What is a Fine Women / An Attractive Man : Episode - Falling Forward

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Attraction points
1. Confidence
2. Fashion
3. Identity
4. Classy

[@stephanielatimore]

Hello! 🗣”You can’t live on the validation of people” .... “Choose to be confident” 👏👏👏

[@Saneesha92]

Lol I thought of the opposite sex as someone I thought as fine lol.....oops

[@aalayacooper2948]

I did, too, at first! 😂😂

[@Saneesha92]

@@aalayacooper2948 right🤣

[@adannegadison877]

Saneesha F Girlllll ! When he checked us I was like WOAHH you gon do us like thisss ?! Let’s get it then !

[@nikigracevlogs]

Saneesha F me too! I thought of my boyfriend 😭😂😂😂

[@Saneesha92]

@@nikigracevlogs 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Right lol thinking bout yo boo. I heard that lol

[@michelleakinyi987]

I loved the part that said "Low self esteem is not being humble! Amen" confidence is from God,he has not given us the spirit of fear, but of power and sound mind,🙏🏿

[@tierramonique]

I believe you can be humble and confident. Putting humility with low self-esteem is a play against words. People assume you must be weak if you are humble. However that's far from the truth. A person who is confident in themselves and in God are aware of the importance of being humble in situations that would usually call a person to think of themselves than others. The world says humility is thinking low of yourself but in God's eyes humility is putting others before you in a situation where you could only think of yourself. Confident and Cocky are on two different spectrums of defining personality. Confident is the assurance of one's ability where Cocky is being boastful and thinking you're better than other people. A true man and woman of God would want to be Confident and Humble. Just my opinion. Thanks for the videos and keep them coming. They are great conversations to have with others. God Bless:)

[@josalynhouston444]

Amen! Well said😊👍💖👏

[@aivlys16]

People always tell me I’m too confident. But without a doubt I know who I am and whose I am.

[@nikigracevlogs]

I literally closed my eyes, and then I peaked open and your video said “no looking” 😭😂😂😂😂 ..you have to have a quick mouth in my own family.. it’s not easy 😅 !! I definitely know my worth. It took a few painful experiences but I got there in the end! Through God 🙏🏾

[@trenishamagee3819]

You were so on point when you said about the low self -esteem and calling it being humble , because I a lot of Christians say that , I am guilty of saying that and even acting that way . I’m learning that it’s all about knowing who I am in Christ & understanding that I am created in the image and likeness of our creator. It’s a daily process for me .

[@Dozie4J]

Trenisha Magee we are called to be humble and confident. Low self / esteem is a attack to keep you from reaching your complete purpose.

[@trenishamagee3819]

Dozie Ezemma my question is how do you balance those two ?

[@mwashington6]

“People love people with a plan 👏🏾👏🏾.” This was really good.

[@learningearning8385]

Here after watching Hardly initiated. Dozie is Nigerian? Now it makes sense. Explains the good looks and Christian upbringing.

[@tinaglenn4587]

Hello Dozie just happened to stumble upon your channel & I absolutely love it.. I have watched a lot of your videos and I must say that I throughly enjoy each & everyone of them…. You are truly a man of God. Thank you for being a blessing too the kingdom of God & allowing him too use you too reach his people… I have learned so much from just watching your videos…. And Yessssss your absolutely right I am the king’s Daughter & I’m fearfully & wonderfully made .. Hallelujah all Glory be longs too you Father 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽…. God bless you and May he continue to richly bless you and your family… what a mighty man of God truly a blessing 🙏🏽

[@queenesther2866]

Confidence Fashion Identity Classy

[@kanishanparker]

"You can't live life on the validation of people." A word!

[@catherinemartinez118]

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder doesn't matter how you look yes it does matter what you dress but the way of thinking in your mind body is so beauty is of the essence

[@gracemutomboshako4996]

When I read the title I was wondering how he will connect that with Christ and then.. BINGO! That question in the beginning is definitely the truth. After all those years, I finally understood what "Identity in Christ" means. And that's helping me with my confidence (physically, mentally or in life). Now, I'm embracing myself a little bit more everyday and I'm not comparing myself with others anymore. Very great video & message!

[@yawns2170]

Grâce Mutombo Shako this is your identity in Christ Psalm 82:6 , John 10:34

[@naaadaku7344]

When a man/woman loves Jesus for real the attraction is different ❤️🎊🎉

[@mimir2488]

Lol! They called me crazy.... Come on; you lost your mind. 🙌🏻

[@CutieRight12]

why i was thinking you were talking about the opposite sex. i was thinking whats a fine male. lol but I recieve that prayer. love your episodes!

[@chidimmae.1209]

This was a great video, loved the perspective 🙌🏾 God is really using you for great things!

[@Dozie4J]

Chidimma Egbulem thank you, Jesus is amazing

[@shereewhite4828]

Shame on me, when I closed my eyes I didn't think of me...lol. I've learned in life that you can please all people sometimes, you can please some people all the time, but there are those you can't please at anytime! Clothes, shoes, cars, hairstyles, are constantly changing. When you learn to love yourself, that should never change! If you don't love yourself, don't expect anyone else to love you! True love begins with loving yourself from deep within & it will flow & show on the outside.

[@normaliz3778]

Love this! 🙏🏽 I thought of myself but then I was like wait, that makes me conceited then I was like, “NO! You say I am enough, Wonderfully made Jesus”😆 ❤️

[@Dozie4J]

Life as Liz you thought right this first time.

[@aalayacooper2948]

I know I'm fine. (snapsnap!) But that confidence only came after, like you, I stopped looking for others' validation. Thanks for the post! *What's great about this is that identity pulls all of your points together. When you know who you are, you have confidence, you dress the part, and you walk your talk because you know who's on the inside of you. Okay, I'm done. 😂

[@alexislauren6847]

Aalaya Cooper 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@nikigracevlogs]

Yaaaas! Tell them how bomb you are 🔥🔥🔥 haha

[@Dozie4J]

Aalaya Cooper that’s complete true. Identity activates everything in your lifev

[@whitneyann8205]

Omg yes! We are perfectly made so we are perfect!! Speak it over yourself.

[@uduakgeorge]

One of my favorite videos so far :.. more grace hun 🙏🏽🔥

[@taylori.k.7464]

You hit it outta the park with this video. Everything you spoke about came from such a pure and godly perspective. I can see that God is truly developing you and your ministry. Well done!

[@nicholewalker8592]

I am the daughter of the most high king!! I am confident in my own way!!

[@wangleicianazareth1329]

Dozie, God bless you dearly! I did know my worth but it makes me stand firm to it. May Jesus block every harmful eyes from reaching you son of the most high King! May he pick an Esther for you King! God bless!

[@royalhumility7111]

The beauty of growing in Christ is that you can discuss your issues openly and help others....💙....kudos to you for being so open.

[@JahmilaKing]

Thank you for this message and your prayer brother Dozie, may the Lord continue to bless you King. This word fed me, I have received and I will apply it because I'm ALL Queen over here okayy. Praise Yah!

[@Tabetha394]

I've been told that I have a presence when I walk into a room. I've been told I usually appear confident. I don't ever see it to be truthful and could never figure out why anyone would ever say that about me. I often do not feel confident or even comfortable when I walk into a room. However, I do know who I am and, for the most part, am pretty happy with myself and the work I've done to grow and be a better person. I have struggles in other areas though so sometimes my self-confidence suffers as a result. However, my self-esteem is rooted in liking who I am as a person so I rarely have issues there. I have work to do still. My perfection only exists when I meet my heavenly Father, but I know I am worthy because Christ made that possible for me. I think this is so key. Confidence comes with constant self-assessment. It comes with consistent working on one's self to be who God created you to be. Confidence is so attractive because we all want to be confident and believe in ourselves. The bad part is some do not want to work at it and selfishly put the responsibility on others to provide it for them. This is too much to ask of anyone. There is no way I, or anyone, can ever live up to that standard and constantly be that for you. We seek in others what we want for ourselves and then get upset when they fail to deliver it to us 100% of the time. The only one that can make you feel is you. People can help you feel, sure, but only you control your feelings. What we tell ourselves will eventually control what we feel about ourselves. This works both positive and negative. This in turn is what we will present to others. Knowing you are a child of the King even when you don't feel like one is how we overcome. Our feelings betray us. We need to grab ahold of God's promises and hang on tight. People who are truly humble are that way because they understand this and work at it. I believe being humble goes hand in hand with confidence because we have to be secure in ourselves first in order to lay aside ourselves for others. Honestly, those who are arrogant usually are deep down trying to force you to believe they are confident when they really are not. They usually suffer from low self-esteem and are putting on a show to mask it. I usually can see right through it which is why people who are arrogant do not bother. Just to avoid confusion, I want to clarify that I am in no way saying Dozie is being arrogant. He is being confident and enthusiastic in Christ. I'm always down for that! Much love and thanks for sharing.

[@Danielathebrand]

Just discovered this channel through CrystalOTV, absolutely love this! Keep Kinging bro!

[@bubblelybababoo]

Wow. 👌🏽. For real I receive this and will walk this out. Amen, let God be true but every man a liar.

[@KatieAnne100]

Mad respect for what you are putting out there. Keep it up. We need more men like you speaking up!!

[@julianng1507]

OMG! This video?! A complete blessing! You hit so many things dead on target. Keep allowing God to use you! 💪🏾🙌🏾

[@nmelianene1946]

😅whew 🙌🏾, I almost didn’t watch this (I had to read the description first 😂). Thanks for bringing Christ’s perspective into this conversation that has often been dominated by voices upholding carnal, fickle and arbitrary standards. Lemme go finish watching 👌🏾

[@kholcombe1061]

Amen!

[@EbonyCOliver]

No Surey Bob... hahaha, haven’t heard that in forever. It is a horrible life to live not seeing the beauty of you. I tried to shoot myself down a few times as a young girl, but God put it in me to like myself including the way I look. When I have days I don’t feel attractive I dress up and I eventually get back in my right mind. You have to love you to love anyone else. Heck the Word itself says to love thy neighbor as thyself. No one will want to be with anyone who they have to constantly build up all the time. You have to be convinced. Attractiveness goes waaaay beyond your outward appearance, when the inside is right it generally spills out.

[@daisynodukes9363]

I am a AMAZING Queen of God!👸🏽 Thank you for that!🙏🏽

[@Pxy2bn]

LOVE THIS.

[@theeelevatedsongstress]

I ain’t even playin I just wrote a poem based on this subject exactly.💁🏽‍♀️my goodness!!!

[@claudinisecivil5945]

I so love this video. So much truth in this. Thank you Dozie. I'm on this journey of self love and my confidence has improved so much. It does not matter what people say about me, I know that I'm dope.

[@Saneesha92]

Thanks for this😍😍 Most definitely growing in this area and just prayed about this earlier!!!!!!

[@Dozie4J]

Saneesha F amen

[@YahiriJ]

I was born and raise in New York’s as well you have to think smart as well. People make fun of others when they see their potential🙏 p.s your name is beautiful and unique

[@lateishalinson7782]

I'm fearfully and wonderfully made. CONFORMATION! I always tell my daughter that. GOD BLESS

[@ashauntewright622]

This was an amazing video. I love the work you are doing for generations now and to come. Continue to let God use you for his will. Be blessed❤️😊🙏🏾💯

[@judyblanton2510]

You are a fine man and I am an amazing classy woman because I'm a proverb 31:10-14 Thank you my you King

[@worlaliawakame762]

Thank you ❤️😊😊😊😊

[@chue6779]

Great video 😊

[@nubianqueen9272]

Thank you Dozie you spoke directly to me continue to let God use you.

[@katinawhite4208]

I am classy but every time I dress classy with splash of modesty it’s always older men attracted to me. I want my husband to be someone close to my age not my father. But only God knows what’s best for me.

[@AngieeShipps]

I needed this!! Thank you!! So much!

[@jakilahgreene4830]

Love everything he said but sometimes it hard and see why people say we live in a cold world no matter if you do right or wrong people always quick to judge. As a young Queen in college I’m slowly building thick skin and figuring out who I’am who I’m willing to be🙏🏽✊🏾😉🥰🥺

[@clementineslaughter6904]

That was so on point--just what I needed. Thank God for this guy.

[@leesetthebar3780]

I thought of myself first, then I thought of what I am attracted too ☺️

[@BNEATHTHEUNDERDOG]

This was good. Your transparency and honest dialogue means alot. #thatswhatsup

[@maudelineguerrilus4121]

i sure do tell myself I have the juice everything, I am the most beautiful woman on earth and everyone should think like that about themselves. male youre handsome and female youre beautifully and wonderfully made. okurt

[@Bella-bm7xn]

I enjoy watching your video. Thank you for sharing!

[@iamkeianaparks]

True! However… at the same time we have to stay humble because confidence can easily be mistaken for pride and arrogance. Just sayin! 🤣🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mimilarbi6177]

I love this! Every bit of it. This just popped up on my timeline and blessed me. God bless you and keep being a blessing! You just earned a new subbie💃

[@angelamoore839]

Wow I have always felt like I had confidence in my looks and that I am Fiiiinnnneeee but when you ask the question I did not think of myself 🤷🏾‍♀️!!! I need to go into prayer 🙏 lol!!

[@angelasantiago7797]

love this !! got some notes fire bro. thanks for being open honest and transparent.

[@elizabethfrizzell897]

Wow. Thanks so much. That was super encouraging. I often find myself having to battle against low self esteem and I'm trying to refocus my mind on the truth about me, what God says about me. Thank you so much! If you ever wanna make a vid about that, I would love to learn what you've found is a good way to deal with self esteem. Thx!

[@gjs7799]

Thank you, good word 🙏🏼 we are a royal priesthood

[@umohblessing8431]

This was really a great message Thank you for this wonderful message More grace You really hit the nail on all the points

[@rehersals]

Man of God thank you for these videos, they really open my eyes. 🙌

[@jamilamcphee]

Thank you for this message. It really blessed me. God bless you in Jesus name

[@HTyana92]

LOVEEEEEEEEE THIS!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU MOG!

[@talkswithcelica-b9588]

Great video,very inspirational. The Lord is good. Bless you.

[@princessruth9497]

I really loved the first point CONFIDENT😍. That is me whenever something hit me really bad....i go to my Daddy (JesusChrist) and talk to Him🤗🙌❤

[@simplyrickeeta]

This was GREAT! LOL, your Momma must be from the South East.

[@kerrydavis1544]

ENCOURAGING!!! Thank you

[@meli111005]

Umm I was envisioning a fine man lol

[@dominicmervin1735]

You do a very awesome job of Christ on these videos! Fr Fr

[@aurielle.g]

As soon as I peeked my eyes open I see “no looking” lol

[@aurielle.g]

Confidence isn’t about what you look like, that’s being vain. True confidence comes from within. The Bible talks about giving someone who has on good apparel the best seat in the house and telling someone who comes in looking rough to stand in the back. I feel these days we focus so much on the outside when what’s on the inside is so much more important and true. You can look the best in the room but within look the worst.

[@GodskidUr1]

This was a really good message 🙏🏼🕊♥️

[@glorynezemmagmail]

👍

[@sidgecake244]

You are f*^king awesome man keep up the awesome work of god , he is working through you 🙏

[@mumbikirori8514]

I thought of myself

[@propheticsymbol]

"Ya mans is dark skin" 😭 I'm dead 💀

[@ptysal3259]

Confident ✊🏽😎

[@parisgibson9637]

Thank you for posting this video

[@kiaburson7247]

Amen

[@Gabby-fk9is]

Love this!!

[@malachi9487]

love this!!

[@MyJackel13]

I grew up in Ny. I got picked on alot too. I didnt grow into my looks either!!!!😂

[@joshrole]

Amen! 🙏🏼

[@yolanda007]

Good Message

[@BNEATHTHEUNDERDOG]

Nice!

[@kellymadenew]

I did not think of myself, I thought of the opposite sex😞

[@Jules4Jesus]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@vandross4710]

Is approaching a woman you find attractive anywhere from shop, library, to the streets wrong? Or should a man just limit to the church only?

[@Dozie4J]

Vandross approach wherever. Just make sure the lord leads you

[@vandross4710]

Thanks Dozie , it's a strange one because I don't know if she's God fearing from face value.. but thank you 🙏

[@Dozie4J]

Vandross don’t make it to serious, Just ask and discern. As long as you stay prayed up God will show you.

[@tjhouini6224]

I like it

[@tiffanywhiting299]

this was a good message however, the question was confusing I thought you were wanting to people to think of what is fine or attractive of the opposite gender.

[@jemimangomba7879]

Hey Dozie do you have a podcast?

[@AlishasTestimony]

Ok sir, I like that little twist there. I also thought you were talking about the opposite sex but I appreciate how you help people to realize that you should validate yourself before you can receive validation from anyone else. Don’t know if you read all the comments but you should do a collaboration on any topic with Starr Burroughs, she is a married woman with kids but her ministry are to single Christian woman, it’s so awesome and encouraging. Here is her podcast: itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/the-confident-single-woman/id1311872824?mt=2

[@lokiokkkkkjjn]

🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@taneshatate8238]

I said ME!😂

[@dishinquea]

🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Kosiso-by1mc]

Chill.. you said we should think about someone that's fine and attractive to us, I thought you're talking about the opposite sex that we can envision

[@tamiko284]

clean cut dark skim taller than me (yes) I am a fine so he is fine

[@Isa53_]

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