Don't waste your time looking for girls in the Philippines guys. Know before you go (just 5 things)

[@ChadFosterExplores]

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[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Found scammers on this site as well. The word Christian means nothing. But it's overall a good site.

[@dfoster4234]

@@BillyTimes-dw7vs Scammers are everywhere, but they do a really good job of trying to keep them at bay. Just don't give out your personal information, and you can bypass the scammers. Set ground rules that you're never going to give the money and stick to it.

[@andy2906]

Let's be honest dudes want numbers on the board. Hot date and getting laid overnight then ghosting is our best policy 😅

[@Hannoshobazz_Neolmech]

NOPE ! Find a MORO MUSLIM or BUDDHIST woman, never an unorthodox toxicatholic toxichristian. Try Ethiopia or Russiaville.

[@OscarMariadella]

​@@Hannoshobazz_Neolmechthere is nothing worse than something from the Muslims m world.

[@StevenCovey-ct3sx]

If she is young, no “real” job, and has her face in a phone all day long then you got problems. Run for the hills.

[@leeashernolan]

they can be fun for short time lol

[@ChochiT0-ddd7fd]

Good luck finding a young one who is not on the phone all the time. You have to educate them about that. Another thing, a Filipina who works is not good for an expat. Whoever told you otherwise, ask them for your money back.

[@ДмитрийСубботин-с7й]

there difficult find job,overpopulation

[@crushnevnikita8575]

just get the hell out of her... you will save your money and most important your soul.. believe me

[@mackcarlo]

Just don’t take them seriously. Then you will be totally okay with them ones. Just remember familiarity breeds contempt. Keep them at arms length

[@Mikewilliams728-v5z]

In regards to the money thing, I've dated dozens of American women, and they were always in need of money too.

[@elinope4745]

Ever notice that they are gone when you're broke and everywhere when you're not?

[@alanaldpal950]

Ain’t that the truth.

[@jimvan-m7y]

you can never get a young beautiful in America,

[@anneb3170]

@@jimvan-m7yyou need 4 eyes

[@RoaringRanger]

@MakeTheRules2 Yes they are smart enough to get a lawyer and take half.

[@zodiacfml]

I'm Filipino in the Philippines but I think number 5 is the most important and glaring. If you guys think there is a surplus of girls in the Philippines, think again, or thrice. Most girls that are openly available have huge life issues and they want a guy to fix it or help them out of it. Additionally, the Philippines is not as poor as it was decades ago-most that struggle today are those girls with poor life decisions by their family and self.

[@mmuzzwell3654]

I heard this too, these types of people are in every society. They come from chaotic families that are dramatic wired to cope with problems instead of avoid them. A question. Doesn't it piss off Filipinos that there are so many foreign men over there. Some of them are seriously disrespectful too.

[@borillabiggs1121]

@@ElCSBThe country is not poor. The average citizen there is poor but the country in of itself is rich in resources.

[@jimcrain2647]

Thanks

[@josephrobi6806]

Bar girls and easy girls are mostly trouble but there is many there who will be perfect partners. I’ve been 12 years in Philippines by the way I am a permanent resident there wink wink 😅

[@zodiacfml]

@@josephrobi6806 definitely. I'm just saying that even those on dating apps are quite trouble or issues that needs fixing. ironically, more girls are not on dating apps for various reasons, which I feel are better quality

[@user-sy6jf4hm3t]

North American women: "I need money". Asian women: "Me and my entire family need money".

[@randomclick2826]

At least one of them cares about their family 🤷

[@BoldlyExplore]

Still 80% less than the one American woman! 😂😮

[@ROGERX007]

Yep alot less money ​@BoldlyExplore

[@jeanclauderussell]

not all asian women are for money man..dont be too stupid

[@altriplett9099]

Lol! $200.00 USD per month pays for 2-3 students to attend school! $100.00 buys rice and staples for a large family… Remember, the average live in maid in the provinces earns @$150.00 per month, plus food and toiletries. Middle class earnings in the province are $500.00-$600.00(35,000-40,000 php) keep those numbers in the back of your mind, when your Filipina asks for money

[@nunuvyurbiz123]

I honestly wonder if women (anywhere) are even worth it - the time, effort, stress, expense, lies, drama, risks

[@johnnypastrana6727]

Yeah, I have similar thoughts. Maybe speed dating is where it is at...keep it a business arrangement.

[@fruitloops3718]

Just don't put time, effort and money into a relationship. No problem.

[@ChochiT0-ddd7fd]

Of course they are. The problem is you. Start thinking with your head upstairs.

[@BrentPaton]

Just rent them once a week so simple dont need them beyond that

[@GinJ1337]

I pay for play. I don't waste time on "dating" women I've got absolutely nothing in common with and who have nothing to talk about which describes the vast majority of women in south east Asia. I've reflected on this and the truth is the only thing I want from them is sex. And let's face it most of them want money from us, nothing else. Therefore pay by the night. In case they start talking about anything personal I tell them I don't care about that and they shut up and understand it's useless to try to coerce me into a "relationship".

[@opa-age]

Your money can get you further in the Philippines than here...but you still need money.

[@angryox3102]

Women are women wherever you go. But the scales tip in your favor in the Philippines.

[@jonaspetrauskas4432]

As everywhere else.

[@JimParker-gy6yn]

Yes and anywhere else

[@luna498-h5z]

I always wonder why guys who move to places like SE Asia market themselves as "foreign men with foreign money" but then are surprised that they only come across girls who want an ATM/ transactional relationship. It seems to defeat the purpose of finding true love overseas, namely in less developed countries.

[@bobami5331]

If they're fat . They post old photos when they were fit. or take a photo by holding the camera above their head so you don't see the body. Make sure you ask for recent full photo.

[@AaronOlafson]

filters also

[@dave_in_florida]

Yes and also body slimming filters

[@ox3289]

They lie big time their also two faced because we are foreigners

[@BRAD0000]

Even Fat Filipino. Is tiny compared normal size U.S.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Or video chat quickly

[@jdsim9173]

Any lie is a relationship ender. It all starts small.

[@rafaelfortin-i1q]

Lies comes from both side! It's all part of the game! The question is, who lies more?

[@Oldeagle66]

​@@rafaelfortin-i1q Not at all. Some people just don't believe in lying.

[@ChochiT0-ddd7fd]

@@Oldeagle66 And those are the ones who lie the most. How old are you? Everybody lies. However, there are white lies and then hurtful lies, which you shouldn't put up with. Can't write the correct terminology here or YT won't show you this comment.

[@secretagent86]

True

[@Kthomasritchie]

All women lie.

[@bobarmon3340]

I met my Filipino on CF. When we met I took her family to dinner once . After that she paid for most of everything for her family on our trips. I found out that she has 3 home retirement heahcare. She's worked her ass off and saved. She's the most wonderful woman I've ever met met.

[@toolman2364]

Having children is a big thing for young cute Filipinas. As an older guy, I don't want any more kids. I can't support kids once I retire on a pension in a few years. I have had a few Filipinas tell me that it is a deal breaker to not have kids. The Filipinas that are OK with not having kids are older women who already have kids or young hustlers who will tell you anything.

[@ChadFosterExplores]

Yes you're spot on

[@jerichojohnson3219]

GREAT INSIGHTS - MR TOOLMAN

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Great comment. I try to tell men the same thing. If you're fixed and find a lady who is single and has no children best to move on, and let her find a guy who's okay with having more kids. Should an older man have more kids? My partner and I have a daughter together, and it brings me great joy. In younger days, as a working father, you don't have the time or energy for them. It also motivates you to take better care of yourself, and brings you closer to your partner. The extended family will not be as important to her as her/your own child, at least in most cases.

[@richardv9648]

You mean your kids? Or the kids she is bringing into you from previous marriage? Filipinas arnt stupid to have kids with an older forigner.

[@toolman2364]

@@richardv9648 I have seen examples of Filipinas here on YT that had kids with guys in their 50s and 60s. Are they stupid?

[@thefilipinapee]

The best way to meet a Filipina is get off all dating apps and www sites and come to the PH. Most people on dating apps and sites are scammers. You might meet your Nigerian prince?

[@johnnypastrana6727]

🤣

[@brianh9014]

Very true!

[@davidlampkin1121]

Or European guys getting lady boys

[@marcus-oc3xi]

Definitely, some Chinese ones .

[@bryceanderson1772]

True

[@philosophicaltrucker9279]

Another thing to consider is her family. How close are they? How do they behave? The family will give you a better insight than she might. If they aint good ppl then shes probably not either.

[@macscotty9997]

I takes time for most of the truth to come out! Have your List and be patient!

[@philosophicaltrucker9279]

@@macscotty9997 not really, one or two people might be good actors but not 10-15 people or more in a typical filipina family. Someone will slip up, but you need to be aware and willing to walk away. Lot of guys get hooked on the sweet puss and then ignore shit then wonder why they single

[@hoagyautzen2483]

Some of the best people come from terrible families.

[@philosophicaltrucker9279]

@@hoagyautzen2483 theres always exceptions to the rule. Even in those cases you can look at their friend group, which is more telling since we choose our friends

[@jamesrecknor6752]

@@philosophicaltrucker9279 True

[@nordichellas3155]

My advice as someone who has travelled all over the world and was in the Philippines for 3 months. If you want to get a woman that's good quality, marriage material etc. Look above all for a woman that is from a middle class family. If she's poor, there's a high chance she will ask for money a lot, will ask you to support her family members, and guaranteed she will be traumatized and have many emotional issues because of how she grew up. If you meet a woman from a rich family, she will probably be spoiled, have princess syndrome, and will be expecting a LOT from you. So look for a woman that is in the middle and who not only appears to be mentally stable but who will consider your feelings too.

[@davidpaxton6402]

Spot on, the best strategy! At 61 Ive been married, divorced, 2 kids, some LTRs, some FWBs and some FBs, so I've dated many women. My other possible red/yellow flag is a highly educated women with a post grad like Phd or Masters. I find them very Westernised and feminist, and maybe woke...Yikes! lol

[@AAANDN1]

Not totally accurate at all.

[@rickgreen8247]

😂good luck finding middle class ones there lol .more like 2%rich and 98%poor there ....

[@heartoftexan]

@@rickgreen8247 looking for a unicorn

[@Michael-h3t]

​@AAANDN1 - in what respects? Make your thoughts known cause you may really help someone with an insight you have. Discussion of the details will get us closer to the truth.

[@Coffewithsteve]

Run when hear sad stories for money

[@Noble_Truths]

You can just be assertive if you've spent a lot of time together already. If she responds well then she's worth more investment.

[@DustinKillyact]

Your going to make forest Gump look like SpongeBobs pet snail 😂😂😂

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Can't paint all fillipina women with the same brush. I sent my women in my profile money before I met her. She's was diffienately the real deal going on 3years 💪 strong.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

@@BillyTimes-dw7vs There a popular saying, though: "The exception proves the rule." With social media, the game has changed, is changing, here in the Phil.

[@careysretirementjourney]

yes agreed. Helping them should be a normal part of dating. It’s not a scam when you show someone you care

[@AaronOlafson]

stay off apps. simple. go and meet in person. if she approaches you, walk away. if she's shy or not easy to get but go slow. simply put.

[@grandekev1]

Cold approach. I think that is the way to go. Also, make friends with average Filipinos. I agree not to use apps.

[@Jason-fs9pz]

Perfecto

[@danielstoddart]

In the Philippines, day game rules. Forget about dating apps. A lot of the women on them are scammers and so they won't even agree to meet you; they're looking for men they can bleed from a distance. Everything you do from the very beginning should be aimed at setting up that first date. And it shouldn't be a fancy meal for her friends and family; it should be more like a coffee date. At that point all you're trying to establish is that she's not a flake or a scammer. Then slowly progress from there.

[@anneb3170]

When a pinay will ask for money she just want your money not u .And when u run out of money she will leave u too just like they do to a pinoy

[@myhomie2417]

I think that can be the case in the States too. Number one reason for divorces in the US is financial. Especially with the women all says "I don't need a man!"

[@anneb3170]

@@myhomie2417 Nowadays it’s hard to find a forever it’s better staying single

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Well sorry I been with my pinay through thick and thin. Going on 3years. Don't paint all fillipino women with the same brush.

[@anneb3170]

@@BillyTimes-dw7vs consider yourself lucky you got a good pinay I’m too married for 31 yrs.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Exactly. If the dollars ever stop flowing (or never begin) she's gone. The modern pinay has been heavily influenced now by social media. Not like getting married before then, maybe 90s. The exceptions love to make themselves known. I understand, though, every man hopes to find a unicorn. Why not put integrity and character above sexual pleasure and see what happens? Otherwise, it's just P4P, but many guys will never learn.

[@COYO-T]

Big difference is these girls are young girls and not old woman asking for money. If they are always asking for money make sure you get something in return. Then treat it as a business deal. Sex is not free in the Philippines either.

[@rolandmueller7218]

Don’t impregnate her either.

[@Lon3wolv38]

you sound gross,

[@wanderingdoc5075]

Speak for yourself.

[@jonaspetrauskas4432]

@@wanderingdoc5075 Sex is never free

[@wanderingdoc5075]

@@jonaspetrauskas4432 It is if you are attractive, have you every had a woman really love you? You would know.

[@seancannon3347]

Divorced twice, dated all the hot chicks in california after, latinas, german, but never a filipina... so I went online, talked to one of them for 2 1/2 years, finally decided to meet her, spent 9 days together, came back to cali filed for fiance visa... been married 11 years now, have a beautiful 10 yr old daughter and our relationship is solid, we have our disagreements once in awhile like all relationships, but it was the best decision I ever made, improved and fulfilled both our lives... btw, im 21 years older (59) but im not your typical older guy...

[@GaryH-pw9cm]

Yes it can work. I was pen pals with my wife for a year before I went to meet her. She was 24 and I was 44. We got married in Cebu 1995. Lasted 12 years which is better than most.

[@bobarmon3340]

I'm 61 Lina is 53 going on 30 beautiful softest women. We plan on marriage in a year. I know its a lasting relationship.

[@greyowl750]

Same thing here...3byrs difference but...2 yrs and going strong. Better woman than ANY I've dated here...in fact...I'm sending my ex a thankyou letter for her divorce petition. It was the best thing that I ever got on Christmas day.

[@rodfast8196]

​@@greyowl750my ex recieved her divorce notice on mother's Day. Lol. There's a story behind that , hahahhaash😂

[@LeonardMarlin]

Dated and lived with five different Filipinas over the last 35 years. I found the younger ones 18,19,20,21,22,23,24,25,26,27 were only interested in a sugar daddy. I also found having a relationship with a young immature child means when you get them pregnant you are now raising two children. Prior to dating my wife and living with her for 6 years before we got married i lived and impregnate two other younger Filipina's both cheated on me and lied to me. One i was with 10 years and the other 12 years. I work six months a year in the states and live in the Philippines six months a year. Basically when the cats away the mice will play. My wife is 43 and I'm 65 been together 6 years. Now i only go back to the States 2 months a year and take my wife and daughter with me. What have i learned in my 35 years of loving Filipina woman. Any woman can say she loves you its the ones that are truly in love with you that make all the difference in the world. A Filipina woman will never lie to you or ever cheat on you if shes truly in love with you.

[@shawnmendrek3544]

Haha 18-27 sugar daddies, yea sounds about right. Same here, lots of sugar daddy/babys around here. Good post.

[@BrutalReality4U]

So true. All relationships are transactional in one way or another. Dating sites are a buffet- one man’s trash is another man’s treasure, depends what ya seek. Some seek forever, others seek one night of pleasure. Btw, your last two minutes of the video are so very true.

[@BoldlyExplore]

No not just younger cuter but they also cost wayyyyy less than an American woman simple.

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

The biggest problem in the phillipines. Is people lie way to much. People are always trying hustle money out of each other. The asking money starts and they will keep asking for more and more regardless of how much you give them. Thai people are way better people.

[@SweetCandy-x4j]

Not true. Men are sending their life savings and buying houses for filipinas. Men would never do those things for women they just met or were dating.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Not if you have up a job back home.

[@BoldlyExplore]

@@GUITARTIME2024 huh?

[@rafaelfortin-i1q]

These type of filipina women are the ones who frequent in places like Angeles City and Dumagete! They know the game; they know you came to the Philippines with your hose wet! One look at you and they know you are fresh from the boat! These women also shares information regarding expat! Don't think you can come in their territory and think you have them fegured out. They are the sharks, not you!

[@opa-age]

Yeah, all these guys going over are about 10 years too late...now everyone is doing it...

[@dancooper5741]

Very true, human nature is in play and no matter what warnings these old fools get , they simply think “this won’t happen to me”, or they’re desperate & dateless simpletons that have no other choice in life . Pay4 Play is the only way. At least you’ll have variety & not have them following you around with their problems & bullsh@t stories.

[@bhutchin1996]

@@opa-age True. If a country is overhyped, it's better to find a less popular country.

[@redlord-blacksigma2795]

The only way to have an "advantage" in this situation is to already have hood street smarts. If you grew up in the ghetto, around pimps and hustlers, and if you also have military experience living in the Philippines, you are a king. Most squares won't know where I'm coming from, but that's OK. At least y'all are catching on. 😎

[@simonsykes4688]

@@bhutchin1996 I just spent a couple months in the Philippines and in Vietnam. Did a little looking, but not dating. Overall, it seemed like a much more positive and dynamic social dynamic in Vietnam. Also, I'd like to date someone that's not 40 years younger than me. Difficult in Vietnam, and at all ages, most are chubby in the Phils. Real life is not KZbin vids. Take dating off the table as a priority, and things get a lot more relaxed and chill, for example making genuine social connections and becoming part of the community. Dunno about romance, it's early days yet.

[@PizzaLord]

A million of these stories on youtube and all avoided by following one simple rule. Don't send women money Not complicated

[@ChadFosterExplores]

I know it seems simple and it is but... guys keep falling for it

[@GabrielEddy]

@@ChadFosterExplores A very specific subset of “men”

[@bobbruce4135]

@@ChadFosterExplores Yep. If they think it's real love they get in big trouble. All financial consideration (not just cash) must be taken off the table. When that happens, she'd rather be with a handsome young local lover. So, it's transactional and the best deal is short-term P4P for most men who aren't that attractive.

[@autoclearanceuk7191]

They are very poor. Don`t be mean send them a reasonable amount.

[@PizzaLord]

@@autoclearanceuk7191 you need to read the wikipedia pages on intrinsic and extrinsic motivation in psychology and no people are not "mean" if they don't give away free money.

[@bobbyjames4300]

Social media killed true love relationships. It’s all hook up culture. It’s all temporary.

[@benyoung6655]

Hey Chad, another great video. Thank you for all of your content. I’ve used what I’ve learned from you and others and I’ve met an amazing woman. Something that helped me was the Maslow’s hierarchy of needs pyramid. Maybe a video on that would help some better understand why money sometimes gets involved in the relationship? It’s hard to think about love interests when you don’t know when you’re going to be able to eat next. The priority is survival first. Thank you again for all that you do. Be safe.

[@clrodrick]

The good ones are out there, but they know their self worth so obviously will be tougher challenges involved in getting them to date you

[@nathansechrist3422]

I met one about 8 years ago. We'll be married 6 years later this year. Best person I have ever met, and I couldn't imagine not having her in my life. If something were to happen and it ended tomorrow, I wouldn't regret a second I've spent with her.

[@kathywatt7555]

Good video. I especially appreciated you showing so much video of their living conditions. Puts things into perspective quite well.

[@brentonharvey2404]

Solid information. Great photography. Thank You!

[@pandemicoftheunvaccinated5367]

I know of a bloke who uses online dating to search for flippina's.He'll reply to half a dozen ads but, almost all will ask for money before they meet up physically. And many don't resemble their profile photo.

[@TommyHoff]

So many scammers in that country no one can be fully trusted there.

[@roddielopp]

Never had that problem. Scammers ask quickly then I block them. The rest I talk to which can be overwhelming

[@DManGrand]

From 8 years of experience here you need to put boots on the ground and meet the girl and her family in person. Province girls seem to be sweeter and have fewer expectations. Walk away if there are into the money... Good luck...

[@shawnmendrek3544]

nice

[@msudak4]

Come on, Chad you know as well as I do that CF is no better than any of the other dating sites and they’re all little more than scams, you’re better than this😳

[@ChadFosterExplores]

With all due respect I completely disagree. Completely different in terms of quality options. The only drawback for a lot of people is the cost no question that is not a good fit for everyone.

[@humungushumungus213]

He probably gets paid by the em, that CF will call you 5 times a day begging for money, not only the scammers themselves . But the girls that work there , they call you for fees, membership, don’t ever give your money or your info to them

[@humungushumungus213]

Your Philippine scam experience will start in your home country 😂

[@saldaandres1]

CF sponsors these videos so make conclusions

[@gaboristvankiska7655]

@@msudak4 CF is a scam bulls!

[@uniqueperspectives6116]

I just want to say brother I appreciate your content. I'm 42 years old I never really had much success in the states. So I realize I'm definitely going to consider someone overseas. I chatted with a few ladies from other countries and your spot on with them planting the seed about money issues. Decided to subscribe today. Love the transparency and the honesty behind your video content. This video is definitely filled with a lot of wisdom. God bless you and stay safe.

[@manstarbig]

All your advice is spot on.... I have all these girls there's alot more bad girls than good ones... but I finally got my special woman and been married 12yrs now..she's the real deal...if there's 1 point to follow is if she's lies to you leave them.. honesty is paramount in a relationship.. great video

[@4abetteru]

Chad, I really liked too how you mentioned that what a foreigner may see as a casual get to know each other encounter over a cup of coffee or lunch, could be perceived as "courting" behavior to a Filipina, as you said especially in the provinces.

[@mbclass1234]

I see the same way as Filipinas. I hate get to know shit. You are courting someone if you are going on a coffee date with one-o-one. I guess I will thrive in the Philippines after saving up my emergency money 😅

[@truckstation527]

I got turned off by all the women asking for money when I looked into the Philippines. I did make the mistake of helping one when I first started this passport lifestyle. I ended up in Vietnam. And the women there just seem so much more upstanding. And proud. Both are sweet. Both are pretty. But the needy aspect of so many Filipinas. Is just a turn off and I understand there is need there the culture allows people who think they are together can ask for money. And they think that quickly

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Have had much better experiences with Viets than Filipinas, much more trustworthy, on the whole.

[@WorstPaperCut]

@@jamesrecknor6752 the thing about vietnamese is that they are a bit prideful. If they ask you for money. They believe it will make them look like a begger. Which is why most of the viet girls you met, did not ask for money.

[@1clkvideos140]

Excellent analysis Chad. Right on all points - glad to hear the (minor) points of exception interspersed with the (relatively) hard and fast rules. I have personally been involved with enough situations to have encountered many of the examples you gave, so I definitely concur with you across the board. QUESTION - Where was the last few minutes of the video filmed?

[@ChadFosterExplores]

Thanks I appreciate it… The last bit of the video is a mix of dinagat and southern leyte

[@fdmello]

Thank you for the video Chad. That was great and every point you made is a home run.

[@ChadFosterExplores]

Thanks 🙏 and you're welcome

[@eufrecinolltactay9578]

I was born in the philippines and left there at the age of 29, you are correct chad about number #4, that all the family member is also waiting for you to meet them. Thats how filipino culture works, No dating…. Just courting then turns into real relationship especially when the girl is exclusive to you. It’s acustom to the philippines that men provide for their family. Once you marry a filipina woman, you marry her whole family. If you can’t managed that. Filipina women is not for you.

[@jamesrecknor6752]

It's a lot easier if us non-Filipinos really love her family and enjoy helping them.

[@seanpatterson7035]

all good points, I can appreciate the temptations being real. that’s the most challenging, knowing the game but being susceptible to young and cute and not acting on impulse. might take more restraint than I can muster

[@PatrickKelly-b8o]

The smart guy sets and stickes to BOUNDRIES!

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

Yes, be ready to show her the door if she gets too demanding. If she stays and abides, she might just be a keeper 🙂

[@ldrcoupleinlove910]

I like this video. 6 years ago I started courting my filipina, I noticed she could be struggling to pay for groceries, as in the for the past few weeks she didn't shop for food or anything else. So I asked to see in video chat all of her storage areas. She didn't have a half kilo of rice. I started her small budget then. I haven't stopped. She has a good savings and has always gone to her job of 25 years. She is respectful of money and how it is earned.

[@roadwarrior528]

Chad, you're a natural at this. Just pick up the camera, and start talking, and boom, you got great content. Keep up the good work!

[@waltermorris5786]

YOU VERY WISELY DEFINED THE END RESULT OF A MONEY RELATIONSHIP THAT CAN be misconstrued as a loving relationship by the neophyte.

[@joelmcclellan1050]

Chad I do love your advice, but if it doesn’t lead to romance, I’m ok. The water views and nature is what I’m after. The scenes of the boat going through the water with the coral beneath…awesome!

[@normatadeo9334]

Not everyone

[@jerichojohnson3219]

REMEMBER, YOU CAN GO TO HELL FOR LYING !

[@Mr_Oh_Wow]

Man your video is gold any time you put yourself out there is rough went through a storm on a dating app so I can not battle this war of dating so thank you for sharing your incite dating really sucks now a days!

[@foodreviewsandfunthing]

I knew a friend met a girl from Jamaica.Got married but then got divorced after she got her citizenship. I guess that's not matter what type of girl you get from any country.

[@stevehatten209]

It's all a game for centuries. When I was young, I was a tour guide in Japan and Guam. I speak Japanese well and grew up overseas. I used to have young girlfriends who had husbands. They used to use their husband's money to take me on vacations and buy me clothing and nice gifts. It's an old game in Asia. Now I'm 60 years old and still love these young, beautiful Asain ladies. I never forget the reality of human nature. Im sure I'm sending some young guy on vacation and buying his clothes. The good part is usually with age. We have the financial ability to still play the game.

[@jjackmanster]

The great financial disparity must be recognized is a challenge. I worked in an office where the Philipina clerk was married to an American high school teacher. She routinely spoke derogatively about him and milked him to bring her whole family to Canada when they were permitted to come to California. This was over 30 years ago, but what has changed?

[@jjackmanster]

The family was not allowed to immigrate to the US. I suspect the sugar daddy largely paid for the family to live in Canada.

[@gaboristvankiska7655]

All dating apps in the Philippines is a big bulls.

[@TheBlackManInTheVillage]

I have been with my Filipina wife for 20 years now. She is my 3rd wife. She is the best thing that has come into my life. Just like other countries, there are bad women everywhere. This is a poor country, so who wouldn't want more help. All I have to say is when you do find a good Filipina woman, you have found a dam good woman for life. Whatever you decide to do for a Filipina is your business. If you make a mistake, then you will learn from it. My first two wives lied a lot, and they were American. Go with your instinct and your heart...

[@samual3006]

Obviously your first two wives didn't love you.Thats why your desperate for a third world woman as they are not fussy who they go with as long as you have money 😅

[@jamesrecknor6752]

Excellent

[@frankellis9627]

I'm sorry Chad but Christian Filipina is ridiculously too expensive, bro 🤨

[@timsatterfield9752]

oh wow, you have no clue about the dynamics. I bought a lifetime membership in 2016. Didn’t meet my gf until 2023!! Yes, 7 years later. The investment will pay off forever. Especially if the person actually likes being in the Philippines & would consider retiring there.

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

I have a friend who swears by it, he met his 'angel' through it. Now she doesn't want to be intimate with him anymore (pretty much since he took her back to the states). When that time comes, they'll tell you their expired. No thank you!

[@frankellis9627]

@@JamesHickman-g5c To hell with that 😲

[@frankellis9627]

@@timsatterfield9752 Congratulations, you're one of the lucky ones. You can count your blessings 🤔

[@joelb099]

Christian Filipina is not the way to go..too many scammers..plus the pics are a true representation of..do a boots on the ground approach..Even Chad doesn’t use dating sites..he just gets sponsored by them..best way to meet a Filipina is to meet her at her job..bottom line is don’t use dating apps..it’s stupid and dumb..

[@edprobe4707]

Some Filipinas know that if they ask for money too soon that you'll be gone. Soooooo, they don't and that's designed to give you a false sense that they are for real. But rest assured, they are plotting and planning.... it's called "the long game".

[@jesse75]

Some are better at it than others.

[@kristinhannah001]

and foreigners arent wise enough to notice that?? or they just abide by what the woman wants because why badly, desperately wanted a Filipina?

[@stevesilver7437]

The long game is also for all women but I see it in the Philippines faster 😮

[@jesse75]

@@kristinhannah001 most are hard up and never had attention for many years. So what do you expect.

[@kristinhannah001]

@@jesse75 not a good excuse to be du/mb. i mean, you can be desperate but still using your head

[@davidstrumsky7012]

GREAT 5 points! It's not that the money requests are not legit. It's about "when the relationship dynamic is based around (monetary) support." THAT's the danger signal, the red flag. It's not about her or her needs. It's that giving monetary support sabotages any chance for the relationship to succeed. It creates a weakness in it that is catastrophic really. Also #4, The cultural differences (we "date," but they're moving faster ahead on that relationship route). You brought up really great realities we whitewash, those gray areas. I've re-watched this and learned more each time. I'd retitle this episode, "Great Intentions, as in the road to hell is paved with good intentions." I've watched your channel a few years. You packed a lot of hard-won wisdom and fairness into this one. THANKS.

[@brianhowell3713]

Thanks for being honest!

[@richarddavis1595]

I met and dated women from South America and my thing was, if I met some pretty girl online and the first thing they did was beg me for money, my response was always the same…. I don’t give money to women I’m not sleeping with.. 😂 obviously this never went over very well and usually after a few choice words she was gone 😂

[@jimvan-m7y]

If not for money we would not be in the Philippines,

[@joeh9009]

This is true, saying that i have £300,000 in assets in my home country with a decent pension soon in 4 years so its not just the money but mainly yes for most it is.

[@williamjhunter5714]

Just be aware of this...if you're invited to a birthday, party, dinner or beach table and meal... You'll be handed the bill for the entire family and guests. Be sure you have 12-20k pesos in your wallet.

[@iknowURbutwhatami-v4f]

they invite you and you've to pay. 😮

[@petesrules1508]

Oh hell yeah, hahahaha. You will pay for everything if you go in a group anywhere. My wife, I and kids went to a swimming pool and there were 40 of my wife's relatives outside waiting for us to get in. They were waiting for me to pay the 50 pesos entry fee. Another time I was invited to meet my girlfriend's Auntie 25 years ago and there was 30 people waiting to meet me but I was expected to feed and supply drinks for all of them without me given any notice. Over 25 years everytime we go to dinner with the relatives I have always paid.

[@michelangelosalmoiraghi2227]

This is great advice!... at 12:33 "Just try not to be a dumb dumb, too often, or not at all, if you can avoid it" ...Chad is trying his best to give it to you gently here guys. Please heed his advice. I myself try not to be a dumb dumb too often or not at all if I can avoid it! But it is easier said than done!

[@biashacker]

It is about time a person talks about lying. Let me tell you so many people lie but no one talks about it. It is the same in Thailand. Thanks for covering that topic Chad.

[@BillyTimes-dw7vs]

Great video chad this been going on for years. Yes i have sent money to women and yes i flew 8,,000 miles to meet them and yes they really need money 💰. But dont send large amounts and say No they will respect you more.

[@joshuarizalforeman816]

Maybe do what I did - don't trust online relationships, and perhaps meet in person. I met my Filipina wife in person in HK 10 years ago. She comes from a humble (poor) background, but she was up-front about it as soon as we met.We are around the same age, we have a family, property, income and business interests. Whenever she has a large financial outlay, such as buying a car, she asks me if it is ok. I support her daughter and niece at university and employ her family in our business. If you get scammed/deceived it's probably down to you.

[@ROGERX007]

No matter what woman cost alot of money so go where you wanted and your money goes further

[@nilla003]

Coming up on our 20 year anniversary and it's been the best years of my life. And yes, we help her family in the Phils, but she makes a point of sending the money that she earns.

[@MrMediterrano]

Short-time is still unbeaten

[@ldrcoupleinlove910]

A lie is a deal breaker. Honesty is the best for a relationship.

[@chivalryisdead6440]

In my experience the ladies that know exactly how to keep your attention are the ones you should be cautious with. Because chances are that they gained that skill by having experiences with a lot of different men. The ones that have to figure out how to interact with you along the way are the ones you are looking for. Number 4. You have to manage her expectation. Especially during chatting you should make it clear that her expectations should be low. And also be honest about having your reservations about marriage.

[@Valhalla_Heathen]

Bingo! Long story short, last year I met a pinay and we would talk every single day in addition to video chatting for moths. When I lost my job that’s when she disappeared. I dodged a major bullet with her!

[@fogrunr5075]

Really nicely put together video. Nice logical flow.

[@TheFox808]

Top notch video! 100% agree with everything you said. And to add something to the bit about girls that approach you... there's also a 50/50 chance it's a ladyboy

[@bradleymiller7375]

Chad ur right on! Great video full of vital information! We all need to hear this again!

[@thienpham911]

bro...these are some solid advices. Not just for philippines but vietnamese as well...

[@cameronhill8023]

Beautiful views, good convo, thanks. Similar warnings for Japan too (Where I am based)

[@dominicgerodano5481]

Phillipines, Cuba, Columbia, Thailand, etc. Remember you have the advantage guys. I've been traveling to these countries for 25 years. I'm 48 but I've used Testosterone and Hgh so I look a lot younger. I don't settle at all, I only date girls in the Philippines with a Job, because that means they have a college degree and passed the background check. These girls aren't the professional daters of foreign men, or not usually. They won't let you have a three some with them, but also they won't use you along with 3 others they're fn. So don't take anything at face value and don't give them money. Once you give them money, your just a mark from then on and she will never take you seriously.

[@davidpark2509]

I thought testosterone makes you look older

[@bhutchin1996]

British Columbia?

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

A lot of western guys are beaten down from the culture back home, they don't realize they are the prize here (supply and demand). However, so many simps send these girls money without even meeting, they won't look twice at you. Why should they? The get the money without giving up any honey.

[@gordonreinz9849]

​@davidpark2509 Low T ages you quickly. Steroid levels of T can age you quicker. Healthy levels keeps you looking young

[@JamesHickman-g5c]

@@gordonreinz9849 Most have high enough "T" buy low free "T," and higher estrogen levels. You have to increase your resistance workouts (i.e., the heaviest wights you can manage), and adopt a diet that lowers aromatase and SGBH.

[@brianh9014]

So very true. Don't fall for the hardship line and feel the need to give, it will only escalate. 😅

[@robbatayaki5505]

Excellent insight. 60yo living in Bkk (no shortage of girls here) and whatsaping with a 20yo Philipina. Never thought it could happen to me. All the alarm bells are ringing.

[@JB22636]

Dont click on any links she sends you.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Block her. Your gut is warning you. Lol

[@martinpeter1296]

Really a very honest and great video. Thank you for that! Maraming salamat :-)

[@targetguy777]

I learned my lesson years ago i went there gave the gal a engagement ring and little did i know the whole family was in on it that she had a 20 yr younger boyfriend and they are a scam teamI wasted a lot of time and money and many gals their have boyfriend or husbands and legally married.

[@kevcox5585]

Always great advice Chad, you always put alot of thought into it and give guys who are planning on making the trip alot of food for thought and just to be more realistic in terms of what could happen with girls you meet there, compared to someone you think you know, who you are taking to online before you travel.

[@ChadFosterExplores]

Thanks I appreciate it 🙏and glad it's helpful stuff

[@GaryH-pw9cm]

I was married to a Philippine woman in 1995. I could write a book about the experience. Watch these videos and read all the books you can find first. Then visit the Philippines for a month first to see if this is something that works for you. I would suggest Cebu. It really is a different culture. One suggestion also if you do meet someone you like is to study her family. If you want to know what your Philippine wife will be like in 10 years study, her parents carefully because the apple doesn't fall too far from the tree. Chances are good that she won't be too much different than her parents. If you get any red flags, move on. They can capture your heart so go slow so as not to be blinded by their beauty. My wife was half Spanish, half Philippine. Also remember you can take your wife out of the country, but you can't take the country out of your wife. Look before you leap.

[@MarkAugustine]

Open & honest is major key yes!

[@alphago9397]

01:55 1. requesting money while getting to know them. 05:10 2. lying. (very common). 08:40 3. pursuit of younger cuter girls can distract you from potential incompatibilities. 12:30 4. dating culture much more rapid. escalates quickly. 16:50 5. outgoing approachable girls usually lead to trouble; passive girls usually more devoted, suitable. (+ upfront honesty is key).

[@shawnmendrek3544]

#5, mmhm, outgoing typically a party girl.

[@runerebel8441]

Nice video. Same in Thailand..

[@andre1987eph]

I have a lot of experience with Asian women. For context, I am 66% British Isles ancestry and 34% West African. Although my sensibilities are generally English, due to my African heritage and what I perceive as a lack of social nuance among some Asian women, they often see me as Black-almost like an 'undercover' white guy. I've attended medical school with them, lived in their neighborhood for 30 years, and worked in medicine alongside them. My last girlfriend was half Chinese. From my experience, Western men are often naive about Asian women: their inner qualities are quite different from their outward beauty. Also, if you observe carefully, you'll notice that Asians rarely offer personal compliments spontaneously unless they have an ulterior motive. Why would any man want to commit to that? In my opinion, the best women are of Northern European heritage, but modern-day feminism has made it challenging to find a good match there.

[@JohnSmith-nx7rx]

That's my experience also. But ...but ... Asians are fun in bed 🛏️ and they jump 🦘 in bed easy real fast. In addition Asian get old so there is no need to keep them long term. Just change them every once in a while for a younger better model. Simple.

[@lzcontrol]

Sheeeit, dawg!

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Your photo makes me think "light skinned black guy".

[@jeffras7889]

Your advice and comments are great - based on experience and common sense and knowledge of human courtship behavior and realities on the ground. Didnt disagree with anything you said. Married to a Filipina lady for 22 years.

[@antonglas7488]

Down to using common sense. It`s similar in Thailand and the neighbouring countries. If you meet a S.E. Asian woman and all her problems can only be solved with money, run for the hills. If you meet a girl young enough to be your daughter or granddaughter, it`s not going to be about love on her part, she`s only interested in your money. As regards lying, this pertains to women worldwide and why no women can be taken at face value.

[@scottbaird5674]

Great advice the harder ones to get are generally much better po

[@Danbb-sc5oc]

Im american 32 had a filipina gf 42 she was separated had 2 adult kids. She would constantly ask for money it got to the point where she would ask for 100k every 2 weeks either for her "business" or her kids "needs" i thought it would be ok since i worked with her godmother here in the us but it was a total disaster and i met her 4x in the phil

[@AaronOlafson]

A suckers is born every minute. Good luck.

[@jerichojohnson3219]

100K PHP 2000 USD

[@Danbb-sc5oc]

@MakeTheRules2 i like older woman man. What can i say. Younger woman actually turn me off i cant deal with the immaturity

[@Danbb-sc5oc]

@@jerichojohnson3219 yes thats correct 100k is 2000usd thats what she asked for her kids her siblings every 2 weeks.

[@joeh9009]

@@Danbb-sc5oc Me too bro , I'm 36 but love a mature one, id go for a max 50 year old GILF Filipina.

[@grandekev1]

If I was ever going to go to the Philippines, I would go with a friend I met here. She is Catholic like me and active in her church here and back home. She told me that she has a lot of friends. I actually met on FB, a girl who was like a little sister to her back there. A very cute girl but lost contact when I deleted my old FB. I would forget dating apps and build a network. Easier to find someone genuine when values align and it is organic.

[@joeboyd5349]

Wise words

[@jamesingebretsen6165]

A good woman is God sent.

[@iknowURbutwhatami-v4f]

most women in the Philippines aren't Godly (they're Ungodly) from what i've observed viewing KZbin videos about women in the Philippines.

[@Coffewithsteve]

They also lie and say got no kids when they have herd that one from friend.

[@onlinegames4019]

Wow, i think there was someone talking but i was too distracted by the sights, especially the islands at the end, interesting and paradise! Big thumbs up.

[@Coffewithsteve]

Especially when family pushes her to get money

[@isadorebarboza9730]

Love the honest information thanks..

[@BB_usmc]

Whenever you under estimate someone, and you over estimate your own worth, disaster will ensue regardless what country you're in.

[@ricbra33]

Excellent video and very well spoken!

[@ChrisLindsay-y9f]

Your intro about gals needing money sounds just like the gal my son is pouring money into here in the states and she's American just draining him.

[@reemsaif3105]

Glad to be a girl here. Im looking forward to doing a few projects helping the poor comminity there. Dont mix love with fixing poverty 😊

[@dennispadilla5853]

If you're a 50+ foreigner looking to hook up with an under 22-year-old Filipina, you need to be realistic. Know that they're looking for financial and economic salvation and accept the fact that you're no longer a spring chicken that would bag an attractive young woman if you did not have the means to provide for her. It's a two-way street, you have to provide what she needs to get what you want.

[@hansreynders6853]

Exactly.

[@humungushumungus213]

No shit

[@GBU61]

When you see these guys (I can think of two vloggers around 70) and they show their wives/girlfriends on their channels, if you really listen to their subjects, it is all about providing. I don’t blame them nor am I criticizing them because 99% of men who go to the Philippines are there for the women. But at least be honest and understand the ONLY reason she is with him is for the lifestyle/money he can offer her.

[@jackwu-y4u]

QUID PRO QUO

[@SuperDrJeckyl]

@MakeTheRules2 A kid makes them less wild??? A kid is what grandparents take care of there while the single parent is even more wild. They are all wild.