We as a society need to really consider birth control options and push for economic stability before children. It’s also very important to build families.
@carltoncoleman4542 жыл бұрын
Either that or not have children. Going child-free has become more popular and preferable these days. Many have kids without thinking about financial, emotional, and physical sacrifices.
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
Well said!!! Some people are extremely reckless when it comes to this, so guess who really suffer in the end...😔
@agadonk2 жыл бұрын
And mental/ emotional stability too. Heal before you deal
@jn12112 жыл бұрын
this exact notion got me raped and tortured 30+ years ago in foster care because I was too savage to be raised with my own people.
@jasminasinanbegovic62252 жыл бұрын
Why not consider practicing abstinence instead of being in somewhat relationships where one will be used and abused in every way, emotionally and sexually and abandoned or installed into so called wives and husbands without marriages
@sinailemor4672 жыл бұрын
His audience claps for ANYTHING!!!!!!
@Mf_booma2 жыл бұрын
Just like any other bum ass talk show 🤦🏾♂️
@goddessk46102 жыл бұрын
Lmao right
@BananaaThoughts2 жыл бұрын
That’s typically what many audiences do lol
@Hellomfkittyy2 жыл бұрын
YES😂
@Kre-pq5lp2 жыл бұрын
🥴🤣😂
@JaguarPride32 жыл бұрын
Never let a man tell you TWICE he don't want you
@user-Tina84622 жыл бұрын
Amen, and don't beg him to stay!!
@arnetrahughes22772 жыл бұрын
He made it VERY clear.
@ortaegahenry88482 жыл бұрын
In my Judge Vic…..Lynn 😂😂😂
@blessedgirl14282 жыл бұрын
100% run million miles away from him.👋👋👋👋👋
@angelaonly79832 жыл бұрын
YES
@genaystevens5842 Жыл бұрын
His name is Ray Ray, enough said. Now we just need Pookie. 😂😂😂😂😂
@lifewithyana2924 Жыл бұрын
LMAOOOOO
@Adrienne-wv7qo Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I literally said that myself. 😂 And the girl is pookisha!
@MariaRose_8810 ай бұрын
And Them! Lol 🤣
@NashvilleBraids2 жыл бұрын
He literally told Karamo he settled down because he felt it was time for him to do so. Not because he felt like he loved her. This is why women are deciding to be single.
@acd1168 Жыл бұрын
Future said the same thing about Ciara and then they broke up.
@cynthiaficklin8311 Жыл бұрын
This is very well the reason why a LOT of these women AND kids come up d** because of situations like This. Having babies because " this is what I want" Ok then.
@ZechariYahweahschild Жыл бұрын
Right!Dudes play too much
@carolharris5455 Жыл бұрын
She deliberately connected herself to him thinking a child would keep him. I bet she’s done it before and needs to accept the fact it NEVER works
@momonie4 Жыл бұрын
She had 2 kids prior so yeah she knows, but obviously care.
@alexciad3741 Жыл бұрын
well men are the only ones who can control where their sperm goes 🤷🏾♀️ if he knew he wasn’t ready wrap it up
@1LovedbyHim2 жыл бұрын
I honestly have to say I’m so thankful that, for the most part, my life is drama free! I couldn’t take the level of stress that I see people endure on this show.
@loishanamckenzie3307 Жыл бұрын
Facts. Like when I watch Steve wilkos during his episodes he asks are you in the same situation and need help? No sir, I DO NOT 😂😂
@ElaurieJean2 жыл бұрын
I’d rather drag my pum on the street, on a hot summer day with gravel, than to beg a man to stay with me and stop cheating on me. Y’all be easy out there. 🥴
@glowingheart1422 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@aic08092 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😭😭
@crystalc8202 жыл бұрын
U CAN SAY THAT AGAIN 💯💯💯💯🤣🙌🏾
@SuthernGyrl992 жыл бұрын
That part!!!
@kadynjackson74882 жыл бұрын
Uhh ma’am 🫢🤭😂😂😂😂
@MsDrobertson522 Жыл бұрын
These women are delusional..if he told you he did not want a child then protect yourself from getting pregnant!
@sereneaudrey63236 ай бұрын
It's a two way street stop blaming everything on women. That's why men don't ever have to take responsibility bc of comments like this.
@misslady9286 Жыл бұрын
As a North Carolinan, all I can say is...bless their hearts! ❤
@siasimone62022 жыл бұрын
Heal yourself girl!! Don’t worry about a relationship. A man doesn’t define you. But you can’t love someone if you don’t love yourself!!
@jessicamichelle10252 жыл бұрын
She is so pretty, just gorgeous! 🤩🤩
@peacelily77512 жыл бұрын
He needs to face the truth. He cheated and abandoned her when she had just had a baby. She needs to leave him. Be strong.
@roslynhawkins14752 жыл бұрын
@@bfields112 I love it-cheatahs! Lol. Why do people, mostly women, have issues with holding other women responsible for the choices they make? I'm a woman and I know that I allow myself to be impregnated by a man who's been cheating on me since day 1 and I already have 2 others kids whose daddies aren't around, the only person who's the common denominator is me.
@lillies2011 Жыл бұрын
Nah she trapped him with a baby for sure. She knew he didn’t want to commit so got pregnant to keep him. That’s terrible
@tashiaredd3421 Жыл бұрын
He was already leaving and that’s when she decided to tell him she was pregnant m. She knew he wanted to leave and then gonna say “you can’t leave cause I’m pregnant!” WHAT?! He told her he was done and then she expected him to stay with her cause she was pregnant. Sis a baby will NEVER make a man stay! And I’m sure she knew this from previous baby daddies
@sereneaudrey63236 ай бұрын
@@lillies2011you can't trap nobody with a baby when it takes a man to plant his seed in you cut this narrative out.
@nailedbyjaay2 жыл бұрын
Their Speech Is OUT OF THIS WORLD 😂😂😂😂😂💀
@kilowlow8691 Жыл бұрын
Seriously…I’m like why do they sound like slaves 🥴! I admits my wrong 🥴
@nailedbyjaay Жыл бұрын
@@kilowlow8691 They Sound Slow 😂😂😂
@Suzy-Pie Жыл бұрын
I said the same thing. It's borderline unbearable. 😩💀 It's ridiculous. Being from the south doesn't make you ignorant and inarticulate. It only means you have a southern drawl. These two are slow. I mean, snails pace SLOW!!! 🐌
@dpeachy6790 Жыл бұрын
He’s just from the south they are very country my manager talks like that and he’s from South Carolina professional but he’s just country talking
@Adrienne-wv7qo Жыл бұрын
*Consequenceses* was literally how she said this word! 😂
@DaniCreatesArt22 жыл бұрын
Girl….biirthcontroolll! After he did wrong the first time don’t break windows, tell him to kick rocks. Why keep him? If you going to keep him. Forgive him or be ok with sharing him.
@wildfiregirl1556 Жыл бұрын
Facts Lmaooooo.
@trishconners3933 Жыл бұрын
This audience is worst than Paternity Court with the clapping 😂😂
@melreal7881 Жыл бұрын
😅😅
@JescaNabulya-h2o Жыл бұрын
😅😅
@foreverunbothered19512 жыл бұрын
He was honest about not being ready. She perused it anyway and acting like she surprised he’s not there. Girl stop it. Let him sign over his damn parental rights, learn to love you, find your something to do, eat fruit, and be happy.
@adreanmims28912 жыл бұрын
Facts
@kkw-pal11782 жыл бұрын
I missed where he said he wanted to sign over his parental rights.
@thegirldaina2 жыл бұрын
Fr!!!! He kept it real with her but she thought she could change him n that wasn’t the case😕
@roslynhawkins14752 жыл бұрын
@@thegirldaina Which is probably the same thing she tried to do with her other two kids. People need to understand that they are responsible for getting themselves together before they start willy nilly bringing new human beings into the world.
@foreverunbothered19512 жыл бұрын
@@adreanmims2891 he didn’t ever say it. I think for a complete buffoon that would be best.
@Renee302976 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely love the melanin in their skin, simply beautiful 🤩 😊 Black love 🙌🏽
@jasminebolden668 Жыл бұрын
Omg i said the same thing just beautiful for both ❤️
@U9us2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like he was honest. He wanted to live his life. He wasn’t ready for a family. Probably wouldn’t have stayed with her if she wasn’t pregnant. Not giving him an excuse for being irresponsible, just saying i see where his head was at. She was probably picking up wrong signals or blinded by love. Now they’re both trying to make it work but he’s still not ready.
@qutea6817 Жыл бұрын
My name is Quenisha…and it’s so funny to hear them say it like mine over and over🤧love this show😵💫
@peacelily77512 жыл бұрын
Women are very strong. You can put on your big girl pants, lift your head high and step forward with your children. A relationship is not that important at this point. Love yourself and children first.
@stephaniecarter52812 жыл бұрын
He said he wasn't ready for any kids he was already taking care of two of her kids now she could say you lay down with me that both should have been using birth control
@Bri-Zee912 жыл бұрын
I love how Karamo checked the audience clapping for the crowbar. Not cute! Especially while high risk pregnancy!
@deranaeee2 жыл бұрын
Idc what nobody say yes he needs to step up his father skills & should’ve been there for her pregnancy but I don’t feel bad for her.. you knew what it was in the beginning idk why y’all believe men when y’all think they’re gonna leave other females for y’all you’re gonna get done the same way. You knew he was seeing people when y’all met & he never stopped.
@lashaundahammonds29032 жыл бұрын
Look u take up for her when she was out there cheating to and Ik tha for a fact
@annmariepardo69892 жыл бұрын
First- Young woman, you got two children, get your life together, instead of having a third child for a man, definitely saying he is not ready to have child Secondly- This man is saying, definitely, he is not financially ready Third- woman/Men: listen to what each other is saying by listening Listen, what the person is saying, it's very, very, very, important, by listening, you will achieve more and loose less.
@wildfiregirl1556 Жыл бұрын
Facts.
@gabewilliams98622 жыл бұрын
Karamo preached a sermon at the end. Great advice.
@toniimead39222 жыл бұрын
Im sorry but she irritated me. I hate women who be like well you should've been having sex with me. No hun you should've told a man to wrap it up or get in birth control. Then decided to have a baby with a man who clearly said he not ready & I bet she one of those women who be like I dont wanna be controlled. My bf is like that.
@ChosenRellll11112 жыл бұрын
Let me find out Yo audience ghetto Karomo😅😂clapping for the crowbars lol I think they bout tht life lol 😆
@lorrainea.2852 жыл бұрын
VERY GHETTO!!!🤦♀️🤦♀️They don’t even know BASIC KINDERGARTEN GRAMMAR. “I talk-ted to myself”, you knew the consequences-ses”🤦♀️ As an MD PhD this just killed some of my brain cells😭 WHYYYY is this in my recommendations😫
@cherylratliff417 Жыл бұрын
Hi Karamo , I love you ! You have so much empathy for people, the things you say on your show is very encouraging . Thank you ! ❤❤😊😊
@vanessacort23702 жыл бұрын
Great advice Karamo...the hard facts!!
@mauricesnell58862 жыл бұрын
In order for Rae Rae and Quanesha to survive as a couple, they need to have more trust with each other. When the mother of your children is pregnant with her upcoming child, you should accept, NEVER reject her pregnancy. And as for her, breaking windows of his family's house is not the answer to getting your point across. Communication is the necessity to keep a relationship going.
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but it's obvious this isn't her first rodeo, seems she needs to focus more on self, so she can be the best for herself and her children... I wish her WELL!!!🤗
@evanmorrison32322 жыл бұрын
She can force him to be a father but no man can't force a woman to be a mother? Seems reasonable.
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
@@evanmorrison3232 Reasonable or not it's most definitely a FACT, therefore men should always mind their P's & Q's when it comes to this...🤷🏽♀️
@evanmorrison32322 жыл бұрын
@@modest8782 nah its not even close to a "FACT" for reasonable people that have a brain. There are legal ways to progress. I'm giving up custody if she is forcing it on me. It's stupid antiquated and hypocritical for people to think like that and that is actually a FACT.
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
@@evanmorrison3232 ok!
@longbranch112072 жыл бұрын
Such a gorgeous lady she deserves better
@roslynhawkins14752 жыл бұрын
Why? She's just as wild and trifling as he is. People don't deserve anymore than they can give.
@longbranch112072 жыл бұрын
How so? Please explain
@roslynhawkins14752 жыл бұрын
@@longbranch11207 Let's see. Three kids with no fathers in their lives, damaging other's property with is criminal and also cheating like him.
@toyalee37212 жыл бұрын
She needs healing from her past and he needs healing also
@vickisudler2 жыл бұрын
This B.S. will continue to happen because of low self love on both parts..
@Myshelleallen2 жыл бұрын
He’s so sweet and honest
@gailwhite8361 Жыл бұрын
Love 💝 your dancing son!! James Brown is from my era and he was clearly the God father of soul.
@Bellydaughter2 жыл бұрын
she loud asl and she definitely trapped him.
@cookiegirl8912 жыл бұрын
People really act like cheating is nothing 😅
@user-bv7cy6pv9v2 жыл бұрын
It’s weird you know
@connivingcancer2 жыл бұрын
yea because everybody normalizing it now and it's weird asf smh
@babieatiti72592 жыл бұрын
The problem is,the people cheating do until they get cheated on.
@cookiegirl8912 жыл бұрын
@@babieatiti7259 this
@cookiegirl8912 жыл бұрын
@@user-bv7cy6pv9v right like he really be saying it like it’s not a whole person with feelings that he’s dealing with
@blkfrnchtpzzz Жыл бұрын
Unrelated to the topic of the video, but 2:17 that parade video one of my fav videos "uh oh panda you better go head panda!" 😭😭😭
@justIvy982 жыл бұрын
Chileeee they’ll do anything to not work an actual job.. perpetuating a dancing job to just get girls that they don’t want and can’t provide for… you can tell he was lying while the audience just clapping 🤦🏾♀️
@blulicious22 жыл бұрын
Right! Talking about "I gotta choose between you and my career." What career? Nigga you shaking your feet and shoulders on social media...ain't making no money in that 😂
@stormyreign09242 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@cashd46282 жыл бұрын
He told her no to a kid she forced him
@rustyhornzinstrumentalist-75962 жыл бұрын
Not "You New The Consequencesces" - 🤦🏾
@lifewithlay76872 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@jayar7436 Жыл бұрын
That man told her countless times he didn’t want to be with her. Why is she surprised? The guy was calm and cool. She was doing the most.
@TheGrilledCheeseDude2 жыл бұрын
We won’t forget the pink sauce.
@cynthiafrench44112 жыл бұрын
What's with the pink sauce?
@OGTropicc Жыл бұрын
shes so pretty tho! she has the prettiest skin ive ever seen !
@amonioda7 ай бұрын
You can do it mama!! 💕 gosh she’s so beautiful
@goddesss27542 жыл бұрын
She has two babies already I don’t understand why she would want a third one in a fucked up situation .
@GhosthustlerNAS2 жыл бұрын
I was not expecting the move from her😂😂😂😂
@yusra1902 жыл бұрын
Hehe me either
@mrssamuel01 Жыл бұрын
These men keep saying saying they not ready for a child. So stop going in these women raw. Wear protection and require them to use some form of birth control or you not touching them. Pregancy can be prevented
@lunacy38 ай бұрын
I just feel sad for the kids for having parents like this
@aprieamour6520 Жыл бұрын
He told her he didn’t want a child and way he wasn’t ready so why you mad he acting up? She had that baby to hold on to him 😢 and it still didn’t work out smh 🤦♀️
@roxyj31822 жыл бұрын
Calling a grown ass man Ray Ray chyyy please
@LuckyyLEVEN10 ай бұрын
Nobody takes time to heal and get their lives together they just move on and keep having kids with ppl . Their relationship was not ready for a baby at all especially what was already going on before during and after . That’s why the relationships don’t work .
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
Stay away from the pookies an ray rays 🤣
@heathab...._-_2 жыл бұрын
Consequenceses 🤣 girl it's just Consequences wth 🤦🏽♀️
@lucyhernandez38222 жыл бұрын
He don’t want u he told u this multiple times
@brianna10022 жыл бұрын
It’s just crazy to me how he bypass all the cheating he was doing like it’s nothing like of course she gone buss some shii down bc you playing in her face
@YoungTrash-ro1ip2 жыл бұрын
BMORRE IN THE 🏠 😂😂😂
@ItsYoGirlCookie2 жыл бұрын
If he don’t want you let him go and focus on loving yourself First
@glowingheart1422 жыл бұрын
Did we run out of condoms⁉️
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU!!! If they're not suitable, there's other options...👍🏽
@jamesgibson37162 жыл бұрын
insurmountable immaturity...
@crystalc8202 жыл бұрын
Oh u talking about 87% of Americans!? 🤣
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
@@crystalc820 Yeah but some utilize family planning...😊
@Morrisneuro832 жыл бұрын
She is gorgeous
@Myshelleallen2 жыл бұрын
Bustin windows out the house? Come it’s not worth you riskin your life and your kids life you will go to jail. Trust me! If a man makes you act out of character let it go . It’s toxic.
@blessedgirl14282 жыл бұрын
Birth control ladies heeeeeelooooooo👏👏👏
@cashd46282 жыл бұрын
If I tell you I’m not hungry . Don’t get mad I didn’t eat your cooking 😂
@Suzy-Pie Жыл бұрын
Omg! I'm so tired of hearing people speak soooooo poorly. Ugh! 😩 I feel like the longer I listen the dumber I get. 7:12 "He knew the consequencesess." 😳 That was the absolute worst. I screamed and covered my ears!🤢🤮
@montanared626811 ай бұрын
Not the audience clapping when she said she went to the girl house wit a crowbar but if it was a man he wouldve got booed so bad 😂
@emanueldavis1627 Жыл бұрын
She thought that baby was gonna keep a man that had 3 women when they met..... yall need to start teaching these young girls to require protection.
@DawneMega Жыл бұрын
She’s so pretty
@keishajay99822 жыл бұрын
why did you need to learn the third time hun. He said he met you with 2 kids , he wasnt ready for nothing like a family.
@desteepooful2 жыл бұрын
Why MAKE a man be a father that doesn't want to....your mad he's elsewhere when you are the only one making the decision to keep a baby. She definitely chose to be a single mom..
@stephaniecarter52812 жыл бұрын
And her breaking windows and all of that if she would have did a little jail time . Because she's hyped just by sitting on the stage she's breathing hard I believe she would do it all over again if she had
@Behshsbbsjkk2 жыл бұрын
Did u forgot the pink sauce?
@bornFLY11 Жыл бұрын
"You knew the consequenceseseses" 7:13
@PositivitySpeaks10111 ай бұрын
I want to know why do woman always tell men if they didn’t want kids they sho be having relations!! My question to woman if you don’t want to be a single mother why have relations unprotected?!!
@derrickstingley68952 жыл бұрын
Some men just want to have fun and be players
@brianwright8892 жыл бұрын
Not all the time women play men too
@modest87822 жыл бұрын
It definitely goes both ways!!!😉
@bipiedeceit8539 Жыл бұрын
She is beautiful!
@sonja.w2 жыл бұрын
I just dont understand why men and women keep having unprotected sex and then say, " I didn't want a baby or don't want the responsibility". It doesn't make any sense, she already had two kids and said he wasn't ready to have a baby then. Stop having unprotected sex!!! Men, you can't leave your seed in a woman and say I don't want the responsibility you had a choice before having sex after that its no longer your choice.
@nyleac43895 ай бұрын
Why are they here? If a man tells you he doesn’t want to be a father, then take your baby and raise them alone. He literally told her.
@tonyaharper24682 жыл бұрын
We don't get out selves pregnant.
@gelleh.54562 жыл бұрын
But we are responsible for our own womb….😊
@roslynhawkins14752 жыл бұрын
True. But you're going to be the one carrying and giving birth to it, so it would be wise to act as a gatekeeper and shut out men who don't want a child.
@dees714 Жыл бұрын
Quanesha is gorgeous!!!
@edenstudiopolaroids2 жыл бұрын
It’s the way vex acting out his story 😂😂😂😂
@nessawithsmiles2 жыл бұрын
When he started dancing….
@jamilaandrews15352 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@chiloveradiouncutКүн бұрын
11:19 she broke the windows of another woman's house or car. That's crazy!!!
@jessicarabbit3147 Жыл бұрын
Where are they from?
@amybess2 жыл бұрын
I was in the audience for this. I dub this a condom commercial.
@thewriter2050 Жыл бұрын
I am soooo tired of seeing desperate wmn accepting poor treatment just to say they have a man...like it or not, Love is NOT enough to hold onto a sh*tty relationship. She's out here acting a whole fool over a dude that has no respect for her. She needs therapy and a self-love guide NOT a relationship.
@truthmatters7298 Жыл бұрын
The consequenceseses 😂😂
@raindrops42842 жыл бұрын
Consequencesessss😂
@AVwhaddup2 жыл бұрын
What happened to the pink sauce video?
@kimberlyshantel132 жыл бұрын
Women put their sleeves in these situations thinking men that’s already cheating before you start talking to them are going to be faithful
@adreanmims28912 жыл бұрын
They love the ray rays and pookies smdh. Facts
@GoddessPower7772 жыл бұрын
its the adding letters to words “argrue”
@DavidNylander9 ай бұрын
Rae Rae you can't trust any woman who already has two kids and the baby Daddy's her not with her. I think this is a trap. Please do a DNA. There's a reason why she's constantly accusing him so he won't think otherwise about her infidelity. Reverse Psychology. He said he's not ready should have been a mutual agreement b4 taking in.
@VocallyYours32 жыл бұрын
I’m saddened that it’s come down to this. I can’t with how immature these individuals are.🙆🏽♂️
@samanthaalston39012 жыл бұрын
They need speech classes
@sekhmetthe78452 жыл бұрын
🤔 consequenceses🤯
@julietchinny7779 Жыл бұрын
How old are these people😩😩😩 this society needs to be cleansed
@TheFinespice Жыл бұрын
Why must these same type women/ stories always be about having kids? You already have 2 kids, and quick to have another one. No getting yourself back to give the 2 you already have a good life. Like no self-worth,no self-esteem. Such a depraved society that is centred around sex and no self accountabilty. Annoys the hell outta me shmm.
@minnieciaminniewinston90644 ай бұрын
You go boy 👦🏿
@georgymahi1492 жыл бұрын
You come with babies and course chaos!!! And still have another baby with a cheater!! And you think you are entitled to be. This girl is crazy.