Don’t spit in the bowl you once ate from.

[@4kon6]

This video was so helpful for me tbh, a lot of it made me think of a friend I had a bit ago who would speak badly about me to our mutual friends when it came to every little thing that they found annoying. I had noticed this trend as they would rant about people I knew to me to the point it felt like they had a habit of going down this negative spiral when something that wasn't too serious (like not talking everyday) bothered them. It became something I wasn't willing to tolerate so I 100% agree that if you can't tolerate something it's a good reason to begin contemplating whether or not the friendship is adding value to your life

[@dimalyadt]

omggg i'm so happy this video helped!!!! Tbh you hit the nail in the head about the fact that they were talking badly about you to your other friends, and rant to you about other people. I feel like there's nothing wrong with ranting here and there if something bothers u to a friend that might be closer to u in the group; but seems like it was a pattern!! It legit follows the golden rule of whatever they say about others to you is what they do to you as well behind your back. Tbh i'd reevaluate not only your friendship with that individual but as well the people who sat by and let them talk abt you!!!