Don't Stare! 21 Eye Contact Rules For Men (Attraction, Non-Awkward, Authority, Confidence)

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Here’s a little-known fact. If you want someone to remember your words… make eye contact. WATCH NEXT: 10 Tips To Eliminate Self-Doubt Forever - kzbin.info/www/bejne/j6mQhGqsZr9qnaM

[@R4M1R0MC]

Hey, could you do a video about gloves?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

R4M1R0MC - Perfect for this season. Thanks for the video idea. 😁

[@keithbussanich]

that sticky eyes concept does work. also make sure when using make it the left half of your face as that has been proved to be more attractive

[@roger8654]

Staring for too long is off putting and comes off as too aggressive

[@capital4417]

Real Men Real Style I am from Russia and watch your original channel, you are a winner

[@alphastrength3402]

50%talking, 70%listening, 120%being a gentleman

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Absolutely!

[@dakillah6018]

nice one Alpha. Its about being respectful and geting that respect back my boy.

[@unoriginalfilms3458]

I just noticed Antonio never blinks.

[@MrDoverfield]

Maxwell Nassiri-Shahroudi Blinking is for the weak 😂

[@MrRake-jk5dq]

Same. He just doesn't blink.

[@aimanhakimalhamd5747]

Well, he does. Twice here 2:45

[@9385dee7]

Power move.

[@keithbussanich]

He is a former Marine. They are not allowed to blink. Blinking wastes too much time

[@tobiasL1991]

For someone with autism, this is a great help, to actually get the intell in a condensed format how to make eye contact. Great video!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I'm glad to hear that this video helped in making eye contact. Thanks for being here TobiasL1991. 👍

[@unkraut7427]

@@RealMenRealStyle It is great to get some numbers instead of "just do it right", it helps me too.

[@arielvagus1618]

I believe that 60 - 70% eye contact when talking to a person is perfect. It makes them feel connected and yet at the same time, it makes them feel like they need to work harder, and put in more effort.

[@jarredknight9234]

I,m a 42 year old unemployed oil field worker, your videos have changed my life, thank you.

[@brycechapman3173]

Hey Antonio, I’m a Special Education teacher in Minnesota who recently discovered your channel. I’ve got to thank you for helping me level up my professionalism and communication skills. I wasn’t necessarily suffering in these areas before. However I’ve been able to make some changes which should help me increase the productivity of interactions with colleagues and parents.-with the ultimate goal of becoming a better educator and increasing student achievement. Thanks so much for your help in this journey!

[@Salvation-Damnation]

Antonio is the gentleman we deserve but not the one we need right now, so we'll hunt him, because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector, a dark gentleman.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

This comment is gold. 😂

[@NewNChrist]

😂😂😂😂

[@dragannikcevic9928]

Lol

[@Catholic-Redpilled-Spaniard]

I love these videos. When I watch them,I realize I already do these things. You feel like a king when that's the case. Thanks Antonio!

[@yuanwullink64]

I felt unconfomrtable with the eye contact with you trhough the screen. After watching i understood why... Blink more... Please 😂

[@RealMenRealStyle]

😂

[@hewhositsuponfroggychair5722]

He just blinks when you do.

[@arvindwee4634]

She looks at you: Oh! She likes me! She doesn't look at you: She's nervous, Oh! She likes me!

[@christianalvarez7898]

That "blink if you want me " mentality

[@TheLifeFormulaa]

Great stuff! Its easy to have eye contact while listening but sometimes you might not show eye contact while speaking to someone

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Isn't it awkward not to have eye contact while talking to someone?

[@danutprecup7884]

Dope video as always! Thanks Antonio!

[@azwarmuharram2399]

Nice info. I was looking for this and glad I found it here.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Happy to hear you find these tips useful.

[@xainmohamed1535]

these videos are really helpful!! keep up the great work

[@laxmannaikwadi371]

458 likes and 3 dislikes. Holy crap. Thank u Antonio for ur regular uploads. I needed it very much.

[@akumtongtimchen3511]

Wow great video...Confidence = Strong Eye Contact

[@rabignall]

You hit it again! Every video I learn something. Please keep it up. Thank you.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Hi Rick - Thanks! #Antonioneverstops

[@vinayakaery8788]

Sir I am from India and I admire you a lot . You are really doing a great job by helping everyone to change his personality and increase confidence. A true friend Thanks

[@declanoloughlin8649]

Thanks for the manual blinking

[@hansgruber7408]

Good tip on the “figuring out eye color” vs staring “elsewhere”. Thanks!

[@TheRealhippy]

I appreciate this. I usually hold eye contact too long , no blinking and have been told it’s intimidating.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I'm glad this video helped you realize that. It can be pretty intimidating if you don't blink. 😁

[@damanjitsingh1445]

Thanks a lot for providing the needful information

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

The funny thing is a lot of guys make the mistake of staring at a woman’s chest.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Haha - that's why I'm redirecting you to the oval section of the eye area. 😏

[@michaelip1569]

Especially their eyes keep tracking 🤦

[@yaribins5754]

well you're making eye contact just with different eyes

[@Matt_Nor]

I'd happily stare at a woman's chest. It is said to be healthy and reduce the risk of cancer by a certain drop rate. I ain't taking any chances. Some of the girls (i) have come across think it is funny too. It may perhaps be the way i deal with the situation in a very confident way. But it is not very nice to stare at her chest, so go grab your sunglasses and pretend you are Stevie Wonder. I promise she will notice though.

[@MightySavagE]

YES, I WONDER WHY xD

[@dk-sky3820]

"Don't stare at her chest" Okay, so there is also a condition of situation you are in. I'll explain: Yes, staring aka looking at something for a long period of time is never a good idea. However glancing is acceptable, if it's not in a working surrounding and the mood is more intimate than usual. Imagine if a woman is attracted to you - suddenly she starts to make unaware movements (or sometimes she's perfectly aware of them) - particularly, touching her blouse or the edges of her cleavage, or maybe her legs and thighs. These are the signals she's giving to you as she tries to attract your attention to these areas, and if your eyes follow her hand movements - you're giving a signal back to her that you're interested in her as well. Being polite and avoid looking at her feminine parts is good thing for nice guys to be acceptable in society.. And then they'll be heading home alone and taking a cold shower. But sometimes you need to be more assertive if you are interested in this girl and not only she allows it, but also sort of _expects_ it from you. Just read the body language and learn how to interpret situations.

[@drevildog1]

Talking to the women and being able to remember their eye color is always a killer. Just the appreciation that we pay attention.

[@frankpichardo5299]

This helped, I’m not originally from the US, although I’ve lived here for a long time and I’ve assimilated, I needed to clarify that eye contact aspect. It is said that eye contact is important in the American culture, but I was never sure how long or how to properly do it. A staring contest seemed too much to me, haha!

[@robertbeauchamp4031]

Lol

[@RealMenRealStyle]

3-5 seconds would be the perfect time to hold eye contact.

[@PracticalInspiration]

Fantastic video Antonio! This was a great take on eye contact, I did a video myself, but it's a little different in what it aims to provide :)

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Happy Facts Lifestyle - I'm glad you guys enjoyed it. What's the video title?

[@ert90ful]

Really great video as always! Favourite tip: someone who you stare at will be more truthful

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Diesis - I like that tip too.

[@bikereparen1274]

How i got more confidence? 1. Think why you are shy. Which reason find it. 2. What is difference btw you and others (answear nothing) than why you should be shy:)

[@frankmurphy38]

I've been missing videos without advertising and sponsoring. Thank you, Antonio! Every other 1m+ KZbinr cannot skip a video without one. So sad :(

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Hey Frank - You should watch more of my videos. I do film non sponsored videos every week. 😏😁

[@NDakota79]

Great tips! I know my smile is my weakness so I practice it in front of a mirror. That gives me confidence in real world situations.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Practice makes a lotof difference.

[@dumitrustati1508]

Thank you very much for this video❤️

[@FrankE.Stein-nh2mm]

I'm watching this video because I'm going on a first date with a gorgeous women tomorrow night and it helped I'm alot less nervous on how to present myself THANK YOU!

[@huzaifahuzaifa6606]

Good JOB .Nothing can be more true Sir Antonio. I wish they taught us this gold in school. I lost my first job because the Head was disgusted of my eye stance and the facial expressions and he ofcourse made me leave within a week.

[@RonGlace]

The timing on this is perfect. After a conversation (whether with a woman, friend or coworker) I always feel that I could've made more eye contact. Definitely going to work on this more.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Sounds great - I love that you guys are taking action with these tips.

[@timjohnson2952]

Wow Great stuff Antonio! This is Awesome! I have horrible eye contact... I need to work on it I look all over the place when I talk to women not her chest particular the floor and the ceiling mostly. Really insightful and helpful. I have a lot to digest to night!

[@angryhobbit5919]

VERY interesting. Good info. As a high functioning autistic, eye contact is a HUGE challenge for me, including when making a video. For some mysterious reason, making eye contact with the audience while dancing is easier for me than when speaking.

[@SteveFlanigan]

I have noticed that with strangers, say in a grocery store, if you make casual, non-threatening, (staring or leering) eye contact with a male, they will typically keep the contact and usually it is followed up with a nod, a smile or a casual "hello". Now if this stranger happens to be a woman, I have found that most of the time they will break eye contact immediately and look away or their eye contact even if you caught them looking at you first. Most women do not like to make eye contact with others unless they know the person.

[@BearCreekWoodworking]

Great Tips Antonio!!! Eye contact is very important!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You got that right.

[@charlie.b.vegastella8326]

Nice Tips, Appreciate what ur doing Man💯👌

[@thomasbayer2832]

Excellent advice and wise words ☝🏻

[@jollyday6]

i Make eye contact i forget what they are talking....few seconds later...in my mind... oops wat the said ooo my god lets pretend im listening... lol

[@wiktormansel]

Just laugh and hope it wasn't a question eh?

[@unkraut7427]

@@FearInTha I use the "I know where this is leading but I need more infos, more details" expression. Works for me most of the time and either they tell you the details and I get the bridge or I get a summary.

[@unkraut7427]

@@FearInTha Best chances with this "knowing" nod

[@neenabudha7687]

Lol this happens to me every time😂😂

[@higg13001]

I use the long eye contact technique during interrogations. Works pretty well. Eye contact in social setting can be a problem though. Scanning your surroundings gets to be a habit.

[@RynoBS]

Just Look At Eyes Colour THATS THE AMAZING TIP IT HELPS PRETTY MUCH

[@jcforcearcher]

Thank you sir. Learned and applied many things from your videos.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I love that you're applying it. Thanks Jason.

[@gabrielmichael1899]

Thanks.this is what im looking for.

[@ack377]

wow...so nicely made video for such a important topic,u owe a hats off again Antonio!!!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Love that you guys leave comments here about the importance of the video topic. Thank you! 😁

[@ravipeiris4388]

Great video 👌

[@irishmcmilan6043]

Great one

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Irish - Which trick did you find most interesting?

[@irishmcmilan6043]

@@RealMenRealStyle eye contact speaks more than words it is really interesting!! And solved my long time question: Why people don't remember what I say rather they easily get others? Thanks a lot and I just subscribed today for your channel you are awesome!! ...sorry for lengthy reply.

[@vaibhavvarma5578]

Solid video Antonio. I’ll definitely keep these tips in my arsenal!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Sounds great! 😁

[@Nikita-zk2gy]

Thank you, man, for this useful advices! Looking forward to your next vidio!

[@ponokunishima1]

The last part, “Stares at them like he’s in love” I like that! Very funny! Awesome video, I liked this one! This is what we’re trying to teach my nephews and niece, but mainly my nephews, they need to work on that, but as time goes on, they will. They’re only 9 and 11 years old.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Love this plan - keep it up! 😁👍

[@ponokunishima1]

Real Men Real Style Thanks Antonio!

[@gabrielrubio6706]

Thank you and I like it all and need it

[@skullj2872]

You need that 95%+ eye contact with 1-5 blinks per minute as well as a slight narrow of the eye brows.

[@setho7496]

finally a video with fresh content. haven't been clicking on your videos in a while...

[@RealMenRealStyle]

SethO- Glad to have you back. Would love to hear your thoughts on videos you want to see here.

[@setho7496]

Anything new that you haven't really covered in detail in past videos basically. Being quite vague here because I'm open to any new content you have to offer. My problem was with content/information that was already mentioned in previous videos and therefore, made your videos quite "repetitive" in that sense. Things like how to tie ties, shoes, things like that? Even though the entire video wasn't focused on those things, they did appear now and then. But I find your videos on e.g. the amazon shipping service, interesting and worth watching. Hope this clarifies

[@ShahidhameedUSA]

Thanks for this great information 😊

[@danielmikkelsen5470]

I find that Burst training or HIIT gives me a very good intuitive eye.contact ability and attentiveness! Maybe because it's a great way to make you alert during the days after the training

[@gamewatch9011]

He doesnt blink D:

[@RealMenRealStyle]

😂

[@shafserious2805]

His a shaytan!!!

[@GreekOrthodox7]

Shaf Serious Quran was written by Shaytan

[@joshpowell4385]

Nod your head "like your listening" Cause why would we really listen to people. 😂

[@klaasvanoosterhout9263]

Fantastic video Antonio! Great work.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks Klaas.

[@jkphilosophy]

I've been told by a couple of people that I blink a lot and now I just never blink. Another thing is that I never have smiled to a woman I don't have a conversation with but I might do that to men or elderly people.

[@charlesyoung9980]

Stevie Wonder loves this video.

[@twinturbo1575]

Gracias Antonio, saludos desde Venezuela! mucha calidad tus videos!! te felicito!

[@Zeeman86]

Thank you for the tips, Antonio. This video helps a great deal

[@pappatimvw]

Excellent My interpersonal communications teacher has put you in my life. Very good stuff. I am an overt person larger than life how about jokes? when is appropriate to joke. Should I avoid jokes? No off color jokes for sure. I consider myself shy until.... bam then its like people are my best friends how can I avoid this. have an awesome day.....

[@thomashobbes7429]

Your videos are so informative! Love it.

[@abhiiinavvvvv.v]

Thanks for the video there are some tips that are helpful for me as I usually do when I see a pretty women

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Gaming Bar - Happy to hear that. Let me know which tip works best for you.

[@darkdragonite316]

My God i needed this one so much,i just cant look at someone in eyes no matter what I do .

[@t_tgamer786]

As a speaker eye contact comes naturally with confidence, as per for listeners eye contact can be maintained provided it dosent fall in the mentally awkward state, overall as always great tips antonio need to start practising the timings...hahaha!!!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Sounds great - I like your plan. 😁

[@higg13001]

As a LEO, when working, I do not maintain more than 1-2 seconds of eye contact before checking my surroundings, (for safety reasons). Unfortunately that practice bleeds over into civilian life when off duty. And yes, the long stare is a good interrogation technique. I make sure my eyes are 'wide' and blink infrequently when putting it into practice. Stay safe!

[@r0e404]

LEO?

[@prashantgusain8157]

Antonio you should write a book & it should be made compulsory till high school.🤘

[@immanuelss1408]

Thank you for making these types of videos .They are very useful to me 😊😊😊😊😊

[@RealMenRealStyle]

And I love filming these videos for you guys. 😁

[@abdur716]

Sir you are a genius !!!

[@WLOfails]

Wasn't even aware of this, but I definitely need it.

[@kevinpont1804]

VERY informative video!! This vid. gives us some good tricks & tips on improving our eye contact… I love how you touched on the topic about cultures who MAY have different eye contact etiquette… It was very pivotal you included that, and it also shows that it might not be a, “one size fits all” approach for everyone in the world… So I also would like to add, that there are a lot of people, (mostly men) who have ADD, ADHD, and even Aspergers who are not made famous for maintaining eye contact as indicated AND demonstrated in this video… These individuals are also known to be intelligent, productive, trustworthy, and confident in their OWN way… It might be a thing for us to keep in mind… Do you disagree!?

[@manuels8240]

When Antonio was talking about blinking too much or too little he doesn‘t blink from 6:04 until 7:01

[@amarsingh-xc9un]

Thank you

[@WinsomeJohnny]

Blinking!..Very cool vid.

[@lefteristsakiris7172]

AMAZING VIDEO ANTONIO

[@Sy2023hk]

Think there's too many rules that it actually makes it uncomfortable to talk for fear of being judged. Think the only rule you need is be yourself and learn to be comfortable with yourself.

[@afonsobelocastilho3121]

Very useful! Fantastic!

[@olgaortiz436]

I shared this with about 25 male, cousins thank you so much for the tips......

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You rock Olga!

[@cameronthomas3398]

Here is my problem I came here to solve: I may hold too much eye contact with short conversations. Also, I just found out that I may be a robot because I drink a lot of water and I blink around 2-3 times/minute. Plz help

[@ManishaSingh-dx2vo]

This man is awesome

[@srinumannem5726]

Sir really I satisfy I love this vedio sir I hope you will brings more thank you for the session

[@sumsularifmohammadmusa5386]

Would u please published a vedio about Fashion / style for doctors

[@theguyfromacrosstheb]

So much information.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Did you like the video? 😁

[@theguyfromacrosstheb]

This is some grade A information. I learned a lot. But now this means that I'm aware of my faults and I can't be lazy about my bad habits. Great video, as a matter of fact.

[@nmfl100]

Great advice, thanks

[@mattfinish2196]

I have always wondered about this. Thanks!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

You're welcome Matt!

[@gator2155]

Very good info for success. ON point!

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Thanks Gator 126 - love hearing that it's this video is great for being successful. Enjoyed filming it too. 😁

[@AlanMDee]

Have you ever done a video about what to do or wear at places like the mall or little league games/sporting events or barbecues. Places where the mood is a bit lighter, more fun and chill?

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Tito - Not specifically for these events but I filmed videos on casual style that applies to this too. www.realmenrealstyle.com/search-results/?q=casual+videos

[@GotirisLp]

so after Antonio mentioned blinking, I started paying attention if he blinked, and I count one blink at the very end, two if you count the outro. Man, you really could force the truth out of someone with that stare.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

😂😂😂

[@nikoletacude8721]

As woman I feel like I hold eye contact for too long even when I don't like someone and guys get nervous so now I am searching whether or not I should stop having eye contact with everything

[@singingcowboy674]

Love it! I speak extemporaneously or that is my preferred delivery system! I'm much more comfortable. Or if I'm giving a presentation, just a outline and highlights to make sure I hit. I constantly scan the audience. I will look at individuals as well as entire sections. The bigger the room the more play you have in eye contact. One video I wish you'd do on is the IMPORTANCE OF A FIRM HANDSHAKE! Oh my God! I HATE going to shake a man's hand and it's like picking up a wet fish. GET A GRIP GUYS?! lol In fact, I'm going to think MORE OF YOU if you try to do what you can to BREAK MY HAND. You can't do it but I'll be more impressed. I'll be like YEAH! There's a REAL BROTHER! It makes a HUGE difference in perception.

[@RealMenRealStyle]

I thought I already did. Check this out - kzbin.info/www/bejne/p4GsnYWMlLdkkNE

[@mayureshmawlankar3756]

Just have a beer and keep talking to people,works for me!!

[@talilkr5238]

very helpful, keep it up.

[@michaelsane.1729]

Thanks for this video

[@luciderr]

My problem is when someone is close - like on the other side of a small office desk - and is sitting/standing face to face, without any tilt. I have no idea where to look, because when you look at this oval area mentioned in the clip, it is close enough to see that you are not looking in the eyes ("Artur... Is there something between my brows?"). But, when you then look into their eyes, you can only focus on one eye at the time, because if you want to unfocus your sight to see both of them you look disconnected. Looking at one eye for more than 4 seconds makes it look weird, changing the eye every 4 seconds makes it even weirder - there is no good way to solve it!

[@mohammedzerrak5639]

I repect a channel that doesnt make a vid just to promote a product . Thumbs up

[@RealMenRealStyle]

Mohammed - Thank you. I still make videos talking about products that I love and recommend for you guys. 😁