Does age matter in relationships? Marriage is not a calling in life! - Benjamin Zulu

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@SwitchTVKenya
@SwitchTVKenya 4 жыл бұрын
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@maureennganga7161
@maureennganga7161 4 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does everyone notice how Benjamin switches the cushions to match his pocket handkerchief? anyway, i love the show. Thank you for the chunks of wisdom!
@CintiaMendesT
@CintiaMendesT 4 жыл бұрын
Dear person reading this, we don't know each other, but I wish you a very successful love life ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@rosetabekum313
@rosetabekum313 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks 🙏🏾
@liliankwamboka8146
@liliankwamboka8146 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I receive it
@christineasena3530
@christineasena3530 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@maryjulius2863
@maryjulius2863 4 жыл бұрын
You too gal
@davidmusita9601
@davidmusita9601 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks....you too
@Michelle-rw2sm
@Michelle-rw2sm 10 ай бұрын
Its 2024 and I can't get enough of this man. God bless you sir
@reginagitahi7563
@reginagitahi7563 4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is not a calling! Develop your potentials ladies! Thank you Zulu
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@lisacole9913
@lisacole9913 3 жыл бұрын
I am 50 and my husband is 38, we are happy, how marriage is successful, I never feel like a mother, I feel like his wife. Age has never been an issue.
@mak5930
@mak5930 3 жыл бұрын
That is beautiful. God continue to Bless your Union.
@rozzana3048
@rozzana3048 3 жыл бұрын
Wow that's good am your age and have a boy friend whose 41 and I fear marrying him thinking am too old for him
@6850precious
@6850precious 2 жыл бұрын
Waaaaaaat!
@rael6917
@rael6917 Жыл бұрын
​@rosekomo3048 nope it all depends with how mature he's grown, he may be your age and childish ,not mentally developed
@adudennis533
@adudennis533 7 ай бұрын
God continue to bless your union. ❤😂🎉
@Bee-wd4mh
@Bee-wd4mh 4 жыл бұрын
I like how Benjamin refused to gossip🙌🏾
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 4 жыл бұрын
As a first born of 6 I can relate to what Benjamin Is saying,I was matured by 14 years , people are amazed by my intelligence despite the fact I don't even have a degree
@timzization
@timzization 4 жыл бұрын
Degree haikuji na intelligence... Wewe Ni clever tu
@dashb9053
@dashb9053 4 жыл бұрын
Wisdom or maturity isn't necessarily related to a degree... There's street smarts, book smarts etc Same way maturity isn't related to age
@LazloVideos
@LazloVideos 4 жыл бұрын
you sound like exactly like me...but the female version. Are you married?
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 4 жыл бұрын
@@timzization asante
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 4 жыл бұрын
@@LazloVideos no am not🙏❣️❣️ waiting on the right person
@thekitchentalk_ug.9069
@thekitchentalk_ug.9069 3 жыл бұрын
Every time I need to laugh + get wisdom from the same container I look for full circle with Benjamin Zulu. This man... Oh God. Much love from Uganda
@sandragetate8457
@sandragetate8457 4 жыл бұрын
There's never a dull moment with Benjamin 😂😂
@jackychela4638
@jackychela4638 4 жыл бұрын
I know🤣
@millicrntochieng8524
@millicrntochieng8524 4 жыл бұрын
True
@sherileighton5000
@sherileighton5000 4 жыл бұрын
What?
@bridgetsiyothula4915
@bridgetsiyothula4915 4 жыл бұрын
"In Africa men mature slowly" as a South African woman I agree with you, I have observed this here in my country.
@phelelepmbandlwa4110
@phelelepmbandlwa4110 4 жыл бұрын
ay shame and South Africa is worse worse worse!
@johnqq802
@johnqq802 4 жыл бұрын
Biologically all men regardless of their race or geographical locations takes time to mature.....as a man i would advice ladies to look for older men than their counter parts.
@tumelomothoa2860
@tumelomothoa2860 4 жыл бұрын
i agree mkhaya
@zimflame2368
@zimflame2368 4 жыл бұрын
And to think i was seriously dating at 21, i exhausted myself i tell you the dudes were kids
@ChildofDestiny-2023
@ChildofDestiny-2023 4 жыл бұрын
@Kaye Ti 😂😂😂😂 Huyo ni throw!!
@freddiesspace5278
@freddiesspace5278 4 жыл бұрын
Following from Bahrain.... He just can't stop speaking sense... Even he laughs sensibly.... Am in love with u guys
@shirleyconfidence8901
@shirleyconfidence8901 4 жыл бұрын
One of the dangers of dating an older person is that they never value your opinion
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 4 жыл бұрын
Your opinion may not be valuable at that point and to that person
@phanicekhalayi8250
@phanicekhalayi8250 4 жыл бұрын
I can attest to that.very true
@vikeke1782
@vikeke1782 4 жыл бұрын
Actions speaks louder than words so it's depends what you u say and do u support wat u say or we stalk sake of talking
@beatricemulama9046
@beatricemulama9046 4 жыл бұрын
True,👍👍
@shimwa5913
@shimwa5913 4 жыл бұрын
Stop gossip 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pamellanuwarinda7554
@pamellanuwarinda7554 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with you about first born daughters. Seriously this has reminded me of a Christian fellowship of old women I attended and they were amazed at the contributions I made. I remember them saying your reasoning is far beyond your age Learning more from you. Love from 🇺🇬
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 4 жыл бұрын
Jebaleko
@njerirahab5806
@njerirahab5806 4 жыл бұрын
I like that Benjamin does not sugar coat. The truth always sets free. There is no time to be lukewarm Am 23 by the way. I agree 💯.
@Rastavibration7981
@Rastavibration7981 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 21, single I've had a few relationships but as soon as I started watching Benjamin Zulu I swear I just felt like God was speaking to me😂😂😂 It was after him that I realized there's no business for me in relationships rn for sure.
@vetrocide12
@vetrocide12 4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to see young ladies watching this!! I wish this guy was there when I was growing up, trying to figure out my way with relationships and love. I'm grateful though to have heard him before I turn 40 in a few years. I'm in no hurry to get married unless I can find a partner with the right level of maturity to help me build. I know this is going to sound selfish, I can no longer tolerate women my age, most of the ones I meet are acting and thinking immaturely and yet want to have children because the clock is ticking. I used to ignore younger ladies because I felt that we just didn't have that much in common (a very faulty judgment) or that they just wouldn't be interested or faithful I'm slowly realizing now that I have alot more in common with young focused women, than a woman who is drifting at30 (but doesn't know it). Pointers to girls, get to know the man well. Study his character and the company he keeps. Listen to how he communicates with people and how much he lets you in. Please please don't be fooled by the exterior facades:; hair, car, religion (very careful here!). With the right support and mindset a man can rebuild himself at any age and men who've turned sketchy past into solid characters deserve close attention. Read read and study human psychology and traits of narcissism and the likes. You will save yourself alot of trouble. The way I see it God knows we men are prone to be stupid and slow to mature...that's why our capability to produce is extended almost indefinitely. Women have been blessed with innate understanding and discernment because of your womb and your responsibility to carry life. If you don't put this into effect in good time your characters have formed and most likely will not be able to mould into a caring mother at 40+ . No pressure 😉
@mindiperez2282
@mindiperez2282 4 жыл бұрын
@@Rastavibration7981 me too😩
@Peterpak1
@Peterpak1 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 4 жыл бұрын
I dated a guy that was 5 years younger than me but was above 30. I noticed he behaved like I was his mum. We didn't last a year.
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 4 жыл бұрын
@Anne Sparks I did. Then I was like this isn't what I need in my life. I am not gonna mama this man. Some people will lack maturity so you can't have actual conversations and plans. We just need to understand and make decisions. He wasn't a bad person though.
@edbee7674
@edbee7674 4 жыл бұрын
A cougar
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 4 жыл бұрын
@@lilianasaba9846 Iam in the same battle but we are same age
@lilianasaba9846
@lilianasaba9846 4 жыл бұрын
@@nakamijunic5844 that's a lot of work. I can't do it at all.
@nakamijunic5844
@nakamijunic5844 4 жыл бұрын
Mine we are agements but he acts same your ex to the extent he calls me mum So amazing 😑🤣🤣
@upgradeforher
@upgradeforher 4 жыл бұрын
As much as we need to hear about rlship and marriage advices, it's best to understand that everyone has their own different opinions.As much as we're setting standards somethings like marriage are sacred. No matter how many books you read, or advices you listen to, you and I will never truly understand what it takes for such things to work not even age gap or financial status. It's only by grace not by our knowledge of it. Many are the plans of man but its God's purpose that prevails. However let's not be ignorant in the name of God.
@vickymor3963
@vickymor3963 4 жыл бұрын
So true...
@vickymor3963
@vickymor3963 4 жыл бұрын
This is the smartest comment
@nambafudoreen9229
@nambafudoreen9229 4 жыл бұрын
My people perish for luck of knowledge.
@b.maruti
@b.maruti 4 жыл бұрын
I agree .
@johanneskapeuasha9498
@johanneskapeuasha9498 4 жыл бұрын
Is it God plan for the divorce statistics to be the way it is? So you are right but don't be ignorant in the name of God. He doesn't choose for u, he bless what you have choosen I believe educating yourself matters too
@MtotowaNjuru
@MtotowaNjuru 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is just a vibe.He always speak the truth without sieving words
@dailylife2543
@dailylife2543 4 жыл бұрын
"Stop Gossip,mind your business" 😂😂😂😂
@maryblessing5798
@maryblessing5798 4 жыл бұрын
Some kenyan musicians should hear this. 🤣. Kama wako happy.. GOD bless their marriage🙏
@Bee-wd4mh
@Bee-wd4mh 4 жыл бұрын
Joyce you ask the perfect questions ! May God continue to grant you wisdom.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@cathythuo8606
@cathythuo8606 4 жыл бұрын
I always dated younger then me but they eventually didn't work out because I realised that I was making more sound decisions then them which eventually made them feel like I was disrespecting them. Am now with a wonderful man who is 9 years older and I love that he is more mature then me mentally and he takes the lead. No regrets!
@lucymwai7540
@lucymwai7540 4 жыл бұрын
As as first born daughter. I totally agree with Zulu. My age does not match the way I conduct myself.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@eunicekithega8313
@eunicekithega8313 4 жыл бұрын
Wow I love this from Benjamin " responsibility is not inborn it's a virtue to be activated "
@ikowapi1342
@ikowapi1342 4 жыл бұрын
Look 4 u
@lydiabukachi5246
@lydiabukachi5246 4 жыл бұрын
I agree about first born daughters... we see nearly everyone under our age childish..Benjamin 🙌 ✋ 😂🤣😅 you speak true FACTS.. I relate to all these
@autophilerenaissance9706
@autophilerenaissance9706 4 жыл бұрын
Totally
@monicatembo8836
@monicatembo8836 3 жыл бұрын
💯
@kadijahbundu3390
@kadijahbundu3390 3 жыл бұрын
I relate totally to the first born daughters thingy...
@loiseamos7237
@loiseamos7237 4 жыл бұрын
I too as a firstborn daughter,i concur with Benjamin,age mates doesn't work,😂😂somehow feel they are my juniors😫😂
@reubenkiteme3454
@reubenkiteme3454 4 жыл бұрын
because you have the bossy syndrome.
@reubenkiteme3454
@reubenkiteme3454 4 жыл бұрын
@I c that makes sense
@dorismutahi7722
@dorismutahi7722 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was alone in this I once couldn't stand my age mate aaah
@reubenkiteme3454
@reubenkiteme3454 4 жыл бұрын
@Anne Sparks physically
@petronillahpyt1511
@petronillahpyt1511 4 жыл бұрын
Ok this guy is actually so logic . As a firstborn daughter i was just nodding .
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@nyapambonyakadongo9814
@nyapambonyakadongo9814 4 жыл бұрын
I thank fb for locking me down now and then for speaking my mind. Your site has been a source of entertainment when I needed to pass time. But since your last lockdown of 30 days...... I have diverted my attention to KZbin and met the best. I first watched Benjamin Zulu in a heated debate. And I had to look for more of him. I just love this guy. He doesn't sugar-coat anything.
@patiencempirirwe5449
@patiencempirirwe5449 4 жыл бұрын
I got pregnant for my first ever boyfriend after university,I was not ready to become a mother or even a wife,you guys are right,I wish the young ones can listen to what your saying.
@jemimahogutu9244
@jemimahogutu9244 4 жыл бұрын
So true
@vetrocide12
@vetrocide12 4 жыл бұрын
Patience, after a few years of this life. Let me tell you, a child is the greatest blessing regardless of how. In a few years you will realize how the experience can shape you and put you ahead. Let the blessing take shape!!
@rhodamunee2245
@rhodamunee2245 4 жыл бұрын
Am 23years and I haven't even thought of marriage yet 😂
@livingstoneAdika
@livingstoneAdika 4 жыл бұрын
At 22 listening and following the show as usual. Thank you benjamin zulu for education that you give to the world.❣️❣️❣️❣️
@nonimbogo
@nonimbogo 4 жыл бұрын
Hey agemate
@livingstoneAdika
@livingstoneAdika 3 жыл бұрын
Hey too just listening and talking Note
@habibamahamed5587
@habibamahamed5587 4 жыл бұрын
l m three years older than my husband but we are gud and we have been together for 7yrs n l m so happy n his happy with me too.
@vikeke1782
@vikeke1782 4 жыл бұрын
Congratulations all the best
@bellaolum9768
@bellaolum9768 4 жыл бұрын
3 years is not much
@leelashammy
@leelashammy 4 жыл бұрын
I wish you all the best 🎊🎊🎊💖
@winniewera2510
@winniewera2510 4 жыл бұрын
The host( the lady) of the show needs to be real she’s fake!... the way she talks and body language...
@bellaolum9768
@bellaolum9768 4 жыл бұрын
@@winniewera2510 gosh you don't know Joyce Omondi then, she's the realest person ever! She is a gospel singer and a worship leader apart from being a talk show host. Never judge people you don't know!
@Purplecamellia
@Purplecamellia 4 жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa mafirst born Mr. Zulu umesema ukweli! This was an enlightening conversation - thank you!
@akohyvettetv
@akohyvettetv 3 жыл бұрын
Woooooo I just discovered thid channel some days ago and it has been a blessing to me
@joannjeri591
@joannjeri591 4 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣the tuktuk comparison is something else🤣🤣🤣u guys u are doing great job continue impacting lives...especially this mellanials time...
@morineakinyi1116
@morineakinyi1116 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@esthermbatia3611
@esthermbatia3611 4 жыл бұрын
Oops
@maryblessing5798
@maryblessing5798 4 жыл бұрын
Benja Napenda vile unatubeba.. Advise iko dope.. Continue to shape gal child and a boy child.. Don't jump quickly.. We should work about our future! 💯🇰🇪💪
@noxolomalgas8074
@noxolomalgas8074 4 жыл бұрын
I laughed so much!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂Mr Zulu is so funny! And what he said about first born daughters is so true!
@penninambogo8272
@penninambogo8272 4 жыл бұрын
Whatever Benjamin has said about firstborns looking for father figures is so true,I am married to a 53yr old n am 38,we have to kids,its been 10yrs of marriage but not easy,because anytime I have an opinion he sees it to be childish,worse still in bed his not performing like before, please listen to what your being advised,I'll come for counselling since I can't leave my marriage now.
@Sunshine-h7c
@Sunshine-h7c 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry dear but please do take care of yourself.
@shamikiabanks3946
@shamikiabanks3946 Жыл бұрын
I can totally agree Beautiful, my parents passed when I was 11, I am the oldest of 5. I always dated older men.
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 4 жыл бұрын
I just love the maturity & ethics with Benjamin...”no gossip here, strictly talk about yourself”👌🏾😄
@Tracey_M
@Tracey_M 4 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you mr Benjamin... commitment is a VIRTUE that has to be cultivated
@lizziepalmers7561
@lizziepalmers7561 4 жыл бұрын
i'm learning a lot but this man is a whole vibe😃😃😃😃
@Bee-wd4mh
@Bee-wd4mh 4 жыл бұрын
So happy to see Zulu! Always brings a lot of wisdom to the table.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@chipomirandamukwaira451
@chipomirandamukwaira451 4 жыл бұрын
Those people who are always holding others are the ones who need to be held the most .....#struggles of a firstborn
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@chipomirandamukwaira451
@chipomirandamukwaira451 4 жыл бұрын
@@favoursenfuma1500 hi dear brother. what a comforting massage you gave me this morning , thank you so much and that shows we are so connected and God got us. i even have a job interview tomorrow morning and i know your prayer has already done it. unfortunately i am in Zimbabwe and i don't know how i can successfully do what you asked.... thank you so much i appreciate the massage.
@abigailmuhia8548
@abigailmuhia8548 4 жыл бұрын
I’m always learning ...thanks so much Benjamin ,hoping I won’t make the same mistake again .just 21😊
@bafafazawadi751
@bafafazawadi751 Жыл бұрын
Just recently finished high school then came across this.... Thank you so much....now I'm very sure that I won't make a mistake
@Stellakeff
@Stellakeff Жыл бұрын
Focus!focus. You have no business being in a relationship. Chase your dreams, know who you are before 25
@durbansaladyinaccra2173
@durbansaladyinaccra2173 3 жыл бұрын
I love Joyce's hairstyle...she is so beautiful.
@jillianmarwa
@jillianmarwa 4 жыл бұрын
Joyce must be loving her job, I can assume that she always look forward to work. I love this show, God one day
@annewanjiku52
@annewanjiku52 4 жыл бұрын
Reality I love Benjamin advise I am a first born in our family I got married when I was 25 and I was very ready but the guy was two years younger than I and after 9 years at foreign country he decided to marry a young girl it was yesterday I was trying to revise the tape of my head and I have come to realise age matters most because to me I needed a mature gentleman who could have understand me and ready to take me as I am but this 2 years gap I notice the guy could not wait for me to come back Home and after spending my money on him and our children he was supporting his side chik where they end up settling together so for me age matters most
@kumajoey6031
@kumajoey6031 4 жыл бұрын
This sounds so depressing 😪when I listen to these discussions, it sounds like men are slow in everything. It sounds like us women have to do a lot of settling. Sad af
@janatsanchez3555
@janatsanchez3555 3 жыл бұрын
Your really right, am the first born but at 18 l was like 35 in my thinking.l.nwver had friends of my age coz everyone blamed me.for thinking ahead of my age but the problem was p had of responsibilities to work hard and pay for my siblings which one was my dream since childhood considering l was coming from a poor family.
@wambuijoseph5989
@wambuijoseph5989 4 жыл бұрын
As a first born daughter I agree with Zulu 💯.. Personally I really finds it hard to relate with those we schooled together with(age mates) in terms of relationships.
@Peterpak1
@Peterpak1 Жыл бұрын
Hi
@princessnal5578
@princessnal5578 4 жыл бұрын
Congrats Zulu... always on point with your answers 🔥🔥💯💯💯
@atyang2448
@atyang2448 4 жыл бұрын
I am a Firstborn and Benjamin unasema ukweli.. I have trouble allowing someone to take care of me...We delight in giving and caring abt other too much and its hard to think of ourselves for once
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@s.k.m3401
@s.k.m3401 3 жыл бұрын
I am a first born girl and i cannot wait to get married and allow someone to take care of me. I am tired of constantly giving and parents having so many expectations. Even whilst I was in university, when I would stay in my room and revise I was seen as anti social and unhelpful. Then, when I graduated they expected me to help more around the house. I am not your maid. If you cannot afford a maid then distribute the house chores amongst all your children.
@awesomefoodss
@awesomefoodss 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu! Guy you are too much. Thank you for this. My first time hearing. I am the first daughter, single, and a lot on me too.
@MarthaMuiru
@MarthaMuiru 4 жыл бұрын
The reason we are THIRD WORLD is wastage of POTENTIAL! PREACH BENJAMIN PREACH
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@atienofaith1706
@atienofaith1706 4 жыл бұрын
This man is talking absolutely truth💯💯💯
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@atienofaith1706
@atienofaith1706 4 жыл бұрын
@@favoursenfuma1500 Amen
@malaikaglory4566
@malaikaglory4566 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you two. Your are just super great, hilarious and highly educative. Greetings from The Rhinelands
@SwitchTVKenya
@SwitchTVKenya 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@johnantony646
@johnantony646 4 жыл бұрын
I married at 28yrs and she was 22yrs been married for 25yrs now so sometimes I don't agree with Benjamin about age gap,sometimes people mature differently.
@cynthiamaua
@cynthiamaua 4 жыл бұрын
He says that they are outliers...meaning you are one of the few people who mature early.
@lilianmidigo6600
@lilianmidigo6600 4 жыл бұрын
I think what he says reasonates with the young people today ie between 25-35.
@CaroLina-qq1hl
@CaroLina-qq1hl 4 жыл бұрын
Because those were old days of our parents...you can't compare yourself with younger generation
@stephaniematheri5625
@stephaniematheri5625 4 жыл бұрын
People in the past valued marriage and matured fast 💨
@dorothywamuyu8854
@dorothywamuyu8854 4 жыл бұрын
@@cynthiamaua .exactly
@michaelmwape3475
@michaelmwape3475 4 жыл бұрын
It's very educative , I,m learning a lot thanks . Maturity doesn't always comes with age. Sometimes people grow mature cos of certain event's which happens in life . My grandma married at 18. They stayed until my grandpa left to rest .
@antonyblessy7220
@antonyblessy7220 4 жыл бұрын
Different era today
@mothballs
@mothballs 4 жыл бұрын
And nothing to say she was fulfilled..
@kalagamada175
@kalagamada175 3 жыл бұрын
That was then dear
@briindiana7306
@briindiana7306 4 жыл бұрын
Am a first born daughter n honestly,,,,, its hard connecting to agemates
@peninamwaka5637
@peninamwaka5637 4 жыл бұрын
Same!
@carolyneepiche6381
@carolyneepiche6381 4 жыл бұрын
We are together in this
@ikowapi1342
@ikowapi1342 4 жыл бұрын
Here I am
@autophilerenaissance9706
@autophilerenaissance9706 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@Dee-cr2mg
@Dee-cr2mg 4 жыл бұрын
So true !
@tendumuleya8784
@tendumuleya8784 4 жыл бұрын
Watching from Zambia. Mr zulu makes alot of sense
@dorcuskencey6816
@dorcuskencey6816 4 жыл бұрын
*Very true 👌 men do mature slowly, I too I've observed that!* *Personally I've always thought dating/marrying a man who is younger than me SOUNDS AWKWARD* I'm single mum of 2 teenage daughters,I'm not in a hurry to get married again but enjoying life with my kids.....I got pregnant at age 17 by 19 I had 2 kids,never enjoyed my teenage youth but God gave me other ways to enjoy happiness in my life
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@kikikiki3216
@kikikiki3216 4 жыл бұрын
Joyce I love this guy... He has plenty sense, God bless him so much...
@carolyneepiche6381
@carolyneepiche6381 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to 90% of the things Benjamin has spoken about in regards to first born girls.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@piarants3958
@piarants3958 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin always a joy to learn. I was married to 16yrs older we crashed on everything esp when i said who are the Beatles?😂😂😂😂.11yrs we divorced
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@danfrago5238
@danfrago5238 2 жыл бұрын
Me and my wife have been together for 18 years and just got back together three days ago after being separated for 6 months. Divorce was on the docket but we are doing our best to keep this from happening. Things are definitely looking up but it's still very challenging but it seems to get better every day. We have three children, 2 boys with autism (17 & 3) and our baby girl with Down Syndrome. Our daughter with Down Syndrome had two open heart surgeries fairly recently at 5 months old, then a pacemaker installed. She also has Hirschsprung's disease which led to her having a colostomy bag installed at five days old. She has several more surgeries to go. If I can say this to anyone, I would tell you do what you need to do to make it work. Sometimes you need to suck it up. You can't be fickle. Fight for your family. People say you shouldn't stay together for your children, well that's fine. But if you still love each other as well as your children and are split due to circumstances or tragedies that have put you in a state of constant depression, stress, about everything you can imagine in this situation like this, then you must come together and not give up. You must keep moving forward and keep on fighting. Many other people have it a lot easier or a lot worse than me/us but I've certainly come out of the other side a lot more knowledgeable and appreciative of my wife and all the things our family is capable of when we are a team instead of constantly at odds and bickering. We are learning to get along again and not take our stress out on each other and our kids get to enjoy both of their parents as well. This is what it's all about. For all of you going through tough times out there, keep your chin up and like I said, don't stop fighting, don't lose hope, never lose hope. If you truly care about the other person you're married to, you can't lose hope and you need to keep fighting. If you don't, then it's time to pack it up and move on. But if you love her or him, keep fighting, HARD! A little patience and understanding and reassurance to your spouse goes a long ways and a big thanks to my godfather dr jaj who help me using his spiritual power and prayers in keeping my family safe and if any of you out there need an astrologer or a spell caster please email; drjajspellhome@gmail.com or whatsapp +2349031670905 result is 100% guarantee and if also you need any of this other 1) Love Spells2) Lost Love Spells3) Divorce Spells4) Marriage Spells5) Binding Spells6) Breakup Spells7) Banish a past Lover.8.) You want to be promoted in your office
@mukirilinet2575
@mukirilinet2575 Жыл бұрын
All shall be well, dont quit there is no impossibility with the God we serve , healing is a portion to your kids🙏🙏
@joykathure4086
@joykathure4086 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ashleyzihowa7178
@ashleyzihowa7178 Жыл бұрын
What this guy is saying is very true. Actually the problem is we as women we screwed towards marriage. It's like we are groomed to be married one of these days which is not how it's supposed to be. Ladies let's work towards our dreams please.
@njerirahab5806
@njerirahab5806 4 жыл бұрын
@Full circle with Joyce, I will like to suggest a topic with Benjamin. What does a child need for full development and stability. Is co-parenting a good thing really for the child and will this child be as stable as one who grew in actual family with a father and mother together? What's the psychology behind this. I think co-parenting does not solve the problem fully. This discussion is very important. Before we get children it is important that we ensure they will have a present father and mother together. As Benjamin says, children are not born by wind pollination. I would really love such a discussion. I believe a child who is bred out out of a family set up will lack some thing. Is there some psychology behind this? Benjamin please
@prosperlilian1371
@prosperlilian1371 4 жыл бұрын
Looking forward for this if given attention
@vetrocide12
@vetrocide12 4 жыл бұрын
Hapa sawa, I look forward to this too.
@shamikiabanks3946
@shamikiabanks3946 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for Benjamin great advice, I am the oldest of 5. I have normally dated older men as well for maturity and financial stability 😊
@kristabelifeanyi5599
@kristabelifeanyi5599 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is on point But note, just because you dated or married at past 25 doesn't guarantee that the relationship will work.
@nomsam4014
@nomsam4014 4 жыл бұрын
Very true!!
@sly2549
@sly2549 3 жыл бұрын
True
@kelvinnyaberi
@kelvinnyaberi 4 жыл бұрын
My advice for men (From personal experience): 1. Raise your (men) own value in relationship, love & the sexual marketplace. Focus on yourself first. It's a competitive world. Nothing is free. 2. Accept that life is not fair. 3. Whining doesn't solve any problem, action does. 4. Take every relationship (including marriage) loosely. Do not hold any relationship tightly. 5. When you are in a relationship, enjoy every moment positively till last. But always keep in mind-- she may leave you or you may leave her (not a big deal). Move on. 6. Never ever be emotionally attached to any woman. Love her, but never ever fall in love with her. 7. Never put her on a pedestal. 8. You need to unlearn many things (from childhood) so that you can learn new things. 9. Grow an abundance mindset and be positive & relaxed always. 10. The above 9 things will solve 95% of relationship problems for today's Men. Good luck
@wanyamuthimookariuki2012
@wanyamuthimookariuki2012 4 жыл бұрын
9
@gracemoses3062
@gracemoses3062 4 жыл бұрын
@@wanyamuthimookariuki2012 really nice
@Godsmasterpiece33
@Godsmasterpiece33 2 жыл бұрын
You need to heal
@sharonbenson8120
@sharonbenson8120 Жыл бұрын
​@@Godsmasterpiece33 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂on a serious not....
@CyrusNu
@CyrusNu 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin and Joyce... Thank you so much... First born, we get our special package always 🥰😂...
@dianakyanjo
@dianakyanjo 4 жыл бұрын
Classiest lady on Kenya TV
@Nana-jj7zv
@Nana-jj7zv Жыл бұрын
i just love your hair pack Joyce. So descent. Good job hairdresser and your make up also is mild and toned so well.
@lucywambui8072
@lucywambui8072 4 жыл бұрын
Benjamin speaks facts only!!! Out of experience, I can attest. I wish this show started 5yrs ago.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@assmanhadi3907
@assmanhadi3907 4 жыл бұрын
True. Benjamin. First born dotaz we are brought up with lots of responsibilities. I agree with you. All you are saying is so right. Thanks for educating us. Joyce looking beautiful and smart.
@efe3097
@efe3097 7 ай бұрын
Benjamin is right. My mum got married below age 25 and I watched her get educated, evolve and remain miserable and depressed throughout her marriage until she passed away.
@eneali8308
@eneali8308 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin and Joyce. We all need to be prepared and experience life on our own before committing to another human being. Don't Rush!
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@eneali8308
@eneali8308 4 жыл бұрын
I believe you must have hacked into Benjamin Zulu account... A believer IN CHRIST cannot be spiritually attacked!!! Let that women keep monitoring and plotting delay, I'll keep soaring higher and higher! Christ is in me so no shaking!
@ruthkibu2137
@ruthkibu2137 4 жыл бұрын
Wow👏👏 it's the CHARACTER that stays👍 super awesome. Benjamin Zulu👏👍👏👏👍. And always remember CHARACTER is not a gift but a VICTORY.
@yvonnekim2830
@yvonnekim2830 4 жыл бұрын
I agree with zulu I am a first born n I rarely related with people of my age I was strictly raised I feel I am over responsible. I agree
@hillahkwamboka876
@hillahkwamboka876 4 жыл бұрын
In all the episodes, I surely love this so much, especially the 1st born part😊👌👌👌👌
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@hillahkwamboka876
@hillahkwamboka876 4 жыл бұрын
Zulu, please can I get your contact?
@benjaminzuluglobal
@benjaminzuluglobal 4 жыл бұрын
Kindly note this is NOT me Benjamin Zulu but an impostor i never talk such crap ignore anything he asks you to do. My team is reporting him to KZbin
@hillahkwamboka876
@hillahkwamboka876 4 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminzuluglobal ok.
@wamsufitness3217
@wamsufitness3217 4 жыл бұрын
This is so educative thank you Benjamin and Joyce 🙏💕
@percymibei3885
@percymibei3885 4 жыл бұрын
Always such a pleasure to watch and learn 😍
@winnienalwimba6202
@winnienalwimba6202 4 жыл бұрын
Are you a partner or 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Benjamin you always make my day ....listening from Zambia
@empisusana3465
@empisusana3465 Жыл бұрын
Applause to the Switch TV team. You guys are doing a great job - keep up with the incredible efforts. Benjamin U’re amazing n I love it when you come out with the raw truth about this age gap thingy. Your enthusiasm in empowering the youths is top notch👌🏾 Just a suggestion, I don’t mean to run down your answer - for the first question asked, since the victim is already married to her spouse, could she in such a situation be encouraged on how to make her marriage work. Putting efforts into learning more about family n career development will aid her cognitive development and enhance her maturity while being married. I believe approaching her question in this way will impact her positively opposed to judging n making her feel she has made a mistake she can’t reverse. Let’s make it a habit to encourage and impact positivity when someone falters - it heals faster than a paid therapy😊
@dinaHebcleaning
@dinaHebcleaning 3 жыл бұрын
I believe age doesn't matter in a relationship what matters is for you to have the right person.
@Eddie33154
@Eddie33154 Жыл бұрын
Yes. I agree.
@austinpastries1509
@austinpastries1509 4 жыл бұрын
WOW.....WOW..... GOSH... I WISH I WATCHED THIS WHEN I WAS SINGLE.
@mothballs
@mothballs 4 жыл бұрын
Me too 😌
@habibamahamed5587
@habibamahamed5587 4 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true cz l m frist born and l m the one who take care of my family needs evry thing they need is me but if l trip too much wahala.bt l thnk God l do my best.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@ntsakomavunda54
@ntsakomavunda54 4 жыл бұрын
I used to think Zulu was bit harsh with the 'Lady must be over 25' story, but woow he is so right, recently I had to deal with someone whos bellow 25 years and they are going to be a mom soon😎 literally u can feel that as though they are going through this stage of their life with half brain, the teenage brain truly can not fully comprehend certain stages of life...goodbess, Lord have mercy🙏
@sarahk6996
@sarahk6996 4 жыл бұрын
Marriage is ministry!!
@SylviaLewa
@SylviaLewa 4 жыл бұрын
I agree hapo kwa first born daughters. To date I find it easy to relate with older people. It's just how I was raised.
@richauntie316
@richauntie316 4 жыл бұрын
Me too being the eldest I relate more with adults
@wambuijoseph5989
@wambuijoseph5989 4 жыл бұрын
It seems we're many😊.
@ashleyscreation5371
@ashleyscreation5371 4 жыл бұрын
I relate too! I'm the first born child .I relate with men way older than me..
@afrisizebylinda8476
@afrisizebylinda8476 4 жыл бұрын
Same to me
@antonettewambani805
@antonettewambani805 4 жыл бұрын
I totally agree , relate with older people more
@perrymatasa1581
@perrymatasa1581 4 жыл бұрын
I was married by a man how was older then me with 15 years and still was staying with his parents it was hell on earth for me 4years latter I just had to leave yes he was married before me and separate with his first wife I came to realise about it when I was pregnant...so a man can be older and still be like a boy
@shamikiabanks3946
@shamikiabanks3946 Жыл бұрын
Snapple Apple Fact Beautiful
@letlhogonolomatsetse5845
@letlhogonolomatsetse5845 4 жыл бұрын
I felt that "Don't come here to gossip your uncle."
@na0m1fes51
@na0m1fes51 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂 the response was funny 😂😂
@The_Protagonist_4.o
@The_Protagonist_4.o 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha, waah!
@sammygithiomi3531
@sammygithiomi3531 4 жыл бұрын
He'll mentor you all the way to heaven🤣🤣🤣🙌
@leelashammy
@leelashammy 4 жыл бұрын
Aaa this two make my morning tea 🎊🎊🎊💗
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@joseky254
@joseky254 4 жыл бұрын
Great topic, It have changed my perspective of seeing things in a marriage of agemates.
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 4 жыл бұрын
Thank u Benjamin! Always on point...👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@caramel9244
@caramel9244 4 жыл бұрын
@@favoursenfuma1500 I know this is a scam, this isn’t Benjamin Zulu. Whoever u are may God forgive u for stalking people on the internet & trying to scam money from them using God’s name! You have no shame😏. This isn’t the first time u r doing this, so I know you. Our God isn’t a businessman like u...we don’t buy/ pay for blessings. I’m blessed in Jesus’ name & no one can ever take that away from me. NEVER SEND ME SUCH SCAM AGAIN OR ELSE I’LL INVOLE SECURITY INTO THIS MATTER!
@shiruel7
@shiruel7 4 жыл бұрын
Am turning 25 early next year but my circle believes am 35+ from how I talk to how I behave but it's because am a firstborn I just know how to survive in any standards plus asking is not in me but giving is what I do most...
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@connyconstance2590
@connyconstance2590 4 жыл бұрын
His generator going down has killed me with laughter 😂😂😂😂
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@lyndahkibiku2177
@lyndahkibiku2177 4 жыл бұрын
those people holding others are the ones that need to be hold most responsible girls i am one of them not a first born but grew up with alot of hard structure never had a hug from my mum never knew my dad i am in my healing time older than 25 years and mostly happy coz i know what im growing through self love
@joycewairimu8017
@joycewairimu8017 4 жыл бұрын
Hugs mami
@blessedbeautiful3872
@blessedbeautiful3872 4 жыл бұрын
Me too dia am in selfhealing
@ginameyer8832
@ginameyer8832 4 ай бұрын
i married a man 22yrs younger than me. i worry much about it everyone says in won't last. i never loved someone as much. the hardest thing is not being able to give a child. i relationship is very strong
@jennifernjoki8551
@jennifernjoki8551 4 жыл бұрын
Age contribute a lot when it comes to maturity especially in Men. So in most cases when the woman is older Chances are there will a great difference in thinking capacity . But the question here is who is older than the other , it’s the right age for marrying or getting married .
@favoursenfuma1500
@favoursenfuma1500 4 жыл бұрын
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@shamikiabanks3946
@shamikiabanks3946 Жыл бұрын
Great question 🤔 😊
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