leaving things for the sake of Allah
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start gatekeeping yourself
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start with what you have
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bad chapters make good stories
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people change, let them
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never get out of character.
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@ericwhoami
@ericwhoami 2 күн бұрын
oww amazing video, are u muslim?? how can i talk with u pls
@najmamohamed4654
@najmamohamed4654 4 күн бұрын
Struggling with the same thing currently sis, thanks for taking the time to make a video on this topic <3
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 4 күн бұрын
my pleasure!!!! glad this resonated with you!!!! May Allah ease our affairs, it gets easier !!!
@tahjanjoki2940
@tahjanjoki2940 4 күн бұрын
I would leave make up sis first them music ..and so on
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 4 күн бұрын
you know yourself best! May Allah enable you to leave whatever you're struggling with, in whatever order He SWT finds fitting , Ameen !
@saraturz
@saraturz 3 күн бұрын
You’re weird. I would learn to advise people in a respectful way rather than being condescending. Do better.
@samihakhondoker2456
@samihakhondoker2456 5 күн бұрын
best timing sis
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 3 күн бұрын
glad this resonated with you sisss!!!!
@urfairy0Z
@urfairy0Z 5 күн бұрын
I've got this on loop while I'm planning my week. appreciate you 💕🤌🏻🌎❤️‍🩹
@serp1806
@serp1806 5 күн бұрын
Please 🙏 daughter don’t let your mind decide you for nothing, for nothing good 👍 come out from Allah but letting people go to an early grave, all about Allah is dead 💀 and lives indeed he is a father of all bad things that happening today in the world 🌎, imagine if I tell you most of the Muslims countries are not peaceful, you will not going to believe me for telling you the truths because telling the truths before Allah is bitter, because SATAN don’t like truths he like the lies only but I know if you have darkness of Allah in your heart ♥️, you will not go to believe me in this and if you are surly an educated woman as you speaking in English now, you should have avoid Allah because he doesn’t take women likes 👍 human being, that why he compares you women with black dog 🐩 and all the animals, as me I don’t believe in such devil 👿 who let 54 years old fake prophet Muhammad married 6 years old child Aisha and destroyed her little private part in the age of 9 while the Lucifer prophet turn to 57 years old, that why all his evil 👿 followers are still married kids today in the age of 8,9,10,11,12,13,14,15, and some of those ages die with kids in theirs wombs, because they don’t have open womb yet they are just kids doing theirs kids thing, I watched one video went 10 years old pregnant 🫃 girl passed away with child in her stomach, indeed in Islam ☪️ men are cancer ♋️ to women I was one ☝️ born in this cult culture but I begin to know who is the true creator between Allah and Jesus, and I begin to know that Jesus is lord indeed and we all shall pass in his presence to the Father 👨, we all been tough That the gospel was given to Jesus but all are lies as Allah himself, when I learned English and read the God words I found out that the Gospel was not given to Jesus( but his own teaching that the Gospel is call the LORD WORD and if you don’t read the New Testament go and google it, the Old Testament from the genesis chapter 1 is talking about trinity and the the creation of the world went the spirit of God on the water 💦 and the father and the son was on throne, I Punic went I found father, son and the Holy Spirit in the first page of the genesis because I didn’t give SATAN Allah room to overshadow my heart 💜 again now I know the truth, because the truths I get are not in the Quran while the Quran said it confirming ✅ what is written before but I didn’t found in the Old Testament and the New Testament when GOD said, don’t kill , don’t rape, don’t steal, don’t desire your neighbour wife,thou shall shalt not commit adultey, remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy, have we keep it holy than praying on Friday which is not mentioned in the Old Testament, have we thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image while we have a big black house 🏡 in Mecca 🕋 with 8 stone on it, have we Honour thy father and mother, have we obey God in the Old Testament went he said thou shalt not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, and the first important thing is that which is no 1 thou shalt have no others gods before me as false Angel Gabriel and fake prophet Muhammad the prophet of women private part brought Allah Lucifer to make us forget the Holy day which is on SABBATH to be forgotten by all Muslims.
@Days6281
@Days6281 5 күн бұрын
Don't be too hard on yourself sister. The Quran came down over 23 years precisely to give people back then the time to ADAPT their lives to God's law. So please don't rush. Learn, secure your livelihood, talk to scholars, and go slowly. If you jump in the swimming pool too quick, it might be too cold for you and you might end up jumping out of it as quickly as you got into it. (those were my two cents, not a scholar)
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 3 күн бұрын
thank you for your kind words and thoughtful tips!!!! And I definitely agree, we too often bite off more than we can chew, and end up spitting out the piece all together!!! May Allah make it easy on us all, Ameen!!!
@Days6281
@Days6281 3 күн бұрын
@@dimalyadt Ameen!
@RebirthoftheSpiritualChosenOne
@RebirthoftheSpiritualChosenOne 5 күн бұрын
Well, you are so pretty with amazing eyes 😍🙏✝️☪️🧚🏻‍♀️✡️❤️
@haifawb8129
@haifawb8129 5 күн бұрын
Used to addicted to music it was legit my whole personality, stopping was truly one of the most difficult thing to do this video hit the spot <333 May Allah reward you sis
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 4 күн бұрын
Ameeeen!!! nothing good comes easy!!! ️❤ you're always welcome sis
@MyriamB1111
@MyriamB1111 5 күн бұрын
Well said!
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 4 күн бұрын
thank you sis!!!!!
@ye4smin
@ye4smin 7 күн бұрын
you’re amazing 🩷
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 7 күн бұрын
awww, appreciate you fr!!! ❤️
@mariyam9861
@mariyam9861 19 күн бұрын
such a great social commentary, and I absolutely appreciate how you organized your video into different sections with sentences summing up the proper attitude. You discussed so many great topics about the bueaty standard, low self-esteem, changing social standards, fatphobia, colorism, etc all comes together!! ur a genius, gorgeous, and a beautiful soul <3
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 7 күн бұрын
thank you so much sis!!!! i'm so impressed how you were able to sum up in a nutshell all the overt/covert concepts of the video!! I'm so glad you resonated with this video and tysmmm!!! ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
@TV-yn4fn
@TV-yn4fn 24 күн бұрын
it's like I can feel your gentle spirit through the screen
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 7 күн бұрын
awwww ❤️
@najmamohamed4654
@najmamohamed4654 25 күн бұрын
I really like the video idea about modesty. Can’t wait to watch if you make it. Could you also make a video about giving something up for the sake of Allah and sticking to it?
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 7 күн бұрын
yess , i'm gonna try to drop it this week inshaAllah ❤️
@Radiantanab
@Radiantanab 29 күн бұрын
First of all your skin is glowing allahuma barik ❤ MashaAllah tabarakaAllah! Also you’re right , people give evil eye too much power lol just do your adkaar prayer and you will be protected divinely 🤲🏽🫶🏽
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 7 күн бұрын
exactlyy!!!! ❤️ May Allah protect us, always!!! TYSM SIS ❤️
@ourlittlemelody
@ourlittlemelody Ай бұрын
just found this channel but i love you so much for this like this video makes me feel so much better 😭😭
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
I'm glad you stumbled on this videoo!!!! My pleasure!! <3
@safiya1363
@safiya1363 Ай бұрын
The obsession with getting married young (esp. for women) has resulted in soo many divorces
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
yess!!! divorces sometimes as the least of worse outcomes, sometimes it has lead to worse.. abuse ect!!
@awaaa4767
@awaaa4767 Ай бұрын
I honestly never been on a relationship and I am still waiting to find a good man.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
and you will!!! Insha Allah!!
@larabraver
@larabraver Ай бұрын
What an insightful, important talk, Sister Dimalya ❤, jazakumullahu khayran. May Allah bless us all with tranquility, love and pious spouses. Btw, you look just like my dear friend's daughter and you speak like her, masha Allah.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your comments!!!❤️❤️ i really appreciate you taking the time to leave such nice words!! Ameen x100 , and Wow what a coincidence!!!
@larabraver
@larabraver Ай бұрын
Masha Allah, beautiful talk. Dimalya, you have been blessed with wisdom at a young age; may Allah increase you and increase you in goodness ❤️
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
ameen sis❤️ may Allah enable us to grow and learn form eachother and may he also increase you in goodness and grant you a long & healthy life❤️
@yasminesaid3651
@yasminesaid3651 Ай бұрын
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@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
gladdd this video resonated with you Yasmine!!!!!!!!
@ayal2199
@ayal2199 Ай бұрын
wow jazakallahkhair for this video, tbh I really needed this :)
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Ameen, you’re welcome Aya!!!!! 💕
@Tess-tr4rh
@Tess-tr4rh Ай бұрын
You are beautiful by the way! Your lips, eyes and your nose! You are beautiful girl! 😊❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
you can only perceive beauty when you yourself are beautiful so i'm simply mirroring you!!!thank you for your comment❤❤❤!!!
@katechipata9934
@katechipata9934 Ай бұрын
Evil eye can come from co-workers in toxic work environments. Some people are really desperate and it's sad.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Yes, especially in the workforce or in highly competitive areas, people can always be watching to see who might climb higher than them. This kind of negativity can come from strangers and people close to you alike. For me, I always keep Ayat al-Kursi (the Verse of the Throne) close, the moment I sense weird energy.
@katechipata9934
@katechipata9934 Ай бұрын
In my experience, evil eye mostly comes from some family and close "friends". That's why I don't have friends now. They were cool with me when I was struggling or when they felt superior to me. They started to resent my small and big wins. They disliked the fact I had good experiences in work and school. You're right that it helps not to be too showy. I have never been a showy person and my stuff sometimes look more expensive that it really is. And I agree that sometimes we can be our own worst enemy. I had a lot of self-doubt in my 20s and the fake friends chipped away at my self-esteem over several years. I should have had the strength to cut them off at the first sign of disrespect. There was a lot of passive aggressiveness and backhanded compliments dished out by those friends.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Wow! 100 facts!! You should definitely watch my jealousy video. I talk about how people can seem happy and supportive as long as your success feels smaller than theirs, but the moment you start achieving-even small wins-they might resent it. I saw something on Pinterest about people envying you even when you're not yet where you want to be. It’s wild! It shows how they sometimes see potential in you that you may not have tapped into or even realized. It’s true that, sometimes, the people who give you the 'evil eye' are actually the ones closest to you. And I agree-it’s often not about being showy. Even when you’re humble, sometimes your presence, charisma, or the way you carry yourself is enough to make them uncomfortable. I’ve also noticed that, while navigating friendships, some people will make you question the concept of friendship altogether. But, I have some incredible women in my life who truly support me and pour positivity into me. The most important friendship is with yourself. When you’re your own best friends, it’s easier to avoid those who disturb your inner peace. I can relate to the feeling of regret for not cutting off toxic connections sooner before they grew into a maze of negativity. Like you said, there can be so much passive-aggressiveness and backhanded compliments that slowly chip away at your self-esteem. But as I mentioned at the end of the video, those experiences become valuable learning curves and make you appreciate your true friends even more!❤❤
@MunaSheriff-r7j
@MunaSheriff-r7j Ай бұрын
Hi, Dimalya. I am new to your channel, and I really enjoyed your video. Your message really resonated with me, and I too am in a period of my life where I find myself wondering about the things that you have discussed throughout your clip. Being someone that is always growing and trying to find ways to evolve, it can be hurtful beyond words when you feel like your efforts are constantly being undermined and/or overlooked. I know what it feels like to feel confined and bound to the past, or parts of yourself that you are not proud of despite your attempts to become a healthier version of yourself now because of the words, judgement, and actions of other people. It's really not easy at all, but this was a beautiful reminder to press forward despite the opinions of naysayers and people who are determined (and I do mean determined 😅) to misunderstand, misconstrue, and dislike you by learning to be at peace with the reality of people not being at peace with you. I believe that some people's actions of constantly criticizing you when you are trying to do better is a form of spiritual warfare to keep you stagnant, and trick you back into old habits-but in the end, I believe we will come out on the other side stronger. You have earned a new subscriber, and I'm looking forward to continue following and supporting you in your KZbin journey. 💕
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Hi Muna! First of all, thank you so much for this thoughtful comment and for being here-I’m truly grateful you enjoyed the video and that it resonated with you. It’s incredible how, even miles apart, we can go through such similar journeys. I totally relate to what you shared about being in a period of growth and constantly seeking ways to evolve. It can be so painful when your efforts feel undermined or overlooked, especially by people who seem determined to misunderstand, judge, or keep you bound to a version of yourself you’ve worked hard to outgrow. I know the weight of feeling confined to past mistakes or traits that no longer define who you are now. It’s tough when others try to anchor you to that, making it seem like progress is impossible. But as you mentioned, finding peace with the reality that some people may never find peace with you is powerful. This journey isn’t easy, but it’s worth it, and realizing that we are the ones shaping our own stories is freeing. I truly believe, just like you, that sometimes this judgment and criticism is a test to keep us stagnant-a form of spiritual resistance. But by pushing through, we’re building strength to come out better on the other side. People will talk, and they may even call it hypocritical, but the bad chapters still make good stories.Thank you so much for supporting my journey, I’m so glad to have you here. We’re all growing and learning from each other, God willing! ❤❤❤
@adventuresofgreatness2591
@adventuresofgreatness2591 Ай бұрын
I followed you because I needed to hear this..❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
glad you stumbled on this beautifullll❤
@delightfuldaisy3520
@delightfuldaisy3520 Ай бұрын
Hii, I love your channel. You’re so well spoken and I love the topics you cover. New subby, please keep posting. I need genuine and informed people to listen to ❤️✨
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Thank you!!!! Glad you found me!!! hope you continue to resonate with my content!! ❤️❤️❤️
@pretaporterp
@pretaporterp Ай бұрын
It is an Islamic concept! The 3 ways dua is answered is 1. You get it. 2. It is deferred/delayed (in this life). 3. Granted/given better in the hereafter. And it's said that the 3rd one is better. But in the worldly life, it's not easy! Ive recently realized that it is only my responsibility to make my best effort, and then the outcome is none of business (bc it's up to Allah swt).
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
I'm glad it actually was an islamic concept!!!! May Allah enable us to always be mindful that His (SWT) plan is always better than ours!!! Thanks for your insightful comment!!!! :)))
@orangeblacq
@orangeblacq Ай бұрын
Whats ur tiktok babes
@BlackandGreenRecipes
@BlackandGreenRecipes Ай бұрын
You are BEAUTIFUL by the way ! I love your baby face and the gentlness of your voice 🤗
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
thank you so much!!!! appreciate youu!!!!❤️
@khadijadiallo8895
@khadijadiallo8895 Ай бұрын
Loved all of it! May Allah Bless everything shared❤️
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
ameen siss , tysm for your comment !! appreciate u ❤!!
@farahhansen8206
@farahhansen8206 Ай бұрын
MashaAllah you are so beautiful ❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
thank you !!! so are you!!! ❤
@yerushalom87
@yerushalom87 Ай бұрын
So true 🕊️
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
factsss
@Motunrayooo
@Motunrayooo Ай бұрын
youre smart. i like smart people. subscribed!!!!
@agratarana1569
@agratarana1569 Ай бұрын
omg girl your so pretty!
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
awww thank you sm appreciate u !!!! ❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
i second this , she's stunning!!!
@Lola-l8c9r
@Lola-l8c9r Ай бұрын
You're right 😢
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
glad this resonated with u!!!!
@najmamohamed4654
@najmamohamed4654 Ай бұрын
This is so me, no relationship is worth continuing once my trust is broken because I’ll always feel like they’ll do it again. Its not fair to say you forgive but hold it over the person inside so parting ways is the only thing to do
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
1000% agree, i cant love the same twice, its never gonna be the same and i prefer keep it pushing and just have our good memories together!!
@warisatilola
@warisatilola Ай бұрын
I just discovered ur channel today and I just love ur contents.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
thank you so much!!! means a lot!!!!
@Zuziasiousxie
@Zuziasiousxie Ай бұрын
How am i finding out about you just now you deserve more subs
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
awww tysm!!! ❤ apreciate u!!!!
@ElizabethWu-z9n
@ElizabethWu-z9n Ай бұрын
You are definitely glowing and exude a lot of natural beauty ❤ thanks for sharing ❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
You’re so sweet!!! Thank you so much! ❤
@FeseMbile
@FeseMbile Ай бұрын
I love your videos, wow! You are so full of Knowledge :))
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
You're so sweet!!!! Thanks for the love!❤️ I
@FeseMbile
@FeseMbile Ай бұрын
Very Beautiful, and thoughtful video. Thank you. I am considered conventionally attractive and do have those moments where I see a Beautiful woman and feel less beautiful (though I always acknowledge their beauty and would even give compliments); however, I'm mostly always self-conscious about my style lol. (Unpopular Opinion) I do think it's also important to understand your triggers. Mine personally is overstimulation. At big events I'm not usually self-conscious because I'm insecure and think I'm Ugly, I start to feel insecure when I am overly stimulated.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤️ I really appreciate your insightful comment! I agree; no amount of self-care or confidence can fully prevent those feelings, especially when we see someone we perceive as more attractive. However, as you mentioned, complimenting and acknowledging their beauty always helps me ground myself in my own beauty! Absolutely! Self-knowledge is so key. I find overstimulation as a trigger really interesting-I hadn’t thought of that, and it could be one of mine, too, since I often feel overstimulated at big events. Personally, my trigger is usually when I don’t feel at my best, whether it's my outfit, accessories, makeup, etc. If I leave home feeling like I’m at a 10, no one I see outside will make me feel otherwise. But if I leave feeling like I didn’t put together the best look or rushed my accessories and makeup, I’m more likely to feel insecure at the event!
@riekraptor0815
@riekraptor0815 Ай бұрын
Thank you for speaking about this! :)
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
you're welcome & glad you enjoyed !!❤
@xya3835
@xya3835 Ай бұрын
Thank you, I really needed to hear this ❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
you're welcome!!! glad I could be of benefit!!!❤
@koramccarter3625
@koramccarter3625 Ай бұрын
Period
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
!!!!
@thetamekanicole
@thetamekanicole Ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt Ай бұрын
thank you !!❤❤❤
@francescajohnson6868
@francescajohnson6868 2 ай бұрын
Take the thorn out of your own eye, that is your neighbors business, what you do in private people can see as well, who is it affecting even though it is your own glutton, pray for people and ask God to change your surroundings but to cause disruption because a smell is affecting you, well gluttony is too. And this is not to be mean, I am also a sinner, but I’m not bothering other people about their sin.
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 2 ай бұрын
I thank you for your perspective and taking the time to share your thoughts!! might I add, I like the metaphysical dimension you added to it, but unfortunately some lifestyle habits that neighbours adopt, have tangible effects on people and their health. the "smell" In my case is second hand smoke on their part which heavily affects my asthmatic relative's health. So as much as I would like to pray it away the direct reality is that we either live with it or say something!
@AD-qm3bv
@AD-qm3bv 2 ай бұрын
As a muslim woman how can you defend the verse in the Quran where beating your wife is permissible? Genuine question . Looked into Islam a while back to seek God and this verse had me stumped. Additionally you sound like a very reasonable and well judged character, so im curious to know you views. On polygamy. Would you be able to do a video on hard topics for women in Islam? As well as the S*x slaves /concubines , hadith on angels cursing women for refusing to sleep with husband ext thank you
@hangettingstronger
@hangettingstronger 2 ай бұрын
Sis this is a Wendys
@AD-qm3bv
@AD-qm3bv 2 ай бұрын
@@hangettingstronger 🤣🤣🤣🤣 nah fr tho
@tasleyaaatv1440
@tasleyaaatv1440 2 ай бұрын
Wise words ❤️❤️
@dimalyadt
@dimalyadt 2 ай бұрын
thank you and appreciate your support sm!! ❤️❤️
@DavidBaker-o1m
@DavidBaker-o1m 2 ай бұрын
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