Does age affect love: Discussing peer dating, manipulation in retionshiops and age differences

[@caron_sathekge]

“Maturity comes with a certain level of experience” 💯

[@laronathembelihle8163]

I like how Thato always talks about his exes in a positive way. Very cutesy, very mature, very demure

[@YeniKanime]

I would listen to Lebo all day

[@nelisaashtonmagenu293]

Easily!

[@ruthkarabo1024]

First time of me meeting Thato back in 2022 nd I was pregnant by that time 😊so very concerned about greeting him but once I did so.....mahn he was so friendly 😅even gave me a hug with that big belly nd I can testify for him, he's an gentleman ❤❤

[@diamondmokoteli1951]

Lebo"that just broke my heart a little bit cause I basically just asked him where do you see me mentally and he said 21"🤣😂😂😂

[@sihlebasanda1100]

😂😂😂

[@caron_sathekge]

@24:14 “It’s not about age it’s about the portfolio of the person you’ve chosen”… What truly matters in a relationship is who the person is, and how they align with your character, beliefs, values and aspirations, and vice versa, rather than how old they are. With all that being said, these things really do not have a proven winning formula, hey. To each their own. The success of a relationship depends on the individuals involved. While societal norms may influence perceptions, as well as other external factors, the most important thing is that the relationship is built on mutual respect, love, and understanding. Foundational values such as honesty, trust, communication, etc, are essential.

[@SibsM93]

Firstly, I would like to say congrats on 200k. This podcast is amazing. Secondly, as a 31 year old, I would like you guys to chill. Putting timelines on momentus life events is detrimental sometimes. Sometimes things don't work according to our timelines. We're not our parents and neither are we living in the times they did. It will happen when it happens, and if it doesn't that's still okay. Many people who have started young have changed marriages and careers multiple times in one lifetime. So please take it easy, no pressure. It's still nice to aspire and work towards what you want.

[@diamondmokoteli1951]

Wise words , thank you for that🌼

[@snenhlanhlamashile6398]

Thank you for this ❤

[@ntsikakhumsa6426]

Lebo is so wel-spoken, I could literally listen to him speak all day❤️🙏🏿

[@genuinejay7696]

Lebo is intelligent 😊

[@motlatsi219]

We work for women that’s facts.

[@musa.mgwenya_]

Proves it every episode ❤

[@bevly2090]

i know right

[@kgomie._]

Lebo is intelligent...Thato is smart Very BEST COMBO 👌

[@tsana__m]

Lebo please consider psychology 😭you too good

[@asandamsiwa7460]

Lebo... Thank you for always being vulnerable about the challenging year. 2024 was hard and challenging, most of us felt like a passenger in our lives instead of being a driver, some felt like they are on flight mode....they wake up and move with no idea if forward or backwards. When I was talking to God about it because I was one of those too.... I got this answer: Change comes with mud. We pray for change but we don't pray for the strength of the mud. Most times we don't feel the mud when change comes because God by His grace prepared us for it....yet sometimes He needs us to feel it because it refines us..... When we are in the change, we need to pray daily and ask for strength for the mud (wisdom, sharpened discernment, strength and obedient spirit) because there are feathers that need to be removed. God in that time is in control hence we feel like passengers.... God is granting us a chance to see Him again, afresh....see where we had been lacking and need to wake up....like a simple Thank you each morning you still wake up in the midst of everything going on....in every challenge flip the coin and ask God to reveal Himself...nawe be honest before Him and do your part.... You will be fine, look at yourself again and hug yourself....God has got you😉😉

[@Trav.Sim20]

I missed the bros. Lebo keep ya head up ,it's only just the beginning💯💯

[@SiphesihleAnderson]

Yeyy finally we are on 200k subscribers🔥♥️🎉. Congratulations fam!!!♥️

[@__thandoo]

Yay!!🎉❤

[@Puuuurr]

That lays ad was funny 🤣🤣🤣

[@bevly2090]

You guys are so knowledgeable, it helps that you are so open minded.

[@leratothulo6546]

Shooting my shot 🙈 Hey, Thato😊. Really having hard conversations that get us thinking. After all, God did say “It is not good for man to be alone; I will make him a helper...for me this goes for both genders. That's why we yearn for companionship. Lebo has valid points on having kids young but in the same breath. We need to enjoy the marriage for 2 years nyana because once we bring a human on earth there's no going back. But on that note, nice one guys 💃🏾

[@hopesibede694]

Be well in the name of the lord I think it comes with age. I’m 25 too and it’s tough . Wanna settle, wanna be financially stable kuri I wanna be relaxed

[@denzelraedani]

It is always a fruitful episode hearing from your maturity (both of you mark to 100% tops), and thanks for carrying me throughout the year mentally, indeed you guys are such good young influentials. Congrats to 200k subs 🎉🔥🔥

[@mphorakodi7347]

I absolutely enjoyed this episode. 😭😂Please y'all are too funny. Lebo is so wise!

[@keogh_xo]

Thato has been realising this entire episode😂

[@PotsisoMudzusii]

I thought you’ll upload in January 😂 Thank you❤️❤️

[@Simthandile-cb6bb]

Lebo😭❤️ I think he is the one I was crying for in hospital the day I was born 🫦❤️

[@austin_XXV]

Smooth😂

[@Nhlonipho_presh]

😂😂😂😂

[@caron_sathekge]

@41:39 ba re “He doesn’t even know how to groom”😂😭

[@Crush_Yesizwe]

I really enjoy watching your podcast man, you're so matured and funny at the same time😊❤. "200k" subscribers😮🎉🎉.....

[@Nhlonipho_presh]

Absolutely loved this conversation, it's so necessary

[@pinkhappynesslady5331]

Congratulations on 200k subscribers Thato ❤❤ We so proud of you

[@prudencengoy3223]

Lebo🔥🔥

[@t.p6837]

more depth needed for this episode, the tangent after "how are you" was good although the main conversation was lost. quality episode nonetheless.🥤

[@monicamei_]

My thoughts exactly. They were missing depth in the first part because they were tiptoeing around the topic, which is understandable because it’s a very delicate conversation. They definitely made up for that in the second half though, thoroughly enjoyed the rest of the episode.

[@snenhlanhlamashile6398]

Love the lays ad😂❤

[@ayanda_magele]

I missed Seated so much, I really enjoyed the podcast❤

[@tshepisomokoka7532]

Wonderful podcast, top 2 in my year🎉

[@Zine_Ngcobo]

Right

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Guys. When u meet the one....No1 will tell you. U will know....might be after a year after this Podcast or a month....Buh u will know. I enjoyed guys thank You....just dt it was funny to re live my life again around the same age as u guys are....aaargh man was nice

[@lethokuhlethwala3565]

I was hoping to see y’all ❤

[@nelisaashtonmagenu293]

Lebo was spitting okay!! ❤💯🔥

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Guys 😂. .. this is niiice....as much as I can see or feel it's a lil above u guys....I love this.

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Now guys u were starting to be in Ur bag at 47:00 minutes of the show. Love this....by the way um not waiting for the podcast to end....um engaging as I listen

[@zandicarter5113]

7:50 i hear Lebo's chat. I hear my 30+ year old friends hating on 20 y/o girls.. truth is they were also young and acted the same 😂

[@bunnyyakhe3560]

🎉🎉🎉200k finally ❤congratulations

[@lucricia_mokgolo]

Interesting topic.

[@boitumelomogashoa7543]

200k subscribers!!🎉 Congratulations 🥳🥂

[@theendlovusisters]

Just what I needed

[@andysinthu5672]

Thato, Have you tried investing in understanding relationships and marriage through talking to family counsellors and reading books?

[@Youngandunfiltered]

Oh Thato my Shyla!😻

[@mokobakiwendy9706]

Lebo is so funny😂😂😂❤

[@zainRaphael]

where’s the how are you??😭

[@KamoEverythingSA]

5:23… so according to my hangover memory, I think the good age to marry is when you start dating them. And what I mean is that…, whenever you set a certain age you’d want to marry someone, let it be someone you haven’t dated. It saves a lot of headaches 😅! My sober mind is thinking 28 for gents and 25 for ladies.

[@The_Third_Place]

these boys are so sass sometmes, but i like it😂

[@JuanSibiya]

S/O for another great episode majitas❤

[@katlehomathe937]

“ we are not our age, we are our energy “ You can find a young man who is in his masculine energy and is a leader and protector. But we draw the line at minors, that’s statutory grape.

[@zethumasuku]

Wat a great topic ❤

[@AlbertinaTuhafeni]

Wena Lebo🙄😫❤️❤️❤️

[@itskay6328]

Nice one guys😍 As we wait for 14 December 2025❤😅

[@lithaloyiso1689]

34:58 the Air BnB is giving Diddy party 🎉😂😂

[@agnesaggy1571]

Yes Lebo, everyone else is going through something, even the bible actually talks about that in 1 Peter 5:9, but God is faithful. Wishing you both a blessed New Year!🎉

[@Bellavontee]

I do and kids is so real 😭😭can’t be 40 and my kid is 10 guys Hauw

[@GracefulYvonne]

Is there a voice note option?😅😂 This topic requires verbal communication.

[@Nhlonipho_presh]

42:26😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SO-xi6vm]

I’m Kenyan and wuu …. I see the name spelled Thato … but I hear a different pronunciation…. Guys explain

[@redusttherealistofficial_23]

W episode

[@BokamosoMahashe]

Keng frontal lobe? 😔

[@Khanzzzzz]

That age gap math between Thato and his ex? Aowa👀

[@lethabos1]

There’s nothing wrong with it.

[@KatekaneShilenge-n7q]

❤

[@bayabongantombela1168]

First comment

[@rorisangtsoeu253]

Guys I Looove the Attempt.... honestly....Buh this conversation was/ is above you...OR I think U went on it with just one direction....BUT I Looove the Attempt. This is nooot to take a knock.. Buh to keep it real ...I think it was not done justice interns of perspective

[@JuanSibiya]

Lebo lowkey zesty 😭

[@nompumelelonxumalo4348]

200K subbies well doneee🥹❤️🥰💯😍🔥!

[@faithfulcooks2965]

❤