Don't stop me!!! I think I'm going be bitter next year.[Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.04.16]

[@fairytail6781]

Tzuyu keeps holding the girl's hand and patting her back, so sweet~~

[@Rayquan47]

Who's Tzuyu?

[@Rayquan47]

MAROON KOOKIE TWICE Ah thank you!

[@altheaunetaitsokay6488]

I'm not really into TWICE but she's just to sweet, I think I'm near at becoming a ONCE after watching this 💖

[@Rayquan47]

MAROON KOOKIE TWICE Whats ONCE and whats TWICE? Im new to all of this lol

[@shannongabriella]

Bboymyguy Twice is a name of a Korean girl group and Once is the name of their fanbase 😊

[@NightwingShawshank]

The mum's laughing is very aggravating because she is not taking anything seriously

[@vaaaa_nessa]

Nightwing Shawshank I wished someone would tell her to shut up and stop laughing. It's like she has no soul

[@NightwingShawshank]

like her daughter is very young yet mature and she is taking that for granted. Like her daughter could be a rebel but she's not.

[@ayantikaduttachoudhury563]

She just kepps mocking at her own daughter. Im so mad at her.

[@NightwingShawshank]

yea she should be supporting her instead

[@theblueoceanwashedawaymypa3774]

her mom us laughing bec its a habit or she's nervous...i thought.

[@zoyadean2884]

Man, that mom really pissed me off. There’s a difference between being realistic and just plain cruel. Laughing and mocking your daughters dreams and ambitions is just gonna ruin her future goals and her self esteem :( she’s setting her up for disaster

[@DavidSmith-ki2we]

Zoya Dean I wanted to punch her! She was emotionally ABUSIVE!

[@nadia2883]

she is setting up her retirement plan meaning her daughter wont give a shit and put her in the next upcoming olds home she wont even visit most likely her you reap what you sow you dumbass pathethic excuse of a mother by that i mean that clown in the show ;)

[@AiehAreniego]

she's simply annoying. mocking her child while laughing.

[@jjeele]

i hate how the mom keep laughing while she is talking. like please stop laughing as if this issue is a joke, your daughter is getting hurt while you are laughing your ass off. pisses me off to keep hearing her laughter .

[@kirigayakazuto6208]

It's so annoying that the mom keep laughing like it's nothing, while her daughter self-esteem is destroyed

[@hannahyasay3452]

kirigaya kazuto honestly!! I was so annoyed every time her mother talked

[@astiliecajoan3002]

Same here

[@wigsnatched1853]

Yes

[@chaiiiii1274]

I feel so deeply for her

[@gwen6937]

Her laugh is like a bully to be honest.

[@somethingpark]

Wow her mother is making me *MAD* gosh how can she say she won't make it. What if she's faited to be one of the next big acts of Korea?

[@crist3809]

Its kinda messed up, but then yeah in east asia many parents are like this soo yeah, im not even surprised ,but this mother seems really bad i mean shes like super pessimistic

[@h.1346]

Something Park your profile pic is Kim So Eun! I love Kim So Eun 😍 But yeah, her mother made me so mad. The way she laughs is too annoying! It’s your daughter woman!

[@joyitadarling5815]

Her mom almost caused me to lose it. She's soooo selfish! Her children are not her and have their own dreams and goals. What is it even worth to have a child you are 'pleased with' after you have crushed their self esteem? The mom needs more than just to be called out for all the harm she's done... She needs a wake up call. And the daughter needs all the support and positivity.

[@mr.aiblob7051]

Yeah what if maybe sooner she becomes a very great singer

[@FuuckFaaceJ]

I understand your madness, I feel it too. But we should also try stepping into her mother's shoes. It takes a lot of time and a lot of effort in order to even have the slightest chance to debut in Korea. Idol trainees often start their training at a very young age, meaning that one should abandon its educations. If unfortunately, she should fail, she will have nothing left to survive within the harsh economics of Korea.

[@somethingpark]

Aww that's really upsetting when your mother doesn't support you but instead keeps belittling and dragging you down.

[@crist3809]

Something Park the mother is a single mom its seems ,its sad how a divorce could ruin someone life

[@purrgundy]

christian kumara putra I don't see how is a divorce preventing the mom from supporting her daughter's dream.

[@crist3809]

Purrgundy maybe she felt like a traumatic thingy?idk maybe she felt really skeptical with the world rn,she keep saying life is difficult etc maybe she kinda loses hope?

[@purrgundy]

christian kumara putra If she would have lost hope, how could she encourage her 2 other children to pursue their Taekwondo careers then? Idk your argument doesn't make much sense to me.

[@crist3809]

Purrgundy meh im not even saying it was argument,im just wondering if it has any correlation ,im just saying tho not making some sort of justification for the mom,still hate her tho ,the brother seems on the same side with her too. So im really worried about how that girl lives...it must be depressing for her.

[@itsspeachy6452]

I HOPE SHE BECOMES THE BEST SONGWRITER/SINGER AND PROVES EVERYONE WHO EVER DOUBTED HER WRONG. FIGHTING!!!!!!

[@princessrespicio4252]

Her voice is not that bad if she takes lessons she'll probably be able to hit high notes, she was just nervous (that's why she hesitated at first why can't her mum understand that it's so upsetting)

[@crist3809]

Princess Respicio i mean if your mom laughed and says that youre untalented and cant sings how can you feel confidence? Of course she would lose all confidence she has.

[@StarHasArrived95]

Also she was crying just before that, so I imagine that also had so effect on her voice (breathing and what not).

[@goffymusiclover]

She has good singing potential and her lyrics are actually really good for someone who wasn’t formally taught how to write lyrics.

[@mylarosales1442]

Dream Angel yeaaahhh I hope she really makes it to the music industry and prove her mother wrong so she can slap the shit out of her- joke 😂 I sound like that annoying old lady -_-

[@mariaakaannie6138]

Honestly you can hear that she has quite a good voice for singing, but her mom has ruined her confidence. At 19:56 you hear her real vocal tone and its nice. Also you don't pass the first round of Kpop Star if you have no talent. She's still young and her voice is still growing and improving. You can't really know at that age how her voice will be a couple years later. And her lyrics are really nice, with some work they could be super good. Jeongyeon was admiring her lyrics and she has written lyrics for multiple Twice songs, so she knows a little about it. My voice isn't at all what it was when I was in middle school and my song writing has also improved a lot, so if she practises there is no reason why she couldn't make it.

[@soshiangel90]

Exactly. I really think she could succeed in entering a trainee program if she got the support from home to pursue her dreams. It's so upsetting that her mom couldn't find a better, nicer, way to show her concern about her daughter getting hurt. I hope going forward they are both able to do better. I'll be rooting for Hyeyeong!

[@francinev3971]

MariaakaAnnie - Cosplay and she was crying as well. It's not easy to sing while crying because of the shortness of breath. Her nervousness+crying would really result to a shaky voice but se has the talent. Just a little more practice.

[@mariaakaannie6138]

Hidden Moomoo Blinkeu Yeah exactly!

[@lmf221]

She was quaking and crying the whole episode, of course she wouldn't sing well. No one would in that scenario...especially with no training! And even if she can't be a singer, she could be a songwriter or a producer. I'm still so mad about her mothers behavior.

[@megasike3334]

these cases are actually really sad. the fact that the girl had a dream she wanted to pursue for a pretty young age is amazing. it’s really devastating if people close to you are the first people to shatter your self-esteem. what if she gave up? she would basically be her mom’s puppet. she would only follow her orders and not even try to do anything anymore. i hope she could pursue her dream and to anyone having similar situtations. fighting ~ [i have kind of the same circumstances. when it comes to academics i would always be yelled out for a single mistake by my family. i’m so used to it now lol but that ain’t gonna stop me from my dream so i hope you won’t stop too]

[@magiliw-benver1169]

Jung Sunshine: yeah, I agree that it should be your family first whom will support you.

[@e.k_liadon]

Literally story of my life! No joke. I'm 28 right now and have only been really living MY life for the past 7 years. Pursuing my dream has been hard, but the sadder part is the reality that I didn't even know what my dream was. Even more devastating is the reality that I still don't even know myself very well. I really hope this girl doesn't end up living my life. I hope she finds encouragement and the strength to pursue her dreams despite her mother's constant belittling.

[@talkingblahblah6208]

jung sunshine I envy the girl because she has a dream whilst there’s me still seeking to find the right thing for me, it’s very frustrating. That mother should be thankful

[@tzuyoda9957]

I remembered BTS suga, his parents even ripped his lyrics and note papers just to make him stop, they want him to focus on his studies. For this girl, continue pursuing your dreams and always respect your parents.

[@user-qy5oh5no1q]

Tzuyoda 995' yea me too

[@d4tenshi]

If my parents were like her I wouldn't respect them a tiny bit, even the slightest.

[@mr.struggle7648]

Respect your parents? BULLSHIT. If my mom was that bad I'd just do my own thing and cut her off - as an adult of course.

[@alice_in_wonderland9997]

Respect cannot be demanded, it is given only if the person wants to.

[@tadokoropilled]

respect your parents- i could never if they treated me like that

[@jordinmarie8655]

The friend was such a cute little bean! 😍

[@mrRiddle12]

her mom keeps laughing at her daughter's dream....okay maam...exit to the left please

[@nadia2883]

old ppls home on the right exit hahaha lol for that clown of a mom lol

[@tzuyuchou7556]

Tzuyu has a very warm heart 😐

[@abcdeflilili]

Don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you don’t deserve what you want.

[@ujung-ahujung-hae7503]

꿈구는 마음으로 ! “A dreaming heart makes the impossible possible.” The mom is wayy too harsh, she makes me so mad.

[@bokgison9155]

꿈꾸는*

[@yoshiko1392]

TZUYU'S LIFE LESSONS STRIKES AGAIN

[@chrystalite1895]

I want to hear her sing prepared, not as shaky. I honestly heard some niceness especially at the end when she just barely adjusted.

[@leticiamederos8151]

*Sometimes just taking the path brings more happiness than reaching the destination.*

[@dorkyderpterio8649]

Every remark the mother said boiled my blood, especially "It's better if I hurt her than someone else." No, that's not how it works. She won't develop an inferiority complex from other people, she is developing that right now because of Hye Young's mother. And being a singer isn't JUST talent, it's hard work, singing is a skill meant to be honed and practiced and Hye Young's got the passion to better herself in something she loves. Other remarks such as "Look at her, she has no talent at all." and "You have to be pretty like them to be a singer" is just plain wrong. And just because you planned out the lives of her older siblings and it worked doesn't mean it'll work on her too.

[@erikaserika]

"I don't want her to be hurt," she says, after brutally attacking her looks and talent in front of national TV.

[@LokiHiddlestone13]

She ends her every sentence with laughter. She reminds me of Cinderella's stepfamily...

[@jjangtaehyun4999]

Tzuyu was so sweet she was holding her hand throughout the whole time

[@joymendoza4697]

"She's not good at anything." That. That would be the last thing a child would want to hear from her mother.

[@umi_salaamah]

Accurate

[@AA-fd4qf]

The girl’s singing may not be brilliant, but her mom is being too much. I’m amazed that after all of that criticism from her mom she was able to continue. From what I saw she would be great songwriter. I would be rooting for her

[@josejuanillo183]

Tzuyu is so sweet, patting the kid's back, holding her hand... Tzuyu just has a golden heart :D! I hope the mom keeps on supporting her daughter! This made me cry >~

[@chuuwychuurro5214]

Awww...... Tzuyu's so sweet..... My heart's melting 😢😢😢

[@HelloKittysFriend418]

stop laughing you're getting on everyones nerves ahhhahhasd

[@niki-us4ud]

Ikr

[@alexalexsandre7541]

This woman is crazy. You can see it in her unreasonable laugh.

[@김준효-t4f]

She is a bully . Those kind who is a friend at first but when her other friend found their goal and work hard towards their goal . and get jealous and bully her friend.

[@Nananah66]

I feel disgusted when she laughs at her.

[@somethingpark]

This literally made me cry myghad!

[@Malak-ft7ju]

Her mother is saying that she won't allow her to go to round 2 because she'll fail and that will make her self-esteem lower , but throughout the episode she's putting down her daughter's dreams, looks and talent

[@iluvbears4861]

My mom told me when I was young to do the best I can including in the field of what I wanted to be. Children will feel that support and feel and do just that. This mom is ridiculous. She is teaching her daughter to not have dreams.

[@hanjuu27]

Tzuyu is like the kid too. Tzuyu came to Korea by herself because she want to be a singer,she want to improve her skills of singing. I was really happy for Tzuyu that had a golden heart for people like this.

[@hanjuu27]

Sorry for my bad english :(

[@twicevelpink2895]

It's more painful when it's coming from your own mother. Your so HARSH. Are you even capable of being a mother?

[@nrnsrn99]

i'm sorry but seeing how her mum's laughing most of the time while saying those harsh words really got me frustrated. imagine how her daughter must have felt all this while :((

[@DeletedAcc-fv9zg]

Female host: i mean why do you keep laughing Mother continues to laugh Mother: i keep thinkin of how she dances and her voice when she sings Femal host: is it funny to think about it, does she dance funny? Mother * proceeds to laugh* Mother- she just flounders around- Its just my greed. Since Shes not good at anything. Yep best advice 10/10 best encouragement

[@kira14374]

ayooo wassupp roll like a buffalo sorry to interrupt but the female mc is yeongja 😁

[@DeletedAcc-fv9zg]

kira14374 yea sorry i dont know there names im not korean yea :) but shes the only female host there (permanent one) that everyone knows so. Hope nobody get confused between her and the featured hosts

[@samsammy9289]

ayooo wassupp roll like a buffalo Yeongja is a queen

[@chiru97]

"the world is dark and i'm tired. but i still want to struggle to get out" wow words i was not able to expresss myself even in the dark times... i really hope she gets to where she wants to be. this world needs more people with sincerity

[@l.l.4082]

Tzuyu kept holding the girls hand... she's so sweet..

[@venzeivannealvarez1945]

Tzuyu is the sweetest and comforting the girl, I'm loving her even more.

[@nkhf1506]

ANGEL TZUYU❤️❤️

[@VVTYW]

Tzuyu is the pretty girl with a angel heart !

[@sihanssi6608]

I can 100% relate to this girl. I have a mom who against my dream. I've been always wanted to be a model since I was on elementary school and that dream never changed until I was on high school. But my mom always told me that being model means you have no future and no stable income. I really wanted take a modelling class when I was on middle school but my mom just harshly said no, I wanted to apply for model competition but my mom just didn't let me go. After graduated high school, she forced me to being a flight attendant and paid for class. Now I'm a flight attendant with a stable income but I just can't forget how hurt my heart bc my mom didn't let me to pursue my dream to be a model

[@Mordecai-qv6sh]

I hope one day we get to see how far this girl has come as a singer/songwriter i really want her to be successful in her future❤ and this has nothing to do with anything but pause at 25:22 idk why i find this so cute

[@hyekjns1422]

Mordecai1524 ik she’s toooo cute

[@Mordecai-qv6sh]

seulbearene she's my bias for a reason

[@willrick946]

Tzuyu comforting the little girl is so cute, omg

[@gotwicemarksana1574]

I don't think that the mom realises she is unintentionally hurting her daughter. I don't think she realises the seriousness of the situation because her daughter's confidence is dropping :( I hope the daughter can achieve her dream though, she seems quite good? Except maybe a little nervous xD P.s. Tzuyu was so sweet!! She keeps holding her hand!

[@ragamuffin1588]

At this point, I think she's hurting her daughter on purpose.

[@philomath709]

omggg Sana at 13:27 the way she moved her head confused like that is sooo cute

[@ngandang96]

there are many parents like her esp when they don't see any potential. if I were her mom, I would try my best to support her and tell her to have enough grades to have a backup plan when she doesnt want to pursue music anymore

[@nicolejoy8290]

what a toxic parent😅😐 parents didn't knew about their child, why they are failing because first they should be one of the reason of being molded as a person yet they choose to break their child's heart.Because of what? they can't make it? they are have no potential to be successful one like wth? where's the freedom!?

[@kimberly9856]

the mom laughing at her daughter while criticizing her is so sad to see. i’m a senior this year and i still don’t know what i want to do but to see this young girl know what she wants to do at such a young age makes me so proud. i hope her mom truly changes and supports her daughters dream. i understand saying that she doesn’t want her to get hurt but she’s just hurting her even more by not letting her experience this dream and making harsh comments instead of being supportive. i hope hyeyeong pursues her dreams and becomes a singer/songwriter !!!

[@saotul]

for those who didnt know, the song Lee Sun Hee - Fate is an OST from 2005 movie THE KING & THE CLOWN by Lee Joon Gi,Kam Woo Sung & Jung Jin Young. its a box office movie

[@beah8288]

it's so great that she knows what she wants to do at such a young age. I'm 22 and I still don't know what I want to do with my life :')

[@Sidra_193]

She actually shaded Twice when she said they're beautiful & she's not, meaning beauty is a big factor in becoming a singer probably bigger than talent alone. Or the fact that a pretty person can have their foot in the door & work hard for the rest. Isn't it sad that someone who has the talent & passion to become an artist like this girl, maybe can't defeat the odds because of her looks. I've noticed that her inspiration is AKMU who's like an indie group in the Kpop industry, since they create their own music. I really hope her mother comes around & even if not, that she somehow finds the strength to continue her dream. I know parents are very important factors of idols becoming idols, that support & sanctuary they provide is vital for idols to move on even if it's hard.

[@m.o4936]

i mean you can't judge someone's singing when they're trempling and crying

[@sitihazirah7108]

Even me 18 years old doesn't have a dream yet😂

[@thamisoares8437]

I've been watching many episodes of this show of this show this week and I just love how Dongyup, Youngja, Chanwoo and Taegyun are so kind and considerate to people.

[@hannahyasay3452]

Her lyrics remind me of BTS lyrics they are very meaningful and encouraging

[@dailydoseofsunshinee]

which min?

[@sonuthapa6090]

Nabina Shrestha She means that all of the struggles she is going through now will bear a good fruit in her future! Just like BTS struggled to get in industry at the time of debut, look how prosperous and renowned our boys have become! All those lyrics she has written in her dairy depict how painful the life is now to her just like emotional the lyrics BTS used to write before!✌

[@iambrennalyn5923]

ARMY here ^0^

[@user-qy5oh5no1q]

me too, when i see the lyrics, i immediatly think about bts esp suga

[@cheruichew667]

I really like her lyrics! She should seriously consider becoming a songwriter T_T

[@fairugh3822]

I hope she becomes successful in the future! She really made me cry, bless her soul. ❤️

[@alishaegi4628]

The girls friend is adorable I cannot 😆

[@Haru-ox7qd]

Everytime the mom laughing.... it's really make her daughter crying.....I know the feeling

[@princessocampo1536]

Tzuyu is so sweet she's comforting the girl 😍😘😘 #ONCEFOREVER #ILoveTwice

[@m4e]

I cried while watching this because the mother made me so mad i couldnt even belive that she kept laughing at her and her dream becoming a singer songwriter. The mother didnt deserved a daughter like her.

[@tzuyoda9957]

So sweet of Tzuyu 😭😍

[@mahmudaafrin9518]

You need a place where you feel safe and not judged. How can she tell her own child she is not beautiful. She is not talented enough to do something in her life. Mum supposed to give her confidence. Give her assurance.

[@breadonce6486]

I’m not the type of person who crys, but this got tears in my eyes😭

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

why does the mom keep laughing??? i get that some people laugh when they're nervous but she just keeps laughing even while belittling her daughter..

[@cinnarenaroll1292]

i don't get it... even when her daughter is CRYING right in front of her, she still laughs! i'm not a mother yet, nor will i have a kid for another 10 years or so.. but if i saw my child (especially a teenager) crying because of something i'm doing, i'd be concerned???? i'd stop and wonder "what am i doing wrong that's causing my child to experience so much pain that they're openly crying in front of me and hundreds of other people"

[@Nikkicharms]

Lmao when she laughed like it was a joke the audience expression was like bish Whats funny?

[@angeladonato5096]

The mom: “Not anyone can be a singer.its not all about working hard. Look at how beautiful they are. You have to be beautiful, but look at her.” And she’s laughing while saying it how disgusting. 😕

[@estheroh4244]

13:27 SANA'S SO CUTE I CANT

[@fidafahmi1758]

Esther Oh ikr she looks like a veryyy cute hamster😍

[@christinamulloy578]

I always cry when I watch this show. 😥 That poor girl, she was beaten down before she could even begin to pursue her dream...

[@m.o4936]

there's something called training where you learn how to sing and dance to become a singer

[@bagashayujatmiko9855]

Sarah T. Yeah, she has that talent and if she get training then she'll be better. Even if she can't be a singer she still can be a songwriter since her diction is really good.

[@meikho2410]

She's lucky to know what she want at such a young age, While me, at my 22y.o dont know what to do with my life I just do everything my family told me to do and never have my own dreams

[@A2daM2daZ]

whether or not the kid has talent, it's a parent's job to support them. I praise the mom for raising three kids alone, but doing that doesn't just mean paying bills. I know it's hard, but if your mom doesn't support you, it'll make everything harder. even being a businesswoman or whatever the mom wants her to be. without having that secure feeling of your parent's supporting you, everything in life becomes more difficult

[@thitran1362]

she could at least let her try. If she does not want her daughter to pursue that path then let her figure it out on her own.

[@blackpanther279]

Her lyrics are good and with a bit more practice she can be good at singing as she is still in her first step. Fighting!

[@dahliakhadeeja930]

Omg it so annoying to see her mum keeps laughing.. I think she has mental problem..

[@jeongyeonshighnote3795]

king jimin i was thinking the same thing

[@cheesetoastie3181]

She's not cut out to be a mum it's a pity no one stopped her

[@cherryberry9636]

"She doesn't have a specific...(path?)" Giiiirl I'm 22 and haven't figured out what I want to do, she's only 14! Also, the mom's not even giving her a chance to figure out her dream!!

[@evelynteng7299]

the mom was laughing and saying that her daughter won't make it as an kpop idol the crowd and the idols and the producers were slient when she laughed. I think she will make it and prove her mom wrong. The daughter is very pretty.

[@coconutheadandfriends848]

First comment here again 😍😍 Twice saranghae 😘😘😘😘

[@iamwannabecool5215]

I wish I was beside tzuyu and she would comfort me while I was crying

[@nanamarini4817]

Poor daughter. I hope your dream come true😊❤

[@Twicejiahui]

Thanks Tzuyu for being so nice towards her

[@sandee977]

Dear mother, I dont think its something worth laughing about. You are the one destroying her self-esteem right now

[@maride95]

Her lyrics remind me a little of Tablo, I think they would do great together, he could be an awesome teacher to her!

[@aminahdaknam57]

im more annoyed how she laughs all the time, even when the MC is trying to advice her

[@luvyanna111]

I hope to see this girl in the future more often! She is good at songwriting.

[@elijah7316]

That is how my self esteem is destroyed. My mother always shame me. No mental support. Now I'm adult with anxiety, easily stressed and anger problems.

[@salt_4307]

23:13 I started to cry being like oh she has her brother so sweet, then a wave of reality hit

[@hopetomorrow3966]

I see min yoongi and Kim namjoon in her. And I'm rooting so hard for her success. It seems the mother has been this young lady's personal demon for so long and that laugh probably haunts her nightmares. I hope the girl escapes this darkness and shines as bright as she is destined to be. Most of the greatest artists in history have been born from pain of some sort and are able to console people with their work because of their experience.

[@evaemilda9307]

the mother should be thankful, really. I'm 14 and don't have a plan ahead of what i want to do or become. This girl right here actually have goal, plan and the motivation. Fighting Hyeyeong!

[@haylinarnett6529]

I really feel terrible for that girl.. I literally cried.. Omg her mother is so disencouraging

[@hyekjns1422]

im crying, how can she handle her mom’s pride? dldkdkj she’s strong.

[@scar8782]

this mum is so rude to her daughter, like she's laughing at her sadness

[@theblueoceanwashedawaymypa3774]

The mom does not want to see her baby get hurt ..but she is not going to be able to shield her from bad people forever. i cried so much watching this.

[@karenannebolivar7117]

wahhh Twice....sooo sweeeeeeeeeeet

[@getmetosubscriberswithvi-cl6hm]

If i were her, I'd probably be depressed, since my mother, the one who raised and and gave birth to me doesn't support me and calls me ugly (speaking in her perspective). Being hurt by some class mate is bad, but by your own mother is heart breaking. Mothers want their kids to pursue their dream by supporting them in every way, but her mom is almost like a different species. Always bringing her down. She's only in 7th grade, let her pursue her dream and learn. if she doesn't want to do that, support her in her other dream. Please

[@itsmianotmya]

Why tf does she keep laughing whenever she says something omfg I would have thrown a pillow at her

[@---gn6lk]

it feels like she is embarrassed by her daughter, and not just afraid of her getting hurt by others