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Bedroom Stories That We NEED to Talk About | Ustaz Zulfikfli + Dr. Harlina

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Planning for marriage is way more than planning your wedding day and honeymoon destination. Condoms - taboo much? Bedroom stories - a little too extreme? In fact, here the things that sometimes couple overlooked or misunderstood or even had no idea about how it can affect a family planning.
In this episode of Couple Talk Season 3, we have Dr Harlina and Ustaz Zul on a topic to help you understand better about family planning. The questions of when should you have your second child or what are the best ways to make sure what you plan, works.
Together with Aiman Azlan, they will tell you what you need to know and understand about planning a family well.
Aiman Azlan's Instagram : / aimanazlan9. .
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@faridtakaful
@faridtakaful 4 жыл бұрын
This forum topic supposedly perlu ada dalam syllabus khursus perkahwinan
@nurizzatinajihah1802
@nurizzatinajihah1802 4 жыл бұрын
SETUJU. TOPIK MACAM NI PERLU ADA DALAM SYLLABUS KURSUS KAHWIN.
@Abdullahel
@Abdullahel 4 жыл бұрын
Syllabus sekarang pon dh packed, xcukup masa nak tambah slot ....
@lovelostfound
@lovelostfound 4 жыл бұрын
Seriously
@amyrsyhd3632
@amyrsyhd3632 3 жыл бұрын
Yes instead of some random Ustaz jokes about malam pertama and people find it VERY amusing. There are far more important matters than that
@hidniadriana1995
@hidniadriana1995 3 жыл бұрын
100% setujuuu
@ehhstanum
@ehhstanum 4 жыл бұрын
Every pregnancy should be planned, intended and wanted.
@hanumiji6266
@hanumiji6266 4 жыл бұрын
PART 1 1:14 how did you guys first met? 2:24 the story from Ustaz Zul’s perspective 3:49 Dr. Har’s perspective on medical doctor marrying an ustaz - Ustaz Zul supports Dr. Har internally and at the same time doctors too need to support ustaz and ustazah 4:49 What is family planning? Dr. Har is an obstetrician gyneacologist 5:55 Dr. Har: I want all my children, should be planned, intended and wanted. Maknanya kita plan kita nak berapa besar keluarga kita tu, lepas tu kita ukur dekat badan kita sendiri. Every single pregnancy tu, kedatangan anak tu dimulakan dengan kedua ibubapanya both are actually praying for that, supaya ianya kita rancang dan kita hajatkan, kita niatkan dan kita kehendaki. 7:16 Ustaz Zul: Kita kahwin ni, kena ada perbincangan. Kalau tak merancang ni maksudnya tak respect each other. Sebab tu kita bincang bila kita perlu dapat anak, sekarang kat mana tahap kita. Dua tahun pertama tu sengaja tak nak dapat anak, supaya kita kenal-kenal dulu. Masa kami kahwin, isteri tengah houseman, saya pula tengah diploma. Jadi kami bincang, boleh tak tangguh sikit. Orang yang tak faham kata kenapa nak tangguh-tangguh Allah bagi rezeki. But that’s not the problem. Point dia ialah hormat. Yang nak mengandung tu bukan saya! Isteri! 8:59 Ustaz Zul’s perspective on his wife work schedule as a houseman officer. - yang penting kita faham dan respect each other. Point penting merancang ni ialah respect each other. 9.34 Bila moment mula berbincang dan macam mana perbincangan tu berjalan? 10:50 Dr Har on taking her opportunity to discuss with her husband, Ustaz Zul about conceiving by explaining her job nature as a houseman officer and asking her husband’s permission to be on the pill. 12:42 “the trophy of a man is actually when he can impregnate the wife.” I lol’d at this and their first child was born exactly on their 2nd wedding anniversary 13:33 Host on reactionary comments of couples such as “oops!” atau pun “Yang, pregnant lagi.” “ha?? lagi??” kalau boleh kita nak redha tu awal-awal 14:21 perasaan dan emosi ibu itu sangat mempengaruhi kehamilan dan jugak sahsiah anak. Kalau isteri stress, akan nampak kat anak. 15:00 kaedah merancang untuk suami lebih mudah dan murah, sebab kalau tak pakai, bukan dia mengandung, tapi isteri yang mengandung. (taboo of using a condom) 16:52 breasfeeding is almost impossible for mothers who get pregnant even before the previous child reaches 2 years old 17:46 using condom is a sensitive topic for men? 19:03 Ustaz Zul’s explaining a hadith mentioning about impregnating the wife who is still breastfeeding
@nurulwajihah3833
@nurulwajihah3833 4 жыл бұрын
Nk copyy tpi x leh select plk
@rowenaravenclaw2215
@rowenaravenclaw2215 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the time stamp! Really helps a lot
@machalattes
@machalattes 3 жыл бұрын
you're an angel!
@nurfatinamiera7932
@nurfatinamiera7932 3 жыл бұрын
Inilah input yang sepatutnya dibincangkan dalam kursus kahwin. I went to kursus kahwin last year but ended up feeling disappointed sbb most of the time cakap psl isteri kena layan suami 😅 Thank you for this podcast!!!! Sangat sangat membantu
@pastedsmiley
@pastedsmiley 4 жыл бұрын
So glad that this topic is being addressed. I am a strong proponent of family planning and believe strongly that every couple should be able to decide how big or small their family is and when it happens. Please don’t fall for what others say, about rejecting rezeki and whatnot. Kita merancang, Allah menentukan.
@friff369
@friff369 4 жыл бұрын
myb you guys could invite Sheikh Muszaphar and Dr Halina Mohd Yunos abt their child edu
@mohammidalituah5389
@mohammidalituah5389 3 жыл бұрын
.. In
@nurulsikin6883
@nurulsikin6883 3 жыл бұрын
Ni k ni ku tau u
@KNisaKA
@KNisaKA 4 жыл бұрын
Tak pernah terfikir selama ni yang "planned, intended and wanted" is about respecting each other. Glad i had the idea and my husband agreed to it and now even more bersyukur husband sebenarnya respect my decision. Thank you for sharing!!
@masithahhanis7775
@masithahhanis7775 3 жыл бұрын
Planned ,intended dan wanted
@hanumiji6266
@hanumiji6266 4 жыл бұрын
PART 11 19:45 tujuan utama perkahwinan dalam Islam 1) menghalalkan hubungan kelamin 2) mendapat zuriat. Adakah anak itu sebenar-benar rezeki? 23:16 Dr. Har menerangkan tentang kaedah azl/withdrawal method yang disebut didalam buku ‘the family planning in the legacy of islam’ by Prof Dr. Abdul Rahim Omran yang juga merupakan kaedah popular tapi juga paling tinggi kadar kegagalan. Dalam 100 kes, 7-8 orang akan mengandung. 26:48 Dr. Har’s take on sikap masyarakat tentang topik seksualiti yang menganggap topik sex education ialah taboo dan tidak sepatutnya dibincangkan secara terbuka tapi dalam masa yang sama memandang hubungan seksual secara sambil lewa My fav point here, “kita kena ada sikap yang seimbang antara dua ekstrim. It’s not moderation, a middle point is not a moderate point or a neutral point. It’s a balanced point. Goldilock principal of not too much not too little, not too hard, not too soft so it’s just nice. Dr Har elaborated saying aspek seksualiti itu penting, fitrah manusia. Kita kena bawa isu ini bukan hanya pada level primitive brain, which is just 4Fs, feed, fornicate, flight and fight which are for survivals. Kalau tidak dibincangkan, kita akan berada dibawah sajalah. 30:24 ustaz zul’s take on adakah perkahwinan itu menyusahkan? Adakah kaedah merancang itu dibolehkan dalam Islam? 33:46 adakah isteri WAJIB melayan suami ketika dikehendaki? Allah cakap salah satu ciri orang yang berjaya ialah mereka yang khusyuk dalam solat. Tapi kalau hubungan suami isteri tak cantik, khusyuk ke solatnya? 35:23 Ustaz Zul’s perspective on breastfeeding women and husband’s role in initiating intercourse 37:27 foreplay vs. hindplay Hubungan intim itu ialah kemuncak daripada kualiti komunikasi kita sepanjang hari 39:38 ada tak orang yang tak perlukan family planning ni? 40:41 Dr Har’s sharing on their experience of minding the year gap in between children. When is it okay to have another child? “the time for another baby is when our relationship is like when we just got married.” 44:01 Lagi banyak anak, lagi banyak rezeki? Ustaz Zul - anak merupakan amanah. Cuma nak sedap mulut dia memberi rezeki kepada ibu bapa dia supaya ibu bapanya lebih bekerja keras untuk menyara anak ini. Akan tetapi walaupun dengan adanya anak ini dan masih tiada usaha keras dari ibu bapa, maka anak ini akan menjadi satu musibah dan fitnah. 51:21 nasihat terakhir Dr. Har dalam konteks wanita. The excitement that comes when it is planned, intended and wanted. 😊 Is second child syndrome true? If the second child is conceived accidentally, unplanned and not given much attention unlike during first pregnancy.
@nuratiqah7746
@nuratiqah7746 4 жыл бұрын
I really adore with this talk. This we called a real marriage that said in Islam. Thank youuu so much Dr. Harlina, Ust. Zulkifli and aiman azlann !!!!!
@munayana5366
@munayana5366 4 жыл бұрын
The last point or advice mentioned by Dr. Har on the treatment given by parents for the second child was really heart moving especially when she said 'that's how the child will be treated throughout her life' when the baby was donned in her sister's clothes . Allahu akbar.. may Allah help us all to do good and justice for our children. Amiin. A very mind opening and insightful talk!
@DoubleSYA
@DoubleSYA 4 жыл бұрын
I love her so much. The first time I met Dr Harlina was in 2005. She bravely talked about the effect of zina. Tunjuk segala penyakit akibat zina. Thanks Dopstv for inviting them. Tetamu jemputan season ni bukan calang-calang.Topik sgt menarik dan bermanfaat. Love always~~
@IlyaniSophia
@IlyaniSophia 3 жыл бұрын
Dua-dua guest best. Jarang sangat dengar perspective agama macam ustaz ni cakap. Mostly yang kita biasa duk dengar je. Thank you!
@salwayusof5862
@salwayusof5862 3 жыл бұрын
Kannn, very straight forward and perfect
@muizzsir6425
@muizzsir6425 4 жыл бұрын
TOLONG PASTIKAN ISU NI DIKUPAS DALAM KURSUS KAHWIN. Terima kasih =)
@nabilahsaifulbahrin5123
@nabilahsaifulbahrin5123 4 жыл бұрын
Agree with this talk, and answer for my question. Saya dah kahwin 2 years, Allah masih belum takdirkan saya dan suami rezeki anak. Tapi, bila berbalik dengan konsep percaya dengan rezeki Allah dan tahap bersedianya saya dan suami untuk terima cahaya mata, mungkin kami belum bersedia. Allah akan bagi bila tibanya waktu yang sesuai. Thank you Dr. Harlina and Ustaz Zul, this talk very inspired me!
@babybeargirlie
@babybeargirlie 4 жыл бұрын
True. Alhamdulillah, me myself, after coming to 5 years, Allah kurniakan rezeki zuriat. Now 20th weeks. InsyaAllah rezeki Allah sentiasa tepat pada waktunya.
@DOPStv
@DOPStv 4 жыл бұрын
MasyaAllah, thx for watching the premiere guys, wait till the end thsy sharing soooo much good knowledge and don’t forget to share your takeway from this sharing..
@mrsfazirapracy2091
@mrsfazirapracy2091 4 жыл бұрын
can u guys jemput Dr Halina dan Dr Sheikh Muszaphar.❤❤
@albaraqbah
@albaraqbah 4 жыл бұрын
Masya Allah ... I have been waiting for some ustaz or ustazah to bring this talk from islamic perspective and this duo couple has a perfect combination... I learned so much from this. This talk needs to spread. It only has 41 likes.. 😣
@hanumiji6266
@hanumiji6266 4 жыл бұрын
This should be viral. Congrats to the team for bringing up this topic so full of knowledge and insights tabarakallah
@angah54
@angah54 4 жыл бұрын
should discuss this topic during kursus kahwin.
@ustazahsuha
@ustazahsuha 4 жыл бұрын
Definitely.
@akudanbuku5160
@akudanbuku5160 4 жыл бұрын
setuju
@irdinanajib
@irdinanajib 4 жыл бұрын
i duduk diam dengar the whole session. explains how wonderful something and someone knowledgeable may attract people ♥️
@firdausyusof7305
@firdausyusof7305 4 жыл бұрын
Very insightful and knowledgeable discussion of a topic which is deemed as taboo amongst our community. May Allah bless you all who are involved in this podcast for the sake to better our community. InsyaAllah amin.
@sheshere2103
@sheshere2103 4 жыл бұрын
Planned, intended and wanted
@sunsetlass8959
@sunsetlass8959 4 жыл бұрын
Ma Shaa Allah! I really love Dr.Harlina and her husband..although im not yet married, this is actually a good knowledge for us to know beforehand
@annissabdrie
@annissabdrie 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this! Memang patut dibincangkan especially untuk young couples, planning to get married or baru kahwin. Planning is not a sin, because in the end, taking care of a child is a huge responsibility and their upbringing is a reflection of their parents. Saja nak tau, Ustaz ni ada buat kursus kahwin tak? Sebab jarang ada ustaz yang beri pendapat macam ni kan.
@rasydanrazin9415
@rasydanrazin9415 4 жыл бұрын
I'm agree with this talk... How's it's beautiful with Islamic n science for sexually education... Don't be embarrassing to talk this issue with ur partners... ❤️❤️
@miloais4175
@miloais4175 4 жыл бұрын
wow!!! couple yang aku rasa have a lot of wisdom a lot to learn from both of them semoga ustaz zul dan dr har diberi kesihatan dan rezeki yang luas, so that kami boleh belajar lagi dari diaorang
@hyuckneckmole
@hyuckneckmole 4 жыл бұрын
Dr Halina came to my uni few days ago and she talked about time management. I really adore her so much 🥰
@kelabumasin9173
@kelabumasin9173 4 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum and bismillah i do agree with the statement anak itu amanah. many ppl dont think harder on this statement and mendidik anak2 sambil lewa. your child has their rights for your unconditional love and undevided attention in the early 6 yrs and later in life, the PARENTS RESPONSIBILITY to educate them about prayers and so on and i also believe that, when a child is born, Allah akan permudahkan rezeki kedua ibu bapanya, again, permudahkan not magically tmbah rezeki without effort.
@sitinur2177
@sitinur2177 4 жыл бұрын
Good discussion... kalau la ramai yg boleh tonton session ni mesti bagus. Boleh collect info untuk keharmonian rumah tangga bersama
@nuramirah7730
@nuramirah7730 4 жыл бұрын
Bagus utk pasangan yg baru nak kahwin & dalam fasa perkahwinan . Tq so much 💕🥰
@noradilah2397
@noradilah2397 4 жыл бұрын
I love this podcast topic. dapat tahu knowledge about family planning. even though belum kahwin lagi. everyone should learn. thank you Dr. Harlina and Ustaz Zul for the sharing
@nurulafidahbarmawi7862
@nurulafidahbarmawi7862 4 жыл бұрын
Saya cadangkan pihak yg menguruskan kursus kahwin share vid ni pada mereka yg ambik kursus supaya lebih faham dan jelas. Sangat penting segala apa yg dibincangkan.
@mohammadfathy4017
@mohammadfathy4017 4 жыл бұрын
Jazakallah khair DOPStv bawakan Ustaz Zul dan Dr Har, moga Allah rahmahti kalian. Dengan cetiknya ilmu kami yang muda ini, dapat pula pencerahan begini, amatlah sangat berguna.
@firdausmac
@firdausmac 3 жыл бұрын
Terbaik, kami suami isteri pun berbincang dulu sebelum nk ade anak, bila berbincang maka anak yg seterusnya akan ada jarak yg cukup sekurang2nya 2 tahun, beza anak saye yg ke 3 dan ke 2 pun jauh jarak ke 4 tahun. Saya dengan isteri mmg open nk bincang bab2 mcm ni, samada guna kaedah Azl atau guna kondom, kalo beli kat 7-E atau farmasi mmg mahal kondom2 ni, biase beli kat Shopee murah, beli bnyk2 sikit. Ikut keperluan masing2. 1 kotak ade 12 pcs, kalo rase cukup utk sebulan ok le. Tp ape yg Dr Har & Ust Zul kongsi mmg betul, kalo kite betul2 kenal pasangan kite, kekerapan bersama boleh jd lebih dlm seminggu, ade org dok sibuk malam Jumaat je, tp bg saye...kalo sesame pasangan punya kesefahaman yg baik, kadang setiap hari pun boleh bersama, awal2 kawin mungkin leh 3-4 kali dlm sehari. Skrang dh ramai anak, xdpt lah nk bersame sesekerap mase awal perkahwinan dahulu Terima kasih atas perkongsi ini, moga ada lebih bnyk lg perkongsian seperti ini, lagi2 zaman covid ni, ceramah2 bagus tgk online je drpd pi kumpul ramai2.
@rueyusof
@rueyusof 4 жыл бұрын
very eye opening indeed.. thank you so much for this topic!! one important jewel that I got was to treat your second (and up-comings) the same way you treated your first.
@dindarizkiana7158
@dindarizkiana7158 4 жыл бұрын
Assalamu'alaikum. Saya dari Indonesia, suka sekali channel ini. Masha Allah Tabarakallah. Banyak belajar tentang topik ini, meskipun masih single 😃 Jazakumullah khoiro 👍👍
@iwillbungeejump
@iwillbungeejump 4 жыл бұрын
Ohmy. cant wait! The couple guests keep getting better and better!
@samsiahabdrahman6363
@samsiahabdrahman6363 3 жыл бұрын
Pooing I uuuopuuuuuuuuuuuuuuouuuuu
@samsiahabdrahman6363
@samsiahabdrahman6363 3 жыл бұрын
Fuuuuuiuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
@samsiahabdrahman6363
@samsiahabdrahman6363 3 жыл бұрын
Uuuuouufufuuufuuuufuufuuuuuufuuuuu
@munirahnashuha8405
@munirahnashuha8405 4 жыл бұрын
Perbincangan yg sangat bermanfaat... Perlu dikongsi di media sosial supaya mendapat lebih banyak capaian. Tahniah DOPStv. Keep it up!
@mrsirv8792
@mrsirv8792 4 жыл бұрын
Love this couple talk episode so much. Very informative, useful tips and discussion around family planning. Dr Harlina and husband did well at educating the Muslim society about family planning and its importance in Islam. Much respect and love to them.
@katrinamy1170
@katrinamy1170 4 жыл бұрын
SubhanaAllah! How smooth Ustaz Zul and Dr Halina talked bout this topic. Love much! ❤️
@aayfsobimoma430
@aayfsobimoma430 4 жыл бұрын
subhanallah, i hope u guys can add more sharing from islamic perspective, really like Dr Har and Ustaz Zul, nak dengar lagi ..
@ignora5i0
@ignora5i0 4 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum.. Kepada DOPStv, saya nak ucapkan terima kasih yang tak terhingga sebab mewujudkan perbincangan yang sangat ilmiah dan bermanfaat macam ni. Alhamdulillah sangat2 sebab saya marathon DOPStv sekarang dah berjam-jam. Saya sangat tertarik dengan topik yang dibincangkan. Saya harap sangat DOPStv akan dapat meneruskan dakwah sebegini. Semoga Allah redha. Amin.
@safiyyahabdul6528
@safiyyahabdul6528 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah suami slalu minta izin, you da sihat ke? Da boleh ke bersama.. suami yg bijak dia akan hormat perasaan isteri² nya..
@ainialias5523
@ainialias5523 4 жыл бұрын
Rasa nk like bykkkkk tpi skali je boleh 👍 good discussion
@hasifzul
@hasifzul 4 жыл бұрын
I Love this bedtime stories so much! And yes i love to see aiman reaction 🥰
@miasndels
@miasndels 4 жыл бұрын
16:31 'Prior to' solemnization... in the subtitle means sebelum nikah kan... tapi dalam bahasa melayu bunting pelamin maksudnya mengandung awal perkahwinan... lain tu
@musangcelestial5564
@musangcelestial5564 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, mohon tukar supaya tak timbul kekeliruan
@aniszamri3853
@aniszamri3853 4 жыл бұрын
Saya nak tekan like banyak kali takleh pulak 😂. Love it ❤️
@splurgeandsplurge7122
@splurgeandsplurge7122 4 жыл бұрын
Dr harlina!! Omg thanks so much Dopstv!
@syahiraadibatamrin2985
@syahiraadibatamrin2985 4 жыл бұрын
mins- 36:43 that was a very honest expression from you, bro Aiman. Thanks for the very informative discussion. love it when Dr. Harlina starts talking with medical terms! Good job DOPStv, tilljannah. I will definitely share it with my friends and others! ^^ -final year of med student & a wife
@qatrunnadarazali2331
@qatrunnadarazali2331 4 жыл бұрын
MasyaAllah... Awesome sharing. Love it! I'll spread it to my friends.. 👍👍👍
@moyochan
@moyochan 3 жыл бұрын
Subhanallah MasyaAllah. This is a very good discussion. Im overwhelmed 😢😢
@DIDA-ib6yv
@DIDA-ib6yv 4 жыл бұрын
second episode with these love birds pleaseeee... very informative!!.. Thankyou DopsTV
@wanmuhdhatim2958
@wanmuhdhatim2958 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for addressing this topic... I was so invested and i enjoyed every minute of this video. Thank you for the knowledge 😭 and i really love these couple punye conversation! Should bring them again please!
@surijo5399
@surijo5399 3 жыл бұрын
This is the real sex education. As someone who has not been married yet, this is indeed educational and comfortable. Every terms used are general terms if one actually studies the fields. And I don't even. This video, though. Great as reference for someone like me who's nearing 30 when marriage is a question that comes in package. Thank you for this!
@rodziahabdulrahman9252
@rodziahabdulrahman9252 4 жыл бұрын
Sgt2 menarik dan mberi inspirasi ..bnyk bljar..jazakumullahu khoiran kasiro..
@fatinizahari5687
@fatinizahari5687 4 жыл бұрын
really a good sharing... inshallah iam getting married soon.. and this is really good information
@nuraaashikin6111
@nuraaashikin6111 4 жыл бұрын
very good discussion especially for newly married couple .May Allah bless
@nuraqilah8968
@nuraqilah8968 3 жыл бұрын
Love this conversation!! I've the same thought with Dr. Harlina and Ustaz Zulkifli! Please reinvite them!! ❤✨
@amengrock
@amengrock 4 жыл бұрын
A much needed topic to be discussed! Great content, keep it up 👍🏼
@jayjaycomel490
@jayjaycomel490 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah all my 4+2 children is Planned, intended and wanted, by Allah, my husband and me.. terima kasih atas perkongsian..
@nadiahann8436
@nadiahann8436 3 жыл бұрын
My favourite session is always whenever aiman azlan invited dr.harlina 😌
@intannajiha4660
@intannajiha4660 4 жыл бұрын
The best couple talk sooo far👍. Very informative in the perspective of Islam & marriage 💜💜💜💜 Thank youu DOPStv
@nisaab9270
@nisaab9270 4 жыл бұрын
Betul lh tu. Kenapa lah taktahu dari awal 😅😅😅 mmg info terbaik.
@sweetbaumkuchen2294
@sweetbaumkuchen2294 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah. Stumbled upon this podcast after 1 week of miscarriage. This is my second miscarriage. This second pregnancy is planned, intended and wanted so I am heartbroken for the second time. After listening to Ustaz Zul and Dr. Har, I believe Allah has better plans for me and that He knows better of His subject's capabilities and maybe I am simply not up to standard yet. And maybe this is His answer to my prayers - that I want to have kids only when me and my husband are ready physically, mentally and financially. I believe in His mercy and through this podcast I am able to heal my heartbroken self. Pls continue the dakwah!
@violet349
@violet349 3 жыл бұрын
Patutnya dalam kursus kawen patut didedahkan isu family planning
@werekadesign3891
@werekadesign3891 4 жыл бұрын
waw.. new generation should know this. thanks u so much
@ainnzm6781
@ainnzm6781 4 жыл бұрын
This is overall a very kind, respectful and compassionate discussion by a very empathetic couple about family planning... perhaps the only thing I disagree with is when the doctor suggested that women should not deny their husband of having children because "our purpose is to have children"... this I disagree with because it might be *her* purpose in life but certainly not every woman's purpose in life... I worry that this mentality might stigmatise those who do not wish to have children or those who might not feel ready to have children... I also worry that this mentality might make women feel pressured into having children at a time when they are not ready... this can precipitate strong negative emotions not just to the husband, but also to the unborn child...if a couple do not share the same goals about children, then perhaps they are not suited to begin with... all the more reasons why discussions about family planning should happen before marriage.
@zoitravlogs1811
@zoitravlogs1811 4 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah i just met you today Prof Har in Indonesian restaurant in Kajang 😍😍
@syaznienie
@syaznienie 3 жыл бұрын
This is the kind of knowledge that needs to be share to all
@ahmadsaif6923
@ahmadsaif6923 3 жыл бұрын
Started English, Ended Malay.🤣 That's how we roll. Great content, Alhamdulillah👍👍👍👍
@anisshafiqah7200
@anisshafiqah7200 3 жыл бұрын
Nice betul perkongsian mcmni ttg marriage life, sempoi tapi padat dgn ilmu! ❤️
@izahraza9036
@izahraza9036 3 жыл бұрын
Sedihnya analogi second child syndrome tu, yg pasal baju hand-down :/
@HuriyyahAinaa
@HuriyyahAinaa 4 жыл бұрын
i adore them very muchh and i could say that they are really meant for each other
@zulfanbatrisyia
@zulfanbatrisyia 4 жыл бұрын
Perbincangan yg penuh ilmiah . Tahniah . Tapi kalau boleh jurucakap jngn menyampuk bila dr atau ustaz tngh explain .
@syafiqshafiei2444
@syafiqshafiei2444 3 жыл бұрын
Ustaz saya ni.. Ustaz zul..teringat masa ustaz bagi khutbah Jumaat..dahsyat
@Durratul
@Durratul 4 жыл бұрын
Planned, intended & wanted❗
@hafizahhiffni
@hafizahhiffni 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, good sharing. Thank u
@myunpyao
@myunpyao 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for english subtitles!!!
@zeraakmal2533
@zeraakmal2533 3 жыл бұрын
Alhamdulillah, dapat ilmu yang baik dari pakar yang berpengalaman. Terima kasih🤗
@mllealia7
@mllealia7 4 жыл бұрын
Very good and informative talk. Thank you!
@markadam4761
@markadam4761 4 жыл бұрын
Ada spotify link tak? Boleh dengar podcast kat situ
@ahmadammar6418
@ahmadammar6418 3 жыл бұрын
Dr harlina so soft spoken, maybe in future i can name my daughter with dr's name
@AmiyaHida
@AmiyaHida 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this podcast ❤️
@NAA-rd7vy
@NAA-rd7vy 4 жыл бұрын
Not only both Dr Har and Ust Zul are good but this topic is i guess need to be discussed about. Thank you DOPStv for bringing up this topic !
@nikhazwannurazuin8308
@nikhazwannurazuin8308 4 жыл бұрын
Love this episode. Very fruitful
@nafiisashah5330
@nafiisashah5330 4 жыл бұрын
just wanna say one word,mantopp!!!!
@muhdyuzir6542
@muhdyuzir6542 4 жыл бұрын
this talk is really good dan bagi banyak ilmu baru dn pengetahuan baru.
@fmilymxx
@fmilymxx 4 жыл бұрын
Love this one. Kudos!
@aisyahrocks
@aisyahrocks 4 жыл бұрын
this video deserves more views
@Lina-dw6tt
@Lina-dw6tt 4 жыл бұрын
❤️ i love this podcastt.
@anissf3789
@anissf3789 4 жыл бұрын
Ya Allah Mashaa Allah. I learn a lotttt watching this.
@noorhayatifazlulhaque4294
@noorhayatifazlulhaque4294 4 жыл бұрын
Assalamualaikum...saya ingin mencadangkan kepada DOPStv topik berkenaan pasangan yang suami/isterinya sedang menyambung pelajaran..
@aliay2743
@aliay2743 3 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful couple, I live in London and we hear a lot about sex education. But this couple is so eloquent, please write a book for youngsters. Such valuable advice. So unique and much needed
@nurulsyairahaira7444
@nurulsyairahaira7444 4 жыл бұрын
Alhamdullilah.. Untung lagi Kursus PraPerkahwinan Negeri Johor.. Penceramah Undangan Termasuk Doktor sangat Open Stories untuk Reproduktif sehingga Ke HIV for many references.. Antara reason saranan membawa bersama Pasangan sbg Bakal 'Rasmi' #Pengalamansaya
@puterinuralisya1590
@puterinuralisya1590 3 жыл бұрын
this was so insightful & enjoyable! truly enjoyed this podcast and the knowledge i got after. kudos guysss, topics like these should really be discussed!
@cookiemonster940227
@cookiemonster940227 4 жыл бұрын
Would love to have them again.
@hobieyuto7516
@hobieyuto7516 4 жыл бұрын
Omg! I love this episode♡♡
@REVIEWSONTHERUN
@REVIEWSONTHERUN 4 жыл бұрын
Another interesting podcast.✌️
@WillyGhazi
@WillyGhazi 4 жыл бұрын
Yang dislikes ni mesti ada Avanza penuh anak ni.
@iwillbungeejump
@iwillbungeejump 4 жыл бұрын
55:19 😢
@izzahz730
@izzahz730 3 жыл бұрын
Terima kasih.
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