Loneliness is awful. It can make you weak. Weak enough to compromise when you should be walking away.
@BassKittanya1253 жыл бұрын
^ my existence in a comment
@xPanicFiex3 жыл бұрын
How do you get the courage to finally walk away?
@CWWJR3 жыл бұрын
Odd. Loneliness is a feeling I have never felt. I hear hear it described and I know what it means but I dont understand it. I actually prefer being solo. I have never understood why people feel they need someone to feel complete.
@canica993 жыл бұрын
@@CWWJR is not always about having the person with you to complete you, in others circumstances it is about how that other person provides more positiveness to your own existence than not. I think that after we meet someone and the honey moon period is over, we are constantly evaluating how this person makes us feel and as time goes by sometimes that is one of the feelings that we look forward to experience when adversity is present. I am glad for you that you are independent and really do not need to have someone and that is a barrier that keeps you safe but in my experience, been vulnerable to how someone can come into our lives and makes us feel is an expedition I am willing and have part taken. Just so you know, I am not saying you are wrong and I am right or vice versa, I respect your right to exist way too much to try to be patriarchal.
@yusayrkhan79923 жыл бұрын
One important thing I've learnt is that loneliness is better than having bad company.
@michaelfoxbrass3 жыл бұрын
So powerful - our inner voice - but only when we pause to determine its messaging and act on it.
@brianna0943 жыл бұрын
Amen!!
@noneofyourbusiness3023 жыл бұрын
Amen
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Hello everyone, I'm the director of DRIVE-THRU. Thanks for watching. The cast and I love your comments. Ask me anything, and please share the link with friends if you enjoyed the film.
@nocakeforsusan87013 жыл бұрын
Great job with the daydream sequences. Very fluid.
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
@@nocakeforsusan8701 Thank you!
@lizziem3 жыл бұрын
Great job Lauren, very relatable and beautifully portrayed
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, Liz.
@buckaroo243 жыл бұрын
Terrific work
@KD-rs7qi3 жыл бұрын
Its better to be alone than to be with someone who makes you feel alone.💯
@mvasqu7622 жыл бұрын
I think they quote Robin Williams talking about friends
@theeclectic62063 жыл бұрын
Most of the time, when someone says, "I want to be honest with you...." it means they are about to tell you something you're not going to like (they're going to be TOO honest), or they're going to flat out lie.
@mickeymengistu68343 жыл бұрын
you just mentioned all possibilities 🤡
@mickeymengistu68343 жыл бұрын
you're like saying this is true but it might not be
@ImBaCify3 жыл бұрын
Sometime they tell u the truth and just after they say i just wanted to be honest with u.
@hawaiianstarman3 жыл бұрын
Always the implication “I have not been honest with you”. How much brighter does the red flag need to be for it to be seen?
@paolagrando50793 жыл бұрын
"TOO honest" what does it mean?
@birdbrain96253 жыл бұрын
"When you love someone more than they deserve, surely they will hurt you more than you deserve" 💔
@anneshadasgupta15943 жыл бұрын
That hit deep
@forzareview92053 жыл бұрын
Who hurt you 😔
@dmars72643 жыл бұрын
Whoa, that's profound. Thx!
@judyives18323 жыл бұрын
That’s an awesome quote. Very true.
@moonhunter99933 жыл бұрын
nicely said
@wadeguidry66753 жыл бұрын
Stick to your gut feelings. I'm old, I've learned the hard way. She should have bailed. Shes going to anyway.
@notbill083 жыл бұрын
Actually, she knows NOW he’s just not into her and HE will eventually break it off.
@Riverrockphotos3 жыл бұрын
Yes but when in 20 years time after they have kids and stuff. People really do need to figure it out sooner and save all the heart ace later.
@moonhunter99933 жыл бұрын
so true
@zyrrhos3 жыл бұрын
@@Riverrockphotos It won't get that far. Not this one.
@loutenant28173 жыл бұрын
Nah. That inner voice is very loud. What she says now doesn't determine her decision in the near future. She could have said that to be nice but as soon as they split ways it could be a different story. But I do agree 100%. I also had to learn the hard way. Listen to your gut
@lastmanstanding26223 жыл бұрын
She was so close to making the right decision.
@ggrthemostgodless87133 жыл бұрын
Really... I thought the oposite. She is way too far from being able to execute on what she knows. And why?? because WHAT ELSE IS SHE GONNA DO WITH HER LIFE OR TIME?? And really, it is not as if she is not having a good time, she said it. She also said, We never had that talk about being exclusive... no people, she is where she has to be and needs to be. I don't get fooled by the sad music and faces. Her opinion of his docent make it true.
@wolfdog33123 жыл бұрын
She will make the right decision when she feels safe at home.
@wolfdog33123 жыл бұрын
The guy seemed creepy to her
@Myview2463 жыл бұрын
She still can though. Absolutely nothing stopping her from leaving the next day or the day after that.
@ggrthemostgodless87133 жыл бұрын
@@Myview246 hahahahahaha Or the day before she dies. There's nothing stopping her except all the thingS that stopped her TODAY. Seems obvous to me, she will have THAT which stopped her today from being able to do it to morrow or any day after... it is the same for all people not jus her; we carry the past with us and thus we are who we are; until we deal with it, which at least in the video, she is not able or willing to do.
@ultranate86183 жыл бұрын
When dating knowing self worth is a dangerous weapon. Use it every time and you will find the right person.
@brianna0943 жыл бұрын
Such a valid point
@ultranate86183 жыл бұрын
@@brianna094 thank you
@noneofyourbusiness3023 жыл бұрын
Right you are, sir! 🤔
@ultranate86183 жыл бұрын
@@noneofyourbusiness302 thank you
@Hexanitrobenzene3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but... It's very hard to calibrate the feeling of self worth precisely. It's either over-inflated or under-inflated. It takes considerable wisdom to know your self-worth accurately.
@prathameshtakane73543 жыл бұрын
the transition of shots from reality to day dream was very cool. great job.
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. :)
@eg11973 жыл бұрын
Guy just told you how it's going to be...and internally you're hurting. I feel bad for her, the pain and listening to his gibberish talking. This film did a excellent job portraying what it like out there in the real world. I've been there. Thank you Olmetto, another great with CC. 🙏
@IamJOYZIE3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@MollyMaidParkCities3 жыл бұрын
I need some help unpacking... why did she stay with him?
@denisejustdenise3 жыл бұрын
You left a really thoughtful comment. It matched the same level of quality as the film. That's rare. 👍
@Well_possibly3 жыл бұрын
@@MollyMaidParkCities I used to be her. I don't know why I stayed. Maybe a subconscious belief that all men are selfish/abusive, so you might as well stick with the one you're with. Sometimes people are stuck financially. Maybe she couldn't return home. Maybe she was living with him and had to until she finds a job and her own place.
@judyives18323 жыл бұрын
Oh no! I was cheering her on and then it was a day dream.
@donnygat3 жыл бұрын
Been here before. She should've got out the car while he was waiting for the ice cream lol
@raheesom3 жыл бұрын
I was so disappointed that she didn't. Killed the story for me.
@mehditoumi54253 жыл бұрын
Did you?
@solitairestarr55163 жыл бұрын
Poor girl probably had her luggage in the boot and no where booked to stay, not much choice!
@charliefoster32213 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing, I have jumped out of the truck when my father was lecturing me. I was in the middle of nowhere.
@dhanyakv9923 жыл бұрын
When they appreciate you for being a super cool girl, brace yourself for the hurt. They just want you to play cool with their rubbish...
@StinaMariaxo3 жыл бұрын
You know a short film is good when the comments is filled with opinions on the story itself like these are real people. Amazing performances by the actor and actress here.
@muzic4lyfe20053 жыл бұрын
Very true
@zemaddonzo35043 жыл бұрын
truss
@suraya1224 Жыл бұрын
You post that same comment on other Omeletos.
@oghippiechick3 жыл бұрын
This film was heartbreaking, as it is what us women have done for eons; myself included. When our self-esteem is screaming at us internally, and yet, we're not ready to listen, or heed our own inner voice. Well done filmmaking!
@rachaelstanley79863 жыл бұрын
Some of us don't though. We're the never-married because they knew we were too much like hard work for them. I can get men and I can keep men. The problem has always been that I don't want to keep them.
@wilkopebesma3 жыл бұрын
This is far from a man to woman thing. Many men are being made to feel unworthy and underving by their girlfriends. Except for a man there is zero understanding when there is abuse mentally, like this really is, or physically by a woman.
@yatinsinha67962 жыл бұрын
Wow! Well explained.
@PabloCotugno Жыл бұрын
ahaah as if only guys can be bad Why is it always "us vs them" for middle aged western women who've hit a wall?
@PabloCotugno Жыл бұрын
@@rachaelstanley7986 haha my guess is youre delusional. If you dont have a man, either you can get them or cant keep them Western women who've hit a wall see themselves as young and beautiful when in reality....
@DidYouKnow8093 жыл бұрын
the fear of lonelyness girl was afraid of
@shadesmarerik41123 жыл бұрын
both
@jeffrywg3 жыл бұрын
I doubt this
@jeffrywg3 жыл бұрын
We see earlier that a guy is abusing a girl so it may not have been the best time to say this.
@fractale43223 жыл бұрын
You sound like Yoda
@everevelyn10943 жыл бұрын
@@fractale4322 😂 I thought the same thing when I read that!
@steve84213 жыл бұрын
She would be so much better off just adopting a nice friendly dog.
@natalieshannon76593 жыл бұрын
Or a cat,
@Butterflywings0113 жыл бұрын
Anything but him... Jezz
@donnahaley58543 жыл бұрын
I'm sure she wouldn't feed that dog junk food
@shroomfind3 жыл бұрын
No, she would be so much better off being comfortable in being alone with herself. A pet is a crutch. Be comfortable being alone, then you can be in the healthiest relationship. Sadly, we fail to teach our children this....
@joesurfer97543 жыл бұрын
This is the stupidest, most cowardly thing to think.
@thenomadpath89043 жыл бұрын
I would be pissed to spend $500 on a flight to visit a casual fling lol. Unless he pays, I would have never invested.
@bensweiss3 жыл бұрын
Or in her case just fly back and disappear from his life.
@sueblack57943 жыл бұрын
Seems like she thought it was something more. So convenient for him he didn’t tell her until she was there.
@babsbybend3 жыл бұрын
And then paying for his McFlurry.
@bensweiss3 жыл бұрын
@@babsbybend I actually thought that was a boss move to set up a separation/break/I've paid my dues now leave me alone.
@tamsinhendrick76703 жыл бұрын
Plus the mc flurry cost......
@vibewithangel30283 жыл бұрын
Currently trying to ghost a boyfriend who doesn’t even do the bare minimum for me, I’m glad I saw this
@a.r.williams14533 жыл бұрын
Just dump him straight up babe and go no contact that way u can always say you kept it real
@ThreePedalPassion3 жыл бұрын
Don’t ghost him, just leave him. No use in drawing it out.
@ChristopherLRussell3 жыл бұрын
Bare minimum = expect nothing but give me everything and make my life easier even if it kills you because I'm a girl who's equal but privileged at the same time
@ThreePedalPassion3 жыл бұрын
Is he doing the bare minimum or are you asking way too much?
@vibewithangel30283 жыл бұрын
@@ThreePedalPassion I don’t think asking to call once a week and get the same energy back is much at all but ok
@hiwiad90703 жыл бұрын
I knew they weren't going to work out when she declined that McFlurry
@christicrenshaw27723 жыл бұрын
Lol
@noneofyourbusiness3023 жыл бұрын
Facts! I would have ate the whole shake while yelling at him! But, I am old school!
@agentskinnybones67133 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing 😂😂
@joesurfer97543 жыл бұрын
She declined the Mcfurry so she stay's hot looking and does not become just another aggressive fat chick.
@sueblack57943 жыл бұрын
....or when he opened his mouth.
@brandonhanserd78323 жыл бұрын
Incredibly unrealistic.....you mean to tell me he was able to order a McFlurry and they didn’t tell him the ice cream machine was down/broken?
@muzic4lyfe20053 жыл бұрын
I think there are a few that still work....luckily they found one of them in this short
@alyssafaith0273 жыл бұрын
Lol you're too much
@davidwilson26803 жыл бұрын
Right!!
@davidtheriot74043 жыл бұрын
It's a dead giveaway that it is pure fiction.
@ivyluxo96823 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂ikr
@saysyke28673 жыл бұрын
She knew she wasn't his or anyone's first choice and that made her flow along with what she thought she was worth. Amazing
@pierredavis27632 ай бұрын
Graduations on making this film seem 100 times more deprrssing
@sunmoonstars22283 жыл бұрын
This is so typical American dating style, dating different people at the same time in Europe that is called cheating. When you start to date someone no other people are included. You go for a first date, and you click, it is good and then follows the second date, and then comes more dates, which really means YOU GET TO KNOW A PERSON FIRST, and it becomes a relationship. I don't get that "exclusive" idea and a girl that is settling for that I really feel for her.
@carltonthepug3 жыл бұрын
Also like this in Middle East and asia
@ladyofthecentury3 жыл бұрын
That's how I date and I'm American. It still is cheating. A lot of people have a lot of low-class ways and must enjoy torturing themselves is what I assume. That's what happens to people who fall for the hook-up culture.
@DavidGutierrez-nt7ov3 жыл бұрын
I'm 60. And this was sad to watch.
@larsharris3 жыл бұрын
I understood they dated, she moved away, she moved back. I have done similar. Date casually once, maybe twice. (Movie, play, event, or meal. Nothing beyond a lite kiss). They are gone for few months. I date another casually. I likely have mentioned other. She comes back. I made it clear I was dating both. They were 260 miles away from each other. (I was living almost directly between them). I guess I could have kept quiet. When things got past certain point I told the other gal I was going to break up as we had got serious. Her response? “I am glad you were honest rather then string me along. Please keep my phone number. If it doesn't work out call me”. I married her so never called that gal again. Hope she found someone.
@rosebud03913 жыл бұрын
@@ladyofthecentury Low-class? wtf 😂 class ain't got nothing to do with it.
@fttcoop53413 жыл бұрын
This is why the word "douchebag" is necessary.
@fttcoop53413 жыл бұрын
Oh no, the ending. So many women go along with that sort of psychological abuse. Sad.
@karenday910910 ай бұрын
For sure!
@RPRosen-ki2fk3 жыл бұрын
I had so much respect for her, before I realized that was all in her imagination. It's PRETTY SAD to see someone ... sell themselves short.
@shawanashahrinrahman4583 жыл бұрын
Dude you really had to go and spoil it?
@missmollygriddlebone33273 жыл бұрын
True
@davidshaw1653 жыл бұрын
@@shawanashahrinrahman458 what the did you expect the comments to be about when you scrolled in here? People come in here to comment about the video it's common sense.
@shawanashahrinrahman4583 жыл бұрын
@@davidshaw165 hate to break it down to you (am not) but you can share your opinions, feelings quite in details without spoiling it down for other people. He had a clear intention of doing it and he successfully did. So dont go on supporting and accusing me wrongfully when I'm clearly not the one who's in fault here.
@davidshaw1653 жыл бұрын
@@shawanashahrinrahman458 All they did was say it's sad to see someone sell themselves short and that something was all in her head. Does that spoil the dialogue of this video? No! You actually clearly ARE the one at fault here. There is no clear intention to "ruin" this video for everyone else they merely shared their thoughts on the video!
@SnrubEvad3 жыл бұрын
So between not wanting to be alone, feelings of self inadequacy, and not communicating a master of poor decision making is born.
@samanthamcbride30143 жыл бұрын
It's a shame when people settle for less even though they know that they deserve better
@stevebrodie77773 жыл бұрын
Guy was a jerk and she let herself be used , match made in Hell !
@newjerseymom2 жыл бұрын
This is what I've been going through since my marriage ended 3 years ago. I've been trying to learn to walk away from a budding relationship when it doesn't meet my requirements. It's hard, but I'm getting better at it. This film so accurately depicts my experience. Thank you so much.
@selinakyle1750 Жыл бұрын
Good for you! Apply the Marie Condo organization method but to relationships - if it doesn’t bring you joy, get rid of it!
@terryoquinn81993 ай бұрын
I’m sorry to hear that people treat you that way . No one should ever let anyone treat them as less than . Know your own worth and be sure to keep your perspective . It’ll all work out if you do .
@AlexiaAnimates3 жыл бұрын
When she made / her inner dialogue that speech about being unworthy and stuffing the loneliness and unworthiness down with things and people and garbage it really made me think about my life and where it’s going. The trajectory
@BassKittanya1253 жыл бұрын
Save yourself now...BC here I am 6 years later with a 3 year old and a home...and he still does not love me
@charliefoster32213 жыл бұрын
I think every adult can do better personally.
@robertdais75693 жыл бұрын
Fabulous story, writing, acting and directing! It painfully expresses the complexities of modern dating, moments of un/truth, feelings of guit, diminished value, selfishness, & the consequences of devaluing ourselves by being less than a priority to someone. Bravo! Among the best I've seen.
@primegurjar3 жыл бұрын
i know how bad that hurts when you love someone who doesn't deserve it. And can't deal with fear if you let it go.
@nocakeforsusan87013 жыл бұрын
Too soon in relationship to "love" someone. But they had already done the deed so now in Stuckville.
@sheridenthomas73263 жыл бұрын
Oh how, in so many ways, we throw away our sovereignty for low level human connection. Painfully human this.
@Auf.DerMaur3 жыл бұрын
Sovereignty? Sounds like playing God.
@mariamagdalena22143 жыл бұрын
I don't miss the drama of a relationship at all!
@keithhinchcliffe56292 жыл бұрын
When you're 40 and alone with no kids you will. That's when you'll realize that you were a part of the drama.
@mamapegg2 жыл бұрын
Drama of dating lol. I'm relieved that I'm married!
@karmicsheila63 Жыл бұрын
@@keithhinchcliffe5629You are making a lot of assumptions about Maria and women in general. Women don't have to have a partner/husband and kids to be happy and fulfilled . Being comfortable not being in a relationship means everything. Oh, and are men ever responsible for relationship issues?
@davidgarton423 жыл бұрын
She just didn't want to show him how disappointed she was. Inside she's decided she may or may not take advantage of him, like he has her, or may just quietly slip out of his life..
@christicrenshaw27723 жыл бұрын
Good story about having self worth
@christicrenshaw27723 жыл бұрын
I love when she saids I know I am not everyones 10 but I am not a complete idiot. So funny how people truly think that about who they are seeing
@ciarad.84173 жыл бұрын
It’s so relatable. I recently go out of a situation like this. Complete wasteman
@comfyspecs90583 жыл бұрын
@SURREY CROSSING she's basically saying that she doesnt think of herself as perfect/above everyone, but she knows shes better than him and what hes trying to do
@belbarcelos92643 жыл бұрын
@SURREY CROSSING I wouldn’t have said “I’m not everyone’s ten” or “I’m not a complete idiot” but I would also never let this man think that his “proposal” was acceptable and I would think about it. He just said he was playing with her and with another girl and was basically using her for amusement. If you let him think he can still have you he will pretend to be sorry and whatnot. She should have just said “I deserve way better than you please never contact me again”.
@joesurfer97543 жыл бұрын
She is a 100% 12 to be honest.
@AF-jp5vi3 жыл бұрын
@@belbarcelos9264 To me, the very idea of "grading" people on a scale of 1 to 10 seems shallow, demeaning and hurtful. I agree that her statement is indicative of low self-worth; why would any woman grade herself like that, or buy into this crap grading system? Why would a woman explain to herself (or to anyone else) that she's not a complete idiot? This fact should be self-evident, not questionable in the least, not even worth mentioning. If she feels the need to explain that "she's not a complete idiot", this shows that she still "somehow" resonates with the idea of being an idiot, otherwise she would not feel compelled to refute it. She's obviously in the process of figuring out her her self-worth, but she's not there yet; she's on the right path, but still a long way to go. Great movie and great comments!
@boboloko3 жыл бұрын
When I was 20 I bought a one way ticket from New York to California to live in the same city as a former high school sweetheart after we had been corresponding romantically for a few weeks. I called her the night before I boarded the flight and she told me that she didn’t want to be exclusive. Know your boundaries and state them upfront. If the other person freaks out, leave them.
@65sheilakay3 жыл бұрын
Let's not over think this. The guy is a jerk.
@annehaase33803 жыл бұрын
This literally describes done of the similar moments I experienced. And just like her, I smiled and put up with it. But, I regret ignoring my inner voice. Although, now I never do, and I feel the true power of integrity. It's blissful.
@ManuShapopi3 жыл бұрын
Noooo. Tell the guy to go to your place, then just tell him how you feel at your doorstep.
@judilynn95693 жыл бұрын
She didn't have a place. She flew out to spend time with him.
@noneofyourbusiness3023 жыл бұрын
Ok, true...but Manu has an excellent point! 🤔
@sueblack57943 жыл бұрын
@@judilynn9569 Then, drop me off at the airport and change her ticket.
@bonitaquick23163 жыл бұрын
She was done and just being polite. It was the end of the day. Get the over with and fresh start in the morning - without him....easier to just go through the motions at that hour, right? And now that she knows she can collect more ammo, like tell him - I know I said we're cool but after spending the night I am really not feeling it anymore.
@ria56333 жыл бұрын
Ugh hate the ending like girl know your worth can’t say I haven’t done this .
@ria56333 жыл бұрын
Never trust a man named Kyle lol 😂
@pringle49923 жыл бұрын
Yo as always, your videos are amazing. Every video makes me laugh, cry, or think. I don't know how you do it but appreciate you putting these things on KZbin. They are something other than Minecraft, or Try not to Laugh videos, which I have found myself watching more and more of during quarantine. I'm surprised you don't own some major production company, because you should. The angles, the acting, the props, are always astounding. And most of all, the story line is always so intriguing and well-thought out. I appreciate you, truly. Again, amazing.
@HrglassHealer3 жыл бұрын
She should’ve handled him like in scenario she daydreamed about. She agreed to be used...unless she ended up ghosting him
@cahidijoyoraharjo78333 жыл бұрын
@SURREY CROSSING That's true! You have to be careful. Mind the situation. When the time is right, make your move.
@prernapokharkar28043 жыл бұрын
i've been through the same situation two years back and don't know why I feel andy, same exact situation, same exact conversation, later had to leave the city, initially felt i was being used but then realised, i used him too, but i still wanted it to be something more. i just feel right now, if i had watched this movie two years back, i would have never fallen in love with that man. we are still friends (not fwb but developed pure friendship bond) but i still wish we were more than that.
@cahidijoyoraharjo78333 жыл бұрын
@@prernapokharkar2804 Maybe it's just not meant to be, maybe you're not supposed to be with him. Maybe the right one is still out there. You just haven't found him yet.
@prernapokharkar28043 жыл бұрын
@@cahidijoyoraharjo7833yeah maybe we were meant to best friends or maybe our story has just started, we are single but just not ready to fall in love again, there are so many possibilities we never know so just gonna have faith in the journey and god!
@sueblack57943 жыл бұрын
Women have been raised to be “nice” & compliment so we don't hurt other peoples feelings. Women entertain jerks because they hold out they hope they will changes, which they never do.
@ElodieLebeau3 жыл бұрын
Intuition never lies
@rachelkrichevsky8983 жыл бұрын
Right... the question of all questions is if we are brave enough to listen to it...
@temposhop87393 жыл бұрын
I've had this on my watch list for months, and watched it today after learning my friend is going through the same, bending her own boundaries for her boyfriend (who isn't officially her bf) who just let her know he met someone else, but doesn't want to break up after years of dating. It's frustrating watching her run around after him, paying for plane tickets to follow him around while he works out of town because of her attachment. Sigh.
@rockmyworldmusic Жыл бұрын
Why in the world do women do this? Why do you ignore the "good guys" and put up with such bad treatment? With so many podcasts now, I am glad men are waking up. And I am glad films like this are helping women to make better choices. You are worth it and so are my sons.
@allenallen50403 жыл бұрын
She reminds me so much of Jennifer Aniston! Great acting!
@thetarotdetective33633 жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking
@christicrenshaw27723 жыл бұрын
Yes she does
@DJWenlowe3 жыл бұрын
She's a ringer for Jen ☺️
@aborgeshonorato3 жыл бұрын
Sara Jessica Parker ❤️+ Jennifer Aniston ❤️
@frankwhite91703 жыл бұрын
@@DJWenlowe maybe a dollar store Jennifer Aniston
@GodWinsInTheEnd Жыл бұрын
This is what happens when we're too afraid to be alone - we'll put up with anything. Makes me want to cry.
@mgm86753 жыл бұрын
ouch, I know this. wanting to stand up for yourself but you don't out of fear of letting go. I no longer feel that way. One good thing about getting older you learn to stand up for yourself!
@donnav74123 жыл бұрын
"I know who I am" but the need to be in a relationship, to connect, drives us to make compromises that go against who we are.
@JessicaBues3 жыл бұрын
Ugh love this short so much! She’s amazing!
@Chuck_vs._The_Comment_Section Жыл бұрын
As the saying goes, "Too much honesty is the death of any relationship." - Now let's be honest: That he communicates this so openly and hopes that afterwards everything would still be OK, and they could just carry on as before is, to put it mildly, clumsy and naive. This is the kind of thing that, if you don't know how to deal with it, you discuss with your friends to ask them for advice.
@y.harveynorman13923 жыл бұрын
He’s weird dump him.
@michellet2043 жыл бұрын
There’s something powerful about the actresse’s eye movements at 8:14. Never settle for less ladies. Focus on the man you want in your life and leave losers behind.
@arthursmith54093 жыл бұрын
Don't be afraid to end it and or hurt a feeling! On the spot.
@voidprism_studios6663 жыл бұрын
She envisioned what itd be like, and still went through with her decision. I can't tell if it's foolishness or if its a yearning of love and the benefit of doubt
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
She probably want to see which kind of respect will be showed to her if she doesn’t react to non respectful behaviour.
@flarion003 жыл бұрын
He was honest with her she should have been honest with him about how she felt.
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
BabyGravy She was lost in her thoughts while he was talking to her. She didnt reacted. They didn’t care at all about each others. They were completely disconnected and mismatched.
@flarion003 жыл бұрын
@@sarahr3813 which is why it's important to express how one truly feels
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
BabyGravy Not with everyone. Some people just don’t care about what others feel. They both look super bored. He is talking about someone else while he is with her. She is lost in her thoughts and doesn’t react as she was with her brother. She say nothing because it’s just not worth it. They will probably end up apart. Nothing in common, they didn’t have anything to give to each other. Nothing in common, no real dialogue, no knowledge, no amusement, no fun, no laugh, no interest, no attraction, not even a smile.
@cahidijoyoraharjo78333 жыл бұрын
Fear of failure can make you lose the chance to win. Never settle for less. Reach for the stars!
@flarion003 жыл бұрын
He was being honest with her so she needs to be honest with him so later there is no misunderstanding about that situation.
@electrical53 жыл бұрын
Well said. People in a relationship have to be honest or there is something fundamentally wrong.
@meltemo.4139 Жыл бұрын
I love this. Thank you for making this, especially for young people. dating nowadays is horrible and exactly like this
@arka55573 жыл бұрын
Knew it was too good to be true when she started calling out his bs and he just sat there listening. Guy like that in real life would have started crying about his trauma he had.
@erinstangor44183 жыл бұрын
I almost wonder if watching the couple physically fighting is what made her acquiesce to him. It reminds me of when I was venting to a friend about my (now ex) boyfriend about some pretty awful things, and she replied, "well, at least he's not physically abusive, right?" That's when I realized I needed to raise my bar, and ended things with him. But some people, both men and women, have their bar that low - "At least they're not physically abusing me." I think that's where the girl in this short was putting her bar. We all need to learn how to raise our bars.
@paulasimon68753 жыл бұрын
Well said 👏
@martinwebb16813 жыл бұрын
Yes, so, so true.
@laurence22993 жыл бұрын
I have been in that situation and it IS TERRIBLE when you know that yhe only speech that is RIGHT is the one your inner voice whispers to you but you quiet it down because of fear of lonelyness and unworthyness !!! I got over that now because I LOVE MYSELF MORE !!
@heatherreed1623 жыл бұрын
🤢🤮god the more he talked the more I wanted to get out of the car for her. So so gross. Dude sounds like he’s still in high school and just seeing what the wind brings him. Your aloud to make out and go home. Sometimes you don’t even need the make out you just need to go home.
@cosmobane69953 жыл бұрын
Anyone here thinks that Omeleto is more interesting than Netflix?
@f5mando3 жыл бұрын
Loved this simple but complex scene. Beautifully done all around. Congrats to all involved!
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@ferenza353 жыл бұрын
Dating Tip#1 : Don't mention other women youre dating, nobody likes to be an option even when they dont express it.
@debries15533 жыл бұрын
Dating tip #0: dont date multiple people simultaneously unless all parties agree.
@Joviaa3 жыл бұрын
Abuse is not always physical
@robertjackson38196 ай бұрын
How's that for a look into the human heart? Beautifully done, Ms. Simpson.
@h3llnite3 жыл бұрын
Had a similar situation recently. Guy tried to mess with my head. Told him he was twisted and a few other choice things. Then blocked him
@LisaFlowers-n7k2 ай бұрын
Such an important lesson! I've shown this video to some of my high school senior girls (I teach social skills) to hopefully encourage them not to put up with bad behavior, a lesson I wish I'd learned way earlier than I did.
@chrisneely81303 жыл бұрын
You know something crazy is going to happen when he finds a McDonald's with a WORKING mcflurry machine.
@shannyapreeya48783 жыл бұрын
I'm so mad that she didn't say what she wanted to
@Enigmaticsavage3 жыл бұрын
This magnificent piece of art had me in tears. great film.
@JhaeJ3 жыл бұрын
Same here...
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@franktoni233 жыл бұрын
She should have listened to her inner voice but that faint insecurity that pops up and disappears is what has caused so much pain in this world. She is going to learn her lesson sooner or later. Very well made movie and excellent acting.
@martinwebb16813 жыл бұрын
Yeah that lesson is just going to keep cropping up time and again if she doesn't learn it now.
@brunellaayleen57253 жыл бұрын
The cigarette in the ice cream though!!! Best part of this short
@sidikitraore77463 жыл бұрын
the car that honked at them in the drive thru never drove up
@ChickensAndGardening3 жыл бұрын
He was sending out all the warning signals. Hopefully she heeds them eventually.
@kgs22803 жыл бұрын
Wow. Excellent. Painful, but excellent.
@mizscoleman3 жыл бұрын
Why is it painful? Disappointing? Sure. But not painful.
@kgs22803 жыл бұрын
@@mizscoleman, to me, it’s painful because I’ve done things like that, not listening to my “gut feeling”, when I could have been happier by paying attention to it. And because in our society girls and women are taught to just go along with the guy because that’s better than losing a man. I finally did learn to stand up for myself, and now I would be happier to not have a man than to be with one who doesn’t respect me.
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
Everything seems forced and they aren’t even attracted to each other. She doesn’t hear a single thing he says. He is a selfish time waster. Better to be single, living in the street, even starving than being with that kind of person that makes you feel unworthy, cold, lonely and starving even if you’re not.
@aborgeshonorato3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@whoareyoutoaccuseme3 жыл бұрын
No, it's really not. You been homeless? Homeless as a woman? Or a disabled woman even?
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
Worse
@ajl22323 жыл бұрын
@@whoareyoutoaccuseme I agree.
@sarahr38133 жыл бұрын
NICHOLAS CHO What’s the difference between being a toy and... being a toy? Being a house slave and ... being a field slave? Being a prisoner of poverty and.... being a prisoner of a condescending patriarchy? Do you know how homeless people’s lost their home? How their situations became inextricably harder? How and why they became “targets”? Do you think it was just a matter of hazard? I am convinced not.... Of course their situation is horrible, of course they are struggling a lot but at the end of the day, they have more courage, self love, self respect, self worth and dignity than this poor puppet woman. I see nothing good between this woman and this man. If it begins like that, where do you think it will end up? Seriously🙄
@PaulGaleComedy3 жыл бұрын
Oof. Andi should know - if he’s not taking you to Wendy’s, he’s not the one. But seriously, this was good and HURT!
@LaurenFSimpson3 жыл бұрын
Arby’s, but point taken. We’ll consider Wendy’s for a sequel. Thanks for watching.
@nikkisjeans Жыл бұрын
OMG this was very cathartic for me. Idk how many times I have been that girl. You know in your gut he's lying to you but you convince yourself to just stay quiet. Wow great film!
@jerrymorganjr3 жыл бұрын
This actress is fantastic! She’s gorgeous!
@Fpn20059 ай бұрын
This is awesome. Great edit too. 😊
@donnahaley58543 жыл бұрын
Hey, Omeleto great for showing this. How many times we know what should be said to truly be who we are, and we suppress it. Hard truth to see so well filmed and portrayed.
@randomethingscatstoo31183 жыл бұрын
Nope get rid of him
@cahidijoyoraharjo78333 жыл бұрын
I think she's afraid of being alone again.
@silvermystic20013 жыл бұрын
It's really hard to stand up for yourself at times. And be heard. I'm soft spoken when I justify. :(
@kathejohnson4241 Жыл бұрын
Wow. Great writing and acting. Thank you.
@hugokenzo3 жыл бұрын
Haley Rawson is a STAR!
@Mhamad789783 жыл бұрын
I actually didnt get why she wouldnt just leave or get rid of him, i hope she will do it after he arrives her home.
@cheebacheeobusiness38936 ай бұрын
Good production! ❤
@bluest1524 Жыл бұрын
Ladies, please know, there are interesting men who have good hearts. This guy has an LA kind of vibe.
@DoreenBellDotan3 жыл бұрын
It's clear she doesn't even love him. She's just settling for being disrespected by her clear social inferior with not even the excuse of being in love.That's the tragedy.
@Gregseo3 жыл бұрын
Keep up the good work Omeleto
@FZappaFan13 жыл бұрын
If there's any guy that can relate to this, better think about growing up. My wife was insecure when we met so she suffered some of the way this girl did. She's too hot for me. Glad I changed or she would have grown out of me and I'd have lost her.
@adropbear093 жыл бұрын
And I can't even get a date. But most girls go for these kind of guys and then carry on about how hard done by they are.
@papasmurf68363 жыл бұрын
😪
@infiniteeternal7913 жыл бұрын
There's lots of women and men in this world, many different kinds. Some are married, some are justing dating around hopping from one man or woman to the next, some are stuck in the idea of being a single pringle for life for various reasons, some just died yesterday and are dying today amd some will die tomarrow and on and on. But the point is there's many different people in this world doing many different things. So maybe you're just a unique repectful loving guy who has honest caring intentions, not many women want that these days. Some women don't know what to do with it. Who knows man, maybe you'll get a date tomarrow or next week, but in order to do that you have to believe it's possible, so have some faith if you will...it works.
@adropbear093 жыл бұрын
@@infiniteeternal791 so true.
@christopherlabedzski75753 жыл бұрын
I don't do the lovey nice routine, my Way it's just talk to women and sharing same interests not looking for romance or relationships, then see where that leads, otherwords if you after a women they run away, if your not wanting one they come to you,
@infiniteeternal7913 жыл бұрын
That's obviously not true for every woman.
@melissarmt73304 ай бұрын
How many of us has done this? How many times? Great way to make a statement, well done!
@SyncStatic3 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@tucknroll873 жыл бұрын
Man, what an awesome short
@ALLROY2403 жыл бұрын
The fear of loneliness can be overcoming and an unbearable thought for some, that is why he has two girls on the go at the same time.