Don't Make These 10 Solo Travel MISTAKES

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Be My Travel Muse

Be My Travel Muse

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@MK_Nay
@MK_Nay 3 жыл бұрын
God bless you for this video. I have been so scared to travel alone as a woman but I LOVE to travel and explore. I am single so I have more of an opportunity to travel than my married friends/married friends with kids and I don’t want to miss out on what this beautiful world has to offer. Thank you so much for this. And I am looking forward to more of your videos and to reading other viewers comments on further tips!
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
So glad you found what you needed!
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
Hey, where to next???
@dr_corrupt1014
@dr_corrupt1014 2 жыл бұрын
you should get a BF to protect you that shouldn’t be hard…being in love with a man is one of the safest ways to travel and god how good it feels to be in a man’s arms….
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
@@dr_corrupt1014 😂😂😂 She’s better off alone! Men aren’t worth the hassle!
@LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj
@LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj 2 жыл бұрын
Never stop exploring and dont be afraid
@shai3004
@shai3004 3 жыл бұрын
I really admire, that you travelled to 60 countries alone. You are my role model.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you
@leapintothewild
@leapintothewild 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice! Lifelong solo traveler here, even drove 5 hours to my aunt's three days after I got my driver's license at 16. (I was a farm kid so had been driving all sorts of vehicles since age 10, so my parents were fine with it. lol) I *heartily* agree about walking confidently, and would add that even if you never use it, everyone should take some style of martial arts or a defense class, or even a kick boxing exercise class or anything sporty -- it makes you more aware of and in control of your body, which will add to your visual confidence. ALSO my own tip... step into a store or similar to get off the sidewalk before looking at your phone or map, or acting like you don't know where you're going; you don't want to be a googly-eyed, confused tourist in plain sight!
@Epictheargonian
@Epictheargonian Жыл бұрын
I just started loosing my fear of driving after having my license for 2 months, but I need to travel across the country by September all alone to make it to the trade school I’m planning on going to. I will have to drive because otherwise I would have to sell my car as I don’t know any other way to get it across the country. I don’t know any options to safely sleep at night in the car. Where are the safest places to park?
@leapintothewild
@leapintothewild Жыл бұрын
@@Epictheargonian I don’t have a clue about sleeping in a car, though I have a ton of experience in a tent! 😁 In fact, if you can afford a simple state park campsite, a tent and something to sleep on/under, you’d be safer than in your car in some parking lot. Otherwise, if your rear windows are tinted, you could probably sleep in the back seat out of view. Also remember that if you’re going to drive through a large city, most have circular highways that bypass the most nerve-wracking center-city interstates where there’s lots of traffic and merging going on, so go around rather than thru if you can. And personally I like state rest stops instead of getting off/on exits, which can also be super busy. At a rest stop, you can have a little picnic and stretch your legs, and the restrooms are usually clean. Just take your time, don’t drive too many hours at a time, load up on good music, and take a little cooler so you can pick up sandwich stuff, fruit, carrot sticks and such so you’re not relying on drive-thrus- junky and expensive! That’s all my ‘mom’ advice, other than make sure you’ve got a car charger for your phone, and maybe use a gps that will alert you to bad traffic or wrecks. Oh, and keep your doors locked and check your tire pressure! lol Good luck on your new adventure, and have fun!!
@sasham6142
@sasham6142 3 жыл бұрын
Having a dummy purse is so smart! Great tip, thank you :)
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
For sure!
@beththomas6514
@beththomas6514 Жыл бұрын
The first point in the video reminds me of when I was in Rome alone in my early 20s (about 35 years ago) and sitting in the Villa Borghese gardens enjoying the view when a middle-aged couple approached me. They were very friendly and curious about me, sitting with me a while making conversation. They invited me for dinner at their apartment that evening. Something felt off, like they were too interested in me. I had to decline several times as they persisted. Eventually I was able to end the conversation and leave the gardens. I'll never know what would have happened had I accepted their invitation (maybe it would have gone fine), but I had to listen to my inner voice looking out for my safety.
@yellowcrocus
@yellowcrocus 2 жыл бұрын
This is a must watch especially for female solo travelers like myself. Even traveling in my own country in Indonesia, I need to be kept reminded of all these stuff to stay safe. Different place, different culture. And the thing I am trying to always comply during my solo trip is to follow my intuition. Never experienced something dangerous though, but I am not gonna take any chances. Thank you for the reminder! 😊
@ABCDEFGH-qx6yn
@ABCDEFGH-qx6yn 2 жыл бұрын
Same , but from india It's dependant on places like southern side is more developed and female friendly, northern most side is a bit more patriarchal, I mean less women are seen staying out there
@snowangelnc
@snowangelnc 2 жыл бұрын
Yes about trusting your intuition and not worrying about whether or not that will seem polite. For the most part, decent people will understand a woman not wanting to put herself in a compromising situation. If they start trying to pressure you by making you feel like you're being rude if you don't go along with them, or acting like you owe them an explanation, or making a scene to embarrass you for being so silly and paranoid; these are red flags and should only confirm that you're right for feeling like you need to get out of there.
@lalat5899
@lalat5899 2 жыл бұрын
This‼️
@NatHemstreetToo
@NatHemstreetToo 2 жыл бұрын
On a lighter note, I took an unplanned trip to Peru (for r &r). We boarded the plane. I had the foresight to bring a sleep aid as it was several time zones away. The flight was delayed, but I thought, ‘no prob, early nap’. Took a something or other pill, got sleepy. The equipment was bad…had to deplane. We sat in the waiting area. Medicine effectively kicked in. I, having taken a social psychology class, had learned about ‘diffusion of responsibility’, knew I needed a sponsor. I asked two cute happy traveling buddies (girls, cos, ya know, safe) to make sure I got on the plane due to sleeping aid. They did, thank goodness, we boarded the plane en masse, incl me, got to Peru. Moral of story, don’t take sleep med until well in flight.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
omg, this is giving Modern Family!!!
@lulux9795
@lulux9795 Жыл бұрын
Omgg 😅 good thing you found help🙏🏽 your experience reminds me of the “modern family” episode something similar happened to one of the couples 🥹
@33Jenesis
@33Jenesis 2 жыл бұрын
A life long single, I have been doing international travel since college for weeks to months at a time every year (before Covid). I do not like alcohol, party, and staying out at night. Love sight seeing, nature, and museums. Used to dislike beach and hot weather (didn’t know how to swim and a bug magnet). Now I am retired and just learned free style swimming. Hopefully I can do water related travel in the future.
@nomad_333_
@nomad_333_ 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips. Solo male traveler here. I wish one day we'll live in a society where single women can roam around free without having to look over their shoulder.
@sonteesontee4227
@sonteesontee4227 2 жыл бұрын
We can! However; we need to use common sense and keep ourselves safe in the meantime. There are still certain places I would not travel solo - including the some places in the United States.
@colinm7374
@colinm7374 2 жыл бұрын
Tip on the dummy purse is great, I use that one myself. It is full of currencies that have lots of notes to the dollar, it's about a quarter inch thick with money that is probably worth less than half a dozen dollars. I would add though that if approached, throw the wallet/purse as far as you can, preferably with money spilling out of it. A thief will have the choice of going for the money or going for you. They should choose the former which will give you valuable space to then run.
@tiaeshanicole6735
@tiaeshanicole6735 2 жыл бұрын
I travel alot and I agree with you 100%... I do also think it's different when you are any other race than white. My friend and I recently got back from a trip and we noticed a huge difference between how she, who is white, and myself who is black were treated.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely agree. I am treated differently (better) in many places because I'm white. It's obvious. It's uncomfortable and strange and I think it also takes a while to notice it when it's happening to you. I'd like to see a world where lighter skin is not glorified, because it's not good for anyone, but we have a long way to go in recognizing and rewriting those colonial norms. I'll be raising my son to know what privilege and real history is. I wrote a blog article somewhat covering this topic (to the best that I can as a person of my background) but I'm always open to learning and hearing more: www.bemytravelmuse.com/is-tourism-good-or-bad/
@teaacustardcream2868
@teaacustardcream2868 2 жыл бұрын
Same when i visited Sri Lankan. It was very uncomfortable i wanted to be invisible lol
@laralarito3947
@laralarito3947 Жыл бұрын
So sorry to read that
@MelindaMatturro
@MelindaMatturro 2 жыл бұрын
I am SO scared to solo travel, but I just turned 30 and feel like I'm missing out on all these beautiful places. THANK YOU for sharing this, amazing information!
@saritaelizondo3696
@saritaelizondo3696 2 жыл бұрын
Babe let’s travel together girl hehe I’ve been wanting friends that I can travel with. I’m also 30 have no kids etc. let me know so we can start getting to know eachother hehe
@brittanylamprecht7194
@brittanylamprecht7194 2 жыл бұрын
@@saritaelizondo3696 I'm also 30 with no kids :)!!!
@isobelswan
@isobelswan 2 жыл бұрын
Try Iceland. It is very safe for the solo female traveller.
@lulux9795
@lulux9795 Жыл бұрын
Also 30 with no kids !
@Alex-AJ1105
@Alex-AJ1105 2 жыл бұрын
Just turned 21 from Los Angeles, but moved to Paris 6 months ago. Have been to 27 countries (15 solo) and going to another 10 more within the next 2-3 weeks. Great tips!
@joejojo5966
@joejojo5966 2 жыл бұрын
Anything else you'd add to the tips given here?
@ABCDEFGH-qx6yn
@ABCDEFGH-qx6yn 2 жыл бұрын
Yes please tell
@_satana
@_satana 2 жыл бұрын
Must be nice
@deb.e.9787
@deb.e.9787 2 жыл бұрын
10 countries in 3 Weeks?? Wow
@ruthduran7395
@ruthduran7395 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. thank you! Definitely important to experience life and not just live with fear!
@thijsbruijn3512
@thijsbruijn3512 Жыл бұрын
I am going on my first solo travel next month. First thing i did was look for the safest country, my choice was Norway. Hopefully it is really as safe as they say.
@user1fja98dnaiid
@user1fja98dnaiid 3 жыл бұрын
I hate drinking alone 😂 feels weird being intoxicated alone
@seb.htc906
@seb.htc906 3 жыл бұрын
lmao fr i feel so odd
@staceywilliams1863
@staceywilliams1863 2 жыл бұрын
🗣Don’t make me drink alone! 😂
@jenmorricone4014
@jenmorricone4014 Жыл бұрын
VIATOR has fabulous day trips in just about every major city in the world. I use them to get out and away sometimes if I'm tired, as a solo traveler, of navigating the system. It's like a day off from your mostly solo experience. Going to Cadeques from Barcelona is fabulous!!
@chaswood1517
@chaswood1517 2 жыл бұрын
good advice. If you're not careful you could get hurt or really get a wrong impression about a great country.
@Moi_81
@Moi_81 2 жыл бұрын
On the money backup, make sure you call the bank to let them know you are traveling. I did this for those same countries where your transactions were marked as fraud and had no issues. Also, make sure your bank doesn't send you a new card while traveling. Lol happened to me in Alaska and luckily it was near the end of the trip and I could pay for some times with PayPal. That was a nightmare.
@celinepa8246
@celinepa8246 10 ай бұрын
As a solo female traveller, best advice I can give is talk to local women, any age, the more the better. What to look out for, what`s safe to do, where not to go, how to dress, etc. Can be the waitress, taxi driver, table neighbor,... Always stick to local women`s advice and don`t get cocky. They know best.
@kaytlinjustis5643
@kaytlinjustis5643 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these tips! Want to travel myself and YES to Rule #1! I lost count of how many times I've been saved by my gut! Plus, LOVE your simple but EFFECTIVE ideas for staying in a hotel room alone!
@StBarts-hn1qw
@StBarts-hn1qw 2 жыл бұрын
I love the idea of a doom jam and a personal alarm. As a woman who lives and travels by herself, I never travel without these items. I consider them my bodyguards! Lol! This was a great video! Everyone should watch this before they travel. The same tips apply to the United States as well as abroad. Be diligent but enjoy life! This is a big beautiful world. Let’s enjoy it! 💕
@daviel1005
@daviel1005 2 жыл бұрын
I travel solo, but I'm a guy and I've only ever been to first world countries, so the only tip I could really relate to was the sim card one. Great video 👍👍
@DR-lf5rg
@DR-lf5rg Жыл бұрын
Genius tips, especially the door jamb, personal alarm and dummy purse.
@margaritaabue7632
@margaritaabue7632 Жыл бұрын
I’m planning my solo trip now, your tips helped a lot. I’m very careful with details. My plan is Europe since I didn’t have the chance for few years to go back. This video is helpful, small details makes big difference. Thanks.
@MirfromMBLAQ
@MirfromMBLAQ 2 жыл бұрын
I'm planning my first real vacation this year and although its not out of the country (I'll still be in USA) I will most likely go on this vacation alone so im nervous but I deserve this trip and don't want keep waiting for someone to accompany me. Plus this will help me learn to be even more independent and adventurous. Your video still helped thank you!!
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah! 🤙🏻
@lwallace8673
@lwallace8673 Жыл бұрын
Bro your not even leaving your own country, how tf is that "traveling"
@christinem8799
@christinem8799 2 жыл бұрын
I’m only going to another state for literally 24hrs but just very nervous. Glad to find some tips.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
You can do this!
@Dovndyr13
@Dovndyr13 2 жыл бұрын
Great Video I agree with you 100% in your top 10. bad alcohol/drugs in Alcohol - especially men have to be aware of this since thet often think it only can happen to women
@flanthief
@flanthief Жыл бұрын
Highly suggest getting a travelon brand bag
@bloomingorchid721
@bloomingorchid721 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video , I've yet to travel solo especially outside the States. However, I find your vlog full of knowledge and wisdom!
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you! Feel free to check out my blog, too! All of my solo travel tips are in there: www.bemytravelmuse.com
@winniex1387
@winniex1387 2 жыл бұрын
T hank you so much for sharing! This is the first time I saw someone on KZbin who has visited Zambia, I bought a package after someone took my wallet in Holland. Lessons learned
@AnneMB955
@AnneMB955 Жыл бұрын
Very helpful advice. Everyone should see this vid before travelling solo. Off to France soon and doing my research. Cheers from 🇦🇺
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse Жыл бұрын
Bon voyage!
@sheisomarica
@sheisomarica 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you for this video. It's an encouragement.
@that_crazy_native_chick
@that_crazy_native_chick 2 жыл бұрын
Whether traveling or just in your local bar always watch your drink. That's a great tip! There's nail polish out now that changes colors if something has been slipped in your drink. I was roofied in my 30s and something really bad happened so please be careful!
@Theblackcaravanlady
@Theblackcaravanlady 3 жыл бұрын
I've made some of these mistakes when l travel alone.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
We've all been there!
@hikemoreh96pro
@hikemoreh96pro 3 жыл бұрын
good advices. It's always interesting to listen to you
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Aw that’s wonderful thank you
@freegirl3786
@freegirl3786 2 жыл бұрын
For Europe, a small pocket knife can get you in a lot of trouble. Be careful, especially in big cities. There's a loooot of police looking lately. (Esp. Rome, Paris, Amsterdam etc.) But what is usually always okay is a small pocket knife that also has a screwdriver, clippers, corkscrew etc. I don't know what exactly there called, but if there's a hundred other things to pull out and the blade doesn't lock automatically, you're usually good to go.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Swiss Army knife
@freegirl3786
@freegirl3786 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bemytravelmuse yeah, exactly that. Thank you💕
@chillbalticgirl2287
@chillbalticgirl2287 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video!! I am a 22 year old woman and I want to start traveling solo soon.
@MikeDishere
@MikeDishere 2 жыл бұрын
Great advice, took notes, decoy wallet, excellent!!! Thanks
@fobbitguy
@fobbitguy 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! As a fellow world traveler I can tell you've traveled as well. I would agree that the number one tip is to follow your gut. If you don't feel comfortable it's ok to grab your sh#t and go. No explanation needed to anyone. Best tool to have when traveling anywhere, included in the states.
@lastavica1396
@lastavica1396 2 жыл бұрын
Great video 👍 Awesome Tips 😁🙏 best part is you're travelling because of life experience not making and posting flashy foto🍀🌻🙏 Thank you very much 🤗🥳
@amrayabaptiste2933
@amrayabaptiste2933 2 жыл бұрын
Hats off to you solo travelers. You're so brave 👏🏽👏🏽 I think I'll be scared all the time if I go alone
@Deeleeshush
@Deeleeshush 2 жыл бұрын
I love number 1. Best advice. Please be considerate of the culture
@whyme5024
@whyme5024 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic summary.
@tanphifer
@tanphifer 3 жыл бұрын
ugh I loved this! so inspiring & smart! ❤️
@michaelholcomb4901
@michaelholcomb4901 Жыл бұрын
I stumbled on your video and enjoyed it! The one tip that I may have trouble with is the going by myself at night since I love stargazing. But if I have a rental car and pull into a turnout or trailhead away from civilization and step out of the car and turn all lights off, then I would love to see what’s called a class one Bortles sky on a new moon night. That’s the darkest sky possible. Do you have any special advice for stargazing enthusiasts who travel solo?
@smm4806
@smm4806 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Kristin, you need to know how speacial you are. You glow beauty and a great person to watch on your travel journey. I am also a solo traveller and have now visited 80 countries and have been on all 7 continents. Keep up the great work!
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh thank you! I might be crying a little 🥰❤️🙏🏻
@phillippaphillippa3667
@phillippaphillippa3667 2 жыл бұрын
Travelled many countries by myself never really had a problem but always took notice of what the locals told me, was always aware of my surroundings, didnt go out at night. Had an incident when I had to travel through a Middle Eastern country for transit, two men come and escorted me off the plane as women dont travel by themselves in their country, asked if I had anything to cover my cothes I was wearing jeans lucky I had a full length trench coat which i used, they took me to a ladies only rest room told me not to leave, then come and escorted me onto the plane when it was ready, was safe but will not being going through that country again. I know a female who went by herself to a Middle Eastern country, went alone to the pyramids and found a tour guide there - a man who volunteered to take her around, he then said he would take her to a local restaurant for dinner she agreed, the hotel staff told her not to go but she went. He picked her up from the hotel passed the restaurant they were supposed to be going to and took her to a remote house where he kept her in a locked room for several days abused her, got her key and got all her things from the hotel, on the day she had to fly out he took her to airport kept with her until she had to board gave her her passport finally and she left. She was so happy to get back to her country that she told the police they virtually said they couldnt do anything about it, took a while to recover from it she now trys to block it all out just says she was lucky not to be killed.
@_einodmilvado
@_einodmilvado 2 жыл бұрын
😔
@luckystone2293
@luckystone2293 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that's so messed up, poor girl but she must have done ZERO research before going to Egypt because girl.. I thought everyone knew it's tricky for solo women there and under no circumstance should you contact these men any more than what's absolutely necessary.
@sheli4795
@sheli4795 Жыл бұрын
I'd like to know which countries these situations happened in so I can avoid them.
@MrBlackCoffee96
@MrBlackCoffee96 2 жыл бұрын
Great video, some useful, sensible tips.. sometimes it not all fun and games!
@steveward5925
@steveward5925 2 жыл бұрын
Hi thanks for this, Has a guy I can't say I need all your advice, this will be my first time traveling abroad on my own, so some of your tips will come in handy, your very brave traveling to all those places on your own, x
@allisonblank7802
@allisonblank7802 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful tips!
@Cherloe
@Cherloe 2 жыл бұрын
Wear an imitation simple gold wedding band. Shows your married, and it’s not flashy and even if you’re mugged it’s no big deal to lose.
@imiss2014
@imiss2014 Жыл бұрын
This is a very informative video thank you
@cynthiashearer-ec6gl
@cynthiashearer-ec6gl Жыл бұрын
Awesome video. I'm new to your channel, but I'll certainly be viewing regularly now. I'm planning a longgggg after retirement trip, solo. I feel more confident traveling solo as a senior-ish female.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse Жыл бұрын
Welcome!
@gustavoh.8634
@gustavoh.8634 2 жыл бұрын
omg the advice with the dummh bag was so good, thanks
@audiotomb
@audiotomb 2 жыл бұрын
Male in my early 60s. I am totally spontaneous - with the occasional reserved lodging. I have been doing solo trips forever. Hikers and climbers are friendly and safe (anywhere it takes a little effort to get to is good) I have only had two scary situations that I backed away from. Yes trust your intuition. Camping, car camping and the occasional hotel / airbnb is a nice mix. I almost always don’t drink or one drink. Nicer restaurants are a good choice in the evening. Women certainly have more concerns. I am more concerned about the wildlife, weathe and landscape (bolders, falls, etc)
@MrLowfive94
@MrLowfive94 2 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more with the first one. I ended up getting robbed at gunpoint having to cancel all my bank cards and living homeless until I could get home not to mention dislocating my shoulder 10 miles away from the nearest town. Was a damn good party though.
@nellieevans1540
@nellieevans1540 2 жыл бұрын
Which country/city?
@ainymunnee7780
@ainymunnee7780 2 жыл бұрын
Loved the video. You are such a genuine and sweet person giving honest suggestions!
@AmyLiu888
@AmyLiu888 2 жыл бұрын
One more tip is when someone asks you if you are traveling alone as a woman is to make up a fake husband or boyfriend. I've had this question asked so many times in Malaysia. It might be innocent curiosity but it's best to not make yourself a target.
@jaysterling26
@jaysterling26 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. How about wearing a wedding ring - but check the country/ culture that it's on the right finger.?..
@bencruzsf
@bencruzsf 2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Since my husband passed away in 2020, I now have no choice but to travel alone and these tips are very good to remember? Do you have a video that lists down the countries that you felt were more dangerous to visit alone than others? Thank you!
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Bennie, I've personally never felt completely unsafe in any of the countries I've been to, but I'd probably avoid countries known to be extremely sexist and/or are currently at wars. I've been to really remote places like Kyrgyzstan, spends months traveling in Africa and did several backpacking trips completely off the grid and never felt unsafe.
@bencruzsf
@bencruzsf 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bemytravelmuse Thank you, that is very nice to know! I am always very careful since any kind of glitch really ruins a whole trip.
@alana7313
@alana7313 2 жыл бұрын
I recently found out about a door jammer with an alarm that sounds when door is attempted to be opened !
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
That sounds like a good item to have along!
@TheVinylPalette
@TheVinylPalette 2 жыл бұрын
Where was it from? Amazon?
@michaelmerenda3158
@michaelmerenda3158 2 жыл бұрын
Great vide thanks for sharing
@SMtWalkerS
@SMtWalkerS Жыл бұрын
Great tips.
@jenp5413
@jenp5413 3 жыл бұрын
One of my all time favorite trips was slovenia and city of Ljubljana, after a beautiful julian alps hike - did with as part of a tour, not on my own. i love to travel and this past year has been soul sucking. im looking to ease my way back in and have solo travelled before but prefer to go with others depending on the situation. unfortunately most friends cant / wont travel so looks like my next trip will be solo. i've been researching the best "safe" area to go for a week/less depending if domestic or not with a nice mix of hiking/ access to a city. i love that mix. my fav location are generally nordics - i always feel so safe and its gorgeous. wondering if you think there is a similar vibe anywhere in the states - i know the weather will be different, and nowhere near as many tall blondes! thanks for the channel, very helpful advice
@MovieJustin
@MovieJustin 3 жыл бұрын
Go to Tucson AZ. Look up the Hilton Conquistador. Unlimited hiking and outdoor opportunities in the area.
@crickettalkswithmeet2635
@crickettalkswithmeet2635 2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful ma’am! Thank you for making this video 🙏👍🏻
@gracesplace3449
@gracesplace3449 2 жыл бұрын
Oh chil I had one drink on over seas and was way worse than groped at night🤦🏽‍♀️😩 I’m on high alert now n playing my scenarios better
@PaolaAchicanoy
@PaolaAchicanoy Жыл бұрын
Love this! but regarding "not booking everything " I think it depends on the time of the year i.e for april in europe the best-cheaper hotels are fully book almost all month so keep that in mind.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse Жыл бұрын
Very good point. Sometimes you have to book ahead!
@Rachael121
@Rachael121 2 жыл бұрын
All great advice especially the Sim card. Thanks so much 🙏 ⭐
@GiselleTrujillo
@GiselleTrujillo 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent tips, thank you for sharing
@50shadesofjaysus41
@50shadesofjaysus41 2 жыл бұрын
It is sad that having to be precautious with drinks and knowing there is people having sinister motives hidden behind generosity is an issuue, but after 8 years travelling I realise it is more common than you hope. A few things that may assist in acting on the side of caution. If someone offers to buy you a drink, go with them to the bar, that way you see the drink being made or opened and you take away the opportunity for tampering. if maybe you come back from the bathroom and someone has a drink for you and you dont want to appear rude or ungrateful by refusing, either you can "accidentally" ash a cigarette into it, drop it or knock it over.
@Thesilenthunter
@Thesilenthunter 2 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing video. As a woman and from the UK 🇬🇧. We ate pretty much safe , but now I am ready to travel even further "ALONE" this video has helped me thank you so so much . ❤
@samp9853
@samp9853 2 жыл бұрын
You are so easy to listen to. I'm a subscriber now.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@joh4673
@joh4673 2 жыл бұрын
Such a geat video, thank you so much for all these tips!!
@vi3nabl3
@vi3nabl3 2 жыл бұрын
Probably I will try mine in Jul!!! Gonna learn more from you all. U guys rock!
@Gizzard4400
@Gizzard4400 2 жыл бұрын
I'm just learning about traveling and also have been sobar for 6 years. It's nice to hear that traveling sobar is a thing lol
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
For sure! Congrats on 6 years
@bacaroo
@bacaroo 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for these advices!
@vanessaj.9145
@vanessaj.9145 2 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU FOR THIS 🤍
@Keezie27
@Keezie27 2 жыл бұрын
Very thorough and helpful video. I'm planning on traveling by myself soon. As a woman especially I'm a bit nervous but also excited. This video was very helpful. Thank you!
@MrChris-nt6kp
@MrChris-nt6kp Жыл бұрын
THANKS DEAR
@danlskli9194
@danlskli9194 2 жыл бұрын
I agreed with you. If it's Thailand, it's quite safe. Indonesia, you should becareful.
@donatospoony
@donatospoony 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been single for a couple of years now. I have the time and money to travel , but just think it would feel weird going by myself. I hope I do it.
@sibac00
@sibac00 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@faywong7992
@faywong7992 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had the courage to travel the world alone as you one day
@MovieJustin
@MovieJustin 3 жыл бұрын
I like #9 these are all good tips.
@foxxycleopatra615
@foxxycleopatra615 2 жыл бұрын
These are great tips! I did my first solo trip 6/mos ago and am excited for more. You’ve shared a lot of helpful info like I never would’ve imagined alcohol in another country could be poisoned 😧
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s unfortunate! But knowing it’s possible helps you stay safe 💙
@Mz.M.2757
@Mz.M.2757 2 жыл бұрын
I am turning 50 and thinking of traveling alone. Do you think a cruise would be good for first solo trip? I am afraid yet excited to do this.
@sweetauntbuddy
@sweetauntbuddy 2 жыл бұрын
@@Mz.M.2757 I went on a cruise with my husband years ago, and felt very safe on the ship and on the excursions (Caribbean islands), so much so that I am cruising solo this coming September and have no worries at all. I think cruising would be a great way for you to "ease into" traveling alone.
@Mz.M.2757
@Mz.M.2757 2 жыл бұрын
@@sweetauntbuddy Many thanks lovely Lisa for taking the time to respond with such encouragement. I am very excited for this journey. Safe travels in September. 😊
@misstara9838
@misstara9838 2 ай бұрын
Before I left for India and Nepal, I got a Verizon Letteri Sim card, International roam and it was flawless.
@cruisingforone
@cruisingforone 2 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice, thanks
@MrsKervang
@MrsKervang 2 жыл бұрын
Hi! Just stumbled across your video here. Thank you for all the tips. Fake wallet and door stopper will definitely be in our bags now. I never thought about these things before! Overall, yes follow your intuition. Animals do, why can't we learn to do the same!
@itsmaryaam
@itsmaryaam 2 жыл бұрын
amazing video. thank you so much. for me, i don't trust people at all. literally. i think that's what saved me many times tbh. i always expect everything bad from everyone tbh..
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
I’m glad that I did trust people and say yes often to be honest. There’s a lot I would have missed out on, but you’ve gotta listen to your intuition of course.
@Tvaleriya
@Tvaleriya 3 жыл бұрын
Great video!!
@VampiraVonGhoulscout
@VampiraVonGhoulscout 2 жыл бұрын
So far I've been to five countries alone, all within Europe: France, Germany, Greece, Ireland and Czechia. I want to branch out to Peru and South East Asia though.
@yukiruk5861
@yukiruk5861 2 жыл бұрын
To be honest, if I were to travel by myself, I wouldn't even think about drinking at all.
@m.k.519
@m.k.519 2 жыл бұрын
What also might be a tip, is to take a small can of hair spray with you. Since pepper spray is illegal in a lot of countries, this might function as an alternative. Might not be as effective, but still unpleasant.
@Bemytravelmuse
@Bemytravelmuse 2 жыл бұрын
Or mosquito repellent. Deet is also unpleasant
@m.k.519
@m.k.519 2 жыл бұрын
@@Bemytravelmuse good one too!
@cristisfood1018
@cristisfood1018 Жыл бұрын
Thanks,ciao
@nathbishal123
@nathbishal123 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome tips. ♥ Keep it up ♥
@mysteriesuntold3393
@mysteriesuntold3393 2 жыл бұрын
Good very informative 👍
@aanchalsharma8362
@aanchalsharma8362 Жыл бұрын
very helpful
@enjoystraveling
@enjoystraveling Ай бұрын
Maybe a silly question, where do you find a door jam at hardware store?
@yorgunsamuray
@yorgunsamuray Жыл бұрын
I arrived at a beach town of Goa, India after dusk after a day-long trip by changing 4 buses. There was a blackout and it was pitch dark. I wanted to go to my hostel ASAP, so I checked with Google maps on the phone and it was sort of a walkable distance. And being the cheap penny pincher I am, I started off right away, not bothering with autorickshaws. I did not spot any anyway. Little did I know that it would be a deserted route among fields...with my batteries dying. I was juggling between my phone's flashlight (my manual one was inside my backpack) and Google maps in darkness with barking dogs all around me. There were a zillion dogs running to me barking their tails off and then instantly backing up. That night I was so lucky to be not mauled by those dogs.
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