Dog's Anxiety Causes Him to Lash Out at Others | It's Me or The Dog

Casper puts on a show of being the toughest dog around, but in reality is a very scared and anxious dog. Can dog expert Victoria Stilwell help him overcome his fear of other dogs and help the poor guy deal with his anxiety?
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[@jennawhite5466]

As a veterinary technician, we have to understand animal behavior to do our jobs safely and effectively. The techniques that Victoria uses have helped me not only in my career field, but also when I worked as a dog groomer, a dog trainer, and an animal behavior tester. They have also helped me with my own personal pets. Thank you, Victoria, for being who you are, and sharing your knowledge with the world.

[@ItsMeortheDog]

This is great!

[@jennawhite5466]

It's Me or the Dog Again, many thanks.

[@lyzziekelly]

How many times does she have to repeat "dont let him get close" until the owner actually PULLS THE DOG AWAY FOR SAFETY

[@antayafairless9028]

I train dogs and that's not really what she meant haha also most people I my opinion shouldnt own dogs..I wish people had to take a course and pass before owning dogs.

[@thepaganapostate3208]

@@antayafairless9028 Like a dog behavior and evolution class? Learning how dogs think and why they often act the way they do?

[@DaniellesMicoMarley]

@@antayafairless9028 thats brilliant, I would love to advocate something like that.

[@BJGvideos]

@@antayafairless9028 Same with birds. The bird rescue I work with does that but we're just one group.

[@juliabonardi4791]

@@antayafairless9028 lmao that's exactly what she meant, in fact she couldn't have been clearer that there needed to be a little more space

[@magickmiiror2853]

I'm just amazed at how quickly my own dog picks up on new tricks or commands using Victoria's methods! She could sit and lay down just fine before, but anything else was very difficult trying to train her in the old methods I was told to do. But now? Oh my! It's amazing and our bond is stronger than ever! Thank you SO much, Victoria!

[@ItsMeortheDog]

That's amazing!

[@aross1576]

same here! when we first got our dog I started watching this show. our dog was a rescue so we didn't know much about her temperament and background. Victoria's methods were so easy to learn and teach her and they worked!

[@stirlingshade]

It works on cats too rolf.

[@ChristineTheHippie]

I taught my dog "Wait" and "settle" and he picked up on it really quickly.

[@mangamama9881]

I am amazed how much it makes me want to get a dog because I want to go for walks daily and train and play

[@rosielou8215]

Victoria Stilwell was my absolute childhood hero and I still love her just as much 😭😍💖

[@brightstars1517]

Rosie Lou Does your face actually look like that? Sorry

[@cryptogf]

i remember laying on the floor in my moms room and watching her late at night while my mom slept

[@theonebeam]

I Stillwell love her two 😂😉

[@mariog1490]

What kinda dog is that?

[@clairelong4380]

Same

[@rutituti678]

Casper is adorable 😍 poor baby was trying to act tough😞. It was awesome seeing him gain comfort and confidence

[@TR-hy9pn]

rutituti678 my dog tries to act tough but not because she’s scared. She wants to look macho, and she barks *sometimes*, but when she gets close, she likes to greet them and play. I think it might be because she’s part chihuahua.

[@mariog1490]

Wat kinda dog is that, it’s a cool dog

[@rutituti678]

@@TR-hy9pn awww Sweet lol.. love the name 😊

[@rutituti678]

@@mariog1490 I know so cute! I'm not sure what kind though😔

[@kitamibu]

My dog does the same thing because she was viciously attacked when she was 9 months old & just trying to go potty. My Bonnie is a Pembroke Welch Corgi & the other dog was half boxer & pitbull! Her owner never had her on a leash because she said she'd always listened to her, until she didn't! That's why you always leash your dog unless you're on your fenced in property!

[@mariaduszak9064]

That black dog, Angus is SO MAGNIFICIENT that I want to hide my face in his fur forever.

[@AshCinder]

Maria Duszak I agree! I wish I knew what breed he was. He’s beautiful!

[@carringtongreene4873]

I love how for once someone likes darker dogs instead of those favored small medium white ones 😊😊😊

[@AshCinder]

@@carringtongreene4873 I have a big black standard poodle and she's absolutely beautiful. I love all dogs. But my favourite are the bigger dogs as they tend to be more confident.

[@Cathee.M.]

@@carringtongreene4873 I love dark dogs! 🖤

[@thecontenttable2955]

🖤 dogs

[@leftovermonday1642]

The doggo looks like he's crying in the thumbnail 😭

[@xBloodxFangx]

I like how you all seem to think this is cute with the “doggo” “hooman” talk. But if this was a Rottweiler you’d probably be like “What a vicious dog... thats really bad.” This is a serious thing, its not cute. Doesn’t matter the size of the dog.

[@Coco-xq7zh]

@Meanya Lol agreed!

[@rappermerch7785]

@@xBloodxFangx awwww lil hooman amgery.

[@vrogers006]

Rapper Merch All he’s saying is that its serious, in fact, I think you’re the one that’s angry.

[@rappermerch7785]

@@vrogers006 2 amgery Bois? 😘

[@amandapeters9827]

I always check the channel just to see if there are any new videos even if I don't get the notification because I love watching these videos so much

[@drawingamazing1766]

GachaWinterWolf cool

[@mushroomflow8499]

Go away furry

[@meishahaibatan8084]

Me too

[@amandapeters9827]

Mushroom Flow ?

[@amandapeters9827]

Edgy One thank you and the game of my avatar is Gacha Life

[@jolinawolf6908]

His lil waggy tail omg

[@lolololololol5382]

I learn from Her videos and it works. I try and follow the routines she gives another dogs with similar problems that my dog has and it’s not hard.

[@drawingamazing1766]

Lololol Ololol good

[@Nani-wg1ww]

what's really important is to not only follow the routines but understand why it works so well on dogs. Once you understand the nature of how they live, you can really quickly hash out any dog problems you encounter for the first time without even watching a routine on the internet

[@audrawelsh8467]

Nani!? Exactly! And then when you come across these new problems you can piece together any routines you need to be perfect for the dog.

[@DaniellesMicoMarley]

awesome, so basically its about routine, praise, repetitiveness, praise and more praise :) which is fine with me

[@rachelmccall5298]

I’m currently training my dogs out of their fear of other dogs using rewards and calmness and I have to say the younger one, the most scared one, has improved drastically she no longer put her heckles up as often and today I heard her play bark

[@kaylietsang5062]

Hi Lilith. That is great to hear. May I ask how you trained your dogs with great results ?

[@RosieRoan]

This is why if you ever decide to buy a puppy, you *must* get them accustomed to social interactions with other dogs, and people. For example, if you keep your dog penned up inside, don't walk it, or get it used to the outside world/other dogs, of course it is going to be antisocial, anxious, and aggressive when exposed to these experiences. It is better to start young, rather than to wait until it becomes a major problem. Also, a dog that isn't given regular exercise will have tons of nervous energy- especially for bigger dog breeds that need more exercise. This will cause a dog to sometimes release this nervous energy in a negative way. I know some individuals that waited until their puppies were adults to start walking them, trying to get them socialized, and getting them accustomed to a leash/harness, and, now, these dogs are nightmares when being walked- pulling/tugging their leashes, snarling/nipping people and other dogs, and, some dogs will even be so anxious (shaking, shedding fur due to stress etc.) that they don't want to even go out for a walk, and will want to come back to their house.

[@TwelvetreeZ]

Yaaaaaas, so true

[@johanna8206]

RosieRo - 100% yes, but there are also other aspects that can create aggression in dogs even if you do socialize correctly, including poor genetics, vaccine injury, and hypothyroidism.

[@chicoziebirb5139]

My dog currently shows anxiety due to being attacked twice in one day

[@sapphiredaisy9360]

I've learned so much from Victoria for my own three dogs . She is amazing . Can't stop watching ❤

[@DaniellesMicoMarley]

she literally saved me with my doggies like 10 years ago, This woman is a blessing. I wish I can meet her and thank her in person!

[@sapphiredaisy9360]

@@DaniellesMicoMarley i fully agree she helped me with so much !!

[@DaniellesMicoMarley]

@@sapphiredaisy9360 I love that! We demand a meet and greet xD

[@sapphiredaisy9360]

@@DaniellesMicoMarley oooo that would be awesome!!!!!

[@pikkusieluinen]

2:52 That worried look :(

[@prashantpawar8755]

i really love how you train dogs ..well i am from india and after watching your videos i really want to be a pet doctor .my name is vidhi.

[@ItsMeortheDog]

You can do it, Vidhi!

[@elliegames4379]

Love the ring of your name 😂😂😂

[@prashantpawar8755]

@@elliegames4379 THANKS

[@manichhantyal4003]

This is such a helpful channel! :D I’m only 9 and Victoria (I think that was her name) explains things soooooooooo cearly! She’s such a helpful person for difficulties with dogs and I’m getting a dog after 3 years (when I’m 13) so I’m getting prepared! :D

[@user-qn8mr9tj9j]

Mani Chhantyal What kind of dog do you plan on getting? Or are you rescuing from a shelter? :)

[@adahletendre8361]

That’s so exciting! Only a year to go (:

[@oreooreo101]

It’s so sweet that you’re learning now! You’ll be a great owner ☺️

[@cggalan3914]

Glad Casper is in a better frame of mind. 🐶

[@loveheart1434]

D'aww Casper is too cute! His anxiety is definitely improving! So proud of my little baby!

[@PawsuasiveDogTeaching]

Great video working with a reactive scared dog. I am just happy for the most part my Ruby really great around other dogs. She does not like snippy dogs though. If a dog starts some stuff Ruby tries to finish it. Which I have been working with her not to be that way.

[@jordananderson2874]

How do you train for that? My dog is like that, she’s great with literally any other dog but my moms dog because he always starts fights, and then she tries to finish, and I usually have her pry her jaws open off him. But I can take her to a dog park and even unmuzzled she’s never been aggressive.

[@PawsuasiveDogTeaching]

@@jordananderson2874 questions are welcomed on my channel just so you know. Plus Ruby and I really would love your support. I even welcome other channels to post as well. I like to use a lot of sound aversion in my dog teaching. Anytime your dog reacts in a negative way use a short burst from an air horn and when they behave you reward. Do not get too close though with the air horn at least 3 feet away. Air horns also work wonders at breaking up dog fights once they have started.

[@audrawelsh8467]

I have a dog walking business, and my best trained dog won’t start fights, but he won’t let dogs walk over him when they start one! I found if I told him a command then corrected him when he didn’t listen, he’d start automatically listening again when we had to pass a dog he didn’t like as much. Now we walk off leash 99% of the time! I do usually have an e collar on him though, just as insurance incase he decides not to listen

[@KrabbyPattySecretForumla]

2:49 Awwe he went from panting to "Hold up- WHOSE YOU!?"

[@tea3123]

My dog always bit me and was agressive I watched you and I took all of your technics and he’s a gud boi now thank you so much Victoria

[@markusfeindt]

This KZbin channel has got a lot of subs real fast wow I’m proud of that 😍🙏

[@Czadzikable]

Why would you be proud of a KZbin Channel getting lots of views? Did you somehow contribute your work towards its success?

[@WindWipper]

So cute! Wonderful how he can walk w/ his neighbor now.

[@ingeborg-anne]

Casper speaks perfect dog, so he'll be fine with socialisation. Not sure if he really needed the humans interrupt the communication with praise there, they were chatting in dog :D Casper's "I ain't messing, friend. I'm a good dog :)" calming signals: Licking nose, turning away, sniffing the ground continuously from the big dog comes in, aiming to take a long bend around the dog instead of going straight to it.

[@MelissaNicoleVintage]

Our dog “skidmark” is becoming such a good dog, he has stopped getting aggressive when hearing other dogs on a speaker, just gotta get him around a trained dog that doesn’t mind being barked at soon. But his confidence now is amazing!

[@abean5650]

If I could somehow use what I learned in this video and help my dog overcome this aggression she has against other dogs I will cry of happiness. I've started suspecting she might have anxiety of some kind and as someone who's been dealing with social anxiety I really want her to be happy and not deal with being afraid around other dogs the way I am around other people.

[@gnomishdelights6851]

Has this helped your dog at all? I hope so

[@wendymckee6627]

I had a dog just like this. But training was hard when I tried it like this. Watch me is hard with a dog that is not food or toy oriented. As you have nothing to give them

[@wge621]

A dog that's not food oriented?? Never heard of that. Try different treats?

[@kweenkira]

These videos are amazing & really informative. Thanks Victoria!!

[@zakurowolfalphasilverwolf]

Dude she’s the best dog trainer!!!

[@DaStrangeWeasel]

Omg his snarls and barks sound so adorable lol

[@laughingc0w]

Omg his little tail!! So adorable

[@theuniquebean]

This was a fantastic video! Little thing was just frightened. Great job to Victoria and the owners.

[@itsyagurr]

I usually don't comment on videos but I LOVE Victoria's videos. They help me learn a lot about dog behavior and signs on certain things. I love dogs and I want a job with animals (mostly doggos) in it. Noticing and training dogs/behavior sounds very fun but challenging and I love it! 💞

[@huxley8671]

I use her tricks and methods on my dog Zoe and...wow..not only does she train other dogs, she provides information and tips for the viewers or audience to use for their own dog.

[@shreyaspai3791]

Guys full episodes or I AM RIOTING! 😂

[@cvpitulvte7697]

If I could watch every episode in my country I would. I love this so much

[@amandas3252]

mnisam hi where are you from? I’m English

[@sanha5191]

Waiting for more full episodes pleaseee♥️♥️

[@cxckslvtt]

Good Job👌🏻👏🏻I really enjoyed this video! Each of your videos teach me something new! How to interact with dogs how to understand their behavior. I subscribed at your channel a week ago and I started watching every video with pleasure. I really like to watch Victoria in action😎 Keep up the great work!

[@kathrine7813]

God I have been binge watching these videos since they came up in my recommended! Great work Victoria! You work miracles with these dogs

[@oscarthefunnydoggo9695]

Love Victoria and all the content on this channel! So good, and I always check if there’s any new video😄

[@tinyhooves7524]

These videos are extremely helpful

[@darkt2136]

Victoria have to tey being relationship consult..That woman is everything,huge respect!❤

[@OCatalina23]

Ive always loved and respected Victoria's style of helping owners and their pets live happier lives. Her style of retraining and her knowledge in picking up certain behaviors of dogs to know how they're feeling has helped me a lot in helping train my dog and recognize signs to help prevent problems. Her advice has been very helpful for me to help my dog gain confidence and become well trained. He was a rescue found abandoned but with obvious signs of being abused by men. From watching Victoria growing up, I've used her techniques to help transform my handsome boy in reducing his fear aggression and becoming such an intelligent, loving, and social butterfly. Props to Victoria.

[@hollieoconnor4102]

Awww bless the little heart

[@sp88der]

These videos make me feel better about my dog.

[@victoriasalter1701]

He’s actually really cute 🥰!

[@margaretrees8662]

Angus is adorable!!! Poor Casper 😔

[@LilFoxyCosplay]

These videos and books have taught me everything I know now adopting my first dog I know I can be the best owner for them

[@anomalousmaterial217]

This is amazing! I want to get another dog but my current dog isn’t friendly around other dogs. Maybe now I can train her to be passive. Thanks Victoria!

[@ZooTycoon2witchdoc1]

Honestly you've helped so many people, I hope all dog owners who have issues watch these videos because dogs can be helped to get better

[@btwnsands]

this is just what i needed! my 7 mo is going through dog anxiety rn so thank you!

[@TheBigRedWolf]

I don't know why my dogs doesn't like others dogs one minute she wants to see it then her mood changes to fast that she'll attack the other dogs i keeps trying everything

[@DarqueQueen7]

Hooray for Casper!

[@sophiathebarrelracer539]

im addicted to these I watched one and them I fell in love I subbed!!!

[@noobyWasTaken.]

Hello i really enjoy you’re dog video’s

[@sophieeveritt5912]

Well done Victoria ! You are my idol❤️❤️

[@fortnitepro8987]

I honestly love ur channel and how u can totally change a dog

[@lariayuyam7393]

He looks so much happier 😍🤗

[@goveggie0395]

omg why am i so obsessed with watching these episodes? HAHAHAH lol

[@DeafJan0305]

Good boy, good job Casper 👏🏾

[@VividPastels]

Hey! Just dropped by to say that I really like your videos and that I am fascinated by how easy it is for you to get a dog under your control, thanks to you I now have a back up plan in case my dream career doesn't go that well soooo

[@peanutz.the.sxftiie6210]

After watching almost every of those videos I'm not even surprised that I'm better at training dogs 🥺👏

[@Nicki1969able]

Casper is a CUTIE!!!

[@veronikarotberg]

Awesome video as always 👍

[@EmergencyDrawings]

I can relate to this dog on a personal level

[@Patty-ki1to]

I love seeing snippets. Especially of new scenes from full episodes I've seen. However I'd love to see more full episodes Especially this one of Casper. One of mine and Shadow's, my beloved late Yorkie mixes favorite shows we watched 🙂.

[@gisellemijares1561]

Casper did so well. Can we also talk about how beautiful Angus is?

[@hey8703]

I use some of what Victoria uses on my all ready trained dog 🐶🐕 Casper is so sweet 😍

[@verifiedsoftie603]

Angus is soo beautiful omg

[@callummurphy3693]

I went on youtube to see if there was any new clips and 5 59 and then boom a notification😂

[@elishaandy]

00:54 Victoria: he's scared Guy: Really?!

[@empttyyyyy]

Great work 👍👍👍

[@doginfo7544]

Amazing content keep it up

[@snowkkona786]

the watch me command is the first thing we teach our service puppies in training :)

[@Insorainity]

Magic of reading emotions

[@torakunoichi]

The tone differences when she talks to the humans vs when she talks to the dog is astounding

[@karoo4919]

Great channel, and lovely animals

[@InfamousRavenRose]

OH MY GOD??? IS THIS WHAT MY POOR BOY IS GOING THROUGH??? I need to try this, he's a sweetheart and I want others to see that as well when I walk him out there. QuQ He's a husky/German

[@couch_philosoph3325]

The "watch me" trick is very good for many issues that arise outside. Also when dogs want to chase things

[@kerristella663]

Very nice. I love happy endings.

[@oldaccount3666]

I thought from the thumbnail "Oh that looks how my dog did as a puppy!" When I heard that the dog was called Casper. I had to laugh, my dogs name is also Casper (My dog is quite a lot bigger though since he's a Lab x, and doesn't have any issue with other dogs - except for when they get a little nippy around his mouth).

[@CoiledBooties]

I have an issue with when dogs run up to mine, she lashes out at them. Still haven't really found the solution. Luckily she has never hurt another dog as she is a springer with a soft bite, but it doesn't make it any less scary

[@shalomi5832]

I really wish there were a trainer like her near me

[@sunnyheart7478]

GREAT VIDEO💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖 GREAT VIDEO❤️❤️❤️❤️poor dog anxiety is bad but thanks to Victoria help he will improve I know it🌹🌹🌹🌈🌈🌈

[@farosamor]

I just love watching this

[@unprofessional2271]

I love this channel

[@jwazmin7409]

Awww his so cute!

[@bunnycafe1427]

Im convinced you have to be from Jersey to be on this show

[@katiestinson4848]

I love these vids

[@franxo9114]

my favourite videos xx

[@sophiewhyte6534]

My dogs reacts the same way after getting attacked so many times. Trying to get them back outside with little steps at a time starting with just taking them outside in the front garden hiding treats in hopes he finds outside fun again

[@frenchvanilla7109]

Why are you letting your dog get attacked so many times??? Are you taking him to a dog park?

[@sophiewhyte6534]

@@frenchvanilla7109 it would happen when ever I took them for walks, I would keep them on a lead incase they ran away, but other dogs weren't on lead do they would just come running up to us.

[@frenchvanilla7109]

@@sophiewhyte6534 Oh gosh that's awful. Maybe hold your dogs in your arms until you get to a safe area. I have a pitbull in my area and I don't like when can he comes up to my dogs, so I immediately cross the street or turn and head back home. When the coast is clear I head back out. Whenever I see a big dog off leash I immediately pick my dogs up and head back home. It's our job to protect those pup's. ❤️

[@sophiewhyte6534]

@@frenchvanilla7109 all the dogs around my area are really nice (we moved away from where they all got attacked) but they're still extremely anxious when they go out

[@debbiepeter112]

My shih tzu used to do the same thing because he was scared as well. I used this exact same training technique as she is doing. Works a charm. I used to have to avoid other dogs like the plague but no problems at all now

[@kaylietsang5062]

Hi I have the exact problem and was wondering how you trained your shih tzu ?

[@debbiepeter112]

@@kaylietsang5062 I took pieces of chicken with me when on walks and as soon as I saw another dog, I made him sit and look at me. When I looked at the other dog and didnt react , even for a second, I gave him a piece of chicken. Only works if you react quickly with the treats. I just kept doing that and he soon associated him behaving with getting chicken. I now have another dog and walk in the park with him surrounded by dogs and he is no bother at all.

[@kaylietsang5062]

@@debbiepeter112 wow! That is great to hear. You’re giving me some hope with my shih tzu. May I ask how long you have been giving the treats for your dog to now get along with other dogs ?

[@debbiepeter112]

@@kaylietsang5062 Took a while. At least 6 months of training. Have to keep it consistent though. Our vet thought I was bringing on a different dog when I we walked in and my shih tzu just waggles his tail at the other dogs lol

[@kaylietsang5062]

@@debbiepeter112 thank you so much for replying 🙏 Does he have any problems meeting other dogs now ? And did you go further with your training? Or just consistently giving chicken treats did the trick ?

[@charlene274]

Look at that beautiful tail wag!!!!

[@BM-wk4ud]

My rescue chihuahua female dog bites and tries to attack. We were about to gave up on her, but I just started training her with Victoria's method.

[@thetearoom835]

Do a full episode

[@ArcticFox-yz1ld]

Love you your the best you tot me so much

[@shashimohan9777]

When the training was going on it felt like a asmr video ☺😁😂🤣

[@bloodwolf9075]

Casper is just like my dog. Lashes out at any dog that gets close. She's fine with pups though. All she wants to do is run and play with them. I'm guessing that be her playful nature and motherly instinct.

[@chrysantha_plays3362]

Lemme try to do this my dog is very aggressive to... towards other dog my dogs a shihpoo btw....

[@blueteam8343]

I love this show

[@squattingheads]

2:52 nope