[@PInk77W1]

If she’s married and has access, she wont get punished

[@nutech1810]

It's their money. Sounds like she didn't work.

[@sheilawilliams4051]

If you have a joint bank account with anyone, the other person can take it all out, legally. Steve Harvey said the best advice he got was from a financial manager. He said married people need 4 bank accounts. One joint bank account that they both contribute to and pay the expenses out of, one joint savings account that requires both signatures to withdraw any money, and an individual account for each of them to use as they choose, so you can both still be individuals.

[@janet1744]

That is what my husband did to our joint account where MY WAGES were deposited for OUR USE NOT JUST HIS.

[@billyduffany3387]

Probably took him to the cleaners in court too.

[@charlierussell4560]

My ex-wife did that after 25 years of marriage and I did nothing but love her no violence against her whatsoever. GOD bless her and I release her to the holy Spirit 🙏

[@brandonkuebrich5953]

I swear this happened to me last night! 25 years as well. 😳

[@rodcraven3282]

Same happened to me after 23 years of marriage. Women plan months or years before they leave and set it up to make it the husband's fault.. This justifies why they're leaving him to go find themselves.

[@williamlong8859]

When mine moved out, she did so unannounced and left the kids with a sitter at home. Came home from work and was a single father of 2.

[@toywrench1]

The Holy Spirit will talk to her but she will likely keep ignoring him.

[@guitarsphysics]

My ex did the same after 21 years....

[@josepinet5931]

My psychology teacher said when a woman’s not talking she’s thinking.

[@colgatetoothpaste4865]

They yake advantage of men's good intentions we see the good in them ❤ and

[@deathsavearcade3951]

If they put half the energy into actually communicating with their husband they wouldn’t have to leave

[@jimdevlin4949]

Haha " is everything okay!?" " I'm FINE"😂

[@andrealmoseley6575]

Every woman I know tried to communicate...

[@vanessamartz7596]

96% of all violent crimes in the USA are by males. 40% of female murder victims are killed by their partners. Males are 4x as likely to be sociopaths and 7x as likely to be psychopaths. 31% of husbands beat either wives or children, or both. 25% of husbands cheat compared to only 10% for women. We don't need no red pill ranting.We don't no thought control. No dark misogynistic bull sh*t. Red pills leave those gals alone. HEY! RED PILLS! Leave those gals alone. All in all your just another pr*ck in the wall.

[@user-oy2oq5ql9q]

Woman aren't mature enough to do that 😂

[@MechanicalMafioso]

@@andrealmoseley6575 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah and how did that go….. Most women DON’T communicate, they say things like “You should have know” How exactly? Men don’t have functional ESP!

[@boomerboomer8399]

We were raised by by dad in the 70's and 80's by my father. I miss him.

[@chrisconsorte7893]

Sounds like our dad’s were cut from the same cloth.

[@fposmith]

Amen ! This happened to me. I lost my kids, my house all my money and my reputation through false accusations so horrible I almost took my own life. I still have a daughter that has not spoken to me in twenty five years. The women that do this are monsters !

[@calvinhodges-vr2yj]

I'm still paying for it now and my ex has past on but the best revenge I'm with her sister now for 17 years 20 years between them though

[@tariqrasool2110]

Make contact, it's never too late. Stay positive with all things.

[@jamesmounce3242]

My mom did this same thing. Finally connected with my dad before he died. I think my mom is just a bitter narcissist. I forgave her but not listening to her crap

[@lenardhenderson9674]

Good Lord she's talking about my wife she was even hold my hand and being all loving the night before while we were grocery shopping laughing and carrying on and having a good time and when I got home the next night she is all packed and ready to leave that was 4 years ago and I'm still not over it

[@EES1994]

My dad had a secret baby with someone else after 16 years of marriage with my mum. My mum obviously went mad. She done a few things that were petty, like writing profanity on his music tapes. But she forgave him, and he played my mum and the other woman. My mum had enough and kicked him out. She only asks for money when we actually needed gas or electric or new shoes and she couldnt afford it. She loved my dad. The 2 years of watching her sadness as she tried to heal from the pain made me very, very caucious of men growing up. She never stopped him seeing us once, and i was old enough to know he was the one who didn't want to make the effort. A year of weekends of hearing his excuse as to why he can't come and see us. He did eventually start seeing us again, and spent time with us. But one thing i learnt from my mum, is to never use a child for a gain when you are hurt. She did the best she could even though her childhood sweetheart left her for a 25 year old. That woman he cheated on my mum with and had a kid with, she upped and dissapeared with his son and hasnt contacted him since. Its been 13 years and we have no idea where he is. My dad regrets what he did and trys to mend the relationship he once had with my mum. But i always tell her he aint worth sh!t.

[@Don-je8sm]

My ex girlfriend sid that to me, but I knew it all along. I was so relieved when I saw the red tail lights of the moving truck as it drove away.

[@user-zl4kj1vz7f]

The EXACT same thing happened to my FRIEND in Britain after 10 years of selfless marriage from the age of 19 - she got the big house - EVERYTHING. But, God has plans for all of us and smiled on him 4 years later after struggling along - he met a VERY VERY WEALTHY young woman 10 years his junior and today after 6 years of blissful marriage and 2 beautiful and extremely well mannered and disciplined little boys he's living litterally 'In a dream' 24/7/365 - they don't even have a 'Pre-nupt'. Meanwhile, his wife has had to sell the house she got in the divorce because she just spent recklesy as well as taking out loans against it to fund her lifestyle. She even had the audacity to hire a lawyer to try and get money from him - for some strange reason the judge threw her claim out in no more than 20 minutes in court. She could only afford hire an £80 per hour lawyer - her husband could and did hire a £500 per hour lawyer and 'The rest is history'. Sometimes, the good guys do win!!! ❤❤❤

[@nicwebana]

Good for you dude ! Oh I meant good for your friend ! 😂 but really that's awesome glad it all worked out n the end .

[@johnnycash578]

your grossly misusing and spelling the word literally!! he would have to be in a coma dreaming he's living a perfect life for you to use the word,,,, what's up people abusing this word its so annoying???

[@user-zl4kj1vz7f]

@@johnnycash578 LOL - Don't get jealous because God smiled on him, be glad for him - I certainly am. If your life isn't working out then I'm sorry for you - but, don't convey bitterness by acts of petty Psuedo grammar correction.

[@user-zl4kj1vz7f]

@@nicwebana Laugh all you like, but, it's 100% true - whether you wish to believe it or not isn't important. Good fortune comes to each one of us in many different guises during our lifetime - some blatantly obvious, while others are more subtle and come in the form of an opportunity or subtle hint - BUT, they do occur - you just have to be aware of it/them when/if they do.

[@spikehughes1334]

@@johnnycash578 That's priceless, coming from someone who can't use the words "You're" and "It's" properly and uses three extra commas together and three question marks at the end of a perfectly ordinary sentence.

[@virginiarich7517]

We have a friend at this very moment whom is going through this with his wife. She’s drained him of nearly everything. Never did like her

[@andrewsock1608]

When a woman hates a person she expects everyone to also hate that person with her and give them a hard time. Never fight someone else’s battles.

[@obi-wankedogi]

Wow, that's a huge generalization. The last sentence is the only thing I can say I agree with you on.

[@okbro1324]

@@obi-wankedogigeneralization based in truth. If you wanna act ignorant that’s on you I suppose.

[@obi-wankedogi]

@@okbro1324 Are you sure you're clear on what "ignorant" means? I can help you understand the basic concept. I mean, it seems like you might be struggling a bit.

[@JohnTaylor-jl8ky]

I agree with you 💯. For a woman to say it's not true is the one that does it

[@obi-wankedogi]

@@JohnTaylor-jl8ky LOL. Y'all are clearly picking the wrong ones.

[@willyrose19]

My husband and I were together for 25 years. We fought, we made up. He died suddenly from pancreatic cancer stage 4 that had.been diagnosed just three weeks prior. It was a horrible death and it was during the covid hysteria so despite him not having covid, they would not allow me to be by his bedside the last week of his life. It has been 4 years, and I am still traumatized. All I can say to women who "have had enough" is to count your blessings.

[@davidkanalos6710]

Wow God bless you 🙏 hopefully you find peace!

[@debradavis768]

My deepest condolences for your loss.

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Hypergamy exists. Look it up

[@jimmyjuju]

1) I'm sorry for your loss 2) You have to understand you have blessings before you can count them.

[@victorhopper6774]

some men are dangerously toxic

[@carisusue]

My sister in law did this to my brother. She quickly found out that life on her own with two autistic youngsters in a really expensive city was not gonna be easy. My brother wanted his family back and followed her to the new city and they got back together. How he can trust her now is beyond me.

[@stevenbuck07]

My, that's very rare, TWO autistic children?

[@user-ki4sw3gh8d]

And they have a website on how to take a good man down putting him in jail and taking everything from him on drumming up charges. They should be held accountable same with the prosecutors office. Even if you beat the charges it is still on your records .

[@dorronbritzbritzart4573]

Yep, me too. 23 years together. She spent the last 10 years embezzling money from our accounts, lied about us being a steady patnership, then set me up with false claims or abuse and coersion. I was sucker punched for loving and trusting her. Nasty nemesis. True, if I had done this to her I would have been branded a monster! This REALLY SUCKS!

[@erincoughlin4187]

I’m so sorry.

[@dorronbritzbritzart4573]

@@erincoughlin4187 Thank you Erin. I certainly don't feel any resentment towards women in general, only towards this one individual, whose behaviour has sadly let down her sisters. It is equally true that some men behave despicably in their relationships. Unfortunately, getting into a relationship is something of a lottery - you either strike lucky and find a golden relationship, or you don't. Now I simply don't play the lottery anymore; life is a lot less scary this way ;-)

[@thelionspride217]

Yep, came home found a box truck in the drive way, she cleaned out the house, courts said she keeps all in her possession, she had an apartment all lined up, was leaving me for A "friend of mine" moved into a county where custody and child support is more in favor of the mother. I ended up only getting my daughter 1 day a week, and every other weekend. Didn't have a lawyer or anything. She hit me with it all and then I was treated like the bad guy. Everything she said in this video was 100% accurate!

[@thebridge5483]

God

[@sherresibley7973]

You can't justify anyone's situation bc everyone's situation is different not all variables are the same. I did what I did for me and my children. He was no, still is to this day a toxic physco. Mentally and emotionally abusive but it would be easier to justify in your eyes if he was beating mine and my kids ass I would have warrent to leave . Wtfe!

[@sp4rtavus244]

This also happened to me bro. I feel your pain.

[@thelionspride217]

@@sp4rtavus244 sorry to hear that man, things do get better!

[@leonardkillgore8537]

That is Why I married a born-again, Spirit-filled woman who was on fire for the Lord and had the fear of God in her heart. I rejected her before we were married and eventually came around. I was an idiot not to see here as a super Blessing from the Almighty!! 35 years later she is even more a GOOD woman and I tell her ALL the time!!

[@T.ManBornAgain33]

Love this! May the Lord our God continue to watch over you both in your journey together! You were meant to be. God bless you and your family 🙏✝️

[@stevenbuck07]

I don't doubt that works for some ppl. Congratulations to both of you and may you continue to be so happy.

[@ottomatic7823]

Never look for a mate in a club/tavern/bar. Find your mate at church, bible class. Nearing anniversary #48......

[@dusanradin5868]

@@ottomatic7823 ...yet another trap.

[@davebarton6824]

Why couldn't you make your relationship work without the CRUTH of RELIGION???? WTF is wrong with you????

[@factsdntcareaboutu]

The fall to a lot of good men , is a bad woman . Stay strong fellas

[@jdguy23]

And don't date modern trash 😑

[@ja60123]

Fellas, your signal that she’s doing this is that she stops b ching . It lulls the male into the thought that things might be able to be repaired but NOoo , it’s not a light at the end of the tunnel it’s a train running into your face

[@StillWaters101]

I think most of them do it out of fear thinking the guy will snap if he's given proper notice or just make things as difficult and uncomfortable as possible as she's trying to get away. They just choose to avoid all of that or the possibility of it since its common that men tend to take break ups worse than women.

[@paulkimber6028]

Yep this happened to me recently. My wife moved out and left me because she said that I was too negative. Come to find out.She already had another boyfriend lined up.

[@hassanchop3622]

They leave because they have someone else. But blame the man for her unhappiness. Truth is they never loved you.

[@JORDANJUNCTION1969]

My ex did this my kids hate ME because of her lies. 6 yrs now.

[@rohrsk]

1000% true. She spent years planning the divorce. Shameless and cruel.

[@duffgordon9005]

I never KNEW!! When she was readyt- No, I do not want to go for a walk! EVER! AGAIN! Period! And your skin makes my skin crawl

[@lhadron7]

been there.... cruel is the right word.

[@mombo967]

Years? And you had no idea? Sounds like you checked out before she did dude.

[@duffgordon9005]

Men are like loyal dogs, which dog thinks his owner is going to stop loving him?

[@StillWaters101]

I think most of them do it out of fear thinking the guy will snap if he's given proper notice or just make things as difficult and uncomfortable as possible as she's trying to get away. They just choose to avoid all of that or the possibility of it since its common that men tend to take break ups worse than women.

[@tennisfillip6497]

She's telling the truth, exactly. They never say anything,and completely blindside the man

[@user-bv1jw4kz9j]

Yep

[@StillWaters101]

I think most of them do it out of fear thinking the guy will snap if he's given proper notice or just make things as difficult and uncomfortable as possible as she's trying to get away. They just choose to avoid all of that or the possibility of it since its common that men tend to take break ups worse than women.

[@smtri5597]

​@@StillWaters101in what universe?

[@freedomofchoicelover3734]

Rarely does a woman ever leave without having another man to go to, or within days after separation they are sleeping with someone else

[@zugmeister314]

Female hypergamy is a real thing.

[@shikimanamela4210]

That’s a false assumption

[@pamlovell5628]

Rarely does a man stay faithful without being forced to. Do you like me generalizing the male population? Well, your comment did the same thing about the female population. It's not about the gender, it's the quality of the person's character. There are both bad apples of both genders but a high person will not attribute bad qualities of a person to the entire gender. You should work on yourself because you are not a high quality person.

[@danstubbs5032]

My ex

[@zugmeister314]

@@pamlovell5628 In truth I read that first statement and it went right under the radar, lost in the background noise of the usual generalizations I hear about men. This has no bearing on whether it’s correct or not. As a single father who is often called an incel, I have observed that people who judge the quality of another person based off one post on YT are often wildly incorrect.

[@GClark-dv4vz]

Yep, speaking the Truth…..I lost everything and had to rebuild after 18 years of marriage….came home to a foreclosure notice and credit cards maxed out in my name. You think you know your wife? Wrong, run a credit check every year !!! Period.

[@user-us6lh1jd9l]

Wise advice 🌹

[@rehabitathomesolutions9125]

I knew a man who's wife was doing this to him. He found out and he did it to her first. He didn't leave a trace not even a stray hair and then just never came back one day. He was just gone and she didn't notice till she reported him missing. She couldn't even give a DNA sample or a scent kit for the search

[@ethan7x574]

I did the same thing after 8 years. I caught on to what was going on and I slowly started removing things from the house. I got everything out one night while she was at her lovers when she got home the next morning me and everything I own was gone except for a do not contact note. Haven’t heard a word from her since.

[@Foxhound302x]

Damn you just described my situation to a point. What hurt me the most was the lying, coz I started to see the truth unravel after she left.

[@StillWaters101]

I think most of them do it out of fear thinking the guy will snap if he's given proper notice or just make things as difficult and uncomfortable as possible as she's trying to get away. They just choose to avoid all of that or the possibility of it since its common that men tend to take break ups worse than women.

[@smtri5597]

In what universe?

[@mamamia4409]

Most men DONT DO THIS. They just leave and take their money but Not their Kids.

[@jinoh7418]

Well it was a failed attempt at a family. Men are biologically inclined to spread seed and produce offspring and give it a good chance at survival.

[@russellcarter2087]

That happened to me. We went out celebrating our 29th wedding anniversary and telling people what we were going to do later in the year. She left the next day.

[@DustinPrice-wz9xf]

Why did she leave man? Sorry to hear about that. Shitty anniversary present…

[@russellcarter2087]

@DustinPrice-wz9xf simple, we grew apart. That was 19 years ago, and since then, l met someone who has similar interests to myself, and we have been together now for 17 years.

[@klieben9942]

My X wife did the exact same thing. She rented apartment, moved most of our things gradually over months, enrolled the kids into a school in her new neighborhood, and left me. I lost my money, half of my retirement for lawyers, paid her more than half of my net income as child support, courts believed every lie she told them about me. After long painful painful struggles, lost time and money, I finally got 50/50 joint custody. There are many good mothers and loving and honerable women out there. However, the system is not just unfair, but it encourages those opportunist women who use it to victimize good hardworking men.

[@rodolfomendoza5542]

Bro there is no good women. Including our mothers. They all suck

[@clscnnr]

You are correct. As a survivor it is incredibly offensive to hear women receive praise for deceit like that. It makes it hard on survivors. When these types of women do these things it hurts the validity of why we, IF we can (most of us cannot), actually do do these things. We are saving our lives and possibly children. I was unable to prep for my departure. I even had to wait months to go back and sneak into my own home to rescue mine and my children’s cat. Survivors aren’t hiding for self serving reasons. Don’t call yourself a hero for being selfish.

[@P-CRUZ]

*I love that she made the caveat of this not applying to domestic violence situations.* With that said, I 1000% agree.

[@truthveritas8730]

The Key to getting along with Women is to simply keep them Strangers. Problem Solved before its a Problem.

[@rorsche]

Yep. I don't even know why guys give women their real names. With all of the fake IDs and claims of regret 'rape' I would imagine fake names would be more popular than they are. But maybe I'm just thinking ahead here...

[@theotherwillie]

👏👏👏

[@byngostar6895]

Guaranteed she will leave u

[@truthveritas8730]

@@byngostar6895 Kinda went over your head didnt it. LOL

[@user-fk3ee3cm5u]

In their minds the man made them do it.

[@Todd_Swank]

Absolutely. I cant count how many times my soon to be ex accuses me of being "controlling". She wants to fly delta, I say southwest, flying delta. We need to buy a new car, she wants fancy sports car and I say SUV or compact, she gets the sports car. She wants to paint a room, I say we have no money in the account, I am the bad guy. Even with getting custody of our kid for a weekend, I have to ask her and wait for her to stop calling me controlling before she agrees to when and where she tells me to be.

[@rochelle2269]

@@Todd_SwankI’m sorry you have to endure that. I sympathize with you so much as I go through the same think with my ex and the kids.

[@Todd_Swank]

@@rochelle2269 Appreciate it. Divorce is just destructive and emotionally driven. She just got her own insurance for the cars and started paying her own cell phone bill 2 months after she left. Just so happened to be the day after her daughters last cheer competition of the season. at least that is a $600 in payments I no longer have to fork over. Now she needs to take the car loans out of my name. If custody is 50/50, she wont get child support and I will able to save sooooo much money again. But hey, she always thought I was hiding money from her.

[@user-ip1kj4yt7p]

True story.

[@user-yx1pj2vf3z]

Thats their own justification to live their own lie

[@jasonschaeffer72]

My friends ex-wife did exactly what you said almost word for word. She is using the kids for extortion to get even more from him. And he's actually a really good dude.

[@piratekid1]

girl, you do the EXACT SAME when leaving a job, if course it's the right thing even if a man is planning his leave

[@doc47448]

People need to save marriage for people that will actually honor their vows.

[@duanewilmes-zo8dm]

There are a few such couples. The media provides medical findings that 50% of husbands ... not partners ... are happy. There are additional conclusions of the 50% ... only 10% are not on medication. Do the math ... which is not fuzzy. Additional results are women can multitask ... thanks to brain wiring ... oops this results for a woman not ever being happy ... for richer or poorer until death of life as they understand.

[@daleg324]

My ex did just that. She was found cheating on me. But she kept telling others that i was cheating because i was a salesman who spent weeks out of town. I found out later that she had been cheating years before i found her cheating.

[@davidd.c.9545]

Thank you so much!!

[@andrewschreffler1914]

My wife was in that category. Now shes lost everything and her little friends are gone too. I love when people dont live thier own lives n rely on the wrong people to tell them whats best.

[@richardsavoie2857]

You forgot to mention that they sometimes start screwing every guy they can get to try and set up a replacement partner before they leave. These type of woman are entitled and self-centered. More power to them. My wife of 24 years did this to me. In the end I acquired so much financial freedom and peace. I am blessed that she screwed me over like this, because with her gone, I am finally happy. The two years of devastation and heartache were well worth it!

[@iaber1698]

It is called monkey branching. My wife began to flirt with dudes while I was there! I called it out and she denied it. She began calling me crazy and I bought it for a couple of months but you cannot hide a truth for long. She got a new job and at her new job, I heard her talk to her sister about her boss, which she denied again and the rest is history. It is frustraing because you know they are using you till the get another branch to suck the life off.

[@robertreyes7388]

My ex made false accusations on me during COVID. It stole all our constitutional rights so no trials, no depos, no speedy, etc. only way out was to plea guilty. I got out and DCF gave me my daughter for 6 months bc she hadn't done what she was supposed to do. After that she got 50/50. My daughter would tell me they were trying to get her to lie about me. Next thing you know her and her family made false molestation accusations on me, trying to have me put in prison for life as a chomo! My daughter didn't lie for her and I was cleared. When school started, we were still waiting on court to determine if our daughter would live w me in Orlando or her in Tampa. She ended up stealing her and putting her in school, alienating me, etc. it's still considered 50/50 but my daughter lives with me now and goes to school here. Her mom gets 3 weekends a month and holidays/ summer. I guess all's well that ends well but that woman put me through hell and is literally Satan.

[@sp4rtavus244]

I can believe that. Something similar happened to me.

[@meredithgrubb4497]

Thats terrible. She is definetley evil.

[@shannongarrett4808]

This is terrible and unfortunately it happens way more often than we realize

[@islandpainter3964]

Yep..

[@twohorsesinamancostume7606]

It's absolutely ridiculous that she has any custody rights whatsoever after getting caught lying to the courts. She should be in prison for that.

[@anonymousopinion6209]

We're in the age of holding women accountable. Thank You & RIP Kevin Samuels

[@rachel3682]

We not the same boo. Even family and friends are enemies. I'll be damned if I tell anyone. Had that shit put back in my face for years

[@PInk77W1]

I slept in my car 2000-08 to pay child support. Doing much better now

[@archerandthemouse]

I am sorry but good for you, that is taking care of kids more than hating their mama. In most cases men will bounce back from divorce before women do, they usually have the benefit of being in the work force longer (while she was taking care of kids) she usually has the kids most of the time, and women don't make as much as men for the same job.

[@PInk77W1]

@@archerandthemouse she had the same job as me. She quit to go to college. I begged her not to quit. I paid for her school and my daughters school

[@archerandthemouse]

@@PInk77W1 Good for her. That is a great way to ensure she can care for you daughter, and herself. If she makes more than you, you don't have to pay spousal support. As a dad you should pay for your daughters school, high fives all around.

[@PInk77W1]

@@archerandthemouse thx