How do I as a Neurosurgeon tell a family that a loved one has died? #doctor #surgeon #family #death #parents
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@katbarnes4698Ай бұрын
I am one of those parents, my son died accidentally. It truly is a nightmare just like you described. I’m very sorry about your son and that boy you were talking about
@cynthiaholland1325 күн бұрын
I'm so very sorry for your loss
@RealSlowpokeRodriguez15 күн бұрын
🫂
@loaf2714 күн бұрын
I am so sorry to hear about your loss, may God bless you and give you strength during this time of grief. Jeuss Christ is a healer.
@KittyBroccoli8 күн бұрын
I am so sorry for your loss 🕊️🕊️
@saraford5928 күн бұрын
I know that when I lost my 16 year old daughter unexpectedly, my whole world is completely different. The person I was then I am not today. I still am learning to live this new life without my daughter.
@meowcheesemeow695115 күн бұрын
im sorry for your loss
@dnfluffles7729 күн бұрын
While my situation is not as serious as yours I too lost a highschool friend months before last graduation. For me it feels weird seeing old messages but I recalled this when I saw your post becuase it made me wonder how her parents were doing. I hope you are doing well.
@stevetesta6680Күн бұрын
Probably fake shit, but if this is true, damn.
@Everthingwithmichael10 сағат бұрын
@@stevetesta6680 bro look at profile picture it true
@YourThermalWorld25 күн бұрын
My parents went through this in 1970 when my brother was killed in a high speed accident. At 14 years old I lost my best friend, mentor and someone I still look up to. I’ve raised three children and am a grandfather. I think of that horrible day and experience quite often and hope to never experience it again. Rest well, Lenny, I still love you.
@TheVideoTalkers9 күн бұрын
very sorry to hear this, may your friend rest in peace 🙏
@adimark426 күн бұрын
@@TheVideoTalkers It was his brother but Rest in Peace anyways
@TheVideoTalkers6 күн бұрын
@@adimark42 his brother was also looked up to as a friend, but yes rest in peace to him
@reeree6682Ай бұрын
Knowing that you know and knew EXACTLY what these and other parents and loved ones have experienced brings tears, Doc. If EVER there was a person to tell this nightmare of a reality...they were blessed to have you. WE are blessed to have you. Thank you for ALL you do.💔💜💙
@southernsass2937Ай бұрын
Amen ❤
@RobertShaw-fl3osАй бұрын
Doc Thank You for all that you do . 🎉
@jordanjohnson5669Ай бұрын
Doc, I have worked in EMS and I thank you for what you do.
@hbennett564029 күн бұрын
Thank you for being the kind doctor that you are❤
@meme-sb7vr29 күн бұрын
Wailing is the sound of a soul be shattered and crushed by unbelievable pain and heartache it is a sound that when one hears it it touches the very depths of your heart, it is so much deeper than tears or crying....heard it way too much in my 31 year nursing career.
@annieseaside27 күн бұрын
It comes out and it is not something the person is choosing to do... like removing your hand from something hot before you can form a thought. It's automatic and uncontrollable. It's a tone and depth you had never heard your voice make in your life. In hindsight it is surprising because we think we control the sounds we make but not in this.
@tranquility932527 күн бұрын
I was an EMT. One of my pediatric patients drowned. She was with her father, and the mother was out of town. When the mother arrived at the hospital, I remember a primal scream that I will never forget. It sticks with you for a lifetime. Thank Dr. For sharing, and I'm sorry for the loss of your son also. Rest in peace to the victims who have left us 🕊
@graniabenge281429 күн бұрын
I sometimes ponder that people often forget that their surgeon, physician, nurse, indeed all healthcare professionals have illness, injury and bereavement going on in their lives, too. I'm sorry for the loss of a dear son and mindful of the need to always be thoughtful and kind in our daily lives.
@KH-nt7ejАй бұрын
As a nurse everytime this happens my heart drops to my feet. I can not imagine what the docs or families have to process when they get this information. All we can do is hold their hands or listen to their grief. We just feel helpless. It is never the ending anyone in medicine wants.
@mattrushing557326 күн бұрын
I'm a hand surgeon, and your story even choked me up. Due to my specialty, it is very uncommon that I have to give this kind of news, but I did have to give it a couple of times during my ortho residency. It took all I had to give the news and answer questions without losing it myself. As soon as I left the families and found a place to be alone, I did lose it for a minute. I have mad respect for the ones that find themselves in this position on a somewhat regular basis.
@lynndinovo350026 күн бұрын
I remember that inhuman scream when my sister called me at 1:00 a.m. to tell me her son had taken his own life. It was a sound I had never heard from another human being before that call. 💔 I am very sorry for the loss of your beloved son.
@Lindalou5977Ай бұрын
My face is wet with tears …. My precious daughter is a NP on trauma unit SICU/ trauma Hershey Pennsylvania! She has also done this many many times …. Times when a Dr is not available etc ….. it takes a toll but I thank you and my beautiful Cindy for all you do to help devastated family members as a loss has tragically occurred….. God bless 🙏. My daughter would just adore you …. I just know it ❤
@nancydushay5744Ай бұрын
You are so calming…more doctor’s should be like you……we can only wish
@lyngruen8607Ай бұрын
I do believe the heart IS BEING RIPPED right out of the body 💔💔 such agony HAS NO DESCRIPTION. I really admire your compassion and respect for your patients and their family. God bless you 🙏 Texas Nana Psalm 91
@asdfjklasdfjkl408Ай бұрын
As a former paramedic and soon to be physician, I also use the words "death" or "dead" of course in the most gentle way possible, but when using those words, there is no room for misinterpretation and it is clear what has happened. Dr. Hoeflinger, I hope to be as compassionate as a physician as you💜
@RobertShaw-fl3osАй бұрын
@@asdfjklasdfjkl408 I wish you the best as a doctor. I admire you wanting to become a physician .
@leigh5251Ай бұрын
I can't imagine the toll this must take on you. What I admire about you is you're honest with compassion and that's not something I've experienced very much with doctors. Stay amazing.❤
@susanmann5286Ай бұрын
I'm very sorry you lost your son. Thank you for your compassion.
@kimberlygrissom2315Ай бұрын
You were given the gifts of skill kindness gentleness thankyou Dr
@ms.krueger266029 күн бұрын
I have noticed that doctors need to be given classes on giving people bad news. I have not lost a child. When my Mom died the doctor put me in a room. He said - She is gone. Sorry. Do you have any questions. She died from sepsis and pneumonia. -He then walked away. That was it. He could have at least held my hand. Just gave me a small amount of comfort. I was there alone. You seem like such a kind soul.💜 I am so sorry for your loss. My neighbor lost her only child. He was 19. Car accident. He would be 51 now. I really don’t know how she goes on.💙😢
@Roheryn10013 күн бұрын
My husband had a brain bleed on his 77th birthday. He passed away a week later having never recovered full consciousness. He did have two strange moments two days before he died when he suddenly opened his eyes, tried to focus and said “who’s that ? Who’s there ?” I reassured him it was me and he replied happily “ Ah…good!” The second time twenty minutes later he suddenly said out of the blue “I love you !” in the cheerful , funny way we shared. And that was that. The day before he died the neurologist came to me and said bluntly that if he had other family they had better get here before 36 hours passed. That was the first hint I was given that things were not hopeful .Maybe there were more but I had refused to recognise them ? The last day the doctor did not come near me. It was a time of COVID and the hospital was practically a ghost zone. The ward was empty. A nurse came in and offered to shave him. I accepted, as he was ex military and would have appreciated it. Over the next few hours his breathing slowed and stopped. The nurse stayed at his side monitoring his heart but said little to me. I was alone . When it was over , after thirty minutes I went to the nursing station. The doctor was behind the counter writing. I asked if he needed an autopsy, as I did not want him touched further. The doctor looked up from his writing and said “No, we know the cause of death”. He never offered a sympathetic word . After a moment , I left. The security man at the entrance noticed my distress and asked if I was all right. I burst into tears, he led me aside and sat with me , holding my hand. It was the only expression of sympathy I had . I drove home alone. From what I could see, I cannot fault my husband’s care. But I can’t help but resent the attitude of that doctor.
@mariannestarchville3808Ай бұрын
Dear Dr. Hoeflinger, Your calm and soft spoken voice is AMAZING, because it brings such a comfort to me even though i have not had this experience. I pray for your son’s soul and all those you encounter in your ministry as a brain surgeon. My father David Michaels worked for years at MCO as a Physician Assistant teaching the residents in Family Medicine. Many memories in Toledo where my parents lived for 20years. Please continue this wonderful KZbin channel as i know you bring advice, insight and comfort to many. God Bless You! Safe travel to Mt. Kilamagaroo.
@jodiedohrn1257Ай бұрын
You have such a calm gentle heart for what you have been called to do by God. He has blessed you so that you may bless others by being strong for them. Thank you for all that you do.
@lindagrazianosouthjerseyal991229 күн бұрын
Though I am so incredibly sorry for your own loss, I know that you were able to provide those parents comfort in many other ways that someone else could not have done...having walked the walk. As a fellow healthcare professional, I find myself more compassionate and understanding as I have gone through incredibly difficult health struggles myself. Though I wish I didn't have to go through this at all, I look it as a gift of sorts in that I can help others more fully and be more present in helping them through their own pain.
@stottme1Ай бұрын
No words in English describe what you articulated from your heart and life's experience. God forbid if I ever experienced the pain of the death of a child. Thank you is not enough.
@marthawall331828 күн бұрын
Dr.? As I listened to you describe what the pain is like for a parent losing a child, I knew immediately that you have to have experienced this agonizing reality yourself. Your words were those of someone who knows-personally-what the parents were feeling. I am very sorry for the loss of your son. I deeply admire you for your work and your great empathy for your patient’s family.
@indyjones197023 сағат бұрын
Yesterday at the beach, a friend and I managed to just save two young girls, sisters, caught in the deep in a strong current, seconds before they were going to go under exhausted. It was dicine providence that I noticed them. The event to being a tragedy of the scale you just described, and I really felt this video. Thankyou for sharing.
@rickholland6695Ай бұрын
Wow, this video hits hard and for me, it is real. My wife, Penny and I worked together as EMT/Paramedic partners on the ambulance for decades. We had to give death notifications and dying declarations on a routine basis. It was absolutely heartbreaking, but we had to do it. At least we had each other to handle the stress. I knew Penny for 43 great years. She had 53 years of service. Unfortunately, she died suddenly in May 2020. So, I had to deal with the pain and loss myself. I can tell you they don't make women like Penny anymore. I love and miss you, my wonderful wife. But life goes on.
@youtubedeletestheoppositio81886 күн бұрын
Did penny get the Covid vaccine?
@kovyvuri6 күн бұрын
@@youtubedeletestheoppositio8188 dont be a dick. say your condolences and move the fuck on. doesnt fucking matter.
@kovyvuri6 күн бұрын
im so sorry for your loss. my heart goes out to you deeply. and im also sorry for the other jackass in the replies.
@vidoesvideos4 күн бұрын
@@youtubedeletestheoppositio8188 the jabs weren't available until the end of 2020.
@susanbrennan551129 күн бұрын
When you cry like that it’s called keening. I know because I did it for years. My husband soulmate of 24 years had a brain aneurysm. There were delays getting him to a trauma center ( there was an ice storm). They decided to do surgery the next day and I was there but the hospital was going through a remodel. I was in the hallway near where he was having his surgery and asked everyone to send me news about what was going on. 2 hours later I saw the room with the door open and someone was sweeping it. I asked where my husband was and they told me he was back in ICU. I went up there and there was a doctor in his room and I asked why I wasn’t told about what was going on. The doctor sneered at me and said it doesn’t matter he’s gone anyway. How I wish a doctor like you would have taken the time to treat me with respect. I ended up keeping him on life support until his 2 sons could come home from college. It was the week before Christmas. 14 years later I still feel that horrible pain when that doctor said those words to me.
@sharonpeterson89627 күн бұрын
My partner lost two of his children in 2020, 9 months apart. One due to covid the other to fentanyl. I'm glad I have no children. I don't know how a parent survives the loss. My heartfelt sympathy to all who have experienced this horrible event.
@chrisbertrand587814 күн бұрын
I've been on both sides of this. As a fire captain, I've had to tell countless families that their loved one has passed. Sometimes that discussion happens on the side of the highway or some other, less than ideal situation. I've also been the parent sitting in that room with the doctor. Luckily, my daughter's condition improved and she has been a miracle, but to be whisked away into that little room by the nurse and given the worst news you can imagine, I hope none of you ever have to experience.
@MICHELLE-gu2qcАй бұрын
I am extremely sorry for the loss of your son. You are a caring and strong person. I am so glad you are a softer and have great bed side manner. My Aunty lost 2 of her teenagers 15,16 and their friend 15. The way my aunty and uncle were told was brutal by a Country Emergency services officer who was attending their accident. His son was the driver so I guess he was in extreme shock but yeah caused long term trauma. My aunty had horrible time to accept because she was never allowed to say goodbye, view, they sedated her too heavily. Yes people may need medication but not to the point of no feelings or ability to process the grief
@childofcascadia19 күн бұрын
Im a veterinarian. Its hard enough to tell a family their beloved dog who got hit by a car died on my operating table. Thats heartwrenching enough. I cant imagine having to tell parents it was their child lying dead. I just cant.
@debishaw93558 күн бұрын
You are a very compassionate doctor. Thank you for sharing! I can’t imagine how it would feel to lose a child or grandchild. You explained it so well. I’m sorry you went through it as well…
@OshoElijahАй бұрын
May the Lord comfort the family of those who lose their loved ones😢
@John75MulhernАй бұрын
If the Lord doesn't heal then he can get lost
@Ghhyuttgg27 күн бұрын
Surely your lord did this
@defski12 күн бұрын
And I bet you wonder why people find atheists insufferable.
@apackwestbound59465 күн бұрын
Extremely eloquent and well described.
@NETHER_NINJA9 сағат бұрын
Iv never heard that scream but I can imagine the parents pain
@mambostirfryАй бұрын
So powerful. You knew in mind, body, and spirit what they were experiencing. So terribly sorry for you and your wife and that couple. Traveling together on a voyage you ever imagined. ❤
@LoriNuttallАй бұрын
Emotional beyond words.
@amyc938220 күн бұрын
We need more empathetic doctors along with officers who also have to deliver such life changing, horrific news. I’m so sorry for your loss and so thankful for your commitment to teach us all. May your son and my son, and so many other children rest in peace.
@yuvig186Күн бұрын
I'm so sorry for the loss of your son and anybody else who has lost a child
@lesliemassey-or6cv28 күн бұрын
Such compassion and true understanding.. 😢
@user-sz5kd9je8n9 сағат бұрын
I'm a physician,an Ob/Gyn.Despite this unimaginable loss this family was incredibly fortunate to have you deliver this news.I would not have had the ability to do what you did on that night.
@SherioCheers25 күн бұрын
Heart injury from grief can be very real...
@Roheryn10013 күн бұрын
I am endlessly surprised I have no injury…
@jacobbaumgardner340615 күн бұрын
I lost my brother nearly 3 years ago now to an AML induced brain bleed. He was taken to the local hospital, but then was flown to Cook Children’s Hospital in Dallas. I flew down from Portland that night and we all arrived in DFW in the morning. Texas has a law that requires the “plug to be pulled” after several tests have determined that there is indeed no brain function. The hospital had a team that was there for us the whole time, and even made a painting using our hands and my brother’s hand. He was so cold, and his heart trying so hard as the blood in his body began resisting being pumped. They delayed the 3rd and final test by a day (the previous two showed no brain function), and before they could conduct it, his heart began to beat rapidly as the blood cancer strained his body to the limit. After over an hour of all of us standing in the room watching his heart run a marathon, it finally stopped beating. We like to think that we were relieved of the responsibility of pulling the plug. After all that, my other brother and mum began to help clean his body with the nurses, and the attending physician came in to talk to us. My mum and dad were not in a place to be able to process anything, and because I am a very logically driven person, the best emotional remedy for me was to talk about what has happened and why. The attending physician was absolutely excellent, and she stayed and talked with me in a small room for nearly 2 hours, and explained everything in a calm, yet matter of fact tone. She later said she was amazed to see how I managed to process all the information she imparted, and her detailed explanation went a long way to help me find closure. Thank you Cook’s children’s hospital, you were what we needed in that moment.
@mikepawntee242525 күн бұрын
I do not know your level of medical skills, but your skills as a compassionate person are unparalleled.
@saul.t.2.96925 күн бұрын
Having experienced this at the age 16 when I was the only family member and I was told my mother had died. Very grateful to hear your methods. I’ve received a whole organ transplant. I’d be interested to hear when transplant coordinators step in?
@hannahlynn170613 сағат бұрын
Thank you for this beautifully painful description. I don't usually comment on videos but this reminds me of what happened with my Papaw. I don't ever want to see that room again. If you need somewhere to talk, feel free to use the replies as a discussion place. Fly high Papaw, 1955 - April 16th, 2023, the day my life was shaken forever.
@wrjsn231Ай бұрын
Thank you, Sir. You truthfully describe it exactly as it is. The remainder of my life will never be the same.
@rosemaryeveleigh356228 күн бұрын
It must be so difficult to share bad news. The parents so so sad losing a son. God Bless you for caring so much.
@JimS8702 күн бұрын
Thank you, doctor, for all that you do! Please take care of yourself.
@danielleohare3364Ай бұрын
💔. 💔. 😭. Ultimate Loss of a Child... at any age. Or for Siblings too. I feel for your Family and so Many Other Families who Walk this Path. It's a Journey no one Should Have to Go Through in Life. Rest Easy Angel's
@christophermcgarvey50Ай бұрын
You sir are an unbelievable man. Thank you for what you do sir. You are undoubtedly my favorite storyteller. You lift me up when I am down and give me hope. Thank you Dr.
@fish40965 күн бұрын
This guy has the coolest last name ever.
@jackmeyhoffer510728 күн бұрын
I can’t imagine the anguish of having to bury your child.
@Rae-yv7md26 күн бұрын
I have such respect for you and I have zero for most so called Doctors after bitter experience. Bless you.
@nancydaley964624 күн бұрын
Thank you to every provider who works at the rim of life and death. Thank you. And please, stay well.
@danielbrown71156 күн бұрын
God bless you Doc.
@michaeljulian499724 күн бұрын
As a long-time Paramedic, I have had to make death notifications more times than I would like to remember. That being said, I make a point to be the one who notifies the family if they die at the scene. If we transport to the hospital and the physician makes the notification, I attend and ask them if they have any questions for me. I recently learned new details of my father's death in 1978, when I was 13 years old, which helped me greatly. I want the families to have as much information as possible and, for me, it puts a period at the end of the sentence that started when we were dispatched. It helps me cope with all the loss that comes with Emergency Medicine. Keep up the good work! You should like a very empathetic doctor.
@TheSouthIsHot6 күн бұрын
My brother was killed in a car accident in 1995 when the driver of an approaching vehicle fell asleep at the wheel and hit my brother's car head-on. September 1 was 29 years since it happened. I took my mother to his grave this past Monday, Labor Day. It's true that the we never get over losing someone we love, especially a child.
@korruptedboie87005 күн бұрын
Very sorry for everyone's losses.. I'm praying for y'all 🙏🙏
@Nurturing2Ай бұрын
God bless you, Dr.!!! 🙏😇✨ My heart aches for your loss. Thank you for comforting these families in their time of helplessness and hopelessness. 💔
@lylestavast765224 күн бұрын
tough job you chose. thankfully people like yourself keep a good portion of those you serve with your knowledge and skills moving on in life, altered or restored to near normal, and for that - THANK YOU. Really excellent and clear explanation as an example.
@FastAligator12349 күн бұрын
I work in a Neuro ICU. I often see what he has described. Once an 18 year old boy was playing with a loaded gun with his friend when he accidentally shot himself in his forehead. I worked for many hours trying to save him when I knew deep down it was all for nothing as he was unable to recover. The Neuro surgeon used the same term. “Devastating and catastrophic” when describing his injuries. I’ll never forget his dad’s cries when we were in the room together. It literally hurts your soul. It’s crushing and makes it hard to breathe. But you must carry on and perform your job at a high level. I could never tell a family their child has died. I don’t have the balls or courage and thankfully I don’t have to be the one to have that conversation. It hurts just to usually be in the room.
@McTaco28 күн бұрын
I imagine that hell is like that moment, for eternity.
@Satjr35031Ай бұрын
Well spoken Doctor
@heatherstephens9295Ай бұрын
😭😭😭 Beyond anything I could comprehend.
@chadstrunk801Ай бұрын
This man speaks the truth.
@corysmama129 күн бұрын
I have been in a simular situation. My 2 1/2 year old son, choked on a hotdog at the baby sitters home. No fault can be given. This was 34 years ago. I was in shock for about 5-6 years, existing but not really able to cope. This is not a situation I would wish on anyone. Time has helped, however it still brings that night back as if it was yesterday. I know he is in a better place, I dreamed not long ago he came and told me he loved me, it seemed very real. I feel badly for everyone including the surgeon to have to go though such a horrible situation. My God bless any family having to go through such an ordeal. I felt God needed his sweet laughter more than I did. For some reason this helped me.
@doctorhoeflinger29 күн бұрын
So very sorry ❤️🙏
@Freespiritarts27 күн бұрын
Doctor, what you are doing with social media is so valuable.
@JCCRVB29 күн бұрын
I know that scream, for I have sceamed it. There is nothing to compare it to. I was present when my partner of 37 years died in Hospice in Apr 2023. To this day I am not okay. I cry myself to sleep every night and for now my memories are haunts. It's only through Jesus Christ that I have found any refuge. For His comfort endureth forever.
@anniegerlach256329 күн бұрын
I really appreciate that you made this video. I want to be a therapist and I will need to help people process their raw emotions in painful time. I hope to have your composure
@staci5799Ай бұрын
Prayers of peace and comfort by our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.. our consoler and peace giver🙏✝️
@encompassvideo542912 күн бұрын
God bless you Doc. You are a gent.
@Suekyle27 күн бұрын
You are such a blessing Dr
@KG-xf9ew3 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ...my morning just went in the dumper.
@goldengirl6805Ай бұрын
My heart and brain ache for them and and all of you, your staff.
@joshuamcmillan63902 күн бұрын
Not a parent, but a hospital admissions representative. While not in the room when it's said, I know that sound. Almost animalistic, almost human, but with the soul ripped right out of it. Nothing in Hollywood will ever match when I witnessed the cries of parents over their lost child. Nothing comes close.
@user-fi6hn1zx7r9 күн бұрын
Rip to the person that died hope the family recovers❤❤
@ellenwalters947827 күн бұрын
Lost my son also. He was 38 and never woke up. Notification is horrible. It's a new normal that tears at your guts. It's a physical heart pain. That was 12 years ago.
@Dadzgrl552928 күн бұрын
It's what my grandmother always called" keening" ,that raw unfiltered emotion coming out when a loved one has died. I did that when my son died I was told later. I feel for the doctors having to relay it. Definitely a difficult conversation.
@allentate376026 күн бұрын
We went through a similar situation. Peace and blessing to you.
@RC-bw8wk14 күн бұрын
Do you cry when you share the news and should you cry if it happens? I’m studying to be a therapist and the stories make me tear up.
@Jackary123213 күн бұрын
They shouldn't cry, the parents don't need to mop up their tears. Their sadness, not the doctor.
@sarahudson10828 күн бұрын
I couldn't do that , imagine it is the worst part , you do all you can but it isn't enough, my husband works in healthcare, he had dealt with sad and tragic cases, I am very proud of him .
@barbarjinx380228 күн бұрын
Thank you for your work. And I’m sorry for your own loss.
@danawildman8766Ай бұрын
God bless you, Dr. Hoeflinger.
@codingvio738311 күн бұрын
I drive everyday with the thought that I don’t want my parents getting that phone call to come to the medical examiners office.
@sysiphuspeart901222 күн бұрын
Someone close to me was a paramedic who was called to the scene of a child's suicide. He said the same thing about the way the father cried. He finished his job, walked home, called his boss and quit.
@Jdw684825 күн бұрын
I was a fireman and remember vividly when a mother found out her son was dead by shooting himself. It was a scream like nothing I ever heard again. This about 35 years ago and I vividly remember this
@RobCCTV9 күн бұрын
Lesson of this video: appreciate every moment in life. Life is finite. Life is precious.
@Zooeee91520 күн бұрын
Thank you for articulating what I feel
@angelabeatty6538Ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing
@ceciliapreziose378329 күн бұрын
so sorry for your loss, heal your heart
@maryshanley3293 күн бұрын
This great physician lost his own teen son in an auto crash. He knows….
@user-zk9nf6ki3k28 күн бұрын
Doctor Hoeflinger Thank you for posting this video ❤
@blairwillis919928 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry that you lost your son. ❤️🙏
@d.b.117616 күн бұрын
"Do you want the good news or the bad news"
@janetlynn339726 күн бұрын
I watched my dad die. I remember my grandma saying, " your kids are not supposed to die before you " He was 49.
@sailboatrn737212 күн бұрын
I always tried to let my patients family members know that I was with them at the time of their death. I was always with them. I always told them that they were loved and it was peaceful. Mostly all but two of mine were not peaceful and I avoided talking about that portion of their death to them. I let the Doc decide whether or not to let them now all the details.
@thisorthat76265 сағат бұрын
@sailboatrn7372, relaying that information to the family is so important, IMO. People want to know their loved one passed peacefully. Thank you for caring about people to be there when they pass. Blessings.
@sailboatrn73725 сағат бұрын
@@thisorthat7626 thank you. Being a nurse means being at two of the most important events in people’s lives, birth and death.
@jacquelinedidur76116 күн бұрын
God bless everyone who has gone thru this. 🙏✝️
@kristineanix904527 күн бұрын
You handled that well. I wish I had learned of my brithers death in such a way.
@crowdcor22525 күн бұрын
I used to work in a security position at a hospital. There were things that I saw and had to deal with that I'll never be able to forget, however much I'd like to. You have to compartmentalize what you see and feel in order to do your job, but it doesn't erase those experiences.
@thebenandfridayshowАй бұрын
I can't imagine the toll this must take on you was he an organ donor
@Pavia15257 күн бұрын
Don’t draw it out like that. Tell them up front that their loved one is gone. Then you can explain why.