Pour Minds Episode 126 INDEPENDENT

Hey y’all! This episode we discuss ageism, are women becoming too independent, is anal play the gateway drug and more!
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[@greenegreene6042]

Lex impersonations be on point so I know that’s exactly how Drea sounded on her phone that night 😂😂😂

[@AnnaM4117]

No but fr 🤣🤣

[@strayhorn85]

Right 😂

[@stannndrea]

krachetty

[@SixOh1]

I don't think women are becoming too independent! Men have to understand that a woman can NOT stop them from being a man! Business should be handled, regardless of the circumstances.

[@SixOh1]

Be an asset in a relationship, not a liability. Let's take on the world together!

[@ImaniTW92411]

The taking drea to jail story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ShesSoAbby]

So hilarious😭

[@photogelic3135]

Weeezzzzzzziiiinnnngggggg😂🤣

[@biancashane6804]

I saw the title and Webbie came out of me. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T!!

[@HappyHealthyHair]

She got ha own House, BAD, got ha own Car, Badn 2 Jobs work Hard you a BAD BROAD!!!...🙌🏽

[@bradmilajones8500]

“She be like YAAAAAAAH when her song c’mon” -boosie

[@sabrinay9197]

Lex got me crying impersonating Drea when she called her telling her she was going to jail 🤣🤣🤣

[@breadwinnerd3217]

That shit got me weak as hell 🤣

[@Jahshauna89]

Bitch! When Lex when threw those shades on I LOST it!!🤣🤣🤣 I knew it was a Mary J Blige song! You ladies are pure gold😍

[@chitchatwithkitkat2686]

I’m 36 married with no kids bc we enjoy each other and love traveling!! 🥰🥰

[@hairmunsta9788]

I’m feeling this podcast. My early 20s were filled with familial obligations and military. I moved to Houston and got buck in my late 20s married at 28 and baby. Now I turned 30 and trying to finish school with the support of my husband . I heard 30s is where it’s at and I’m excited to be here ❤️🇳🇬❤️

[@liveentertainment4841]

“First of all my daddy dead “😂😂🤣🤣🤣

[@dejapalmer5982]

When Lex pulled out the surprise I hollered 🤣🤣 “Over there looking like Ray Charles” I took a bath and sipped that yak and enjoyed this episode. Love y’all. ❤️

[@BeautyRebellion]

Lex got me ctfu 🤣🤣🤣 love y’all! Every episode gets MORE entertaining

[@Shauntee12]

A wordddddd yesss getting older is a blessing. I’m turning 28 this summer & I must say getting older I’m so much wiser & know my worth. I cannot be played with INDEPENDENT!

[@biancashane6804]

Your 30s are everything! I just turned 33 on 4/3, and I've never been so in tune with my needs, dreams, and desires. I couldn't imagine making the moves I'm making now in my 20s. I was having too much fun.

[@jaeeluv]

Girl yes💯💯. I'm 36 and I feel you on that. I'm in full control of EVERYTHING AND CAN'T NOBODY TELL ME SH!T 😂

[@biancashane6804]

@@jaeeluv YOU BETTER SAY THAT!!! I love it!!!! It's a level of confidence and self pride that nobody can tear down. I love it here!

[@NikkiKNuvo]

Facts

[@brittanidavis4877]

Lex wasn't trying to get it perkulating 🙃🥴🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 y'all have me in tears!!!! Lex was channeling her inner Mary & Toni😭😭😭😭

[@2008akir]

I’m bout to be 37 on the 25th ♉️30s do feel so different it’s like age of idgaf and peace in my life

[@FlameBodySoul]

I graduate next month, and I definitely feel the late 20 talk. I’m 25, in a relationship just trying to find a career and run my business. This 20’s ish is ghetto ok 😂

[@BOZZYchick]

This episode is def a WORD, I resonated because I just turned 30 February of this year. Idk what it is but I feel so good and free like I’ve learned so much on my journey. The Self Love is top tier and I’m in my bag!!! Purrr 👸🏾💓

[@analoguegirl7679]

Y’all funny. The episodes are increasing in quality and entertainment. Bravo ladies..👏🏾

[@caleb484]

our babies got an intro beat, scented candles, goblets, ipads and looking fly. they sure doubled the $3

[@tionettewest3724]

Lex a fool wit it, I died when she pulled that bra out! I thought they were draws😂

[@Onlycanbeme1]

I like the cut fades during "not gon' cry"

[@schoolgurl2hot]

And it is definitely hard for us ladies out here getting it by ourselves single with no help,no family, no kids etc just out here grinding or working

[@GuttaStarrEnt]

Sell feet pics. If you got it hard as a single female you're not creative enough.

[@NikkiKNuvo]

@@GuttaStarrEnt exactly. If a female is single with no children and she's struggling, she's lazy honestly. It's opportunity & money everywhere.

[@OLORIWU]

Yes it’s not easy but it gets easier. We need a support group 😩

[@xan401]

Oml, if you need sneakers hmu 🤙

[@j2x780]

@@OLORIWU its not easy cus u don't know how to get money. ! 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@amandar8699]

30 feels great! I love it here! ❤️

[@BBROXY940]

First of all, my daddy dead 😭😭😭 Drea has had it with those damn 85 incels

[@schoolgurl2hot]

I agree with Lex what's meant for a person won't miss that person it will be right there! And don't stress yourself out, I can relate cause I'm 30 and still strugglin lol Excellent commentary ladies

[@sirenakyser1583]

I'm 43 and I got married when I was 33,but I had my only child at 18. People don't believe my age, forget what people say, do things in your own time.

[@thatsnitah3173]

Fact Drea! These men do we want to be controlling. The same dude was mad because I rented a car instead of calling him to come pick me up from the airport.

[@JODYJOE]

-No man

[@mayloop123]

20:18 i love yall so much! This part was everything and soooo necessary to hear

[@sexi_symone]

Getting older is such a blessing !!!! 💕💕💕

[@morgantaylor2995]

5 minutes in and Lex got me cryiiiinnngggg talking about Drea getting arrested!!!! I cannot😭😭😭😭😭

[@justjohnnay]

Lmfaooooooo Lex Drea impression is GOLDDDDD! 😭

[@lextalk901]

Lex got my stomach cramping from how she be impersonating Drea 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

[@FalconsGirl1]

My big sisters fr 💫 somebody in they 20s needed to hear this 💯

[@CarlyyyandddAujaniii]

me hearing this at 26... i’m scared for the last 3 years of my twenties the way y’all described em 🥴

[@Callmelucyyyy]

My Friday is now better 👏🏾

[@worth7k117]

the pause, & chat about getting a manicure 💅🏿 just reminds me of how real they are ☺️

[@SixOh1]

Just had to come back to this one and say that value in a relationship is defined by the needs of the other person. We don’t have to be doing the exact same thing, but whatever you’re doing needs to be of value towards where we’re trying to get to.

[@_Tree]

It is a blessing to be 30. I'm 41 and blessed to be where I am right now. I waited until 32 to become a husband and stepfather because Id rather inherit children than have kids with the wrong person. Women that are beyond 30 and don't have kids........should be a good thing because you're waiting on having kids and with the right person. Don't let society get to you with their BS. I'm not that hypocrite Derrick Jaxsn, but ladies.............this is a good time for you to do what you want

[@thehills1042]

Until they find out that they can't have children because they waited too long That absolutely devastates a woman

[@_Tree]

@@thehills1042 having children is a choice that shouldn't be taken lightly........nor is it a death sentence if they choose not to have them either

[@thehills1042]

Oh I thought women died shortly after making the decision to not have children... No shit! Doesn't mean they wouldn't feel a certain way inside about it for a while.

[@_Tree]

@@thehills1042 not that I know of lol. I think there are more within my generation that chooses to not have children

[@esij]

I swear I really thought i was the only one who used to say something and then sing a song related to it straight after🤣!! This podcast gets better and better

[@xanditam93]

Same. It’s honestly satisfying asf that there are other women goofy as I am 😂

[@g.neptdadaaa]

“ why you ain’t tell me my fitted was sliding back “ - Lex P 🤣

[@mccaalanelson2303]

Lex really be stalking my playlist!!!! Good and Plenty is one of those songs I never ever skip.

[@KaitC-j3j]

I’m here with my summer fine snack and my wine ready to watch 2 of thee baddest make my Friday night💕💕

[@Diamondshiness]

The ending is TAKING ME TF OUTTTTT 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 knew exactly what song that was

[@schoolgurl2hot]

Drea said Bigen I'm cryin yo🤣😭 but Ron was looking good during the versus LOL

[@DelusionalGemini]

Omg my drunk screams be too much, I always delete my shit in the morning 😂

[@wellabella2577]

Y’all better preach!!! Be whole , what’s for you will come to you. Age in style and grace 💯

[@amahjahv]

That song at the end, Lex went crazy with the props😂😂😂😂😭

[@cj10109]

I love y’all. I just turned 30 and it is a blessing I’m still here 🙌🏾😂

[@justjohnnay]

Cmon Deaconess Lex!!!!! Got this good word this Friday night. Pass around the offering plate!

[@KarenDuvessa]

I love y'all show!!! As soon as I become a social media influencer, I'm begging to come on y'all show. 😂😂😂

[@mzzari21]

you guys helped me through my anxiety today. Thanks for that

[@beautyfolse4249]

😂😂😂😂😂Lex is a whole damn fool out here🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 the Mary J. took me completely the fucc out!!! 😂😂Ooonn Your FEET!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@AuriPate93]

As soon as Drea said “Two Can Play That Game” I was like she’s thinking of “Brothers” lol

[@buildingtomorrow9505]

Much love yall, this is a great podcast. Normally I cant listen to women talk for more than 2 minutes

[@helenawooden-aguilar1587]

Preach and so much truth! Thank you ladies!

[@SwAgGaSoFrEsH98]

Each episode yall topics get better and better. Love it here 💕

[@NikkiKNuvo]

I became an entrepreneur at 21 y.o. & people were definitely looking at me crazy. Like Lex said, folks were only focused on college & jobs lol. Glad society finally caught up bc COVID had mfs nervous & SKRESSED!! 😭😆

[@marcuisgoree5182]

👏 love this story

[@photogelic3135]

The arrest impression got me 😂😂😂

[@ldkea05]

When you singing them ad-Libs with Lex during the bed intro "bow . Bow. Bow bow bow lol 😂 And I was NOT ready for the Mary j interlude .... that song has always hit different !!!!

[@jaeeluv]

Ayyye! Y'all back with the mess yesss! 🙌🏿

[@elashamoss4539]

Yesssss, its Friday! Great start to my weekend😊🥰 Lex love the red hair! And yea, Drea, I hear that deep throat voice🤣

[@on_joe_lee_]

I’m so happy I came back to finish this episode. When she put the sunglasses and scarf on 😂🤣😂

[@spokenminds0932]

My Gurwls back with another one just on time like always. They don't miss a beat.

[@spicey9780]

Yall good ...30s are the best! Enjoy.

[@lovelydee9579]

Yesss Lex I had a feeling that was gonna be your bop. Thats been my bop too😫🤣🤣💗

[@Divinelyflow]

I can't..when Lex said ima twist top🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@cashco.9861]

Drea looks so much Summer Walker

[@nattaviasmith3072]

What’s meant for me will not miss me I’m not putting pressure on nothing ✨💞🧘🏾‍♀️

[@EverydayGworl]

As I was just about to rewatch the last episode, specifically to hear about Tarzan....y’all got the new one uploaded. That shit had me CRINE😂😭😭😂😂‼️

[@Vontana2K]

Lex singing and karlous rappin on a song would be 🔥 🔥 MAKE it happen! Hell her and DC too.

[@katieswain8231]

Love this show I relate so much I’m 35 no kids no man but I’m good !! Happy and I know my prince will find me !! Y’all be stating facts

[@naturreal1705]

Just listened on Spotify & had to see the end for myself. Lex was cuttin up on that Mary J!

[@Candy-vv6ob]

I love these two. 💕💕💕

[@michelletburke]

Tell me why I really looked up the meat candy cause I never heard of it and wtf 😭😭😭 people really be out here doing anything. Y’all funny asf 😭‼️👏🏽

[@Jthomas91]

I loved this episode. Lol Lex you kilt the song ❤️❤️

[@BossPlayaCrew]

"It Ain't No Such Thing As A Good Nigga! LOL, Damn Lex P & Drea!"

[@brittanidavis4877]

Cheers to you ladies on this gorgeous Friday!!

[@skkyvisuals2527]

Love it. My favorite Podcast 🔥🔥🔥

[@heathersmith7582]

I couldn’t grab my glasses quick enough but I def performed with Lex 😂😂

[@tiaraadashaee413]

Watched my first episode and I love it 😭

[@EverydayGworl]

I totally agree about the pic and video thing, I record and want pics of everything just for my personal memories!

[@shonikaanderson5538]

I love yall so much. Keep growing and glowing ❤

[@leirno]

y'all be having me dead laughing, this whole episode was lit 😂

[@zakiyapope9337]

Been ready all day, my favorite pod cast❤

[@lovemere1]

27-29 is your Saturn return! The ghetto! Lol but we need the lessons ✨

[@ThaRealShante]

That Mary hit different lol we all sound like Mary J when we sing that song

[@cj10109]

Where’s the link to the playlist Lex? I like your music taste 🔥

[@chuckyytv662]

We Smokin That ThrowBackBae Pack🤣🤣🤣🤣💪🏾👸🏽 Love yalll GWOATS

[@jacquelinekinuthia1342]

Lex had me DYING when she pulled out that bra! 😂😂😂

[@biancashane6804]

Lucky Daye is zaddy! 😌

[@s.s.0]

DND has an emergency bypass so you don’t have to miss important calls.

[@Blessed_1990]

The closing out part with song is always gud 😂😂😂💯💪

[@SoonSarah]

I wanna see y'all on Lip Service.

[@melrose6627]

Love this episode 🙌🏾 who am I kidding? I love them all! 😭

[@stevieeatz]

🤣🤣 It be the songs they perform at the end for me😭💀

[@jessicahafner6807]

I literally spit my drink out 😂😂😂 wtf … I love them

[@ew5713]

Well if men would do something right women won’t feel the need to be too independent. At whatever age a woman is they would have been put through too much so at 30 you damn sure that you’re not going to sit around and be played. And since they always said “don’t hate the player hate the game” well that is what we did and do. We hate the game and the repercussions of that is that we are independent. If they can show that they can do something right and be consistent with it, maybe women would rely on them for something.

[@virginiaa1120]

Four minutes in and I’m hysterically laughing. Love this podcast forreal.

[@erigtv380]

that lil intro song get me lit every time. definitely a vibe