Why do Men Categorize Women | Episode : Falling Forward

[@jujununya9182]

Women Categories -Husband -Boyfriend -Side Dude (waiting to replace boyfriend) -Situationships -"One call away" dude for anything we may need (no strings attached) -Friend -The guy we call if we're hungry 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marqthegirl31]

I don't know about this sis, women have like 2 strong categories: -Husband: No matter If he a good one, bad one, cheater dog, Man of God, late night sex. We be thinking and wanting all them to be hubby one day 🤦‍♀️ Or -Pushover: Dude we call just for food & errands lol

[@jujununya9182]

@@marqthegirl31 LOL I'm 💀😂🤦🏾‍♀️ but I don't want a "bad one" or a cheater to be my husband. I'm not desperate. I'd rather be alone, than live miserably with a man that don't treat me right or cheats on me.

[@lifeafterisabella5791]

I totally agree with you @juju Nunya .. I have put men in categories. we as women shouldn't be upset when men do it to us.. cause we do it we just keep it to ourselves or share it with our girlfriends.

[@marqthegirl31]

Girl me either!! But you know that we have some sisters that don't care and fall victim to this all the time and just really start settling for whatever...

[@jujununya9182]

@@lifeafterisabella5791 exactly we do the same thing men do (to a certain degree) we're just sneakier with it lol 😆

[@evelisisdavis7242]

Thank you

[@nikigracevlogs]

So much truth but all I’m saying is, if a guy looks at his girl, and only sees a “girlfriend” then let her goooooo, because she probably wants to be a wife 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Dozie4J]

It’s the same as women dating men they don’t untended to marry, for sex, money, to feel loved, etc.

[@queenesther2866]

But men like games, especially the ungodly ones.

[@faiththefashionista2484]

**Plus the people who are called to be single don’t have the desire to be with someone, God won’t place that desire in someone if He isn’t going to give it to them. God is a just God. Just clarifying for anybody watching.

[@J10098]

That's not entirely the case. God calls us to things we don't want to all the time. My confirmation teacher was called to singleness and she was mad at God and had to grieve the loss of what she wanted. Looking back she was glad she obeyed and followed God.

[@faiththefashionista2484]

@@J10098 Yes I agree God calls us to things we don’t want to do all the time because there is a better version of us that awaits us in our uncomfortability. Marriage however is something that God has called for majority of his children, singleness God has called for very few. Throughout my life the 2 people that I have come across they were fine with being single and thrived in it. The testimony of your teacher is my first time hearing a story like that. Because, I know when there is a burning desire to do something that is created by God it comes directly from God. That’s why God gives us the desires of hearts, as long as we are working in the will of God. Like you said God has a reason for everything and you brought up Hosea, yes his wife was a prostitute. God wanted to show Hosea what He went through loving a people who did not love Him in return, who were idolizing others and rebelling. He paid to get her back and still had to remain faithful to her as Jesus paid for us on the cross and He remains faithful through it all. Just as Gomer had to learn to be faithful to Hosea we too have had to do the same. So God definitely has a purpose for everything again like you said. As for Jeremiah whom you brought up, God explained to Jeremiah why he could not get married or have a family because he would have lost them in the famine. I’m sure Jeremiah did not want that misery but he didn’t talk on if it bothered him or not. Paul seen his singleness as a gift from God and wished others could be single just like him. So again, God has a reason for everything and sometimes He tells us ahead of time others bit by bit and others not until we go through the process do we learn why we had to go through it like your teacher. One thing I think we all can agree on is that it’s all a faith walk with God and trusting and understanding that He has good plans for us and know us better than we know ourselves for He is our creator.

[@faiththefashionista2484]

@@J10098 Also, just like your teacher and the few in the Bible who were called to be single God definitely made it clear to them. So that’s another beautiful thing about our God, for anyone who may be uncertain God is the truth so He brings clarity and understanding.

[@J10098]

@@faiththefashionista2484 Heya! Not sure if you noticed but I edited the comment - removing Hosea and Jeremiah - before you replied for those same reasons you mentioned :). It is true that there are few called to be single and faith is a walk. In fact, He actually brought clarity to her (teacher) when she asked Him. That's why its so important that we run our desires by God to make sure it's His. But for sure, if God gave it, He WILL fulfill it.

[@faiththefashionista2484]

@@J10098 Amen to that!

[@coletteacw2170]

Dating is ghetto 🥴🤦🏾‍♀️

[@missamerica2694]

Very intelligent man with great talking points. I do not know if I trust anything I hear,but this message gives many hope. Personally it is giving Derrick Jaxson’s African cousin. I feel like you are both clever and know how to say all the right things! Men do not operate like you in real life; there is definitely something more than meets the eye. I recently moved to Atlanta and let’s just say it has its own culture. No straight man moves to Atlanta looking for a wife. I’ll continue to watch and look forward to new content!

[@SD-hs2pk]

Friends get promoted all the time its everything else I don't see rising up ever

[@faiththefashionista2484]

Everybody is a wife we are the wives of our Bridegroom Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Beyond that we all aren’t equally yoked, so that’s why it says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing. God said it was bad for man to be alone and that he needed help. So women were created as helpers, as wives. But this is so funny because literally a few days ago I was explaining to my friends how men categorize and helping them to understand the difference between a man who tends to think logically and a women who tends to think from emotions.

[@tanyciagrace9556]

I'm not even Nigerian, but that was the worst Nigerian accent impression i've ever heard! haha

[@christthelord91]

Yooo, that never gets old. I'm cracking up Everytime you go from new York accent to strait up motherland!!! Am I the only one? That is hilarious.

[@themilkaint4free]

And I ope...this was good Dozie! Yes, Ladies let the Queen arise in you. It's all in how we carry ourselves! I pray Only God's Best for Me and You!

[@cece0589]

Lmbo I love the fact that you switched back and forth with accent.

[@deewade296]

A man that finds a wife finds a good thing and favor with God (Proverbs 18:22). That means not every woman is that man's particular wife. Not that some women are destined to be side chicks or situationships. So are you saying," God said we are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalms 139:14) to be side chicks or situationships"? Welp, Paul said in Corinthians 7 that it was good for a man not to have sex. But to stop sexual immorality let each man have his own wife likewise the wife have her own husband. By the way, a eunuch would be a man not woman who got his penis cut off. Cucubines were traditional in that time. Men also wore skirts back then. They also wore breast plate. We have to make it relevant to today. I'm gonna go because it is okay to disagree and not be disagreeable. I'm just offering a different perspective.

[@johnnieblack1061]

Doz if you have 3 daughters,which one of your daughters is not a wife???

[@olivesechele2805]

Alluding that men categorizing women is a Godly thing or a reflection of what God does is a little misleading... GOD ONLY CATEGORIZES SINNERS AND Saints (sheep and goats) .. and even in that to Him all sin has the same weight... Jesus met the woman at the well and looked past her current situation and she went on to preach the gospel.. If according to you Jesus had the same mindset he wouldn't have given her the time of day.. And all though he knew some Jews would betray Him and EVEN kill him.. It didn't stop him from saying Forgive them for they know not what they do.. We give soo much advice to women on how to move.. Operate carry them selves to be found.. But not enough of rebuking men for exercising toxic masculinity.. If you realize the young lady is not what you seek.. LEAVE HER ALONE.. Please refer to the story of Hosea.. That being said.. Your ending prayer did soften your presentation on the issue.. JESUS IS LOVE ❤️ stay blessed

[@NaturalDarkChocolate]

It’s the prayer for me.

[@jayhorne283]

Love this.

[@ndyndy2785]

Amen 🙏

[@jessicahogan7427]

Shelia, Bro Olean Daniels, and Willie Daniels the musician from Gates of Glory says Hi!

[@queenofthesouth4205]

Omg...I just listened to you on Dear Wifey Podcast!!!! Stay LIT. You are heaven sent. I pray that you find am awesome wife. You are a highly intelligent Chemist👏👏👏👏

[@benta2]

Speak brother 🤗

[@johnnieblack1061]

No respecter of persons, treat all women as single, your wife or somebody else’s wife. Those are the categories. Love your wife, don’t lust after other people wives. As a Christian you don’t have 5 year girlfriends, you are soon betrothed ( engaged), otherwise move on.

[@ONELOVE2580]

Hello my dear Brother. I just watched your episode on "dear future wifey". It was a blessing. What a journey you are on. "His eye is on the sparrow" He has been keeping and preparing you for yours. I hear what you're saying about men categorizing women. May I also offer a bit of wisdom. This goes for both men an women. There is also the problem of generational curses plaguing people who are and were meant to be in Godly marriages. This issue requires deliverance in prayer, fasting, and daily biblical declarations over ones life to break that yoke. How can we explain a beautiful Christian woman who is accomplished, successful, put together who only gets approached by married men??? Is it a category that she falls in? YES... However, it is something that was done by the enemy. A jealous friend or family member, even covenants taken by their own parents with evil demonic spirits. We cannot deny these biblical facts. Today after prayer and deliverance that beloved sister is delivered and is preparing for her wedding with her purpose partner. Some people are just in spiritual bandage my brother which causes men to see them the way you described. Peace be with you

[@brittanyjones2441]

Wow

[@bethaniejohnson9517]

Thank you Dozie.

[@AMotivatedYou]

Awesome teaching!

[@nancya9147]

Oga Dozie!!! I done die. Chai..........we've been bamboozled rough herhhhh the media. biaaaa

[@foreveralchemy3193]

Not sure how I got here. 😕 not sure if I took anything away by listening to this 🤔.

[@queenesther2866]

You're just going to come for my edges like that? That's it no more romcoms.

[@EvangelineRudolph]

Amen

[@glorynezemmagmail]

👍

[@GudnewzUche]

Dozie! Dozie!! Dozie!!! How many times did I call you?? Don't starve us again ohh

[@shauniespeaks08]

😂😂😂

[@GudnewzUche]

It's been a minute Dozie..

[@cierarose4938]

Men walk like dadaboo 😂 ok I am happy I found ur page

[@jesustheonlygod7602]

Matthew 24: 36-39 36 “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son,[f] but only the Father. 37 As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man. 38 For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark; 39 and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man.

[@sharonr8529]

Does Dozie have a Tik Tok account??This channel is a true eye opener to us Women

[@_Phoenixrise_]

Why compare engaged women to concubine

[@BrideForChrist]

i understand what you are trying to say but i disagree with parts of it. The general statement that I will make is that we "women" saved / unsaved, we are not what or who men say we are but we are are what and who GOD says we are. Proverbs 18 vs 22 Indeed says he who findeth a wife findeth a good thing..." but sometimes and i'm sure many has experienced this, maybe the person is not the GOD ordained wife to the man that has found her, that does not mean she is called to be a girlfriend/homie in life and that's just her purpose and that's it, which is how you make it out to seem in this video. Mind you, we make mistakes, we sin we do the worst you name it we are it. But might I remind you of the woman that was caught in the act of aldultery, John 8. Indeed she was an adulteress but Jesus said to her accusers, "He who is without sin cast the first stone and they all walked away one by one. He said "Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee? She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more. Men are not called to categorize women saved are unsaved. Men are called to see women as their sisters in Christ, likewise we women ought to see men as our brothers in Christ until GOD make us a wife. Then you see her as a wife. 1 Timothy 5 vs 1-2 "Rebuke not an elder, but intreat him as a father; and the younger men as brethren; The elder women as mothers; the younger as sisters, with all purity." Matthew 5 vs 28 says "But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart." Lastly the Church is the bride of Christ and Jesus Christ sees the church as His bride (Church= Male & Female saints) The church is not perfect and i"m sure we are not living up to the standards of holiness and righteousness that we ought to, does that make Jesus Christ to see us any less? No because Ephesians 5 vs 25-27 says "Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish." and one more thing, Isaiah 54 vs 5 says "For your Maker is your husband, the Lord of hosts is his name; and the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer, the God of the whole earth he is called", I don't know for others but I know for me this is truth and I know who i am in Christ Jesus, and I wont ever fit into the category of what any man on earth thinks I am based off what they see, feel, or think about me or judge me to be. When they are creation just as I am, limited to time and space and five senses, when I am divinely called to be a royal priesthood and a holy nation by the Eternal Father and God and apparently "Husband" according to Isiah 54 vs 5. When you have been brought back from the pit, delivered from the dunghill and saved by His Grace, then you'll know and understand.. #Facts #Bible #Truth.....GOD Bless

[@johnnieblack1061]

If any your daughters are categorized as not a wife you wouldn’t like that!!!

[@christinefoster9177]

AMEN