Portia ON the pain she endured with her inlaws

[@happiness4140]

Promise reminds of home hle...sepedi se bose...lol❤

[@mmeme5861]

I like this woman....you can see she was raised well....may she get peace and love in her life

[@tsakanemacheke3761]

Bathong. I know this lady. She stayed a street away from where I grew up. Sweet sweet girl.

[@bmshik]

It’s so nice when people who know speak for you ❤

[@spm9130]

I didn’t fight or argue, I left and never looked back! I left everything behind and I don’t regret it! I sleep peacefully at night and they don’t have peace.

[@kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh]

Same here and i don't regret...am at peace❤

[@MaphaleMampuru]

Look at God,n the minute u walk away without fight dts whr they dnt hv peace bcz they ask themselves how can she jus walk away,o tshephileng n then they become unsettled always

[@Itss_your_girl_bk]

This is a second women who's married to men from Limpopo and husbands are last borns.The family will tell you that the house belongs to the son and makoti.When they are done building makoti and their son,they encouraged their son to divorce his wife.So ladies we need to be careful straight

[@MaphaleMampuru]

My hubby is last born n built in his home too,but he has other houses outside

[@mashadimokgata871]

Same here​@@MaphaleMampuru

[@PortiaGojela]

So cruel

[@lovinglydeewi]

Ladies, if you want peace, keep a distance from your in-laws. Irrespective of what they say, keep a firm distance, visit once in a while and never ever ever think you are one of them. You are an enemy of their financial freedom. Only keep them close if you are married to their ‘phara’

[@nkosinathingwenya6162]

Powerful 👏👏👏

[@judyatoro9387]

True 😂😂

[@tinnylesetja8330]

Very true

[@pfulu]

What is “Phara”😂

[@fordesire9546]

a good for nothing ​@@pfulu

[@bonganisibeko3892]

Her inability to conceive babies and the age disparity between herself and the husband drove those gluttonous in-laws into a hateful frenzy. They hated her before marriage. And it is undoubtedly possible that they bewitched her.

[@leahlinki5683]

So true! I feel that they even showed her that they hated her before she even got married but she overlooked that! 😮😮😮

[@RayOfLetsatsi]

Age disparity ke yona 1 year difference bathong?😂

[@mathapeloantoniamashike1301]

Eve if they were same age this would happen. It is so sad​@RayOfLetsatsi

[@mphomaake]

I refused marriage cause i ddnt trust my to be in laws my fiancée couldn’t stand up for me he will always put his family first and still wanted to marry I was like never

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Good girl for listening and trusting your intuition. You saved yourself from emotional torture and divorce. 👏🏾

[@mphomaake]

@@Blessed_for_life_2023 my conscious ddnt allow me I will always get scared when ever he want to send his uncles at home and he was a cheater with lots of kids

[@Daysonshuffle]

@@Blessed_for_life_2023 Good!

[@menniekumalo3276]

True, this man never defended his wife from day 1 nje, that alone was a redflag

[@jessicathobejane2613]

Smart girl

[@ladye1253]

Loved this episode. Its a good thing she opted to express herself in vernacular.

[@menniekumalo3276]

We appreciate you and the production for the subtitles, I for one was one of those who were frustrated whenever you told your guests to speak English only, as I felt it limits how they express themselves… I appreciate you!!

[@bridget82Thembi]

Yoh i feel for you my sister, i was there and at the end i was kicked out by protection order because of not conceiving, now im at peace with my husband so they came back saying sorry for what happened... Fast forward now me and my husband we keep distance from his mother and his sisters. Sorry my sister prayer is the solution of everything. With God everything is possible Amen

[@favouredandsaved]

I believe you Portia...wishing you all the good things you deserve in life❤

[@lebogangthobejane7108]

The way she foldeed her arms 💔💔💔💔 the pain in her voice😢

[@LangelihleNgema]

The Red flags were there,his family never came for the lobola but she proceeded to build a house at their yard!!

[@mbusomahlangu8313]

N0 that a lie😂

[@SoldahMohlala]

That is a big red flag

[@LangelihleNgema]

@@SoldahMohlala It’s not even a Flag it’s a Billboard!!

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

No they came

[@kgabomanaka665]

In my culture your parents don't go for your lobola negotiations. They don't even go to the in laws for your wedding celebration. Only close family go and negotiate for you

[@ntlotlisenglebitsa8153]

I was very worried about the interview thinking we would have one of those guests who don't want to speak but the minute sis started speaking in Sepedi she was flowing ❤️

[@nzuluyemfihlakaloancientof5369]

Lenna😂

[@leahlinki5683]

And she knows her story! I'm glad she's not depressed by her experience and I pray she gets legal help.

[@Vunafurniture]

Portia needs to talk more about how she makes money and finances because it sounds like there is something to learn there. She keeps saying she bought things cash. Madam needs to share information please

[@Hannah958-h2h]

JUST LISTENED TO THE HUSBAND WHO SAYS SHE WAS A FULL TIME HOUSEWIFE

[@selinabatlhaodi612]

I wish she can strengthen herself spiritually coz wow,she is dealing with the devils who will kill.but all in all may God protect her.

[@aobakwemadira4293]

I’m hurt of this interview😢 this woman went through a lot May God Comfort You😭❤️🙏🏻

[@Phenyo-z1o]

You are such a well mannered lady....May God bless you more ❤️❤️

[@lulama_kay2705]

Speak in Sepedi mama. You will use subtitles.Bapedi, matsonga, Vha Venda need their languages on public platforms. If this was in IsiZulu or Isixhosa most would not complain. Much as we are international subtitles are for that

[@favouredandsaved]

VaTsonga🥰

[@fezekanomwehle4838]

Im uMxhosa, mara ki mukwa ha bose... Im loving the subtitles too.

[@lorrainetshifhango3984]

Ur biggest mistake was to build on her land/next to her house, bomakoti should build far away from in-laws man, It never ends well

[@josephinenkambule9487]

nna my main reason was for us to be in comfort whenever we home and my husband was the only one left in the house as his sister was married, and he doesnt have parents.

[@thembinkosimsaule7443]

Truly life is spiritual You need to go to a church that understand deliverance and you should embark in prayer

[@leahlinki5683]

The first mistake she did was being at her own wedding where only the husband's family was present! 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩. I'm sure there were many red flags before that day but she overlooked them.

[@xhosakoloni4716]

Exactly more especially in rural village she will not win better she destroyed.

[@mapsmaps805]

Absolutely, under no circumstances should that be an option

[@lolokhoza603]

Good improvement with the subtitles...the guests should be free to mix with their language without feeling like they are compromising their story. You also give a good balance by trying to mix with english when its you speaking👏

[@shadimataboge5396]

I saw your story on Tick Tock and glad you came to the pot cast, fight for what is yours, you are strong, still young and can rebuild your life❤

[@mashadimokgata871]

Hi Bitso. Let's the law take it's course she will be given what is hers

[@TebohoMonyamane]

She is young and beautiful 😍 🎉hlem

[@mahlohonololebuso741]

Sometimes our cultures work against us. I mean what is this thing of "ka sepedi last born o sala ko gae"?? Most black marriages don't work out because of our cultures and traditions, they really set us back. They are designed mostly to oppress women or to prevent growth of the married couple.

[@mosimamakwala8832]

Guys immediately when Portia said bochum, I believe everything. I wish u can get the house ya Gauteng because those ppl will kill you Dear. Thanks for sharing ur story. And am happy ur now healed dear.

[@mathapelomphahlele5309]

Definitely. My in-laws are from that side. Luckily my husband did not give them airtime from day 1

[@Mojela-p6y]

Ur IQ is questionable. U believe her based on just that?

[@MokgadiMokou-hp5tf]

Bochum Dia boa shame

[@NgakoM]

@@mathapelomphahlele5309 portia o dula bochum mo kae?

[@NonsikeleloXulu-h7w]

Yohh you are strong Portia. May God 🙏 protect you

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

It's always good to allow guests to express themselves in their language that they are comfortable with, especially if the host understands it. Sometimes, using English one loses meaning in what they want to express. Production must learn to include subtitles, because if we prioritise English in our multicultural country the channel will end up losing the opportunity of having great guests because of the language barrier. Well done guest for insisting on sharing your experience exactly as you've experienced it❤

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

So painful! Strong woman my sister. I've heard this before. Safety first! God is able

[@keamogetswesesoko8729]

Thank you promised for this interview, we are learning a lot 🙏♥️

[@MoniccaRamahlo-ko8kk]

Most in-laws are wicked more so ge o nyala breadwinner.Your case is more or less like mine,worse my parent's in-law are pastor's.This being our 18th year in marriage,i chose my peace and sanity and stopped talking or going to their house.Yhooo it's a lot and i feel you sis,love and light ❤

[@kutlwanokoobonye6979]

Moses of the family 🙄

[@NsikeSibisi]

Topic Suggestion: Please can you get a lady that is or was a Sister in law that hates her brothers wife and ill treats her. And a step child that hates or hated his or her step partner. I’d like to get their perspective, especially the Sister in laws, because wow they can really be evil. Thanks Promise.

[@lovinglydeewi]

They are gonna say makoti/step mom was evil 🙄 and they were angels who were done wrong mxm

[@menniekumalo3276]

With the sister in law, they will always say makoti is evil😂😂 trust me

[@anastheciasebela6460]

😂😂please we need to understand what's going on in Thier minds ....

[@mahlaulebasani1256]

😂😂😂​@@lovinglydeewi

[@Nkidi_Sako]

Your sister in law has always been jealous of you, so o go kgantshetsa le ka bana ba o hloka bopapa bona ba o tlala lapa a sa bereke. She's the core cause of everything and fueled that to her mother. I saw it happening to many people. Get family law experts not criminal lawyers please to fight for you

[@charmainekopolo3865]

Portia, all I can tell you my Dear is that God loves you tremendously! You were supposed to be dead by now. Your in-laws are witches, they bewitched both you and their son! You must thank God for being gracious to you! You are so beautifully and fearfully created in the image of God! NO WEAPON FORMED AGAINST YOU SHALL PROSPER!

[@Thapsiet11]

I never believed that there's witchcraft until things happen to me I do understand that lady tjo hle boloi bo teng

[@mokgadisennya]

I can relate to this lady's story. People who do not want you will fight even use witchcraft to make you leave. Remember she was not wanted in the beginning. As women we go through a lot shem.

[@MSTT691]

That's true, you'll find that they are also the reason why she can't conceive in her marriage. In-laws can be wicked if they hate you. 💔

[@mutshidzimulelu2991]

I am from Limpopo, and I will never ever build a home inside a family yard....when your husband dies, you will know the inlaws. My husband is the only boy, and yet he doesn't support this thing of making a family house your home. Every man must have his own stand

[@Noko_Masholoane]

The moment she said Bochum (husband is from Bochum), I believe her😫😫

[@KatMug]

😂😂what’s happening ko Bochum?

[@mmakoenarammutla7314]

Lenna😂😂 I just knew .

[@thapelokarabo3182]

M from bochum neh but banna ba bochum le bomma bona a ba tsebalege🤞🤞

[@thapelokarabo3182]

​@@KatMugba loya and most of their parents likes to control their marriages

[@Mmalehumo]

Aii le nna I believe..

[@tswelopelerabodiba201]

I feel like Mrs Law o duma this lady's inlaws😂😂😂😂😂from her facial expressions a re " wena wa ba tlogela" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Sumeya.]

Her remarks nje 😂😂😂😂😂 o ba batla 1 by 1

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

Ke banyaka mo nna. Nka ba bontsha di films

[@sydneymphela3230]

Aka ba tshela kq meetse

[@nkekoloroslyn3134]

O ba tlogetši from the beginning jerrr wa nkwatiša

[@NtombizodwaSibiya-or1ht]

😢I can relate to this lady shuu in laws are so horrible especially mother's in-law God help them ,I have one son I will never do what was done to me Gal you will win this battle um telling you if someone uses.uthi wena don't use it do u knowrhis thing called Karma soon gal it will catch them watch the space I know exactly what you going through Happy cos 3 people who were doing me wrong 4 of them are no more left with 4 of which I see what's going on in their lives So don't worry God will deal with them one by one Revenge sometimes is not ok wait on the Lord that man is not playing games one by one

[@mphomako8830]

1 The husband is not man enough 2 Mother in law wa loya 3 Thank God you are still alive sesi. Leave everything as they are. Start your life over.

[@Kelebot]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@phulusoramatsitsi1539]

4. Because of all that her kids are suffering and don’t hv anything good as results 😢

[@NgakoM]

one thing about sisters-in-law, they don't want to work for their kids, they are very arrogant and refuse to accept money from their baby daddies claiming that they can take care of their kids themselves, while using their brothers to support and destroying their brother's lives

[@elizabethchokoe]

When she said she was dreaming of things after the operation, it’s definitely because of the medication, basically hallucinations

[@pheladirff5419]

Sad part she seem to believe things happened during hallucination😪

[@Unstoppablegoddess726]

Thanx for adding subtitles🎉

[@ntombifuthigloriamajola9985]

Me too ,I am so happy .The interview also help here and there

[@Ladyfavoured]

Thank you for the subtitles Promise. However some of subtitles were not going hand in hand with what the lady was saying which was misleading to the reader. We can only improve from here. All the best❤

[@refilwemoikangwe6845]

For What is worth I believe you sis 🫂

[@pheladirff5419]

Usisi went through depression 'A bona animal ' a ipona le yena ele animal " she was hallucinating!!!guys sis needs professional help hle she's not OK. you can hear on how she takes long to get to the point!! love and light 🫂

[@favouredandsaved]

I actually love the way she tells her story,kept the audience engaged,she didn't drag....also,I think she believes it was witchcraft,different beliefs...😁

[@TebohoMonyamane]

I agree with u she was depressed yes could witchcraft be there but she was really depressed and understandably so based on wat she went through it was too much for one person against such cruelty

[@lifelesson535]

We build our house far away from the in laws. I felt safe in my own house. The older sister came build next to our house without my knowledge. My mother in law has never been to my house both in Venda and Gauteng.

[@phindin2]

As black families we have a ling way to go in terms of relationships with in laws.... I can relate to Portia's story.... married to a bread winner and a last born myself, its tough...

[@mahlodinorah487]

Getting married to the lime light if the family, pursued me to register with varsity for 2 degrees n diploma. Just to upgrade myself so that my family should also hv a lime light child. But all these helped me bcos at the end I had my qualifications to fall back on. I'm now married to my Qualifications n I'm content

[@TsheM]

He is going to remember you. Leave sweet Portia.

[@florahgaboipofemokgaotsi4543]

This lady went through the most and it’s all so heavy on her💔 As someone who was also married and used to experience the presence of the unknown in the house until I ran away for my life, I get her. May God shine the light your way ausi🫂 I’m happy you made it out alive

[@mbusomahlangu8313]

Qvdd

[@spm9130]

Same here! My life is more precious than the expensive furniture!

[@relebohilephakisi3730]

this woman story is my story exactly

[@zinhlemfeka3040]

Ayi kabi neh mara most mother in laws bako Limpopo are their sons family's downfall😢its always the same story ay ngeke.

[@glow-raynkwana7910]

True😢

[@agnesmothapo1881]

Thank u for the subtitles Sesi Promise

[@KhaboMaseko-q6k]

TLB is the way diliza😅😅

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

😂😂

[@LadyT06]

O morusu 😂😂!

[@bmshik]

@@LadyT06I hope they will support her in jail too

[@LadyT06]

There seems to some kind of trend with both Bapedi and Bazulu men. Rapelang banyana ba ka before le ke nang manyalong.May God have mercy on us and protect us from those human hyenas🙏🏾!!

[@bonganisibeko3892]

Sister-in laws shout out loud this lady to have a baby as if they want to sleep with their brother. The main cause that led to this marriage to crumble is the mother-in-law and her evil daughers.

[@angelbosman9659]

I know exactly what Portia is talking about. My child's sperm donor is from ghapani/mokopani, his mother is such a "bit@h"i swore she's sleeping with her son. They are greedy, selfish and they wanted me to finish building the house that was stuck. I ran away from that family. They don't even know his son/grandson. Time I took him to maintenance I was told" I want nothing to do with you or that thing of yours". They don't know that God is in control

[@nsukumaluleke7435]

Do not ever build a house at your in laws no matter how nice it is last born or not.

[@buhletshabalala157]

Went through similar situation. Thought they were doing this time me because I'm zulu. I was like a foreigner in that family. Glad I left before I became mad

[@nozizwerugongo5263]

Pronise love your colour clothing combination simple but tops🎉❤🎉

[@me-xx3uh]

Problem is that when you tell the husband about his family he never believes you because he think he knows them he grew up in that family and they treated him right

[@mokadingema6372]

Loved it n promise ngwaneshu i just wanna say some of us can relate to this stories one way or another. 😢

[@bmshik]

Marrying a man with siblings who don’t have direction is misery. They broke and wanted to be controlling the couple. This lady will now have kids and be happy away from these people. She must thank God for this exit. That family ya tsoga. The instant pregnancy was a big sign 😢

[@MoskwaMoskwa-p3x]

This lady is going through a lot and the fact that she spoke pny 1 hour means theres a lot behind that happened for those years 😢

[@ireenmanase7030]

Hello Promise. Is the skin care only available in South Africa?

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

No world wide.. please whatsapp the business [phone]

[@Nkidi_Sako]

Get a lawyer sesi we are not that expensive compared to the lods you'll endure. You deserve even pension fund 50% spousal maintenance and 50% of all he owned or owned together by virtue of your marriage. If o nyetswe ga Marais o tsamaile wrong ba loya kouwe. You're entitled to that bonus because you're married

[@jessicathobejane2613]

It's going to be difficult for her to win the house. Rural areas are governed by chiefs so normally they take the side of the man

[@mahlamakitikau4286]

Thank you for bringing "Porche koloi yago turwa" Ngwano!! Nnnete kegore gonyalwa ke last born with all our sepedi cultural laws okare ke curse samma. Di last born gadi laiwe letsona during lenyalo, haaai they can't be wiggling married boys maan!.

[@charlottenyalungu5956]

May the lord carry you through this situation sesi portia askies ngwana

[@RuthMadumo]

There are families out there who will never accept you and if they do it's a pretence just know only time will tell and they know who they really want make no mistake

[@ofentsemorwane7896]

I understand that Sis Portia invested so much. However, is it worth your life fighting for material things and losing your life? I really don't think the inlaws will give up.

[@RachelMorumudi]

People ask Clement Maosa of skeem about Bochum and witchcraft

[@DikakanyoGoweditswe]

I always thought England UK is worst place in witchcraft, saucers and all evil. Mo England ba golowa mo dishopong o ba lebile ba saiphitlhe

[@kabluxful]

​@@DikakanyoGoweditswe😂 really

[@nombalindlovu1049]

We need Prayer as a Nation, witchcraft is real and the Devil uses family members to do it's work, Marriages are in trouble. Praying and Prayer

[@SinaPila]

Ladies, thanks for this program. It is very informative and eye opening. Portia, your story motivates me I wish I could privately speak to you further. Those in laws are still going to get their punishment or their children's children will suffer for their parents sins

[@mahlodinorah487]

Never experienced a Pedi Programme. It sounds so sweet to the ears. But fr the sake of inclusion let's share ladies.

[@MarthaMathibe]

My sister you are so beautiful. It's true some family hadikenwe.

[@Itss_your_girl_bk]

Some translation there is wrong.Maybe those people can't hear her clearly

[@giftyanntengey4464]

It's good to express yourself in vernacular (language you can best express yourself), but remember your show has international viewers. I am from Ghana, I love to listen to your interviews, most of which are life lessons. Please let's have more English. Lol ❤

[@dikeledikotsedi]

Portia stay away from those people you're not save. Run to Christ He is always waiting for us

[@rebccabeka475]

Exactly he was from Bochum

[@NonsikeleloXulu-h7w]

Big up Promise I'm so proud of you ❤❤❤

[@portiamokomane6189]

Alot is happening in South Africa shem.👐👐, Iam even scared of getting married.

[@DzulaniRatshilima]

The pain on her face😒

[@chamburamekwane415]

Guys mara is Portia OK??😮😮I'm sorry gal as a married woman in Venda I'm scared

[@leahlinki5683]

She's not yet OK! The way she kept her arms strongly folded against her chest is a sign of trauma but I am glad she's strong enough and smart enough to want to fight for what belongs to her!

[@charmainekgatla7107]

Yoh am married and scared hle

[@Inno4839]

@@charmainekgatla7107 normalise fasting and prayer, with God nothing is impossible

[@mapsmaps805]

You will find peace quick if you walk away from that house sisi. It's not worth it ❤

[@fundisiwekhumalo3321]

May the good Lord Jesus fight on your behalf😢be strong in the Lord sesi❤

[@mashadimokgata871]

There is nothing you can do to the house because it's in the mother's land only thing that you can take will be furniture.

[@nomhlekhaboramaloko7671]

I need to be interviewed to your podcast about my marriage. Is it possible

[@kamogelotreshia8364]

Use her email

[@PayVersace]

Watching from Uganda please more of English

[@motherofcubs]

Marry a breadwinner if you want to cry non stop, even an only son yjo you will see flames

[@chubekakulu6834]

Promise Sisi please don't be ignorant. South Africa has 9 official languages. Vernac is not just Pedi. Some of us speak Xhosa and don't understand a word of Pedi. So its not just English and Pedi people on your channel. There are Zulus, Xhosas etc... We appreciate the subtitles. Thanks

[@butterbile]

You’re the ignorant one, South Africa has 11 official languages

[@sibongilentshangase4398]

But vernacular has NEVER been Pedi. She is referring to all SA indigenous languages. Xhosa is aso vernac. That's way she said if you do not understand the vernacular language being spoken in that interview [in most cases it's sePedi]. Then English and the subtitles will be of assistance. This is also on assumption that the listeners are multi-lingual. She wasn't being ignorant. You just took it personally without listening to understand 😂😂😂

[@zinhlemfeka3040]

Bathong,she did not say nor implied that,lalela kahle.

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

@@sibongilentshangase4398i was dreading to respond to this.. not sure how she concluded that i said only Sepedi is Vernac🥹😩

[@Ownnarrativepodcast]

@@zinhlemfeka3040yazin i never been this bored 😅.. thanks for giving her clarity❤

[@AnittaM_Diaries]

😂😂 Reactions zika Promise are killing me

[@kabelodorothy6880]

This lady she was very lucky to be alive up until now. Gabo monna ba loya hence they didn't want you 4rm the begging kore ne ba nyaka the other lady from their Village bcurz ba tseba Boloi ka moka. It's a pity your Husband o loile Keba gabo so gore a fole yoba mathata, and Mme wa gae nasa batle gore a nyale gore aba berele.. Last Advice Portia rapela fela curz this war it's far 4rm being over yona 50%ego oka gwela yona ngwanesho

[@MimiKhumalo-sz8gy]

Love you Promise you are so real🌸🌸

[@sanctuaryofhopeministries5438]

Jesus is the answer 🙌

[@charmainekgatla7107]

Honestly i am very scared, after Posch's story akesaya ga Mother inlaw 😂😂😂am traumatised

[@tumelomashaba4420]

Portia bann gape watla wadi bona yong,keno rapela gore Modimo a gofe maatla o fole moyeng. Ntwa ye o beng ole Ka gare ga yona a seya nama Rapela,a gona ntwe yago feta Thapelo Modimo ke yena Ramaatla ohle

[@nyarichirume6601]

I always doubted my padi bt today, I am so proud of myself 😊

[@murielmoyahabo6078]

According to law everything thats on someone's land belongs to them. Thread careful before they send you to jail