Married & Alone: Step Three of the Twelve Steps | Dr. Doug Weiss

[@DrDougWeiss]

To watch the rest of the Married & Alone series, check out this playlist: kzbin.info/aero/PLoQAJVqvxAfhoYq-6aM64aOd6N8OAUSPK

[@vdeniceeckert3494]

I finally told a friend.. she was shocked, because he does other things to try and show me he cares. My friend said Iam so sorry....people thought we we had a good marriage, in front of people he is different for sure. We've been married 32 years, after my son died he was loving for months, so he can...

[@MrsK976]

Married, alone, 14 years, church community has no idea, God brought me to this series……. As I walk this…….The Holy Spirit is speaking……. My husband has rejected me in all ways for the entire marriage. My heart is decimated.

[@hotlava5845]

I keep watching these. Completely helping to at least, ..save me. I feel what you feel in my way, too. You aren't alone.❤

[@lauratrahan3020]

Wish I had your help 55 years ago!

[@princesskoudahn400]

Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@haileyleary4516]

Just a general "step" question. When I'm working through the steps in the S-anon workbooks (reading from the blue and green books-as well as reading from "Reflections of Hope"), I find myself getting triggered and wanting to engage in snooping behaviors. I find before doing so, I pray and it's helpful, but the urge to snoop after reading literature is extremely difficult. Am I missing something? Am I just greiving the loss of the "expectations" of my marriage? After a F.A.N.O.S check in with my spouse, he expressed the same feelings of being triggered from his SA literature and workbooks. This surprised me, considering I felt the same way but hadn't expressed it to him. Any advice would be extremely appreciated

[@DrDougWeiss]

Managing triggers is a healthy part of recovery, distinguishing what type they are and making calls to other group members to confide with and get support from when needed. The DVD "Triggered" has a lot to offer you in this area of your journey. www.drdougweiss.com/product/triggered-dvd/

[@haileyleary4516]

@@DrDougWeiss Thank you for your reply. I will definitely take a look at the DVD!

[@catherinejones7949]

Good day’ If my spouse take medication and can’t preform, do that make them an Intimacy Anorexia .

[@DrDougWeiss]

If they are still finding ways to please you, probably not. If they are totally avoiding sex, then look at the test at intimacyanorexia.com to see if this is Intimacy Anorexia.

[@phsquared8719]

How do I fund a group and qualified counselor ? Thanks

[@DrDougWeiss]

Did you mean "find" or "fund"?

[@phsquared8719]

@@DrDougWeiss find. (That’s a funny typo. ). I received your earlier response. Many thanks for your help. I’ll be in touch.

[@DrDougWeiss]

@@phsquared8719 You're welcome and I just wanted to verify about the typo. For groups, you can check out our supportive Married & Alone phone group and Facebook groups. www.drdougweiss.com/groups/ www.drdougweiss.com/facebook-groups/ For therapists, you can call us at 719-278-3708 for their rates and such. We will also be happy to answer any other questions you may have or about additional resources.

[@janetardoin8979]

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[@ramshadanish487]

Can I ask questions here Dr. Weiss

[@DrDougWeiss]

Yes you can. You can also call our main office number 719-278-3708 or email us at [e-mail] as well.

[@ramshadanish487]

@@DrDougWeiss I want to ask here ..

[@DrDougWeiss]

@@ramshadanish487 Ok, feel free to leave a question here.

[@ramshadanish487]

Thanks Dr ... My husband us intimacy anoraxic and I'm with him for three years and have no child yet ... What should I do ... Should I stay or leave ...

[@ramshadanish487]

@@DrDougWeiss you didn't reply sir

[@xaviercastro4886]

What do you tell the married and alone who are atheists?

[@DrDougWeiss]

They can still do the Married & Alone workbook and be in a support group.