13 Harsh Truths About Men I'd Share If You Were My Daughter

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[@brian-nox]

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[@brookebenton8192]

Number 14: If there is any sign of abuse, like uncontrolled anger, disrespect, put-down's, etc. RUN!! Don't call him out on it. Just leave (safely) and block him. All abuse starts small and escalates. It won't get better, it's not your fault, and you can't fix him!!

[@stephanieann9770]

❤ so true

[@miaduana]

1010💯💯💯 always true! Abuse always escalated, never the other way around.

[@jessicaf6358]

And it DEFINITELY doesn't mean anything about you, not even if they're "trying" to be "better" for you -- it's nothing more than a damn manipulation tactic on their end (even if they don't consciously know it themselves). Respect YOURSELF; you'll have way more respect than he can ever give you.

[@karenhsu251]

So true! Learned a little late.

[@Lobinayoe]

Thank you ❤

[@SS-bq1yv]

I vote "yes" for more imaginary daughter advice videos.

[@janediamond-tm2zk]

Me too!

[@constanceazodanloo1255]

😂

[@patriciafernandez4024]

I was just about to write the same thing! Great one!! Keep up the good work!🌟

[@llanaa6302]

I second this!

[@sarahj8782]

Yeppers, me too!

[@janetstraw191]

NEVER, ever chase a man! The right one won’t run. 👍

[@Hello-hello-hello456]

Such sweeping generalisations are more harmful than useful

[@janetstraw191]

@@Hello-hello-hello456 Well, it always worked for me.

[@UXtatic]

​@@janetstraw191 So you haven't found the right one then?

[@blossom1290]

​@@Hello-hello-hello456 that's not generalizing, that's the truth, and also she didn't say all

[@alenaadamkova5322]

Sam Vaknin said: "100 years ago women had casual sex twice in life time. Today women have casual sex twice a year, men 6 times a year. He said teenagers are not dating at all today, to know each other´s interests, and know each other intimately, the hobbies etc. They just follow trends. he said it changed with teenagers within 10 years....while in previous centuries such big change with teenagers dating would take 100 years....like exchanging interests and innocent form of dating full of acceptance and friendhip and respect etc. so the media caused it. evenn teenagers dont date in normal fashion. if media can cause such big chgange in 10 years, why people blame only one gender. We have to stop feeling brainwashed by corporatiosn and media who spread crazy trends about looks, and beauty and perfection. Perfection doesn´t exist in long term relatiosnhips and teenagrers learn the unwanted patterns from adults and wrong media. Asa Sam Vaknin said just in 10 years the teenagers changed so much that such big change would take minimally 100 years. I like celebrities looks and talents, but if liking the cellebs creates such great change in the world, maybe we should start seeing value in other things. Not compete about who looks better in make up and who doesnt. Nobody is dating in healthy way so nobody has a real relationship, or maybe only 20 percent have healthy relaltionship, because they are dating and knowing each other intimately and emotional intimacy, and knowing each other interests, and not having sex early. People should be inspired by the old generation, where they were dating just to know each other.

[@prettybird7597]

The only things is, I was a secure high value woman until I met the wrong man who destroyed everything I built in myself. Every woman needs to listen to this video. ❤

[@clairexxx0405]

I hope that you are able to slowly heal.... sending love and strength 🤗🕊✨️

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

If you were high value you would have let him go right away, before he destroyed you. Not saying this 2 hurt you, been there done that, but we only accept if we don't have high values.

[@Oshiiiiiiiiiiii]

​@@Liz-dragon-street. She could have been lied to or gaslit.

[@prettybird7597]

@@Liz-dragon-street. He is a Dismissive avoidant. He came on strong with the love bombing. Everything was great. Slowly, things changed and the push/pull, hot/cold started- then the intermittent reinforcement. It’s a very hard cycle to get out of. They hook you and trap you.

[@AnnieeBubble]

@@prettybird7597totally right - it doesn’t mean you’re not high value if someone deceives you! It just shows how deeply you’ve loved someone and that’s beautiful - you’ve gained a lot of wisdom now for the future to make the right choice x

[@ven2155]

I teared up when he said "you are amazing" My father never told me that. thank you

[@ingrid5944]

Mine as well

[@eclecticd9953]

Same

[@CeciledeLuire]

same 😥 my father was a sick man. Love to all the daughters and sons of those fathers 💛

[@yougotOWENd]

Unfortunately you cannot choose family. Do not let it bother you too much.

[@deanagallatin6974]

You had a father???? Lol. I didn't. And Mom didn't bring home a winner til third time out. By then I was 18. But. I told myself i wanted a guy like him. He is awesome.

[@CutelyCreated]

I wrote the 13 Harsh Truths in my journal so I won’t forgot. Thank you dear imaginary dad.

[@d0v3Tai1]

Like Brian reiterates, wish I'd had this list waaaay BEFORE I started dating anyone -- to save my sanity & heartache from losers, posers, lotharios, trophy-gatherers, man-child Momma's-Boy Peter-Pan types, parasites, & Game-Playing time-wasters.

[@laceyloops]

"Go slow but be quick to leave when he shows he's bad for you" we don’t do this enough

[@Anonymous-ev3rl]

The funny thing is, i chose the guy i was not as attracted to because he seemed like a great guy. And he was really nice for a while before being literally abusive and emotionally manipulative. After that, i decided that i cant even trust a guy's actions anymore. He was lovely, until he wasnt. My number one advice for all women and girls out there is to always ALWAYS trust your gut. Especially if it's usually right. My gut kept telling me he was a red flag and i kept picking up on very subtle signs he was a red flag but i convinced myself i was overanalysing everything. Words and actions can be misleading. Your gut is right 9 times out of 10.

[@JaneNewAuthor]

People who grew up in a dysfunctional family situation will mistake familiarity for chemistry. I did, over and over again. Once I realised my father had definite narcissisitc characteristics I was able to detect them in other people. My entire world changed.

[@Caroline-pb8xx]

My last partner kept saying 'I don't deserve you.' I would respond, 'say that again and I'll believe you!' That always seemed to throw him off guard. I kept telling him to just say he's lucky he's found me or that he's grateful for particular things, but he never made that switch. We eventually broke up because he wanted less than what I did in our relationship. I wish him the best, but I really had to make the calls he was refusing to make himself. It sucks when guys realize they don't like you that much, and instead of making it clear or stating the obvious, they wait for the other person to do those things for them.

[@FriendMariaAdrianna]

I love that this channel teaches girls to let go of men who are treating them poorly. Instead of teaching girls "how to get back a man's interest.... and set yourself up for a miserable life" 🤦🤷❤️

[@nalublackwater9729]

Or lower their standards.

[@phamdung3884]

⁠@@nalublackwater9729 just a friendly tip: if you mean “for everyone”, you’d be better off saying “Or everyone should lower their standards.” You’d still be wrong since we’re talking women with crippling self-worth here, but at least you wouldn’t be singling them out.

[@ruushii0]

no lol.​@@nalublackwater9729

[@janeukraine]

Please do a series. My father is a misogynist whose family thinks it's absurd for the men in the family not to cheat on their wives

[@miaamer7718]

Same here

[@PlayGrow410]

Same here! And he considers his daughter a failure for not being married and judges her for turning down incompatible partners saying that she is incapable of having a relationship 🫥 Why would I want to rush to marriage when all my life I have seen a mother sad and submissive, while she was being cheated on 🫥

[@miaamer7718]

@@PlayGrow410 When my mom found out he was cheating she dumped his ass, I was a little over a year old, she found out that he not only cheated, he also had himself a secret family with a daughter who wasn't even biologically his own. That too ended in a divorce. But she wasn't the first and certainly wasn't the last. His life has been a series of cheating and divorcing. So, in a way I kinda get what you mean, and how that feels.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

That’s so sad.. I’m so sorry 😢😢

[@ol1923]

I remember at age 17 I was considering dating a much older man who told me over the phone that it was normal for men to have affairs while married ....that conversation was the end of any future with that guy

[@krembryle7903]

Ok, I have found my internet daddy. Thank you for taking care of me in ways my real father never could.

[@skh770]

Sad to say - I agree. Sad that this is the closest to a caring parent we get.

[@lex28lush10]

Tell me about it , ladies 😅

[@marietgagliardi]

When a guy says you can do better than me, run! He's telling on himself

[@mej_2026]

I’ve experienced this first hand 😂

[@frishter]

A bad guy wouldn't encourage you to seek better. However if that's the way that you feel, you should continue as you're doing.

[@subspace666]

i don't agree , most of the time its ether just a compliment or you did something he appreciated. depending on the context or circumstances it could be a lack of confidence too.

[@WZech-ly8dm]

YES PLEASE, a series dedicated to "My Imaginary Daughter" would he incredible!

[@cathhl2440]

"To my dear imaginary daughter" will be a lovely book...

[@remarkable937]

I started to learn to believe what a man says after 20 years 🥴. One said to me with a smirk when we first met "I like to just sit on the couch watching tv all the time" but he was always active, it seemed to me. Then we moved in together and yep that is all he wanted to do. Couldn't even get him to go to the movies. Another one said to me while laughing, "I'm crazy". I mean people say disparaging things about themselves all the time, and most of the time they are exaggerating. Well, if a guy says he is crazy believe him 😵‍💫

[@d0v3Tai1]

Great points! Have similarly heard these coming out of a guy's mouth: * "C'mon...GET OUTTA MY WAY!" [Road Rager on a RAMPAGE, yeller, aggressive driver, highly likely a narcissist!!!] *"I don't deserve you." [he was younger than me] * "I've got a fear of failure. I'm afraid I can't stand on my own 2 feet." [love-bombing exploitative narcissist] * "She wanted to be exclusive", "R U nutz?" [Emotionally Unavailable, Fearful Disorganized Traumatized Avoidant; described his exes as "crazy", "insane"] * "Let's have lunch." ["still friends" with his 4 ex-wives, whilst currently married to his 5th wife with 4 kids!!!! Serial marital relations. Player. Opportunistic seeker of new supply/new narcissistic fuel. Psychopath!!!] * "Oops, I forgot my wallet." [on a 1st date with a scatter-brained narcissist, sneaking peeks of his 'gorgeous' self in front of mirrors] * "Let's have coffee. I'll pay for it, while you can get the tip." [cheapskate on a blind date, set up by well-meaning but clueless friends]

[@abbiejoyguabna5320]

be slow when getting to know a guy but quick to get out if he shows bad behavior. I love this. I hate it when the women who stuck by them get left behind broken in pieces.

[@LunarWildRose]

I'm almost 34, and embarrassed I've never dated, nor been asked out. I didn't put myself out there, cos ... trauma. yay. anyways, this is great - pls do make a "Dear Imaginary Daughter" series.

[@heatherrose9437]

I'm in my early 40s you're not alone this world is just hard on responsible people who took the time to deal with what they've been through

[@alluringbliss4165]

Due to trauma, I have never been in a serious relationship at 40. You are not alone.

[@user-dz7pi5wi6t]

I recently turned 35 and I've never dated as well. I also did not try and focused on school and work. I'm quiet/reserved and get nervous/guarded around most people due to some bad experiences. You're not alone, for sure.

[@rongike]

not dating is a good thing considering the mentality and overall state of society.

[@lranieri1]

Challenge yourself and go out! We will always have issues, but its far better to share life than be afraid. A good dude will understand. I know first hand bc I've lived it.

[@killiansirishbeer]

The third reason applies for friendships too, when you're the only one keeping the friendship alive, making conversation, but people only remember you and contact you when they need your help. And I have friends which sometimes we don't communicate for months, but when we contact each other again, we pick up right where we left off, so that's no excuse either. Life is hard enough, it's better not to waste your energy on someone who only remembers you when they need something.

[@minoutv7347]

Yes, please do this as a series! Many of us, unfortunately, did not have a father figure in our lives as we grew up. This is so helpful!

[@gigismith8267]

Very true!!!!

[@deanagallatin6974]

Really true. Lots of bad examples

[@alluringbliss4165]

can absolutely relate

[@AlexandertheGreat99]

I had a good father, but he never told me any of these things. And I guarantee you, most fathers don't.

[@d0v3Tai1]

@@AlexandertheGreat99Relatable, my father's a good guy -- but, he's also stoic, doesn't say very much, very quiet guy, great provider, family man. Still, I wish he had warned me about how to recognize & deal with what lurks among men with ill-intent.

[@teresatinsley7626]

I am 62 years old. This is good, solid advice. If you apply it you will save yourself a lot of grief

[@joellemartin4466]

Thank you 😊 we appreciate your insight definitely would love to save myself heartache

[@rebeccaly]

Struggled a lot with guys saying one thing but their actions not matching up at all. I’ve been told “you deserve better than me” and “I’m not ready for a relationship” while they were still flirting with me and such…it’s confusing (esp when I like them back) but I gotta trust they mean it when they say this…thanks Brian. Your explanation on both guys makes sense. Emotionally mature guys would never risk losing me if they truly cared about me!

[@yougotOWENd]

You are correct in their immaturity, but they are true in their words! So there are two things likely going on (Do not take my words as truth, but I am... likely on a right track 😅) 1. They do like you, and wish to be with you 2. They are feeling insecure in their abilities to be with you Two things that conflict each other. If this is the case, give them the time and space to mature. They need to develop their abilities and stability in life. I think that you stepping away from them, telling you are not going to date people who are insecure like this, is a good thing for both you and them, even if their initial reaction might be to get upset (of course, they lose out on a person they found interest in, so let them be upset about that and don't blame them) Eventually they will develop their strengths and be ready to make one truly happy. That is when the words "a real men would not risk losing the one he loves" come into play. I wish you a fine day 👍

[@susanma4899]

"You deserve better than me." Yep, I guess I do. Byeeeee.

[@ren2ski]

When you understand this you realise that men always tell you who they are even when they’re not doing it on purpose….it is really liberating ❤

[@mdewi04]

Thank you Brian!!! Long time a go.. a wise man told me... if he really loves you, he'll cross the ocean for you...

[@dawnstonerock4253]

Beautiful!!

[@ibrahimhassaan6188]

Lol

[@Braveh3artGirl]

As Selena said "he promised the world and i fell for it" 😢

[@jacinthavorleamesi2302]

Soo true😢

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

They never respect their own promises!

[@krissy.x]

Why are they so fake

[@anniemoon3992]

I started going to therapy and this is good affirmations from a father I never had. Thank you

[@amiam9503]

Brian: If he says good things like, "I can imagine us staying together forever, I'm falling for you, you are my type, I love you"- Me: aw 🥰 Brian: -do NOT immediately believe him. Me: oh 🥲 These are things that seem obvious, sure, but they can be hard to hear. It's helpful to hear them all at once, and said with such straightforwardness *and* care. I'm very glad I stumbled on this video. Thank you!

[@immrssnow]

14· Men aren't idiots. When he does something unfair/ manipulative to you & act like- *"What happened? Why are you overreacting?"* -HE EXACTLY KNOWS WHAT THE F**K HE HAS DONE TO YOU p.s. you deserve everything 👑🌸

[@hannahchristo8214]

"as much as cat loves a cold bubble bath" 😂😂😂.. love these funny metaphors in between 🤣🤣🤣

[@marilyncolon8696]

Imaginary daughter here! Yes, I want more videos.

[@subaithanasreenakram]

The best thing about this video is The instant he decided to talk to his “imaginary daughter” Every thing said felt real and true from the bottom of his heart Am sure every father is the first and best defense for his daughter . . Thankyou Please upload more such videos Waiting for it !!

[@CapeCodBelle]

Wow!! I am married for many years, but your wise advice brought me back to my earlier days and dating. What you said to your imaginary daughter should be shared with all women, young and old.

[@Trisha1807]

Love it! My daughters will benefit from your valuable secrets. Thank you!

[@catboxcleaner3532]

Beware “short responses which give as much clarity as flashlight with dead batteries”. Clever!

[@Wishpool]

Well, I'm older than you, so I'll call you my "Dear imaginary little brother". 🤣 Excellent advice, lil' brother! 💗

[@travelchannel304]

LoL . I think I knew at 14, but.. didn't know that I needed to apply this to ALL men. Not just one's in romance. Dealing with the mechanic even, if he's not a mature man. He just gonna behave that way.

[@loryjones7220]

This isn’t really about harsh truths about men, but about our reactions to such men.

[@samanthaoverberg1040]

Please please please do a series 🙏 I've watched so much of your content and this is by far my most favorite, immediately impactful video. Not just for myself, but for things I'd like to teach my own daughter someday. These were all exceptional pieces of advice that my father never shared with me. Thank you for being a good father figure to us lost and struggling daughters 🫶🫶🫶

[@d0v3Tai1]

Agree. While my Dad was so quiet, he romantically noted he would "climb the tallest mountains, & sail the 7 seas just to be with my Mom" (on their chaperoned dates) -- nevertheless, he deferred the topic of dating to my beloved Mom. But, dating was such a taboo topic, that the only advice Mom gave were: * "When I liked him, I loved him; when I loved him, I let him; when I let him, I lost him" [cryptic WARNING poem, yet, oh sooo true!] * "Be home before midnight." * "Wait 2 years to get to know him, before getting married." * "You can tell a man loves you, by the way his looks at you (his longing gaze)."

[@sandrab2589]

Pay very close attention to how he treats his mother and /or how he talks about his memories of her. He will end up treating you the same way.

[@mashoba927]

ever heard of an enmeshed narcissist mother-son due ? treating each other like husband and wife ? witnessing that from a distance can totally mislead you

[@sandrab2589]

@@mashoba927 See? That's totally a red flag. Do NOT marry that man with the mother-obsession. But a son who treats his mother with RESPECT is a keeper.

[@seemeoutthere]

I am so tired of how social media paints men and relationships..your video sir is one of the good ones, your advice felt positive, felt warm, unlike the cold anger charged ones i see all over the internet. Thank you truly.

[@Exploremyart]

i love this man respectfully, he speaks so wisely

[@anacurrier8351]

Great video! I just shared it with my adult daughters. Hope you keep on delivering more of this addressed to your imaginary daughter!

[@helienwatson6626]

Yes to the imaginary daughter series! Brilliant idea! 🎉

[@rosariorodriguez2457]

Thank you, Brian! As your intro stated, wish that you were around 30 years ago…still learning. May God bless!

[@tammyb8742]

I would like content on older relationship ie: people who have been around the block a few times getting back out there again

[@deniseklich6697]

I agree!

[@m.suranyi3885]

Me too.

[@kimberlyjohnson2541]

Yes!

[@valkyrie_592]

What do you think might be different about those experiences for you compares to the first or second time. I think you might know more than you think. Give yourself some introspection time

[@lsmith9695]

This was so good, I’ll be sharing this video with my daughters. I know these things now, but it really helps and confirms it to hear it coming from a man. Thank you for caring enough about us to share these things. God bless you ❤

[@user-qw5bk1sg6d]

You say the truth! Thank you on behalf of all women who haven't learned these facts yet!

[@d0v3Tai1]

I'm only learning these now -- because I know (& am trying to help) someone who could desperately use this advice!

[@leajianlanyu1581]

Thank you so much Geert!!! This is such a reminder for being on the right track for the right person! Dank u!

[@SeyDizon]

Amazing. Thank you for making this. While I already know some of these it feels different and more impactful when it comes from a real man.

[@englishwithrey746]

The most mature accurate relationship video

[@reneedavis7248]

You know you are a funny guy. You be having me crying 😂😂😂😂

[@dvo84]

Thank you for taking me on as your imaginary daughter and giving such valuable advice ❤. God bless. Wishing you all true happiness within yourself 🥰🤗

[@angelakoendjbiharie2263]

Thank you Brian, I appreciate the information.

[@Hannah.1911]

Hi Geert, I'm watching your videos from Germany to improve my English and learn more about relationships/men. This is one of the best videos I've watched so far 💯 Thank you very much!

[@yusleiby1]

LOVED IT SO MUCH!! ♥♥ I really really appreciate those advices, you speak so clear and honest. I think every girl and woman needs to listen to this. Thank you. I hope to see more videos like this.

[@meahgenhall2611]

Yes, PLEASE continue this series. We appreciate your insight greatly!

[@karenchan1663]

Awesome sharing! Thanks Brian!

[@chiebirim6786]

I really like the format of this video. I'd appreciate more videos made in this format as it is even more engaging than normally. Also, having a man honesty tell his 'imagery daughter' these valuable insights is something most women did not experience. Thank you for such great content!

[@anacristinamiguel5113]

Thank you! This is fantastic. Go on. So many women need to hear this.

[@morandi9inna9marius]

I wish I had a dad like this. But at the same I don't want to, I learned a lot the hard way and it shaped me the way I am now. So I'd better wish there were more dads like that to teach their sons how to behave themselves with someone else's daughters. And I wish more dads understood the impact they make on their children.

[@cerulmeusenin8600]

Thank you so much, Brian🙏🏻

[@jesus-on-demand]

I teared up. You're very kind to tell the truth like it is and warn your daughter, many daughters.

[@germainenguessan3861]

Happy to have you again Sir. Stay blessed

[@Thomassina1]

Good tips, would add that solid men are v upfront about themselves and their lives - not sneaky with vague half-truths, shallow promises they later renege on and then act like it's nothing or deny saying it. They have pride and excellent follow-through, are trying to prove themselves to you (is v sweet and endearing) so you will relax and trust them. Careful when they are more concerned about their feelings rather than yours.

[@carolinahernandez2275]

Thank you so much for this video! Very helpful. God bless 🙏🏼

[@leonita2252]

Thank you so much our imaginary Dad! Our brilliant, our love life savior!, thanks Brian , you are truly a life saver ❤

[@meditaconmarina]

Love this video, Brian!

[@tishsharma414]

Yes please ! A series for all the amazing daughters would be great coming from you !

[@MessagesFromAurora]

I was skeptical but your energy has been a blessing. ✨️ thank you 💕

[@user-yc1qr5wq1p]

I love this format so much ❤

[@busybeelearning7043]

I sent the video to my daughter! Thank you!! ❤🙏

[@beckybradley5753]

That was very helpful thank you Brian

[@SuesVlog]

This was really good. Thank You!

[@saint6259]

This was an amazing format, please make more of these! I'm glad I found your channel!

[@schteffanij]

i love reading this comments here and seeing how big of a impact you are having!!!!! congratulations!!!!!

[@subspacescout9951]

Little things I learned along the way … Not words nor actions … PATTERNS. Look @ The PATTERNS, PATTERNS, PATTERNS. K … what are we looking for? All together now … ¡PATTERNSSSS! ¡Best of luck out there!

[@KaidaTheHealer]

PATTERNS PATTERNS PATTERNS 🙌🙌🙌

[@krissy.x]

Any specific patterns that stand out?

[@KaidaTheHealer]

​@@krissy.x One that I've dealt with was asking something if my partner (usually cleaning up after themselves). They'll do it for about 2 weeks, then they'll go back to their old habits. I'll ask them again to clean up after themselves. They'll do it for about 2 weeks, then go back to their old habits. Do this 5, 6, 7 times and you have a pattern. I'm not after them every two weeks about it. It's that their effort stops after two weeks. I'll give them a few weeks to a couple months (I could be giving too much time) for them to resume their efforts before I ask them again. There is no effort put forward until I ask. Once I ask, I know that effort is limited. I try to give them the benefit of the doubt and not be their mother but I always have to ask again at some point to get anything.

[@krissy.x]

@@KaidaTheHealer I’m guessing this effort (or lack thereof) can be applied to other areas of the relationship as well. Thanks

[@d0v3Tai1]

PATTERNS! Spot on! JOURNALING what someone says & does REVEAL the: PATTERNS. It'll highlight: * inconsistencies or consistencies between what is said versus done (promises, future-fakes, empty-promises) * identify potentially "bad" behavior(s) * "smirk" of schadenfreude * context of situations that may have led to "rage fits", frustration, passive aggressiveness * what motivates someone * future goals (if any) * what a person "WANTS" from you * unhealed unresolved traumas & wounds stemming from childhood, upbringing, family dynamics (dysfunctional versus healthy) * history of past relationships, how exes are described * etc.

[@nishat_zaman]

Gave this video an instant like them moment when he said "you are amazing" 🧡 The thing about self-respect is so true. If people see that you respect yourself and have high standards, they will respect you too.

[@alessia_antonia]

Yes please, a series would be great :)

[@pixels1081]

Omg this is so amazing!! Dating abvice from a guy about guys makes SO much more sense than getting advice about guys from women. Like, men have experiences being a man and therefore understand men a hell a lot better than women. This is truly a very helpful video. Thank you.😊

[@d0v3Tai1]

Funny, I asked an older gentleman friend what advice he'd give a young woman regarding dating, all he cryptically said was: * "boundaries" * "keep legs shut" [It goes to show that: Brian's content is a DEFINITE far cry from anything that likely most women have EVER been "told" or advised.]

[@pixels1081]

@d0v3Tai1 true, but I do find it makes a bit more sense than just asking someone with no experience in the subject at hand. But yes, you are very right about certain men being very misogynistic. Ugh, they're so gross...

[@d0v3Tai1]

@@pixels1081Agree. & the 'layman' dating advice was from a father (divorced, re-married), with an adult daughter (divorced, re-married), & a newborn granddaughter. Imagine these dynamics multiplied in the rest of the world -- that has implications, also, in the more than 50%+ divorce rate(s). "We don't know, what we don't know...until it's too late."

[@LoveJehovah]

You always give such good advice and you're so effortlessly funny!

[@faustin0901]

I have been watching your videos for a long time but this was the first one that made me emotional. Thank you so much for your work and yes, please to a series of these videos. ❤

[@sonasharma5109]

This was great. Waiting for the next one

[@caitlincody4203]

Thank you, Brian, really appreciated this video. Please continue to make videos in this format. I found this extremely helpful, and easy to relate to my own life.

[@loyaltylovegod3967]

Thank you Dad. You confirmed everything my real Dad told me. Thank you for this genuine video.

[@yuppers1]

I love this format! Please keep these videos coming!

[@clairexxx0405]

I Love this video and as always get so much from you're insight.... Yes I'd love you to do a series of these videos.... I've never had that guidance, sadly not all dad's care how things are. Thank you again I love it when you stay to the very end of you're videos too 😊

[@sandralosasso5657]

Brian this was $$$ I am saving this video ❤❤ Thank you 🙏🏼

[@raisa_cherry33]

Thankgoodness! i am still unmarried and watching this just when I should educate myself on such crucial issue as this ❤😊

[@FOJ2017]

This was great information. Thank you

[@marylennon1524]

Great idea for a series!

[@schteffanij]

many of us need such an imaginary father!!!! so thank you ❤️ looking fwrd to the sreies will become a classic for sure!!!

[@lillitemple3791]

This is really heartwarming! Thank you for the great video! 💖😊

[@laluna155]

Amazing, thank you for making this. I would love a series based on this style. Yes, you are right I wish you were around years ago when I was messing everything up 🤣 Better late than never! Thank you again ❤

[@WilD__EyeS_Official]

This imaginary dad is better than many dads out there.

[@phoenixhunter]

I love this video!! Please make a series !! 🫶

[@Contrarymarylibrary2]

You should definitely do more videos like this!

[@marsasd22]

Thank you SO much for creating this video

[@irmaperez9995]

Absolutely loved this!! Please continue to make these

[@missmlb3842]

This was amazing! Yes I do wish I had heard this when I was younger. It's never too late to learn something like this I learned so much in this video. Thank you for sharing

[@studiosandi]

Thank you for taking the time to make this video. So much good information was shared.❤