Doc Reveals Everything About Narcissists, Bad Relationships, Dating, Red Flags, NPD

[@theayushpodcast]

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[@Aankhein3631]

I stayed with a narc for few months and what followed was the most dark phase of my life. Stay away from them. Chahe kitna bhi pyar ho usse... Understand that you are dealing with an emotional scamster. These souls are evil. Maintain one arm distance. This podcast deserves to go viral man.

[@theayushpodcast]

More power to you! God bless

[@archanajain7894]

Aapne jo bhi bola sab kuch maine apni 30 yrs ki married life mai experience kiya hai, my husband is this kind of person Ab mai apne aap hi solution kr rhi hu But sab kuch aapki baaton se match hota hai Kaash ye narcissistic personality k baare mai phle pta chal jata Thank you

[@mrentertainment4923]

meri mousi bahut badi narc hain .aur unka chota beta bhi. woh ek saath 2-3 ladkiyon ko fasaane ki try karta rehta hai. aur akele mein unhe galat treat bhi karta hai. use masturbation ki bhi aadat hai.

[@priostube]

Same here bro

[@dt.vishalmishra7331]

Exactly same here.

[@sumankaur9918]

Im not sure why is this not going viral. So much knowledgeable. Must listen to this. Learned alot from it for the ones who are in abusive relationship.

[@theayushpodcast]

I feel exactly same! Please make it viral! Thanks for watching!

[@poulomeDas]

Exactly

[@handasimi24]

Me too exactly same

[@sabkaBaap007]

I'm a narcissist, you can tell it from my username and I'm warning you to stay away from people like us. As she mentioned in the video that we are cowards. No way, if you really think so then you've actually not met a narcissist yet. We can do things which a coward person can never dare to do. You do 1x of something we will give you 10x without any regret or guilt. Just stay away. That's the only way to save yourself. If you think you can fix people like us then you're deluded. You can never fix us rather we will break you eventually.

[@deeptibhatia9]

Love the way u explained. A clear picture of a narcissist. My husband is a narcissist. He abused me and hit me also. I stayed in marriage for 2 years and I came back. It's been 4 months now. I'm living a life the way I use to live before. Though I have not been divorced yet. I definitely will leave him forever legally as I believe our life is gift of God and only God has right to give and take back. Nobody on this planet has right to control and torture us. Now after 4 months I'm all calm and better in my thought process and clear with my goals in life.. Thank you mam your valuable words has made me tk a good decision for myself being an empath.

[@sabkaBaap007]

I want to say that you are really very strong. Keep going and never look back 💪 you have made a really wise decision.

[@niti470]

I have encountered many many narcissists ! And she is 1000% right !

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you for watching the podcast! More power to you

[@niti470]

@@theayushpodcast thank you for bringing her ! Actually when I was going through Narc abuse in 2019 I didn’t find even a single podcast on Narc abuse from india and also even psychologist jinko b Maine contact kia for my therapy they were also unaware about that ! India needs awareness regarding Narc abuse ! And she is spot on with her every single point !

[@theayushpodcast]

So happy to see your comment, trying my best, Voice is important and that’s what we are aiming to bring from our podcast!!

[@शक्तितंत्रा]

Lekin ye ek jhuth h ki vo counceling se thik ho jayengen... Vo kabhi thik nhin ho skten haan thik hone ka natak kr dengen vo... Ye narsisite hmesa dimag se sonchega to vo counceling jb tk hoga tb tk thik h nhi to uski batrry phir se down ho jayegi....

[@vasanthar4533]

Absolutely right ma'am.... Very very true..

[@soniyachopde6934]

The more I listen to it, the more everything makes sense for me now. The guest has explained it so beautifully without complicating it. Being in a relationship with a narcissistic person for 8 years and then being married for almost 6 years, I have never had a better insight into everything that has happened. I had been losing my mind, I feel so good knowing and now understanding why things are the way they are

[@cmasurya1560]

This is a must watch podcast for today's society.

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you so much

[@kumon49]

Where is part 2

[@theayushpodcast]

@kumon49 live within 10 days

[@sabamubashar5096]

This lady so beautifully explain all aspects of NPD 👏🏻

[@theayushpodcast]

Indeed

[@thapar_geet]

Its a never ending cycle of abuse .. You cant live a normal happy life with a Narc. Just leave him or her as soon as possible.. if you stay your mental and physical health will be completely deatroyed within few years. You cant live like a robot on their terms.. They find excuses to fight with you. He do smear campaign against you. Eventually he will abandon you. Ao please Run😢😢😢😢

[@vd.saniyasays]

This is an important topic. Post traumatic stress disorder is really very very difficult to heal. If a person identifies such traits in their partner or relative they can easily separate themselves from such people.

[@Ansari_Sania01]

Your name is also saniya❤ M fully agree with you

[@Amycool901]

The best part about this podcast is that the psychologist has kept the topic so simple and also black and white. That discusion on either or was commendable.

[@nehadilipjain3054]

Set boundaries,learn to say no ,keep my things as priority

[@RJMahek]

“Minimise your emotional response “ I want to express my gratitude to Respected Dr Mam & Ayush for bringing such fruitful conversation 🙌 Request you to bring Mam Again .analyse Atul subhash case & his narcissistic wife

[@theayushpodcast]

Very very soon!!! Thank you so much 🙏🏻🪷

[@U77135]

Except that his wife might not be a narc at all, but on the contrary, that guy could very well be suffering from NPD. She has said that he used to beat her while being drunk. And if you read his letters, he has quoted cases of spurned men cutting up women for saying no to them and has hailed them as ideal. Also called his own son a leech and a liability and has urged fellow men to take up violence. This guy was himself mentally ill and I’m presuming that the wife eventually got fed up.

[@sowmyariyer]

Wow… Really enjoyed listening to her, what an interesting podcast this is and she is so knowledgeable. Her description about narcissistic personality is bulls eye. Thanks for inviting her.

[@theayushpodcast]

Means a lot, will always bring the best! Do subscribe and share this with friends

[@sowmyariyer]

Already shared this with my family and friends

[@theayushpodcast]

Means a lot

[@mehakjaswal9714]

This video gave me flashbacks, and I have taken a good time to heal from a narcissistic relationship. I cannot watch this video, but I know what it feels like living with a narcissistic person. Just one example of controlling and gas lighting: they will body shame you even if you are beautiful, but not enough for them. They used to ask me why I’m carrying a jacket with me during winter/ spring and cold outside. Because it wasn’t cold for him. 😂 I experienced it and learned it, left them after few years. Leaving them was just peaceful 😊My advice would be Do not let anyone control you. ❤

[@toqirussama8016]

Uffffffff..... The weird thing i felt in that relationship with a narcissist was i could feel he is acting, and playing a character but i was gaslight to the level that my reality was completely distorted and i started reactive abuse.

[@U77135]

Exact same script. Ppl who haven’t experienced this will never understand it and would always blame the victims for getting fooled.

[@sanaparveen6326]

Thanks for making this video, this requires more shares. She has explained the subject so well, I wish I would have known this 10 to 11 years back about all this.

[@rakhibhatnagar4780]

This is one of the best video on this topic I have seen so far…which is explained with such a deep knowledge and with so much elegance and with appropriate words. Even the host presents so appropriate questions which covers all the queries and misconceptions about NPD

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you, more topics will be covered soon on this!

[@jasmeenaqadir9237]

Very informative and needful conversation.. Thank you so much for this podcast..

[@priyadarshinirathod1131]

Ayush and Dr. Madhumati thank you so much for this podcast :) love the way the interview was conducted and the way it was explained 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@mehakjaswal9714]

Narcissistic people, the toxic ones are just evil souls. I experienced it and learned the hard way and took a good time to heal from that experience. Stay away from toxic, controlling people.

[@smrithiglamup8251]

Am going through this thing now, it helped me to take decision n how to handle myself as empath ❤ thank u both❤

[@sayantidas12]

Very very good conversation...fantastic guest and amazing qs asked...kudos!

[@alkamudliar378]

I have seen so many videos on this topic..but yours is the best.. and 💯 correct perfect observation.. research..very nice 👍👍👏👏👏

[@PrakashSingh-hx2zw]

Great session with Dr. Mam

[@pallavijani7442]

Thank u for such an amazing podcast. I m the victim of Narsisist person from last 20 years and really drained out. After watching this podcast i understand that I have to learn new techniques to handle this person. I m highly optimistic person.

[@theayushpodcast]

God bless you, more power to you

[@AishwaryaParthasarathy-u5b]

20 years is worrisome...I'm in my 7th year..I will pray for u...tk care ... hope both of us get out of it ❤

[@sabkaBaap007]

I'm a narcissist, you can tell it from my username and I'm warning you to stay away from people like us. As she mentioned in the video that we are cowards. No way, if you really think so then you've actually not met a narcissist yet. We can do things which a coward person can never dare to do. You do 1x of something we will give you 10x without any regret or guilt. Just stay away. That's the only way to save yourself. If you think you can fix people like us then you're deluded. You can never fix us rather we will break you eventually.

[@Mishraprapti13]

Narcissism me jagrukta failana bhut jruri ho gya h kyu ki jo isse peedit h wo hi janta h ki ak Narcissist surviver nark yahi dekh le rha h

[@sangeetadastidar]

So true

[@aditisharmaadi6106]

What an insightful interaction. Deep questions and deeper yet crisp answers !! A must watch episode!!

[@hkaurbagga7895]

A very well explained information on narcissism by dr madhumati singh..This 1 hour and twenty minutes video i have heard without pause ..i was spell bound..

[@theayushpodcast]

Glad it was helpful ma’am! Have a great time!

[@taskeenaslam9078]

It should have to be viral content. This is so real

[@sarahfernandes4913]

Thank you so much for this. Helps me feel so much better.

[@amtulfari-db9pe]

She really explained this topic very very good I really appreciate her !! I was searching for it for soo long…very knowledgeable and she answered every question sooo good in depth

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you so much, glad it was helpful

[@Happiness_live_24]

Extremely informative podcast. She is spot on with all the narcissistic traits. Good work 👏

[@mousamchoudhury4292]

One of the best discussions on narcissism.❤ Thank you so much.

[@SuperPorshi]

Very nice podcast. She is amazing. Bahut achhe se bataya. I am myself a psychologist and what she is saying is 💯 true

[@theayushpodcast]

Totally agree with you!

[@sthakur47]

But narcisssism isn't self love right? I am a survivor of a narc relationship but self love is a different kind of thing and narcisssism is very different. I felt confused as equal as getting clarity on this NARCISSSISM topic.

[@SuperPorshi]

@@sthakur47 it is difficult to diagnose on the basis of a podcast and even on the basis of manual. As specified by the speaker as a trait it's present in all of us degree varies. Narcissistic personality disorder is highly maladaptive behaviour.

[@SuperPorshi]

@@sthakur47 yes true that it is not self love at all.

[@Homeosiraj]

Very insightful podcast. She knows more than any specialist international speaker on the topic.

[@theayushpodcast]

Indeed!!

[@smiitaa41322]

Such an amazing podcast! I have watched so many videos on this topic since I went through narcissist abuse in my marriage.. i could relate to every single thing she mentioned….. This needs to go out to more people and make them aware if they are in a narc abuse… Thanks Ayush for this wonderful podcast!!👏🏻👍🏻👌🏻🙌😊

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you, Glad you found it helpful, all thanks to Dr. Madhumati ma’am, infact part 2 will be out next month, stay tuned

[@Thekalikumar]

Thank you so much for this conversation. I'm great full of yours 🙏

[@moumitachakraborty12]

I appreciate this valuable podcast. It really helps me a lot to understand the NPD and identify them. Thank you Dr. ma'am and Ayush.

[@shyamsunder4]

Thanks Ayush for this podcast and thankful for the great research Dr Singh, have encountered with two narcissits in my life and now got a clarity about their personality and how to deal with them. The psychee and symptoms mentioned by Mam are absolutely correct.

[@mumuisdreaming]

Very interesting video. I've recently realized that Ive been around a narcissist and someone spoke the truth. You should bless them, pray for them but stay miles away, no matter how much you might have liked them.

[@babymahiscorner]

Very insightful 👍👍👍

[@NShumona]

Omg… thank you for your expectations .. I suffered 19 years 😢

[@antaleenajoarder]

Finally a good video. Thank you

[@Nikhilsarathe]

I am practising Clinical Psychology and dealing with a Narcissist family member, Everything she is explaining is 100 percent true. Please use the coping mechanism she pointed at 43:35

[@lastname_pimple9584]

The most informative on NPD that I ve seen so far! A very experienced and knowledgeable speaker indeed!

[@ChaltiphirtiVlogs]

I lived with a narcissist for 2yrs, after seeing this I feel great that I left. And how peaceful my life has been after that.

[@swagatikamallick2238]

Thanks for this podcast, people should aware about these narc people.

[@alkakashyap784]

You are so true mam. Even the negative emotions fuel them up and they become more energised.

[@MsAakritii]

What an amazing podcast!

[@theayushpodcast]

Means a lot, thank you for watching

[@arshdeepkaur3221]

It was a great video!! I went through all of this and crazy part is he acts so nice infront of my friends. He also convinced them that I am at a wrong and how he tried to save the relationship. It would be great if you guys can make a video on discard phase when they leave you and ghost you act like you don’t even exist and how to cope after and what techniques to use!!

[@theayushpodcast]

Very soon, covering more on this topic

[@sonikadua2744]

Wonderful explanation. 👏🏻👏🏻

[@kripleenks9644]

But also, this is so good to listen to! It’s very on point!

[@NehaChugh-t5q]

Thanks a lot for such an important vedio that outlouds the exact behavior of a Narcissist that always goes under the table. The vedio has given a lot of clarity to the empaths who are unknowingly blaming themselves and are facing a hard time to heal. Eagerly waiting for the Part 2...

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you so much for watching, will soon launch part 2

[@kumon49]

The best podcast ever on narcissism... thanks 🙏

[@nidhipathania5716]

All these things happened with me ...very well explained mam

[@meerasinghkakan7900]

Very informative and good pod cost

[@sabamubashar5096]

Part 2 😍 wow thank u thank u thank u so much ❤❤❤

[@nehadilipjain3054]

Don't explain your emotions Focus on goals Grey rock no response Make boundaries

[@kiranchauhan9966]

Such a great podcast, thank you mam for telling NPD in such a simple words. Thank you so much

[@ritusamala776]

Very good info. Mind opening session.

[@OnePlanetAllAreOne]

Amazing ideas for empaths to handle a person with NPD. Thanks 🙏🏻

[@vishnupatil1855]

Thanks for very detailed information. As per your explanation, yes i am also staying with covert narcissist partner. I am suffering from her torture since last 20+ years. I have gone through phycological depression, stress , medicine treatment, sleep disorder. She always shoutes, force's, blackmail her opinion, threatens of law , never understand or listen. She never remember her any bad word but even single word of us she never forgets and tries to Gaslight relatives, her family as she is victim and only we are torturing her. Staying with narcissist is hell. But now days, meditation, real understanding of npd with your tricks are helping me. Thank you.

[@VanashreepandeHealyoursoul]

Make a podcast on empath as well and how to take care of empath...and how it impact mental physical health...

[@theayushpodcast]

Definitely! Very soon

[@ezazkhan4233]

im empath

[@tanuchaudhary2661]

How well she has explained, wow🙌

[@drrituvaidya1913]

Heartening podcast, felt hopefull about the situation for the first time. Really really looking forward to Part 2

[@innotecclean4169]

Mr.jha you look very simple and innocent person. Dr Sahiba simply explained everything super,,,,

[@theayushpodcast]

Thank you, yes! :D

[@amritaoza]

I really appreciate this podcast. Extremely helpful. Thanks so much for it.

[@ritamaitra3708]

Excellent information given by doctor. Exemplified well . Learnt all the characters sooo perfect .. thank you doctor .. need for control .. soo correct. . Fuel is also correct. Superb fantastic marvelous reading

[@ruchikaarya6587]

Amazing video. Thanks a lot Ayush and mam. I have encountered a relationship with a covert narcissist. It was so painful

[@SnehaKumari-fx2eb]

I stayed with a Narcissist as a fiancé. Now thankfully X he is. It was the most confusing phase of my life bcoz of his lack of empathy , recognising others good will and thinking me as an object he can own completely. The switch was so hurtful that It shocked my emotional system. But Thankfully bcoz I know I am an empathy and can be manipulated .. I kept people in my loop with sharing about his traits. I might forget they won’t. And it helped me come out of it. The wedding got called off and I got saved so did my image. He was hell bent of controlling and when he couldn’t he wanted exploit one quality of me that is not great.

[@angeleyes8602]

Going through same thing.. dealing with a covert narcissist fiance.. don't wanna proceed further..tell me..what was his reaction when u cancelled the wedding?

[@ziaulhassan2134]

@@angeleyes8602 it depends upon either he belongs to ur family or out of family. if he is from ur family u will see his evil and if he not from ur family he maght blakmail u of ur very personal things but the reaction and trouma can be a bit lower because of low possibility of often meeting. leave him who the person is he...

[@angeleyes8602]

@@ziaulhassan2134 No he is not from my family but kindy of family friends.. I cancelled my marriage..Now he is trying to portray himself as innocent and mazloom..and showing his cheap tactics to destroy my image within my family..

[@acharipavan328]

​@@angeleyes8602run

[@sabkaBaap007]

I'm a narcissist, you can tell it from my username and I'm warning you to stay away from people like us. As she mentioned in the video that we are cowards. No way, if you really think so then you've actually not met a narcissist yet. We can do things which a coward person can never dare to do. You do 1x of something we will give you 10x without any regret or guilt. Just stay away. That's the only way to save yourself. If you think you can fix people like us then you're deluded. You can never fix us rather we will break you eventually.

[@taheraxpedia7111]

1st time I heard so much details about NPD from an Asian Doctor.. really great job👏🏽 🎉 thank you so much! I wish much were taught in this continent☺️

[@ritamaitra3708]

I am at a loss of words maam you are 💯 percent appreciated and admired.

[@Shavez_Khann]

Being a narc abuse recovery expert i agree with most of the answers. Good word🤝

[@usharao438]

Thankyou for the invaluable information. By knowing how to deal with them.

[@jayautsav3110]

Thanks for info !!!!!!!

[@queenroopali]

Yes the percentage of narcissists is definitely a lot more all over the world because at every podcast on narcissists there are thousands of comments where ladies are pouring their hearts out 😢😢😢

[@CraveUX]

Thanks for bringing this wonderful guest ❤

[@soulful655]

First time,details,depth of this topic by this respected lady.

[@padmaduttjuyal9362]

Thanks mam. एक छोटा शब्द. आपने gaagar m sagar bhar diya ❤और मेरा दर्द कुछ km कर diya Thanks again

[@S-f8s]

Gray rock and lower emotional response works for some time only.Its like a baloon where the air is just accumulating and one day it burst similarly one day again the empath just burst out with all the emotions and its again back to zero. The empath gets shattered and broken and once again the winning of Narc

[@raka8054]

Very nicely explained.. Thank u ❤

[@ABHILASHCHAUDHARY-x9r]

If a person can introspect in him or herself then he or she is not a narcissist. A narcissist can't introspect. Apni galtiyon ko pehchana nhi chahta narcissist. Ho skta hai koi insan narcissist ho aur usko lag rha hai ki vo empath ya victim hai. Ya koi empath khud ko narcissist smjh skta hai kyunki usko narcissist na blame kr krka esa mehsoos kra diya hai ki vo narcissist hai. Sb accha tool hai ki kya hum khud ki galtiyon ko pehchan rha hain ya nhi aur phchan kar unko accept kar rha hain kya? Narcissist apna andar chupa sehtaan ko dekhna nhi chahta vo ussa darta hai isliye vo introspect krna sa drta hai. Narcissist choose to die but not accept his or her mistakes.

[@theayushpodcast]

True

[@Beingblisss]

So true

[@Beingblisss]

Last line to the point

[@deepalisoneji-bhatt9141]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ For Dr Madhumati

[@theayushpodcast]

Haha! Thanks for clearing that up!!

[@ambreenasim5087]

Yaaaaarrrrr! I wish I could meet her in person... So much to learn from her about Narcissist partner!

[@theayushpodcast]

If you’re from Delhi, I’ll arrange it! Or virtual if not, email me at [e-mail]

[@Mirjeena-je1tz]

Mind blowing episode 🎉🎉🎉thnkyou for providing this encyclopidia on npd❤😊

[@devikasingh4261]

Eye opener session...thanks a lot for such a detailed and non gender biased conversation

[@vandanabhogaraju9673]

As the Narcissistic person doesn't want you to get back to your previous independent self . This seems to be very doable in all relationships except an intimate partner relationship.

[@NehaKumari-yu4yj]

She is 1000% right 😢

[@theayushpodcast]

Yess!

[@pallaviroy8156]

U r amazing mam and ayush thanks for most precious video

[@AsmaParveeza]

Thanks alot....this podcast will change my life in positive way......much much much gratitude, u just changed my life.....this podcast should be million views......

[@theayushpodcast]

Means a lot to us!!

[@pranjalbajpai3109]

Perfect explanation 👌

[@mohammadsalmaan3683]

Very nice podcast learned a lot about narcisim

[@mansijain4258]

One of the best Indian podcasts on narcissism i have heard . Bring her back for mkre topic. This podcast will be helpful amd healing for so many people. Thank you so much 🙏😊

[@theayushpodcast]

Very soon, she will be back with more topics

[@ChaltiphirtiVlogs]

Just love the way u explained. I would love if someone can explain BPD also in this way.

[@Prashantkhanna]

This was so wonderful to hear a great explanation from her. Thanks a lot

[@neeruahuja2014]

Wow,how clearly and simply she explained, thanks ❤

[@suvanwitasaha4484]

I watched him, now I am confident about him

[@SujathaP-cf3vq]

Understand and read a lot about NPD is the only way to come out of the addictive love. Else that trauma bond is very difficult to cut off. I have watched many videos but this one is the best and clear solution. Excellent video. There is lack of awareness about NPD and other disorders. Our society justifies such behaviour especially if it is a Man. These covert NPs get please in torturing people. As Mam mentioned the emotional reaction is their fuel, be it positive or negative emotion. NPDs don't understand emotions or empathy. They find it interesting ifvone reacts as they don't know how to react like an empath.

[@nabiharais]

Amazing podcast! She explained everything with such clarity and using easy vocabulary so anyone can get insight and learn. Thanks for conducting this insightful podcast!