Don’t see him everyday here is why

[@Billiard-cp1my]

That is true for me and my boyfriend of a year. I am 64 and he is 60. It wouldn't work however, if we were younger and wanted to build a life together. It certainly wouldn't work if we wanted children together.

[@kriskris4214]

How do we navigate this in marriage?

[@ladyofspa]

There's phases in building a relationship each phase can hold the last when well built and paced. Once a couple is established bonded to each other( over vetted time) seeing each more often is natural and in agreement. Even in marriage space distance access needs to be maintained and respected. Me, we, us time space money ,play needs to be negotiated so needs are met.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Find a hobby like gym, yoga, cooking class, etc., so that he can see that you value yourself and you are not dependent on him. Being around each other becomes boring whether in a relationship or marriage, it doesn't matter.

[@kriskris4214]

@@cheekymonkeygirl3378 thank you ladies 💅🏼

[@kriskris4214]

@@ladyofspa thank you ladies!

[@JosannaMonik]

I think just have some activities and friends outside of your relationship with him; don't revolve your whole life around him even if you're married.