Midlife Reinvention: My 7 Strategies for Success | Over 50 & Flourishing

[@hopedodson8058]

I pivoted in 2015, right before I turned 50. I left my husband in TX and moved back to St. Louis with no job and 2 kids to support. I had my faith, my friends and a lot of anger that kept me motivated to keep moving forward towards success in life. 8 years later my life is so blessed! It’s the best decision I ever made… and also the hardest thing I’ve ever been through.

[@lisad8551]

Going thru this now. I just walked away from a VP position in a very toxic workplace. Doing what I love. 59 years young and I couldn't take it. Moments of defeat, doubt, fear and anger are flowing. But I know I did the right thing. I will find my wayy❤

[@SusanBRoman-ch9bm]

@lisad8551. At 58, I also walked away from high level position due to a toxic workplace. It was the career of a life time but my integrity meant more than anything else. I may not be making the salary that I did nor have the power and prestige that came with the title but I am so much happier and healthier. 3 yrs later, I realize what a gift/blessing quitting that position really was. Good luck.

[@jelenapetrovic5876]

Mental health should be always on 1st place! Choosing Yourself was the best choice.

[@PriscilaForbes]

All the best to you. I did the same thing at 59 and am three years into it. Walking away from an executive level position and all its perks is a courageous decision (I keep telling myself that). Everyday is a learning experience and an adventure.

[@bobbiwiniecki2704]

Eight years ago my husband suffered a fatal heart event while we were on vacation in Mexico. He was 62. I spent a most of my 60's in a fog, dealing with guilt, moving, and adjusting to my new normal. Thank God for my children, their spouses, my seven Grandchildren, and great friendships. In March I celebrated my 70th birthday and things are going great. Recently I was chatting with someone with all that and the words, "before life interrupted" popped out of my mouth. That was it completely! Life Interrupted

[@linneasimchah1621]

I'm 46 y/o and after 17 years of marriage (the last 4.5 years have been TERRIBLE), I am going thru the grieving process of accepting that this union may not ever be healthy again. I can only do what I can do. It is an unrealistic expectation to control/change my spouse. I needed this podcast. I'm very grateful for you sharing your experience and perspective.

[@michellealbrecht2222]

Dominique where were you 20 years ago? I pivoted right into darkness and I didn't come out for 20 years. You are the poster child for the successful midlife pivot. You sure deserve it. I must say also that I have seen the light and I am recovering from that darkness. I'm afraid that doesn't happen real quickly and that's 70 it's kind of scary. Well it's always scary. I first left my job of 22 years and 4 months later I left my marriage of 27 years. I lost myself a long time ago but I will not give up on that. I'm so happy to find you today.

[@Heidimhop]

Support from anyone, family, friends…is a must! I felt that I couldn’t talk to anybody because I knew that nobody would understand. Most horrible thing to go through! Was my choice and after 18 years no matter what it took, I took that leap of faith and stayed strong for my dreams. God was with me through it all the good and the bad and placed me where I was meant to be❤

[@elizabethscott3048]

Excellent podcast! Yes, focus on health; spiritual, psychological, social, physical, and mental! And remember that you can spend your time productively or not. I’ve had severe challenges, but I was determined to rise above it all. At 57 I became a graduate student by 62 I had two masters degrees, by God’s grace & a super supportive husband. I pray that every woman attending this podcast will be blessed with resources she needs for success. As Dominique says, “Be bold & be blessed”

[@michellew3932]

My voice kept telling me I needed to buy and decorate a cute little place in Italy with my husband. Luckily after a little arm twisting my husband went along with it. We are both empty nesters retiring soon and we did that whole look at each other and said who are you and now what do we do. It has been such a journey, not easy at times but extremely fulfilling. I’m pretty conservative so this was way out of my comfort zone! What you spoke to about making yourself a little uncomfortable and enjoy the journey, that really resonates with me. A little voice kept telling me, go for it!

[@julieharpa9372]

Thank you Dominique ,as a widow of 18 months ,loseing my Husband of 44 ,years im trying to find my new life ,its hard ,but take one day at a time ,i am started yoga this week for the first time ,and joined the gym which looking forward too ❤

[@harmony3395]

Condolences. You are brave to go ahead and start some new things and I hope it brings you some peace 💫

[@julieharpa9372]

​@@harmony3395Thank you so much❤️

[@carolewarrenrealtor]

Was cleaning out my closets and preparing for 2024 while listening to your podcast. It was interesting and really resonated with many aspects that occurred in my life. Thanks for your perspective and courage to be vulnerable/transparent. Agree that life happens when we simply take action and move forward - even if small steps I'm looking ahead with intent to engage with more folks, do what I enjoy most, and explore at least one new thing monthly. Appreciate you, and excited for future opportunities and making better choices to create monumental joy & fun in my life ❤.

[@Rosemm111]

This is a topic that resonates with so many women, professionally and personally. Is like going through a new rebirth. Every woman goes through that at some point in life. Peeling layers of years of believes and preconceptions. To love ourselves in a way we have to take the time to dig deep and learn who we really are and see all the successes we are capable of. Strong determined women, down on their knees. Some days are better than others. It happens one step and milestone at a time until the longing for the old hurts heal and no longer bleed. It takes times and prayer. A necessary process to make us wiser and stronger. Thank you, Dominique for your transparency, honesty and just by getting real in this matter. Anyone that has gone through this knows it is a real challenge. But in the end, WE SURVIVED.

[@sherillsullivan2348]

Dominique, You're such a lady and care so much about your audience. I get the feeling you want us to flourish with you. Such an unselfish act of kindness to help us be the best version of ourselves. Thank you! xxxs

[@carolynhamilton3316]

Great video. I was not as wise when I ended up divorced. No internet yet or utube or Google to give advice such as yours. Now I'm 79 and just trying to get by, but love the advice and so wonderful that younger women can be so knowledgeable on what to do and how to do it with all this wonderful information that's out there. You are a very wise woman. ❤

[@kimberleykirk8047]

I've been through leaving a abusive marriage that lasted 22 years so, I understand the leaving part.

[@jeffjaynecrowell8649]

While I am currently not in this situation (I made these changes in my mid 30’s, divorced, back to school single mom), your wisdom from experience helps me to be a better listener and a more compassionate friend to others. I truly believe that once we cross a life bridge, we turn around to help others make it! Many Blessings to you and thank you! You are a gift to so many!❤

[@lisaerceg9894]

Just because we transition from one stage into another does not mean we are " imploding ". It takes much reasoned, measured, and honest thought; grace towards yourself and others, perhaps forgiveness, and courage. It's called LIFE. Brava.

[@dilciayadiraberti4260]

It’s been great to hear about your experience. I’m 53 and after 23 years building a successful career, my husband and I had to leave our country and start over in the US to give our teenage son opportunities we had but he won’t . It’s been so hard and challenging to face all the new things at once, including a new language, but I truly believe that God needs us to learn and grow from this experience to be able to embrace His highest purpose. I’ll put your 7 steps in motion. It’s awesome to see how much I can really do to be better. Thank you so much 🙏🏻

[@kymh4357]

Please keep this conversation going. I'm trying to leave a 26 yr marriage. I'm 51. All the pauses have come into play and the hormonal volley ball isn't fun..i love this podcast, it really hit home and I believe there are more of us our there.

[@sunflowers6172]

Going through this now. Finding out who I am and what I want. Looking at this like an adventure.

[@kelliquincel3418]

I absolutely love you and so happy I found you 3 years ago. I have been following you and so much resonated with me. I became divorced in 2010 and felt I didn't know where I belonged anymore. In 2014 I left my home state and my 25+ year career to move to Florida where I always felt I needed to be in the second part of my life. The sale of my home, the new job and so many new welcoming friends made the transition easier. As you said, you have to have faith and know it will all work out. I wish you the best my dear.

[@CatherineHaynes-q5i]

Your words are encouraging. I would like to add, don't overthink it. I am a woman of faith as well. I didn't have time to do all of that. My workplace was toxic, my home life is toxic, I have no relationships to anchor me. All I had was God and my faith in myself. I quit with no plan, and I am moving forward with a vengeance. I am being blessed financially in places that I did not see. This happened within the 2 weeks that I said Adios. Now, I can be intentional on my next career move. Social media is an Avenue I plan on using, but in the meantime my goal is to utilize my Psychology degree and get my master's in public administration and find a job in service. I journal and keep vision boards, but in the midst of it, I trust God and myself. I can't make it if I put all my trust in this broken world. We all trying to figure it out.

[@LSChestersMom]

Thank you! I do think the finances and future planning is key. I am single, never married, no kids and no family ( grew up in abuse and had to walk away). I have a wonderful life now thanks to lots of healing, recovery from childhood trauma and I also have been on my own all my life ( with God of course) and I am thinking a lot about how to set myself up for the best future I can. I have a great business and am very focused on how to set myself up financially now and in the future. Thanks for being a wonderful role model :)

[@liana2136]

It's great to hear you are thriving in spite of a very difficult beginning! Thank you for sharing. 🌸

[@peacequeen2579]

I relate to you so much. Almost exact description but don't have my own business. I'm 60 and trying to plan for my last decades and chapter which may mean moving to Italy.

[@nattmc9347]

Your life sounds exactly like my past, family, and support system. I am so happy to see your current state and outlook on life. I am not there yet. I was very successful in my life and career before losing my parents and dealing with an extremely toxic family (siblings). Thank God that's over. I am developing a path to accel and regain my focus. I am creating the plan, path, and execution to my life and happiness. Thank you for sharing.

[@alpharogers2]

Change is inevitable. I learned to embrace change with the Lord. Thanks for the inspiring testimony. I pray that you find someone with same faith. 😊

[@debbieanderson6740]

I am 60 and decided to make some changes. Started with my diet. Concentrating on getting enough protein. Cutting out simple carbs. I sometimes do have some icecream but that is ok. Just watching my body change for the better is huge. Now I am exploring HRT. Need to regulate my sleep and help my brain fog. And also continuing my journey of learning piano. Loving that!

[@jackielee2138]

Thank you so much for this video. I am 52 and wanting to make some changes in my life, but it can be a little scary. Your videos always uplift me, knowing I'm not alone on this journey.

[@barbaramorris7696]

I always said be independent. Then it happened to me 4 children and 21 years of marriage ended just like that. It sent me into the working world from being a stay at home mom, home daycare. That working world sent me through many changes and all made me grow. Ending my career after 14 years at my last position which I started at age 59. Retirement two years ago. A single mom with a career and in a non committal relationship for 25 of those years I too took that long look at how I lost myself in that relationship. After several years of knowing I had to break it off. I could not tell you the amount of confidence I gained. That was four years ago and only now do I feel the need for someone in my life. And being two years retired and working solely on my health and fitness I am ready for a new challenge. My thoughts are to be an influencer like you Dominique only on a smaller scale. Since I am 75 I am thinking, Flourishing into the 70's. Not knowing where to start is a problem for me. Today and your future podcast could bring a pivot in my life. Thank you❤

[@nickadams1519]

Sending Love ❤️....Barbara...Are you single? ❤️🌹🌹🌹

[@peacequeen2579]

I completely changed my life. Upped my game, took the reigns at 50. Ten years later I'm the best I've ever been in any relationship and I have no plan on stopping!

[@debbie3733]

What steps did you take to achieve this?

[@nattmc9347]

How did you accomplish this ...?

[@ladyesther]

Yes, making friends in this stage of life is really hard especially for introverts and us moms to disabled children. It's very isolating. I don't mind being alone, but I do need friends. And being an introvert and shy makes it a challenge. The last friend I made was because I was referring her to my caregiver since she also had an adult child with a disability. Kind of beautiful actually.

[@eleonorarigovic7551]

I too have a 38yr old with severe schizoeffective disorder. My husband showers him brush teeth etc. He is still very loving and understands but in and out of psychosis. He suffers from catatonia as well, very difficult to get out of the house. We have 23yrs of this. Love him to death but our life is really hard. There is no we time for fun. Its in gods hands 1:00

[@MM-mc9ru]

I’m the same…an introvert with a disabled son and very few friends. It’s hard and lonely.

[@megcreates2.0]

My husband walked out in our 36yr marriage were 53 now😢. We’ve been snowbirds for the last 12yrs so I have my stuff in my house in Alaska and he has stuff in our house in TX. We literally built together. We built it no contractor’s. It’s built on land his family homestead and won’t give it up the value is 3x’s as much! First it’s 50yrs newer(AK house!) I sold my heritage land to help financially build the house so now he stripped me of my heritage 😢. So much more… I will say, I will NOt live in anger but my heart is breaking.

[@rayleneveloz296]

😔🙏🙏🙏

[@audreyso1201]

Hello Dominique, thank you for this very interesting topic. I don't have an easy life, 28 years of autism (with my son) and it's not over but I always stay positive and try to keep fighting for him, I give myself moments to me, it brings me a balance and above all I want my mind to be at the top in the middle of my life. Thank you for this video🧡💛💚❤🌺🌻🌼

[@gegeschannel8836]

My sister has a 23 year old severely autistic son. She is my hero. She is not only an advocate for her son but a great mother and wife. I understand what you are going thru and really suggest you get a support group if you have not. ❤

[@audreyso1201]

@@gegeschannel8836 💛💛💛

[@whiskersBOOSTER2]

Autism mom here, too, my son is 26. Sending love and light your way.❤️

[@audreyso1201]

@@whiskersBOOSTER2 I too send you a lot of love and energy and good luck with your son❤❤🧡🧡💛💛

[@tonyahigginbotham4367]

I'm 54 years old, divorced since 2012 after twenty years of marriage and I have one son who is 33 years old. I'm in the process of reinventing my life as well. For 32 years, I've been in the media as Account Executive and have been blessed with a very lucrative income. It's a hard decision to make a change but at the same time very exciting. I have met a man who is my soulmate and who I love dearly. My choices are based on my happiness and not based on superficial reasons. I truly admire you and have followed you for years. Oh, by the way, my friend and former colleague, Lisa Fischer Gibson, interviewed you a while back on her podcast. You are truly an inspiration for so many women who are flourishing in their 50's❤. Thank you for all you do.

[@thomasanders1314]

I had my breaking point at the beginning of this year. I got fired without giving me any notice, after 13 years of serving for the company and you know what? It was one of the best moments in my life!:) Now, maybe I'm still sorting things out, but this whole process was like a giant relieve. I'm very happy, where I am now.

[@simplyouniquev4450]

I can so relate with this…mine was after a 20 yr marriage back in 2014. I was able to reinvent & bounce back by 2016 all while in the beginning stages of menopause with purchase of my home solo & a mom of 2 almost adult children. Then I lost my mom & a company closure in 2019…then the pandemic hit & a career I’ve had for 14+ years has been very difficult to obtain a full time job in. At 55 years young, I am at the point where I need to pivot in all areas of my lifestyle fe now that I am an empty nester. Thank you for this video.

[@christinemack2153]

Positive self talk and not being too proud to lean into family and friends is powerful. You're so strong to make these changes that weren't serving you and so resilient, Dominique!! xo

[@madham7684]

I know using filters makes us look better, but when it comes to authenticity, I love the ladies that practice what they preach. Now, I’m not saying you do, just saying that showing our age is a badge of honor and respected.

[@LB12306]

Totally agree, Bethenny Frankel said it best - “It’s desperate, it’s destructive, and it’s rampant". As for KZbinrs who shill skin care products and extol how fantastic they are all while using filters they obviously have no moral compass whatsoever.

[@samc5877]

I don't believe Dominique does use filters - you'd be surprised what good lighting can do. I actually think she's a great example of growing old, and looking great. She's told us what she's had done, and it's not for everyone, but it is for some. I have Botox and have had fillers, though you wouldn't necessarily know, and I feel much better about myself for it

[@Jesusaves911]

This has been a hard year for me. Divorce, moved across the country, new job, first year as an empty nester and i just turned 50 😳 It's surreal what a person can do when facing a crossroads. I am worth more so I moved on. Looking forward to the mystery that is my life. God is my best friend, the perfect father and husband. He has good things planned and I'm here for it! Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

[@maggieborek8499]

I am going through the exact same thing right now. It is hard, and it is painful. Not sure when the positive will start happening in my life. Its been 2 years already. I feel like I've aged 10 years in the past couple years. Praying that something good will happen soon 🙏

[@luvinmaks]

Yes! It ages you for sure.

[@claudial.gonzalez4268]

I truly want to believe that God doesn’t drop me ………our Heart has its reasons……but we have to learn to listen , through silence and through tears among other things!! Love and embracing ourselves and to be able to love important people in our lives and also to walk away from toxic ones! Thank you Dominique!! ❤❤❤

[@JulieNick28]

I’m a few weeks late and I’m in the place of struggle. Fought breast cancer, left my marriage, got a promotion…life was starting to go great. A year later I got laid off. I’m still getting severance but it’s a struggle out there to even get an interview and I’m scared. I don’t have anything to fall back on. So I’m trying to stay positive and rise above this. Just praying the right opportunity opens up before October :). ❤

[@helenwalker716]

🙏🙏

[@billiehayworth4280]

Praying for you. God cares!!! Talk to Him!!

[@SanctifiedLady]

Wow! This is a lot! I am an Empath and your situation was very painful 😢 I hope your getting to a better place! I love you! You are my mentor. I enjoy looking for you on KZbin

[@A040815]

50-60 s are the happiest time in my life. Already being accomplished professionally, seeing your growing children succeeding, having grandchildren,able to prioritize the important, taking care of each other and supporting in mutual relationship with your spouse… and planning the retirement… truly golden years

[@samc5877]

Great conversation as always Dominique. So true in so many ways. My life took a turn last year when I was diagnosed with stage 4 metastatic breast cancer, aged 45. I went through a period of extremely traumatic illness, then had terrible depression and anxiety because of it. Like you, I'm a positive person, so these feelings were so alien to me, and it took a LOT to get myself through those days. Obviously, I still have the illness hanging over me, but I live life as fully as I can, remembering that every day is a gift - something we should all do, but we so easily take things for granted. Be bold and truly live your life, as you get one time round ❤

[@AvonleaMontague]

32-year-old baby here. Thank you for this video!

[@Michelle-nm7ci]

Your history inspired me, I’m almost 47, I went back to school and finished a bachelor degree in nursing, I’m currently un happy married, and planning to get a divorce, I’m working as a RN here but I’m studying to pass the exam to get the register license from USA and to be able to move to USA with my daughter who started college this year, I feel like I’m getting crazy some times.

[@francesmcnicholas1117]

Great podcast. I’m 60 will be 61 in three weeks. Sixty was great the bad part this year I lost my brother. That loss got me thinking I was working in a job that wasn’t serving me. I loved the company I worked for great people treated me very good but I needed a change so I retired early at 60.5 years old. Now I need something for me the good think I planed well with my finances. I can not believe I did it. I purchased my new car for a new start. Need something for me in a second act that brings me joy. Keep us the good work love your videos.

[@laurievanzon2126]

I lost my brother also when I turned 60. A month later I was let go from a stressful job. Luckily, I too planned for the future and was able to retire. It took a while, but I'm trying new things, joined the Gym, and went on a bus trip to Memphis. I am saying yes when people ask me to go places and I feel blessed. Good luck with your future!

[@neanea1173]

I lost my brother in April. I'm 58, he was 53. I never imagined it would be so difficult.. but I guess I never thought about losing my little brother. ;(

[@peacebewithyou6048]

I was first drawn to you (your channel) because of your "personal" life with your job, your husband, your mom, your day-to-day trials and tribulations. It was almost like a soap opera . . but a very glamorous "soap opera!" Your personal "stuff" was the big hook for me, regardless of the glamor. I'm still drawn to that personal content. I think you're a very smart, beautiful woman with an exciting life. I'm hoping you continue that exciting lifestyle. It's analogous to a TV show. It makes me want to watch your show every day. I guess what I'm trying to convey to you is that I'm drawn into your "life," with all the good--the bad--and everything in between. So . . . I'm championing the plan that showcases your personal life . . . wherever that takes you.

[@pamelastgeorge4304]

Sharing what you’ve learned with KZbin is a amazing gift

[@annmarie6732]

Thank you Dominique. 'Messy' happened to me in 2021 at 53. The last 2 years have been tough but also incredible! I feel empowered, I have gained wisdom, I understand the word 'compassion' more, I understood what 'self-care' meant. I have studied Reiki, rekindled old friendships, became healthier and fitter. I am upskilling my creative knitting with a view to launching myself on utube.. I would love if you would do a video on this online platform ❤

[@chicanica64]

So sorry you went through this painful situation. You inspired me to look at my relationship and start a conversation going. Thank you. You inspire us all and I am thankful the KZbin algorhythm suggested you 3 years ago. ❤❤

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Me too!

[@sharonbroughton7969]

You are amazing Dominique.. your communi skills are wonderful .. how you can explain things so clearly & logically !! I love you and how you inspire women all over the world xx

[@kymmorello6459]

Your open heart and your generosity in sharing is a welcome gift to all of us in midlife. Thank you.

[@pamelaarcher6122]

You have been the best guest you’ve had on your podcast yet!!!

[@carolidzerda7177]

Dominique, you are such an amazing Lady and I admire your honesty and transparency, thank you. I have been pondering on some changes and have learnt a great deal from this Podcast. Thank you for being such an inspiration to so many, with wisdom and authenticity. May God continue to speak to your heart and guide you in all that you do. Much love ❤

[@beachbum285]

Thank you thank you thank you for being here and sharing your knowledge and wisdom with us!! Love to you and yours! ❤

[@mayracalderon5598]

Thank you!!! You nailed it. I don't need it, I want it. You are such an inspiration to me and so many women! Many blessings to you, Dominique! ❤

[@funnycatsandfriends9268]

Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. I have learned so much since I started watching you on KZbin. I’m so happy that this pivot is working out for you. I have recently been displaced from my job. I’m forced to pívot during midlife but grateful that I’m in a good place emotionally, mentally and physically. I’m expecting something even better to come! Time to have faith, dream big and believe it will all work out for my hood and that of my family 🙌🏼

[@carolvillanueva488]

You’re AWESOME, Ms. Dominique!🥰🙏❤️

[@MarilynDean-i5b]

What a informative Pod Cast today. I am on good shift now. My interest have changed and it is making me a better person. God, yes! All things are possible through christ who strengthens us. I have found journaling 20 years ago and looking back and reading it now, started out negative which is more positive now. God brought me through it. I am because of Gods love. ❤️

[@antoniawood1854]

Too right, always finding a way to have some or complete financial independence is important. Theres always a rainy day!!! We need to do our best to be prepared for what "come what may's" into our lives!

[@morganryan1319]

Dominique, you're amazing. I think it's incredible that you've brought this professional quality to KZbin. I watched you from the beginning, but have recently rediscovered you. I love hearing you speak on your new podcasts--what you have to say and the grace and eloquence in how you say it. What an excellent way to pivot from your news career.

[@karenscookingkorner]

Man, this episode resonates SO much with me right now!!!! Thank you so much ❤❤❤

[@marilynrybak9154]

Once I learned I needed to set boundaries and learned how to set those boundaries and stick to the boundaries, things in life got much better.

[@VEE-rd7cu]

Thank you for bringing such a personal touch to your videos. You have helped me with my makeup. I loved you and Mom's relationship & like you, I thought Me & Mom would enjoy the last years together. She was supposed to be a centenarian. She passed in 2019 & I have just really come out of a depression of sadness & loneliness. When, I read this I screech but Truth is not for the weak of mind. Keep Rockin'!

[@maryjoseph7086]

One of the most inspiring and honest podcasts I have ever heard. Had to hear it over several days but totally worth it. Thank you Dominique and her awesome team

[@JeanetteFigaro-Barr]

“And you wear it well”. I never thought I cared much for blogs. I really enjoy yours. TY.

[@juliadavid3637]

Another great informative video, thank you Dominique 😊 I love that this video is just you on camera, you're so easy to watch and listen to ❤️

[@brendameeks285]

I love your videos Dominique, so uplifting and so helpful for even 72 year old women 🙏♥️🤗🌹♥️♥️♥️

[@minoerahyder1229]

Thank you so much and looking forward to much more😊 I am always delighted to listen to you being a woman of God too A muslim South African fan ❤

[@annecox1161]

Glad you are doing better Dominique

[@eileenmyhre1818]

I lost my husband at 59, then my son two years later, my daughter has been dealing with cancer, I had a heart attack as well. So thank you for sharing. I feel your pain.

[@amaliyaamstislavskaya6547]

Thank you Dominique for this podcast. I am 50 and going through the tough period of my life. This podcast is a big support for me right now

[@chrisk4053]

May I also add that not every woman experiences a bad menopause. I didn’t have any issues and I am thankful. I just want to put it out there. I didn’t have insomnia, mood changes, weight gain , hot flashes etc. Not sure why? But anyway- love the podcast.

[@liana2136]

Thanks for sharing your experience. For me, perimenopause was hard, but after that I was fine.

[@sheraria]

I had a hysterectomy at 40 and am now 58. I had a very easy time as well. I may have some insomnia but I'm retired so it doesn't matter if I sleep nights or not lol

[@marlenekerrmarlene1259]

50s is sooooo young , yes as we get a lot older it is scary knowing time is going so fast

[@adacrespin3005]

Yeah you don’t really even start to age till your late 50s.I would like to see her come on about 10 years from now and show how she feels and looks

[@glendayelverton1676]

Thank you for your podcast today, for sharing and for your openness about the last 2-1/2 yrs.🙏❤️

[@RoseannaSassoSchottenfeld]

WOW was this conversation very near & dear to my heart. I started a KZbin channel for the mature woman, about 3+ years ago when I was going to be an empty nester. Now I know I can be a business woman and create something of my own. I just don’t know the business background of KZbin. How to make money? How to ask/read a contract? What contract is legitimate? How to become an entrepreneur with my KZbin channel? I’d love to hear a podcast about that! Thanks so much!

[@jennylane2498]

So cool to see you find your footing and truly be in your element 😊

[@rosemaryhernandez7949]

This was such a wonderful podcast, it was full of wisdom and very knowledgeable information. It’s always such a pleasure listening to your honesty, you are truly a beautiful human being. 😘🌹👏

[@ninajohnson6578]

So glad you will be addressing finances for women in mid life and beyond. Critical!

[@reneebertram2365]

OMG, Your story is a lot like mine. I am a stronger and better for going through the diversities. I love myself more now. My very good friend di ally left a terrible marriage after 42 years. She is REALLY reinventing herself! I have a ton of wisdom to share with her. I am sharing your channel with her too!

[@ljroberts3739]

Hello there, Super Dominique 😊 I'm slightly older.... But after a very chaotic life, it's the small things that I seek for balance. I adore my dog, rescue cats and horse. They keep me grounded and at peace. And a sense of peace is vitally important after a crisis in 2018 that almost ended my life. I'm striving for work: school: art balance. Above all, I'm keenly aware of my mental state by sleeping well. You mentioned a Women's Health Retreat... Where may I find that? Thank YOU SO MUCH for taking on all of these subjects. Kind good regards & continued success 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@laurel2dream837]

Dominique, thank you so much for doing the podcast! I admire you and I’m praying for you. I went through a divorce five years ago and gone through health challenges with three of my four sons. I am happy to hear that you are going to drive deep into the financial discussion! Blessings💞

[@karenscookingkorner]

Yes! More financial education episodes!! Please 😊😊

[@melindabiddy7165]

I am in middle of this. Trying to reinvent myself as well.

[@NaefP.M]

You are amazing! I love your positive spirit! ❤❤

[@Karrycraus]

Thank you Dominique you are such an inspiration. You really had so much at one time but you handled yourself with such grace and class. I really enjoy spending time with you watching KZbin and now the Pod Cast! Thank you for you honesty and openness that can't be easy. Best wishes and blessings.

[@monagould1829]

You are such an incredible mentor!!! Thank you for all you bring to your viewers

[@daylasimeone336]

Havent even started watching yet but i am having some hard mid-life feelings. Turning 50 this week, youngest child just graduated, been unfulfilled in my job (over 25 years there). I need a pep talk lol

[@louisest-pierre9748]

Thank you for your words, work and inspiration ❤😊

[@carolynruiz3656]

As an octogenarian and having pivoted many times in my life. Like you have just moved into an apartment complex and love it. Would be fun to share my story and perspective with you. You only confirm what I have positively experienced.

[@welcomwelcom9882]

I love and look forward to your wonderful Monday podcasts Interesting educational and inspiring Thank u Dominique

[@vickidland]

I would love to see you do a podcast on midlife long term marriages. We’ve been married 44 yrs now raised 3 children and now have grandchildren and great grandchildren. It would be interesting to know happy midlife and up marriage secrets.

[@sheraria]

We are going on 40years this year. High-school sweethearts. We raised 2 daughters and have 6 grandchildren. We are both 58. I was blessed to retire 5 years ago at 53. My husband retired in Feb at 58. We had our kids young and then saved, saved, saved while I worked. Now we are traveling. I think laughter and being able to laugh at and with each other is so important. Communication is key as well. Don't sweat the small things. I know we are so so blessed!!! We try to tell ourself and each other that every day. There have been ups and downs in our marriage just like everyone but you grab onto each other and hang on. Life is short and the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. LIVE, LOVE, AND LAUGH❤

[@vickidland]

@@sheraria Loved you reply! I am 67 and the love of my life My Hubby is 68. We feel the very same. Keeping a good sense of humor and laughing is so very important to us. Seems like we have been on the same path as you. We worked hard, raised our children in a church faith filled environment and Saved, Saved, Saved since our 30's. We were blessed enough to be able to comfortably retire at 65 yrs of age. You are correct there have been a few ups and downs in our lives but we clung to each other and never let go. Don't sweat the SMALL STUFF and don't be selfish as well. To many people these days feel their happiness is really all that matters. We believe in making each other happy which in turn makes us happy ourselves. As you and Erma Bombeck said "The Grass is not Greener on the other side" We are blessed to LIVE, LOVE AND LAUGH till death do us part❤

[@sheraria]

@@vickidland ❤️ blessings to you guys! I agree with not being selfish. Try to make each other happy. It comes back to you. God is good!!

[@Chichilovee]

No offense, but DS hardly seems like the right choice for that topic....

[@vickidland]

@@Chichilovee I take no offense at all but I do think it would be an interesting Podcast for women who have been in a longtime marriage to share their hints etc. Dominique has a wonderful platform for all discussions.

[@TrueStature]

I cannot say how timely and relevant this topic is for me. I am 52 and undergoing major life changes and it’s been a process of growth and a process of getting real and being honest, it’s also been a process of realizing that my life is not a Hallmark movie and I no longer get to be vague or live on the surface. I’m so grateful for this video, Dominique. You have a Gift that you offer to women everywhere. Thank you

[@joannmclean6531]

I am SO HAPPY about the timing of this show. I NEED TO HEAR IT! I will be following your guidelines. Your so well spoken and easy to listen to. Many many thanks for sharing. xo

[@diannehathorn1370]

Midlife crazy is happening to me but I'm still making it.

[@toniabennett7148]

Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable..love that you declare your faith as well..Gods best is for you❤

[@maple8576]

You are the best I’ve followed, thanks for sharing things happened in your life and your advices. Wish you the best

[@tadeuszoltarzewski]

Thank you for being so honest about your life change. It takes real courage. Sending respect and ❤from Rosie O from Devon England 👏🇬🇧🤗x

[@sandraammons6672]

Good luck and you have come a long way. All of this is impossible to do when you don’t have any money. Do do have to have some money. Great job. Love your videos.

[@JVSwailesBoudicca]

Just what I need at the moment.......!! Thank you for this video, I am pinning my hope on you 😉

[@sharronchurch6740]

I listen to all my videos in double speed.

[@JVSwailesBoudicca]

@@sharronchurch6740 Ooh 😲I had never thought of doing so !

[@lmccauley7319]

Life is short if you aren't happy and are able to make the change do it, many women don't have the financial resources to change their life or leave a spouse if they want. It's good you had a good career and could do it. Your hair looks pretty I like it it looks a little longer. You look really pretty.

[@conniegable9657]

Excellent, excellent podcast, Dominique ‼️ Thank you for your openness and honesty. (Spoken from a 70 year old, blonde, still in shape (mostly 😂) hiker, walker and yogi). I’ve been thru much the same the last 42 years including the death of a newborn, motherhood of two others, left a 17 yr marriage in midlife, returned to graduate school as a single mom in midlife, dating, remarriage, moved to a new city at age 50, now back to my home town and wonderful grandmotherhood - and lots more in between. Thanks for saying that we can accept the saggy skin - (it’s actually AOK with me), and that it’s NOT what you see in the mirror. Thank you for advertising and encouraging personal therapy, and being open about healing issues from your past with your father. And yes, GOD HAS GOT US ALL‼️